My sister Mrs Josephine Akinrinola is a very diligent and hardworking woman. She's a family friend that I know very well and does not deserve what she got from her so call husband. If not for her health status that is posing as a limitation, she wouldn't have bothered about this man.
Thank you ma. All she needs now is assistance to have her surgery done and also take care of her kids. She has really tried and even as an SS she is still bold and brave. I guess her faith is holding her. I love her spirit✊️💪
27:14 This Lady your help all over the world I which Iam one of the millions IN this country Should have help Her because I have this kind of experience before My God will help you IN Jesus Might name amen Good Mother
Oh my God. This is very touchy. Alot of lessons to learn from this episode. For singles, don't just jump into relationship anyhow. Pray and seek counsel. The truth is, there people who don't deserve you. So be careful mingling with such people. I pray for quick recovery from her health challenge. I just like her boldness.
Smart, strong ,brave woman !! I didn't see a tear drop as she recounted her ordeal - that animal doesn't deserve your tears. May God see you through,my sister
How justice wan take prevail here? The aroba no get money, as you can see. He has other children who I am sure are not also properly cared for. Nothing can be done to the man to alleviate this situation. It's now a case of a wrong decision made, that will stay with you for a life time.
Do you think a woman will see a wrong man then go ahead and marry him. It's just sad that some good people go through hell in the hands of monster partners.
@@kaluafasi8737if you listen to the story very well, his bad attitude even made him drop out of 2 universities only that suppose make u run self 👩🏼🦯👩🏼🦯👩🏼🦯
Intelligent, well-educated, brave and lovely young lady. On the other hand, the husband's demeanour, is that of a cold calculating hard-hearted person. He reminds me of the foot soldiers of the Mafia or Drug cartels. Not surprised he was into cultist a.k.a criminal gangs. I've had a very close relative with the sickle cell ailment. It can be so debilitating. I wish this lady God's blessings, good health and progress.
That's what they do. Always want ti reap where they dud nit sow and play the good father when they are grown. It gappenrd to me. My children father never gave one pound to their uo bringing. I never put him down to them at all. But at the grown age he is playing the good father SMH. Some mothers give birth to dogs
I feel very sad watching this situation happening to this well trained and well brought up lady; a virgin at 26! well educated, with a good banking job; with Masters. But unfortunately fell in the wrong hand, because of her low esteem due to her health problems. May God help her out of her predicament.
This lady has tried... She's from a good home & well brought up... The husband has issues with anger.... GOD will heal her emotions in Jesus name... A very sad story..
Anyone who abuses another person, physically or mentally, whether man or woman, is a punk. I have absolutely no respect for such individual. NOBODY has the right to put their hands on anyone, unless i n self-defense, period!
Sad sad story😢I noticed the way she kept acknowledging her parent’s support and you can tell having them has helped her this far. She’s definitely loved and is a daddy’s girl.
Being an SS girl made her parent to show love to her from childhood and every parent will do that. She’s just unfortunate to have met an wicked animal in human skin. Not all animals are wicked I must say. None of your daughters will ever come in contact with this kind of man. Ayo is terribly wicked.
@@temitopeayilara5857 God bless you for this your comment, I tell ladies outside, please leave money behind(,I'm not devaluing the importance of money in marriage ) Kindness goes a long way, a partner with kind words and supportive actions will help you fly higher in your path. From what the lady has said so far, she's unfortunate to have met with an unkind human
I can say because of her genotype status, she thought to get a husband will be difficult. Otherwise, she forseen the calibre of the man before venture into the marriage. Rusticated in two universities because of cultists, hooliganism, lazy and joblessness. She believes, she can change him.
You are very correct sir. When I heard that in her testimony, I knew that was a red flag but being who she is, she fell into that error, nothing can be built on something. He such an irresponsible fellow and I hope Judge Funmi will allow him to face the wrath of the law.
She was wrong to think that a good responsible man would not be interested in her, wish others in her situation would learn that they are worthy of love even if they have sickle cell.
It happens to other people too. It depends on how the man approaches, and how well connected to see husband, or when meeting abroad where many people lie and hide all these rustication matters/cult etc. Many do similar jobs like driving, ancillary nurse etc. So one may not know caliber of another in a place where it may not always be possible to meet other eligible people from same country.
The man is just cruel, allowing the lady go through those traumatic experiences is not good at all. Blessed be the parents of the lady who stood and are still standing by her, the man should be made to pay heavily. Thank you your honour.
Wishing her well. It's really not easy. A man rusticated by two universities, not being responsible didn't start today. May God keep you and may you enjoy the fruits of your labour.
It's a pity, she saw d signs but was blinded by love. Her health issue was another hindrance. May God Almighty continue to assist her and protect her children.
I was disappointed even with the little defence he put out. "My father and mother never had a Wema bank account" Me - but you meet at Wema bank. What a defence
From the very start, a multitude of red flags she waved. Despite the toll it took on her well-being and the strain it placed on her family ties, she endured the relationship, eventually finding herself bound in marriage. The man believed he was doing her a favour. He showed little regard for her parents, and even after he left, he showed no interest in raising the three children together. He should just do the right thing.
She dampened her case immediately she mentioned that the man had many other children. Always state facts, relating to your case. Let gossip and idle talk be.
@@jaylagbu1729 If he had other children out of wedlock, he's a criminal. So mentioning other children is a point against him not against her. It's not gossip. He's a criminal to have treated that lady and her family that way. He should pay to the last penny what she/they had spent and sign for upkeep of the wife and the children henceforth, otherwise the marriage should be officially annulled.
Evil and wicked. Whatever you sow in life, u will reap. God sits high and he looks low. God will see you through my sister, just pray and trust God, he will come through for you and your family. God always make a way.
Never knew Josephine was a sickle cell carrier while we worked together at the bank. She was always lively and making everyone happy. So sad to learn she went through all these.
The woman is a beautiful soul. She should have seen the red flags from the onset. Madam you are better off without this human being you are calling husband.
She saw it, she was even warned by her boss but we women always want to be loved and wanted especially in a situation where the lady gets pregnant for a guy, even though the man is terrible, because he is their child’s father, they would want to still go ahead and marry the man. It’s really sad but that’s what the Nigerian/African society has turned women into.
This has been pasted before. See below. You can reach her through the justice court. No. 53, Oritshe Street off Obafemi Awolowo way by balogun Bus stop ikeja, Lagos
This is a very sad story. I felt like seeing the man and talk sense and reality to him. The lady with a bright future from good home met a rascal. She saw it from day 1, he was rusticated from 2 schools. That should have been a red flag to her. May the Lord continue to strengthen the lady and heal her completely.
My daughter I really thank God for giving you the strength to look after yourself and the children. May God bless your parents too, they are wonderful. The Lord will fight the war for you, please continue to look after yourself and the children. Continue to pray without stopping
This is a sad story. It’s so heartbreaking that you married the wrong person, despite your health status. But I appreciate your parents, particularly your Dad. It’s so evident that you are greatly loved by them and that’s why you have been so strong. This man doesn’t deserve you at all!
@@jaysenossai7165 ,she said from about 5 minutes and 5 seconds in to the video to 5:30 minutes and seconds in to the video that he was secure jobs and he even drove his boss lady`s car ,but he did not support her so she said that she accepted her fate .So his having a job did his wife and his family no good.
This woman is really a survival,, Wow, A sickle cell patient, she's too strong, brave, intelligent and respectful, I love you mama and kudos to the parents of the woman.
Oh my God! Thank you wonderful daddy and mommy...May God keep you people...Young lady God will help you.. Kamar is real,all of us will get whatever we sow.
Some people rather have their kids with one person, and with her condition, probably that was why she gave him a second chance. He is just a useless and irresponsible person.
From the look of things, he’s the unsettled type, the type that often avoids responsibilities and never ready for permanent relationships. May God let this lady eat the fruits of her labor. May she live long to see her children’s children in good health.
This debate there is the other side we're not being told. When relationship is sour every party has something I mean bad to say... Marriage should not be premised on material things...
Sad story. Many men often have serious Weaknesses and some have difficulty to change. And when this happens women have great challenges in marriage. But at the end of it all God will always stand by these women. The men get the stick from God no matter how long it takes.
This woman is the best, she’s the most honest woman. Am also SS and I limp, live in the UK with my wife and children who are all Nigerian British. I was offered the hip replacement procedure which is free here in the uk for me but I differed it due to my job as a Nurse.
I'm sorry to ask this question, why do you differed it please? I'm SS based in UK and awaiting Total hip replacement, at the moment I'm limping to walk, do you think is not good to go for the surgery?
@@maryajayi3194 it is really good to go for the operation. Currently, I have asked for a referral to ask questions. I wanted to practice more years in my Nursing profession and save more money before going for the hip replacement as it would keep me at home for almost 3months
Because you are SS does not mean you mean you should settle for this kind of human being. women don't marry out of emotion There is somebody God has greated to be your better half.
Abimbola was my childhood friend we grew up together at Orile, we both attended same church as a born again Christian then and have alway known her as a very decent girl. All through our stay she was a vigin am sure of it. We lost contact when I got married in 2005 and they move to badagry side even her ever first boyfriend left her because she refuse to have sex with him. Can't believe she could end up with this kind of man.
Most virgins end up marrying losers. I tell women, don't keep virginity cos you want to please your future hubby. No human is worth it rather, Keep your virginity cos you want to please yourself and your God.
This is so sad 😢, that lady need support for her leg. Can't wait for the continuing part. Doing a wonderful job Judge Funmi. More grease to your elbow Ma 💪❤🙏.
@liveevent, that's not true. I had a surgery in 2019 and I signed by myself when my wife wasn't around. I don't see any reason why women need another person to sign before they can have their operations.
Don’t even bother to hear from the wicked animal in human skin because people like that can lie. Men like this dark-headed man are only interested in opening the leg of anything in skirt.
@@ststephen5261You are funny and I want to believe you're joking. It is very apparent that no sane, reasonable, responsible man would do what that animal, rogue, hardened criminal of a man did to that woman.
Very meticulous, she remembered everything that happened. The parent contributed to her ordeal because they shouldn't have consented to the man's pleas when he came back the second time. Her health status was not the reason she fell into wrong her. I know a woman that Is married for about 25 years now, she is SS, husband AS and two of the children SS and they are living perfectly, the man is taking good care of them till now. May we not fall into a wrong hand.
Nothing like having a supportive partner ooo..If you don't have that pls stay single till you meet one.Never ever think you can change any1.The man was irresponsible from the start.May we not gi into a wrong place in the name of love😢😢😢😢I pitu for the lady.May God heal her nd send her a real man as a partner.
I'm so moved by the story of this woman. An SS genotype who is academically flying and on top of her career. Unfortunately, a leopard can not change his colour, but i can understand why you stooped so low to accommodate a riff-raff and academic dropout. I'm so impressed by you, woman. You can do better without him. Your life and happiness really matter, considering your health situation. The Lord will give you long life beyond any human comprehension. Also i want to give kudos to your parents for the efforts they put up to raise you to this stage, it's not easy your father na man he be❤
This is disheartening. But above all, as a lady never put yourself in a situation where a man marry you out of pity. If he's not interested in marrying you, never force it. It doesn't usually end well. If he's a rif raff. Stay away from him. Do not ever feel the pressure to marry a man/loser because he disvirigined you.
Its the father drawing to tears that breaks my soul🥺 i pray somone sees this video and see you tru surgery so you can be fit to go bk to work. Thats what you truly need. You dont need this man at all. Hes giing to wreck your life more especially when he starts taking forced responsibility. I feel for you madame and i pray you bounce back to health ,get another job and raise your kids with your amazing parents. Just like you sd you can be thier father and mother plus your support system. What you need is health and job not this ! Please able Nigerias surpport this beautiful soul 😢🙏🏽 and may your pockets nevrr run dry. I dnt know why this is more of a norm in marriages. Gud ones with bad ones all the time . They never go for thier kinds! Ladies and gentlemen with prospect be wise, remember some matches are made in heaven but majority are made in hell! May God help us all.
Thanks sis 🙏 Please, how can one reach you? I have the contact information of the woman. I wouldn't know if help can come for her through this platform.
He started his submission on a baseless platform, he met her at the Bank no more no less. I hope after the judgement, other irresponsible men like him will get sense.
Right, I wondered where he was going with those statements. Talking about what bank his parents have etc... like what does that have to do with anything?
This woman was subjected to undeserved trauma by a very callous man, who knew that SS patient as wife is for only a dedicated and caring man. Abadoning her with three kids is unforgivable.
So much irresponsible man and fathers in our nation now. Where are the core values, morals, and family settings gone nowadays. And doing this to a sickle cell patient with all her health challenges. This is the highest form of wickedness among humanity.
The society has really undergone serious decadence due to absence of fathers and presence of irresponsible fathers. It is so sad. The pillars of families are trash, what would you expect from the family, it will surely collapse. Sad, just sad
That is a great idea. We can go ahead to do it. It will go a long way to save a life/lives. Justice Court should paste this woman's information on this page for donations to come or they make their contact available so we can reach out to them in order to help her and her innocent children.
Daddy is so heart broken, three whole children and a sickle cell patient
I can’t even imagine the struggles….God is faithful to have kept her
My sister Mrs Josephine Akinrinola is a very diligent and hardworking woman. She's a family friend that I know very well and does not deserve what she got from her so call husband. If not for her health status that is posing as a limitation, she wouldn't have bothered about this man.
Thank you ma. All she needs now is assistance to have her surgery done and also take care of her kids. She has really tried and even as an SS she is still bold and brave. I guess her faith is holding her. I love her spirit✊️💪
27:14 This Lady your help all over the world I which Iam one of the millions IN this country Should have help Her because I have this kind of experience before My God will help you IN Jesus Might name amen Good Mother
From the begining you should cancel the relationship
Is there a way we can reach out to her?
It's obvious she would have been better off but God knows best.
This man should pay child support till the end of his life or go to jail. I'm watching from Dallas Texas
I think the judge will do her job here.
You are an ODE, do you think this is that corrupt country called America?
Those watching from Nigeria, are also full-fledged human beings.
There is no child support in Nigeria from this kind of arrangement.
😂❤
This lady's bravery must be commended. With her condition, she pursued her dreams, Masters degree. God blees you Madam.
Oh my God. This is very touchy. Alot of lessons to learn from this episode. For singles, don't just jump into relationship anyhow. Pray and seek counsel. The truth is, there people who don't deserve you. So be careful mingling with such people. I pray for quick recovery from her health challenge. I just like her boldness.
God bless the father of this lady. She’s A Brave Woman… God Grant Her Peace And Joy She Deserves.
This is so serious
Its unfortunate that well trained people tend to meet up with the untrained ones and turn their life's upside down
God will surely punish him.
I have adult daughters. I'm sad about this issue.😭
She did the right thing to try to help him to become a responsible person, but she waited too long to be out of his life
This here is a fact!
Yeah! Well educated but she didn't use her brain even when the man had showed that he is a son of pharaoh.
Smart, strong ,brave woman !! I didn't see a tear drop as she recounted her ordeal - that animal doesn't deserve your tears. May God see you through,my sister
Exactly
When u have real support from your family u don’t need to cry infront of devil!
Is this true life story please?
@@maximumgames3265yes
@@maximumgames3265yes, very true
HERE IN AMERICA THIS MAN WOULD HAVE TO NOT JUST PAY CHILD SUPPORT BUT BACK PAYMENT AS WELL. HE IS A CRUEL PERSON 💔💔💔
they come on social media swearing up and down that all African men take care of their kids while calling American men deadbeats. They are not better.
🐖 he is
He is shupt man
Probably in prison. He’s a sociopath
it's a great destroctive element, he must be jail and if gov.fail to do this then God will intervened to this case quickly 😢😢😢
This woman parents are heroes
May they reap the fruits in Jesus' name
Whu did he BOTHER with HER.
This lady is too nice and respectful responsible reserved she doesn't deserve this man
I tell you, well raised woman, still saying my dear and respectively addressing him, ohhh mine
I don't know why the good ones are so unlucky
Tears rolling down my cheeks for the Petitioner. Let justice take its course and may God see her through.
How justice wan take prevail here? The aroba no get money, as you can see. He has other children who I am sure are not also properly cared for.
Nothing can be done to the man to alleviate this situation.
It's now a case of a wrong decision made, that will stay with you for a life time.
Case of heart ruling head.
Women must learn to see the red flags and and develop a plan to deal with the abuse.
This lady is strong and focused.
Done wìd de man leave him and live
Happily ever after.
Tears roll out my eyes as well while hearing the pathetic story
According to Mrs Awosika, the greatest disservice a woman can do herself is marrying a wrong Man.😢😢😢 she is such a nice soul with a wrong man.
Do you think a woman will see a wrong man then go ahead and marry him. It's just sad that some good people go through hell in the hands of monster partners.
@@kaluafasi8737yes woman pick wrong guys all the time
@@kaluafasi8737 from her story, the red flag from the man was glaring from onset. Probably love blinded her.
I agree. A great disservice
@@kaluafasi8737if you listen to the story very well, his bad attitude even made him drop out of 2 universities only that suppose make u run self 👩🏼🦯👩🏼🦯👩🏼🦯
Intelligent, well-educated, brave and lovely young lady. On the other hand, the husband's demeanour, is that of a cold calculating hard-hearted person. He reminds me of the foot soldiers of the Mafia or Drug cartels. Not surprised he was into cultist a.k.a criminal gangs.
I've had a very close relative with the sickle cell ailment. It can be so debilitating. I wish this lady God's blessings, good health and progress.
Amen😢😢😢
my face dey leak .....
Amen
Amen
She is a lovely lady
And in the future, when her kids are doing great things, he will show up, and all of us will scream at her for not letting him be acknowledged 😮
That's what they do. Always want ti reap where they dud nit sow and play the good father when they are grown. It gappenrd to me. My children father never gave one pound to their uo bringing. I never put him down to them at all. But at the grown age he is playing the good father SMH. Some mothers give birth to dogs
$@@Takeone60
Smh
I feel very sad watching this situation happening to this well trained and well brought up lady; a virgin at 26! well educated, with a good banking job; with Masters. But unfortunately fell in the wrong hand, because of her low esteem due to her health problems. May God help her out of her predicament.
Sad😮
Whats het virginity go do with it.
That she is now wayward.
Sorry for hr
@@GretellaKellyghan-lt2bk how do you all take her INVENTORY
This lady has tried...
She's from a good home & well brought up...
The husband has issues with anger....
GOD will heal her emotions in Jesus name...
A very sad story..
What a story. This woman is strong. May God continue to be with her
Very strong. And articulate
The woman would've been allowed to sit down
@@OpeyemiAderayo-fj5ey agreed
Anyone who abuses another person, physically or mentally, whether man or woman, is a punk. I have absolutely no respect for such individual. NOBODY has the right to put their hands on anyone, unless i n self-defense, period!
Sad sad story😢I noticed the way she kept acknowledging her parent’s support and you can tell having them has helped her this far. She’s definitely loved and is a daddy’s girl.
Being an SS girl made her parent to show love to her from childhood and every parent will do that. She’s just unfortunate to have met an wicked animal in human skin. Not all animals are wicked I must say. None of your daughters will ever come in contact with this kind of man. Ayo is terribly wicked.
This comment brought tears to my eyes , not sure why 😢😢😢😢
@@temitopeayilara5857 God bless you for this your comment, I tell ladies outside, please leave money behind(,I'm not devaluing the importance of money in marriage )
Kindness goes a long way, a partner with kind words and supportive actions will help you fly higher in your path.
From what the lady has said so far, she's unfortunate to have met with an unkind human
@@temitopeayilara5857What do you expect from a cultist?
Oh 9o
Judge funmi, God bless you for being sensitive. I love the part when you ask them to get a chair for her.
Sending the lady’s father so much love ,daddy God will grant you long life in good health 🙏Amen 😊
Amen
Aaamen o
Amen
Amen
Amen 🙏
I can say because of her genotype status, she thought to get a husband will be difficult. Otherwise, she forseen the calibre of the man before venture into the marriage. Rusticated in two universities because of cultists, hooliganism, lazy and joblessness. She believes, she can change him.
You are very correct sir. When I heard that in her testimony, I knew that was a red flag but being who she is, she fell into that error, nothing can be built on something. He such an irresponsible fellow and I hope Judge Funmi will allow him to face the wrath of the law.
U're very right I can't say she was desperate because of her genotype. Sickle cell warriors go through a lot in the hands of men
She was wrong to think that a good responsible man would not be interested in her, wish others in her situation would learn that they are worthy of love even if they have sickle cell.
Full stop.
It happens to other people too. It depends on how the man approaches, and how well connected to see husband, or when meeting abroad where many people lie and hide all these rustication matters/cult etc. Many do similar jobs like driving, ancillary nurse etc. So one may not know caliber of another in a place where it may not always be possible to meet other eligible people from same country.
The man is just cruel, allowing the lady go through those traumatic experiences is not good at all. Blessed be the parents of the lady who stood and are still standing by her, the man should be made to pay heavily. Thank you your honour.
Wishing her well. It's really not easy. A man rusticated by two universities, not being responsible didn't start today. May God keep you and may you enjoy the fruits of your labour.
This lady really deserves to be helped by Nigerians. I dont see this man taking any form of responsibility.
As in I am in tears
It's tiring
This is so emotional.....I pray she gets all the help she needs.
God bless her parents for their unending support.
It's a pity, she saw d signs but was blinded by love. Her health issue was another hindrance. May God Almighty continue to assist her and protect her children.
Amen. You can also help us in the campaign against bringing SICKLE CELL CHILDREN to EXISTENCE.
LIFE IS NOT EASY FOR US. 11:32 11:35 11:37
I havent heard the man's side but I believe everything she said. The mans body language has given him away. Such a callous fellow.
You are full of wisdom
True
I was disappointed even with the little defence he put out. "My father and mother never had a Wema bank account" Me - but you meet at Wema bank. What a defence
Her side of the story is the absolute truth. She's my aunt and she's really strong despite her health status.
@@mayowaifeoluwa5928I hope you are not leaving her alone. I wish I can help. God will rise for her.
From the very start, a multitude of red flags she waved. Despite the toll it took on her well-being and the strain it placed on her family ties, she endured the relationship, eventually finding herself bound in marriage.
The man believed he was doing her a favour. He showed little regard for her parents, and even after he left, he showed no interest in raising the three children together. He should just do the right thing.
She dampened her case immediately she mentioned that the man had many other children.
Always state facts, relating to your case. Let gossip and idle talk be.
@@jaylagbu1729 If he had other children out of wedlock, he's a criminal. So mentioning other children is a point against him not against her. It's not gossip. He's a criminal to have treated that lady and her family that way. He should pay to the last penny what she/they had spent and sign for upkeep of the wife and the children henceforth, otherwise the marriage should be officially annulled.
God just bless you
Evil and wicked. Whatever you sow in life, u will reap. God sits high and he looks low. God will see you through my sister, just pray and trust God, he will come through for you and your family. God always make a way.
Never knew Josephine was a sickle cell carrier while we worked together at the bank. She was always lively and making everyone happy. So sad to learn she went through all these.
Very sad.but remember God is a God of justice.
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@@rosemariespence3920😮😮😮
I thank God for her life 🙏🙏
To avoid disappointment you have to accept people people the way they are ,not the way you want them to be
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The things women do for LOVE! Will we ever learn? She's lucky she survived to tell the story.GOD will keep sustain you.
Actually it is not for love, it is for acceptance
The woman is a beautiful soul. She should have seen the red flags from the onset. Madam you are better off without this human being you are calling husband.
She saw it, she was even warned by her boss but we women always want to be loved and wanted especially in a situation where the lady gets pregnant for a guy, even though the man is terrible, because he is their child’s father, they would want to still go ahead and marry the man.
It’s really sad but that’s what the Nigerian/African society has turned women into.
What difference does it make about the history of a bank account, it’s about his conduct as a father and a husband
Exactly 😂😂😂
Exactly
As in😂 I come de wonder wetin WEMA Bank come do for here
I wonder.. what a lame defence 😥
Exactly,cos it's not enough ground for d neglect.
Please let us all donate for this beautiful. Reserve. Cultured lady. A beg jail that monster for us asap
This has been pasted before. See below.
You can reach her through the justice court. No. 53, Oritshe Street off Obafemi Awolowo way by balogun Bus stop ikeja, Lagos
This is a very sad story.
I felt like seeing the man and talk sense and reality to him.
The lady with a bright future from good home met a rascal. She saw it from day 1, he was rusticated from 2 schools.
That should have been a red flag to her. May the Lord continue to strengthen the lady and heal her completely.
My daughter I really thank God for giving you the strength to look after yourself and the children. May God bless your parents too, they are wonderful. The Lord will fight the war for you, please continue to look after yourself and the children. Continue to pray without stopping
I just felt for this lady... So touching
God bless her parents for the love and support. Ladies should learn to respect Red flag when they see it coming, no matter the condition.
Bad things happen to good people. Very very very sad situation.
It's so sad......I think good people often ignore the signs from the beginning
One thing is sure Judge Funmi will help her and i see a great change coming her way. God bless the Justice Court
I can tell who her daddy is from the people sitting behind 😊 May she and her parents live long to enjoy what they have worked hard for🙏
Me too :)
Amen ijmn
Amen
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@@BriaLoveElias are you American or British?
Such a sad story. A broken man unwilling to work on himself cannot raise a family.
She was shown the red flag😮 but she ignored it😮
The way a man treats you when you carry his seed, matters the most..
Women should really take note of this. Women become miserable during pregnancy, and a useless husband attitude comes out the most during this period.
Yes ooo🙏
Over matter
@@ajibadeoluwaseun4753exactly brother
This woman is so nice, she even says he should pay for damages if he can 😢
I am telling you oo
If he can chaii😭😭
This woman is describing a monster. Wow! The man is so wicked.
NO WOMAN WILL CHANGE A MAN. I THOUGHT I COULD. DINT WORK. MAY GOD BLESS YOU BEAUTIFUL.
This is a sad story. It’s so heartbreaking that you married the wrong person, despite your health status. But I appreciate your parents, particularly your Dad. It’s so evident that you are greatly loved by them and that’s why you have been so strong. This man doesn’t deserve you at all!
She fell into this because of her condition. She saw the signs but walked into it because she felt getting married will be difficult for her.
Exactly, she felt because she's SS getting married would be difficult and here there is someone that wants to marry her so why not
Its the OPPOSITE...
She's a very strong lady, how she ended up with such an irresponsible and heartless man is what I'm trying to understand
Her health status and zeal to be married caused it all, because the signs was all over from day one. I feel for her
What a intelligent lady, that man don’t deserve her..she’s priceless. May God continue to bless you father.
That lady is a smart educated women.She should have avoided getting involved with him until he had secured good job.
Job is not really the issue. The man has a lot of baggages.
@@jaysenossai7165 ,she said from about 5 minutes and 5 seconds in to the video to 5:30 minutes and seconds in to the video that he was secure jobs and he even drove his boss lady`s car ,but he did not support her so she said that she accepted her fate .So his having a job did his wife and his family no good.
No contraception in AFRICA.
@@tuforu4why not😢
Smart ? True she wasn't
I admire her, a strong woman; I also admire the judge, such a calm woman, beautiful inside and outside. May Jehovah continue to bless them both.
Hush,,,pity the woman so much,,,thank God for her life and the lovely kids,,,God will support you and you will win your claims
This woman is really a survival,, Wow, A sickle cell patient, she's too strong, brave, intelligent and respectful, I love you mama and kudos to the parents of the woman.
Oh my God! Thank you wonderful daddy and mommy...May God keep you people...Young lady God will help you..
Kamar is real,all of us will get whatever we sow.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time
Exactly! Believe them the first time
I keep telling people this, once you are bad, you are bad. And once you are good, you are good.
Hmm, right.
Some people rather have their kids with one person, and with her condition, probably that was why she gave him a second chance. He is just a useless and irresponsible person.
Flesh and blood has not revealed this to you. This is my standing point, but simpletons will never believe this.
So emotional 😢😢, just couldn't help struggling with tears.
Strongest woman ever.
Thanks to God you are not looking like what you have gone through. Victory is yours all round!
From the look of things, he’s the unsettled type, the type that often avoids responsibilities and never ready for permanent relationships. May God let this lady eat the fruits of her labor. May she live long to see her children’s children in good health.
Amen and amen🙏
May God show her divine favour and raise help for her.
Resounding Amen
AMEN
This debate there is the other side we're not being told.
When relationship is sour every party has something I mean bad to say...
Marriage should not be premised on material things...
He saw that the woman is hardworking &Im sure other women abandoned their children with him. Not responsible at all .
I’m practically crying seeing Daddy’s face!!!!😢😢😢😢😢
The man is close to tears
😢😢😢😢
Sad story. Many men often have serious Weaknesses and some have difficulty to change. And when this happens women have great challenges in marriage. But at the end of it all God will always stand by these women. The men get the stick from God no matter how long it takes.
This woman is the best, she’s the most honest woman. Am also SS and I limp, live in the UK with my wife and children who are all Nigerian British. I was offered the hip replacement procedure which is free here in the uk for me but I differed it due to my job as a Nurse.
I'm sorry to ask this question, why do you differed it please? I'm SS based in UK and awaiting Total hip replacement, at the moment I'm limping to walk, do you think is not good to go for the surgery?
@@maryajayi3194 it is really good to go for the operation. Currently, I have asked for a referral to ask questions. I wanted to practice more years in my Nursing profession and save more money before going for the hip replacement as it would keep me at home for almost 3months
HEAP PROCEDURE????
Who will pay his bills if he goes for the procedure?
No work, no pay here in the UK especially if you are the bread winner.
Because you are SS does not mean you mean you should settle for this kind of human being. women don't marry out of emotion
There is somebody God has greated to be your better half.
This woman is a strong and kind soul, just that she ended up with the wrong person who she loves so much and gave all she has to
This woman is a wonderful woman, very encouraging in deed. The kind of woman I would like to marry.
The petitioner is a very strong woman God bless her
This woman is not supposed to meet this kind of man. God please 🥺. God bless her and gives her long life. 🙏
Abimbola was my childhood friend we grew up together at Orile, we both attended same church as a born again Christian then and have alway known her as a very decent girl. All through our stay she was a vigin am sure of it. We lost contact when I got married in 2005 and they move to badagry side even her ever first boyfriend left her because she refuse to have sex with him. Can't believe she could end up with this kind of man.
That's life
Most virgins end up marrying losers. I tell women, don't keep virginity cos you want to please your future hubby. No human is worth it rather, Keep your virginity cos you want to please yourself and your God.
E pele o J.F Odunjo. First ever boyfriend 🙄
@@popoolamartinzmay God forgive you
Chaiii see life. Looks like keeping yourself na scam?
You are too strong a woman may God bless and see you through ❤
God is faithful, she doesn't look SS at all. God will continue to keep you sis
This is so sad 😢, that lady need support for her leg. Can't wait for the continuing part. Doing a wonderful job Judge Funmi. More grease to your elbow Ma 💪❤🙏.
Thk God for the glorious parent what a lovely Dad
why is a woman not allowed to consent to her own CS in Nigeria?? How does that make any sense
What did you call it? Nigeria? That tells you all you need to know
You know nothing, a family member or partner is to sign for any medical operations
@liveevent, that's not true. I had a surgery in 2019 and I signed by myself when my wife wasn't around. I don't see any reason why women need another person to sign before they can have their operations.
There is no such law. Women just like to leave others responsible for their decisions.
Also medical bills is mostly the issue.
You could actually sign for yourself and by yourself. Don't let anyone deceive you. I once did a major surgery and I signed by myself
I felt for this lady ..... God be with you
Even if I haven't heard the man side of the story, he is very wrong to Even leave a sickle cell patient with 3 children 😡😡😡
U mean she opened her legs to have 3 kids after his irresponsibility 🤣
Don’t even bother to hear from the wicked animal in human skin because people like that can lie. Men like this dark-headed man are only interested in opening the leg of anything in skirt.
Yes! How is that your problem, do you want to enter there too?
@@ststephen5261You are funny and I want to believe you're joking. It is very apparent that no sane, reasonable, responsible man would do what that animal, rogue, hardened criminal of a man did to that woman.
Honestly this man's characters was evident from the start and the lady was aware.
She was naive
When a person shows you who they are, believe them! This is sad!
May God help those of us who are yet married to get genuine and good family who will truly cherish us!
That Man is a brute period!!! Watching from 🇯🇲
Pls save this lady. Keep the monster away from her.
Very meticulous, she remembered everything that happened. The parent contributed to her ordeal because they shouldn't have consented to the man's pleas when he came back the second time. Her health status was not the reason she fell into wrong her. I know a woman that Is married for about 25 years now, she is SS, husband AS and two of the children SS and they are living perfectly, the man is taking good care of them till now. May we not fall into a wrong hand.
Nothing like having a supportive partner ooo..If you don't have that pls stay single till you meet one.Never ever think you can change any1.The man was irresponsible from the start.May we not gi into a wrong place in the name of love😢😢😢😢I pitu for the lady.May God heal her nd send her a real man as a partner.
I'm so moved by the story of this woman. An SS genotype who is academically flying and on top of her career. Unfortunately, a leopard can not change his colour, but i can understand why you stooped so low to accommodate a riff-raff and academic dropout. I'm so impressed by you, woman. You can do better without him. Your life and happiness really matter, considering your health situation. The Lord will give you long life beyond any human comprehension. Also i want to give kudos to your parents for the efforts they put up to raise you to this stage, it's not easy your father na man he be❤
Na man he be o...
can i get her contact? How can i help?
This man is a beast. He should be locked up for life.
May God heal our land, he who have legs doesn't have shoes, and he who have shoes doesn't have legs.
Useless man. Treating a woman with such life threatening situation is barbaric. My love for her
I guess the man behind the woman is her father, considering the resemblance and the support she often gets from her parents.
Black and white jacket 😂 yeah
Wow this is serious ,women are passing through a lot
So men are not passing through a lot!!!🤔🤔🤔
Therefore, choose wisely….don’t marry for anyone!
A woman’s happiness is more importantly than an unhappy married life!!
No, this woman is passing through a lot. Not too many women are as good as she is
Till tomorrow I will never understand the concept of marriage. Marriage is never achievement but privilege. Such an heartless man
This is disheartening. But above all, as a lady never put yourself in a situation where a man marry you out of pity.
If he's not interested in marrying you, never force it. It doesn't usually end well. If he's a rif raff. Stay away from him. Do not ever feel the pressure to marry a man/loser because he disvirigined you.
Its the father drawing to tears that breaks my soul🥺 i pray somone sees this video and see you tru surgery so you can be fit to go bk to work. Thats what you truly need. You dont need this man at all. Hes giing to wreck your life more especially when he starts taking forced responsibility. I feel for you madame and i pray you bounce back to health ,get another job and raise your kids with your amazing parents. Just like you sd you can be thier father and mother plus your support system. What you need is health and job not this ! Please able Nigerias surpport this beautiful soul 😢🙏🏽 and may your pockets nevrr run dry.
I dnt know why this is more of a norm in marriages. Gud ones with bad ones all the time . They never go for thier kinds! Ladies and gentlemen with prospect be wise, remember some matches are made in heaven but majority are made in hell! May God help us all.
Thanks sis 🙏
Please, how can one reach you? I have the contact information of the woman. I wouldn't know if help can come for her through this platform.
He started his submission on a baseless platform, he met her at the Bank no more no less. I hope after the judgement, other irresponsible men like him will get sense.
Right, I wondered where he was going with those statements. Talking about what bank his parents have etc... like what does that have to do with anything?
Shamelessly shameful man. Mr Ayoola Akinrinola, u ought to hide ur mi$€rable face in Shame.....
Women, run away from men like this.
This woman was subjected to undeserved trauma by a very callous man, who knew that SS patient as wife is for only a dedicated and caring man. Abadoning her with three kids is unforgivable.
You’re blessed with your children, leave the lnresponsible and wicked man alone. God will definitely judge him. He should know law of karma is real.
So much irresponsible man and fathers in our nation now. Where are the core values, morals, and family settings gone nowadays. And doing this to a sickle cell patient with all her health challenges. This is the highest form of wickedness among humanity.
The society has really undergone serious decadence due to absence of fathers and presence of irresponsible fathers. It is so sad. The pillars of families are trash, what would you expect from the family, it will surely collapse. Sad, just sad
Yes.. highest level of callousness.
May God's light shines unhindered on her🙏
I'm already shedding tears
Please upload the rest of the case. I will not sleep until we get to the bottom of this
Never go into marriage thinking you can change your partner
So True
Some are lucky though.
Raw Truth, absolutely
Bitter truth
God bless her father 🥹… He is a HERO ❤
Dear justice court we can do a go fund me for this lady please 🙏
I’m literally crying 😭
That is a great idea. We can go ahead to do it. It will go a long way to save a life/lives. Justice Court should paste this woman's information on this page for donations to come or they make their contact available so we can reach out to them in order to help her and her innocent children.