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Unrelated to this video but, I watch your videos with my two year old daughter and she calls you princess Aileen and “reads” my artist of life workbook like a fairytale after seeing the same book in your videos and your picture in the book. Sometimes she even goes around saying “I’m Aileen~” I think she has a good role model! 😉 thank you for allll you do, you’re amazing!
This manifestation guidebook *4ManifestAll. Com* has opened my eyes to so many things I was not aware of. You can consider it a road map which is valuable in making massive changes in your life. I fully understood the ideas completely right after listening to the audio and reading the book a couple of times.
i’m only 15 but money is still something l want to save, l have a job as a ski coach and like a tiny (TINY) bit of adrev from youtube, but with both of those and school it can get really stressful! anyway, thanks for the video!!
@lexamazing You will definitely thank yourself in the future. I was the same way in high school: working for minimum wage 19 hrs/wk plus a side video job and AP classes. I saved everything I could for the future. I was definitely stressed, but it really paid off! Now that I'm in my 20's close to graduating from business school, I have all my college paid for by scholarships and grants, saved thousands, and had wonderful job opportunities. The fact that you are consciously saving and making decisions about your finances will make you successful. My favorite quote about money is "live like no one else now, and you will live like no one else in the future" meaning if you save while you're young, you will see blessings in the future. You're doing great! :)
Another mindset that is not necessarily negative but it can be is that you have to work really hard to make money. It's good to value hard work and to know that things don't just fall off trees, but also keep your mind open enough to not "penalize yourself" because you think you're not "working hard enough for the money you're earning." In the "work smarter, not harder" era, it's important to give work the proper value, no more, nor less.
"Believe you can, and that's where it starts" that is a great quote and it applies to almost everything in life, not just money. This was a great video, very empowering and informative! I really enjoyed it ~ Thank you for sharing! Hope you're having a beautiful week!! ❤️
I've always felt like we as society need to be more open about talking about money so that the knowledge of how to become financially sound is more easily accessed.
I’ve never put that much power (specifically negative power) into my thoughts on money and as a result, I feel like I’ve always been financially stable and secure!
This video could not come in a more perfect time for me. I just had a talk with my parents and one of them is financially strapped. I told them to have faith that it's not too late to turn things around. Then your video shows up of which I truly believe it's a sign that things will change. Thank you for embodying the light and hope that your subscribers need. From my soul to yours
Yes the universe will always guide us🙏🏽 I have decide to be brave this year, I will finally start experimenting with TH-cam and hopefully make some money out of it👏🏽 Thank you for always inspiring us❤️✨
Hey Terese. Just a reminder. Especially if you're a Christian. If you don't claim something you desire in the name of Jesus and you claim it from the "universe" it is in fact demonic and of Satan. Power or "energy" is either from God or from Satan. There is no in between. So be mindful of the energies you attract to yourself. The devil is great at deceiving people. God bless
I love all of your videos, but this one I think is my fave because of the tone of my life at the moment. Until recently I could never understand how I can manifest money and things sometimes, then not manifest anything the next. It's like you said it is mindset, and if we have a fear mindset then the halts everything. I haven't had a job since 2010, and for years I paid attention to others who told me I needed a job in order to earn money. Because of the lack of job I assumed I'd never have money but I was wrong. And when I turned 30 last month I put it into my mind as "what's the worse that can happen if I just tweak a few things", and I've been manifesting so much in 2018...way more than I have ever all because I've changed my mindset. Thank you Aileen, you are a true light worker. Please do more financial sort of videos.
Guys. learning see some improvements in your life especially financially doesn't need to be hard (I used to think it did). I am going to give you some advice now. Look for a popular self-development system that created by famous life coach called *4ManifestAll. Com* Thanks to it I have know see some improvements in my life especially financially. I should not even be speaking about it cause I do not want a bunch of other guys out there running the same game but whatever. I am just in a excellent mood today and so I will share the wealth haha
I honestly don't know how you do it, but every time after having watched a video of yours, I feel so inspired! I feel so inspired to achieve things and do things, which are often irrelevant to the topics that you talk about! You have so much positive energy and you help me believe in myself! Thank you thank you thank you ♥️
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I really needed to hear this. I took a leap of faith and left my job a few months ago and left behind a salary I was very comfortable with. Now I do work that I love, but the money isn't there yet. I want to continue trusting God and believing that it will come. But now I realize the thoughts I've been putting into the universe about my current financial situation have been a huge barrier to that money coming. I bought You Are a Badass At Making Money so long ago and it's just sitting on my shelf. I'm going to read it now! Thank you!
The gratitude and trust over fear (hence excuses) really hit me. I need to appreciate what I do have and not he so internally negative anymore. It all starts with a mindset like Philippians 4:8. Thank you! 💕
You Are a Badass at Making Money is *still* my top money mindset book. I included more detailed thoughts on it in my recent book recommendation video! 6 Books That Changed My Life 📚 | bit.ly/2AHYRZB
This is ok as a motivation but it is too general for real instructions.. In my experience thing that helped me the most was *4ManifestAll. Com* It is full of detailed instructions which can help you manifest what you want... So I recommend to check it out maybe it will work for you also
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I'm 15 and I changed my mindset the last three months. I always wasted my money for unnecessary things. Now I save so much money! I already have a job as a tennis coach and as a student helper at my school, but I'm going to do more this summer. This video was really inspiring and will hopefully help me to save even more :D thank you!!
Hi! While watching your video I finally had he epiphany I’ve been waiting for on what my side hustle should be. I jumped out of the shower and just started designing it. Thank you so much for all of your inspiration and positivity. Hopefully I can spread the same positivity. 💗💗💗
I am a 40 something and I love your channel and wish you existed 20 years ago. So much good info and a perspective that I really could have used back then. Its never too late though. Thank you for sharing. You are an inspiration.
My mom got into an accident last month and i also got extremely sick. So I had to spend all of my emergency saving for both of us and it had really beaten me up. Your video really inspired to stand up and start my financial journey again. It’s just the right time!!! Thank you Aileen! you’re awesome!
I'm sorry to hear about that and hope you're both on the road to recovery. Feel like I must say well done for having the emergency savings in the first place, that shows you are totally capable of saving again. I bet your mum feels very grateful for your suuport. Good luck with everything and hope you are feeling better.
This is the theme in my life this upcoming year. Dissolving the limiting beliefs I have around financial abundance and independence. I know it's possible ~ now is the time for me to REALLY believe in myself!
I hear where u are coming from. I'm an immigrant too and grew up working class- yes there are issues in the world- I and you are not denying that. I certainly don't deny: classism, racism, hatred, coruption etc.. The ONLY thing you have control of is yourself, so you are saying do all you can, mindset then action to change your life. If we wait for government or society it may never happen. But what I"ve seen is that once you start taking action, being positive, sharing your hopes and dreams-- others will want to help you, support will come! And yes pick a successful person like yourself- to model after to read their life story! Stay Blessed all.
I truly understand your situation because when I graduated I saw no money and believed that I deserved no money, now I am changing my mindset And making some changes in my life ❤️✨
I'm 18 and for the first time in my life I started making money online! It's on my vision board and it's cool going to the ATM to pull out money that you've made online!
My brother recently just sent me the book, Law of attraction on audible... I have about 2 hours left of it but as I've been listening and learning & wanting to know more I got on TH-cam and YOU popped up ! I SAY ALL THIS TO SAY you are a PERFECT REPRESENTATION of Law of Attraction , you are such a light !
This year, I have wanted to started to make money, and honestly this video has helped me a lot, for today had to make my first transaction, am so glad, and today is my birthday tooo❤
You know watching you it’s like watching Michelle Phan which was one of my fav you tuber. Feel sad that she’s not doing you tube anymore. The way you talk very clear and smart full of ideas.
I'm new to your channel and I appreciate your mind set and positivity so much. I'm 54 years old and I have lived a wonderfully blessed life, with the past two years being very challenging, both emotionally and financially. Thank you for inspiring me.
This is so timely for me. I changed my mindset just before the new year. 2018 is already trying to be like all the other years, but I will NOT allow it. No way!
Thank you so much for this Aileen! I'm a college student and I've been worrying a bit about money lately because I'm still completely dependent on my parents, and while that's fine, I too want to contribute something financially. It's gonna take some time before I get my degree and get a good job or something but in the meantime I'm going to do some research and earn money! So thanks for the motivation I wish you all the best ❤️✨
Haven’t even finished the video yet and had an epiphany of what I should be doing with my spare time that will undoubtedly change my life! Thanks so much for your positivity and very helpful insights! Keep on sharing love and goodness as you do.
you're born to be a leader i think we read some of the same books such "think and grow ritch","how to win friends and influence people" and "zero to one"
This is honestly the video that I needed the most right now. I have all of these dreams and plans, but it's really nothing if I don't have it down. Honest to god or whatever, I am beyond glad that I've stumbled onto your channel. Whenever I subconsciously seek advice or help, youtube literally recommends one of your videos that guides me to my answers. Thank you so much Lavendaire!
Never really think about money wether it's bad or good. But I do need encouragement to make more money and living the dream life I wanted. Thanks for this video
You inspired me so much ..two months ago I started pursuing my photography..and i cant believe how much it change my life..i move out from my comfort zone and i saw how much opportunities we have..i stop looking at our fears..Thank you for always sharing positivity...”I believe i can and i will make it....
Hi Aileen..Iv been saving more..by making sure I eat well and always take somethings with me...I am releaved everytime I return home ..having done important thing like writing my book..without spending money..Im happy that I am building the confidence in myself. I am also tidying and cleaning...becos in the past I was able to seize opportunities and things just began flowing...I love this video especially..you are so honest..I feel like your sharing encourages me..I also have this conditioned believe that being talented and creative yet lack self confidence esteem..i am working on changing my belief that I CAN live abundantly..TRUSTING THE UNIVERSE ..is a great reminder for me now..Thank you Aileen..Im sure Ill watch this again...also love your recent videos ..diffuser with essential oils..Your joy is a light💛💜💚☺☺😘🙆
The positive and optimistic outlook on money of this video is really inspiring. For our generation, there are many negative connotations towards working and money, but it doesn't have to be that way!
I loved this video. I will be coming back to it throughout 2018 to keep myself encouraged. I really loved seeing how passionately and candidly you spoke at the end of the video. Thank you Aileen ❤️
I appreciate the advice and i think most of it is helpful. I disagree with the comment on how we start off is not an excuse to not reaching our goals. Like you, I was able to succeed, and i am grateful for it and recognize my own privilege. But I also recognize that this capitalist society that were part of doesn't allow for everyone to succeed. the way it is structured under capitalism, in order for people to succeed, there has to be people who don't therefore not all of us can truly make it. not that this should deter anyone from trying, we should all strive for better, but in the end, the individual can't alone be blamed for not succeeding. There are some forces out of our control that influence the path in our life whether it's not having legal status, taking care of sickly parents, coming from a marginalized background etc. yes there are the few that we look up to who make us feel like we too can succeed, but again, not everyone will be able to get there because of other forces working against them. But again I definitely agree, we should strive our best and take chances, we might be part of that 1%
I’m saying that it will be harder for some people because we all start in different places. But don’t let that discourage you because even if you’re way disadvantaged, you can still make moves to improve your situation vs. giving up at the start and staying in the same place!! Does that make sense??
lexis201 Yeah, I kinda have issues with this video. Of course we hold a lot of personal power but this video errs very much on the side of blaming people who aren’t successful. Like, genuinely good for you that you carved a good life for yourself, but you’re effectively saying that all those people who live in disadvantaged areas, or in poverty, or in countries where people are starving, or are homeless, etc., are just in that place because they haven’t manifested good vibes and tried hard enough? Putting JK Rowling up as an example that you too can be successful is like telling a six year boy that they can be the next Ronaldo if they just try hard enough. Sure, JK Rowling and premier league footballers worked for where they are, but they got lucky. For every JK Rowling there are hundreds of people whose books are never published, for every premier league footballer there are thousands of people who never make it anywhere near the premier league, despite trying. I have just finished filling out the Artist of Life workbook and am feeling very positive about using it for this year. It’s incredibly helpful to set some goals for the year and work out how you’re going to accomplish them, be clear about things you’d like to do for fun, and I’m a huge advocate for people creating a budget and being conscious about their money in order to save money. Surely it’s good enough for people to be financially stable, and to make the most out of whatever salary they earn. Why does everyone need to aim to be wealthy, unless that’s someone’s specific goal? This is where I get uncomfortable, when self-help that can be positive and rewarding gets aligned with a ‘get rich quick’ tone. It comes off as disingenuous and hollow. These books/internet people that promote working a dream job and minimal hours but still being rich is SO unrealistic for 99.9% of people. Realistically, if you want to be wealthy (which is a totally different thing to financially stable) you have to get to the top of a profession and be working a huge numbers of hours per work, taking away time that could be spent seeing friends and family, doing hobbies and relaxing. I know what I’d prefer. Last point - there are a lot of jobs/industries that just don’t pay that much money. Unless you get to the very top of a profession or own a successful business, you’ll probably just earn an amount that’s alright and stable, but not wealthy. And that’s fine. But yeah, blaming people’s living situation/financial situation entirely on the person themselves is totally ignoring the systems of inequality and prejudice ingrained in our society. Telling people that they need to say mantras about how they’re wealthy and then they will become wealthy, or that they just need to state their aspirations into the universe and the universe will grant them is, frankly, deeply troubling advice to be giving out. I know you’re trying to encourage people to set goals, work towards them and achieve what they want, but some goals are more realistic than others, and we have to accept that we don’t always get exactly what we want. We can learn from that and adapt our lives accordingly.
Also, the gap between the poorest and the wealthiest in this world is getting wider. The poor are getting poorer and the rich are getting richer. Surely a better message to put out is to consider ways, be it through political activism etc., to try and change this? To effect the change you want to see in the world?
lavendaire yeah that definitely makes sense, but maybe that clarification would be helpful. no offense I love your videos, I just think that it doesn't help to say if they made it we all can, or if my parents made it with nothing then you can too. i think that message may affect some people who are doing everything in their power to achieve their goals but its just not happening for them. Or all the other people who are affected by strong outside forces. Maybe the message should be a bit different. just a thought....keep up the videos tho I do enjoy them
lexis201 Totally agree with what you’ve said here. I’m not saying what I’m saying to be nasty, and I’ve found some of Lavendaire’s videos to be very helpful, but the way she spoke in this video really bothered me.
I feel in love with you again seeing this video. I always say the same thing to people and I get shamed for it, but it is the truth. We must pave our own way.
Didn't know all that history about your parents, that was awesome to hear. I love hearing the stories about my family members that immigrated to the states. It's a great observation how different families can all start with the same roots and circumstances and have wildly different futures they built for themselves. I believe everything you say about the mindset of money and know just how you felt when you felt money was coming so slllllloooooow and then to later have it come easily and with force. I have to get back to the abundant place and I'm doing the self work and work work to do so. I know my money is on the way and I know that I will watch this video back later and remember how I felt watching it the first time. That I'll be in a freer place next time I play this back. Love to you, Aileen💜 I know you work hard and help so many people, we appreciate it!
Lavendaire I believe it is! The Artist of Life Workbook is really forcing me to write out the details of my goals, and actually implement a system to accomplish all these subtasks. So I'm writing my intentions and goals in your workbook, then spreading them out visually into Trello to organize them and then going to be analog placing them in my physical planner at the start of each week to refresh my focus each weekend.
Thanks for reminding me to trust the universe. I honestly am not afraid of making money and I make a decent amount but recently I've been worried for no reason whatsoever. This is exactly what I needed to hear and I'll take it as a sign :)
thank you for this video, I am only 16 but I want to learn how to manage money well. This video showed a different side to money management that I haven't learnt much about. thank you!
Yes! What resonates with me the most is to get impowered to see it and have a clear picture. Too often I just don’t look at the account, but that needs to change. Also, to not operate in fear and a scarcity mind-set. Cheers to 2018 @Lavendaire
I like how you talked about the why. Having a why is very important to drive you to do things. Also, I liked how you encourage us to not allow our current/past mindset to cloud the potential we have to better ourselves. That being said, I've recently discovered Dave Ramsey and he also talks about having a why. And he would agree with you that it's important to save more and/or earn more. However, he would add that getting and staying out of debt is the best way to build wealth to pursue your why. At some point, credit scores won't matter because you'll be out of debt and have money. Just wanted to share. You're great! I'm marrying what I'm learning from you and Dave!
Since I started to watch your videos and eventually subscribing to your channel, it help me a lot to be more focused and clearing my mindset of doing what matters most and being whom what I’ve always wanted. Continue inspiring other people. :)
The personal note at the ending is my favourite part of this video. I can see the real Aileen. It would be great to listen to that stories. Thank you for the video :D Ciao Aileen
I recommend saying “I am” because putting things in present tense makes the Universe believe you already have it. For instance saying “I am a millionaire” or “I am financially abundant”
Aileen, You are such an ideal mentor. Sharing your personal story and being able to illustrate so powerfully your points. Also..We always see the end of success and people not sharing the journey..so I get to listen and relate as I am walking on my journey ..I feel so grateful to have found you. I find that one video of you talking is worth..many others. !! My biggest pain has been that I used to live with the believe that I was bad ..unsocial..because I wanted to create. I now know better and that people who know and care for me don't expect me to ditch my creativity for social acceptance. I am now setting up new belief systems to see me through the action steps to recieving money with pride and confidence and enthusiasm and trust myself to use it for making my life a dream life for me!! Lots of Love and joy, Aileen. Liah
I've been sort of going this direction in my mind set lately, praying a lot over changing my heart and mind, so this video is incredibly timely! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and encouraging us! This is so important! ♡♡♡
What you were saying was very inspiring! I've been stuck for something that takes me more than years. I want to move on, but fear always strike. I've tried for some many things, and didnt moved on, until all those opportunities were lost.
when i saw the title my mind instantly closed up to the topic so i almost didnt click on it but i open mindedly clicked it instead lol im v glad i did. this video is so intelligent and helpful im glad it gave it a chance. i realized i was doing all of the opposites of what i really wanted. THANK U ^_________^
I had an extra credit on Audible and had no idea what book to get, thanks for the recommendation.. it was sitting in my wishlist but I wasnt fully sure, just got it and will listen!
I am so happy when I see your new video online... You can always get a like before even I see it. So happy to know that tonight I have 18 minutes of joy. 💚
Thank you so much for this video. I am a freshman in college, and I would always use the phrase, "broke college student" or "I'm too broke for that" and unfortunately that has been my reality. I used to think that these little "jokes" were funny and I never really realized how much these actually affected my life until now. I am definitely going to take into everything into consideration that you mentioned in this video and apply them into my daily routine. Again thank you so much for sharing, and I will be sending lots of love and good vibes your way!
This reminds me of the law of attraction meditation :D I love it ♡ Repetition, positivity and living in the end ressult :) Very good video Lavendaire ♡ keep it up!♡
I've been subscribed to your TH-cam channel for a few years now and to be honest your videos are amazing and are very helpful. Thank you for just being here for all of us ❤️
Honestly Aileen, I'm so glad I came across your channel when I did - I have already improved my life so much in the last few months since I started watching your videos ✨
I want to use this opportunity and say THANK YOU! Your videos are so inspiring! Everytime I see a new one I get excited! It's like a real friend is talking to me! I love your energy and how you spread love ♥️ THANK YOU ✨✨✨ Hugs from Germany😘
Hey Aileen, I know it's gonna be 2020 soon, but I wanted to thank you for making this video. I have this situation where I just graduate from college and I haven't got a normal job yet. So I made an online jewelry shop and make a digital agency but I'm still not sure of them, but now I know what I have to do with my online shop and my digital agency. Thank you for encouraging me❤ Also your parents' story is so inspiring. Thank you, and thank you for making Lavendaire, I lovee watching your videos. Love from Indonesia❤
you have an outstanding ability to take attention from anyone your way of talking and your storytelling pattern are just amazing keep up the good work..i am iheb from TUNISIA in north africa and you are always welcome here
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Unrelated to this video but, I watch your videos with my two year old daughter and she calls you princess Aileen and “reads” my artist of life workbook like a fairytale after seeing the same book in your videos and your picture in the book. Sometimes she even goes around saying “I’m Aileen~” I think she has a good role model! 😉 thank you for allll you do, you’re amazing!
jarix3u that is so cute 😄
This is the cutest thing ever. Omg. Wow. ✨✨✨
This is so cute!!
so adorable ☺️☺️
jarix3u cute
I always carry the limiting belief “I’m just terrible with money”. I am going to shift and say I GOT THIS. I am great with money and budgets. 💖
yes!! YOU GOT THIS!
Can we just applaud Aileen for how helpful her description box is.
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Her description boxes are the only ones I check after clicking a video.
I vote a whole series about finances!
Splitleaf yes please!
I agree👍
This manifestation guidebook *4ManifestAll. Com* has opened my eyes to so many things I was not aware of. You can consider it a road map which is valuable in making massive changes in your life. I fully understood the ideas completely right after listening to the audio and reading the book a couple of times.
Her positivity all glowing up her face. Proud of my fav girl Aileen. 💖
Aww thank u 💖
i’m only 15 but money is still something l want to save, l have a job as a ski coach and like a tiny (TINY) bit of adrev from youtube, but with both of those and school it can get really stressful! anyway, thanks for the video!!
Yas girl!
woah. youre doing big things
that's amazing!
@lexamazing You will definitely thank yourself in the future. I was the same way in high school: working for minimum wage 19 hrs/wk plus a side video job and AP classes. I saved everything I could for the future. I was definitely stressed, but it really paid off! Now that I'm in my 20's close to graduating from business school, I have all my college paid for by scholarships and grants, saved thousands, and had wonderful job opportunities. The fact that you are consciously saving and making decisions about your finances will make you successful. My favorite quote about money is "live like no one else now, and you will live like no one else in the future" meaning if you save while you're young, you will see blessings in the future. You're doing great! :)
Amazing! Keep going 🙏🏼✨
Thank you, because of you I left my job to Live my dream life
Danisha Pop this made me tear up. Good for you girl
Another mindset that is not necessarily negative but it can be is that you have to work really hard to make money. It's good to value hard work and to know that things don't just fall off trees, but also keep your mind open enough to not "penalize yourself" because you think you're not "working hard enough for the money you're earning." In the "work smarter, not harder" era, it's important to give work the proper value, no more, nor less.
Already writing down my “dream” life now. So far I’m surprised that I don’t need more...
I wanna be financially free so i help the unfortunate... i know what it means to lack
Barichnel Sonna Oh plz
Oahu?
"Believe you can, and that's where it starts" that is a great quote and it applies to almost everything in life, not just money. This was a great video, very empowering and informative! I really enjoyed it ~ Thank you for sharing! Hope you're having a beautiful week!! ❤️
Yes yes :) as I was reviewing this I thought, these tips are more about life and not just money haha
I've always felt like we as society need to be more open about talking about money so that the knowledge of how to become financially sound is more easily accessed.
I’ve never put that much power (specifically negative power) into my thoughts on money and as a result, I feel like I’ve always been financially stable and secure!
i like watching your videos "to sleep", cause your voice is so soft and i always wake up super motivated
also i always watch it again when im awake
This video could not come in a more perfect time for me. I just had a talk with my parents and one of them is financially strapped. I told them to have faith that it's not too late to turn things around. Then your video shows up of which I truly believe it's a sign that things will change. Thank you for embodying the light and hope that your subscribers need. From my soul to yours
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Yes the universe will always guide us🙏🏽 I have decide to be brave this year, I will finally start experimenting with TH-cam and hopefully make some money out of it👏🏽 Thank you for always inspiring us❤️✨
Hey Terese. Just a reminder. Especially if you're a Christian. If you don't claim something you desire in the name of Jesus and you claim it from the "universe" it is in fact demonic and of Satan. Power or "energy" is either from God or from Satan. There is no in between. So be mindful of the energies you attract to yourself. The devil is great at deceiving people. God bless
I love all of your videos, but this one I think is my fave because of the tone of my life at the moment. Until recently I could never understand how I can manifest money and things sometimes, then not manifest anything the next. It's like you said it is mindset, and if we have a fear mindset then the halts everything. I haven't had a job since 2010, and for years I paid attention to others who told me I needed a job in order to earn money. Because of the lack of job I assumed I'd never have money but I was wrong. And when I turned 30 last month I put it into my mind as "what's the worse that can happen if I just tweak a few things", and I've been manifesting so much in 2018...way more than I have ever all because I've changed my mindset. Thank you Aileen, you are a true light worker. Please do more financial sort of videos.
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Guys. learning see some improvements in your life especially financially doesn't need to be hard (I used to think it did). I am going to give you some advice now. Look for a popular self-development system that created by famous life coach called *4ManifestAll. Com* Thanks to it I have know see some improvements in my life especially financially. I should not even be speaking about it cause I do not want a bunch of other guys out there running the same game but whatever. I am just in a excellent mood today and so I will share the wealth haha
I honestly don't know how you do it, but every time after having watched a video of yours, I feel so inspired! I feel so inspired to achieve things and do things, which are often irrelevant to the topics that you talk about! You have so much positive energy and you help me believe in myself! Thank you thank you thank you ♥️
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YES I want to be financially savvy
I really needed to hear this. I took a leap of faith and left my job a few months ago and left behind a salary I was very comfortable with. Now I do work that I love, but the money isn't there yet. I want to continue trusting God and believing that it will come. But now I realize the thoughts I've been putting into the universe about my current financial situation have been a huge barrier to that money coming. I bought You Are a Badass At Making Money so long ago and it's just sitting on my shelf. I'm going to read it now! Thank you!
The gratitude and trust over fear (hence excuses) really hit me. I need to appreciate what I do have and not he so internally negative anymore. It all starts with a mindset like Philippians 4:8. Thank you! 💕
You Are a Badass at Making Money is *still* my top money mindset book. I included more detailed thoughts on it in my recent book recommendation video!
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Thank you for sharing from your heart. Learned from what you shared. Happy new year!! 2019
Lavendaire you’re so gorgeous
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I'm 15 and I changed my mindset the last three months. I always wasted my money for unnecessary things. Now I save so much money! I already have a job as a tennis coach and as a student helper at my school, but I'm going to do more this summer.
This video was really inspiring and will hopefully help me to save even more :D thank you!!
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Wow this was extremely helpful for me.. Thank you so much for putting this up.
Hi! While watching your video I finally had he epiphany I’ve been waiting for on what my side hustle should be. I jumped out of the shower and just started designing it. Thank you so much for all of your inspiration and positivity. Hopefully I can spread the same positivity. 💗💗💗
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I am a 40 something and I love your channel and wish you existed 20 years ago. So much good info and a perspective that I really could have used back then. Its never too late though. Thank you for sharing. You are an inspiration.
My mom got into an accident last month and i also got extremely sick. So I had to spend all of my emergency saving for both of us and it had really beaten me up. Your video really inspired to stand up and start my financial journey again. It’s just the right time!!! Thank you Aileen! you’re awesome!
Aww hope she’s okay 💕
I'm sorry to hear about that and hope you're both on the road to recovery. Feel like I must say well done for having the emergency savings in the first place, that shows you are totally capable of saving again. I bet your mum feels very grateful for your suuport. Good luck with everything and hope you are feeling better.
Naomi H thank you for your kind words. Its really encourage me alot. Sometimes you really just need some small little things like this in life.
I turned 22 and just got out of college, this is what I needed 🤑
This is the theme in my life this upcoming year. Dissolving the limiting beliefs I have around financial abundance and independence. I know it's possible ~ now is the time for me to REALLY believe in myself!
I hear where u are coming from. I'm an immigrant too and grew up working class- yes there are issues in the world- I and you are not denying that. I certainly don't deny: classism, racism, hatred, coruption etc.. The ONLY thing you have control of is yourself, so you are saying do all you can, mindset then action to change your life. If we wait for government or society it may never happen. But what I"ve seen is that once you start taking action, being positive, sharing your hopes and dreams-- others will want to help you, support will come! And yes pick a successful person like yourself- to model after to read their life story! Stay Blessed all.
I'm only 16, but I love watching your videos they inspire me to be a better person every day. Thank you.💗💗
"Where you start off is not an excuse for where you end up." Truth!
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I love to listening to you. Your voice is amazing💜
*I love that you don't hold the judgement against money that it's greedy or materialistic! Money IS good! :)*
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I truly understand your situation because when I graduated I saw no money and believed that I deserved no money, now I am changing my mindset And making some changes in my life ❤️✨
I'm 18 and for the first time in my life I started making money online! It's on my vision board and it's cool going to the ATM to pull out money that you've made online!
For girl like me who lives in a third world country, this video is really helpful.thank you.
I hope you can read this: I think you are an angel! a very beautiful angel with beautiful act and thought. Thank you for doing what you are doing.
My brother recently just sent me the book, Law of attraction on audible... I have about 2 hours left of it but as I've been listening and learning & wanting to know more I got on TH-cam and YOU popped up ! I SAY ALL THIS TO SAY you are a PERFECT REPRESENTATION of Law of Attraction , you are such a light !
This year, I have wanted to started to make money, and honestly this video has helped me a lot, for today had to make my first transaction, am so glad, and today is my birthday tooo❤
One of the things I like about your videos is, you don't have a huge intro. You always stay on point.
I wish there was a 'love' option instead of just like or dislike! This is so motivating Aileen! ❤️
Thank you!!
You know watching you it’s like watching Michelle Phan which was one of my fav you tuber. Feel sad that she’s not doing you tube anymore. The way you talk very clear and smart full of ideas.
I'm new to your channel and I appreciate your mind set and positivity so much. I'm 54 years old and I have lived a wonderfully blessed life, with the past two years being very challenging, both emotionally and financially. Thank you for inspiring me.
This is so timely for me. I changed my mindset just before the new year. 2018 is already trying to be like all the other years, but I will NOT allow it. No way!
Thank you so much for this Aileen! I'm a college student and I've been worrying a bit about money lately because I'm still completely dependent on my parents, and while that's fine, I too want to contribute something financially. It's gonna take some time before I get my degree and get a good job or something but in the meantime I'm going to do some research and earn money! So thanks for the motivation I wish you all the best ❤️✨
What a Gem this woman is❤️
I'm from Venezuela and I just restared my life as inmigrant in another country. I want to thank you for this words, it mean a lot to me.
Haven’t even finished the video yet and had an epiphany of what I should be doing with my spare time that will undoubtedly change my life! Thanks so much for your positivity and very helpful insights! Keep on sharing love and goodness as you do.
you're born to be a leader i think we read some of the same books such "think and grow ritch","how to win friends and influence people" and "zero to one"
Love those books 💕
This is honestly the video that I needed the most right now. I have all of these dreams and plans, but it's really nothing if I don't have it down. Honest to god or whatever, I am beyond glad that I've stumbled onto your channel. Whenever I subconsciously seek advice or help, youtube literally recommends one of your videos that guides me to my answers. Thank you so much Lavendaire!
Never really think about money wether it's bad or good. But I do need encouragement to make more money and living the dream life I wanted. Thanks for this video
watching this as i woke up in the morning allows me to stay positive all day long
You inspired me so much ..two months ago I started pursuing my photography..and i cant believe how much it change my life..i move out from my comfort zone and i saw how much opportunities we have..i stop looking at our fears..Thank you for always sharing positivity...”I believe i can and i will make it....
aww i'm so happy for you dear!!
money in the end is just a measure of the value you put out and others take in exchange. it's really just a measurement. a good one!
Hi Aileen..Iv been saving more..by making sure I eat well and always take somethings with me...I am releaved everytime I return home ..having done important thing like writing my book..without spending money..Im happy that I am building the confidence in myself. I am also tidying and cleaning...becos in the past I was able to seize opportunities and things just began flowing...I love this video especially..you are so honest..I feel like your sharing encourages me..I also have this conditioned believe that being talented and creative yet lack self confidence esteem..i am working on changing my belief that I CAN live abundantly..TRUSTING THE UNIVERSE ..is a great reminder for me now..Thank you Aileen..Im sure Ill watch this again...also love your recent videos ..diffuser with essential oils..Your joy is a light💛💜💚☺☺😘🙆
The positive and optimistic outlook on money of this video is really inspiring. For our generation, there are many negative connotations towards working and money, but it doesn't have to be that way!
Thank you very much. You're an inspiration. I'm going to pay my student debts and start from stratch :) trust the universe ❤️
I believe all of us can fulfill our dream and attract more money 🌺
Rewatching your old videos because I believe it still applies to help me become better..especially this coming new year ❤️
I loved this video. I will be coming back to it throughout 2018 to keep myself encouraged. I really loved seeing how passionately and candidly you spoke at the end of the video. Thank you Aileen ❤️
I appreciate the advice and i think most of it is helpful. I disagree with the comment on how we start off is not an excuse to not reaching our goals. Like you, I was able to succeed, and i am grateful for it and recognize my own privilege. But I also recognize that this capitalist society that were part of doesn't allow for everyone to succeed. the way it is structured under capitalism, in order for people to succeed, there has to be people who don't therefore not all of us can truly make it. not that this should deter anyone from trying, we should all strive for better, but in the end, the individual can't alone be blamed for not succeeding. There are some forces out of our control that influence the path in our life whether it's not having legal status, taking care of sickly parents, coming from a marginalized background etc. yes there are the few that we look up to who make us feel like we too can succeed, but again, not everyone will be able to get there because of other forces working against them. But again I definitely agree, we should strive our best and take chances, we might be part of that 1%
I’m saying that it will be harder for some people because we all start in different places. But don’t let that discourage you because even if you’re way disadvantaged, you can still make moves to improve your situation vs. giving up at the start and staying in the same place!! Does that make sense??
lexis201 Yeah, I kinda have issues with this video. Of course we hold a lot of personal power but this video errs very much on the side of blaming people who aren’t successful. Like, genuinely good for you that you carved a good life for yourself, but you’re effectively saying that all those people who live in disadvantaged areas, or in poverty, or in countries where people are starving, or are homeless, etc., are just in that place because they haven’t manifested good vibes and tried hard enough?
Putting JK Rowling up as an example that you too can be successful is like telling a six year boy that they can be the next Ronaldo if they just try hard enough. Sure, JK Rowling and premier league footballers worked for where they are, but they got lucky. For every JK Rowling there are hundreds of people whose books are never published, for every premier league footballer there are thousands of people who never make it anywhere near the premier league, despite trying.
I have just finished filling out the Artist of Life workbook and am feeling very positive about using it for this year. It’s incredibly helpful to set some goals for the year and work out how you’re going to accomplish them, be clear about things you’d like to do for fun, and I’m a huge advocate for people creating a budget and being conscious about their money in order to save money. Surely it’s good enough for people to be financially stable, and to make the most out of whatever salary they earn. Why does everyone need to aim to be wealthy, unless that’s someone’s specific goal? This is where I get uncomfortable, when self-help that can be positive and rewarding gets aligned with a ‘get rich quick’ tone. It comes off as disingenuous and hollow. These books/internet people that promote working a dream job and minimal hours but still being rich is SO unrealistic for 99.9% of people. Realistically, if you want to be wealthy (which is a totally different thing to financially stable) you have to get to the top of a profession and be working a huge numbers of hours per work, taking away time that could be spent seeing friends and family, doing hobbies and relaxing. I know what I’d prefer.
Last point - there are a lot of jobs/industries that just don’t pay that much money. Unless you get to the very top of a profession or own a successful business, you’ll probably just earn an amount that’s alright and stable, but not wealthy. And that’s fine.
But yeah, blaming people’s living situation/financial situation entirely on the person themselves is totally ignoring the systems of inequality and prejudice ingrained in our society. Telling people that they need to say mantras about how they’re wealthy and then they will become wealthy, or that they just need to state their aspirations into the universe and the universe will grant them is, frankly, deeply troubling advice to be giving out. I know you’re trying to encourage people to set goals, work towards them and achieve what they want, but some goals are more realistic than others, and we have to accept that we don’t always get exactly what we want. We can learn from that and adapt our lives accordingly.
Also, the gap between the poorest and the wealthiest in this world is getting wider. The poor are getting poorer and the rich are getting richer. Surely a better message to put out is to consider ways, be it through political activism etc., to try and change this? To effect the change you want to see in the world?
lavendaire yeah that definitely makes sense, but maybe that clarification would be helpful. no offense I love your videos, I just think that it doesn't help to say if they made it we all can, or if my parents made it with nothing then you can too. i think that message may affect some people who are doing everything in their power to achieve their goals but its just not happening for them. Or all the other people who are affected by strong outside forces. Maybe the message should be a bit different. just a thought....keep up the videos tho I do enjoy them
lexis201 Totally agree with what you’ve said here. I’m not saying what I’m saying to be nasty, and I’ve found some of Lavendaire’s videos to be very helpful, but the way she spoke in this video really bothered me.
I feel in love with you again seeing this video. I always say the same thing to people and I get shamed for it, but it is the truth. We must pave our own way.
Didn't know all that history about your parents, that was awesome to hear. I love hearing the stories about my family members that immigrated to the states. It's a great observation how different families can all start with the same roots and circumstances and have wildly different futures they built for themselves. I believe everything you say about the mindset of money and know just how you felt when you felt money was coming so slllllloooooow and then to later have it come easily and with force. I have to get back to the abundant place and I'm doing the self work and work work to do so. I know my money is on the way and I know that I will watch this video back later and remember how I felt watching it the first time. That I'll be in a freer place next time I play this back. Love to you, Aileen💜 I know you work hard and help so many people, we appreciate it!
Wishing that freer place is coming to you soon :)
Lavendaire I believe it is! The Artist of Life Workbook is really forcing me to write out the details of my goals, and actually implement a system to accomplish all these subtasks. So I'm writing my intentions and goals in your workbook, then spreading them out visually into Trello to organize them and then going to be analog placing them in my physical planner at the start of each week to refresh my focus each weekend.
Thanks for reminding me to trust the universe. I honestly am not afraid of making money and I make a decent amount but recently I've been worried for no reason whatsoever. This is exactly what I needed to hear and I'll take it as a sign :)
thank you for this video, I am only 16 but I want to learn how to manage money well. This video showed a different side to money management that I haven't learnt much about. thank you!
Yes! What resonates with me the most is to get impowered to see it and have a clear picture. Too often I just don’t look at the account, but that needs to change. Also, to not operate in fear and a scarcity mind-set. Cheers to 2018 @Lavendaire
I like how you talked about the why. Having a why is very important to drive you to do things. Also, I liked how you encourage us to not allow our current/past mindset to cloud the potential we have to better ourselves. That being said, I've recently discovered Dave Ramsey and he also talks about having a why. And he would agree with you that it's important to save more and/or earn more. However, he would add that getting and staying out of debt is the best way to build wealth to pursue your why. At some point, credit scores won't matter because you'll be out of debt and have money. Just wanted to share. You're great! I'm marrying what I'm learning from you and Dave!
skin clear, achieve my weight loss goal. I am happy, grateful and full of joy
don't believe in an "invisible force" but an active and living God. love your videos !!
Since I started to watch your videos and eventually subscribing to your channel, it help me a lot to be more focused and clearing my mindset of doing what matters most and being whom what I’ve always wanted. Continue inspiring other people. :)
The personal note at the ending is my favourite part of this video. I can see the real Aileen. It would be great to listen to that stories. Thank you for the video :D Ciao Aileen
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I recommend saying “I am” because putting things in present tense makes the Universe believe you already have it. For instance saying “I am a millionaire” or “I am financially abundant”
Aileen, You are such an ideal mentor. Sharing your personal story and being able to illustrate so powerfully your points. Also..We always see the end of success and people not sharing the journey..so I get to listen and relate as I am walking on my journey ..I feel so grateful to have found you. I find that one video of you talking is worth..many others. !! My biggest pain has been that I used to live with the believe that I was bad ..unsocial..because I wanted to create. I now know better and that people who know and care for me don't expect me to ditch my creativity for social acceptance. I am now setting up new belief systems to see me through the action steps to recieving money with pride and confidence and enthusiasm and trust myself to use it for making my life a dream life for me!! Lots of Love and joy, Aileen. Liah
Sending you love & support!
I've been sort of going this direction in my mind set lately, praying a lot over changing my heart and mind, so this video is incredibly timely! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and encouraging us! This is so important! ♡♡♡
I am soooo guilty of complaining about being broke!! This is so helpful 👏🏽👏🏽
I don't know when my comment will come to your notice that's okay 😊
I just wanna say you make me go easy, you are my inspiration😊✨
This is such an important topic to do a video on and I agree with all of your tips!!
One of the kindest on TH-cam! Grateful, thank you, Universe! Thank you, Aileen!
What you were saying was very inspiring! I've been stuck for something that takes me more than years. I want to move on, but fear always strike. I've tried for some many things, and didnt moved on, until all those opportunities were lost.
when i saw the title my mind instantly closed up to the topic so i almost didnt click on it but i open mindedly clicked it instead lol im v glad i did. this video is so intelligent and helpful im glad it gave it a chance. i realized i was doing all of the opposites of what i really wanted. THANK U ^_________^
I had an extra credit on Audible and had no idea what book to get, thanks for the recommendation.. it was sitting in my wishlist but I wasnt fully sure, just got it and will listen!
I am so happy when I see your new video online... You can always get a like before even I see it. So happy to know that tonight I have 18 minutes of joy. 💚
Thank you so much for this video. I am a freshman in college, and I would always use the phrase, "broke college student" or "I'm too broke for that" and unfortunately that has been my reality. I used to think that these little "jokes" were funny and I never really realized how much these actually affected my life until now. I am definitely going to take into everything into consideration that you mentioned in this video and apply them into my daily routine. Again thank you so much for sharing, and I will be sending lots of love and good vibes your way!
This reminds me of the law of attraction meditation :D I love it ♡ Repetition, positivity and living in the end ressult :) Very good video Lavendaire ♡ keep it up!♡
The fact that I was hesitant to watch this video I think says something about my relationship with me met. Thanks for this video.
🙏🏼 it’s a journey. Glad to help however I can!
You are awesome. You are so inspirational Aileen.
I'm so grateful for finding you,you are changing my life in an amazing way,I was depressed and ready to give up and there you are ❣
I've been subscribed to your TH-cam channel for a few years now and to be honest your videos are amazing and are very helpful. Thank you for just being here for all of us ❤️
Honestly Aileen, I'm so glad I came across your channel when I did - I have already improved my life so much in the last few months since I started watching your videos ✨
I’m glad you’re talking about money! And yes the first step is to checking what your perception of money is 👏🏻🙌🏻
I want to use this opportunity and say THANK YOU! Your videos are so inspiring! Everytime I see a new one I get excited! It's like a real friend is talking to me! I love your energy and how you spread love ♥️ THANK YOU ✨✨✨
Hugs from Germany😘
Your words are therapeutic it’s like I’m meditating.
Hey Aileen, I know it's gonna be 2020 soon, but I wanted to thank you for making this video. I have this situation where I just graduate from college and I haven't got a normal job yet. So I made an online jewelry shop and make a digital agency but I'm still not sure of them, but now I know what I have to do with my online shop and my digital agency. Thank you for encouraging me❤ Also your parents' story is so inspiring. Thank you, and thank you for making Lavendaire, I lovee watching your videos. Love from Indonesia❤
Thank youuuu I realy need this words
Love you
I believe that I'm rich and i will be more and more rich
you have an outstanding ability to take attention from anyone your way of talking and your storytelling pattern are just amazing keep up the good work..i am iheb from TUNISIA in north africa and you are always welcome here
Hii from India,,,
Happy to hear about your parents ...same story with my parents too...But here both are from India
I just got the artist of life book 😃😆🤗😍 thank you so much I need this in my life.
I'll trust the universe from now on