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positive habits in the video : 1. stop playing the victim 2. read inspiring books 3. cultivate daily gratitude 4. meditate 5. stop taking yourself and your life so seriously
The real issue with traumatic experiences caused by others is that they put you in that victim mindset. It took me so long to get out of it, but i agree that this is THE MOST important mental shift to do. Take the power back
Amen. I know for me I'm still dealing internally with a lot but despite that I always told myself that it isn't fair to allow what I'm dealing with to affect others or to mistreat others. I pushed to nor do that for years, and now I've climbed even more in my mindset to help myself and make a move in life myself as well.
Hi Lavendair, I have my morning routine where I do: 1. Meditation for 10minutes 2. Exercise: 10 push ups; 10 abdominal work; 10 Squads and if I have time a bit of yoga. 3. Reading for 10 minutes 4. Scribing for 10 minutes. This routine helps me getting more grounded and focus on the day a head. Sometimes I change it so it won't be the same everytime. And even when I'm late or in a hurry at least I always meditate. And thanks so much for all you're sharing about self improvement. You've really helped me be at least more at peace with myself. ;*
Incredible!!!! Really Loved!! I aways Said to myself "I have no time to read" but now, just the fact that you read 10min a day, and that's so short and simple, i don't know... I'm going to do this, thank you so much!!
*You have changed so many lives through your work, your tips, and the Aesthetics of your videos! Thank you for sharing your life so that we can all live a better life ourselves. You are a true blessing!* PS, I think red lipstick and blonde hair fits you really well.
Ever since you said to take ownership of your life and hold yourself accountable, I've realized how much I've been holding myself back from success and just surviving, but no more. I'm pushing to be more successful in my life and not unconsciously waiting for something to happen. Thank you!
What habits have changed your life? Please share below :) If you liked this one, I made a similar video of 5 other habits that have changed my life → bit.ly/2McwuYQ Love u 💛
@@olivergreenish6761 wow same, I even wake up so much early than my bus, at 4:45, since doing something at home before school/breakfast makes me feel productive to start my day
I meditate pretty much every day, I journal, I read and listen to audio books every day, I workout, I practice being more grateful and many more. Definitely recommend everyone does at least some of these for self development. You will transform your life 👏🏽💪🏽
A positive habit that's been changing my life is creative writing wrapping up my day. It's refreshing and that energy cleanses the stressful thoughts of the day away.
Reading has changed my life! I grew up having a fixed mindset of not improving my English, especially when teachers saw me differently and my grades were low in Asian standards. I started to shift into a growth mindset when I studied what I wanted in college. Now, after college, I have more freedom to read what I want. But I do have to fix my habit of starting too many books and not just focusing on one. Haha (; Journaling is also helping me to let go, accept the thoughts as they are, and move on. It's quite interesting how the mind works.
I started reading about how to heal my inner child and how to remain peaceful during troubling times! It definitely helps me feel calm throughout the day and I’m able to recognize bad habits
When i'm lost, feeling unmotivated and having burnout i always searched your channel you aways motivate, inspires and helps me your words are so awesome and soft
Your voice is really calming, your videos are so aesthetic, and your advices are so good! Whenever I need motivation, I just go to this channel and watch some of your videos! Thank you, Aileen. I'm thankful that I found your channel last year! Keep inspiring! Love from Philippines! 💙
Meditation is a game-changer! I have recently fallen out of the habit, and I can tell how different I feel! Time to get back to it! Love love love your top, that's a great color on you.
Just wanted to say thank you for your videos. I watched one of your videos when I was in a really bad place. I was able to lift my self up by watching your videos and listening to Audiobooks you recommended. I was able to manifest enough money to quit my job and start my own business. I also got to be on TV!!! For the first time!! Giving life lessons to youth on Money management. My life has been changing thanks to your videos. My spirit animal is a snake, meaning I am changing to a new person. Thank you, Duncan.
oh i love how you took everything with positive mindset. Last few months I’ve been experiencing depression. I almost end my life just like that. Thank you for making this video. ❤️❤️ you’re truly an inspiration.
I love how your lipstick matches your dress, red looks really good on you! Also, thank you for the video, it's exactly what I needed now :D I talked about daily habits with my therapist today and that I should include more if them in my daily routine so your video really helped!
I love you video's it has completely changed my life allready. But the habbits that helped where 1 journaling 2 waking up at 5 am 3 being gratefull 4 setting goals 5 watching motivational videos like yours
One habit I have started is to read one article from my Positive News magazine every morning as soon as I wake up. It makes me happy for the day! Highly recommend this magazine!!
Honestly my gratitude journal has subconsciously reprogrammed my mind to look for the positive things in my day and it gives me a second to connect w God because I used to overlook SO many things that I am thankful for now and i feel like God gives me more things too look forward too in the coming days 🤗🤗
I read every night and have for my entire life since I could read (maybe minus a day here and there, I'm 20yo)! It's just so integrated into my routine that it's like brushing my teeth. Honestly, if you just keep doing it, it will become a habit. There's something amazingly relaxing about reading a few pages before going to sleep. I've learnt a lot through novels, whether they're even supposed to be educational/inspiring or not. Books stimulate your brain in a way TV shows etc can't (even though I love visual media too!)
I agree in a sense with number one, but complaining and identifying the cause of problems is an important step to change. It’s just not a state to dwell in. I feel like telling people to never complain or blame the appropriate external factors is dangerous because it implies that everything wrong in the world and your life is your responsibility. Yes, you can only expect yourself to improve things, but you have to be careful not start believing that if you have a struggle it’s all your fault or that you shouldn’t try to change problems in the world.
#5 is my favorite. i tend to be dramatic and really focused towards my goals but recently i’ve tweaked my perspective just a little and it’s made me a better person to just be able to let go of my perfectionism, of other’s expectations. it’s not so much about being completely carefree for me but rather remembering that it’s your life at the end of the day, you decide whether you’re enjoying it or not. i would like to thank my ex for leaving me and with her, the constant unnecessary negativity i had grown so used to. 😊
This is what I really want to hear. That we should stop focusing too much on every detail of our life (focusing on it sometimes falls to being negative) and LOOK AT THE BIGGER PICTURE. Because if we try to look at the bigger perspective, we realize that MOST THINGS ARE INSIGNIFICANT! Thank you so much for making us feel inspired, enjoy life, and that we are not alone.
I used to read a lot, a massive number of books when I was a child and young. And several years ago, because social media, tv, series and the whole internet I stoped to do it. But about 5 years ago I try to bring back the habit to me and now I enjoy reading again a lot. It’s relaxing and makes me feel in peace. Love your advices
One habit that has changed my life is thinking before I speak! I never felt like I was a super malicious person or someone with no filter lol, but there were times when I wouldn't think about the future impact of my words on myself, my image, and other people's images (this usually happened as gossip). If there's anything I've learned, it's that your words will always come back around to you, so if you spread good things through your words you will experience good but it's equally true for bad/harmful things you say without thinking. It'll come back in ways you wouldn't even expect. Just treating everyone with the respect they deserve and remembering that you never know what's really going on in someone's life is a great habit to cultivate ✌️
My 2 habits that changed my life is thru reading inspirational books and reflecting. It teaches me a lot on how to improve myself. Thank you for being an inspiration Ms. Aileen.
Great point not to just blame others for everything... You only have control over your actions, so change what you CAN change. Thanks for outlining these positive habits/thought patterns. Cheers!
Last month I stopped listening to music on my way to work (about 2 hours total in the car) and started listening to audio books, it’s the best decision, I learned a lot and stopped hating the long ride, actually I am grateful to it.
Honestly, I am so grateful I searched “how to raise your frequency”. I am going to implement meditation to let my inner voice become stronger, but bumping into this video added so much value to me. It was really refreshing too. I haven’t felt a light like this in sermons, business lectures, or anything else of lately. So super grateful. Thank you. You’re inspiring and beautiful! 🤤Thanks again, I’ll definitely be raising my vibration 😁.
Something that has helped me so much is dancing around my room to music that makes me feel great, making time to primp myself (face masks, nail painting, etc) and only drinking water and lots of it.
I’m really appreciating what books teach me , I turned to another person because I make a habit to read a book each week,however I’m in love with “eat,pray,love” i highly recommend you guys to read it. Thanks for positive videos 🙏🏻
I agree that reading is a really positive habit. Not only do you learn stuff but it's a really meditative practice which I like. I would just like to recommend reading fiction as well as non-fiction. The life lessons we learn from fiction aren't maybe as clear but I think that's part of what makes it so interesting. Another habit that's really important to me is to be out in nature. To see trees, flowers and grass. I grew up in the suburbs where this was part of my every day without really thinking about it. Now I live in the city and since nature isn't around the corner anymore I try to actively make time to seek it out. I go to parks on my lunch breaks or take the bus out of the city for forest hikes on weekends. There is just something so grounding about hearing birdsong and the wind in the trees :)
I will start reading again when it’s warmer because now it’s more comfortable to have my hands below the blankets in the evening when it’s getting cold after sunset (I live in my car). I’m looking forward to the warmth and the possibilities I will have during the summer season ❤️
I started reading everyday because I made it a part of my morning routine to read at least one page now I read much more than that a day. It’s life changing!!
Looking so gorg! Thank you so much aileen! I've been listening to you every morning and night and whenever I'm filming and it's been a great help! You're changing one's life indirectly. 💗 More power! 👊😊💕
One thing I’ve learnt from watching your channel over the last couple of years is that small, consistent actions taken everyday add up to something great- the compound effect. I’m really grateful for that message, it’s motivating and inspiring when life and work seems too much. Xx
As you are talking it shows how excited you are after dancing and full of energy. I read that book and it definitely is a must read. It’s a financial management course written that gives valuable insight on stewarding money. I read everyday and meditating is what I need to do. I enjoyed this video.
Actually, a lot of what you've mentioned wasn't new for me. Still, I cried tears of relief because I didn't acknowledge those things. Maybe as I've heard them been said out loud my brain accepts and honours them.
I am a daily reader 😊 i implemanted this habit about a year ago and i have so much pleasure reading on many subjects... A lifetime wouldn't be enough to read it all so just enjoy what you can read😁 Thanks for this inspiring video Love from morocco
this made my day your energy and just pure joy and expressing who you are just so inspirational it makes me smile so much. You bring me so much joy and I think this way your best video yet, the attitude and ugh i just adore your personality
BEAUTIFULLY SAID Lavendaire!! Your morning videos are so refreshing. I love it! Reading inspiring books has CHANGED my life! Nope I don’t read every day but when I do... it makes me feel amazing. Had to stop editing my video to come check yours out.- From a self-love content creator to another THANK YOU beauty! 💞
*raise hand* I do read nearly every day ! Not as much as I did as a kid/teen when I didn't have internet and had only books to occupy my time, sadly, but I aim to go back to it little by little. I love to read & need to occupy myself during subway rides to school/work, so that's easy, I just need to think about putting my book in my bag... But I'm doing fine on this :D Did I paused to go write a page of things I'm grateful for ? Yep. Yep I did. Thanks for the reminder ! I'm not sure I want to do it every single day, but two or three times a week could do me some good. Meditation is also something I need to work on, I feel the same, it does a lot of good but I can't seem to make the habit stick. Thank you for this video !
YAY! I've shoving positive inspo sources down my throat to work up some courage before filming and I'm so glad to see this uploaded this morning!! Thanks Aileen for the sharing your light
I read everyday 🙋🏼♀️ I love reading self help and law of attraction books, it makes me feel SO positive and better! Practicing gratitude will ABSOLUTELY change your life! 💚
I kind of clicked on your video reluctantly, thinking I've seen enough videos about positive habits but I really liked yours! I'm definitely buying the book you recomended, and The power of now. I haven't gotten to meditating yet, but what you said about it helping with intuition struck a chord for me. Thank you!
You've shown me so many books that are really inspiring and have changed my life. My goal this year was to read one book a month but I have fallen off track, need to get back into the game :)
I’m lucky to see this video and this channel! I have been studying English and I’m trying to change my mind! I love your mind! I’m going to learn English and happy mind from this channel✨✨✨ I will watch this TH-cam’s video again and again!!! I’m looking forward watching new video!!
Thank you! Before coming across your channel, I've never thought about life as an art. I resonate with the phrase : life is an art. Make your master piece. I can be more focused and appropriate more of my life thanks to you, Irene.
Hi ! I read everyday ! First, it's a big part of my Morning Routine. When I got a break,I read. I read for my work, and it's a part of my Nigth Routine. The most important thing that change my life is meditation, I meditate every single day, on mornings and every time I've got a break and don't know what to do, I meditate. Medidate makes me realize that nothing matters as much as the present and it was difficult for me to agree with this before. Now it's obvious in my mind. I really enjoy your video Aileen ❤ (Sorry for my english, it's pretty hard for me to write it correctly ^-^)
I've been trying to read more because I love to do it but I'm realizing that the books I'm reading are not my type and that's why I haven't been able to commit into reading them. I'm gonna check your favorite books in case there's something that might change my frustration. Thank you for this video 💜
Hi Aileen! Would you be able to post an updated video on how to care for the environment/ reduce plastic usage? You're so inspirational it would make a strong impact on others to encourage them to do their part
Just recently came from your 5 year anniversary video, and this new video came up! Both of those videos were amazing, well done! Belated Happy 5th anniversary to Lavendaire! This TH-cam channel has been amazing and it helped me cope with my daily life since the day I discovered it. Keep up the good work. -Joseph, a loyal fan from the Philippines
Love this new set-up. Now your videos look even lighter than before! Also, I try to read every day. If I really don't feel like it, I'll at least try to read 10 pages. However, I do get into reading slumps once in a while. Things can't always be perfect, right? :)
yeah!! something else I've started to do is build a habit to clean for 10 min a day. I'll let things pile up but doing a little bit a day has make a big difference
Oh, and the part about reading inspiring / self-growth books is everything!! I started buying those and suddenly I read soooo much more because I see that I take so much value out of it 💪
You really change my self esteem when you talk so peacefully and happy, and it remind me that life doesn´t need to be so hard as you think. Thanks for that
I read every day and i love it. I do have a hard time practicing meditation every day, too. Trying to get more consistent here. Sending love from Germany
I was impressed with your voice, confidence, tips, ... Your negative energy has made me more love life. Especially, I can learn English through your channel. Thanks so much! Keep going 🥰🥰, love from Vietnam 🇻🇳
Hi Aileen. I read every single day and the last year I red 33 books. I love so much reading... It is so important for changing our lives. Thank you for this video📚📚📚📚📚
Hi Aileen, I've been a follower of yours for a long time and I truly hope for your success always :) With that being said, I just want to be honest and say that I'm starting to worry about how some of your points have an insensitive tone :'( When you talked about how getting knowledge will lead people out of poverty (when you talked about the book "The richest man in babylon"), I began wondering...getting that knowledge is one thing and having the capability to get that knowledge in the first place is another
Thank you for this comment ! I thought I was the only one to think that about the video (especially the first "habit") and even though it can be true that we have the power to change our life, there are basic factors that can make it more difficult (not everyone has the chance to be born in a wealhty family and to live in L.A. ;) ) ! Anyway, thank you for aknowledging that ! :)
You look so beautiful today! It brought a smile to my face seeing you so happy and energetic. Sending you a virtual hug! You are a beautiful being inside and out! Thank you so much for this video!
I'm currently reading this book "the Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up" ---i remember you recommand this one before! I already get the book " The Richest Man In Babylon" since you recommand it so badly!
One of my biggest habits would be to pray but to also constantly remind myself its a marathon and not a race. I also have to remember to give myself credit for the small things instead of focusing on why I am not onto the bigger wins.
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positive habits in the video :
1. stop playing the victim
2. read inspiring books
3. cultivate daily gratitude
4. meditate
5. stop taking yourself and your life so seriously
With the culture we have now and current situations in the States, people nowadays need to do this especially 1 and 5.
Thanks a million
I've started reading again, I put my phone in a different room while I do so. I feel so much more on track :)
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great idea. I feel like I have been spending a lot of my time on social media. This is my sign to get back to reading
The real issue with traumatic experiences caused by others is that they put you in that victim mindset. It took me so long to get out of it, but i agree that this is THE MOST important mental shift to do. Take the power back
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Very true. Traumatic experiences are also a learning experience. So now that you have your power back you are more self aware of how strong you are. 💕
How do you get your power back. It still effects me everyday.
I agree, there are a lot of people and children who suffer from ptsd, is difficult to find the right path and help to overcome it sometimes
Amen. I know for me I'm still dealing internally with a lot but despite that I always told myself that it isn't fair to allow what I'm dealing with to affect others or to mistreat others. I pushed to nor do that for years, and now I've climbed even more in my mindset to help myself and make a move in life myself as well.
Hi Lavendair,
I have my morning routine where I do:
1. Meditation for 10minutes
2. Exercise: 10 push ups; 10 abdominal work; 10 Squads and if I have time a bit of yoga.
3. Reading for 10 minutes
4. Scribing for 10 minutes.
This routine helps me getting more grounded and focus on the day a head. Sometimes I change it so it won't be the same everytime. And even when I'm late or in a hurry at least I always meditate.
And thanks so much for all you're sharing about self improvement. You've really helped me be at least more at peace with myself.
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You got this beautiful !
very nice routine, I am inspired to follow the same routine 👍
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Incredible!!!! Really Loved!! I aways Said to myself "I have no time to read" but now, just the fact that you read 10min a day, and that's so short and simple, i don't know... I'm going to do this, thank you so much!!
@@Manu-vx1ez yeah
*You have changed so many lives through your work, your tips, and the Aesthetics of your videos! Thank you for sharing your life so that we can all live a better life ourselves. You are a true blessing!*
PS, I think red lipstick and blonde hair fits you really well.
thank you ^_^
Love the red lip too!
@@F0reverblessed great minds think alike!
Yeah the new hair and lip color suit her nicely!
@@Dani_1012 red is just her colour. ♡
I love that you dont have a pushy fake positive attitude. You are calming yet serious, i cant even believe.
Ever since you said to take ownership of your life and hold yourself accountable, I've realized how much I've been holding myself back from success and just surviving, but no more. I'm pushing to be more successful in my life and not unconsciously waiting for something to happen. Thank you!
You have become my new personal mini life coach! Here’s to a positive 2022!
PREACH SISTER!! And thanks for the book reco🥰 gonna pick that up
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Lavendaire’s voice is already a therapy so soothing, calming, assuring and relaxing 💕 Thank you so much beautiful Lavendaire!
What habits have changed your life? Please share below :)
If you liked this one, I made a similar video of 5 other habits that have changed my life → bit.ly/2McwuYQ
Love u 💛
My bus picks me up super early, so I get to school 40 minutes before classes. I use that time to read my books, and I love it.
For me exercise my body every single day 🙏🙏🙏
So grateful for that and for the person that a im today 💜
Going running once a week 🏃♀️ and meditation 🧘♀️edit: also reading every single day, although most of it is fiction 📖
Meditation 🙏🏼
@@olivergreenish6761 wow same, I even wake up so much early than my bus, at 4:45, since doing something at home before school/breakfast makes me feel productive to start my day
I meditate pretty much every day, I journal, I read and listen to audio books every day, I workout, I practice being more grateful and many more. Definitely recommend everyone does at least some of these for self development. You will transform your life 👏🏽💪🏽
A positive habit that's been changing my life is creative writing wrapping up my day. It's refreshing and that energy cleanses the stressful thoughts of the day away.
Reading has changed my life! I grew up having a fixed mindset of not improving my English, especially when teachers saw me differently and my grades were low in Asian standards. I started to shift into a growth mindset when I studied what I wanted in college. Now, after college, I have more freedom to read what I want. But I do have to fix my habit of starting too many books and not just focusing on one. Haha (;
Journaling is also helping me to let go, accept the thoughts as they are, and move on. It's quite interesting how the mind works.
Indeed 😊
I started reading about how to heal my inner child and how to remain peaceful during troubling times! It definitely helps me feel calm throughout the day and I’m able to recognize bad habits
not a book but have you heard "the inner child" podcast by gloria zhang? it's so good :)
When i'm lost, feeling unmotivated and having burnout i always searched your channel you aways motivate, inspires and helps me your words are so awesome and soft
Your voice is really calming, your videos are so aesthetic, and your advices are so good! Whenever I need motivation, I just go to this channel and watch some of your videos! Thank you, Aileen.
I'm thankful that I found your channel last year! Keep inspiring! Love from Philippines! 💙
grateful to have you here :)
Lavendaire She was made for this!
Meditation is a game-changer! I have recently fallen out of the habit, and I can tell how different I feel! Time to get back to it! Love love love your top, that's a great color on you.
Just wanted to say thank you for your videos. I watched one of your videos when I was in a really bad place. I was able to lift my self up by watching your videos and listening to Audiobooks you recommended. I was able to manifest enough money to quit my job and start my own business. I also got to be on TV!!! For the first time!! Giving life lessons to youth on Money management. My life has been changing thanks to your videos. My spirit animal is a snake, meaning I am changing to a new person.
Thank you,
Duncan.
oh i love how you took everything with positive mindset. Last few months I’ve been experiencing depression. I almost end my life just like that. Thank you for making this video. ❤️❤️ you’re truly an inspiration.
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I love how your lipstick matches your dress, red looks really good on you!
Also, thank you for the video, it's exactly what I needed now :D I talked about daily habits with my therapist today and that I should include more if them in my daily routine so your video really helped!
I love you video's it has completely changed my life allready. But the habbits that helped where
1 journaling
2 waking up at 5 am
3 being gratefull
4 setting goals
5 watching motivational videos like yours
Being in nature,dancing,singing,cleaning,writing!
One habit I have started is to read one article from my Positive News magazine every morning as soon as I wake up. It makes me happy for the day! Highly recommend this magazine!!
Honestly my gratitude journal has subconsciously reprogrammed my mind to look for the positive things in my day and it gives me a second to connect w God because I used to overlook SO many things that I am thankful for now and i feel like God gives me more things too look forward too in the coming days 🤗🤗
Wow
Being grateful is the key to better life
I read every night and have for my entire life since I could read (maybe minus a day here and there, I'm 20yo)! It's just so integrated into my routine that it's like brushing my teeth. Honestly, if you just keep doing it, it will become a habit. There's something amazingly relaxing about reading a few pages before going to sleep. I've learnt a lot through novels, whether they're even supposed to be educational/inspiring or not. Books stimulate your brain in a way TV shows etc can't (even though I love visual media too!)
I agree in a sense with number one, but complaining and identifying the cause of problems is an important step to change. It’s just not a state to dwell in. I feel like telling people to never complain or blame the appropriate external factors is dangerous because it implies that everything wrong in the world and your life is your responsibility. Yes, you can only expect yourself to improve things, but you have to be careful not start believing that if you have a struggle it’s all your fault or that you shouldn’t try to change problems in the world.
I read every single day for 1-2 hours. I have to spend 2 hours in a bus, so I try to be productive. ♥
#5 is my favorite. i tend to be dramatic and really focused towards my goals but recently i’ve tweaked my perspective just a little and it’s made me a better person to just be able to let go of my perfectionism, of other’s expectations. it’s not so much about being completely carefree for me but rather remembering that it’s your life at the end of the day, you decide whether you’re enjoying it or not. i would like to thank my ex for leaving me and with her, the constant unnecessary negativity i had grown so used to. 😊
how do I always comment novels on your videos 😳
your hair is gorgeous! you are glowing in this video, thanks for sharing these habits with us
Mentioned that too☺️
She's amazing 😍
She sure is!
Meditation, yoga, journaling, reading ❤️
This is what I really want to hear. That we should stop focusing too much on every detail of our life (focusing on it sometimes falls to being negative) and LOOK AT THE BIGGER PICTURE. Because if we try to look at the bigger perspective, we realize that MOST THINGS ARE INSIGNIFICANT! Thank you so much for making us feel inspired, enjoy life, and that we are not alone.
Omg, listening to you gets me so motivated and been helping me to fight my depression. So greatful for you.
I used to read a lot, a massive number of books when I was a child and young. And several years ago, because social media, tv, series and the whole internet I stoped to do it. But about 5 years ago I try to bring back the habit to me and now I enjoy reading again a lot. It’s relaxing and makes me feel in peace. Love your advices
Red lipstick looks gorgeous on you. You look so happy and content in this video.
One habit that has changed my life is thinking before I speak! I never felt like I was a super malicious person or someone with no filter lol, but there were times when I wouldn't think about the future impact of my words on myself, my image, and other people's images (this usually happened as gossip). If there's anything I've learned, it's that your words will always come back around to you, so if you spread good things through your words you will experience good but it's equally true for bad/harmful things you say without thinking. It'll come back in ways you wouldn't even expect. Just treating everyone with the respect they deserve and remembering that you never know what's really going on in someone's life is a great habit to cultivate ✌️
My 2 habits that changed my life is thru reading inspirational books and reflecting. It teaches me a lot on how to improve myself. Thank you for being an inspiration Ms. Aileen.
Aileen, your existence and your advice, your videos has changed my life. Thank you so much for all your content.
Great point not to just blame others for everything... You only have control over your actions, so change what you CAN change. Thanks for outlining these positive habits/thought patterns. Cheers!
Last month I stopped listening to music on my way to work (about 2 hours total in the car) and started listening to audio books, it’s the best decision, I learned a lot and stopped hating the long ride, actually I am grateful to it.
Honestly, I am so grateful I searched “how to raise your frequency”. I am going to implement meditation to let my inner voice become stronger, but bumping into this video added so much value to me. It was really refreshing too. I haven’t felt a light like this in sermons, business lectures, or anything else of lately. So super grateful. Thank you. You’re inspiring and beautiful! 🤤Thanks again, I’ll definitely be raising my vibration 😁.
Taking myself less seriously is definitely something I'm intentionally practicing, and so far I am loving my life so much more already ♡♡♡
Thank you for these advices, your videos are always amazing and I'm never deceived. Sending you lots of love and support from Tunisia 💗
thank you love
Loveee her videos!
Something that has helped me so much is dancing around my room to music that makes me feel great, making time to primp myself (face masks, nail painting, etc) and only drinking water and lots of it.
I’m really appreciating what books teach me , I turned to another person because I make a habit to read a book each week,however I’m in love with “eat,pray,love” i highly recommend you guys to read it.
Thanks for positive videos 🙏🏻
I agree that reading is a really positive habit. Not only do you learn stuff but it's a really meditative practice which I like. I would just like to recommend reading fiction as well as non-fiction. The life lessons we learn from fiction aren't maybe as clear but I think that's part of what makes it so interesting.
Another habit that's really important to me is to be out in nature. To see trees, flowers and grass. I grew up in the suburbs where this was part of my every day without really thinking about it. Now I live in the city and since nature isn't around the corner anymore I try to actively make time to seek it out. I go to parks on my lunch breaks or take the bus out of the city for forest hikes on weekends. There is just something so grounding about hearing birdsong and the wind in the trees :)
I will start reading again when it’s warmer because now it’s more comfortable to have my hands below the blankets in the evening when it’s getting cold after sunset (I live in my car). I’m looking forward to the warmth and the possibilities I will have during the summer season ❤️
I've started reading everyday since months and I'm absolutely addicted. It's so amazing
I started reading everyday because I made it a part of my morning routine to read at least one page now I read much more than that a day. It’s life changing!!
Reading, taking walks in the outdoors and bullet journaling :)
Looking so gorg! Thank you so much aileen! I've been listening to you every morning and night and whenever I'm filming and it's been a great help! You're changing one's life indirectly. 💗 More power! 👊😊💕
One thing I’ve learnt from watching your channel over the last couple of years is that small, consistent actions taken everyday add up to something great- the compound effect. I’m really grateful for that message, it’s motivating and inspiring when life and work seems too much. Xx
As you are talking it shows how excited you are after dancing and full of energy. I read that book and it definitely is a must read. It’s a financial management course written that gives valuable insight on stewarding money. I read everyday and meditating is what I need to do. I enjoyed this video.
Actually, a lot of what you've mentioned wasn't new for me.
Still, I cried tears of relief because I didn't acknowledge those things.
Maybe as I've heard them been said out loud my brain accepts and honours them.
I am a daily reader 😊 i implemanted this habit about a year ago and i have so much pleasure reading on many subjects... A lifetime wouldn't be enough to read it all so just enjoy what you can read😁
Thanks for this inspiring video
Love from morocco
Feels like a podcast. your voice is so smooth...
this made my day your energy and just pure joy and expressing who you are just so inspirational it makes me smile so much. You bring me so much joy and I think this way your best video yet, the attitude and ugh i just adore your personality
BEAUTIFULLY SAID Lavendaire!! Your morning videos are so refreshing. I love it! Reading inspiring books has CHANGED my life! Nope I don’t read every day but when I do... it makes me feel amazing. Had to stop editing my video to come check yours out.- From a self-love content creator to another THANK YOU beauty! 💞
Me too😂👌
I love your channel 😏
@@nelewruck4316 agreed :-)
Nele Sunnymoon Yay! Thank you for checking it out doll 😘❤️
theFitty 🤗😘💕
@@F0reverblessed 😘❤️always
Every morning i start with gratitudes and meditation 😃❤️
love your voice when you speak English, you know that you are my motivation
*raise hand* I do read nearly every day ! Not as much as I did as a kid/teen when I didn't have internet and had only books to occupy my time, sadly, but I aim to go back to it little by little. I love to read & need to occupy myself during subway rides to school/work, so that's easy, I just need to think about putting my book in my bag... But I'm doing fine on this :D
Did I paused to go write a page of things I'm grateful for ? Yep. Yep I did. Thanks for the reminder ! I'm not sure I want to do it every single day, but two or three times a week could do me some good.
Meditation is also something I need to work on, I feel the same, it does a lot of good but I can't seem to make the habit stick.
Thank you for this video !
YAY! I've shoving positive inspo sources down my throat to work up some courage before filming and I'm so glad to see this uploaded this morning!! Thanks Aileen for the sharing your light
I read everyday 🙋🏼♀️ I love reading self help and law of attraction books, it makes me feel SO positive and better! Practicing gratitude will ABSOLUTELY change your life! 💚
you seem so happy in this video! this habits series is my new favourite series from you
I kind of clicked on your video reluctantly, thinking I've seen enough videos about positive habits but I really liked yours! I'm definitely buying the book you recomended, and The power of now. I haven't gotten to meditating yet, but what you said about it helping with intuition struck a chord for me. Thank you!
I love your habits ! My favourite would be reading
I played this as a podcast while cleaning my room. It really helped.
Wow amazing effect 😃
You've shown me so many books that are really inspiring and have changed my life. My goal this year was to read one book a month but I have fallen off track, need to get back into the game :)
I’m lucky to see this video and this channel!
I have been studying English and I’m trying to change my mind!
I love your mind!
I’m going to learn English and happy mind from this channel✨✨✨
I will watch this TH-cam’s video again and again!!!
I’m looking forward watching new video!!
I agree with practicing gratitude daily being a game changer 💕
Thank you! Before coming across your channel, I've never thought about life as an art. I resonate with the phrase : life is an art. Make your master piece.
I can be more focused and appropriate more of my life thanks to you, Irene.
Hi ! I read everyday ! First, it's a big part of my Morning Routine. When I got a break,I read. I read for my work, and it's a part of my Nigth Routine. The most important thing that change my life is meditation, I meditate every single day, on mornings and every time I've got a break and don't know what to do, I meditate. Medidate makes me realize that nothing matters as much as the present and it was difficult for me to agree with this before. Now it's obvious in my mind.
I really enjoy your video Aileen ❤
(Sorry for my english, it's pretty hard for me to write it correctly ^-^)
I've been trying to read more because I love to do it but I'm realizing that the books I'm reading are not my type and that's why I haven't been able to commit into reading them. I'm gonna check your favorite books in case there's something that might change my frustration. Thank you for this video 💜
My positive habit that I’m sticking to it is meditate and journaling. I’m now changing my life because of you inspired me. Thank you ❤️
Hi Aileen! Would you be able to post an updated video on how to care for the environment/ reduce plastic usage? You're so inspirational it would make a strong impact on others to encourage them to do their part
Just recently came from your 5 year anniversary video, and this new video came up!
Both of those videos were amazing, well done!
Belated Happy 5th anniversary to Lavendaire!
This TH-cam channel has been amazing and it helped me cope with my daily life since the day I discovered it.
Keep up the good work.
-Joseph, a loyal fan from the Philippines
Joseph UY PINOY
aww glad you're here
She’s awesome like that!
I've been reading every single day and that's completely changing my mind! ✨
And I just finished reading "The Power of Now" and it's an amazing book!
*THESE are the videos we NEED!*
Who else raised their energy all the way up watching this??
agreed
Love this new set-up. Now your videos look even lighter than before! Also, I try to read every day. If I really don't feel like it, I'll at least try to read 10 pages. However, I do get into reading slumps once in a while. Things can't always be perfect, right? :)
Very right 😉
It's amazing you do that in the first place. I also love reading😍
What are you currently reading, if you don't mind me asking?
@Bossgirl Society I'm going to start trying that too! :-) if you're up to it, we can keep each other accountable and updated.
@@Thefitty I usually read fiction books. Just started the House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros.
yeah!! something else I've started to do is build a habit to clean for 10 min a day. I'll let things pile up but doing a little bit a day has make a big difference
I do read every single day I’ve been doing that for years!😊
Love this! I have a gratitude journal and I write down 10 things im grateful for when I wake up. Really helps start my day on a positive tone. ☺️
I read every single day while I take a bath. It's the most relaxing, rejuvenating habit I've picked up in the last few months.
Oh, and the part about reading inspiring / self-growth books is everything!! I started buying those and suddenly I read soooo much more because I see that I take so much value out of it 💪
Nice to know 😀
I cannot choose a favorite Lavendaire video. They’re all so insightful and upbeat. But,, I love the Truth about Success.
Gratitude journal really helps🙂
my positive habit that changed my life is watching your videos. it motivates me to just focus and be grateful with my life.
❤️😃
Love your video! One of my new years resolution is to read more books!
It’s been very nice to read books before I go to bed☺️
You really change my self esteem when you talk so peacefully and happy, and it remind me that life doesn´t need to be so hard as you think. Thanks for that
I read every day and i love it. I do have a hard time practicing meditation every day, too. Trying to get more consistent here. Sending love from Germany
Nice to see Germans in this channel 😀
I was impressed with your voice, confidence, tips, ... Your negative energy has made me more love life. Especially, I can learn English through your channel. Thanks so much! Keep going 🥰🥰, love from Vietnam 🇻🇳
I’m so grateful these types of videos are out there for me at such a young age , I don’t know what I’d do if I didn’t learn any of these
Hi Aileen. I read every single day and the last year I red 33 books. I love so much reading... It is so important for changing our lives. Thank you for this video📚📚📚📚📚
Hi Aileen, I've been a follower of yours for a long time and I truly hope for your success always :) With that being said, I just want to be honest and say that I'm starting to worry about how some of your points have an insensitive tone :'( When you talked about how getting knowledge will lead people out of poverty (when you talked about the book "The richest man in babylon"), I began wondering...getting that knowledge is one thing and having the capability to get that knowledge in the first place is another
Fraffee Tan thanks for this comment. I didn’t know how to say it.
Yeah I think in this video she had a “first world” perspective. Not everyone has the same opportunities.
Thank you for this comment ! I thought I was the only one to think that about the video (especially the first "habit") and even though it can be true that we have the power to change our life, there are basic factors that can make it more difficult (not everyone has the chance to be born in a wealhty family and to live in L.A. ;) ) ! Anyway, thank you for aknowledging that ! :)
Hmmm yeah right. Not everyone indeed.
I agree! Not everyone has the same privileges
You look so beautiful today! It brought a smile to my face seeing you so happy and energetic. Sending you a virtual hug! You are a beautiful being inside and out! Thank you so much for this video!
I'm currently reading this book "the Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up" ---i remember you recommand this one before!
I already get the book " The Richest Man In Babylon" since you recommand it so badly!
Watched this video after a really tough day of work... and these tips definitely struck home ❤️ thanks for being such an inspiration!
One of my biggest habits would be to pray but to also constantly remind myself its a marathon and not a race. I also have to remember to give myself credit for the small things instead of focusing on why I am not onto the bigger wins.
You nailed it
U have just changed my mind .....tq for making such a beautiful videos for us thnx alot❤️❤️✨✨