The main lesson is never marry a fame hungry girl no matter how good looking she is. I promise you if Jamie was married to a normal good supporting women during the time he signed for Wolves and going to earn £8m, he would not have been depressed the way he says he was. Lads listen to me carefully, the most important decision you’ll ever make in your life isn’t what career you have, what job, what friends you have, it is the woman you choose to marry, choose to go 50/50 on everything you own with. So please choose carefully, don’t marry for looks, marry for heart.
Played with Jamie for Dartford District when we were 11 and my family live in South Darenth too. He was the only one who made it Pro out of all of us. Proud of him. 👏
I too lost my mum after she fought it for a long time, I really felt a connection with Jamie when he spoke about his mum. He's been through so much, I'm glad he's come through it, and is doing well.
His girlfriend obviously doesn't care about him; she rejected him before he was wealthy and well-known, and as soon as he became well-known and wealthy, she knocked on his door and asked for his phone number. She filed for divorce and left him when his popularity and fortune fell.
I was 17 when my mum died too but she died suddenly. The grieving process is difficult but it's what makes you a man. Definitely felt a bit of connection with Jamie when he spoke about his mum.He comes across like a nice lad who made some poor decisions but had seen the light.
Im not crying, you are... Ive called him a c*nt and got kicked off talksport in anger, now i see he's a real human, and he was only playing devils advocate and seeing him talk about his mum and then his dad and brothers tears as he made his debut for spurs, wow. you cant take that away from anyone. Jamie your mum is so proud of you. Life isn't a stroll in the park, its tough, like really tough, but out of MILLIONS you did it, you lived your dreams and every fans dreams no matter who they support. Peace and love sir.
Fantastic? I watched every game he played for Spurs. He was brilliant on his debut, and average after that. He would have been loved as a trier if he didn't go off the rails. Or, make a decent career for the clubs he ended up at.
@@itsallgood8347 he was fantastic when he broke through then struggled for the reasons outlined in this video. My experiences of watching him play are subjective and do not really require comment. Maybe you should stick to watching Anorthosis instead? COYS ⚽
Respect Jamie 🎉 be proud of what you have achieved because millions don't! As men we all struggle and we all feel we can't show feelings it's something I struggle with now but by people like you speaking out it really helps us all 💙⚽️🏴
Thank you for sharing in such a vulnerable way! I know footballers make a lot of $, but they are also human. I hope your story helps many going forward!
Lost my only parent ,my mum, she was a warrior ,A proper Irish mentality,clawed through muck for her boys. At 50 see passed from cervical cancer. The decline of her health and being completely powerless over the situation. Really affected me and my younger brothers. Lost her when I was 27. There is noting comparable for a man losing the only woman that ever loved them. Respect for talking about it Jaime. If you want to become that man ,you have to kill the boy.
Jamie is a good man when he spoke about his mother, which made me want to cry. Because I lost my mother to the Monster (C). It's not easy when it's your mother. You have to be super strong to come back from these kinda of tragedies, so well done to Jamie for bouncing back.
Top man. I enjoyed this mini documentary. If you're reading this Jamie, I wish you all the best mate. Hope to see you in the Match of the Day sometime.
I can totally relate on losing a mother.I have lost my mum and I’m still struggling with the death of my mum through breast cancer and it’s still bottled and when I think about it I tear up so much and pains me a lot.
Hey man, enjoy the times you had with your mum, you were both lucky to share your time together, better to have love and lost than never to have loved at all. My mum left us when I was 6 without a goodbye………. You’re a lucky man to have had a loving mother.
Jamie O Hara My opinion of you has chabged Very emotional and very raw and incredible insighht of someone's life. There's a story behind every single person And we should stop hating and judging and understand instead
Wow.. Watching this had me loved u Ohara,as an arsenal fan I am not loving O'Hara the Tottenham fan.. I am i loving O'Hara as a person... Because how he worked had to reached to the top and at the time of ur success ur mum was not around.. God bless u
I will always respect a man who bares his soul and owns his failings. We're all human. We're all flawed. We're all learning as we stumble through life. Great interview. Respect.
Big up to Jamie for letting us into the part of a footballers life that many don’t see, they only see the pound sign but money isn’t everything Happiness is everything and Jamie is happy now and I’m so thrilled for you Your story makes you a true legend 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I’ve never understood why he got so much hate. Always thought he was a better than decent player. I’m glad he’s doing well and wish him continued success
Absolutely respect this as a human. Listen to Jamie daily on radio and love him and his personality. Absolutely top bloke and fair play to it all. The money and fame must be so hard at a young age just shows how much support you need around you.
He was an ok footballer he didn't play much for Tottenham and he slowly dropped down the levels he was writing cheques his bank balance couldn't cash a familiar tale we hear. footballers need education on how to manage money
Thank you wehustle. But most of all, thank you Mr O'Hara. First, for the football. And secondly, for having the walnuts to share your story. Life ain't very linear but with focus and reflection we get to where we should be in the end 🙏
Love your talk sport slot a guy mentioned your documentary so here I am ! Thought ful stuff … hard to grieve for loved ones but you must grieve and get through. Jamie you had good people around you to get you back to where you are today and you got through - not everyone does.
She was one of the worst to be fair. So blatantly thirsty for fame and sold every detail about their relationship after she dumped him, kept his house and screwed him for child support!
tis his own fault. she was first class bimbo that was with defoe and been already around half the spurs team, they all knew about her but he got lost in the chest
Very insightful.. and a real honest account. All these young lads (and ladies) today, obsessed with money and fame and all this bullshit, thinking it'll make them happy. Just shows. You've got to be at peace with yourself first.
i was out in town, met up with danielle lloyd and her mates, ended up back in there apartment, with her ordering us 4 scouse lads bottles an bottles of champagne, On jamie oharas platinum card Nice 1 jamie 👍 true story
How do you know he didn’t like? I don’t know for certain but would be 99% sure he did, you didn’t listen to what he was saying properly he just meant the money he was spunking away would have been enough to do that, doesn’t mean he never did
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The main lesson is never marry a fame hungry girl no matter how good looking she is. I promise you if Jamie was married to a normal good supporting women during the time he signed for Wolves and going to earn £8m, he would not have been depressed the way he says he was. Lads listen to me carefully, the most important decision you’ll ever make in your life isn’t what career you have, what job, what friends you have, it is the woman you choose to marry, choose to go 50/50 on everything you own with. So please choose carefully, don’t marry for looks, marry for heart.
Don’t go near duck lipped, love island wannabes who sniff coke all weekend, nothing good will ever come with them lot
Don’t marry the duck lip coke sniffing love island wannabe girls, damaged goods nowt good will come with them girls
Yeah if a gold digger run for the hills
Don't get married!
@@snotwurfitexactly . Just rent it .
Respect Jamie. Very honest interview. I lost my mum aswell and have struggled with it since. Keep your head up mate.🙏
Good luck to ya Jamie❣️🫡
RESPECT
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Played with Jamie for Dartford District when we were 11 and my family live in South Darenth too.
He was the only one who made it Pro out of all of us. Proud of him. 👏
He don’t remember you lil bro
@@NoContextRDH😂😂😂😂
@@NoContextRDH Your mum does though
I don’t think she does
Hard to remember when you’re one of 150 a day 😜
@@CVR-2023 what you said is categorically nonsense. What I said is categorically true.
Very motivational, brutally honest and heartwarming interview. Wishing him all the best.
I too lost my mum after she fought it for a long time, I really felt a connection with Jamie when he spoke about his mum. He's been through so much, I'm glad he's come through it, and is doing well.
I feel u bro I lost my child at 7 months old had to bury him and same week found out mum could potentially have cancer
God bless you both rip to your mom and your child hope your both ok
His girlfriend obviously doesn't care about him; she rejected him before he was wealthy and well-known, and as soon as he became well-known and wealthy, she knocked on his door and asked for his phone number. She filed for divorce and left him when his popularity and fortune fell.
You can tell by her appearance she's that kind of evil person
love to see this kind of interview. Doesn't matter you like Tottenham or not, listening to this really enlightening.
I was 17 when my mum died too but she died suddenly. The grieving process is difficult but it's what makes you a man. Definitely felt a bit of connection with Jamie when he spoke about his mum.He comes across like a nice lad who made some poor decisions but had seen the light.
Im not crying, you are... Ive called him a c*nt and got kicked off talksport in anger, now i see he's a real human, and he was only playing devils advocate and seeing him talk about his mum and then his dad and brothers tears as he made his debut for spurs, wow. you cant take that away from anyone. Jamie your mum is so proud of you. Life isn't a stroll in the park, its tough, like really tough, but out of MILLIONS you did it, you lived your dreams and every fans dreams no matter who they support. Peace and love sir.
He is ment to be controversial. Talksport is all scripted.
@@ps5andstuffhere your right mate, ive only realised that over the last 8 months.
You’re a total scum bag. Who does that? Get a grip
Tough watch. Well done Jamie Lad. Nice to see you’re doing well pal. Keep going.
Every young footballer should watch this
Yeah because it proves even shit players can make it 👍
@@oliprj8676 😅
@@oliprj8676everyone should read your comment , it proves even non achievers can put a sentence together ❤
@dannydowdeswell246 thanks. I'll take that as a compliment
@@oliprj8676 for what it's worth you've got my respect and a 😄👍
Glad I clicked on this vid. Thanks for your story Jamie.❤
Ah man! That part where he speaks about his mum was touching man 💔🥲
We need more content brother. Your channel is golden!
Very honest interview Jamie , hats 🎩 off Sir , your Mum is looking down on her boy with proud eyes x , RIP Jamie’s Mummy x x x
I think we sometimes forget that even footballers are just humans like the rest of us
With enormous amounts than the rest of us
@@PeterEllie Yes, but these guys have put in the work to get where they are
some people mistakenly believe that if they had money and fame they would no longer have any problems.
@@bobmcdade5217they got MORE problem often.
Nothing but respect for you Jamie. Love your show on talksport, top man and glad you’re doing well fella
That was incredibly put together 🔥👌
Behind every face there is a story, what an open and honest interview!
I used to love watching Jamie play for spurs. He was a fantastic player. I hope he's in a happier place mentally now. He seems like a great guy
Fantastic player psml he was a below average player
Fantastic? I watched every game he played for Spurs. He was brilliant on his debut, and average after that. He would have been loved as a trier if he didn't go off the rails. Or, make a decent career for the clubs he ended up at.
@@paulstephenson2872 As a Liverpool fan I have no idea why you're here or feel the need to comment 🤷♀️
@@itsallgood8347 he was fantastic when he broke through then struggled for the reasons outlined in this video. My experiences of watching him play are subjective and do not really require comment. Maybe you should stick to watching Anorthosis instead? COYS ⚽
@@AJW2004 its a public forum now fuck off
Respect Jamie 🎉 be proud of what you have achieved because millions don't! As men we all struggle and we all feel we can't show feelings it's something I struggle with now but by people like you speaking out it really helps us all 💙⚽️🏴
Thank you for sharing in such a vulnerable way! I know footballers make a lot of $, but they are also human. I hope your story helps many going forward!
Lost my only parent ,my mum, she was a warrior ,A proper Irish mentality,clawed through muck for her boys.
At 50 see passed from cervical cancer.
The decline of her health and being completely powerless over the situation.
Really affected me and my younger brothers.
Lost her when I was 27.
There is noting comparable for a man losing the only woman that ever loved them.
Respect for talking about it Jaime.
If you want to become that man ,you have to kill the boy.
Jamie is a good man when he spoke about his mother, which made me want to cry. Because I lost my mother to the Monster (C). It's not easy when it's your mother. You have to be super strong to come back from these kinda of tragedies, so well done to Jamie for bouncing back.
So much to learn from this video. Loved it
Really good watch this, Jamie’s honesty is so refreshing going to show how resilient he is as a sports person!
What's watch.? Proper English dummy
Top man. I enjoyed this mini documentary. If you're reading this Jamie, I wish you all the best mate. Hope to see you in the Match of the Day sometime.
Cundy & O’Hara are 📻 gold
love them, don't forget Klobby and 100% Mo haha
Clueless 👍🏻
Much prefer them as a duo than Goldstein, they were very toxic together.
@@michaelcorleone7598 toxic with Goldstein? What do u mean
@@michaelcorleone7598 it was Goldstein, I support United but he's too biased and can be a bit much...
The bit about his mum nearly made me cry 😢
Thanks for sharing Jamie.
Great interview, massive respect to Jamie for such a heartfelt and honest interview.
What a heartwarming talk. Thank you Jamie COYS
Love your style, keep rocking it!
BOT
Great interview. Kudos for keeping it real.
I can totally relate on losing a mother.I have lost my mum and I’m still struggling with the death of my mum through breast cancer and it’s still bottled and when I think about it I tear up so much and pains me a lot.
Great interview, straight from the heart. Well done 👍 Jaime 👍
Sportsbar is such a great listen with Jamie and Jason.
Hey man, enjoy the times you had with your mum, you were both lucky to share your time together, better to have love and lost than never to have loved at all. My mum left us when I was 6 without a goodbye………. You’re a lucky man to have had a loving mother.
Absolutely brilliant! I love your documentaries
so sorry to hear about your mum she will have been so proud they way you have turned out
Jamie O Hara
My opinion of you has chabged
Very emotional and very raw and incredible insighht of someone's life.
There's a story behind every single person
And we should stop hating and judging and understand instead
Excellent interview.....love these stories
O’Hara you’re a legend mate.
Everyone loves the Sportsbar!
He's not and they don't but I certainly feel a lot more favourably inclined towards Jamie O'Hara as a human being after watching this.
Really enjoyed this. 👏🏻
What a journey, you’re are doing a great job on Talksports. A fan from New York
Great music for this video.
Wow.. Watching this had me loved u Ohara,as an arsenal fan I am not loving O'Hara the Tottenham fan.. I am i loving O'Hara as a person... Because how he worked had to reached to the top and at the time of ur success ur mum was not around.. God bless u
I will always respect a man who bares his soul and owns his failings. We're all human. We're all flawed. We're all learning as we stumble through life. Great interview. Respect.
Good for you mate .. decent fella .. likable guy on the radio
Big up to Jamie for letting us into the part of a footballers life that many don’t see, they only see the pound sign but money isn’t everything
Happiness is everything and Jamie is happy now and I’m so thrilled for you
Your story makes you a true legend 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I’ve never understood why he got so much hate. Always thought he was a better than decent player. I’m glad he’s doing well and wish him continued success
Absolutely respect this as a human. Listen to Jamie daily on radio and love him and his personality. Absolutely top bloke and fair play to it all. The money and fame must be so hard at a young age just shows how much support you need around you.
What a top fella, love listening to him on the sports bar with cundy honestly makes my day right laugh
Respect Jamie, we all miss our mums
Cannot wait for you to reupload Andy Ansah’s one
Love this I always rooted for you
He was an ok footballer he didn't play much for Tottenham and he slowly dropped down the levels he was writing cheques his bank balance couldn't cash a familiar tale we hear. footballers need education on how to manage money
Spurs did it to Gaza too. Horrible club that cares nothing about the players, managers or fans!
They’re all the same, it’s professional sports.
@@thatsthejobbb8587 Spurs is more of a brand than a club. The players and manager are so distant from the rest of the club its crazy
They do wayyyyy more now to teach players about finances and media now, especially if you come through the academy systems
Fair play pal good honest interview we forget you footballers are only human aswell good luck with everything you do going forward .
COYS
Max respect to your Jamie. Honest and real.
as a Charlton man I’ve always respected and liked you Jamie keep your head up mate much respect to you and your family ❤
Fair play mate, lots of respect Liverpool fan
Well done mate 👍👍
I like jamie, he's always very honest
Good interview, thanks for being honest
Laid back genuine lad glad you played for the amazing Tottenham ❤
Thank you wehustle. But most of all, thank you Mr O'Hara. First, for the football. And secondly, for having the walnuts to share your story. Life ain't very linear but with focus and reflection we get to where we should be in the end 🙏
People too quick to make opinions on people they don’t know! Good luck for your future Jamie
Great presenter and a genuine guy.
Thank you for this video.
you found peace of mind and nothing can beat that
People slate jamie he done more than any of us could dream of. Hes a normal geezer who done well
Danielle L finished he’s football career. She was my next door neighbour in SW when start dating Jamie (plenty more celebs prior him btw).
well done lad - well done
Respect Jamie, loved watching you mate. Paxton Rd Old Boy ❤
Superb mate ❤❤
Lloyds took more lengths than michael phelps ...
After this interview I have soo much more respect for ohara rip mummy O'Hara
Love your talk sport slot a guy mentioned your documentary so here I am ! Thought ful stuff … hard to grieve for loved ones but you must grieve and get through.
Jamie you had good people around you to get you back to where you are today and you got through - not everyone does.
I remember when jamie scored against wba i was behind the goal what a shot great goal good luck in your future jamie and rip to your mom god bless
Alot of men go though the same but us men don't get help.
As soon as he mentioned his mum ....brings it all home 😢
I listen to Jamie and Cundy most nights on talkSport, top show
Love the show
Brilliant interview
Work through it Jamie, you will come out stronger mate
Good lad respect mate hard to talk about our feelings takes a big man to offload his emotions 👍🍀
I remember seen Jamie for the first time thinking this fellas à baller but never understood how he never take it to the next level.
Respect to you mate, you battled your demons & won
The wags bro. Nuthin but trouble
He knew it when he smashed all those kids in her. She’d already slept with half the premier league 😂
She was one of the worst to be fair. So blatantly thirsty for fame and sold every detail about their relationship after she dumped him, kept his house and screwed him for child support!
tis his own fault. she was first class bimbo that was with defoe and been already around half the spurs team, they all knew about her but he got lost in the chest
@@thatsthejobbb8587bad horrible sweat her
This 👆
Nice guy 🎉🎉🎉 takes balls to admit what he went through publicly !
I don't remember him at all, weirdly. But he seems like a decent, honest lad. Best of luck to him
I always loved him as a footballer. He scored some screamers
Excellent Video. Fair pay Jamie.
Respect to you mate
Interesting interview. Nice production. I don’t mind O’hara but that liverpool bit sounded and looked like a lie 😂
All those big clubs he named was a lie. Only one I believed was Wimbledon 😂
Very insightful.. and a real honest account. All these young lads (and ladies) today, obsessed with money and fame and all this bullshit, thinking it'll make them happy. Just shows. You've got to be at peace with yourself first.
Giving millions to someone who is financially is basically a death sentence
i was out in town, met up with danielle lloyd and her mates, ended up back in there apartment, with her ordering us 4 scouse lads bottles an bottles of champagne, On jamie oharas platinum card
Nice 1 jamie 👍
true story
Love Jamie. Him and Cundy are hilarious together.
Didn’t pay your dad’s mortgage for him ! Wow
How do you know he didn’t like? I don’t know for certain but would be 99% sure he did, you didn’t listen to what he was saying properly he just meant the money he was spunking away would have been enough to do that, doesn’t mean he never did
Much respect for you Jamie and all the best for your future in the sport you love