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1. Surround yourself with people who motivate you 2. Write all your goals down in a notebook 3. Plan out your goal with concrete steps 4. Visualise: imagine and feel 5. Distinguish between lack of desire and lack of energy 6. Applaud and acknowledge the small steps 7. share your progress with others 8. Actions provoke actions 9. be flexible and easy on yourself 10. Celebrate your victories
I highly agree with you when speaking about your achievements rather than speaking about your desires/dreams with people. Because there are evil eyes or perhaps people who could jinx your dreams.
Better for actions to speak for themselves but sharing with someone you trust can make you feel like you are accountable to them so makes you do something about your idea ☺️
Hello Jamila, I was so happy to receive a notification that you posted this video. I definitely needed to hear this. I have been struggling a lot lately due to this pandemic and I have lost my motivation. I ended up crying almost every night because I just don't know how will I ever disembark this situation. I learned a lot from this video and hopefully I will be able to become strong for myself. Trust the process!
I totally believe in the power of writing your goals and dreams down and I’ve seen first hand what this can do. It’s totally amazing. This is how we got our new apartment (and G-d’s help of course)
Congratulation👏 this Is a huge accomplishment. I think we sometimes understimate the power of writing down our dreams and goals, and not only writing something like "i want a new job/i want to lose weigth" but make a plan step by step which help us evaluate if we are getting closer or what needs to be improved.
Books. Movies. Podcasts after podcast. I thought i heard enough and yet, watching yours seems to be a summary of them all. Simplified. Practical and nothing fancy. Thank u for your work. May your kindness be returned and may you grow wiser even more. Salamat, Jamila. ❤️ 💜 ♥️
I think in this world obsessed with productivity and always 'more' mentality, doing nothing can sometimes be one of the best things we can do and give to ourselves 💜
Many people don’t celebrate the small achievements in life and they should! We need more positivity these days. Another great video Jamila, very inspiring 👌🏼
I am so glad I found your channel! You are so sweet, gentle, and beautiful. I always feel so much lighter and peaceful after I watch your videos. I can always expect excellent content from your videos
Am I the only one who didn't even blink while watching this video because I didn't want to lose any millisecond? Haha🤭 I really enjoy spending time with you Jamila. Keep up with the beautiful content. You inspire me. ❤️
Good advice and given in your soft voice. I also pamper myself now and then, like a child, feeling I have been "good". Don´t laugh, I love eating ice cream also, but once every month I drink a bottle of Coca Cola and really enjoy its taste.
Some of the tips I already follow and do, while some I'll be working on. The tips that were new to my ears are very reasonable and I agree on. I learned a lot from this video. Thank you so much! ❤
Excellent timing in this difficult period. I miss my lovely weekly Pilates classes . In the huge lounge of a lady friend of ours, we, five ladies, had a Pilates coach coming every week. It was so convenient and convivial, and our coach, she was so friendlyand efficient. Since covid lockdown, we've been trying to go on, each one in our own houses, and I tried to stick to the routine, roll out the gym mat, put on the gym outfit, do the exercises ( I know by heart). But it's hard to keep motivated, and out of laziness I've almost given up, though I felt my fitness slipping away, my joints less supple, my condition deteriorating. So you've really boosted me, I'm going to resume the sessions, write them down,and call the other ladies to motivate each others ! Thank you so very much.
Thank you for this video when I need it - just when I was dragging myself back to work after lunch. What wonderful tips! Scheduling, visualization, writing down goals and dreams, and tracking my progress work. As a reward for getting the proofreading job that I will start next month, I watched a special New Year’s Eve Concert online and treated myself to a special dinner! Now my goals are to speak at least one more language fluently and learn a few more, play Chopin pieces on the piano, and sing opera arias, so I practice every day to reach my goals. Merci! ♥️🍵💐😘
I appreciate your knowledge on this topic. How you present is gracious and understanding. I feel no judgement or impossibility from what you suggest. You are relatable and I feel more confident after listening to you, thank you🙏
This is my most favorite video by far :) grateful for this content. Very motivational. Right on time cause I’ve been lazy for a week now. Thanks Jamila. Loved to see more of your videos. :)
What a perfect timing, I was going through something in my life and I admire everything about you, I was feeling bit stuck and didn't know what to do and how to do, felt so connected when I saw the title of the video. Thank you for your effort and work that you put to create your content. It's priceless. You're beautiful inside and out. Love to you!❤❤❤❤
Thanks for the video, it was much needed! I cleaned my whole house after watching it. And it didn’t even take me an hour ☺️ next video should be about how to have confidence!!
It's nice that you always point out the need to remember to give ourselves a break and to not feel like a day of rest is an identity of a lazy person. I struggle with this and it's an important thing to acknowledge and remember that everyone needs breaks. Thanks for all the insights
Thank you so much for sharing these invaluable tips! ✨ My goal is to live a more elegant life, and I truly believe your videos will be a great help in achieving that. One thing I really love about your channel is how you take a holistic approach to elegance-it's not just about the physical aspects but also about cultivating a refined mindset. Your broader perspective is so refreshing and inspiring! Also, you looked absolutely gorgeous in this video! 😍💖
The way your channel grows like crazy really shows that people are still interested in etiquette and good manners. I don’t know how I found your channel but I did not regret it one day! ♥️ I would recommend getting a nice pen like a Montblanc for writing down the lists you mentioned. It just makes it so much more fun to me 😋
Journaling on paper is better than a list on a phone for sure. Totally agree with you here. I would put mediation to your list here, something like Headspace and listening to ambient chilled sounds whilst working. Great video.
Hi Jamila, it was in perfect time, thank you so much. :D Some day is great, and some is not so much, but it's okay, and we have to take aware of this. I have a feeling I didn't visualized my goals enough in the past, but after your advice, I will be more consciuos with visualizing. Have a beautiful day! Thank you again!
Hi Jamila, I wanted to congratulate you on your success. I loved the confidence, the knowledge and the perfect choice of topics. You’re a great inspiration 😊
I really want to be like you. Ever since I've come across your channel, I can't stop thinking how better my life can be if I can follow everything you do. You're a true inspiration 🔥
Frankly speaking, distinguish between lack of desire and lack of energy is the most important part that i haven’t acknowledged until watching your video. Thank you for pointing out something that I’ve been looking for all this time. And as much as we gain many strength from your video, i hope you can gain from our comments as well when you need it someday. Love from Malaysia❤️
I resonated with tip 7 so much!! I have a certain dream in mind, and it's even a very realistic dream for me. Yet, I'm so nervous to share it with people in case I don't actually have the energy to do it, or fail :( I come from the same culture of not talking about your aspirations, and I am worried of how stupid I will feel and look if I talk about my dream, only to fail. But, I decided to share it with some people I trust and that was enough for me to start taking steps :) I also really appreciated your other tips. The way you describe the benefit of writing goals down convinced me to try it :)
I've been trying to do something that's a combination of tip no. 2 and 3, I have a small notebook, at the end of it there's my lifetime, yearly and monthly goals, and every night I write down what I should to tomorrow. it really keeps you alive and motivated during this hard time
Thank you for uploading this video! It came to me at the perfect time. This is my last year of high school (the school year starts in February in my country), and I'm studying to get into law school, while also writing my first novel. I will definitely try some of your tips. Greetings from Brazil! ❤❤
you seem like a older sister who is giving you the advice you need the most.....i don't know why am i smiling by myself while watching your video, but i want to become optimistic like you:)) keep making more videos
thanks for uploading this video exactly one month before my German test. I really need to keep myself motivated and studying everyday for getting that C1.
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1. Surround yourself with people who motivate you
2. Write all your goals down in a notebook
3. Plan out your goal with concrete steps
4. Visualise: imagine and feel
5. Distinguish between lack of desire and lack of energy
6. Applaud and acknowledge the small steps
7. share your progress with others
8. Actions provoke actions
9. be flexible and easy on yourself
10. Celebrate your victories
7. Share your progress with others
@@breezinessmind thanks
Thank you for the summary ☺️
so stay away from my biological father and my ex which do nothing but degrade.
being my daughters mother
YOU JUST POSTED THIS AT THE PERFECT MOMENT!!! currently 3 am and i am working on my final papers and essays
good luck! Keep working hard :))
Good luck!
good luck!
U GOT THIS! 👉💪
Good luck with that !
can we just appreciate her for all her effort? 🥰
Thank you 😊
Well of course!!!!
@ITACA why?😆
I do.
@ITACA yes
Her energy is so delicate it’s the best 😊❤️
Thank you!
You really are. Can you share your lipstick colour and brand please?
She is the role model young girls in particular need, very classy and intelligent!
I found her like 3 days ago. She's the exact depiction of the woman I want to be one day. Elegant, well read, calm and kind.
I highly agree with you when speaking about your achievements rather than speaking about your desires/dreams with people. Because there are evil eyes or perhaps people who could jinx your dreams.
That's very true. But also if you have someone you can be accountable to it's much easier to achieve those goals 💜
Better for actions to speak for themselves but sharing with someone you trust can make you feel like you are accountable to them so makes you do something about your idea ☺️
The timing couldn't have been more perfect!
Especially with the new school year for me, I'm already tired lol
🙏🏻☺️
You can do it. ☺️
Hello Jamila, I was so happy to receive a notification that you posted this video. I definitely needed to hear this. I have been struggling a lot lately due to this pandemic and I have lost my motivation. I ended up crying almost every night because I just don't know how will I ever disembark this situation. I learned a lot from this video and hopefully I will be able to become strong for myself. Trust the process!
U got this, I'm rooting for u! Stay strong, i'm sure you'll figure things out and be happy again ✨🍀
I am so happy to hear that 🙏🏻☺️
I totally believe in the power of writing your goals and dreams down and I’ve seen first hand what this can do. It’s totally amazing. This is how we got our new apartment (and G-d’s help of course)
Absolutely! ☺️ Congratulations on your new home ☺️
Congratulation👏 this Is a huge accomplishment. I think we sometimes understimate the power of writing down our dreams and goals, and not only writing something like "i want a new job/i want to lose weigth" but make a plan step by step which help us evaluate if we are getting closer or what needs to be improved.
Books. Movies. Podcasts after podcast. I thought i heard enough and yet, watching yours seems to be a summary of them all. Simplified. Practical and nothing fancy. Thank u for your work. May your kindness be returned and may you grow wiser even more.
Salamat, Jamila.
❤️ 💜 ♥️
Thank you 🙏🏻 ☺️
'I'm not lazy, just motivated to do nothing.'
I think in this world obsessed with productivity and always 'more' mentality, doing nothing can sometimes be one of the best things we can do and give to ourselves 💜
Girl..... You just saved me.... Thank you so much.... Stay Blessed
Many people don’t celebrate the small achievements in life and they should! We need more positivity these days. Another great video Jamila, very inspiring 👌🏼
Thank you! And that really matters a lot 🙏🏻
I am so glad I found your channel! You are so sweet, gentle, and beautiful. I always feel so much lighter and peaceful after I watch your videos. I can always expect excellent content from your videos
Thank you Jamila for feeding us with great content, they sound realistic and motivates us to follow.
Thank you
hi! i just want you to know, you are really my favorite youtuber! Thank you for the videos that you made 😊❤️
You voice is so soothing and the tips were realistic and inspiring . You look beautiful as always. Worth listening tips❤
I’m keep smiling through out the whole video! You have amazing energy! So adorable. Enjoy all your videos!
Thank you 💫🧡
Am I the only one who didn't even blink while watching this video because I didn't want to lose any millisecond? Haha🤭 I really enjoy spending time with you Jamila. Keep up with the beautiful content. You inspire me. ❤️
Aw thank you!❤️
Good advice and given in your soft voice. I also pamper myself now and then, like a child, feeling I have been "good". Don´t laugh, I love eating ice cream also, but once every month I drink a bottle of Coca Cola and really enjoy its taste.
I love ice-cream too and a bottle of Cola once in a while especially after a burger ☺️
Hi jamila. You look so beautiful! And you posted this video at the right moment. Thank you ✨
Thank you ☺️
You speak really well Jamila. I've watched every second of this video and really took in what you said. Thank you 😊
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you so much, it will help me to finish my thesis.
Good luck to you!
Some of the tips I already follow and do, while some I'll be working on. The tips that were new to my ears are very reasonable and I agree on. I learned a lot from this video. Thank you so much! ❤
You are very welcome ☺️
Thank you so much, I'm starting my own business, I'm a nail artist. This is the boost that I needed to get❤️
Good luck to you!
You are so positive and motivating. I could listen to you for hours! You offer great tips and skills for achieving goals. Thank you
Thank you for your kind words 💫
Thank you for posting this. I really need motivation. I'm finishing all the papers for my requirements in all subjects.
Good luck to you! 💫
Thank you!
13:40 this is so well said ! I am going to use it so much this year :) "The ocean does not define itself by one single wave"
☺️
Thanks for sharing with us these brilliant and necessary instructions about etiquette and good attitudes.💐
You are welcome ☺️
Recently found your channel and I can't help but watch your videos. I super like how you deliver it with that powerful and classy vibe of yours💗💗
Thank you ☺️
Excellent timing in this difficult period. I miss my lovely weekly Pilates classes . In the huge lounge of a lady friend of ours, we, five ladies, had a Pilates coach coming every week. It was so convenient and convivial, and our coach, she was so friendlyand efficient. Since covid lockdown, we've been trying to go on, each one in our own houses, and I tried to stick to the routine, roll out the gym mat, put on the gym outfit, do the exercises ( I know by heart). But it's hard to keep motivated, and out of laziness I've almost given up, though I felt my fitness slipping away, my joints less supple, my condition deteriorating. So you've really boosted me, I'm going to resume the sessions, write them down,and call the other ladies to motivate each others ! Thank you so very much.
Hi jam 👋 I hope you are doing well 😚 please make new video about fitness or some body streching excercise
How I love you Jamila Musayeve... I was really in need to a such video.
Thank you for this video when I need it - just when I was dragging myself back to work after lunch. What wonderful tips! Scheduling, visualization, writing down goals and dreams, and tracking my progress work. As a reward for getting the proofreading job that I will start next month, I watched a special New Year’s Eve Concert online and treated myself to a special dinner! Now my goals are to speak at least one more language fluently and learn a few more, play Chopin pieces on the piano, and sing opera arias, so I practice every day to reach my goals. Merci! ♥️🍵💐😘
Thank you for your lovely feedback ☺️
I am very happy to find your channel. I am really proud of you as a compatriot❤❤❤
Thank you Jamila. I love your channel’s awesome content.
Thank you so much, Jamila! ❤
You are welcome ☺️
I appreciate your knowledge on this topic. How you present is gracious and understanding. I feel no judgement or impossibility from what you suggest. You are relatable and I feel more confident after listening to you, thank you🙏
This is a confirmation for all the effort Ive been doing. I learned something again on how to achieve goals better. Thank you!
Glad to heart that 🙏🏻☺️
You look so stunning here! Your skin, makeup, hair and outfit are on point 😍
Thank you 🙏🏻☺️
You do! Please share lipstick used in this video ♥️
This is my most favorite video by far :) grateful for this content. Very motivational. Right on time cause I’ve been lazy for a week now. Thanks Jamila. Loved to see more of your videos. :)
Thank you 😊 🙏🏻
Love this, thank you for sharing. Sending a big hug!
Thanks ☺️🙏🏻
Thanks Jamila, I always get motivated by watching your videos. They're all inspiring and remind me of my capabilities ❤
Happy to hear that ☺️
Thank you so much for teaching us.I am always glad to learn about etiquette from you as a student.
Thank you 🙏🏻
I enjoy listening to you. You really inspire me in many different ways!! Than you!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Love it! Feeling super motivated and inspired after listening to you! 💓
So happy to hear that ☺️
What a perfect timing, I was going through something in my life and I admire everything about you, I was feeling bit stuck and didn't know what to do and how to do, felt so connected when I saw the title of the video.
Thank you for your effort and work that you put to create your content.
It's priceless.
You're beautiful inside and out.
Love to you!❤❤❤❤
I am so happy to hear that! 🙏🏻☺️
yayy finally new video is up!!!
much needed!! thank you
You are welcome ☺️
Thanks for the video, it was much needed! I cleaned my whole house after watching it. And it didn’t even take me an hour ☺️ next video should be about how to have confidence!!
Happy to hear that ☺️
Thank you Jamila. Love your content!
Thank you 🙏🏻
It's nice that you always point out the need to remember to give ourselves a break and to not feel like a day of rest is an identity of a lazy person. I struggle with this and it's an important thing to acknowledge and remember that everyone needs breaks. Thanks for all the insights
You are welcome ☺️
Thank you so much for sharing these invaluable tips! ✨ My goal is to live a more elegant life, and I truly believe your videos will be a great help in achieving that. One thing I really love about your channel is how you take a holistic approach to elegance-it's not just about the physical aspects but also about cultivating a refined mindset. Your broader perspective is so refreshing and inspiring! Also, you looked absolutely gorgeous in this video! 😍💖
Thank you so much I’m about to start school again and this will help me!💛
I always learn SO MUCH from her, thank you ❤
I am so glad to hear that 🙏🏻
The way your channel grows like crazy really shows that people are still interested in etiquette and good manners.
I don’t know how I found your channel but I did not regret it one day! ♥️
I would recommend getting a nice pen like a Montblanc for writing down the lists you mentioned. It just makes it so much more fun to me 😋
Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏻 I am truly amazed myself every single day and very grateful to each and every one of you for spreading the word!
You are just lovely and I feel so much better now!
Happy to hear that ❤️
This is what i needed the most, thank you so much! ♡
You are welcome ☺️
You are so good in making people love themselves and I thank youtube for making me find you.
Thank you for your kind words ☺️
Oh my gosh. Just what I needed. Sending much love!💗
Thanks! To you too ❤️
Journaling on paper is better than a list on a phone for sure. Totally agree with you here. I would put mediation to your list here, something like Headspace and listening to ambient chilled sounds whilst working. Great video.
Thank you 😊
Wow maam...the tips are working...thank u so much..waiting for the next vedio
So happy to hear that!
Thanks for the video. It was one of my requests for you 2 weeks ago 🌹
You are very welcome ☺️ I keep note on suggestions from subscribers ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva much love from Morocco ✨🌸✨
Wow really great tips not the same ones people always give on YT :)
Thank you so much
You are very welcome 💫
These rules are amazing! You explained them in a really nice way, thank you for this video💚✌️
You are welcome 💫☺️
Thanks
Welcome 💙
Thank you, for sharing! 💕
🙏🏻❤️
Your video made my day. Thank you 🙏🏼
You are welcome ☺️
Please make a video on telephone etiquette for:
1)formal call
2)informal call
3)group call.
Incredible life hacks for 2021! Thanks once again for the amazing content!
Thank you! ☺️
I just check youtube and when I see that you uploaded a new video I quickly press without even reading the title
Aw thank you!
You are such an inspiration for me. Your tips are incredibly useful.
Greetings from Bulgaria!
Thank you very much ☺️
Hi Jamila,
it was in perfect time, thank you so much. :D Some day is great, and some is not so much, but it's okay, and we have to take aware of this.
I have a feeling I didn't visualized my goals enough in the past, but after your advice, I will be more consciuos with visualizing.
Have a beautiful day! Thank you again!
Thank you for noting that! I am glad to hear it ☺️🙏🏻
Hi Jamila, I wanted to congratulate you on your success. I loved the confidence, the knowledge and the perfect choice of topics. You’re a great inspiration 😊
Thank you so much! I’m so glad you found it helpful. ☺️
You are my new role model! Your contents are absolutely amazing and useful and inspiring, thank you very much for sharing!
OMGG THANK YOU!! I needed this 😭❤️🌻
You are welcome ☺️
Ahhhh perfect timing. I really need some motivation these days ❤️
🙏🏻
I needed this . Thank you so much 🤍🤍🤍
You are welcome ☺️
I really want to be like you. Ever since I've come across your channel, I can't stop thinking how better my life can be if I can follow everything you do. You're a true inspiration 🔥
So timely. Very insightful and inspiring. Looking forward to more videos!♥️
Thank you! 💫
This was so motivational!!
Not like the other videos that make me feel crappy and pressurizingme , I'm right away following these points ma'am!!
Frankly speaking, distinguish between lack of desire and lack of energy is the most important part that i haven’t acknowledged until watching your video. Thank you for pointing out something that I’ve been looking for all this time. And as much as we gain many strength from your video, i hope you can gain from our comments as well when you need it someday. Love from Malaysia❤️
Thank you 😊 Love back to Malaysia 💜
hey Jamila, that was awesome video and great recommendation. 🙏🙏😊 Good night.
Thanks!
Thank you so much for explaining all this with all ur effort. Truly made us motivated to achieve our goals. You are the best❤️
Thank you for your kind words ☺️
Thank you for this it really helps
Happy to hear that ☺️
I resonated with tip 7 so much!! I have a certain dream in mind, and it's even a very realistic dream for me. Yet, I'm so nervous to share it with people in case I don't actually have the energy to do it, or fail :( I come from the same culture of not talking about your aspirations, and I am worried of how stupid I will feel and look if I talk about my dream, only to fail. But, I decided to share it with some people I trust and that was enough for me to start taking steps :) I also really appreciated your other tips. The way you describe the benefit of writing goals down convinced me to try it :)
You are very welcome ☺️🙏🏻
Lots of love to you Jamila from a British Pakistani.
Thank you!
Listening to Mrs. Musayeva sometimes feels like listening to a beautiful poetry audiobook , just listen at 1:58
Aw thank you! 🙏🏻
I needed this so much with the lockdown and home situation. Jamila thank you so so much again ❤️💯🙏🏼
You are very welcome ☺️
I've been trying to do something that's a combination of tip no. 2 and 3, I have a small notebook, at the end of it there's my lifetime, yearly and monthly goals, and every night I write down what I should to tomorrow. it really keeps you alive and motivated during this hard time
просто хочу Вам сказать спасибо за такие чудесные видео! очень хочу продолжения!
И вам большое спасибо за добрые слова!
Thank you so much for this video, really need this. Love from India 🇮🇳❤️
Another way to stay motivated is watching Jamila's videos.😊
This video just hitted all of us to be passionate yet in a very generous,loving and kind way ..thankyou for this extraordinary stuff .🌸
You are welcome ☺️
We all need this let's get motivated 💯💓
Thank you for uploading this video! It came to me at the perfect time. This is my last year of high school (the school year starts in February in my country), and I'm studying to get into law school, while also writing my first novel. I will definitely try some of your tips. Greetings from Brazil! ❤❤
Glad to hear that you will put them into use ☺️
I resonate with this so much! I've been stalling getting my license for many months now..registered for learning first thing this year!
Thanks for sharing Jamila
You are welcome ☺️
you seem like a older sister who is giving you the advice you need the most.....i don't know why am i smiling by myself while watching your video, but i want to become optimistic like you:)) keep making more videos
Thank you! 🙏🏻
thanks for uploading this video exactly one month before my German test. I really need to keep myself motivated and studying everyday for getting that C1.
Thank you for your kind words ☺️