I think "You might be wrong" is saying "You are wrong" so something like "I have a different opinion for I see and respect your point" is better maybe? I just made a video about that BTW :)
This video in principe says: „most science done only holds the illusion of being powerful. People are emotional, not rational. There can be data as much as humanly possible, if people feel uncomfortable about it for whatever reason… it is going to be rejected“
..Yes the Art of conversation. Great video to start out the month of May. For men, this advice works great when talking to Women especially when they are angry haha
I have zero interest in convincing anyone of anything. Truth speaks for itself. Its impossible to intimidate people to believe lies just because you know have substantial regrets because you falsely believed your lies would have a different effect.
It sucks that you have to learn how to manipulate people just to get things done. It sucks that people are so emotional as well, I’m only 23 and I feel I have decent control over my emotional responses, I’m definitely open to being wrong, but I look around at all these people older then me who haven’t given any thought to their emotional state at all, rather they let it drive their “logical” side instead
My brother took my phone because he saw some pics which he shouldn't have. And now he thinks I'm bad and he is so closeminded that he isn't even listening to the real thing.
I have found more people are likely to come to reasonably terms when approaching a softer two way present your case. When you call them out on anything people tend to build a wall to defend not only their opinions, but their honor as well and this can lead to a very bias outlook on their part, because they are no longer trying to make a good argument, but rather trying to defend their honor and they mistake trying to defend themselves with trying to come to terms with the debate. I have caught myself building irrational walls to an argument merely because I was insulted and I can even notice my logical reasoning, being replaced with emotional defense. For people un-familiar with their own psychology, this can be nearly impossible to spot in your own thinking. Like trying to spot your own logical fallacies. Another thing is that, even if you know they're wrong and you can even predict what the next fallacious thing they are going to say is, you still have to listen like you might learn something new, even if you know you wont. Being honestly engaged in the conversation shows people that you are taking note of their points and listening as oppose to calling them out before they even finish the sentence. That never ends well as that wall of defense will immediately come up. There is one problem that this approach can have however and that's where your the one whos wrong and your interlockuter is in fact right. When you put all factors on the table, no amount of technique of approach is going to make an irrational argument become rational. Unless in the case where the person who's right doesn't understand their position well enough and they don't know why they're right, they just guessed lucky and the irrational argument seems more persuasive to them. Here all the factors are not on the table of course. This is an example of how a normal person can be persuaded by a flat earther and change their mind. At some point in their life they happened to land on the right answer or were brought up believing something true, but never had good enough information about it to begin with and a false argument in that case can appear to seem more reasonable that whats actually true that's backed up by better information that was never addressed.
I kinda doubt it man, I've lived my life following that and I'm a lonely person, my life is going to work and come back home to eat and sleep... Maybe sometimes people doesn't like to be given the reason or being convinced of things.
It seems to me if you can master "likeability" and "rapport" you have more chance of convincing someone; that said some people have their mind made up. I once had a customer argue over 1 cent, so pointless...
Because he never said it to the people he was trying to convince. He said it to Liberals and they dislike him even more than they dislike other republicans, he said it to other republicans, and he had a unprecedented lack of support from them.
Trump won because Hilary was garbage, the media damaged her while she was going against Bernie and when it became mainstream that Bernie was cheated she somewhat split the party and hurt the Bernie supporters that could have gave her the W. He also won because identity politics is king and that killed off every serious candidate. I would also call that the electoral college played a role but it's role was minor. The US isn't a democracy, it's a representative republic so we all went into this knowing how it works and Obama won against the system twice so i can't blame the EC too much. Trump ran against what could be considered some of the easiest competition he could have had in regard to running for president.
1 : Never turn the conversation into an argument 2 :Never say/ force anybody to say "i am wrong" 3 : Get the other person sayin "Yes" as fast as possible 4 : Let the other person do a great amount of talking 5 : Let the other person feel that the idea is their Extra tips 6 : Dont try to prove things 7 : If u r disagree with something that they r sayin never interrupt them
@@Medietos you lead them so near to solution that they have to get it, they're the first one to say it out loud then you pretend you didn't realize and praise them
"I forgive you for your ignorance", I think most would perceive that as massively passive aggressive. Maybe "I understand that different people have different experiences, so can come to different views." Unless that's starting nothing. What'd you think?
*My freind will understand what i said him in future. Huh* When I try to convince my friend to think in my way he says - Everyone have different perspective . But what I am trying to convince him is mere facts , and its true for everyone . So its like he is saying "No , 1+1 is not 2 . Everyone have different perspective" Maybe he don't want to accept facts and bitter truth . And when I try to convince him he says - You are such an aggresive guy ,always debating . Well, he will understand that I was right , in future .
I tried this trick i said to her Mom : ITS BECAUSE OF THAT IPAD Me : but ur still cooking Mom : Goes in The kitchen and cooks Me : LOL that was ez /MIND
On Number 4: It is very wise to let the other person talk and to let them know you respect their opinions. BUT, this is followed up by "never interrupt" and "Encourage them (to talk more)." I have talked to my fair share of people and when you meet someone who is good with discussion and debate, these are not a very good idea. People who are good at discussion could talk for hours, and can talk circles around you. Encouraging them to talk more is a bad idea since you are not putting your own thoughts into the equation and they could dismiss them before you ever brought them up. Some people are very aggressive with speaking and may not give you the chance to talk. How can you persuade someone when you never get the chance too? You can't. Instead of "Never Interrupt" try "Interrupt politely. Instead of "Encourage them" try "Letting them speak is a good idea, but establishing that your opinion has value is important." That one is just a little bit longer. Listening patiently is a good idea, so stick with that one. Just remember that peer to peer persuasion is discussion, not a stage performance!
More or less depends on the person, people who are intrigued in learning( you want them to talk more) in a debate u are correct. It is important to not make the opponent feel like they are winning, especially with spectators and judges
@@aaronr2038.... "Pepple decisions work more with emotion than with facts" I am sure your readoning is working more with brainwashing from Hitchens' sophistry than with actual reasoning I used to be you so studying your character would be fascinating to me so....no Religion does make sense and change my mind.
The problem with 3 is that it’s a shallow type of convincing strategy, it also happens with salesmen, the customer thinks about their decision more and then regrets it. It will happen in conversation too
Heres a better idea, dont be so egotistical that you think you should change someones mind. Just have a healthy discussion about both viewpoints and come to a consensus on what each other believes. The idea that people should go around changing other people is what is wrong with todays society. "When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world. I found it was difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation. When I found I couldn’t change the nation, I began to focus on my town. I couldn’t change the town and as an older man, I tried to change my family. Now, as an old man, I realize the only thing I can change is myself, and suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I could indeed have changed the world."
Yeah ok, so what about my family members who are eating themselves into diabetes and refuse to either diet or even consider any exercise? Are these behaviours that should continue unchallenged, even when it's physically hurting them and will place a burden on the rest of the family/society?
@@blahblahblahblah2837 i personally think that the fat people should go to camps where they learn how to exersize a bit more. or maybe do shots that works too. diabeeties are like, for real a major issue here. who do you blame, the fogs? i dont think so. like, just eat some cabbage and ull be cool dude. if someone wants to eat thems slefs to death who are you to say yes, say no thank you sleep well rabbit boiiiiii. diet coke will do the trick. ;) get some nice chinese training maybe, open a book, die die diesnt tuns wokrs too lolz. try to ciber bully me ill just drink some juse and take a nap lol.
Feels like inception haha, gotta make them feel like its their idea without being too intrusive or agressive. Don't alter the dream too much or the illusion goes away :)
I am trying to convince one of my bi friends that he is allowed to date other men he is very religious and thinks it's a sin and is homophobic but really kind to everyone (I'm trans and pan)
When I try to convince my friend to think in my way he says - Everyone have different perspective . But what I am trying to convince him is mere facts , and its true for everyone . So its like he is saying "No , 1+1 is not 2 . Everyone have different perspective" Maybe he don't want to accept facts and bitter truth . And when I try to convince him he says - You are such an aggresive guy ,always debating . Well, he will understand that I was right , in future .
-try to look at it from my perspective 1:00 -ever thought of looking at it from that angle? 4:09 in these moments are you implying the speaker's ability to FRAME CONTROL? Could you please make a video about CONTROLLING THE FRAME OF THE CONVERSATION?
Trying to convince my mom to move to a state with an ocean, I don’t like Colorado especially the ugly, small and smelly town we’re living in. If you know South Park, it actually is “The Exact Opposite of Hawaii”. I’m in Florida right now for vacation and I feel like I’m missing out on life. The beautiful beaches, the vegetation, the rain/thunder, the palm trees!! It’s all so beautiful, meanwhile Greeley is so gloomy and dry. I don’t understand how anyone would want to live in small unknown towns. My mom chose Greeley instead of California and New York(she has lived in these before). I just wanna have fun...it’s so boring over there :(
The best is actually go for "no", don't avoid objections, understand what emotions they convey and figure out why they react with that emotion at that time instead of logically convincing people. Eventually they're going to be more receptive and come to their own conclusions. Read never split the difference. By Chris voss. And getting to no, by Jim camp
If you try all above methods of convincing and nothing works , 1) Your friend will understand what u mean ,in future some day . 2)Your friend don't want to accept mere facts and truth .
1) no, you can't tell the future! 2) no, that's only ONE possible scenario of MANY, including that you might be bossy, stupid, corrupt, &/ wrong among many other possibilities!
If I was your dad...You would be completely free to make your own choices without any punishment or consequences from me. I would never tell you to do anything, Like...if you hate cleaning.. I wouldnt make you....I'd clean everything! If we have a disagreement about something...we both sit down and talk about it. Id get angry or annoyed, I want to know what you have to say. And MOST times Id side with you. Whatever your choice is, IF I can fulfill that choice for to, Id give it to you....its not my place to make choices for you!
Actually, If the point of a discussion is to change someones mind, you are doing something wrong. The purpose of a debate is to find the truth, not to win. So, the real goal is to behave in a way that maximizes the chance of a rational discussion.
I got an idea for a book that you could cover. Try "Extreme Ownership," by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin. Its an AMAZING book on leadership that I just finished reading the other day. HIGHLY recommended.
If you could make a person do what you say, but ONLY ONCE in the entire timeline, what would you tell that person to do? I would make Waluigi into a Smash Character that transcends and aces (pun intended, because Mario Tennis Aces) even Melee Fox!
It doesn’t work with love or friendships unfortunately, I have the evidence I was there for them but she’s so done that she never will say yes. I chose to walk away though that’s hard. Shes gone but I have myself
2:22 You'll never win the yes battle with me, I dropped GOT a long time ago, the season where.... ....jon snow gets stabbed a lot (and everyone said he aint ded I read the books)
I studies in hostel for exercise and self investment i wanna go park at 4 am, but hostel gate opening time is after 5 am. I wanna convience hostel owner
2 years ago I watched the video and I thought those tricks don't work. But they are effectiv and I turned a lot of people away from Islam and Christianity.
0:18-Never turn your conversation into argument and don't try to involve your feelings into it 1:06-Never say them that you are wrong say that you might be wrong 2:10-Get the other person saying yes as fast as possible and more likely they will say yes in the future 2:47-Let the other person do the talking 3:18-Dont interrupt them even if you might be wrong, listen patiently 3:51-Let the other person feel that the idea is theirs
2:30 Stop using the "yes" ladder...The person you are using it on will resent you for it after giving you the yes you were looking for. It will be counterfeit, and it's a short term win for no long term gain.
Sounds like a lesson on how to minipulate someone if used for selfish self interest and quite dangerous for a pessimistic person who cares only about climbing the ladder and walking on all the little people he might disguise as friends. Serpents Language for sure 😁
Those rules sound great IN THEORY, but anyone who has ever tried reasoning with a close-minded, completely unreasonable person, will tell you the rules don't work in actual practice. Add that to someone who loves to hear him/herself speak, or take forever to make a simple point, and u have the perfect formula for taxing ur patience. Even if u want to end the conversation and leave, they won't stop talking long enough to provide the necessary lull in the conversation. I learned those steps the hard way: experience through trial and error. Still, though, I got some new life skills.
When I try to convince my friend to think in my way he says - Everyone have different perspective . But what I am trying to convince him is mere facts , and its true for everyone . So its like he is saying "No , 1+1 is not 2 . Everyone have different perspective" Maybe he don't want to accept facts and bitter truth . And when I try to convince him he says - You are such an aggresive guy ,always debating . Well, he will understand that I was right , in future .
"Just because your correct, doesn't mean you're right!"
-Emiya Shirou
Practical Psychology would you dare to try "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene?
One of the hundreds of anime I've watched
Just because your bad doesn't mean you are evil
-me
Um actually it does
“Our emotions play a much larger impact on our decisions then what our brain logically decides are facts” so true
Facts
Facts are facts no way around it
It depends on the person bro! Logical people don't mix feelings with facts!
@@TrueSpeak-TS That's what people tell themselves to make themselves feel good
@@TrueSpeak-TS how do you know if someone is logical
Narcissistic person watches thill end: "how am I the wrong one?"
btw i am too lazy to read books so i watch your videos ;-) it really helps thanks
I think "You might be wrong" is saying "You are wrong"
so something like "I have a different opinion for I see and respect your point" is better maybe? I just made a video about that BTW :)
I personally think that is stupid. Since most people don't even care about others opinions.
Hey, sounds like you changed the tone of your voice while talking. Honestly, it sounds better. Good job!
Well, half way the video you started talking a bit faster I notice now. Still, it's better though.
I usually don't have a trouble of convincing people but what i learntfrom this video is how to sound polite..
Interesting feedback :)
This video in principe says: „most science done only holds the illusion of being powerful. People are emotional, not rational. There can be data as much as humanly possible, if people feel uncomfortable about it for whatever reason… it is going to be rejected“
..Yes the Art of conversation. Great video to start out the month of May. For men, this advice works great when talking to Women especially when they are angry haha
Haha, great comment xD
I am watching this video to change the thinking of my friend
Wow I must be as smart as I think I am... I've been naturally doing this for a long time.
lol
I didn't realize it was this simple, amazing! Do you think I should use these in my persuasive speech in speech and debate?
No i would not suggest it they are not very good tips. Look up some real tips on google.
These tips are more for casual debates between friends, or acquaintances.
oh ok
I have zero interest in convincing anyone of anything. Truth speaks for itself. Its impossible to intimidate people to believe lies just because you know have substantial regrets because you falsely believed your lies would have a different effect.
I love ur channel keep up the GREAT work
It sucks that you have to learn how to manipulate people just to get things done.
It sucks that people are so emotional as well, I’m only 23 and I feel I have decent control over my emotional responses, I’m definitely open to being wrong, but I look around at all these people older then me who haven’t given any thought to their emotional state at all, rather they let it drive their “logical” side instead
It's really helpful
i just tell the other person my shit, then tell em if they don't like it idc and i respect what they think
Bro I'm pretty sure you took that principals from the book How to win frnds and influence people
Thank you so much!
Thanks! Have any suggestions for future videos? :D
Hmmmm maybe more videos on relationships between peers
So that's why I have ended up arguing with people my entire life...
Do you actually draw all this? If so, then your an amazing artist (at least compared to me).
Its not drawn by him 😂 there a app for such video
Take a drink every time he says "talk".
Also can you make a video on how to get out of awkward situations.
Good video
Nice
This video did not help my friend from buying me a game can you please put out another video with more tips thank you
i was gonna find out how to win with mind tricks in among us but okay
Good materials, but for me too quick talk.
I really like your videos ))
i just want to move to another state
Try applying these rules to religious people.
Knight OfNights it's the same between liberals and conservatives
SHOT’S FIRED!!!
facts and knowledge are the work of devil to them. not making this up. saying from personal experience.
so all this is useless.
Good luck with that :)
i take that as a compliment
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Will this work on trump?
Don't Read My Profile Picture he was talking about humans not losers
tv producerssuck yet he didn’t lose
They won't work if someone is extremely closeminded and do not even accept making a conversation
Λάζαρος Μαγιόπουλος yes. Many if not all people are mentally ill to some degree these days.
I’m open minded, but.. there are some factors out of my control that determine how shit goes in those situations, but hey
I agreee
Wow Greek I know some greek
My brother took my phone because he saw some pics which he shouldn't have. And now he thinks I'm bad and he is so closeminded that he isn't even listening to the real thing.
These tips sound like HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE :)
Great points!
Yes, glad you noticed ;D
I have found more people are likely to come to reasonably terms when approaching a softer two way present your case. When you call them out on anything people tend to build a wall to defend not only their opinions, but their honor as well and this can lead to a very bias outlook on their part, because they are no longer trying to make a good argument, but rather trying to defend their honor and they mistake trying to defend themselves with trying to come to terms with the debate. I have caught myself building irrational walls to an argument merely because I was insulted and I can even notice my logical reasoning, being replaced with emotional defense. For people un-familiar with their own psychology, this can be nearly impossible to spot in your own thinking. Like trying to spot your own logical fallacies.
Another thing is that, even if you know they're wrong and you can even predict what the next fallacious thing they are going to say is, you still have to listen like you might learn something new, even if you know you wont. Being honestly engaged in the conversation shows people that you are taking note of their points and listening as oppose to calling them out before they even finish the sentence. That never ends well as that wall of defense will immediately come up.
There is one problem that this approach can have however and that's where your the one whos wrong and your interlockuter is in fact right.
When you put all factors on the table, no amount of technique of approach is going to make an irrational argument become rational. Unless in the case where the person who's right doesn't understand their position well enough and they don't know why they're right, they just guessed lucky and the irrational argument seems more persuasive to them. Here all the factors are not on the table of course. This is an example of how a normal person can be persuaded by a flat earther and change their mind. At some point in their life they happened to land on the right answer or were brought up believing something true, but never had good enough information about it to begin with and a false argument in that case can appear to seem more reasonable that whats actually true that's backed up by better information that was never addressed.
Dr.StickFigure I love that book my dad made me read it the summer before 7th grade and in the past 1 1/2 years it's helped a lot
I kinda doubt it man, I've lived my life following that and I'm a lonely person, my life is going to work and come back home to eat and sleep... Maybe sometimes people doesn't like to be given the reason or being convinced of things.
It seems to me if you can master "likeability" and "rapport" you have more chance of convincing someone; that said some people have their mind made up. I once had a customer argue over 1 cent, so pointless...
But if saying "wrong" is useless how did Trump win?
WRONG
He won the public vote and didnt change his opponent's minds.
His case is very different.
Because he never said it to the people he was trying to convince. He said it to Liberals and they dislike him even more than they dislike other republicans, he said it to other republicans, and he had a unprecedented lack of support from them.
Trump won because Hilary was garbage, the media damaged her while she was going against Bernie and when it became mainstream that Bernie was cheated she somewhat split the party and hurt the Bernie supporters that could have gave her the W. He also won because identity politics is king and that killed off every serious candidate. I would also call that the electoral college played a role but it's role was minor. The US isn't a democracy, it's a representative republic so we all went into this knowing how it works and Obama won against the system twice so i can't blame the EC too much. Trump ran against what could be considered some of the easiest competition he could have had in regard to running for president.
Russia lol
1 : Never turn the conversation into an argument
2 :Never say/ force anybody to say "i am wrong"
3 : Get the other person sayin "Yes" as fast as possible
4 : Let the other person do a great amount of talking
5 : Let the other person feel that the idea is their
Extra tips
6 : Dont try to prove things
7 : If u r disagree with something that they r sayin never interrupt them
Thankfull for your comment
If you keep all these points , then you will be the one gonna get convinced by the other persons points😂
5 works so well 😏
@@sonias9722 I've heard so too, but how o earth do you do that? If the idea is not theirs, won't they notice ...?
@@Medietos you lead them so near to solution that they have to get it, they're the first one to say it out loud then you pretend you didn't realize and praise them
Great as always! ;)
Greetings from Brazil!
Thanks for watching!
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I started w Jesus.
You will get there.
I’m 40 and blessed w 2 boys.
Money isn’t everything.
Options Specialist Can't feed those boys and can't pay the rent with religion
JesusIsMyLife LoveIsAllYouNeed Lol funny
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@Options Specialist,
1.7 million [currency?] doing it right!
Nice work!
Forgiveness is kind of my mindset. Ever thought of telling them, "I forgive you for your ignorance."?
"I forgive you for your ignorance", I think most would perceive that as massively passive aggressive.
Maybe "I understand that different people have different experiences, so can come to different views."
Unless that's starting nothing.
What'd you think?
*My freind will understand what i said him in future. Huh*
When I try to convince my friend to think in my way he says - Everyone have different perspective . But what I am trying to convince him is mere facts , and its true for everyone . So its like he is saying "No , 1+1 is not 2 . Everyone have different perspective"
Maybe he don't want to accept facts and bitter truth . And when I try to convince him he says - You are such an aggresive guy ,always debating . Well, he will understand that I was right , in future .
Christ you straight stole from Dale Carnegies book, im not hating but i think he does at least deserve some credit in your description or something.
I tried this trick i said to her
Mom : ITS BECAUSE OF THAT IPAD
Me : but ur still cooking
Mom : Goes in The kitchen and cooks
Me : LOL that was ez /MIND
On Number 4:
It is very wise to let the other person talk and to let them know you respect their opinions.
BUT, this is followed up by "never interrupt" and "Encourage them (to talk more)." I have talked to my fair share of people and when you meet someone who is good with discussion and debate, these are not a very good idea. People who are good at discussion could talk for hours, and can talk circles around you. Encouraging them to talk more is a bad idea since you are not putting your own thoughts into the equation and they could dismiss them before you ever brought them up.
Some people are very aggressive with speaking and may not give you the chance to talk. How can you persuade someone when you never get the chance too? You can't. Instead of "Never Interrupt" try "Interrupt politely. Instead of "Encourage them" try "Letting them speak is a good idea, but establishing that your opinion has value is important." That one is just a little bit longer.
Listening patiently is a good idea, so stick with that one. Just remember that peer to peer persuasion is discussion, not a stage performance!
I agree.
Yep.
More or less depends on the person, people who are intrigued in learning( you want them to talk more) in a debate u are correct. It is important to not make the opponent feel like they are winning, especially with spectators and judges
What a big commenting. Short and sweet is the best
Non-stop talkers are best avoided for multiple reasons.
This is by far your best video ever Practical Pshology. Thank you SO MUCH! I will send it to all my contacts!
Oh wow, awesome! Thanks :)
Try applying these rules to atheists :D
I am atheist these rules are ok
@@aaronr2038 I'm religious, but you're not lying😂😂
Atheist here. These rules are fine by me, though I would like to see evidence that they work in practice.
Try applying these rules to religious people 😅
@@aaronr2038....
"Pepple decisions work more with emotion than with facts"
I am sure your readoning is working more with brainwashing from Hitchens' sophistry than with actual reasoning I used to be you so studying your character would be fascinating to me so....no Religion does make sense and change my mind.
The problem with 3 is that it’s a shallow type of convincing strategy, it also happens with salesmen, the customer thinks about their decision more and then regrets it. It will happen in conversation too
"never say i am wrong" . What??? why would you say that during an argument?
MEGAsporg12 conversation*
MEGAsporg12 You missed the first point.
While trying to prove a point, literally no one says "I'm wrong" like wth.
"I slept with your mother,I'm wrong" - That's how you'll say it.
Heres a better idea, dont be so egotistical that you think you should change someones mind. Just have a healthy discussion about both viewpoints and come to a consensus on what each other believes.
The idea that people should go around changing other people is what is wrong with todays society.
"When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world. I found it was
difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation. When I
found I couldn’t change the nation, I began to focus on my town. I
couldn’t change the town and as an older man, I tried to change my
family.
Now, as an old man, I realize the only thing I can change is myself,
and suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could
have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an
impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I
could indeed have changed the world."
So beautiful. ^-^
What a load of BULLSHIT
Beautiful
Yeah ok, so what about my family members who are eating themselves into diabetes and refuse to either diet or even consider any exercise?
Are these behaviours that should continue unchallenged, even when it's physically hurting them and will place a burden on the rest of the family/society?
@@blahblahblahblah2837 i personally think that the fat people should go to camps where they learn how to exersize a bit more. or maybe do shots that works too. diabeeties are like, for real a major issue here. who do you blame, the fogs? i dont think so. like, just eat some cabbage and ull be cool dude. if someone wants to eat thems slefs to death who are you to say yes, say no thank you sleep well rabbit boiiiiii. diet coke will do the trick. ;) get some nice chinese training maybe, open a book, die die diesnt tuns wokrs too lolz. try to ciber bully me ill just drink some juse and take a nap lol.
I'm going to use this for my mother, wish me luck guys 😭
Feels like inception haha, gotta make them feel like its their idea without being too intrusive or agressive. Don't alter the dream too much or the illusion goes away :)
I am trying to convince one of my bi friends that he is allowed to date other men he is very religious and thinks it's a sin and is homophobic but really kind to everyone (I'm trans and pan)
Now these may *seem* like great tips, but try looking at things from this perspective…
When I try to convince my friend to think in my way he says - Everyone have different perspective . But what I am trying to convince him is mere facts , and its true for everyone . So its like he is saying "No , 1+1 is not 2 . Everyone have different perspective"
Maybe he don't want to accept facts and bitter truth . And when I try to convince him he says - You are such an aggresive guy ,always debating . Well, he will understand that I was right , in future .
Nobody is good because we don't know how to agree on things.
I think people usually jump to saying "you are wrong" way too fast. patience is key.
Excellent video. This video is really helpful for those people who are looking for a way to convince someone to their opinion.
Idk if this works im currently trieng to get bethesda to make a ranger from nv to the creation club on ps4
-try to look at it from my perspective 1:00
-ever thought of looking at it from that angle? 4:09
in these moments are you implying the speaker's ability to FRAME CONTROL?
Could you please make a video about CONTROLLING THE FRAME OF THE CONVERSATION?
Exception: conspiracy theorists
Trying to convince my mom to move to a state with an ocean, I don’t like Colorado especially the ugly, small and smelly town we’re living in. If you know South Park, it actually is “The Exact Opposite of Hawaii”. I’m in Florida right now for vacation and I feel like I’m missing out on life. The beautiful beaches, the vegetation, the rain/thunder, the palm trees!! It’s all so beautiful, meanwhile Greeley is so gloomy and dry. I don’t understand how anyone would want to live in small unknown towns. My mom chose Greeley instead of California and New York(she has lived in these before). I just wanna have fun...it’s so boring over there :(
The best is actually go for "no", don't avoid objections, understand what emotions they convey and figure out why they react with that emotion at that time instead of logically convincing people.
Eventually they're going to be more receptive and come to their own conclusions.
Read never split the difference. By Chris voss. And getting to no, by Jim camp
If you try all above methods of convincing and nothing works ,
1) Your friend will understand what u mean ,in future some day .
2)Your friend don't want to accept mere facts and truth .
1) no, you can't tell the future!
2) no, that's only ONE possible scenario of MANY, including that you might be bossy, stupid, corrupt, &/ wrong among many other possibilities!
My bigger sis says that we should not allow any one to come up and I say that we should allow other too plz help me what should I do
Im here trying to convince my strict dad to let me hangout with my friends... he's mad because I've hung out twice since school started.
If I was your dad...You would be completely free to make your own choices without any punishment or consequences from me.
I would never tell you to do anything, Like...if you hate cleaning.. I wouldnt make you....I'd clean everything!
If we have a disagreement about something...we both sit down and talk about it. Id get angry or annoyed, I want to know what you have to say. And MOST times Id side with you.
Whatever your choice is, IF I can fulfill that choice for to, Id give it to you....its not my place to make choices for you!
@@perryh.5306 Parents should support their kids of course,but sometimes you have to gently force them to do certain tasks in order to learn
Nice points ❤️
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Try to use logic? No problem, but how will the liberals pull that off?
Johnny Robinson true lol
No one knows
Actually, If the point of a discussion is to change someones mind, you are doing something wrong. The purpose of a debate is to find the truth, not to win. So, the real goal is to behave in a way that maximizes the chance of a rational discussion.
I got an idea for a book that you could cover. Try "Extreme Ownership," by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin. Its an AMAZING book on leadership that I just finished reading the other day. HIGHLY recommended.
If you could make a person do what you say, but ONLY ONCE in the entire timeline, what would you tell that person to do? I would make Waluigi into a Smash Character that transcends and aces (pun intended, because Mario Tennis Aces) even Melee Fox!
Damn it. I Wish I knew this earlier before.
great points, facts don't always convince people
It doesn’t work with love or friendships unfortunately, I have the evidence I was there for them but she’s so done that she never will say yes. I chose to walk away though that’s hard. Shes gone but I have myself
When my dad and my uncle would have a conversation they would say " what a guy could do" instead of " what you should do".
2:22 You'll never win the yes battle with me, I dropped GOT a long time ago, the season where....
....jon snow gets stabbed a lot (and everyone said he aint ded I read the books)
I studies in hostel for exercise and self investment i wanna go park at 4 am, but hostel gate opening time is after 5 am. I wanna convience hostel owner
2 years ago I watched the video and I thought those tricks don't work. But they are effectiv and I turned a lot of people away from Islam and Christianity.
0:18-Never turn your conversation into argument and don't try to involve your feelings into it
1:06-Never say them that you are wrong say that you might be wrong
2:10-Get the other person saying yes as fast as possible and more likely they will say yes in the future
2:47-Let the other person do the talking
3:18-Dont interrupt them even if you might be wrong, listen patiently
3:51-Let the other person feel that the idea is theirs
2:30 Stop using the "yes" ladder...The person you are using it on will resent you for it after giving you the yes you were looking for. It will be counterfeit, and it's a short term win for no long term gain.
Sounds like a lesson on how to minipulate someone if used for selfish self interest and quite dangerous for a pessimistic person who cares only about climbing the ladder and walking on all the little people he might disguise as friends. Serpents Language for sure 😁
this is just a tool. a tool can be used for good or bad
I might be wrong😂okay I see where this is going. This is just like video game, play their mind like a game and manipulate them
this is such a fun channel to binge watch keep it up! :)
glad i subbed one day when I rule the world I am gonna give this youtuber free acces on anything he wants
the most powerful way to prove somebody wrong is by asking questions
-Socrates
i beive in God,and his truth works in everything,you defeate evil by godness.I cant agree on everything,
that who is wrong me or them? never say ; YOU ARE WRONG!!!
WoW, thanks for the tips I believe they'll help me a lot 👏😃
Those rules sound great IN THEORY, but anyone who has ever tried reasoning with a close-minded, completely unreasonable person, will tell you the rules don't work in actual practice. Add that to someone who loves to hear him/herself speak, or take forever to make a simple point, and u have the perfect formula for taxing ur patience. Even if u want to end the conversation and leave, they won't stop talking long enough to provide the necessary lull in the conversation. I learned those steps the hard way: experience through trial and error. Still, though, I got some new life skills.
Me over here trying to convince my friends to watch Hamilton 🥲
nice video i also rrcommend watching based zeus for personal looks and stuff
His channel is great, really love it
it's just some people. including me possibly. just lie their way up to prove their point.
IM TRYING TO CONVICE MY FRIEND TO WATCH OUTER BANKS AND SHE JUST DOSEN’T WANT TOO!!!😭😭
When I try to convince my friend to think in my way he says - Everyone have different perspective . But what I am trying to convince him is mere facts , and its true for everyone . So its like he is saying "No , 1+1 is not 2 . Everyone have different perspective"
Maybe he don't want to accept facts and bitter truth . And when I try to convince him he says - You are such an aggresive guy ,always debating . Well, he will understand that I was right , in future .
3:53, are we talking inception here?
Trying to get my friend to watch attack on titan, they said it was boring but only watched like the first episode
Hello, how can we close a partnership with you, having the same channel here in Brazil?
That's very 1990s tips. The world has evolved. These tips are useless now!
another issue is the way we codify our ideas into words, what we mean by a word might not be what other people mean
I searched the movie 12 Angry Men and this is what was in results
Helpful advices, have a great day, much love
im watching this to change my sisters mind from making me go back to my parents house
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Let them feel idea is then
Nv interrup
Let the pers tal
Say yes
Nv argue
Nv say ur /i am wrong
More data
Change ur think
I could be wrong, but don't you spell "bla, bla, bla'', blah, blah, blah?