1. To measure your uncertainty 2. It keeps the door open 3. It plants seeds of doubt to create a dynamic 4. It gauges your ability to be manipulated 5. Trying to induce your abandonment wounds
Wow….I’m an idiot 8 years vested into this Ahole. I just cut him off 5 days ago..just short of the Anniversary of the day we met. I made it clear (this time) that I AM DONE. I have sadly wasted so many years waiting around for this jerk. He will get no more of my time or my heart! I love your channel. I have felt so much better about my life and my decisions. I’m beginning to remember the woman I once was…strong, happy, independent & content👍🏻😊 God Bless…thank you so much! ❤
What ever happened to being focused on your goals? Don’t let him deceive y’all. This could easily be a strategy and means to leverage your insecurities for your attention. Going ghost and focused can seem similar but it’s all based off the perspective.
SMH, I don't get this behavior at all. It's so crazy to behave in a way as if you want to stay single. What's the purpose of trying to talk to someone if you just ignore them. # No sense 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@@mortischahicks5341 That's a long time if he just stopped texting for no apparent reason.. Did you ever ask him what was going on? Sometimes but in rare cases it can be due to an emergency etc.
What about men who just disappear with no explanation and block you, but then come back Or are your boyfriend, met the families, the friends, a very serious relationship embedded in your life, and instead of breaking up with you they just block you. This is a plague these days. Can you do a video on this?
Maybe just be blessed to have seen this revelation. People who do that are not relationships material, they just want power, and that’s why they play on & off. What relationship can you have - whether a friend or romance - with people who are consistently in & out. None. Except the painful drama of hoping they will see you. I came to the conclusion: they can’t do any better. Close the door behind them 🚪 and God Bless you with people with good intentions, first and foremost. Sometimes, we are blessed to see the truth. Be blessed. 💛
My boyfriend decided to ghost me after an argument. I wasn't even mad and let him be. I didn't text or call him. I stayed silent for days and made him contact me. Im already mentally leaving the relationship. He tried to make excuses and i didnt argue with him. Just said ok and stayed quiet.
Yes n they really acted like its nothing n think 🤔 I'm just gonna keep this toxic situation with him I'm done been done ✅ out thanks again for u being u
Ghosting has caused me to have deeper emotional wounds. And the person knew I had abandonment issues. I feel like it was my fault because maybe it was a bit too pushy and eager. But I was stood up after being told we would meet up multiple times....smh
I’ve just got ghosted and we haven’t even meet in person but he sent me pictures of himself his mother his sister his kids what’s the purpose of all this
"If he ghosts you, leave him in the afterlife." R. I. P. 😆
1. To measure your uncertainty
2. It keeps the door open
3. It plants seeds of doubt to create a dynamic
4. It gauges your ability to be manipulated
5. Trying to induce your abandonment wounds
Ghosted me last year and then popped back up this year like nothing happened. I already closed that chapter. So I ghosted him.
Some actions are the closure. The End. Be smart.
Never looked at it like that!!! Thanks 🙏🏽
Ladies let that ghost go and stay GONE.
Some of these men are sick. To intentionally trigger you to obtain control. Sick.
At this age l just do not deal with this ghosting Delusion! You are one and done here! I’m perfectly at peace by myself! Go play somewhere else!!
#1 reason- he's a coward
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I got ghosted last year, and he wanted to come back, I was like no way. ❤❤
HE CAN STAY GHOST!
I don't need answers.
I don't need him. 🚪
Yeah, happened just now. Love bombed me, then pulled away to a point of disappearing, now trying to come back like everything is fine 🤔
Change your # & move.
Yeah he used to say oh I had a lot going on well go handle that BLOCK
Wow….I’m an idiot 8 years vested into this Ahole.
I just cut him off 5 days ago..just short of the Anniversary of the day we met.
I made it clear (this time) that
I AM DONE.
I have sadly wasted so many years waiting around for this jerk. He will get no more of my time or my heart!
I love your channel.
I have felt so much better about my life and my decisions. I’m beginning to remember the woman I once was…strong, happy, independent & content👍🏻😊
God Bless…thank you so much! ❤
Maybe one day I will find true love
I move on from the ghosts. Thank you next.
What ever happened to being focused on your goals? Don’t let him deceive y’all. This could easily be a strategy and means to leverage your insecurities for your attention. Going ghost and focused can seem similar but it’s all based off the perspective.
Ghosted to punish me and trying to prove me a point 😅 which it didn't affect me i move foward to better things
Men who ghost to punish are sick and disgusting people. 🤮
SMH, I don't get this behavior at all. It's so crazy to behave in a way as if you want to stay single. What's the purpose of trying to talk to someone if you just ignore them. # No sense 🤦♀️🤦♀️
💯💯💯💯💯 YES! “Sabotaging the trajectory”.
Thank you, little brother. You are a breath of fresh air. 😊❤
DEFINITELY 💯
If ya ghost me you're out!
Not interested in any relationship. Rather stay single
This is the way.
Ghosted let him back now ghosted again smh blocked
The last he used on me as we speak. Im in a traumatized physical and mental state. Pray. He our Creator never spares his actions
I… should have told him R.I.P. a decade ago- he is still ghosting me 😮waking up!
Abandonment wounds !
This is all so damn true !
Thanks for posting 👏👏👏
I needed this...🎉🎉🎉. Thank you!
No more internship🎉
I just blocked my bf because he ignored/ ghosted for days at a time! That's hurts 😢
How many days in a row would he disappear?
From Thursday til Monday morning!
For two weekends in a roll..
@@mortischahicks5341 That's a long time if he just stopped texting for no apparent reason..
Did you ever ask him what was going on? Sometimes but in rare cases it can be due to an emergency etc.
Your imaginary boyfriend
You mean your fuk buddy
😢😢😢😢😢
So sad..I am in so much suffering
Thank you Derrick. I am so grateful that I found you here ❤️
Thank you Big Brother ❤️
What about men who just disappear with no explanation and block you, but then come back Or are your boyfriend, met the families, the friends, a very serious relationship embedded in your life, and instead of breaking up with you they just block you. This is a plague these days. Can you do a video on this?
Maybe just be blessed to have seen this revelation. People who do that are not relationships material, they just want power, and that’s why they play on & off. What relationship can you have - whether a friend or romance - with people who are consistently in & out. None. Except the painful drama of hoping they will see you. I came to the conclusion: they can’t do any better. Close the door behind them 🚪 and God Bless you with people with good intentions, first and foremost. Sometimes, we are blessed to see the truth. Be blessed. 💛
He LITERALLY just talked about this in the video. Where were you? 😐
As tony gaskin says, they ghost and block to cheat in peace…take a hall pass while keeping you on the back burner or hoping to
So true. Just getting out of this situation. Thanks
Oh how sweet, kids brings life into a home.🎉
Ain't no coming back this way, keep that team small right where it's at! I utilize my options now
Blessed are the pure of heart for they shall see God. These are all very childish games.
Thank you for your insight
❤❤❤❤❤❤ please keep guiding people. Thank you
These ninjas play greatly
They do this cause the grass ain't so green
Its happening to me too
Close the door, sister... Ghost him, forever! (You won't regret it!)
Thank you 😊
I....I'm healing now! Only need God, Jesus, and Holy Spirit 🙏 ❤
Yes! My ex of 3 years together ghosted me many, MANY times.
This was good 💛💯
"I" And I left and ripped off the rear view mirror✌️
My boyfriend decided to ghost me after an argument. I wasn't even mad and let him be. I didn't text or call him. I stayed silent for days and made him contact me. Im already mentally leaving the relationship. He tried to make excuses and i didnt argue with him. Just said ok and stayed quiet.
Brilliant
Lots of men ghost
Ceme back today. With a rare apology, but still.....
Yes n they really acted like its nothing n think 🤔 I'm just gonna keep this toxic situation with him I'm done been done ✅ out thanks again for u being u
Yep that what he did to me all the time
YOU RIGHT HE CRACK THE WHIP FR😭😭😢😭
Thank you
Ghosting has caused me to have deeper emotional wounds. And the person knew I had abandonment issues. I feel like it was my fault because maybe it was a bit too pushy and eager. But I was stood up after being told we would meet up multiple times....smh
Some of these men are introverts and poor communicators. Just as frustrating.
You talking about casper the ghost and i mean not friendly wow.........😅
1000% accurate !!!
Yes it has happened to me
SLAY WE LOVE U
I'm feeling lost... "not where I want 2 b n life.."
Yes... crazy....
Hey little baby there 😄♥️
He ghosted me and came back two days later with the emoji "you 👻 ."
Yesss!
yeah women expose their weaknesses.
Yup this what they do
I've been taking back his inches (cause I'm not giving him a mile) and he's getting angry. Tells me who he is and how he feels.
what if they said sorry but don’t give reason?
I I I! Right!!
I and he will forever be in the afterlife
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yes
Yep
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Im try to do that
yep
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I done it 😢
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I got away when he ghosted me
I’ve just got ghosted and we haven’t even meet in person but he sent me pictures of himself his mother his sister his kids what’s the purpose of all this
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Oh yes
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I.
It ain't triller 👍
🙂
I should not marriage. Him
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Sob story......
I / eye
No , because men has always moved in with me.🎉
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Go ghost on me when u come bck I'll be in another relationship I don't play
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Eye
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