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I m from Egypt and keen to watch all of your videos consistently as it adds confidence and beauty to my entire day and actually it added too much to my life
Dear elegant ladies...please take this advice from a 55 year old woman...please be confident in yourself. Live your life not bothered by those around you who really DON’T matter. A little secret 🤫...they hate it!
Thank you. I’m starting to (slowly but surely) to understand this concept. This applies to some family members who I should be close to and certain people at work. At 36, this is very helpful ❤
YES! No idea how we got here--where femininity is viewed as a weakness--but it's so awesome to see such a wonderful community filled with women who treasure and value femininity. ❤ all my fellow elegant ladies.
Anna, you have single-handedly changed my life. Because of you, I started dressing elegantly, took up horse-riding lessons and started becoming aware of my value. Just thought you should know that. Thank you ❤️
I wore a pretty baby blue long sundress Friday. I typically don't wear dresses, but working on changing my image. The dress made me walk slower, and feel more confident. Guess what I got so many compliments. It was a simple dress, but it totally changed the way I felt. I went to a doctor appointment and the receptionist said, you look pretty, from there went to a store and a woman commented that they liked the color of the dress. As I was going about my errands for the day, for the first time I really saw that I stood out, most women had on t shirts, leggings, jeans. Very interesting that I saw this because I didn't dress like them, which I typically do.
I don't know why women started wearing pants. I don't even own a pair of jeans and have only owned 2 pair in 40 years. I wear a dress at all times unless I participate outdoor sport. Women don't know how to look like ladies anymore.
@@Anne-pv9cb I’m not a pants gal either, unless I’m doing activities outside, like in my profile pic. Still, I think the right pair of flattering jeans can be so feminine and pretty-it’s just styling it and finding the perfect fit that’s important.
Omg, can relate. On the road full of girls wearing top and jeans and a ponytail, I stood out wearing a pencil skirt and top with hair combed and set properly. Loved myself, walked a lil slow and with confidence knowing my hair was flowing with the wind and my workout sessions were clearly visible in my walk.
"Self esteem is the ability to see yourself as a flawed individual, but still hold yourself in high regard." - the lovely and charismatic Esther Perrel
I was delighted when I discovered that I can change my appearance completely with a healthy lifestyle, excercise, plantbased foods, natural skin and hair products, some make-up, well made clothes and a good haircut. Also, choosing an environment of kind (non toxic 😅) people that allows you to enhance your best qualities and to progress within whatever areas that interest you, adds to your beauty, because it allows the spirit to shine through, so to speak. When I was younger I didn't know beauty is something that changes. I thought you're given a certain degree of beauty and that's that. No. It's more like the weather. It changes.
Saving these for future reference •work on your body. Make yourself fit and in the best shape possible. •confidence •femininity •be an optimistic person •have an unbotherd and steady attitude
Anna, I've been following your channel for more than 2 years now, and I've been making my transformative changes in this time, emotionally and physically. All I can say is thank you. You have helped me change my life. I have truly embraced who I am now, and my confidence and feminine energy is electric and magnetic to the right people. I'm on the right track and attracting kind, genuine, affluent men, and my god - literally everything you teach clicks into place. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. 🥰❤🙏💙
Anna, can I just say that marriage certainly agrees with you! You look so beautiful and happy. I agree when you say that a smile can change your appearance. Everyone should try to smile a lot more!
Confidence plays a key role actually. We tend to underestimate or not take it seriously enough. Also we have to be confident even in small actions/gestures which is easy to overlook and has ripple effect. I experienced it with this guy. I know I'm an interesting, fun and Average looking person. But with him I didn't have confidence because he was extremely attractive. I was so submissive and quiet around him. And even when we had conversations I'd be super unconfident and even in setting boundaries. He manipulated and got his ways and realized I have no self esteem or respect for myself. THIS made me unattractive for him and one day he stopped talking to me. Didn't even think of ending it correctly.
Firstly, you're by no means average looking, girl! Secondly, it's through bad experiences like that that we learn our most valuable life lessons. And sometimes it's not even with looks that we downplay ourselves; maybe the man is extremely accomplished, wealthy or intelligent, and then we feel we do not meet up with him. This can lead to so many problems, which becomes a limiting factor in keeping the relationship healthy. Confidence in ourselves and our capacities is absolutely key!
@@paulamuniz5845 oh thank you! Yeah exactly. One more point I forgot to add was, I learnt a great lesson that revising your character development time and again is necessary. I was in a toxic relationship two years ago. After so much of self improvement I got back brand new. I was confident and all that. Then when I met this guy I forgot all the lessons and consciousness and let myself slip away.
@@preranapradeep3963 I don't know if you've heard about attachment styles. Sometimes we may feel quite comfortable in our skin, but then we may meet a certain person and this may create a lot of insecurities in us. Also, certain people don't mix very well together unless they learn how to communicate in the most effective way. I've recently made a video about it.
"He is extremely attractive and manipulative." Sounds like he is a narcissist. So don't worry about breaking up, it still wouldn't be a healthy relationship.
It doesn't scream laziness. As person who's taking care about myself I simply can't have body society wants me to have. Why? Because i have health issues that makes me gain weight drastically...
I don't feel exercising is about trying to be a size 2. I've seen plenty of bigger girls who are far prettier than smaller girls bc they dress for their style and compliment their shape. "Exercising " is a very misleading concept/hobby It's about learning what foods your body needs , learning to listen to your body , builfong goid eating habits, connecting with your mind then very lastly and making your shape more streamline & building body confidence Even if you only work out one day per week : a personal trainer that'll teach you basic nutrition & eating habits will make you feel so dam good about yourself
@@ABJK-ds4wq I agree that health problems definitely has an effect. I have a bad back and have had major back surgery. I have arthritis, fibromyalgia, and degenerative disc disease. I’m only in my forties. I also get swelling and burning pain in my legs. It’s VERY HARD to exercise. I can do some, but not much. I can’t exactly run or do anything with impact. I also have a metal rod in my back, which limits my movement.
You say things that 100% align with me and even my religious values (I’m a religious Muslim). And it amazes me every time that the things you teach, I can follow them sitting in the other corner of the world belonging to a different faith and culture. I guess etiquette and femininity is universal and speak one language. 😃
I agree with you 100%. I have a Muslim friend but she's secular. We were out shopping last week and we just happened upon a rooftop cafe that has Friday afternoon music and is a great ambiance. We talked about going together which for me is no problem but she has a friend coming from Jaffa and she wants to go with her and not take me. Ok, I'm a lot older, (but still fun) I was saying I didn't think it was appropriate for me to go all alone because it would give the wrong impression even to younger men. My grey head doesn't seem to be a barrier for them. She didn't quite get it and I'm ambivalent because it is afternoon not night but still... I think reading your comment has convinced me that my first instinct to not go alone is the right one.
This is nothing unusual in the UK, elegance, feminity, manners & politeness are v important; I have quite a few (religious) Muslim friends (& I am a Christian & am religious) but these principles are just as important to them, & we don't have a hard time relating to each other - humans are humans wherever their Ancestors were born; some ppl in the UK don't follow elegant principles & they behave badly but many ppl do not & I think you can always sense which is which🙏🇬🇧
@@missn111 That's nice ❤️ I didn't got the chance to have someone like Ms. Anna or your friend early in my younger life. But I'm getting all these tips now, and it's definitely not too late to get on this journey ❤️
I am glad you made it clear that your recommendations apply to western societies and that we should take into account our cultures, this is an important point that often gets left out
I agree Anna. Working out and just going with my natural genetics, the face does not need to be conventionally beautiful. Plus your health allows you to live longer with less illnesses, which is also attractive💖
I absolutely love Anna’s content. I did start working on myself after watching your content since early last year because it is genuinely aimed at helping us improve different areas of our lives and reaching into our femininity. I am nowadays noticing more people treating me better and doors opening, because they too notice that I care about myself. ❤️Thank you.
Anna Bey raised my standards even when it comes to TH-camrs that I am following. She got me used to quality content, clear camera, amazing editing, clear tone, etc. I can literally follow 5 TH-camrs now because I find it very offending and unprofessional when someone is living and earning a lot from TH-cam and not investing in it.
Anna, this is so true! I had a group of women friends and the one with the least traditional good luxe was actually the most beautiful to me. Smart, confident, educated, smiled and laughed, didn’t take herself or anyone else too seriously. 25 years later she is still the most beautiful of the bunch. She looks like she hasn’t aged more than five years❤️ Thank you for another wonderful video!
One thing I find really helpful if you want to feel more positive and confident is writing down things you are grateful for, and positive affirmations everyday. It’s a great way to shift your mindset to a more positive place!
I'm a little shy wearing feminine things because I feel like I stand out too much. But, I love how i feel in them. I'm gonna watch your videos to push me better. ☺️
You are so right Anna and baby blue looks amazing on you! People want femininity because it’s rare now but it’s so much nicer and smiling is amazing and a beautiful gift .I love confident people period. Accepting who you are and not trying so hard or changing for other people. The positive energy is contagious Thank you Anna you are a wonderful teacher ♥️🎈♥️
Just sharing my story. I'm overweight at 86kg with very broad shouldes (cause I used to be a swimmer) but that doesn't stop me from dressing up well! I managed to work around my weight issue by finding clothes that fits well with my body type, find blouses and dressess that compliments my body shillouette and makes me happy and confident wearing it. Learning so much from Anna's youtube about mix and matching clothes, accessories, and bags. Plus like Anna said, body language, confidence attitude, and positive approach to live really sets the bar up high!
Thank you for this video. I realize that after a series of very serious problems in my life I became very stiff and negative person that nobody likes. You helped me to realize that. I have to find a way to reverse the negativity and become more positive and friendly person.
Anna I am so grateful to you. You are the elegant older sister I needed to have in my life. I have been complimented by people on my dressing style to the way I talk and listen . It is all credits to you! Thank you so so much. 💕
Thank you for these terrific tips, especially the ones about being positive and smiling. Anna, you exude positivity and it is contagious. I always feel happy and motivated after watching your videos. I think I'll watch this again!
Anna you tell it like it is. I agree with all your points, and can think of people who might be considered plain but have the qualities you've listed, so are attractive indeed!
Hi Anna, thanks for sharing. I’m learning so much. Eventhough I am not rich to buy elegant things, I’m starting to work on myself, be a better woman and learning how to love myself. 💜💜💜
The content of this video is definitely one of your best, Anna!! Femininity is our strength! We do not need to imitate men in order to grew our inner power.
Thank you Anna for reminding us of our own power. Even life circumstances can make us lose a bit of our confidence, cheerfulness and femininity. Sometimes we get so caught up in life that we forget to pause and regain our strengths. Thank you so much for helping us to be our best self.
I used to be really negative and a friend of a friend said she didn't like talking to me because I was so negative and unhappy and jealous of others. I hadn't realized how I was so toxic in my behavior was and hating what I had and being jealous . I am working on it so I don't turn into someone people avoid .
I have two sisters who fit the typical beauty standard much more than me. One has an absolutely gorgeous face and the other has the typically elevated slim body type. I on the other hand have the most confidence and almost have created this aura around myself over time that turns heads. I would say we all play into our strengths; the youngest is the prettiest in an esthetic way, the middle one is the cute slim girl popular on instagram etc, and I would say I’m the most attractive to the opposite sex and have more of a demanding presence.
Jane Austen wrote about this 200 years ago in Pride and Prejudice. Jane Bennett is the more beautiful sister. Lizzy is "not handsome enough" to tempt Mr Darcy but almost immediately, he realises she's irresistible.
@@hilarywade687 You had me at Jane Austen! As a keen observer of those around her, she had so much wisdom to share regarding human relationships. I learn something new each time I re-read one of her books.
I love your earrings Anna!! Well said, people perceive you as a whole not just details.... So focus on the whole and accept your flaws. Work out, dress clean and elegant.... Be positive....
Speaking of smiling, all my life I've been inconfortable to smile 🤭 because of my small teeth 🦷 and my severe gummy smile. I decided to have orthodontics. Then I got jaw surgery in 2019 to fix the gummy smile and improve my jawline and I got my braces removed. My smile has incredibly improved, it really changed my life. I smile at literally anyone (some of my male coworkers must think I'm flirting with them 🤣) and my friends and family say how happy I look now. I'm not single, but men are now asking for my number and engaging with me in random places. My profile picture was taken the day of my 40th anniversary. Ladies, if you are self conscious about your appearance, try to do something about it, even if it's just a very small improvement. Your confidence will grow, I promise!
I wasn’t sure what this video was going to be about but I was intrigued. Anna, the points you discussed and advice you gave are absolutely amazing. So true and given with such genuine care and encouragement. Excellent video
I love u Anna. Thanks for the work u do, I wish I knew all this earlier from my teens but fortunately I am learning a lot from u at 35 and am showing ur videos to my daughters . Bless u sis.
I have been following your videos since a year now and I have seen a visible change in my personality. I absolutely love the information you share. Lots of love and support to you from India ❤️❤️
Such a lovely video. LOVED the part about positivity & choosing to see the glass half full. & also not chasing & living your life unapologetically! I’d love for you to do a more in depth video on “the mentality of an elegant female” - keep it up! ❤️
You are so right with all of these points. The most stunning woman I have known was the wife of my father’s best friend. Nobody would ever have called her pretty but she was the most stylish, perfectly groomed woman I have ever seen and she was so nice and always positive. Even in her 50s and 60s she would walk into a restaurant and people would put down their knives and forks and turn and stare at her. She was an amazing role model for me as a teenager.
I honestly don’t know what I’d do without you 💗 You’ve changed me completely for the better . I wanted to suggest a video that might be helpful for a few people , could you do a video where you talk about clothing boutiques that sell elegant clothing with world wide shipping , whether it’s expensive or not . & talk about your preferences in brands and some of your favourite clothing pieces? Thanks 💗💗
Thank you for be so honest about being yourself and its ok to be yourself! I have noticed a complete turn around of how I am perceived by others and in any social situation I have no problem conversing and speaking to others who most of the time I have never met. What you think comes out even if you dont speak. Body language, how you sit, stand is everything. Be your best, show your best!
Ah Anna! You're the best. I've watched so many videos on these topics. But none is of your standard. Whenever your video starts, i wish that the video never ends. Lots of love from India. ❤🇮🇳
I love your videos Anna! I've always believed in elegance & femininity. I think these qualities are important in a woman- we shouldn't erase who we're truly meant to be. I think it's also realizing that there should be a balance of the two & being relaxed at the same time. 💘
Truly inspired Anna. I would like to ask about my feminine transformation- I feel like people who are close to me will think I have changed quite a bit. How should I deal with this?
@@usernamedunno7784 I'm going through the same thing and I figured out that this is the only approach, and to stay away from people close to you who are bothered by your transformation. They have their onwm problems but are too lazy/scared to work on them. Good luck and keep shining!
After a while people will get used to the new you :) you just have to be confident, because other people’s views and opinions should not stop you from striving to be the person you want to be. Instead think of the people who will be inspired by your transformation, you can be a great example, just remain humble and true to the transformation you are going through. After all you can explain to those who approach you about it why its important to you, and I’m sure they will then understand you more. 🤩
Adding the Confident trait, it's also important for you to respect the person you are talking too and behave well on public space. Because being over confident can sometimes makes you feel powerful you forget to treat others with respect.
Thank you, Anna! I’ve been watching you for a long time now, and you are truly an inspiration! I was wondering how do you deal with health issues (as I remember you mentioned in live that you struggle with Graves disease) in a elegant way? I wish you nothing but the best, and I hope you are feeling good! How do you stay positive? I’ve been dealing with health issues for quite a while, and it is affecting how I perceive myself. It would truly mean a lot to hear your perspective and advice regarding this topic. Thank you!
One Serbian TV personality used to say that the secret to her female power was greeting herself in the mirror every morning with:" Good morning, beautiful! You are amazing!" 🙂
I have always had a "serious" face. I was one of those who was always told to smile or asked what was the matter when I was just usually lost in thought. But now, when I see someone looking at me, I consciously smile at them. I've been told I have a great smile so I am learning to use it to connect with people.
I have a burning question that I always think about. Are we really accepting our flaws if we still want to change them or get rid of them by having cosmetic work done? And I'm not talking down to these things, because I am curious and want to get some cosmetic work done on myself sometime in the future.
This month I will start gym after more than 12 months because covid 19. The exercise is the best thing in my opinion to feel good with yourself and look amaizing. I love your videos and your energy ❤ Saludos desde Argentina 🇦🇷🇦🇷🇦🇷
You are really right. Not for men but only for ourselves. We need positivity, body positivity and good mood. And in order to do this we should set strong boundaries or avoid negative people. It’s a daily fight. Sometimes it’s easier other times not. I hope to watch more inspiring videos like this one in your channel. ;-)
Anna! Your hair! Wow! 😲 This is the first time I’ve seen you wear it down in ages. It looks great. But your hair color! So stunning! You really look amazing, and I love that shade of blonde on you. Gorgeous! 💖
I would actually love to see an entire video about wallets - what’s classy, chic, affluent-looking and what’s cheap or tacky. I feel like I might be making some mistakes in this area 🥲😅
@@samanthasays3603 chill out, I’m just asking about wallets. Anna has a great sense of aesthetics which appeals to me and lots of other people that follow her.
@@missn111 the main thing I can think of is keep it clean and nothing too flashy but most importantly keep it tidy, any wallet bursting at the seams with receipts will look a mess
Keep it full of $100 bills and it will look affluent. Just joking. Good leather, no monograms and in good condition will always be the right look. Probably not a lot of plastic inserts for photos, if people even still use those. When you do open it to get one of those 100's, be discreet.
Can you make videos about your favorite online retailers to shop at and do a capsule wardrobe of what to wear. I don’t know a lot of retailers that I can buy from online with good quality clothes. And also I would love for you to vlog your beauty maintenance routine! Love your videos
Another thing I appreciate about Anna is that she's realistic but always offers solutions to bring out the best outcome. Also remember ladies, someone is always a "plain jane/joe" to someone somewhere. So don't take it personally.
I am so happy (and relieved) to hear you speak of femininity. There is a great power within women, but so many women don’t ever tap into it. It used to be called “feminine wiles” and it was considered a good thing. It saddens me that our current culture shames women for being feminine and men for being masculine.
@@kkpenney444 This!!!! The reason most women struggle with femininity is because of how they're treated as women. Theres this toxic femininity. Men too struggle because there's this toxic masculinity that they are pressured into. But it's beyond the box. For example, I'm a woman who enjoys weightlifting and watching MMA but those activities do not make me any less feminine. I'm a bit of a tomboy and hate high heels and dresses/skirts. But I found cute tops, flats and pants that make me feel feminine and feminine energy comes from me. And i haven't had issues attracting men even as an almost 40 yr old woman with kids and extra weight (which I'm working on to improve). I love what Anna says about being yourself while being your true feminine self. You don't have to be someone you are not.
That style personality quiz was awesome, I got elegant something and the description that I love solid colors and conservative dresses was accurate! Thank you, Anna!😊
Everyone likes your lighter hair. I kinda liked it when it was a little darker (haha 😂). I thought the darker blonde was a little more sophisticated, more natural. Regardless, you are beautiful as always! Love ya! 😊
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Kindness, pureness… Thats so elegant!!!!!!
Your very pretty 😍
Genuine Kindness 🤍, you never know what just a 'smile' can mean to a stranger.
We must Celebrate 1M 😍💜💪
I m from Egypt and keen to watch all of your videos consistently as it adds confidence and beauty to my entire day and actually it added too much to my life
Dear elegant ladies...please take this advice from a 55 year old woman...please be confident in yourself. Live your life not bothered by those around you who really DON’T matter. A little secret 🤫...they hate it!
❤️❤️
The best advice ever!!! I m starting to get it little by little at 37
Thank you 😊 💓
I really needed to read this. Thank you! I’m 31 and I need to remind myself of this
❤️❤️❤️❤️thank you !!!
Thank you. I’m starting to (slowly but surely) to understand this concept. This applies to some family members who I should be close to and certain people at work. At 36, this is very helpful ❤
It’s refreshing to hear someone speak about how powerful femininity is. Lovely video, Anna! 🤍
YES! No idea how we got here--where femininity is viewed as a weakness--but it's so awesome to see such a wonderful community filled with women who treasure and value femininity. ❤ all my fellow elegant ladies.
I also love your video's, Courtney!
Love both your videos, Anna & Courtney 💖
Seriously? Several beautiful African American females have made vids discussing it
Haha 😛
@@laurensilverspikes4346 Yes, there are wonderful elegant women out there, and race does not do anything to limit that!
Anna, you have single-handedly changed my life. Because of you, I started dressing elegantly, took up horse-riding lessons and started becoming aware of my value. Just thought you should know that. Thank you ❤️
Thank you Hanna, it warms my heart
Hannah, you did the work. Well done 💃🏻
That's great Hannah I'm happy for you ❤️❤️❤️
Yay Hannah 💃🏼!
and you know, what's the coolest thing about this? actually you yourself have changed your life! 😊
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Anna : ✨ My dear elegant ladies ✨
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True🙃
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haha me too😂
Me before the video:😕
Me after hearing Anna:🙂
Me after reading your comment:😁
I wore a pretty baby blue long sundress Friday. I typically don't wear dresses, but working on changing my image. The dress made me walk slower, and feel more confident. Guess what I got so many compliments. It was a simple dress, but it totally changed the way I felt. I went to a doctor appointment and the receptionist said, you look pretty, from there went to a store and a woman commented that they liked the color of the dress. As I was going about my errands for the day, for the first time I really saw that I stood out, most women had on t shirts, leggings, jeans. Very interesting that I saw this because I didn't dress like them, which I typically do.
I don't know why women started wearing pants. I don't even own a pair of jeans and have only owned 2 pair in 40 years. I wear a dress at all times unless I participate outdoor sport.
Women don't know how to look like ladies anymore.
@@Anne-pv9cb out of convenience I think. But I do love dresses. If they’re long they’re just as comfortable, if not more than jeans.
@@Anne-pv9cb I’m not a pants gal either, unless I’m doing activities outside, like in my profile pic. Still, I think the right pair of flattering jeans can be so feminine and pretty-it’s just styling it and finding the perfect fit that’s important.
@@Anne-pv9cb sister, pants can still be feminine if you choose the right one and style it the right way....
Omg, can relate. On the road full of girls wearing top and jeans and a ponytail, I stood out wearing a pencil skirt and top with hair combed and set properly. Loved myself, walked a lil slow and with confidence knowing my hair was flowing with the wind and my workout sessions were clearly visible in my walk.
"Self esteem is the ability to see yourself as a flawed individual, but still hold yourself in high regard." - the lovely and charismatic Esther Perrel
Love this!!!
Confidence and unapologetic are literally the epitome of being attractive. Top it with honesty and kindness, and you are golden.
I was delighted when I discovered that I can change my appearance completely with a healthy lifestyle, excercise, plantbased foods, natural skin and hair products, some make-up, well made clothes and a good haircut. Also, choosing an environment of kind (non toxic 😅) people that allows you to enhance your best qualities and to progress within whatever areas that interest you, adds to your beauty, because it allows the spirit to shine through, so to speak. When I was younger I didn't know beauty is something that changes. I thought you're given a certain degree of beauty and that's that. No. It's more like the weather. It changes.
Your hair looks lighter, you look stunning! Baby blue is definitely your color, it makes your eyes, skin, hair, everything so bright. I love it ❤
I agree, she is looking super stunning and radiant! ✨🌨
Anna looks absolutely stunning!!
I was thinking it was the glowy skin bringing out the gorgeous hair!
Saving these for future reference
•work on your body. Make yourself fit and in the best shape possible.
•confidence
•femininity
•be an optimistic person
•have an unbotherd and steady attitude
Anna, I've been following your channel for more than 2 years now, and I've been making my transformative changes in this time, emotionally and physically. All I can say is thank you. You have helped me change my life. I have truly embraced who I am now, and my confidence and feminine energy is electric and magnetic to the right people.
I'm on the right track and attracting kind, genuine, affluent men, and my god - literally everything you teach clicks into place.
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. 🥰❤🙏💙
Anna, can I just say that marriage certainly agrees with you! You look so beautiful and happy. I agree when you say that a smile can change your appearance. Everyone should try to smile a lot more!
I agree! Smile is contagious :) and smiling, positive women is straight away more attractive than a sad looking one.
She radiates positivity through the screen ❤️ when the world needs her the most, she returns! 🙂
❤❤❤
Confidence plays a key role actually. We tend to underestimate or not take it seriously enough. Also we have to be confident even in small actions/gestures which is easy to overlook and has ripple effect. I experienced it with this guy. I know I'm an interesting, fun and Average looking person. But with him I didn't have confidence because he was extremely attractive. I was so submissive and quiet around him. And even when we had conversations I'd be super unconfident and even in setting boundaries. He manipulated and got his ways and realized I have no self esteem or respect for myself. THIS made me unattractive for him and one day he stopped talking to me. Didn't even think of ending it correctly.
Firstly, you're by no means average looking, girl! Secondly, it's through bad experiences like that that we learn our most valuable life lessons. And sometimes it's not even with looks that we downplay ourselves; maybe the man is extremely accomplished, wealthy or intelligent, and then we feel we do not meet up with him. This can lead to so many problems, which becomes a limiting factor in keeping the relationship healthy. Confidence in ourselves and our capacities is absolutely key!
@@paulamuniz5845 oh thank you! Yeah exactly. One more point I forgot to add was, I learnt a great lesson that revising your character development time and again is necessary. I was in a toxic relationship two years ago. After so much of self improvement I got back brand new. I was confident and all that. Then when I met this guy I forgot all the lessons and consciousness and let myself slip away.
@@preranapradeep3963 I don't know if you've heard about attachment styles. Sometimes we may feel quite comfortable in our skin, but then we may meet a certain person and this may create a lot of insecurities in us. Also, certain people don't mix very well together unless they learn how to communicate in the most effective way. I've recently made a video about it.
"He is extremely attractive and manipulative." Sounds like he is a narcissist. So don't worry about breaking up, it still wouldn't be a healthy relationship.
I needed to read your comment now, thank you so much!
Thank you for pointing out exercising. This whole thing about being accepted “as is” screams laziness. Your future body will thank you too!
your future body _and mind_ !! 💖
@@cherryhappily agreed! 🙂
It doesn't scream laziness. As person who's taking care about myself I simply can't have body society wants me to have. Why? Because i have health issues that makes me gain weight drastically...
I don't feel exercising is about trying to be a size 2. I've seen plenty of bigger girls who are far prettier than smaller girls bc they dress for their style and compliment their shape.
"Exercising " is a very misleading concept/hobby
It's about learning what foods your body needs , learning to listen to your body , builfong goid eating habits, connecting with your mind then very lastly and making your shape more streamline & building body confidence
Even if you only work out one day per week : a personal trainer that'll teach you basic nutrition & eating habits will make you feel so dam good about yourself
@@ABJK-ds4wq I agree that health problems definitely has an effect. I have a bad back and have had major back surgery. I have arthritis, fibromyalgia, and degenerative disc disease. I’m only in my forties. I also get swelling and burning pain in my legs. It’s VERY HARD to exercise. I can do some, but not much. I can’t exactly run or do anything with impact. I also have a metal rod in my back, which limits my movement.
You say things that 100% align with me and even my religious values (I’m a religious Muslim). And it amazes me every time that the things you teach, I can follow them sitting in the other corner of the world belonging to a different faith and culture. I guess etiquette and femininity is universal and speak one language. 😃
I love that! That’s true beauty.🌹
I agree with you 100%. I have a Muslim friend but she's secular. We were out shopping last week and we just happened upon a rooftop cafe that has Friday afternoon music and is a great ambiance. We talked about going together which for me is no problem but she has a friend coming from Jaffa and she wants to go with her and not take me. Ok, I'm a lot older, (but still fun) I was saying I didn't think it was appropriate for me to go all alone because it would give the wrong impression even to younger men. My grey head doesn't seem to be a barrier for them. She didn't quite get it and I'm ambivalent because it is afternoon not night but still... I think reading your comment has convinced me that my first instinct to not go alone is the right one.
Yup i totally agree with you..more love to Anna
This is nothing unusual in the UK, elegance, feminity, manners & politeness are v important; I have quite a few (religious) Muslim friends (& I am a Christian & am religious) but these principles are just as important to them, & we don't have a hard time relating to each other - humans are humans wherever their Ancestors were born; some ppl in the UK don't follow elegant principles & they behave badly but many ppl do not & I think you can always sense which is which🙏🇬🇧
My parents are so negative it rubbed on us. But I've been working some pessimistic thoughts out and chooses to be positive in life ♥️
you and i both 💖
@@missn111 That's nice ❤️ I didn't got the chance to have someone like Ms. Anna or your friend early in my younger life. But I'm getting all these tips now, and it's definitely not too late to get on this journey ❤️
I am glad you made it clear that your recommendations apply to western societies and that we should take into account our cultures, this is an important point that often gets left out
Yes. Because in africa western women look "poor"😂😂😂
@@truffaut650truffaut6 Really? I did not know that. Why is that?
@@truffaut650truffaut6 lol in the middle east and north Africa they actually look unhealthy. For them only sick people look skinny like that 🤣
Wow Anna making relatable and ACTUALLY useful content which can be implemented in everyone's lifestyle in every range is so admirable
I agree Anna. Working out and just going with my natural genetics, the face does not need to be conventionally beautiful. Plus your health allows you to live longer with less illnesses, which is also attractive💖
I absolutely love Anna’s content. I did start working on myself after watching your content since early last year because it is genuinely aimed at helping us improve different areas of our lives and reaching into our femininity.
I am nowadays noticing more people treating me better and doors opening, because they too notice that I care about myself. ❤️Thank you.
Anna Bey raised my standards even when it comes to TH-camrs that I am following.
She got me used to quality content, clear camera, amazing editing, clear tone, etc.
I can literally follow 5 TH-camrs now because I find it very offending and unprofessional when someone is living and earning a lot from TH-cam and not investing in it.
Are you a Muslim
Anna, this is so true! I had a group of women friends and the one with the least traditional good luxe was actually the most beautiful to me. Smart, confident, educated, smiled and laughed, didn’t take herself or anyone else too seriously. 25 years later she is still the most beautiful of the bunch. She looks like she hasn’t aged more than five years❤️ Thank you for another wonderful video!
One thing I find really helpful if you want to feel more positive and confident is writing down things you are grateful for, and positive affirmations everyday. It’s a great way to shift your mindset to a more positive place!
Anna is one of the authentics women on earth who really reminds us our value as women, ur content is a wealth
I'm a little shy wearing feminine things because I feel like I stand out too much. But, I love how i feel in them. I'm gonna watch your videos to push me better. ☺️
You are so right Anna and baby blue looks amazing on you! People want femininity because it’s rare now but it’s so much nicer and smiling is amazing and a beautiful gift .I love confident people period. Accepting who you are and not trying so hard or changing for other people. The positive energy is contagious Thank you Anna you are a wonderful teacher ♥️🎈♥️
Anna you are absolutely glowing in this video. I hope you're feeling as good inside as what you are on the out❤️
This is such a beautiful comment 🌸
I'm so used to Anna's vocabulary that I already knew the end of the title before even seeing it
Just sharing my story.
I'm overweight at 86kg with very broad shouldes (cause I used to be a swimmer) but that doesn't stop me from dressing up well!
I managed to work around my weight issue by finding clothes that fits well with my body type, find blouses and dressess that compliments my body shillouette and makes me happy and confident wearing it. Learning so much from Anna's youtube about mix and matching clothes, accessories, and bags.
Plus like Anna said, body language, confidence attitude, and positive approach to live really sets the bar up high!
Thank you for this video. I realize that after a series of very serious problems in my life I became very stiff and negative person that nobody likes. You helped me to realize that. I have to find a way to reverse the negativity and become more positive and friendly person.
Anna I am so grateful to you. You are the elegant older sister I needed to have in my life. I have been complimented by people on my dressing style to the way I talk and listen . It is all credits to you! Thank you so so much. 💕
Thank you for these terrific tips, especially the ones about being positive and smiling. Anna, you exude positivity and it is contagious. I always feel happy and motivated after watching your videos. I think I'll watch this again!
It's a good and right thing that you help every woman to feel attractive and elegant,Anna) thanks for such positive videos and inspiration in it)
men can _never_ resist a feminine, confident woman. it’s fun for us to have that power 💖
I would like to write many things here, but saying that you’ve changed my life resumes everything. Thanks Anna!
Anna you tell it like it is. I agree with all your points, and can think of people who might be considered plain but have the qualities you've listed, so are attractive indeed!
Wish I had met you when I was a teen. The world needs more people like you. Loads of Love ❤
Oh Ana! Your hair looks stunning that color! I have followed you for almost a year now and it is completely changed my life.
Hi Anna, thanks for sharing. I’m learning so much. Eventhough I am not rich to buy elegant things, I’m starting to work on myself, be a better woman and learning how to love myself. 💜💜💜
The content of this video is definitely one of your best, Anna!! Femininity is our strength! We do not need to imitate men in order to grew our inner power.
So true! Plus however you look, when a person clicks with you and is attracted to your face energy, they will start seeing you as absolutely gorgeous.
Could you do a video on classy haircuts/hairstyles. Hairstyles for when we are doing errands up to date night out
Thank you Anna for reminding us of our own power. Even life circumstances can make us lose a bit of our confidence, cheerfulness and femininity. Sometimes we get so caught up in life that we forget to pause and regain our strengths. Thank you so much for helping us to be our best self.
I used to be really negative and a friend of a friend said she didn't like talking to me because I was so negative and unhappy and jealous of others. I hadn't realized how I was so toxic in my behavior was and hating what I had and being jealous . I am working on it so I don't turn into someone people avoid .
And I've to say...you updated my quality for being me....Take love from the core of heart....
The notification popped and I stopped watching the previous vedio and touched on your notification without a second thought. I adore you Anna.
Me too ✌🏻
So tired after work, your video are so refreshing to watch
can you do a video about how to be feminine in a format of your personality? would like to know more about it! Thankyou for your content!
Yes, such a great idea! I would love this too since my strong personality can get in the way of femininity
@@cancancabaret - “Quiet strength” is very feminine (& attractive) in a strong personality type.
Wow Anna, you're so close to 1M!!! Here since 10k subscribers and I'm so proud of your growth! ❤️
I have two sisters who fit the typical beauty standard much more than me. One has an absolutely gorgeous face and the other has the typically elevated slim body type. I on the other hand have the most confidence and almost have created this aura around myself over time that turns heads. I would say we all play into our strengths; the youngest is the prettiest in an esthetic way, the middle one is the cute slim girl popular on instagram etc, and I would say I’m the most attractive to the opposite sex and have more of a demanding presence.
Thats amazing
Keep growing
please teach some tips on body language and mindset
Jane Austen wrote about this 200 years ago in Pride and Prejudice. Jane Bennett is the more beautiful sister. Lizzy is "not handsome enough" to tempt Mr Darcy but almost immediately, he realises she's irresistible.
@@hilarywade687 You had me at Jane Austen! As a keen observer of those around her, she had so much wisdom to share regarding human relationships. I learn something new each time I re-read one of her books.
That last line hits hard ! 🔥
I love your earrings Anna!! Well said, people perceive you as a whole not just details.... So focus on the whole and accept your flaws. Work out, dress clean and elegant.... Be positive....
Speaking of smiling, all my life I've been inconfortable to smile 🤭 because of my small teeth 🦷 and my severe gummy smile. I decided to have orthodontics. Then I got jaw surgery in 2019 to fix the gummy smile and improve my jawline and I got my braces removed.
My smile has incredibly improved, it really changed my life. I smile at literally anyone (some of my male coworkers must think I'm flirting with them 🤣) and my friends and family say how happy I look now. I'm not single, but men are now asking for my number and engaging with me in random places. My profile picture was taken the day of my 40th anniversary.
Ladies, if you are self conscious about your appearance, try to do something about it, even if it's just a very small improvement. Your confidence will grow, I promise!
Good for you! Investing in your face is terrific and you get full enjoyment every day!
@@newenglandgirl9523 thank you. It's been a long journey, but here I am now!
Congratulations on being brave enough to go through all of that.
@@lesleysmith7025 I'm not sure if I was brave, let's say I couldn't stand it anymore ! 🤣
I hated my teeth growing up. I took initiative to get braces and have been smiling more ever since!
You talk SO much sense Anna. I’m in awe of how knowledgeable and wise you are.
Just that moment you said "be positive" my mind immediately became bright.
I wasn’t sure what this video was going to be about but I was intrigued. Anna, the points you discussed and advice you gave are absolutely amazing. So true and given with such genuine care and encouragement. Excellent video
I love u Anna. Thanks for the work u do, I wish I knew all this earlier from my teens but fortunately I am learning a lot from u at 35 and am showing ur videos to my daughters . Bless u sis.
So many good points especially the last one. A woman who is comfortable in her skin and knows who she always attracts men even if she is a plain Jain.
I have been following your videos since a year now and I have seen a visible change in my personality. I absolutely love the information you share. Lots of love and support to you from India ❤️❤️
Such a lovely video. LOVED the part about positivity & choosing to see the glass half full. & also not chasing & living your life unapologetically!
I’d love for you to do a more in depth video on “the mentality of an elegant female” - keep it up! ❤️
You are so right with all of these points. The most stunning woman I have known was the wife of my father’s best friend. Nobody would ever have called her pretty but she was the most stylish, perfectly groomed woman I have ever seen and she was so nice and always positive. Even in her 50s and 60s she would walk into a restaurant and people would put down their knives and forks and turn and stare at her. She was an amazing role model for me as a teenager.
I honestly don’t know what I’d do without you 💗
You’ve changed me completely for the better .
I wanted to suggest a video that might be helpful for a few people , could you do a video where you talk about clothing boutiques that sell elegant clothing with world wide shipping , whether it’s expensive or not .
& talk about your preferences in brands and some of your favourite clothing pieces?
Thanks 💗💗
Thank you for be so honest about being yourself and its ok to be yourself! I have noticed a complete turn around of how I am perceived by others and in any social situation I have no problem conversing and speaking to others who most of the time I have never met. What you think comes out even if you dont speak. Body language, how you sit, stand is everything. Be your best, show your best!
Hi Anna, I love the look where your hair is loosely around you face. You look so innocent and natural!
Being positive is so beautiful
You're gradually changing a lot of lives out here,Keep it up
Ah Anna! You're the best. I've watched so many videos on these topics. But none is of your standard. Whenever your video starts, i wish that the video never ends. Lots of love from India. ❤🇮🇳
I love your videos Anna! I've always believed in elegance & femininity. I think these qualities are important in a woman- we shouldn't erase who we're truly meant to be. I think it's also realizing that there should be a balance of the two & being relaxed at the same time. 💘
I highly recommend Anna's quiz. The result perfectly matches my style! :D
Thanks to Anna Bay, for sharing your knowledge with everyone, you don’t know but you have been so important in my every day life!
Truly inspired Anna. I would like to ask about my feminine transformation- I feel like people who are close to me will think I have changed quite a bit. How should I deal with this?
I think they are threatened! Just say thank you and keep doing your thing
@@ilovesunsets Thank you for your supportive feedback! It's appreciated!
@@usernamedunno7784 I'm going through the same thing and I figured out that this is the only approach, and to stay away from people close to you who are bothered by your transformation. They have their onwm problems but are too lazy/scared to work on them. Good luck and keep shining!
After a while people will get used to the new you :) you just have to be confident, because other people’s views and opinions should not stop you from striving to be the person you want to be. Instead think of the people who will be inspired by your transformation, you can be a great example, just remain humble and true to the transformation you are going through. After all you can explain to those who approach you about it why its important to you, and I’m sure they will then understand you more. 🤩
@@redsquare4835 and @Sunset 🎀 You guys are the reason why I adore Anna's supportive and wonderful comment section!
Adding the Confident trait, it's also important for you to respect the person you are talking too and behave well on public space. Because being over confident can sometimes makes you feel powerful you forget to treat others with respect.
Thank you, Anna! I’ve been watching you for a long time now, and you are truly an inspiration! I was wondering how do you deal with health issues (as I remember you mentioned in live that you struggle with Graves disease) in a elegant way? I wish you nothing but the best, and I hope you are feeling good! How do you stay positive? I’ve been dealing with health issues for quite a while, and it is affecting how I perceive myself. It would truly mean a lot to hear your perspective and advice regarding this topic. Thank you!
One Serbian TV personality used to say that the secret to her female power was greeting herself in the mirror every morning with:" Good morning, beautiful! You are amazing!" 🙂
You are glowing ana 😍 and baby blue is definitely your color
You are my mentor! You provide such great insight, tips, reminders, and advice! ♥️♥️♥️
thank you for always clarifying that these rules change depending on your culture! there's more than one way of doing things
I have always had a "serious" face. I was one of those who was always told to smile or asked what was the matter when I was just usually lost in thought. But now, when I see someone looking at me, I consciously smile at them. I've been told I have a great smile so I am learning to use it to connect with people.
I have a burning question that I always think about. Are we really accepting our flaws if we still want to change them or get rid of them by having cosmetic work done? And I'm not talking down to these things, because I am curious and want to get some cosmetic work done on myself sometime in the future.
What can I say? You are so amazing and so authentic. Keep helping us!!! ♥️
These are the things one can implement regularly. You are beautiful Anna, inside and out ❤
I wish I had your videos 40 yrs ago. You're bringing much sought after and much needed wisdom back to young women.
Thanks for reminder me I can look into myself to be better and feel good with all my attributes ♥️
This month I will start gym after more than 12 months because covid 19. The exercise is the best thing in my opinion to feel good with yourself and look amaizing. I love your videos and your energy ❤ Saludos desde Argentina 🇦🇷🇦🇷🇦🇷
You are really right. Not for men but only for ourselves. We need positivity, body positivity and good mood. And in order to do this we should set strong boundaries or avoid negative people. It’s a daily fight. Sometimes it’s easier other times not. I hope to watch more inspiring videos like this one in your channel. ;-)
Anna! Your hair! Wow! 😲
This is the first time I’ve seen you wear it down in ages. It looks great. But your hair color! So stunning! You really look amazing, and I love that shade of blonde on you. Gorgeous! 💖
I would actually love to see an entire video about wallets - what’s classy, chic, affluent-looking and what’s cheap or tacky. I feel like I might be making some mistakes in this area 🥲😅
Incredible video idea!
Please don't ask a stranger on the internet about how to behave. Be yourself.
@@samanthasays3603 chill out, I’m just asking about wallets. Anna has a great sense of aesthetics which appeals to me and lots of other people that follow her.
@@missn111 the main thing I can think of is keep it clean and nothing too flashy but most importantly keep it tidy, any wallet bursting at the seams with receipts will look a mess
Keep it full of $100 bills and it will look affluent. Just joking. Good leather, no monograms and in good condition will always be the right look. Probably not a lot of plastic inserts for photos, if people even still use those. When you do open it to get one of those 100's, be discreet.
Can you make videos about your favorite online retailers to shop at and do a capsule wardrobe of what to wear. I don’t know a lot of retailers that I can buy from online with good quality clothes. And also I would love for you to vlog your beauty maintenance routine! Love your videos
personally i would say thats one of the best video from anna bey. thank u, for doing this kind of cheapters for us
Another thing I appreciate about Anna is that she's realistic but always offers solutions to bring out the best outcome. Also remember ladies, someone is always a "plain jane/joe" to someone somewhere. So don't take it personally.
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Incredibly beautiful Anna. Everything about you is just WOW in this video.......What a nice and informative video 😊
Feminity is a beautiful asset. And should be embraced.
After watching Anna all of this year, I observe that a powerful woman is giving us her success secrets.btw your skin tone is spectacular ☀️☀️☀️🌞🌞🌞
I am so happy (and relieved) to hear you speak of femininity. There is a great power within women, but so many women don’t ever tap into it. It used to be called “feminine wiles” and it was considered a good thing. It saddens me that our current culture shames women for being feminine and men for being masculine.
Nobody is shaming men and women for these traits. What's shameful is toxic 'masculinity' and deferential, submissive 'femininity'.
@@kkpenney444 This!!!! The reason most women struggle with femininity is because of how they're treated as women. Theres this toxic femininity. Men too struggle because there's this toxic masculinity that they are pressured into. But it's beyond the box. For example, I'm a woman who enjoys weightlifting and watching MMA but those activities do not make me any less feminine. I'm a bit of a tomboy and hate high heels and dresses/skirts. But I found cute tops, flats and pants that make me feel feminine and feminine energy comes from me. And i haven't had issues attracting men even as an almost 40 yr old woman with kids and extra weight (which I'm working on to improve).
I love what Anna says about being yourself while being your true feminine self. You don't have to be someone you are not.
ANNA YOU LOOK ABSOLUTELY STUNNING ON THIS VIDEO!!! this light is so good for you! omg such a beauty
That style personality quiz was awesome, I got elegant something and the description that I love solid colors and conservative dresses was accurate! Thank you, Anna!😊
Love love 💕 your hair color Ana! You have found the perfect color for you!
Everyone likes your lighter hair. I kinda liked it when it was a little darker (haha 😂). I thought the darker blonde was a little more sophisticated, more natural. Regardless, you are beautiful as always! Love ya! 😊
Same
Thank you miss Anna I had learned a lot how to increase my self confidence and feel elegant inside and out