I have been the one to approach the men that fascinate me! Ladies, why wait. Sometimes men like a bold forthright woman. If you like someone, tell him! Just saying - you have nothing to lose! Good luck
Well said Lily flowers, something makes me feel women who lack the confidence to approach are the same type that think man must by all means provide for a woman.
I think this is only an illusion... I'd advise you conduct actual statistics and follow through to be sure your assertion is consistent after a while. Because even though we find it fascinating at first, it, more often than not, doesn't go beyond that. I'm not generalizing but there is something about men that wants to do the hardwork of "chasing". I like your courage when you come but I feel fulfilled when I go for and eventually get the one who seemed too hard for me to get. You get?
@@solarspeakson women will take advantage of you if you like chasing them bro. The ones that can approach are the ones that mostly bring something to the table as well. Keep chasing bro and Goodluck on getting them after going through he'll and fire lol.
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf.............
My girl actually told me to ask her out. That was years earlier. I did three years later and we're 2 years into the relationship - she's now my fiancée. 🥰🥰🥰
I understand being present and having awareness of another person. What i am not, is telepathic. Good communication (verbal) must be conducted by both individuals.
For me it's the way you mix professionalism with really insightful knowledge in your area of expertise. Learnt so much watching your videos. Thank you. You are an excellent brand. I promise.
I’ve followed on many of your videos. They are very educative, informative and interesting. It’s the first time I’ve heard from a woman’s perspective. Kudos to you. Thank you for sharing
I like this style of straight talk by Jessica. I just want to say I asked for a number after a dance class and she deflected the question so I took it as no. 6 Months later we are joking and I reminded her how she never gave her number. She replied she can't remember and gave me her number . Bottom line Guys - dont try to figure out the right and wrong because the woman doesnt know herself so you are 100% safe.
Yes Jessica all that you say in your video's are speaking to me. You are the very best at what you do for us men out here in this world. Iam ever so grateful I started to follow your video's Love from Kevin xxx
Hi Jessica! You’re totally right on all points. Now I understand why a man is master of the house! He has to take all the steps…As for those women who think they will marry the top high value man in the hood because those women got beauty and career, I believe they need your help.
Jessica, I'm laughing so hard right now. You said 'pick your ego up off the floor and move on.' and just glossed over that. It's a classic image. I'm going to use that when I'm having a promising conversation! Love from West Virginia
Wooow! this 4 tricky got me smilling honest. It happened to me before, like I was there thinking, should I ask her for her # or give her mine and I got my eyes glued on her, without saying anything. thanks for sharing these wonderful comment. from here in Namibia.
I feel comfortable listening to you and the points you give to us. I've listened to a lot of people advising about how to treat a lady but some I didn't sit too well with. Thank you for these videos. It has been very educating for me as a young man. Thank you very much.🙇 🙇 🙇
Stop sim...ng! You are among the ego booster of the modern woman! Really, just be relaxed and even if she isn't attracted to you as you are she will be flattered, text book ego booster, free validation with nothing in return for you. Listen but don't follow advices from a woman on how to approach a woman, straight women don't have to approach or date women they wouldn't know. And they are just delusional anyway most of the time.
One thing about Jess' advice is that it doesn't serve to please just the women. I notice that a lot of female relationship advicers tend to say things that serve the interests of the ladies but Jess balances things up from a realistic POV and from the man's beneficial angles
Hi Jessica! I follow your videos and I like the advice you give to men. Incidentally I used to apply your suggestions to get girls. I grew up surrounded by my 7 sisters and their friends and had no problems approaching women. I remember one evening at a party in London when I was still a student, I saw a very beautiful woman standing alone and I decided to approach her. I asked her if she could help me with some advice. She answered with a smile and asked what my problem was. I told her that she was so beautiful and if it waere possible for her to tell how I could win her attention because her beauty had jut blown my mind. She burst out laughing and asked me if I was serious. I didn’t laugh at all and I kept my face serious looking and she could tell that I wasn’t joking. We spent the whole evening together and ended up falling in love. I do not find women complicated at all and I find them easy to approach. One thing I have found out with most women is as you mentioned, is personal grooming. I have always made it a point to appear as appealing to a woman as possible. I am always respectful in my approach and always stand up for them when they are being disrespected. My best strategy is to maintain a distance so that I can rouse their interest in me. I always make it a point to make women feel good about themselves and only make a move when a woman asks me to her place or go out on a date. I have never asked for a woman’s telephone number instead they always give them to me without my asking. My secret is to make a woman decide for herself that she wants me. One thing women cannot stand is to loose a man to another woman. At times I have asked my cousins to pretend that they were trying to win my love in front of the girl that I want and it works like magic in making the girl think she will loose me if she does not act quickly in getting me to take her out. There is a saying that, “Everything is fair in love and war”. So I do not feel any regrets if a girl is misled by thinking that she might lose me if she does not act quickly.
Hi Jess I am in my early 60's and you may not believe that I am learning things from you,I was married for 20 years my wife passed away 6 years ago and I find it very difficult to approach women I really don't know what to say to most women I meet because they are always younger than my self but after listening to some of your advice I think I am getting there. By the way your English and accent is very good,I will continue listening to your other videos. Once again thank you from the Caribbean.
always give your number... cuz like she said it puts the ball in her court. you approaching her lets her know u are interested now if she takes your number that will let u know if she is really interested.
The suttles cues are borderline disrespectful mostimes and the welcoming cues are so confusing you miss them completely...I'd take a text or phone call "sorry you seem nice but this is not working" anyday over....driving 40 mins through rush hour over the GWB toll, gas, parking just to meet up over brunch to SIT there and WATCH her talk on the phone with coworkers for 30 mins on her day off 🤣 the Joy's of modern dating...🤦🏾♂️ love it!!!
I have to admit. It's my first time to comment on a video on TH-cam videos. I just watch videos and didn't care to leave a comment. You're very good and you speak the truth. I like your videos 👏👏👍🙂
To Obruche Arutere: By all means: leave comments. Even the viewers can teach the teacher and contribute to better videos. Many are show people and entertainers -- they are still learning certain depths of tenets and philosophies.
Jessica thank you for your videos they are very informative, would you think about doing a video about younger women liking older men my girlfriend is 29 years younger than me I struggle having conversations with her and I have lived a life before we met so if you have any ideas I'm watching and listening....
Hi Jess, I ve around your contents for just a couple of months now but finally subscribed today. I live in the states and am in this deep crazy position that makes feel like asking myself if am alright, lol. What would be the best platform to reach you privately?
Wish I'd subscribed your channel before falling in love. Countless how much I've learned you from your beneficial and fruitful contents. Props you Queen Jessa.
Women are so hard wired not to take initiative of approaching men and always are living in the fancy notion that men should chase them that they have completely forgotten to atleast take a first step, let alone making a move. They need not be brazen but why not do it subtly? Men do love it.
@ F J - Looks like you have joined a fairly large club. This young lady even ADMITS how the "games" are endless and unavoidable . . .there are STILL guys who want to put up with this . . . . subtle ques . . .?
Western Nations understand the value of education ❤️. Africans are just left behind in this type of education. Thanks Jessica for this type of education
Jessica my sister you are great. You are doing an excellent job. You are true and uncut. I really appreciate you with the knowledge you give men and women. Thank You and keep up the great work my Nubian Queen. I respect you to the Up most for your honesty.
OK--my thoughts!! 1) If you don't tell me--how can I know and how can I use this awareness to give you greater happiness? I'm not a mind-reader--I like people (men, women, and children) who speak their minds and are direct. If you play bullshit mind games I don't want any part of you, period!! 2) How about the things we men want YOU to do? If it's not a two-way street 50/50 keep stepping. I truly love women who communicate honestly every moment--not mind-game bullshitters!!
I have been the one to approach the men that fascinate me! Ladies, why wait. Sometimes men like a bold forthright woman. If you like someone, tell him! Just saying - you have nothing to lose! Good luck
Very true
Well said Lily flowers, something makes me feel women who lack the confidence to approach are the same type that think man must by all means provide for a woman.
I think this is only an illusion... I'd advise you conduct actual statistics and follow through to be sure your assertion is consistent after a while. Because even though we find it fascinating at first, it, more often than not, doesn't go beyond that. I'm not generalizing but there is something about men that wants to do the hardwork of "chasing". I like your courage when you come but I feel fulfilled when I go for and eventually get the one who seemed too hard for me to get. You get?
That is me
@@solarspeakson women will take advantage of you if you like chasing them bro. The ones that can approach are the ones that mostly bring something to the table as well. Keep chasing bro and Goodluck on getting them after going through he'll and fire lol.
Thanks!
Thank you too
*I love the point about showing genuine interest and being attentive; these small gestures can make a huge difference!*
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions
2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue
3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman
4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man
5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger
6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge
7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP
8. Stay away from single mothers
9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s
10. Never fully commit
11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut
12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you
13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment
14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust
15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf.............
💯
Thanks
Am intrigued by idea no.15...makes a lot of sense
I've liked no.8
Here's the manger making the field small😭😂
My girl actually told me to ask her out.
That was years earlier. I did three years later and we're 2 years into the relationship - she's now my fiancée. 🥰🥰🥰
Jessica,you re a genius. A blessing to this generation. You say it with so much accuracy and class. Pls keep doing the great job
I understand being present and having awareness of another person. What i am not, is telepathic. Good communication (verbal) must be conducted by both individuals.
Thank you Jess. Your comments are all wonderful for us man. You are such a lady who knows better for us man. keep it up.
You are very articulate on your content. Well presented.
This woman is marvelous. Thank you, Jess.
For me it's the way you mix professionalism with really insightful knowledge in your area of expertise. Learnt so much watching your videos.
Thank you.
You are an excellent brand.
I promise.
The Ad for Caveman is the top class. Great content Jess😉.
Thank you
Why not also make a video For things men want you to do but we never tell you.I guess we also deserve love and care and happiness.
Yeah the caveman cinematography was nice!
@@Fn7_ACTUAL 😎 well noted
I’ve followed on many of your videos. They are very educative, informative and interesting. It’s the first time I’ve heard from a woman’s perspective. Kudos to you. Thank you for sharing
I admire how you don't linger when you explain, instead you are straight to the point ‼️ subscribed 🤝🏼
Thanks
I like this style of straight talk by Jessica. I just want to say I asked for a number after a dance class and she deflected the question so I took it as no. 6 Months later we are joking and I reminded her how she never gave her number. She replied she can't remember and gave me her number . Bottom line Guys - dont try to figure out the right and wrong because the woman doesnt know herself so you are 100% safe.
Jessica is the best African TH-camr for sure. she's a voice and vibe for Radio Host. It's unfortunate that I just get attracted to a Married Women.
You are very RESOURCEFUL Ma..you always have my thumbs up!!!
Observation is the mother of all game.
I discovered your channel some days ago and I really appreciate what you are doing.
Yes Jessica all that you say in your video's are speaking to me.
You are the very best at what you do for us men out here in this world.
Iam ever so grateful I started to follow your video's
Love from Kevin xxx
You see.. Jessica
As a person, your facial features mesmerize me, truth be told ❤️
Especially your type of lip and eyes
Wow thumbs up Jess for always helping with love advice 🇿🇦
Hi Jessica! You’re totally right on all points. Now I understand why a man is master of the house! He has to take all the steps…As for those women who think they will marry the top high value man in the hood because those women got beauty and career, I believe they need your help.
I love the advice you give. I'm using some of them now.
You are doing an awesome job dear Jessica
You smashed it for me Jessica
Wonderful video Iam learning alot from your video's
Thankyou Jessica
Kevin xxx
Jessica, I'm laughing so hard right now.
You said 'pick your ego up off the floor and move on.' and just glossed over that.
It's a classic image.
I'm going to use that when I'm having a promising conversation!
Love from West Virginia
Lol
Hi Jessica,i really love the way you details things,thank you for your effort to make things perfect
I am single and I am learning a lot from this woman
I have suffered in my dating life more than any man out there.Jess you’re truly God sent to have learned a lot from your content thank you
𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙢𝙚𝙣 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 😊
thanks for the advice . Ever since i started watching your videos , my game has improved . lots of love Auntie Jessy😍
Woooow👌🏽 what an intro🔥. Thank you Jesse. Much appreciated 🙏🏽
If you tell a woman " I love " and her response is thank you should you take it positive?
I wish to see this video after my class. This is something I have always been curious about
I’ve just subscribe to your Chanel because I’m second learner English language, and I just fall in love to your voice, that confidence, the tones 🥰
Wow, thank you!
Wooow! this 4 tricky got me smilling honest. It happened to me before, like I was there thinking, should I ask her for her # or give her mine and I got my eyes glued on her, without saying anything. thanks for sharing these wonderful comment. from here in Namibia.
7:45 I love the subtle point at the watch...or maybe it's just that I am personally really feeling the blue face! Cheers.
You are a Gift , a Gift from the heavens above , Thank You , Thank You , for all that you have spoken .
I feel comfortable listening to you and the points you give to us. I've listened to a lot of people advising about how to treat a lady but some I didn't sit too well with. Thank you for these videos. It has been very educating for me as a young man. Thank you very much.🙇 🙇 🙇
You're most welcome
To Montero AM: Which advice did you not sit too well with? Refer to the video's timeline.
Stop sim...ng! You are among the ego booster of the modern woman! Really, just be relaxed and even if she isn't attracted to you as you are she will be flattered, text book ego booster, free validation with nothing in return for you. Listen but don't follow advices from a woman on how to approach a woman, straight women don't have to approach or date women they wouldn't know. And they are just delusional anyway most of the time.
One thing about Jess' advice is that it doesn't serve to please just the women.
I notice that a lot of female relationship advicers tend to say things that serve the interests of the ladies but Jess balances things up from a realistic POV and from the man's beneficial angles
Jessica, you are amazing. What you said about texting is edifying!
Hi Jessica!
I follow your videos and I like the advice you give to men. Incidentally I used to apply your suggestions to get girls. I grew up surrounded by my 7 sisters and their friends and had no problems approaching women. I remember one evening at a party in London when I was still a student, I saw a very beautiful woman standing alone and I decided to approach her. I asked her if she could help me with some advice. She answered with a smile and asked what my problem was. I told her that she was so beautiful and if it waere possible for her to tell how I could win her attention because her beauty had jut blown my mind. She burst out laughing and asked me if I was serious. I didn’t laugh at all and I kept my face serious looking and she could tell that I wasn’t joking. We spent the whole evening together and ended up falling in love.
I do not find women complicated at all and I find them easy to approach. One thing I have found out with most women is as you mentioned, is personal grooming. I have always made it a point to appear as appealing to a woman as possible. I am always respectful in my approach and always stand up for them when they are being disrespected. My best strategy is to maintain a distance so that I can rouse their interest in me. I always make it a point to make women feel good about themselves and only make a move when a woman asks me to her place or go out on a date. I have never asked for a woman’s telephone number instead they always give them to me without my asking. My secret is to make a woman decide for herself that she wants me. One thing women cannot stand is to loose a man to another woman. At times I have asked my cousins to pretend that they were trying to win my love in front of the girl that I want and it works like magic in making the girl think she will loose me if she does not act quickly in getting me to take her out. There is a saying that, “Everything is fair in love and war”. So I do not feel any regrets if a girl is misled by thinking that she might lose me if she does not act quickly.
Hi Jess I am in my early 60's and you may not believe that I am learning things from you,I was married for 20 years my wife passed away 6 years ago and I find it very difficult to approach women I really don't know what to say to most women I meet because they are always younger than my self but after listening to some of your advice I think I am getting there. By the way your English and accent is very good,I will continue listening to your other videos. Once again thank you from the Caribbean.
Good job Jessica. These are good things men should know. They are beautiful secrets like you. Keep up the good work.
Great video..is there a reasonable airline that flys out of Ghana?? just wondering lol
Thanks Jessica for your in depth informative,educative and on point discussions.
Glad to be part of your audience.
I can't lie, I like this channel alot!
I get to hear & learn things I do not kwn
We are here with you my sister !! Sweet !! They will never tell us . I hope we don’t also know what they want . 👀😊
I have learned a lot from you thank you so much
always give your number... cuz like she said it puts the ball in her court. you approaching her lets her know u are interested now if she takes your number that will let u know if she is really interested.
Man!!! That voice of yours is awesome. Good video. Great job
The suttles cues are borderline disrespectful mostimes and the welcoming cues are so confusing you miss them completely...I'd take a text or phone call "sorry you seem nice but this is not working" anyday over....driving 40 mins through rush hour over the GWB toll, gas, parking just to meet up over brunch to SIT there and WATCH her talk on the phone with coworkers for 30 mins on her day off 🤣 the Joy's of modern dating...🤦🏾♂️ love it!!!
Well tried some of UA suggestions,and true that,they work,so u get my subscription as a sign of appreciation👍👍
TEAMWORK
I love your positivity on all ends thank you
I have to admit. It's my first time to comment on a video on TH-cam videos. I just watch videos and didn't care to leave a comment. You're very good and you speak the truth. I like your videos 👏👏👍🙂
Thank you 😊
To Obruche Arutere: By all means: leave comments. Even the viewers can teach the teacher and contribute to better videos. Many are show people and entertainers -- they are still learning certain depths of tenets and philosophies.
Miss Os
How interested
I was just about to ask you a question
Hear it is you answered it all
Thanks again ad again
Thanx for the tips Jessica
Good advice keep it up. Thank you.
Your messages has been very inspirational and pregnant with facts.kudos to your fluent use of the queens language
My Mrs Jessica os thank you for your help me
God blessing you forever❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
i appreciate your knowledgeto get a woman to start admiring or liking you
Insightful!!!
From Nigeria!
You're exceptional.
I'm a new member,ur so helpful and educative
Honestly Jessy i will always call my personal angel. You're my best
@Iyoha Praise please dear are you referring to me or my personal angel Jessy
Your videos always teaches me new things
Thank you 😊 for the videos, your tips are to the point. Really help full.
you are black inside but bright inside, really intelligent and honestly-open woman in the world
You already said it, in the first video I saw....Never chase them, let them chase you..... I regretted that I had known that when I was 20!
Your are very much important to me. I have subscribed. Good job keep changing me.
Jessica thank you for your videos they are very informative, would you think about doing a video about younger women liking older men my girlfriend is 29 years younger than me I struggle having conversations with her and I have lived a life before we met so if you have any ideas I'm watching and listening....
God bless you. I love your topics. All things you explain it always happens to me.
Thank you Jess for another educational video.
Hi Jess, I ve around your contents for just a couple of months now but finally subscribed today.
I live in the states and am in this deep crazy position that makes feel like asking myself if am alright, lol. What would be the best platform to reach you privately?
That's a nice company, we need more of this in Africa
You are correct and good too
Jessica you Rock! Excellent video!!👏♥️
Wish I'd subscribed your channel before falling in love. Countless how much I've learned you from your beneficial and fruitful contents. Props you Queen Jessa.
As helpful as Jess's advice is for men, I feel most young ladies today can also learn immensely about relationships from her words
These new young hos don’t even know what they like they like bisexual niggas 🤦🏾♂️
There were women who I wanted to approach and never did, they were either waiting for the approach or wanted to approach me too, but didn't.
Wonderful learning . How to ask you doubts
Women are so hard wired not to take initiative of approaching men and always are living in the fancy notion that men should chase them that they have completely forgotten to atleast take a first step, let alone making a move. They need not be brazen but why not do it subtly? Men do love it.
I gave up on looking for love, I decided its much easier for me to don't even look and just live life day to day!
@ F J - Looks like you have joined a fairly large club. This young lady even ADMITS how the "games" are endless and unavoidable . . .there are STILL guys who want to put up with this . . . . subtle ques . . .?
Western Nations understand the value of education ❤️. Africans are just left behind in this type of education. Thanks Jessica for this type of education
I like your channel, you're motivating, I Will start a channel like yours.keep it up.Thanks
Just wanna say thanks, but I wish I had come across this stuff before I got hitched. I will use it for advice.
Hi Jessica.... Great mind, great ideas... You are spot on ❤
Your vids really teach me alot🙌
I’ve watched a few of your videos n got hooked lol. I’m impressed and you’ve definitely earned my subscription 🙏🏽👍🏽
I appreciate all the efforts you make.
God bless everyone watching this video in this remaining year
Ameeen
merci de vos idees pendant connexion le partenaire
Thanks Jessica for the great pieces of advice
Ur great teaching,so superb to help pple in their relationships
Jessica, you're really a great coach
Jessica my sister you are great. You are doing an excellent job. You are true and uncut. I really appreciate you with the knowledge you give men and women. Thank You and keep up the great work my Nubian Queen. I respect you to the
Up most for your honesty.
I like your teaching style
Good luck keep on going 👍
Thank you, I will
Really enjoyed it and learnt some lessons. Thanks, Jessie.
Thanks for posting this, Jessica...❤
OK--my thoughts!! 1) If you don't tell me--how can I know and how can I use this awareness to give you greater happiness? I'm not a mind-reader--I like people (men, women, and children) who speak their minds and are direct. If you play bullshit mind games I don't want any part of you, period!! 2) How about the things we men want YOU to do? If it's not a two-way street 50/50 keep stepping. I truly love women who communicate honestly every moment--not mind-game bullshitters!!
Love you Jessy🌹 and thank you
Thank you Jess, you've been great help