I prefer the guy that doesn’t completely hide his wealth but isn’t flashy either. Someone who’s generous and appreciates a woman with brains and beauty.
A farm guy would be the ultimate man for me. If only I was using my smarts and move somewhere where there is country (will never accomplish that living in the big city)
ummmm YES! As a Floridian, I was walking in NYC and I had a funny convo with a construction-looking guy in the city. He had a guy harvey shirt tucked into straight -leg medium blue jeans that were pulled over his boots. I said "What part of ___ county you from?" and he lit up! He was a contractor from my hometown traveling for a project, and I'd hit the nail on the head lol. He's not rich, but he has a lovely home and trucks and a successful small business. I can't get enough of this kind of level-headed country boy
@Kit Kat the less smelly farmers are those that deal with crops or goats, horses and sheep. And the worst smelling are chicken, cow and pig farmers. I've lived in rural areas all my life.
I don’t understand women who agree to be mistresses or the other woman for a few pieces of silver. I wonder if they realize how much they’re hurting the wife and kids.
I see how you couldn't stop smiling when talking about the secret rich type of men, not to mention the sparkle in your eyes during describing them, I'd say I'm pretty sure your partner falls in that category ♥️
I work in finance (asset management) for 12 years now and you are spot on Anna!! In my experience they party first, and will date beautiful and flashy girls. Later they want to settle down and choose someone beautiful elegant and most important feminine!! A lot of them choose woman from countries where the women are more feminine, polished etc. They see blue and grey suits all day so if you want to impress this man wear a red or pink dress, some heels, nice nailpolish and be warm and inviting. I've seen that work time after time. It's a rough world finance, and they want someone sweet and caring to come home to that they can also take to their mom. Hope this helps you ladies
Thank you for advice! I really get along and get attracted to finance men, maybe cause my previous job was connected with budgeting! Some of them do party hard but I’ve met some very grounded and respectful men among them as well :)
Brain Storm there are different types of finance guys like Anna said. In my experience I have seen a lot of party guys who (unfortunately) sleep around and date a lot of women in a short period of time. But there are also those more quiet, introverted guys who also are common in finance. Yes, they wear suits and look expensive when they are working but on weekends they are very laid back. They often settle for a smart and educated woman who is not flashy but attractive and classy.
@@marcelleines5176 ..Both of My Grandfa are from Rich Farmers.. Anna was Right, usually they marry women on there Area.. The Girl that they knew since Childhood.
I'm a man of God and I don't live for money. In fact covetousness is a sin. We need to be good stewards of our money. PSALM 37:16 A little that a righteous man hath is better than the riches of many wicked
One thing I love about Anne's videos is that you never see in the background some empty Chanel or Prada shopping bag or book like in other influencers videos :) thumbs up
Met a rich farmer type a couple of months ago by accident (Western Canada is full of them) he sent a couple of bottles of wine to my table - where I was sat with my family. He was very confident warm and jovial, shame he was literally a couple of years younger than my father. Dear universe please send me an age appropriate secret millionaire 😂
That's a nice way of saying "Black men with money burning in their pockets who are willing to wine and dine you", typically, this isn't sustainable, but very helpful information for this demographic. They're starter boyfriends, I guess lol. Start there. I've "dated" (using this term super loosely) a couple men who were good for bottle service and a mani or bundles, maybe nice lingerie and an outfit or two, but the cars are always rented and theres always 50 other women on rotation. It's good for the come up I guess. They typically prefer white women anyway.
Number 9 is definitely the man I’m talking to right now. He was on holiday in my country , We met by accident on a yacht cruise , I say accident because I was not suppose to go on that yacht, I change my mind last minute because of how pretty it looked 🙈. Mid cruise he came to me and I wasn’t instantly attracted to him because he does not look affluent or cares about affluence at all 😂 yet weeks after talking (and starting to like him) when we decided to go on a platonic weekend away trip I found out how wealthy he is 🙆🏽♀️. Literally did not see it coming because of how laid back he is. I was also surprised that he’s into elegant women like me (He says my elegance is not flashy or overboard, I’m just a woman who loves a beautiful life yet very grounded- wife material to be exact 😂) . I’m happy with him because he’s not flashy, I’ve dated flashy men and I hated it. Anyways... We’re still talking and things are getting serious quite quick 😂💯 Thank you Anna ❤️ it was really pure chance.
I remember attending a cocktail party once where the guys were actually discussing who had the wife/girlfriend with the most successful career. It was like a throwback to the 1950s where women would discuss this about their husbands. These guys saw a successful woman as an asset to their own careers and their entry point to a higher level. It was so enlightening.
Well, that means he can relax and let her carry the burden. How nice for him.😂 I'm not old fashioned but a woman should do it because she wants to not because it is expected or in order to catch and keep a man or simply to be his bragging point like a champion steed.
The Arab Prince can also include South Asian men and Arab men generally, rich or not. They’ll sleep around with women outside their religion and race and when it’s time to settle down and marry, they’ll look for a woman of their ethnicity and religion. She will have to be a virgin who is subservient. If these men live in a Western country, they’ll marry someone from back home who will be easier to control and manipulate.
Stay away from those men from those culture. Uncivilized people who treats anyone out of their kind as second human. Very twisted belief, as a western woman, you're actually not only allowed to be bed but also to be killed, based on religious rule. They are better being left off with their kind. Believe me I was unfortunate enough to be born among them, as one of them, I am familiar with their way of thinking. Religious rule that can be twisted according to their need so they can have peace of mind (do the thing they like without making God angry or something). A lot of things blew my mind on how selfish and inhumane this culture is. What made me sad, their own women will somehow defend these men behavior because maybe some kind of Stockholm syndrome.
As a Chinese who spent 25 years in China, what you said in the video is mostly true. Most of the rich guys in China who started from scratch would marry a woman who could help him with his business and cheat on his wife after he becomes successful. Mistresses are also very common and ofc their wives know what's going on. Divorce isn't that common in the high society due to culture and tradition values.
Similar to Morocco, divorce is not an option always because of tradition and what others will say even tho the woman is aware of the cheating husband. Usually these women are + 50 and are dependent on their husbands financially.
@@scarlettebaudelaire3898 these women sometimes need money desperately , sometimes they are just happy with what they have. And , they have the option to leave and start anew.
Easy for tech men: Be white or asian(they'll marry them fat/skinny...dumb or smart), if you're latina be more classy, excluding indian women since they wont have the same struggles. If you're a black or biracial black woman good luck chuck. Working as a swe among swe making bank they just generally arent checking for bw.
I'm speaking as a native Chinese girl. Having mistresses is common among high society, but is certainly not accepted by our culture. It's like an open secret.
I lived in China for a few years (nearby Hong Kong) and i can confirm it from i have heard an seen there. Very interesting thing i've heard from my Chinese friend is that mistress is usually 20 or over years younger and he pays her all bills including luxurious life (e.g.car). Greetings from Bosnia and Herzegovina.
Dated finance guys and tech guys. I'm a plain Jane/a bit above average at most. One thing to add. These career guys look for women also in great careers, graduated from ivy league schools, etc.
Ooo I have another for you. Real estate investor man (apart from flashy California): will wear Walmart shorts but drive a Lambo. Wants a woman who will “build it with him” or does not waste his money.
So true!!! Also he moves forward very very slow and careful, often times they are stingy, even sending flowers is something out of their comfort zone. :))))
My favorite is the last one, number 10. It's the one I grew up surrounded by. You find this one in elite schools and neighbourhoods. After that, through your network who also grew up that way.They want women to have some brain, but at the same time who care about their appearance. It's all about balance.
I have a fiance that I completely adore with my whole heart. I am in no way looking for a man, yet for some reason I love watching these videos & adore this gal!... I also love learning ways to look, feel, and present myself as affluent, boujee, & upper class - even if I am not. 😆❤
Exactly. She is really teaching good stuff that make a real lady. So I sometimes find it uncomfortable when she constantly mentions rich men in most her videos
@@mariaalmasani hmm... u hv a good point there. I love her videos n personality only sometimes it feels if u hv subscribed or watching, it's bcos u want a rich man. I don't hv a problem with that tho n well who wouldn't want that but I think learning to present oneself is better above anything else. May be it's because I'm already married that why it feels awkward sometimes but cool anyways n love her regardless
I adore the entire discussion that spawned off of my original comment. I often felt guilty getting pleasure from her videos, not all of then, just these ones in particular. However, knowing I'm not alone is a relief, and you are all absolutely correct in your own reasonings for enjoying her content. I especially appreciate Maria mentioning how lucky we are, in our current extreme state of political correctness, to have someone so honest & straight forward to turn to. It is very inspirational. To be honest, in the feminist world we now live in, I have often been made to feel bad for wanting to be classy & affluent. It was always something I wanted for myself, not for getting a man, but I still often get shamed for wanting to present myself in a pleasing fashion, and I'm always very grateful to see how kind, appreciative & respectful the comment section here is! So, thank you to all of you for sharing your reasoning & thoughts with me. I genuinely appreciate hearing them & also appreciate knowing that I am far from alone!
@@cmaj4887 I found mine while we were in high school and way before his success. We have a lot of similar interest and he can geek out with me. He is also street smart, a minority, social and good looking, so he’s not the “typical tech guy”.
Marry for money-PAY & PAY& PAY. Ladies: get as much education as possible so you can support yourself no matter what. You look lovely in that shade of blue.😘
I dated some wealthy man in the past, like important business man and CEO...I can confirm that they really pay attention to our attitude, especially how we talk and behave in a public place. According to my experience they seem attracted especially to young women who are clever and elegant both with her style and manners but not too much "showy" at the same time .
@@patriciastewart2537 I think that if people use the money to feed the needy and help the homeless it's great. I don't think that schools teach kids lessons they need in life like survival and God. To me this world is getting eviler and more ungodly by the day. I may get married but no children. Also no wasting money on flashy things.
@@jesuschristsavesfromhellst4432 I can name plenty of rich men in the Bible. Job, Solomon, David, Boaz, etc. Money doesn't always have to be a negative thing.
I have to say my favorite type of man is the nerdy and the low key type of guy. And I was lucky enough to find in a blind date the man of my dreams. ( low key type)I know for personal experience those type of guys are the best if you want to have a long term loving relationship. These are the hidden gems that are hard to find. Underneath the shy introverted plain joe cover is a wonderful man whom is going to treat you like a lady. If you find him never let him go.😉
So what we can take away from this is that the ig model is at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to hot girls. Only the the least intelligent men on this list will go for them.
Most men are just looking for sex. This is from a man. I am a follower of Jesus Christ so I am looking for a God fearing wife. Who I can honour and she can submit to me.
This reminds me (in a good way) of something Anna said *several* videos back about there not being a lack of rich affluent men, but rather sophisticated elegant ladies that attract them~ Words I have taken to heart! It's going to be worthwhile ..even if the process takes a while with getting things together on my end. :)
what % of the population do you think are available rich/affluent men? It cant be very high, because by definition they would not be affluent if there were many around
Self made discreet man. ❤ He has both aspects to himself. Money was not handed to him, he has lead a common life as well as an elite life. He appreciates people and their struggles. Being discreet is very sexy. They don’t have to prove to the world their worth or who they are or what they have accomplished.
As someone who is related to 2 of those real rich Chinese men, I can confirm that what Anna said is true. Both had mistresses and wives. I find it shameful honestly, and even though it is generally accepted, I wish this wasn't the case.
i think you nailed the “finance guy” , the one im talking to at the moment told me his type is someone who is not over the top ig model type but still classically and timelessly elegant
I noticed men from wealthy families like women who are educated (& maybe well traveled) and may not necessarily be from just as wealthy family. Also, yes unfortunately some wealthy Chinese men who cheat think this is normal. Also, the finance guy may not be into illegal drugs just heavy drinking at times and some do like the provocative women, but try to conform her when he dates her seriously or marries her. They may be similar to those in real estate. Tech guys have an inflated sense of who they can get, but may end up with their friend from college or that smart less achieved woman.
Seriously, this happened to a friend of mine but I had no idea it was something finance guys just do, and neither did she. My friend is seriously gorgeous but very sophisticated looking. And she dresses very sophisticatedly in most situations. She is a belly dancer, however. Not as her main profession, but just at times around her regular job. Nothing scandalous, just dancing, and she only dresses in costume for her shows. He'd have to go to these meetings that were in relation to his work and often she'd have to go too, or at least that would be expected once they were married. Of course, she always dressed very elegantly for those, and in every other area of her life in actuality. He didn't complain often about her dancing but would do so at times, and she knew he wanted her to quit. Even though she dressed elegantly all the time, except when she's dancing for an event, he was worried this would embarrass him in front of colleagues (as if they'd ever see her that way or even know of it). They were engaged, about to get married. They'd even had the engagement party already and the wedding was within a couple weeks or so. Suddenly, he dumps her, just like that. Boom. After reading in the comment above, I guess he liked her gorgeous appeal on one hand but felt the need to try to subdue her on the other and when it didn't seem like she'd comply, he cut her. He did try to get her back a couple months later, but she was over it by then. Now she's married to a great guy who's even more upscale than he ever was. She did far better for herself in the end.
angelic sparkles I experienced that most men (even overweight unattractive ) believe they deserve a beautiful woman beyond that which the can get. I think they should realize they get what the give. Period.
I feel like there are men that will casually date and sleep around with the “IG model” but most almost ALWAYS end up marrying and settling down with the “girl next door” type
Love that color on you Anna. I didn’t know you can pull that color off. Maybe I’m wrong I thought that color was more for brunette but actually looks beautiful on you. I will like you to do a video on what color looks better for certain skin or hair color.. now the you are an stylist you probably have some useful tips
Thanks Anna, it is always amusing watching your videos. I am Married to the tech "rich" guy, and yes he runs around in his hoodie, Loungewear/shorts and sandals even in star restaurants and he never wears socks even in winter, where he only wears mules but never proper shoes :D it is a little embarrassing sometimes but also funny, when all the people look at him in a certain way. We live in the Golfe of Saint Tropez, where people tend to be more elegant. I tried to elevate his looks. It worked for a short period of time and now it is worse than ever, but he is very confident, comfortable and happy the way he is. I love that he does not have inferiority complex like many other men.
I wonder why men can get away looking like that, dress the way he wants, while women have to be elegant. In a way, we can say kim Kardashian is just being herself yet I see women here bash her as improper. I'd say I'm jealous of women who don't conform, just like this nerdy guys who also don't
@@nextstep9689 Haha, sorry I know I'm 3 years late, but... Speaking as someone who grew up around these nerdy tech guy types and still has friendships with several, I'd say it's simply because these guys have almost all their attention focused on their specific areas of interest, and just can't bring themselves to care about other things that much. To them, trying to be "acceptable" according to society is just a pointless waste of energy that could be spent on more interesting pursuits. They are not emotionally affected by social disapproval other than experiencing mild annoyance at the inconvenience, so they don't have the same inner "shame" mechanism that drives the rest of us to conform. Of course, the degree to which each tech guy will exhibit these traits is on a spectrum, but there are enough guys in the world toward the extreme end that the rest of society basically gave up on trying to make them conform lol. Especially since they produce so much technological innovation. That's why they get away with it!
I intensely like how you are so honest and don't beat around the bush. A lot of people might disagree with you and have a big long articulate argument, but really, it is like how you say it is. My favourite type is the same as your favourite type as long as they are nice, moral, not abusive, makes a good living and won't cheat on me. Thank you for all your hard work.
As someone who lives in China, I am exposed to the varying affluent circles through work. The following is completely true: Married Chinese men can and will do whatever they want with no consequence. It’s well known throughout that they will stray away and cheat but always have a home base with their wife. Normally, Chinese men marry young to someone their family approves of and this woman will hold down the family and be HIS wife (spoil, keep in the public eye). However, they will still cheat and party and do whatever they like in private or with fellow men. Divorce is also seldom here
Wow that’s similar to my culture (Turkmen). But another variation has been becoming trendy also - a man marrying and divorcing one woman after another, each time living with one for a few years and then marrying a new young one. Thus, this guy theoretically provides for all 3-5 of his wives (current and former).
Chinese men have difficulty finding a woman due to more women pursuing education and Western men instead of these self centered new rich Chinese guys. And due to the one child policy, most families aborted the female fetuses, so less women of marrying age are now available. So sad!
@kshiftkometh I know. Lately, I heard about the organ harvesting of people who belong to an opposing political group. They take the organs of the prisoners while they are alive because they see them as non humans with value. Anyway, that goes beyond the video and I hope that ladies who want to pursue rich Chinese men are well aware of the cultural differences and values.
@kshiftkometh Why? Divorce is a right, and these women aren't being played, they all recieve benefits after the divorce, a wife always recieve benefits even after divorce.
You made a lot of great points. I agree with the “Arab man” stereotype you painted completely. As a Muslim woman I personally say the religion does not forbid marriage to non-Muslim women(as long as they are Christian or Jewish) but this is often an excuse that is made. The real reason they marry their own kind is family and cultural pressures. You have some great insight overall.
I would say my boyfriend falls into the discrete rich guy category. He's very well off for his age and I've noticed him becoming more discrete, very down to earth and kind. Everything you said in this video is correct. He told me even though these type of guys like looking at the kim k type girls or ig models they typically never settle with them. if they do they always try to conform them.
Great video! Of course there are exceptions, but you hit the nail on the head for the most part! My husband is 10yrs older than me, Asian from Asia, but raised in USA, a mix between “farm / secret wealthy” and “techie/finance” and fell for me, the “above average from privileged family” /Kim K in my early 20s type but became more elegant yet suburban house wife-next door type in my 30s. I love your videos bc I am trying to stay feminine and elegant as life throws babies and responsibilities of keeping home and trying to have a social life in my way, but I’m glad you’re helping women navigate the dating waters with these men! 💖
I really like your videos because you are focused on growth and building women up instead of putting women down; it’s all about giving women knowledge to achieve the best versions of themselves. Thank you for your videos ❤️❤️❤️
What I find sad is women who fall for the “rich” man and lets face it unless you really get to know him you don’t REALLY know how rich he is and even if he is it doesn’t mean he’s going to take you further than the “ bedroom “ you have to be so carefull of getting swept off your feet one week and 👻 ghosted the next !
Fun video! 💗 I’ve noticed that most of the unassuming “Millionaire-Next-Door” type of men gravitate to smart, non-flashy women that will work along side them and/or offer a stable support system to increase their net worth. In doing that, these women make all the decisions in choosing the homes, cars, schools for their kids, etc., that they want.
I feel like a finance guy can be any type of these men. Though I find, in general, with a man in finance, even if he appears put together, he has a very dark side.
I am a Chinese girl I would say having mistress is very common but not acceptable by the society. This is seen as something shame to do like in other cultures, and if a man have mistresses, he needs to do that under the table and never bring it to the light. There are many cases that mistresses being violated by the rich wife. But still having mistress is very common, men just need to hide it very well. And Anna, the reason why those girls told you it is acceptable because they don't wanna tell you what they are doing is something shady and they don't wanna get judged in front of you by you, no one does. They may talk about it in their close circle, but never would be high profile or brag about being or having mistresses in public. And Chinese Rich man giving expensive properties or lux cars as gifts, and give girls credit cards for shopping. Chinese men are very generous.
@T Collins What I am trying to say here is that China has adopted more modern moral which shared by other culture nowadays as well -- the people who step into or break the marriage is ashamed. In the Asian history, having joy wives were legal and accepted by the official wife, but nowadays, it never got accepted by the official wife or the society, lovers can never talk about they are lovers in public, as they will be accused and ashamed by others. And there are so many cases and news like wife destroy lover's faces or beat the lover on the street, this only won't happen in old Asian history but happens now, you see the difference? And recently, the new Chinese law gives more protection to the wife that the wife can claim back all the assets and money the husband gave the lover as it is considered as couple's common assents , means, the authorities, police and court will help the wife to get assets back. So from the moral perspective and legal perspective, this behaviour is no longer accepted and there are ways to punish lovers.
I won't comment on your other words, only your last setence made me laugh. "Chinese men are very generous." They are generous only to mistresses, because they know they are buying sex from them. Most of them are not generous at all to their employees, to strangers or to those who really need help.
Chinese men are not generous. I have dated one in the past. No no no, even though he had a lot of money and I would go out of my way to go and see him. And also knew when I was struggling financially - never even gave anything and we dated for 9 months. I thought he was very stingy money wise.
My type is the intellectual, compassionate n kind guy. Kindness is all we need. Then you do not need to have loads of money to be happy. Just love n kindness n protection. But I never got it. Lol.
Muslim men will settle for European women but they won’t be the princes/Amirs or sheikhs or Kuwaitis ......... I know as I married one (he was restaurateur) ) and my ex”s brother worked for a sheikh , he would get him women when on business in London but all for fun, they love casinos and pretty young women , all things a good muslim shouldn’t do 🙄, will treat them very well often spend money on them , but they will be lucky if he sees them more than once . You got them put well in there “boxes” you gained that experience along the way bit like myself. I attract the rich married men or the self made rich men mostly , I’d say type 10 the last one , let’s face it most rich men are usually married , that’s why there still rich 😉😁 or usually not single for long ! P.s. there is a category 11) the guy who talks he’s rich , just to usually get where he wants to be FAST, the dangerous man who talks a very good talk, Be very careful of those type, because in my experience most men who’ve got it usually don’t “flaunt “ it, and if they do .......then there often up to no good!
I'm friends with a guy who fits into the Hip Hop category. He hides the fact that he has a girlfriend because he has a brand/image to maintain. He rubs shoulders with a lot of the famous Australian artists. His world is absolutely crazy!
Discreet millionaire is everyone’s favourite, and for a reason. The tech genius is great too. I wonder what category Obama would’ve fallen into?🤔 Would he have been rich if he wasn’t a president? Anyway Michelle and Barack’s union is what I would love for myself as well
yes definetely he would have been a very successful lawyer or manager. he's got class, brain and has a charing way to comunicate. he's got also a good dose of empathy :) Michelle is a lucky woman, (she's a catch too of course :D)
I started to watch your videos not so long ago. I'm 20, not much interested in affluent men and people always describe me as very feminine. I have different views, but I really like your reasoning. Moreover, you made me feel more valuable and proud of being a woman. Thank you for all of the energy put in this videos ❤ I subscribe and send love
All of them date supermodels, actresses and singers. Take a look at Tom Brady, David Beckham, and so on. Best case scenario, they marry women who helped them to build their careers.
@@Chahlie I guess the lucky ones are those who belong to their circle. i.e doctors, physiotherapists, psychologists, other sportswoman. Antoine Griezmann for instance married his college girlfriend and they have 3 kids now. Leo Messi as well. Other than that, professional athletes tend to be players and cheaters. There are creepy stories about American footballers' wife. They literally let them to have as many mistresses as they want.
I like tennis player, but 99% of the times they choose other tennis player. I guess, they have few time together and they like to spend it with their similar. I noticed that sporty people don't care about intelligence, but in some sports (like football, soccer..) it's a competition to have the most beautiful girl
I my country, sport guys usually marry runway models, who stop their modelling career after marriage and become housewives and sometimes part-time designers
Im nigerian and agree..the ethnic love thing is strong here especially in Nigeria..Ghana is heading towards mixed these days but Nigeria is still Hausa goes with Hausa, Fulani , Yoruba and so on
You know what, I love how transparent you are. This is what everyone needs. They need someone that is going to be honest about things like this. Because realistically we all want someone that has money. No one likes to struggle, but everyone was not born to be slim with long legs and green eyes and blond hair. Not even only blond hair but just the frame that a rich man is looking for. So it's just good to get your own money and be in the position where maybe you can meet someone on the level as you and you all can build together.❤❤
I was just thinking that, Nadine. They are the only group to whom a highly educated woman is an aphrodisiac. Their culture values the traditional professions very much, and nowadays often marry another professional.
Jewish men oftentimes have mistresses as well. Usually when they marry younger, they're not too concerned of her status, but they do like educated women.
I admire you. Actually I am not that woman who looks for a financial rich man. I'm taken and happy. I admire your directness and the way you show how to be feminine and well mannerism. That's what we should strive for! Us women have actually so much power. You show your feminine energy and I appreciate it❤️💪
Yes! I was wondering about them too! I’m from the US but my family is Italian. And I’d really like to marry an Italian man since the culture feels so familiar. ❤️
I love your honesty and authenticity Ana! You’re so funny naturally without forcing humour and just by saying how it is and it’s so refreshing! A lot of people came to mind in this video eg. the tech guy who married vic secret model Miranda Kerr and the party-type athletes/pop stars ahah. The psychology behind who we choose is interesting and actually much more simple than I thought. You have a special edge on this too since you have a background in match-making along with other interesting studies and I love that you share what you know with us! Most of these men aren’t for me but if I had to choose one category it would definitely be 10. Thank you for helping me to conduct myself more elegantly and improve as a whole especially through mannerisms and fashion. I hope you and anyone reading has a great day!
You have impeccable taste in clothes. Now that you’re wearing colors, you look radiant. You know exactly what colors work for you. I know you studied this - it was well worth it!
I love this kind of stuff, trying to figure people out. My husband and I were at a party the other night with rich tech guys and I was fascinated by their dates/wives. So many don't seem to match looks-wise. It was very interesting. I could tell the dates who were significantly better looking had wandering eyes and I saw them even just blatantly flirt with better looking men. It's a lot of Asian nationalities so it was an interesting party for people watching anyway lol!
I'm sorry it sounded that way. I think I was referring to something she said in the video, I actually don't remember my thought process when I said that. Maybe just watching different cultures and how they interact romantically🤷🏽♀️ I happen to have a deep love for Asia and two of my precious daughters are Chinese. I'm sorry if my statement came across as offensive. ❤️
I am watching the video now as write this, but I just wanted to say that I really like what you've been doing with your hair lately. It looks like it's maybe a bit shorter and I think it brings more focus onto your pretty face shape. I like the colors you've been wearing but I got to say I still think you look great in black too!
The kind of rich guy I have obtained is the discreet one. I wasn’t looking for him, I just happened to meet him by chance. But I love that he isn’t flashy, and how he acts just like everyone else. He’s amazing and I am glad that I am dating someone so wonderful.
Eva Green Lover We met online before meeting irl. When I visited him, I was surrounded by these massive houses and then I met his parents. I learned that his father owns a company that he is actually working for and that they were actually wealthy. But it did explain everything. However, there are some really flashy affluent people in that area, his family is more on the humble side which I loved so much. Another things is that they are very wise with how they handle their money. They may have all this money, but they still are very frugal with it.
I will contribute some insights to Anna's question about China's mistresses culture. I'm not Chinese, so facts may slightly differ. But around South East Asia, from China, Koreans, Japanese and VN; they are very similar in the foundation of their logic. So it goes like this, wealthy men will marry someone their family approves of, OR, a woman that is so capable, she can support his career. Whether it is her family background, her family financial power or even her family name and relations. It is rare that they'd marry just for the woman herself, and the same thing for the divorce. Unless the man himself is powerful enough to handle all the damages (direct and collaterals) as the result of divorcing his wife. Especially for another woman, he won't do it. And often time, he won't. Because there are so many interests involved, a wealthy married couple won't get a divorce. They can sleep in different bedrooms, or living in different houses - but hardly a divorce. But it does happen (and the whole world would know about it) It's different for each family, but sometimes, both the husband and the wife would have lovers. Everyone knows it, nobody acknowledges it. Live goes on. For the more traditional woman, she would not have a lover for herself, but she would just take it. As long as none of the mistresses challenged her (which happens more than you might think), and her children are the ones getting the inheritance (another story for another time). There are some men who are rich and also loves their wives very much too. But those are harder to come by then finding a needle in the haystack. LOL.
I am #9 ( a gentleman farmer ) and i'm looking for Audrey Hepburn to share a country cottage with.Let me know if you seen her.Thank you Anna darling......;))))
I love how she respects each lifestyles and aesthetics (seeing how so many people in the elegant community looks down on Kim Kardashian even though they’re also part of the affluent class) Rich is not a type, rich people are all different.
Hallo Ana, I'm a Chinese woman and have been watching your video for a while. I'm surprised and also happy that you mentioned in this video about our culture. For those who is also interested in our culture, let me explain it. Family is almost the most important for us and majority Chinese put family first. Why I spoke almost, because the young generation are more westernized. We often said, the marriage in China is between two families not two loved persons. If the man or the woman was not accepted by the family of the other side, it would be very difficult. He or she would perhaps fight for his or her love but will give it up very soon because it's a hard journey and you don't have support from anyone.
Newly single at 44. Been watching Anna's videos for thevpsst two eyars. Maybe i knew deep down I would need this advice one day....but actually i really love all the elegant content. I love self improvement and looking to level up ❤
Anna, thank you for being there with your fantastic advices ,....we really needed you. I’m one of your faithful followers, I really think you are awesome. One more time, thank you.
I prefer the guy that doesn’t completely hide his wealth but isn’t flashy either. Someone who’s generous and appreciates a woman with brains and beauty.
and heart too
My husband 🙌🏽
Yessss. Especially when they appreciate their women. 🥺
I agree
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I don't need rich just a high-quality man who is stable, financially secure and comfortable. Love your videos!
Same 💜
Yes!
Anonymous65 good girl
Same
anonymous.. I agree... many thanks 💯👫👩❤️💋👨
Rich farm guys are often forgotten about. It's good to see them appreciated.
A farm guy would be the ultimate man for me. If only I was using my smarts and move somewhere where there is country (will never accomplish that living in the big city)
ummmm YES! As a Floridian, I was walking in NYC and I had a funny convo with a construction-looking guy in the city. He had a guy harvey shirt tucked into straight -leg medium blue jeans that were pulled over his boots. I said "What part of ___ county you from?" and he lit up! He was a contractor from my hometown traveling for a project, and I'd hit the nail on the head lol. He's not rich, but he has a lovely home and trucks and a successful small business. I can't get enough of this kind of level-headed country boy
Awww Nya, that’s cool! 👍
Kit Kat, you picked the wrong farms 😁
@Kit Kat the less smelly farmers are those that deal with crops or goats, horses and sheep. And the worst smelling are chicken, cow and pig farmers. I've lived in rural areas all my life.
No man in the world is worth hurting another woman over.
So true
Agreed
Agreed
I don’t understand women who agree to be mistresses or the other woman for a few pieces of silver. I wonder if they realize how much they’re hurting the wife and kids.
@@fairdose no, the cheating man hurting HIS wife and HIS children.
I see how you couldn't stop smiling when talking about the secret rich type of men, not to mention the sparkle in your eyes during describing them, I'd say I'm pretty sure your partner falls in that category ♥️
Yes Swiss men are the best
OMG 😳 I got the same impression❤️❤️👍🏾
That’s the kind of guy I like as well lollll 😉
Great observation. I didn't notice that.
I also noticed...Good for her!
Yeah and that chuckle😊, like she had a secret.
I work in finance (asset management) for 12 years now and you are spot on Anna!! In my experience they party first, and will date beautiful and flashy girls. Later they want to settle down and choose someone beautiful elegant and most important feminine!! A lot of them choose woman from countries where the women are more feminine, polished etc. They see blue and grey suits all day so if you want to impress this man wear a red or pink dress, some heels, nice nailpolish and be warm and inviting. I've seen that work time after time. It's a rough world finance, and they want someone sweet and caring to come home to that they can also take to their mom. Hope this helps you ladies
Brain Storm Interesting, thanks for sharing 😎
Thank you for advice! I really get along and get attracted to finance men, maybe cause my previous job was connected with budgeting! Some of them do party hard but I’ve met some very grounded and respectful men among them as well :)
@@vicd8346 thats awesome, I'm happy for you! there are great men in finance indeed :)
@@TheNicoliyah happy to help :)
Brain Storm there are different types of finance guys like Anna said. In my experience I have seen a lot of party guys who (unfortunately) sleep around and date a lot of women in a short period of time. But there are also those more quiet, introverted guys who also are common in finance. Yes, they wear suits and look expensive when they are working but on weekends they are very laid back. They often settle for a smart and educated woman who is not flashy but attractive and classy.
The Rich Farmer and The Secret Afluent man. Mostly Because I like someone down to earth and also hard working 🙏
Belletaina I absolutely agree, I find it elegant for men when they are not flashy.
girl, i do not know about the rich farmer. I am scared we will not match
Yes, please.
Yes to that. 🥰
@@marcelleines5176 ..Both of My Grandfa are from Rich Farmers..
Anna was Right, usually they marry women on there Area.. The Girl that they knew since Childhood.
The man I like the most is the man who likes me the most, treats me well and there is a mutual attraction 💕
Thats the most satisfying and fulfilling love
I'm a man of God and I don't live for money. In fact covetousness is a sin. We need to be good stewards of our money. PSALM 37:16 A little that a righteous man hath is better than the riches of many wicked
I fee like that should be the perfect scenario.
Now, imagine all this, plus money.
@@CloseYourFuckinEyes yes..
One thing I love about Anne's videos is that you never see in the background some empty Chanel or Prada shopping bag or book like in other influencers videos :) thumbs up
Met a rich farmer type a couple of months ago by accident (Western Canada is full of them) he sent a couple of bottles of wine to my table - where I was sat with my family. He was very confident warm and jovial, shame he was literally a couple of years younger than my father. Dear universe please send me an age appropriate secret millionaire 😂
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😂😂😂😂😂
AALofts Design I would’ve snatched him up in a heartbeat 💓.
@@azra5648 same!
I think the "farmer" type is the most masculine one ...cause he doesnt care about rules and trends
The blue really looks good on her....
It's actually too bright for her, it makes her skin look really pale
@@regularity2556 I agree
Regularity Agreed
@@regularity2556 I agree ... C looks pale
@@regularity2556 I agree, it draw attention away from her. Pastels work much better on her though
Wait...I laughed so hard when you started off with hip hop rapper guy. Totally unexpected lol
That's a nice way of saying "Black men with money burning in their pockets who are willing to wine and dine you", typically, this isn't sustainable, but very helpful information for this demographic. They're starter boyfriends, I guess lol. Start there. I've "dated" (using this term super loosely) a couple men who were good for bottle service and a mani or bundles, maybe nice lingerie and an outfit or two, but the cars are always rented and theres always 50 other women on rotation. It's good for the come up I guess. They typically prefer white women anyway.
Lol, for sure! I wasn't expecting that either.
Same 🤣
BJ22 “Boo”?! 🙄😂 I wasn’t referring to Black men who aren’t in the music industry, and neither was she.
😂
Number 9 is definitely the man I’m talking to right now. He was on holiday in my country , We met by accident on a yacht cruise , I say accident because I was not suppose to go on that yacht, I change my mind last minute because of how pretty it looked 🙈. Mid cruise he came to me and I wasn’t instantly attracted to him because he does not look affluent or cares about affluence at all 😂 yet weeks after talking (and starting to like him) when we decided to go on a platonic weekend away trip I found out how wealthy he is 🙆🏽♀️. Literally did not see it coming because of how laid back he is. I was also surprised that he’s into elegant women like me (He says my elegance is not flashy or overboard, I’m just a woman who loves a beautiful life yet very grounded- wife material to be exact 😂) . I’m happy with him because he’s not flashy, I’ve dated flashy men and I hated it. Anyways...
We’re still talking and things are getting serious quite quick 😂💯
Thank you Anna ❤️ it was really pure chance.
Timelessa VanRoe that’s lovely dear
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Awww...excited for you. Enjoy it.
Awww...excited for you. Enjoy it.
@Timelessa VanRoe, now that our prayers for you have been answered, let's switch our focus on me in unison, shall we? 💪
I remember attending a cocktail party once where the guys were actually discussing who had the wife/girlfriend with the most successful career. It was like a throwback to the 1950s where women would discuss this about their husbands. These guys saw a successful woman as an asset to their own careers and their entry point to a higher level. It was so enlightening.
🤮its not a womans job to help a man pay for life
Successful women can be assets but should not be an expectation!
These guys just too weak
Well, that means he can relax and let her carry the burden. How nice for him.😂 I'm not old fashioned but a woman should do it because she wants to not because it is expected or in order to catch and keep a man or simply to be his bragging point like a champion steed.
Like a champion steed or broodmare?
The Arab Prince can also include South Asian men and Arab men generally, rich or not. They’ll sleep around with women outside their religion and race and when it’s time to settle down and marry, they’ll look for a woman of their ethnicity and religion. She will have to be a virgin who is subservient. If these men live in a Western country, they’ll marry someone from back home who will be easier to control and manipulate.
100% true
Just think about Rihanna with the arab rich guy she dated
Arab women have strong personalities and they control everything in the family even the man trust me
Maria Al-Masani I disagree.
Stay away from those men from those culture. Uncivilized people who treats anyone out of their kind as second human. Very twisted belief, as a western woman, you're actually not only allowed to be bed but also to be killed, based on religious rule. They are better being left off with their kind. Believe me I was unfortunate enough to be born among them, as one of them, I am familiar with their way of thinking. Religious rule that can be twisted according to their need so they can have peace of mind (do the thing they like without making God angry or something). A lot of things blew my mind on how selfish and inhumane this culture is. What made me sad, their own women will somehow defend these men behavior because maybe some kind of Stockholm syndrome.
Personally, musicians are usually too much in their feminine energy for me.🤷♀️
Tina Leder This is my experience with musicians also
LMAO 💀🤣 I'm not sure if you know what you just did with this comment.
I can't deal with anyone in the music industry, it's too risky.
They're usually completely infatuated with themselves and their art. I don't date musicians anymore. 💁
@@ms.x1669 apparently not😂😂😂
As a Chinese who spent 25 years in China, what you said in the video is mostly true. Most of the rich guys in China who started from scratch would marry a woman who could help him with his business and cheat on his wife after he becomes successful. Mistresses are also very common and ofc their wives know what's going on. Divorce isn't that common in the high society due to culture and tradition values.
Similar to Morocco, divorce is not an option always because of tradition and what others will say even tho the woman is aware of the cheating husband. Usually these women are + 50 and are dependent on their husbands financially.
CelineBisous i will never understand why any woman in any culture would want to be a “side chick” and why they do not see their insignificance.
Heartbreaking!
@@scarlettebaudelaire3898 these women sometimes need money desperately , sometimes they are just happy with what they have. And , they have the option to leave and start anew.
It's common among Asian men, not just Chinese.
This should be a series. Do an in depth analysis on how to get these guys. Girl this was a fun video 😍🙏💰💰💰 I've been waiting on it for so long
i agree. this vid was fun. more man tips plzzz
Yesss this was a great video. It made me pay attention in a whole new way
Easy for tech men: Be white or asian(they'll marry them fat/skinny...dumb or smart), if you're latina be more classy, excluding indian women since they wont have the same struggles. If you're a black or biracial black woman good luck chuck. Working as a swe among swe making bank they just generally arent checking for bw.
PrincessMoo Moo False!
@@princessmoo4891 not true.
Plenty of black women with wealthy men.
I'm speaking as a native Chinese girl. Having mistresses is common among high society, but is certainly not accepted by our culture. It's like an open secret.
Thanks for explenation🙂
I lived in China for a few years (nearby Hong Kong) and i can confirm it from i have heard an seen there. Very interesting thing i've heard from my Chinese friend is that mistress is usually 20 or over years younger and he pays her all bills including luxurious life (e.g.car).
Greetings from Bosnia and Herzegovina.
Dated finance guys and tech guys. I'm a plain Jane/a bit above average at most. One thing to add. These career guys look for women also in great careers, graduated from ivy league schools, etc.
@Eva Green Lover they can hire nannies and au pairs. The kids are for the legacy.
Finance guys are typically creeps. Powerhungry Daddy Doms on coke with sad kinks and weird fetishes. Ew, I'll permanently pass.
Nya Smith 😂😂😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Yup Alma matters mean a lot to them . It’s the pedigree they are looking for
Sis..im right there with you
Ooo I have another for you. Real estate investor man (apart from flashy California): will wear Walmart shorts but drive a Lambo. Wants a woman who will “build it with him” or does not waste his money.
Lmao soo true. I wish men like him luck, we can fake that money don't matter in the dating phase but later on in the relationship....
So true!!! Also he moves forward very very slow and careful, often times they are stingy, even sending flowers is something out of their comfort zone. :))))
Spot on
So accurate! Lol. I married one.
I immediately thought of Graham Stephan from LA. He wears H&M tshirts of 3 dollars and has a new Tesla.
My favorite is the last one, number 10. It's the one I grew up surrounded by. You find this one in elite schools and neighbourhoods. After that, through your network who also grew up that way.They want women to have some brain, but at the same time who care about their appearance. It's all about balance.
Or God forbid, a brazilian buttlift! That had me laughing out loud. Such humor you have Anna.
I might be a snob but...i never really cared what men want... I always wondered what I want. And once I figured that everything else fell into place.
Wow you girls are selfish asf
honey Singh they lie, they’re cat ladies
@@MattieK09 yeah woman are not worth it now
honey Singh but the real question, do you care what women want?
@@annathepiper7964 why do I care ? Btw I know what woman want is money
I have a fiance that I completely adore with my whole heart. I am in no way looking for a man, yet for some reason I love watching these videos & adore this gal!... I also love learning ways to look, feel, and present myself as affluent, boujee, & upper class - even if I am not. 😆❤
We all still need to know how to behave properly. ALL of us. So, kudos to you! 😀
Jenni K. I, too, am engaged to a wonderful man. I’m watching Anna Bey so as to maintain my elegance and continue to have him content and adoring me. 😘
Exactly. She is really teaching good stuff that make a real lady. So I sometimes find it uncomfortable when she constantly mentions rich men in most her videos
@@mariaalmasani hmm... u hv a good point there. I love her videos n personality only sometimes it feels if u hv subscribed or watching, it's bcos u want a rich man. I don't hv a problem with that tho n well who wouldn't want that but I think learning to present oneself is better above anything else. May be it's because I'm already married that why it feels awkward sometimes but cool anyways n love her regardless
I adore the entire discussion that spawned off of my original comment. I often felt guilty getting pleasure from her videos, not all of then, just these ones in particular. However, knowing I'm not alone is a relief, and you are all absolutely correct in your own reasonings for enjoying her content. I especially appreciate Maria mentioning how lucky we are, in our current extreme state of political correctness, to have someone so honest & straight forward to turn to. It is very inspirational. To be honest, in the feminist world we now live in, I have often been made to feel bad for wanting to be classy & affluent. It was always something I wanted for myself, not for getting a man, but I still often get shamed for wanting to present myself in a pleasing fashion, and I'm always very grateful to see how kind, appreciative & respectful the comment section here is! So, thank you to all of you for sharing your reasoning & thoughts with me. I genuinely appreciate hearing them & also appreciate knowing that I am far from alone!
So all in all marry a tech guy lol
@@TsarOfRuss, you nailed it!
yep
Been looking for one for years.
@@cmaj4887 I found mine while we were in high school and way before his success. We have a lot of similar interest and he can geek out with me. He is also street smart, a minority, social and good looking, so he’s not the “typical tech guy”.
Marry for money-PAY & PAY& PAY. Ladies: get as much education as possible so you can support yourself no matter what. You look lovely in that shade of blue.😘
I dated some wealthy man in the past, like important business man and CEO...I can confirm that they really pay attention to our attitude, especially how we talk and behave in a public place. According to my experience they seem attracted especially to young women who are clever and elegant both with her style and manners but not too much "showy" at the same time .
In other words, the loyal types of rich men are limited? I do not want any STD’s or diseases.
Definitely like the farmer and discreet rich types 😊
Do women want a man who is genuine or a rich man? People can't love money and God at the same time.
@@jesuschristsavesfromhellst4432 A man can be genuine and rich, (I know isn't common) but lots of poor men aren't loyal either.
@@dianavivaldi4503 Do you guys think a person can love God and money at the same time?
@@patriciastewart2537 I think that if people use the money to feed the needy and help the homeless it's great. I don't think that schools teach kids lessons they need in life like survival and God. To me this world is getting eviler and more ungodly by the day. I may get married but no children. Also no wasting money on flashy things.
@@jesuschristsavesfromhellst4432 I can name plenty of rich men in the Bible. Job, Solomon, David, Boaz, etc. Money doesn't always have to be a negative thing.
I have to say my favorite type of man is the nerdy and the low key type of guy. And I was lucky enough to find in a blind date the man of my dreams. ( low key type)I know for personal experience those type of guys are the best if you want to have a long term loving relationship. These are the hidden gems that are hard to find. Underneath the shy introverted plain joe cover is a wonderful man whom is going to treat you like a lady. If you find him never let him go.😉
Me too
How did you find him?
How did you find it, what places do you advise me to go? and how should i behave? I await your advice 🙂
the nerdy one and low key one are simpler and have more respect for women. They are not as selfish as other types of rich man.
@@kv911 get a job in a large company i guess
So what we can take away from this is that the ig model is at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to hot girls. Only the the least intelligent men on this list will go for them.
Lol those men tend to be black guys 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Levelup boo ahaha very tru as well 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Ruru Home says alot about our men 😫😫
i think that sugardaddys dont choose. You should only be 30years youngrt then them😂
@@mrsrubycoco55 thats not always true, alot of sugar daddy want a model type young female
We should have a sisters groupchat on TH-cam were we help each other out
I agree 😁
😆😆i love the sound of that
@@shaqeeras625 we will figure out :)
Most men are just looking for sex. This is from a man. I am a follower of Jesus Christ so I am looking for a God fearing wife. Who I can honour and she can submit to me.
Yasss
This reminds me (in a good way) of something Anna said *several* videos back about there not being a lack of rich affluent men, but rather sophisticated elegant ladies that attract them~ Words I have taken to heart! It's going to be worthwhile ..even if the process takes a while with getting things together on my end. :)
what % of the population do you think are available rich/affluent men? It cant be very high, because by definition they would not be affluent if there were many around
"Your network is your net worth" 💎💎💎
make a longer video with more types and more specific, because for me this topic is extremely interesting! love you so much!!!
Self made discreet man. ❤ He has both aspects to himself. Money was not handed to him, he has lead a common life as well as an elite life. He appreciates people and their struggles. Being discreet is very sexy. They don’t have to prove to the world their worth or who they are or what they have accomplished.
As someone who is related to 2 of those real rich Chinese men, I can confirm that what Anna said is true. Both had mistresses and wives. I find it shameful honestly, and even though it is generally accepted, I wish this wasn't the case.
i think you nailed the “finance guy” , the one im talking to at the moment told me his type is someone who is not over the top ig model type but still classically and timelessly elegant
also why im soo happy to have found your channel
I noticed men from wealthy families like women who are educated (& maybe well traveled) and may not necessarily be from just as wealthy family. Also, yes unfortunately some wealthy Chinese men who cheat think this is normal. Also, the finance guy may not be into illegal drugs just heavy drinking at times and some do like the provocative women, but try to conform her when he dates her seriously or marries her. They may be similar to those in real estate. Tech guys have an inflated sense of who they can get, but may end up with their friend from college or that smart less achieved woman.
Seriously, this happened to a friend of mine but I had no idea it was something finance guys just do, and neither did she. My friend is seriously gorgeous but very sophisticated looking. And she dresses very sophisticatedly in most situations. She is a belly dancer, however. Not as her main profession, but just at times around her regular job. Nothing scandalous, just dancing, and she only dresses in costume for her shows.
He'd have to go to these meetings that were in relation to his work and often she'd have to go too, or at least that would be expected once they were married. Of course, she always dressed very elegantly for those, and in every other area of her life in actuality.
He didn't complain often about her dancing but would do so at times, and she knew he wanted her to quit. Even though she dressed elegantly all the time, except when she's dancing for an event, he was worried this would embarrass him in front of colleagues (as if they'd ever see her that way or even know of it).
They were engaged, about to get married. They'd even had the engagement party already and the wedding was within a couple weeks or so. Suddenly, he dumps her, just like that. Boom.
After reading in the comment above, I guess he liked her gorgeous appeal on one hand but felt the need to try to subdue her on the other and when it didn't seem like she'd comply, he cut her. He did try to get her back a couple months later, but she was over it by then. Now she's married to a great guy who's even more upscale than he ever was. She did far better for herself in the end.
angelic sparkles I experienced that most men (even overweight unattractive ) believe they deserve a beautiful woman beyond that which the can get. I think they should realize they get what the give. Period.
I feel like there are men that will casually date and sleep around with the “IG model” but most almost ALWAYS end up marrying and settling down with the “girl next door” type
Exactly why this video is pointless. This is what men do across the board.
For sure
Love that color on you Anna. I didn’t know you can pull that color off. Maybe I’m wrong I thought that color was more for brunette but actually looks beautiful on you. I will like you to do a video on what color looks better for certain skin or hair color.. now the you are an stylist you probably have some useful tips
that's classic blue. it is the 2020 color of the year
I believe she is a natural brunette.
Haha
Thanks Anna, it is always amusing watching your videos. I am Married to the tech "rich" guy, and yes he runs around in his hoodie, Loungewear/shorts and sandals even in star restaurants and he never wears socks even in winter, where he only wears mules but never proper shoes :D it is a little embarrassing sometimes but also funny, when all the people look at him in a certain way. We live in the Golfe of Saint Tropez, where people tend to be more elegant. I tried to elevate his looks. It worked for a short period of time and now it is worse than ever, but he is very confident, comfortable and happy the way he is. I love that he does not have inferiority complex like many other men.
I wonder why men can get away looking like that, dress the way he wants, while women have to be elegant. In a way, we can say kim Kardashian is just being herself yet I see women here bash her as improper. I'd say I'm jealous of women who don't conform, just like this nerdy guys who also don't
@@nextstep9689 Haha, sorry I know I'm 3 years late, but...
Speaking as someone who grew up around these nerdy tech guy types and still has friendships with several, I'd say it's simply because these guys have almost all their attention focused on their specific areas of interest, and just can't bring themselves to care about other things that much. To them, trying to be "acceptable" according to society is just a pointless waste of energy that could be spent on more interesting pursuits. They are not emotionally affected by social disapproval other than experiencing mild annoyance at the inconvenience, so they don't have the same inner "shame" mechanism that drives the rest of us to conform.
Of course, the degree to which each tech guy will exhibit these traits is on a spectrum, but there are enough guys in the world toward the extreme end that the rest of society basically gave up on trying to make them conform lol. Especially since they produce so much technological innovation. That's why they get away with it!
I think its time for a study break!! Happy Sunday everyone 😌🥰
I intensely like how you are so honest and don't beat around the bush. A lot of people might disagree with you and have a big long articulate argument, but really, it is like how you say it is. My favourite type is the same as your favourite type as long as they are nice, moral, not abusive, makes a good living and won't cheat on me. Thank you for all your hard work.
At first i thought this was going to be utter BS, but you are actually pretty damn accurate !
As someone who lives in China, I am exposed to the varying affluent circles through work. The following is completely true: Married Chinese men can and will do whatever they want with no consequence. It’s well known throughout that they will stray away and cheat but always have a home base with their wife.
Normally, Chinese men marry young to someone their family approves of and this woman will hold down the family and be HIS wife (spoil, keep in the public eye). However, they will still cheat and party and do whatever they like in private or with fellow men.
Divorce is also seldom here
Wow that’s similar to my culture (Turkmen). But another variation has been becoming trendy also - a man marrying and divorcing one woman after another, each time living with one for a few years and then marrying a new young one. Thus, this guy theoretically provides for all 3-5 of his wives (current and former).
Chinese men have difficulty finding a woman due to more women pursuing education and Western men instead of these self centered new rich Chinese guys. And due to the one child policy, most families aborted the female fetuses, so less women of marrying age are now available. So sad!
Hells Angel Marry a rich Chinese guy especially when his mother still alive is like going to hell. (I’m half Chinese 😂)
@kshiftkometh I know. Lately, I heard about the organ harvesting of people who belong to an opposing political group. They take the organs of the prisoners while they are alive because they see them as non humans with value. Anyway, that goes beyond the video and I hope that ladies who want to pursue rich Chinese men are well aware of the cultural differences and values.
@kshiftkometh Why? Divorce is a right, and these women aren't being played, they all recieve benefits after the divorce, a wife always recieve benefits even after divorce.
I agree with you. The secret rich man is my favorite too. Elegant and lowkey, love them
You made a lot of great points. I agree with the “Arab man” stereotype you painted completely. As a Muslim woman I personally say the religion does not forbid marriage to non-Muslim women(as long as they are Christian or Jewish) but this is often an excuse that is made. The real reason they marry their own kind is family and cultural pressures. You have some great insight overall.
The Royal Blue looks gorgeous on you.
I would say my boyfriend falls into the discrete rich guy category. He's very well off for his age and I've noticed him becoming more discrete, very down to earth and kind. Everything you said in this video is correct. He told me even though these type of guys like looking at the kim k type girls or ig models they typically never settle with them. if they do they always try to conform them.
Im a men and I know your videos are more directed towards women, but I really have a good time watching your channel. Good work!
Oh my goodness Anna that blue looks stunning on you 💖
Great video! Of course there are exceptions, but you hit the nail on the head for the most part! My husband is 10yrs older than me, Asian from Asia, but raised in USA, a mix between “farm / secret wealthy” and “techie/finance” and fell for me, the “above average from privileged family” /Kim K in my early 20s type but became more elegant yet suburban house wife-next door type in my 30s.
I love your videos bc I am trying to stay feminine and elegant as life throws babies and responsibilities of keeping home and trying to have a social life in my way, but I’m glad you’re helping women navigate the dating waters with these men! 💖
I really like your videos because you are focused on growth and building women up instead of putting women down; it’s all about giving women knowledge to achieve the best versions of themselves. Thank you for your videos ❤️❤️❤️
I'll go for discreet rich men..especially if they are sapiophile.
You are a pioneer in educating women .
Nobody tells these truths to young women. Congratulations. Seriously.
What I find sad is women who fall for the “rich” man and lets face it unless you really get to know him you don’t REALLY know how rich he is and even if he is it doesn’t mean he’s going to take you further than the “ bedroom “ you have to be so carefull of getting swept off your feet one week and 👻 ghosted the next !
That can happen with a broke man. Keep your legs closed and you'll have nothing to worry about
Just discovered this channel today, oh my what have I been missing! Plus the comment section is so interesting and informative..
Fun video! 💗 I’ve noticed that most of the unassuming “Millionaire-Next-Door” type of men gravitate to smart, non-flashy women that will work along side them and/or offer a stable support system to increase their net worth. In doing that, these women make all the decisions in choosing the homes, cars, schools for their kids, etc., that they want.
Blue is your color for sure! I’m so excited to learn more about color theory for me, so I can wow by just wearing the right colors!
I feel like a finance guy can be any type of these men. Though I find, in general, with a man in finance, even if he appears put together, he has a very dark side.
Omg why?
Everytime she greets us "..My Dear Elegant Ladies" I start snickering like the sneaky intruder and non elegant gobin I AM xD
Me hahahahaha
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Leonardo DiCaprio was a good example, Hahaha.
@Thalia Batchom, I thought my eyes lied
@@thesocialintrovertchronicles lol lol lol
Everybody knows that Leo is gay. His model girl friends got a contract and after two years they are free and famous and he gets the next one.
@@doroparker1702 Come on thats crap since his gay why he just say it since now it ok
@@doroparker1702 Where's the proof?
I am a Chinese girl I would say having mistress is very common but not acceptable by the society. This is seen as something shame to do like in other cultures, and if a man have mistresses, he needs to do that under the table and never bring it to the light. There are many cases that mistresses being violated by the rich wife. But still having mistress is very common, men just need to hide it very well. And Anna, the reason why those girls told you it is acceptable because they don't wanna tell you what they are doing is something shady and they don't wanna get judged in front of you by you, no one does. They may talk about it in their close circle, but never would be high profile or brag about being or having mistresses in public.
And Chinese Rich man giving expensive properties or lux cars as gifts, and give girls credit cards for shopping. Chinese men are very generous.
@T Collins What I am trying to say here is that China has adopted more modern moral which shared by other culture nowadays as well -- the people who step into or break the marriage is ashamed. In the Asian history, having joy wives were legal and accepted by the official wife, but nowadays, it never got accepted by the official wife or the society, lovers can never talk about they are lovers in public, as they will be accused and ashamed by others. And there are so many cases and news like wife destroy lover's faces or beat the lover on the street, this only won't happen in old Asian history but happens now, you see the difference? And recently, the new Chinese law gives more protection to the wife that the wife can claim back all the assets and money the husband gave the lover as it is considered as couple's common assents , means, the authorities, police and court will help the wife to get assets back. So from the moral perspective and legal perspective, this behaviour is no longer accepted and there are ways to punish lovers.
I won't comment on your other words, only your last setence made me laugh. "Chinese men are very generous." They are generous only to mistresses, because they know they are buying sex from them. Most of them are not generous at all to their employees, to strangers or to those who really need help.
@@sheme4225 Yes, you are very right about this, Thanks for the comments, I totally agree.
Lately I'm hearing a lot of feminist movement in China. It's such a good news!
Chinese men are not generous. I have dated one in the past. No no no, even though he had a lot of money and I would go out of my way to go and see him. And also knew when I was struggling financially - never even gave anything and we dated for 9 months. I thought he was very stingy money wise.
My type is the intellectual, compassionate n kind guy. Kindness is all we need. Then you do not need to have loads of money to be happy. Just love n kindness n protection. But I never got it. Lol.
Muslim men will settle for European women but they won’t be the princes/Amirs or sheikhs or Kuwaitis ......... I know as I married one (he was restaurateur)
) and my ex”s brother worked for a sheikh , he would get him women when on business in London but all for fun, they love casinos and pretty young women , all things a good muslim shouldn’t do 🙄, will treat them very well often spend money on them , but they will be lucky if he sees them more than once .
You got them put well in there “boxes” you gained that experience along the way bit like myself.
I attract the rich married men or the self made rich men mostly , I’d say type 10 the last one , let’s face it most rich men are usually married , that’s why there still rich 😉😁 or usually not single for long !
P.s. there is a category 11) the guy who talks he’s rich , just to usually get where he wants to be FAST, the dangerous man who talks a very good talk, Be very careful of those type, because in my experience most men who’ve got it usually don’t “flaunt “ it, and if they do .......then there often up to no good!
Nerdy tech guy team here
I'm friends with a guy who fits into the Hip Hop category. He hides the fact that he has a girlfriend because he has a brand/image to maintain. He rubs shoulders with a lot of the famous Australian artists. His world is absolutely crazy!
Discreet millionaire is everyone’s favourite, and for a reason. The tech genius is great too. I wonder what category Obama would’ve fallen into?🤔 Would he have been rich if he wasn’t a president? Anyway Michelle and Barack’s union is what I would love for myself as well
yes definetely he would have been a very successful lawyer or manager. he's got class, brain and has a charing way to comunicate. he's got also a good dose of empathy :) Michelle is a lucky woman, (she's a catch too of course :D)
@@natural91LC I agree. He would've been a brilliant lawyer. That couple is just pure goals
I think he would fall under the farmer type
@@danika9448 oh ok
@@mariaalmasani Sounds amazing!
Pale yellow last week, vivid blue today...I see you working those color theories, Anna!😘Great video.
I started to watch your videos not so long ago. I'm 20, not much interested in affluent men and people always describe me as very feminine. I have different views, but I really like your reasoning. Moreover, you made me feel more valuable and proud of being a woman. Thank you for all of the energy put in this videos ❤ I subscribe and send love
How about the sport guys ? Lots of money come from sport!
All of them date supermodels, actresses and singers. Take a look at Tom Brady, David Beckham, and so on. Best case scenario, they marry women who helped them to build their careers.
@@Chahlie I guess the lucky ones are those who belong to their circle. i.e doctors, physiotherapists, psychologists, other sportswoman. Antoine Griezmann for instance married his college girlfriend and they have 3 kids now. Leo Messi as well. Other than that, professional athletes tend to be players and cheaters. There are creepy stories about American footballers' wife. They literally let them to have as many mistresses as they want.
I like tennis player, but 99% of the times they choose other tennis player. I guess, they have few time together and they like to spend it with their similar. I noticed that sporty people don't care about intelligence, but in some sports (like football, soccer..) it's a competition to have the most beautiful girl
@@Morgana5886 yes spot on they love beautiful, brainy and youthful, outdoorsy women!
I my country, sport guys usually marry runway models, who stop their modelling career after marriage and become housewives and sometimes part-time designers
I've discoverd I'm most attracted to the finance guy and the playboy type when it comes to this list. FML..
What about men from wealthy families from countries like Nigeria and Ghana?
Body TV yes I agree
Some of them like curvy women kind like Kim Kardashian but has to be intelligent.. it also depends on the guy
@@misssamba5674 exactly.
I noticed that a lot of them marry their classmates or women they met in their universities.
They mostly stick with women from their tribe/country.
Im nigerian and agree..the ethnic love thing is strong here especially in Nigeria..Ghana is heading towards mixed these days but Nigeria is still Hausa goes with Hausa, Fulani , Yoruba and so on
You know what, I love how transparent you are. This is what everyone needs. They need someone that is going to be honest about things like this. Because realistically we all want someone that has money. No one likes to struggle, but everyone was not born to be slim with long legs and green eyes and blond hair. Not even only blond hair but just the frame that a rich man is looking for. So it's just good to get your own money and be in the position where maybe you can meet someone on the level as you and you all can build together.❤❤
I’d love for you make this into a series! There are so many subcategories you can do with this.
Many don't understand this, great breakdown!
I think you forgot the jewish rich men.
I was just thinking that, Nadine. They are the only group to whom a highly educated woman is an aphrodisiac. Their culture values the traditional professions very much, and nowadays often marry another professional.
Is it true that they have a thing with Asian women, like "the Social network " movie states?
I was surprised this wasn’t on the list too!
Jewish men oftentimes have mistresses as well. Usually when they marry younger, they're not too concerned of her status, but they do like educated women.
The Illuminati type 😂
Easy to attract,double hard to keep.
I admire you. Actually I am not that woman who looks for a financial rich man. I'm taken and happy. I admire your directness and the way you show how to be feminine and well mannerism. That's what we should strive for! Us women have actually so much power. You show your feminine energy and I appreciate it❤️💪
I don't need a rich man I just want a responsible , spiritual , inteligent man that loves me and wants to be loved .
What about rich Italian men? A category of their own.
Anita Lewis, you're so beautiful 💓💓💓💓💓❤
Any insight on them?
Yes! I was wondering about them too! I’m from the US but my family is Italian. And I’d really like to marry an Italian man since the culture feels so familiar. ❤️
Let's say young women and even less young women from all over the world are rushing to Italy, guess why 🤔
@@ottie1954 why?
I love your honesty and authenticity Ana! You’re so funny naturally without forcing humour and just by saying how it is and it’s so refreshing! A lot of people came to mind in this video eg. the tech guy who married vic secret model Miranda Kerr and the party-type athletes/pop stars ahah. The psychology behind who we choose is interesting and actually much more simple than I thought. You have a special edge on this too since you have a background in match-making along with other interesting studies and I love that you share what you know with us! Most of these men aren’t for me but if I had to choose one category it would definitely be 10. Thank you for helping me to conduct myself more elegantly and improve as a whole especially through mannerisms and fashion. I hope you and anyone reading has a great day!
You have impeccable taste in clothes. Now that you’re wearing colors, you look radiant. You know exactly what colors work for you. I know you studied this - it was well worth it!
I love this kind of stuff, trying to figure people out. My husband and I were at a party the other night with rich tech guys and I was fascinated by their dates/wives. So many don't seem to match looks-wise. It was very interesting. I could tell the dates who were significantly better looking had wandering eyes and I saw them even just blatantly flirt with better looking men. It's a lot of Asian nationalities so it was an interesting party for people watching anyway lol!
I'm sorry it sounded that way. I think I was referring to something she said in the video, I actually don't remember my thought process when I said that. Maybe just watching different cultures and how they interact romantically🤷🏽♀️ I happen to have a deep love for Asia and two of my precious daughters are Chinese. I'm sorry if my statement came across as offensive. ❤️
😂😂 totally fine! That is so something I would do! No worries at all!!❤️
Dear Anna! Thank you for your generosity. In my work as interpreter your observations are helpful. I wish you a magnificent Year of 2020.
I am watching the video now as write this, but I just wanted to say that I really like what you've been doing with your hair lately. It looks like it's maybe a bit shorter and I think it brings more focus onto your pretty face shape. I like the colors you've been wearing but I got to say I still think you look great in black too!
The kind of rich guy I have obtained is the discreet one. I wasn’t looking for him, I just happened to meet him by chance. But I love that he isn’t flashy, and how he acts just like everyone else. He’s amazing and I am glad that I am dating someone so wonderful.
Eva Green Lover We met online before meeting irl. When I visited him, I was surrounded by these massive houses and then I met his parents. I learned that his father owns a company that he is actually working for and that they were actually wealthy. But it did explain everything. However, there are some really flashy affluent people in that area, his family is more on the humble side which I loved so much. Another things is that they are very wise with how they handle their money. They may have all this money, but they still are very frugal with it.
I will contribute some insights to Anna's question about China's mistresses culture. I'm not Chinese, so facts may slightly differ. But around South East Asia, from China, Koreans, Japanese and VN; they are very similar in the foundation of their logic.
So it goes like this, wealthy men will marry someone their family approves of, OR, a woman that is so capable, she can support his career. Whether it is her family background, her family financial power or even her family name and relations.
It is rare that they'd marry just for the woman herself, and the same thing for the divorce. Unless the man himself is powerful enough to handle all the damages (direct and collaterals) as the result of divorcing his wife. Especially for another woman, he won't do it. And often time, he won't. Because there are so many interests involved, a wealthy married couple won't get a divorce. They can sleep in different bedrooms, or living in different houses - but hardly a divorce. But it does happen (and the whole world would know about it)
It's different for each family, but sometimes, both the husband and the wife would have lovers. Everyone knows it, nobody acknowledges it. Live goes on. For the more traditional woman, she would not have a lover for herself, but she would just take it. As long as none of the mistresses challenged her (which happens more than you might think), and her children are the ones getting the inheritance (another story for another time).
There are some men who are rich and also loves their wives very much too. But those are harder to come by then finding a needle in the haystack. LOL.
I agreed Vietnamese here
I am #9 ( a gentleman farmer ) and i'm looking for Audrey Hepburn to share a country cottage with.Let me know if you seen her.Thank you Anna darling......;))))
In Vino Veritas I am sorry to tell you this but she’s been dead for 27 years now😂
The gentleman farmer is the best. Yet hard to find even in my state.
My mum had an uncanny resemblance to Audrey Hepburn in her youth. I loved that combination of innocence, sensuality, and feminine elegance.
Gentleman farmers are the best. There is something about that rustic bruteness under layers of well-mannered head bows.
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I love how she respects each lifestyles and aesthetics (seeing how so many people in the elegant community looks down on Kim Kardashian even though they’re also part of the affluent class) Rich is not a type, rich people are all different.
Hallo Ana, I'm a Chinese woman and have been watching your video for a while. I'm surprised and also happy that you mentioned in this video about our culture. For those who is also interested in our culture, let me explain it. Family is almost the most important for us and majority Chinese put family first. Why I spoke almost, because the young generation are more westernized. We often said, the marriage in China is between two families not two loved persons. If the man or the woman was not accepted by the family of the other side, it would be very difficult. He or she would perhaps fight for his or her love but will give it up very soon because it's a hard journey and you don't have support from anyone.
My fiancé is an arab prince and he actually came to me before i recognized him... and we both truly love each other🥰 i guess i’m lucky
I love Anne Hathaway
I see her as a very elegant bombshell. An aspirational figure, for sure!
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That color absolutely pops on you!!
Newly single at 44. Been watching Anna's videos for thevpsst two eyars. Maybe i knew deep down I would need this advice one day....but actually i really love all the elegant content. I love self improvement and looking to level up ❤
Anna, thank you for being there with your fantastic advices ,....we really needed you.
I’m one of your faithful followers, I really think you are awesome. One more time, thank you.
Thanks Anna 🥰