VULNERABLE VLOG~MOVING FROM NIGERIA TO CANADA TOOK THESE PRIVILEGES AWAY FROM ME😪🇳🇬🇨🇦
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 มี.ค. 2024
- Moving from Nigeria to Canada took these privileges away from me.
In this video, I expressed how and why I had been feeling down for some days, the seemingly little things that I used to enjoy back home has been almost non existent here.
I’m always and forever grateful to be here in Canada but in all honesty, it’s not the same as where I was born and raised;Nigeria.
I guess that is life! Change is inevitable,it is what it is.
It’s also okay to acknowledge my feelings,the best part is that I shared it with you, yes you!🤗
Feel free to speak back to me in the comment section❤️
Lmaooo 😂 I was laughing and crying at the same time with you, thank you for sharing your vulnerability but not in a “pity me” way more like gist gist. Please vlog your hair process and post it (if you can) you found favor in aunty Kenny, you might not get charged but you can “pay” her back by back by getting her customers who would pay for her services, that would be really nice. Sending you love and hugssss Mrs B! Love youuuu💛🫡
I laughed and cried with you too dear. It's good to air out your feelings, I call it 'venting out the stuffy rooms in your mind' it's therapeutic. I feel you. Stay blessed always❤
You're welcome and we're always here to listen to you❤️❤️❤️
You’re so funny…even with how emotional the video is,I enjoyed your ranting and I’m sending you hugs to cope in Canada.❤
I resonate so much with this video and shed a few tears with you. It is well!
I’m not even surprised Aunty Teni and Aunty Kenny are good to you, you’re so genuine and thoughtful.
If it was another person, they’d have probably taken advantage of the free hair thingyyy.
And I also want to Canada🥹❤️
Big B your spirit is genuine and I wish I can help you ease your worries😢 but you getting there soon cheer up.
Hi blessing. I hope you feel better now after talking to us. Well, we are holding your hands virtually right now. It would get better. Love you b!
Blessing you've made me laugh, smiled and sad with you. Dont worryy you'll adapt by God's grace❤
I was laughing and crying with you. Your emotions are valid. It will be better.
This was so genuinely warm. ❤❤
Girllll, the way I felt this video 😭😭 everything is just so expensive. God abeg
Hi dear, just know it gets better! Don’t worry 🥰
You made me cried 🥹🥹 sending you virtual hugs 🫂
oh my. It's how u are moving from tears to laugh. Omo, this is a whole change. You see that hair thing God will help me when i reach
It will get better soonest Big B❤
Sending you hugs!! 🤗🥰
You made me cry too 😢
It's as if you just called meeting for all Nigerians here in Canada to gather and cry and laugh while you express our pains on our behalf. I miss Nigeria so bad😭😭😭
Oh B, she'll still find a way to smile and be humorous even in tears 😅.. The Lord strengthen you, and make easy ways for you ❤❤
Ma worry, you go dey ok jare. No cry fine girl
Awww sending you hugs sis
By the way, you look so pretty😍😍
And your skin is glowing and flourishing
Omo I can relate!!!!!! Chaii… I think door dash can be very helpful for ordering around your area. Sometimes it could be pricy sha but once in a while you can enjoy. I enjoyed on recently, Made’s kitchen around GTA.
Always looking forward to watching your videos
Eyah…. It good u were able to express yourself 🤗
11:07 got me feeling every emotion all at once 😩😩😂😂
I relate with you on few things, being expressive which could get me emotional and possibly lead to tearing up, but there’s a calm that comes after. And yes, don’t pity me, don’t say sorry, I am fine. 😅😅
I don’t like calls either except family and friends. Nonetheless, I am intentional about nurturing my relationships.
I love that you’re expressive about how you feel, and I am of the opinion that we acknowledge people’s feelings as valid. Big hugs 🤗 ❤
Glad you feel better💜💜
My favourite content creator ❤❤❤❤
You are strengthened blessing🙏🏽
GOD would strengthen you and your husband
May the blessings be
I’m in this same shoe, you just spilled out all that’s in my mind ❤
Sister B I too love you you❤, I love the way you express yourself ❣️.
Sincerely, i laughed all through this video 🤣🤣. I am in your shoes right now
I’m just laughing and crying😂😂❤
Lots of love dear🫂
It is well
why does this look soooooo real. i found a story teller yipeeeeeeee🎉🎉🎉🎉
This vlog is filled with tears and laughter for me cos j can so relate
That time zone is something else entirely 😫🥺🥺 I can’t even talk about what it did to my relationship! It’s well sha
Hey mama
Thank you for sharing
I think it will be a good idea to take something along when going for your next hair appointment.
Like something that will show that you appreciate her without it looking like you’re trying to pay her 😅☺️☺️❤️
God bless and help you in Jesus Name
Sister B don drop some gems again.❤❤❤
Not me crying and laughing 😢😂
You will be fine ❤
Omoooo, you’re so lovable❤❤❤❤ the tears, so sorry. I pray that Nigeria will be great again and everyone can return home
I’ll be glad. There is no place like home
Amen ooo
The ponmo part is so hilarious 😂 , not you saying you’ve been keeping it like a museum. 😂😂
You are very right Blessing and your feelings are genuine.
Since I got in here, I have only made my hair just 3 times. Omo, it’s been a wig lifestyle. Ko easy rara.
It’s expensive…. I’m learning to do my cornrow myself.
Also, converting to naira doesn’t help us at all. So have told myself to stop doing that.
I also miss having to walk into a store just across ur house to get some things. It’s crazy actually cos this is the reality.
To order meals like you said too isn’t the same, the time and delivery . Driving down makes to pick up makes it better but you look at the price and you are like let me just go and cook, that’s even for someone who owns a car.
To even hang out sef, you go overthink an again and again cos jumping from one bus to the other or the train, no be beans . Not sure convenient.
In all, I guess it’s just with time we will adjust well.
As a newlywed!!!!! Tbh you are balancing a whole lot with relocation! E choke but you’re doing welllllllllllll , your feelings are valid !!! I feel like sending you ponmo because of those tears 😢
Organic rodo killled me 😭😭😂😂
Blessing, I totally feel you. It is well.
That hair part ehn so real and people in Nigeria when you make video call, will be like you didn’t make your hair ni. Am in that free hair situation now and am really ashamed to ask again exactly like you Blessing.
Your type is rare especially when you talked about intentionally reaching out and keeping in touch with people regardless of the time zone variation. Indeed, it's a rarity and by the way, I enjoyed the vlog. 🙏🙏
Love your sincerity ❤❤
This girl 😂🤣🤣😂😂 I laughed and cried too 😢😢 I feel your pain ☹️☹️ don’t worry everything will be fine soon
Not me crying with you 😂😂 you'll be fine my dear ❤🤗
Awww!!! I’ve just met a cry cry baby just like me. I can relate, it’s normal to feel this way especially because you’re still relatively new in Canada with time you will adjust. I reside in Uk and this brings back memories. Love you dear.
😂 yes oh, I cry easily. I’m a very emotional person. Thank you for the encouragement , I don dey adjust small small😁💕💕💕
Awww you're missing home❤ giving you tight virtual hugs ❤❤❤
😂 I miss home since the first day I left, even before I left gan. I just run away from the thoughts cos I used to feel it’s too early to miss home but it’s not jare.if you miss it, you miss it noni
Aww.. I'm teary 🥺❤
I just love your vibe❤😂 I hope you’re feeling better now😊
😂😂 yes! Thank you so much 💕
You should have told us to carry tissue na because this is so relatable
You see the hair part the braids I came to UK with in July I loosened it Oct (like I carried it for that long 😩) since Oct till present day it’s been all back oooo
Change is constant but no one gave us coping mechanism 🥹
Nutrition is just so expensive. When I travelled to Nigeria a few years ago, I came back with chubby cheeks ehn. Kai! It is well
Nobody is talking about how blessing skin is glowing 🥺🥺, girll your skinn is skining 😩🥺🥺🥰
Yeahhhhhh,sweet glow
Sending you lots of love 😘
My baby 😭😭😭 it felt like it was me you were speaking to when you said you don’t want to loose people you care about so much 😭😭😭 I cried and laughed all through ❤
Please Mrs blessing stay strong you will be fine by God's grace 🙏
I’m fine, I’m very very fine😂 I just wanted to express what I had been keeping. That’s all. I’m good oh. Thank you so much ❤️
Wo Blessing you’re making me emotional 😢
I love the laugh’s inbetween😂
You will be fine darling🤗
I prefer chatting to calling
Me tooooooooooo. Just text me please 😂
Smiles, You really wake both feelings (sad and happy). God be with you. Why not consider them sending from Nigeria to you. Those dry stuffs, pomo, fish, ogbono, and the rest.
The “don’t check on me” sent me😭😭
I love you sis ❤❤❤❤…. We miss you
You see this hair matter, I have cried too. Canada has shown me shege. Thank God for the gift of Aunty Teni and Aunty Kenny for you. I still have not found any hairstylist like Mummy Oyikan and GoldRush of Nigeria😢
Big love❤️
I love you so much Aunty B ❤ hugs and kisses from your sugar baby
It’s how you’re laughing and crying at the same time for me😹😹❤️
“If you like, comment” lol. Blessing you’re too cute 😂😂😂
OMG! Blessing, you’re so funny!😂😂 I love how you’re laughing in between tears.😂😂 Kpele, my dearrrr!❤
😂😂😂💕
This video is just funny. You have a beautiful smile.🙂
Please don't cry sister B🥺
You are so interesting ❤️I like you and this video made me laugh and cry with you😂❤️
This vlog is so real!😅
You made me laugh likeee😂 sorry🤗 really there are things we flexibly do at home and don't really know the gravity until we are outside.
Not me crying here 😂😂…. Dear God, I miss You so much ❤.
You will be fine, the way some of us wish we are there and experiencing this . 😂😂😂
You are beautiful my dear blessings…don’t think too much on your weight
Blessing is just like me
When I’m happy I will cry
When I’m sad same 😂😂It’s all good boo❤️❤️
Have been waiting for a new blog like forever because am hooked. Happy Easter Blessing ❤
Is well o😂😢 Me wey dey Naija sef don’t even have the luxury of ordering food and all those stuff, whether I’m tired or not I go cook or my son will starve😂
I pray God gives me an opportunity to live a better life sha 🙏🏻
Blessing 😂😂😂😂😂. This is so interesting ❤❤❤
Sorry sis blessing, you'll be fine,not me wishing i was there and experiencing this 😂😂😂
I miss ordering food too 😭 Goshhhhh, cooking sometimes is annoying and stressful. Buying food here is a luxury and a once in a while thing 😭
Hi blessing, why not buy your foodstuff from Nigeria? You can get what lasts for 4-5 months (depends on how much you can afford) even 2 months. It saves money too if you look at it. Say 150- 200$ worth of food. what would take the most money would be waybill and in all honesty, it’s still very affordable depending on the weight❤️
That's ordering food! Would open and close uber eat several times a day but nothing to order 😆. Then managing stuff, hmmm I kept snail so much till it started spoiling in my freezer cos I didn't want it to finish. Sigh 😢
The way I’m crying and laughing at the same time. That ponmo part got me too much😂😂
11:31 cracks me up 😅 Apologies Mrs.B but all point are valid truly
Take virtual hug 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗
This babe is a vibe!!😂
😂😂
This is making me feel like I am pregnant, with the way I have been following blessing to cry
🤣🤣🤣🤣 hormones
Hormones can be very crazy and make you wail over the way someone smiled at you. Lol@@Miss_Bsmith
Don't worry you will be fine.
Oh yes definitely ❤️
That's how I borrowed someone money, it's going to be a year in May. She didn't say anything about the money and I didn't ask either. I just deleted her number with annoyance, good riddance 😩 I've got to notice that if I borrowed out money I don't use to get it back.
I'm so sorry 😂. This is funny and touching at the same time. I laughed at you small sha. I understand how you feel. Living abroad is not easy. Fear of losing long time friends is not talked about enough. You have to be extra extra intentional about remaining friends. I was good at making friends years ago but I feel like I'm not good at it anymore. I relocated to Canada recently and I never make any friends 😂😂😂
You’re right and I still thought about this friendship thing yesterday, the part of intentionally trying to remain friends, I think it has to come from both parties and not just the person abroad alone. I’m not going to be hard on myself again, if you’re my friend back at home and you’ve decided to not put any effort just because you feel I’m abroad and too busy then I can’t be the only one putting effort and worrying about time difference and what not. It has to be mutual effort. Grateful for my friends that understand this🙏
@Miss_Bsmith That's the spirit! Don't beat yourself up too much. Lord knows you do your best. Everything will be alright. ❤️❤️❤️
I would cry when I first came, now honestly Canada is my home and I had to make it feel like home for me. I don't miss out on my african delicacies and building great network of friends, so far I think the only thing I lack is access to hairdressers (I miss Lati that makes my hair).
That ordering food part is what I relate to alotttttt 😢😢😢…. Na so so chips and vegetables them get for here…. Sometimes I just want to go into a restaurant and buy jollof rice, swallow etc without breaking my bank account 😂😭😭
New vlog🎉
I can so relate, some days can be so hard
No be lie my sister but we thank God.
What about going on low cut or locs ,Your choice though,It can only get better dear, What about church friends or other friends that can make hair❤❤❤❤❤ take care dear
So relatable😢😢😢😢
Your skin🔥🔥🔥🥰🥰
Blessing😂😂😂
I just Dey laugh😆
I'm pitying you and laughing at the same time😂. Thank you for being vulnerable with us. I pray God blesses you so much that you won't have to manage those resources and in turn not making your nutrition suffer. I understand your perspective. I'm a Nutritionist too. Pele maidear ❤