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When I was in middle school, I was often bullied for being "Ugly" then one day in 8th grade I got sick of being pushed around and finally stood up for myself. My confidence skyrocketed and literally just a few months later in grade 9, I started getting compliments about how pretty I am wherever I went. And heres the thing, between those two stages, absolutely nothing changed about my physical appearance. Just my attitude and confidence.
Self independent Not chasing anyone but your dreams No time for gossip You are honest Love yourself and accept who you are You have established your priorities You know how to manage your emotions. You are intelligent Learn things every day,add value to your life,add value to people's life. Brilliant communication You allow people speak and you listen.
Don't mind about people who discourage you about what you do because honestly Jessica, you don't know how many people you've inspired and still continue to inspire. Keep going girl
That’s the thing that kept me interested in watching the whole video. I almost wondered why I am I going to watch it before I started it (my mistake for judging a book without reading it!). I didn’t expect that the information shared would be well thought and really meaningful for everyone. She’s basically giving tips on how to be your best self no matter what and no matter who you are . she never mentioned once about physical appearance. Loved watching it well done 👍
Love that everything in this video is INTERNAL and based on character. The same goes for how you choose your partner: If you can’t name 5 things that have nothing to do with appearance, or money, you don’t know what you desire or you’re ok with a superficial relationship.
This woman has so much fact and depth in her presentation that her relevance in the domain of relationships can never be exaggerated.Congratulations to her.
I don't even remember how I stumbled upon this channel, but I am so glad I did. I try to feed my mind with positivity at all times and this channel is a great addition.
Well I looked for time-stamps with headings and I couldn’t find them. So I realized I have to provide them lol. So here’s to everyone else looking: 1:00 Number 1 -> You are independent 1:46 Number 2 -> You don’t run after anyone 2:17 Number 3 -> You don’t have time for gossip/small talk 3:18 Number 4 -> You are honest 4:38 Number 5 -> You love yourself and accept yourself 6:30 Number -> 6 You are not desperate for attention 7:42 Number 7 -> You have established your priorities 8:16 Number 8 -> You know how to manage your emotions 9:11 Number 9 -> You are intelligent 10:23 Number 10 -> You are a brilliant communicator
Normally, I would skip around the time stamps to read the points and move on to the next video, but each point was so well articulated that I stuck around for the entire video. I felt every word to my bones in this one. I'm so glad I stumbled upon your content. I love this and subscribed for more
I remember in my just ended relationship, the guy said " you are too smart for my liking", imagine this. Right now being smart or highly intelligent is a problem. I accepted wholeheartedly when he wanted to quit because I can't change myself for you..... You saw other people and still came in for me. He's still in my Dm requesting to see me so we can talk things through. I'm done Hun,I have a life . He has issues with my intelligence and smartness because he knows I can't be easily fooled , but he wanted it to look bad for being smart or intelligent.... My little life experience here is to prove to you that , people will always have something negative to say about even the best part of you. Focus on yourself.
A perfect description of an alpha male/female...!Having your individuality,whether, single, married or in a meaningful relationship is just it...without being opinionated...On point, Jess.. .
From my experience I can say that I have all 10 qualities. This type of personality is basically strong and somewhere intimidating for shallow people. early in my life I have suffered a lot for these qualities. eventually I learned to be myself and don't care whatever flaky people think of me. These qualities make you lone wolf but stronger, confident and hell lot of attractive. btw the video is on point.
I am becoming this kind of person, and I do feel more attractive than I was before. This video encourages me to keep going in the direction I'm heading.
People will always have something negative to say regardless of what you do and ironically, it is always the people who are clueless about their own lives, who have so much to say about everyone else’s lives. Instead of them introspectively examining their own lives so to find ways to make it better, they’d rather opt to trample on other people’s efforts and try to bring others to their level. Miserable people always want company, don’t give them any, continue to be your authentic self ❤️
Am I attractive. To whom? and why should I care. Am I interesting? I think thats more important. I am very interested and invested in my life. As a child of God I am absolutely accepted and complete. You go girl - perfection is individualism.
You know what if you think you can have it all go for it , who am I to say that you can't . I don't even know what having it all means to you and that's something that can change over time as well . Good luck, ps. we all need to try to see each other's point of view.
Hello precious friend that's reading this, we may not know each other but I wish you all the best in life! You are so loved very much by many. ✨ I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️
Not only was I saying “this is me , yep this is me, uh huh this is me..” but I was also looking at the characteristics you described and seeing those traits inmy friends and they all lineup as well. Keep keeping on girl 😘
Thank you Jessica for that boost. Everything you've said is exactly who I am in Jesus, it is Jesus who brought me through the grinding. Today, I'll graduating from a level in university. One person, whom I take as a sister pushed me to study and it's within studies I see I can advance myself and able to compliment others, I only can encourage or boost. Thanks Jessica, I'm unto your site and truly, I'll continue to seek to understand myself and others through education. I maybe a boarder line introvert but it helps me assess myself and others from a distance to better serve. God bless you child, continue your good edification in Jesus name.
This has been such a life saving goal..💪.I almost lost myself ...I started forgetting that being me is the only path I'd have to my success...thank you sisy .❤️....🥰..I love your channel and appreciate the confidence you have❣️...my inspiration to having such a confidence as you have ...😘
Independence is important 👌🔥... great point No man wants an overly dependent woman 🌚 Number 5 👌, there's nothing like perfection, therefore we are to understand that acceptance is key😍. I love intelligence ♥️🔥. Great video Jessica 👏❣️
How can someone describe me so well without knowing me? Thanks for the reaffirmation, Jessica. Very informative ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ In a world where standards are gradually being compromised, it's good to see those with the same ideals as I.
Hello please I just want to let you know that I love you very much I really do admire you please keep going and remember that some people are really looking up to you 🙏🥰
Jessica, you are truly sensible person and given the best advice specially to women who are needy and change their personalities like a chameleon just to be attractive to a man. And all that you said is true. You have to first know you are with your beliefs and ethics, go out into the world knowing who you are - your own strengths and weaknesses, be compassionate, treat everybody you encounter with the same respect and be straight and honest and people will always gravitate towards you. Liking and loving is a feeling that should surface naturally.
The beauty of character transcends a person's looks. Appearance stimulates our eyes long term a person's character, values, morals, charm will leave a long term feeling. Yogi
I'm at a part in my life where I've accepted myself with a new love. I just want someone who loves and has a great heart. Look and heights dont matter to me anymore.
A little support goes a long way! If you'd like to support my channel in any shape or form, join my growing Patreon community! thanks in advance. Join here: www.patreon.com/jessicaos
Thanks so much Jessica! I love the fact that I have all of what you discuss in here. I am always grateful in my life ever since I was single, got married, and now alone single back! I am very super independent!!! Thanks I love this attraction insights so good to hear!
You are right be who u are,don’t need permission for any and if they feel you not attractive to them , that is there problem not yours because you know who you are.
Being an intelligent communicator is what I'm gonna work on to rank 10/10. Thank you so much Jessica, I love your confidence in content delivery ❤️ Surely am gon learn this one 💯. Thanks a bunch 😊
So i stumbled upon your page last month while i was going through a breakup, life, etc, i was in bad place and seeking that encouragement or motivation. I normally listen sermons etc, but idk what happened, but i clicked your page. I subbed yesterday and, i gotta say, i respect you as a straight forward no bull person. You see something and you go at it DESPITE THE NAYSAYERS, very admirable!! tbh your paged pulls intertest because you are a female touching many matters where females would shy about and men would either be puzzled or dig extensively or rather go to lengths that may not be good for ones mental health. You touch the topics that are so simple but so hard to be spoken. just wanna say, keep doing what you're doing, you are a gem and your persona resonates with mines...no doubt you're very jovial as well....KEEP IT UP!
@@JessicaOS Yea no problem, n ur very appreciated as well. Really enjoy your contents, especially this one, i aspire many things, particularly writing a book, and this vid is a comfort and reasurances to not let the negativity of others deter that.
I looove this video. I always wondered what is it that made me attractive. I got it here. What I love most is that there wasn't a single mention of physical attraction which let's me know, you absolutely know what you are talking about. Such a well articulated video and hits all the right points.
Thank you very much, Jessica. I believe the key to success is to focus on what you are passionate about and continue to it well. Provided what you are doing is the will of God, you will blessed tremendously. We all have our calling and we need to identify it and focus on that. God richly bless you.
Jessica, This was a REALLY good video. We all have our peccadillos or in other words we all struggle somewhere in life. At the end of the day if someone really loves you they will love everything about you and your imperfections will not matter! Take care everyone and much love Jess.
You definitely have every right to speak to us about these topics. Your intelligent and have charisma and experience . Your very intriguing and beautiful. I only see the best in you.
You Are doing a great job, your topic is universal and as Africans, we are at this stage struggling with these issues, and depression is in the rise for men, because we think that saying no is a sign of weakness. Thank you for making me feel better. I know now I'm not crazy.
Damn this is Tuff . I mean I see so many women portraying this intelligent and confident mindset… but this lady here is the real true mirror of all that.. her body language, vocals and fluent way of speaking is a GEM.. great intelligence.. my respect honestly 👊🇨🇦🇬🇹👊
When I went to first year in the university in 2019, one guy came to my room and ask if I was related to Jessica of Citi FM and Tv. I said No and he claimed I resemble her so much. But do you know I'm depressed because people always give comments that makes me feel so ugly....I have been depressed since 2020 till date .I have suicidal thoughts several times..... what motivates me is , Jessica is a beautiful woman , if I resemble her then I'm beautiful too. People will say everything possible to make sure you are never happy.... Remember, it's not always outsiders. Your family members are humans too. This video made my day.
I’ve been told many times in my life starting when very young that I was “too quiet “ well this is true yes to this day now I’m 62 years old I am quiet although I do speak to people all the time only if I think that it is worth it and that I will be listened to also. I am not picky I will talk with anyone,anytime it is who I am and always have been . I remember my father telling myself and younger brother that there is one way to learn about life and people and that is to keep your mouth quiet and your ears open. I’m very careful with what I say, I try to say what I mean and mean what I say in my life. Thank You Jessica, it is truly a pleasure to listen to what you teach and have to say! I’m trying to end what has been a very one sided relationship and a dysfunctional relationship right now so I do believe in fate, I just happened to find you on TH-cam, Again thanks for what you do, I can see and Hear this is your passion.
Love your confidence, the way of describing and explaining things in a very understandable way. Got my subscription and smutching the bell!!! Keep shining and raise the bar higher girls!!!
Aunty Jessy, I'm in love with a girl and due to some misunderstandings we broke up and finally apologized to each other. We trying to start from the scratch. My question is how should I relate to her?
I really enjoyed everything about this video: your message, confidence, delivery, even your accent. I sat up straighter listening to you speak. Thanks for sharing this message!
To point number 9 i can say sth. If u talk to a person about a specific topic, which you dont know much about, but the other person does, just listen and show interest. Ask question to show the person that u want to learn more about the topic. Sometimes people just want to spread their knowledge to others. When you are a good listener then take the opportunity and lean from it aswell.
Omg I was exactly everything said in the video, a few years ago..but I was feeling low and depressed for the past one year...this video just reminded me about myself..and boosted my spirit to be myself..thanks !!! Edit: Loads of love from India..! ❤❤🙏
I love how you get right to the point in your video and I love the commentary…this one should be called “self-confidence booster” because the gems you dropped definitely sets the tone to ultimate greatness! Salute Queen 👑 for this amazing content!!!✨🤎👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@JessicaOS thank you for eloquently stated commentary! Watching this just gave me inner strength to keep pushing no matter how hard the circumstances!!! Thank you again!!!💫
Thanks, Jessica. This was so helpful. I also saw the video like you describing yourself as you speak. Like, you were not just speaking but portraying what you were saying. You are indeed a confident woman. Thanks once again.
thank you for this! I thought this was going to be another one of those videos that focused on physical attributes but I was pleasantly surprised! These innate qualities are truly what make people beautiful!
This video has more empowered me, I do not run after anyone, if one feels they can stay in my circle, most welcome, but if they feel am not worth them, then it's a bye, I really don't chase after anyone, I value my standards alot
As she mentioned that one of the key factors of an attractive person is when she mentiined that; you dont have time for small talks or gossip, i immediately gave it a like👍
Dude, u proved me that I am really something. Proud introvert me. Wuuuuuuuuu. God Bless u Jessica. U won my heart & captured my attention with only one video.
OMG im so excited and elated that you didnt make this about "if your sexy, if you got your hair,nails and pedi done, then youre a baddie!". I love you made this about how ppl are supposed to be on the path of self success!
You have really outlined good points, especially been emotionally intelligent & communicator. Also, understanding that not everyone will like/love you makes you emotionally unbiased, as well as life being less miserable. Keep it up Jess!
Si May questions, 1) where do you get your information from? Are you reading studies? Also are you talking about personality traits that make a person attractive?
Hi Jessica, you did it again. Thanks so much for your very insightful video. You talk with such clarity and confidence, you are such an inspiration and truthful person. Too bad not enough people can appreciate a person who possess the qualities that you have mentioned and can work together as a loving couple should. 💞
Omg I stumbled across your page as a TH-cam suggestion… I’m definitely going to subscribe to your channel … Thank you for the confirmation it let’s me know I’m on the right path !!!
I have listened to several of your videos. I find you to be very capable you have a clear understanding on your subjects. And you exude confidence! I am African American and have spoken to numerous Africans from at least 20 different countries! You are exceptional!!! I bid you GOD Speed and Best Wishes!
Powerful message jessie. It was as though you had to choose a different tone that better convey the message; soft , strong and confident. Thanks dear. I also loved the part you talked about your trolls, and how you deal with it.
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
Big up Jessy. Much love from 🇺🇬
When I was in middle school, I was often bullied for being "Ugly" then one day in 8th grade I got sick of being pushed around and finally stood up for myself. My confidence skyrocketed and literally just a few months later in grade 9, I started getting compliments about how pretty I am wherever I went. And heres the thing, between those two stages, absolutely nothing changed about my physical appearance. Just my attitude and confidence.
There you go!
Wow thank you for this comment💛
That's awesome!!!😊❤❤❤
@Star Smoke you were always pretty ❤️ I can relate to your great comment.
Confidence is everything.
Self independent
Not chasing anyone but your dreams
No time for gossip
You are honest
Love yourself and accept who you are
You have established your priorities
You know how to manage your emotions.
You are intelligent
Learn things every day,add value to your life,add value to people's life.
Brilliant communication
You allow people speak and you listen.
Don't mind about people who discourage you about what you do because honestly Jessica, you don't know how many people you've inspired and still continue to inspire. Keep going girl
You are very confidence-inspiring. Thank you. Don't be intimidated by others
@@bobmorgan5636 0000q
Me she is ma hero. Cos day by she ands something on ma life.
It's day by day.
I agree with you. from Radio to TH-cam...she keeps being exceptional
"just become deaf when someone says any bullshit to you", BEST ADVICE OF THE YEAR
This is a next level video for next level thinkers. I love how everything she explained was a quality not a physical observation.
10/10 observation
That’s the thing that kept me interested in watching the whole video. I almost wondered why I am I going to watch it before I started it (my mistake for judging a book without reading it!). I didn’t expect that the information shared would be well thought and really meaningful for everyone. She’s basically giving tips on how to be your best self no matter what and no matter who you are . she never mentioned once about physical appearance. Loved watching it well done 👍
Exactly she is straight forward
Yeap! She is intelligent, self-aware, conscientious. All make one attractive! Way to go sis!
Agreed
Love that everything in this video is INTERNAL and based on character.
The same goes for how you choose your partner: If you can’t name 5 things that have nothing to do with appearance, or money, you don’t know what you desire or you’re ok with a superficial relationship.
This is very important.
Truer words have seldom been spoken.💪🦾
I like the fact that you did not treat attractiveness as superficial nor based on having chiseled abs, flat tummy, wide hips etc.
I love this!! Superficial people would focus on the external but a person of substance looks for the same qualities with or without their eyes closed.
Am I Attractive? I guess I will need to watch this video to find out 🤔!
lol
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Tayooooooooo!!!!💕💕💕
Clickbait aiye! It seems you have a crush on Jessica coz what is all this?
Stop 🤣🤣
You have a superb personality
Thank you
You are my new favorite voice to hear.
Sure she does
This woman has so much fact and depth in her presentation that her relevance in the domain of relationships can never be exaggerated.Congratulations to her.
Thanks so much sister... 🙏🙏🙏
You can say that again and again absolutely 💯 👌🏻 correct
Well said.. I really appreciate.. this is my exact life
I don't even remember how I stumbled upon this channel, but I am so glad I did. I try to feed my mind with positivity at all times and this channel is a great addition.
I'd rather sleep than gossip. I wonder why people have time for it.
Well I looked for time-stamps with headings and I couldn’t find them. So I realized I have to provide them lol. So here’s to everyone else looking:
1:00 Number 1 -> You are independent
1:46 Number 2 -> You don’t run after anyone
2:17 Number 3 -> You don’t have time for gossip/small talk
3:18 Number 4 -> You are honest
4:38 Number 5 -> You love yourself and accept yourself
6:30 Number -> 6 You are not desperate for attention
7:42 Number 7 -> You have established your priorities
8:16 Number 8 -> You know how to manage your emotions
9:11 Number 9 -> You are intelligent
10:23 Number 10 -> You are a brilliant communicator
I was about to disqualify myself cos I thought it was going to be something about looks. I ranked 10/10 😎 Thanks for the self-worth boost Jessica!
Joelllll! I miss seeing your comments man!
I was thingkin the same thing.. but I thought I want to find out 😎
Me too
Normally, I would skip around the time stamps to read the points and move on to the next video, but each point was so well articulated that I stuck around for the entire video. I felt every word to my bones in this one. I'm so glad I stumbled upon your content. I love this and subscribed for more
Thanks for the support
Anime, that's also my story.
I watched every bit
Couldn’t have said it better myself. Just decided to listen to the first point and now I have listened to all 10✌🏾
@@JessicaOS you are taurus zodiac sign your element is earth that means stability that is why you are unshakeable a capricorn man will compliment you.
I remember in my just ended relationship, the guy said " you are too smart for my liking", imagine this. Right now being smart or highly intelligent is a problem. I accepted wholeheartedly when he wanted to quit because I can't change myself for you..... You saw other people and still came in for me. He's still in my Dm requesting to see me so we can talk things through. I'm done Hun,I have a life . He has issues with my intelligence and smartness because he knows I can't be easily fooled , but he wanted it to look bad for being smart or intelligent.... My little life experience here is to prove to you that , people will always have something negative to say about even the best part of you. Focus on yourself.
A perfect description of an alpha male/female...!Having your individuality,whether, single, married or in a meaningful relationship is just it...without being opinionated...On point, Jess.. .
A sigma personality. Alphas crave for attention
@@donratty9 I was about to type sigma.
Sigma personality
From my experience I can say that I have all 10 qualities. This type of personality is basically strong and somewhere intimidating for shallow people. early in my life I have suffered a lot for these qualities. eventually I learned to be myself and don't care whatever flaky people think of me. These qualities make you lone wolf but stronger, confident and hell lot of attractive. btw the video is on point.
The isolation is no joke !!!
@@Stainless009 yeah. that hurts like hell. but what we can do when you live among people who are mostly live from surface level.
I am becoming this kind of person, and I do feel more attractive than I was before. This video encourages me to keep going in the direction I'm heading.
omg you’re beautiful!!
I have been this type of person all my life and I am still ugly lol
@@di3486 hm.. what's wrong with u
@@beulahjoy9048 Nothing, I am just unattractive
OMG, I didn't know I owe almost all the signs you mentioned. ILYSM ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ THANK YOU SWEET HEARTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!
People will always have something negative to say regardless of what you do and ironically, it is always the people who are clueless about their own lives, who have so much to say about everyone else’s lives. Instead of them introspectively examining their own lives so to find ways to make it better, they’d rather opt to trample on other people’s efforts and try to bring others to their level. Miserable people always want company, don’t give them any, continue to be your authentic self ❤️
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Excellent 👌
...and that's it
You soo right.!!💯 I got all these attributes and whenever I walk by, people just keep staring at me.!! Soo much love I got for myself.!!!
This video should be showed in every senior high school classroom. These are LIFE NUGGETS! Thank you.🙏🏾
I agree with you ☺️
i love that you showed black people in a positive/strong light. keep going queen.
All the traits she described are actually traits of an alpha person. A very strong person
Am I attractive. To whom? and why should I care. Am I interesting? I think thats more important. I am very interested and invested in my life. As a child of God I am absolutely accepted and complete. You go girl - perfection is individualism.
You GOOOOOOOOOOO GIRL!!!! I said it literally just today! “I believe I can have it all, and I will.” I LOVE your confidence. Never change, Sis!👑
Noone has it all. But we do all have choices. Takes a lot of maturity to understand this.
Yes go girl ?
Yes, you gooooooo girl!!! Who cares what others think, just follow your own rules. 🙏🙏
Ya you bet ! huh
You know what if you think you can have it all go for it , who am I to say that you can't . I don't even know what having it all means to you and that's something that can change over time as well . Good luck, ps. we all need to try to see each other's point of view.
I'm learning how to work on No 8 - Managing my emotions. I'm gonna watch this video again.
This is literally one of the best videos I have ever watched in terms of accuracy,diction and perfection. I love this a lot.
I thought I was the only observer ...moreso the content was superb!
i love the way Jessica speaks, she communicates clearly and all points on targets!
Hello precious friend that's reading this, we may not know each other but I wish you all the best in life! You are so loved very much by many. ✨
I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️
You are loved and cherished so much dear♥️
Not only was I saying “this is me , yep this is me, uh huh this is me..” but I was also looking at the characteristics you described and seeing those traits inmy friends and they all lineup as well. Keep keeping on girl 😘
🙌🏾
Yes this is me but that doesn’t mean I am not ugly
You guys missed what's she said on attention.." You don't seek attention but attention finds you" that's a sign of an attractive person🇬🇭
Thank you Jessica for that boost. Everything you've said is exactly who I am in Jesus, it is Jesus who brought me through the grinding. Today, I'll graduating from a level in university. One person, whom I take as a sister pushed me to study and it's within studies I see I can advance myself and able to compliment others, I only can encourage or boost. Thanks Jessica, I'm unto your site and truly, I'll continue to seek to understand myself and others through education. I maybe a boarder line introvert but it helps me assess myself and others from a distance to better serve. God bless you child, continue your good edification in Jesus name.
This has been such a life saving goal..💪.I almost lost myself ...I started forgetting that being me is the only path I'd have to my success...thank you sisy .❤️....🥰..I love your channel and appreciate the confidence you have❣️...my inspiration to having such a confidence as you have ...😘
Independence is important 👌🔥... great point
No man wants an overly dependent woman 🌚
Number 5 👌, there's nothing like perfection, therefore we are to understand that acceptance is key😍. I love intelligence ♥️🔥. Great video Jessica 👏❣️
Sarah, start posting videos on your channel ooo tom. Lol. I like the way you support content creators. Doff my hat for you.
She's amazing isn't she?
@@SHOWERSTVBIZ thanks for the kind words 💕... I'll heed to your advice 🙏
@@JessicaOS awwwn 😇❣️
@@JessicaOS she really is
How can someone describe me so well without knowing me? Thanks for the reaffirmation, Jessica. Very informative ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
In a world where standards are gradually being compromised, it's good to see those with the same ideals as I.
Of course you are so attractive... She described you perfectly. I'm being sarcastic.
I love this point of yours
Hello please I just want to let you know that I love you very much I really do admire you please keep going and remember that some people are really looking up to you 🙏🥰
all this coming from a woman's perspective makes a man raise his standards in every way
Jessica, you are truly sensible person and given the best advice specially to women who are needy and change their personalities like a chameleon just to be attractive to a man.
And all that you said is true.
You have to first know you are with your beliefs and ethics, go out into the world knowing who you are - your own strengths and weaknesses, be compassionate, treat everybody you encounter with the same respect and be straight and honest and people will always gravitate towards you.
Liking and loving is a feeling that should surface naturally.
I just came online on TH-cam and bumped into your channel and I've been getting valid advises...
Thanks JESSY
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Welcome
The beauty of character transcends a person's looks. Appearance stimulates our eyes long term a person's character, values, morals, charm will leave a long term feeling. Yogi
I'm at a part in my life where I've accepted myself with a new love. I just want someone who loves and has a great heart. Look and heights dont matter to me anymore.
Good 😊
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Sorry.. what if you don't know how to draw some one's attention..
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this is me
you are pretty, just saying peace✌️
What you described is actually really UPTIGHT not attractive.
I found this channel by mistake and now I'm addicted to it.
same same 😂
Thanks so much Jessica! I love the fact that I have all of what you discuss in here. I am always grateful in my life ever since I was single, got married, and now alone single back! I am very super independent!!! Thanks I love this attraction insights so good to hear!
You are right be who u are,don’t need permission for any and if they feel you not attractive to them , that is there problem not yours because you know who you are.
Being an intelligent communicator is what I'm gonna work on to rank 10/10.
Thank you so much Jessica, I love your confidence in content delivery ❤️
Surely am gon learn this one 💯.
Thanks a bunch 😊
Man! I’m wowed by her confidence and communication skill too
So i stumbled upon your page last month while i was going through a breakup, life, etc, i was in bad place and seeking that encouragement or motivation. I normally listen sermons etc, but idk what happened, but i clicked your page. I subbed yesterday and, i gotta say, i respect you as a straight forward no bull person. You see something and you go at it DESPITE THE NAYSAYERS, very admirable!! tbh your paged pulls intertest because you are a female touching many matters where females would shy about and men would either be puzzled or dig extensively or rather go to lengths that may not be good for ones mental health. You touch the topics that are so simple but so hard to be spoken. just wanna say, keep doing what you're doing, you are a gem and your persona resonates with mines...no doubt you're very jovial as well....KEEP IT UP!
Thanks for this. 🤗 I appreciate you.
@@JessicaOS Yea no problem, n ur very appreciated as well. Really enjoy your contents, especially this one, i aspire many things, particularly writing a book, and this vid is a comfort and reasurances to not let the negativity of others deter that.
Best video yet!!!
The resonance is strong 💪
The consistency in content delivery is breathtaking.
You're breaking ground Big Sister!!💜👏💯🔥
Thank you so much
@@JessicaOS It is a great honour!
Brutal honesty towards others is sometimes a form of subtle cruelity. Truth should be spoken in love and for edification
So many Insightful tips! You are awesome!!! :D
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This guy has a crush on Jessica... Coz..... 🤷♀️ his comments just seems to litter everywhere.
Thank you so much for this video!! I was starting to question my ways. This reminded me that I'm on the right path. Thank you again!
I looove this video. I always wondered what is it that made me attractive. I got it here. What I love most is that there wasn't a single mention of physical attraction which let's me know, you absolutely know what you are talking about. Such a well articulated video and hits all the right points.
Yes absolutely. Intelligence and brilliance in communication
Thank you very much, Jessica. I believe the key to success is to focus on what you are passionate about and continue to it well. Provided what you are doing is the will of God, you will blessed tremendously. We all have our calling and we need to identify it and focus on that. God richly bless you.
Well articulated
Jessica,
This was a REALLY good video. We all have our peccadillos or in other words we all struggle somewhere in life. At the end of the day if someone really loves you they will love everything about you and your imperfections will not matter! Take care everyone and much love Jess.
True 💖
You definitely have every right to speak to us about these topics. Your intelligent and have charisma and experience . Your very intriguing and beautiful. I only see the best in you.
Why did I get so attracted when you say: 'its my opinion that matters' ❤️
Wow! Just wow! This spoke to me! Thank you TH-cam algorithm! Most of all thank you Jessica! Your a blessing!
You're welcome 😊
You Are doing a great job, your topic is universal and as Africans, we are at this stage struggling with these issues, and depression is in the rise for men, because we think that saying no is a sign of weakness. Thank you for making me feel better. I know now I'm not crazy.
This sound like you're talking about me, because everything you said that's so me. 🙏❤️
A true expression of joy and self reflection.
I love this channel alot❤️
Love this video a lot,just make me happy instantly
This is power! ❤️❤️❤️
I just love this. It seems to speak about me. Next tell me how to manage the overflow of people that I have now because they find all these in me.
Real talk, it can complicate life eh. Sometimes can b a curse almost
Yeah great question is happening to me too
Same to me, I want to know how to manage this overflow,help us Madam Jessica
I'm so happy I came across your TH-cam Channel..You're amazing❤❤❤
Damn this is Tuff . I mean I see so many women portraying this intelligent and confident mindset… but this lady here is the real true mirror of all that.. her body language, vocals and fluent way of speaking is a GEM.. great intelligence.. my respect honestly 👊🇨🇦🇬🇹👊
When I went to first year in the university in 2019, one guy came to my room and ask if I was related to Jessica of Citi FM and Tv. I said No and he claimed I resemble her so much. But do you know I'm depressed because people always give comments that makes me feel so ugly....I have been depressed since 2020 till date .I have suicidal thoughts several times..... what motivates me is , Jessica is a beautiful woman , if I resemble her then I'm beautiful too. People will say everything possible to make sure you are never happy.... Remember, it's not always outsiders. Your family members are humans too. This video made my day.
Jessica just made me smile I haven't smiled for the last few days 🥰
I’ve been told many times in my life starting when very young that I was “too quiet “ well this is true yes to this day now I’m 62 years old I am quiet although I do speak to people all the time only if I think that it is worth it and that I will be listened to also. I am not picky I will talk with anyone,anytime it is who I am and always have been . I remember my father telling myself and younger brother that there is one way to learn about life and people and that is to keep your mouth quiet and your ears open. I’m very careful with what I say, I try to say what I mean and mean what I say in my life. Thank You Jessica, it is truly a pleasure to listen to what you teach and have to say! I’m trying to end what has been a very one sided relationship and a dysfunctional relationship right now so I do believe in fate, I just happened to find you on TH-cam, Again thanks for what you do, I can see and Hear this is your passion.
Love your confidence, the way of describing and explaining things in a very understandable way. Got my subscription and smutching the bell!!! Keep shining and raise the bar higher girls!!!
It is my first time watching your motivational videos and I must say am really impressed ,you are an attractive person 😍😍
Aunty Jessy, I'm in love with a girl and due to some misunderstandings we broke up and finally apologized to each other. We trying to start from the scratch. My question is how should I relate to her?
This is the content I signed up for🙌🏽. Appreciate that the things you spoke about have to do with values and character rather than looks🙏🏽
I really enjoyed everything about this video: your message, confidence, delivery, even your accent. I sat up straighter listening to you speak. Thanks for sharing this message!
Then I picked my nose and took a shit
To point number 9 i can say sth. If u talk to a person about a specific topic, which you dont know much about, but the other person does, just listen and show interest. Ask question to show the person that u want to learn more about the topic. Sometimes people just want to spread their knowledge to others. When you are a good listener then take the opportunity and lean from it aswell.
Omg I was exactly everything said in the video, a few years ago..but I was feeling low and depressed for the past one year...this video just reminded me about myself..and boosted my spirit to be myself..thanks !!!
Edit: Loads of love from India..! ❤❤🙏
Happy to be of help
I am indeed a very attractive person. Just been described in this amazing video.
Thank you so much for all the points you’ve explained, you’re correct. Stay blessed.
your channel is so addictive to me, I can't stop playing the next vid... once I've finished 1
You came at the right time, what a glorious reminder of my power. Thank you for spreading your gifts with us beautiful! I’m here to stay ♥️🙏🏾
I can listen to Jessica for a lifetime. She is so articulate and intelligent.
I love how you get right to the point in your video and I love the commentary…this one should be called “self-confidence booster” because the gems you dropped definitely sets the tone to ultimate greatness! Salute Queen 👑 for this amazing content!!!✨🤎👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thank you
@@JessicaOS thank you for eloquently stated commentary! Watching this just gave me inner strength to keep pushing no matter how hard the circumstances!!! Thank you again!!!💫
Thanks, Jessica. This was so helpful. I also saw the video like you describing yourself as you speak. Like, you were not just speaking but portraying what you were saying. You are indeed a confident woman.
Thanks once again.
thank you for this! I thought this was going to be another one of those videos that focused on physical attributes but I was pleasantly surprised! These innate qualities are truly what make people beautiful!
Wooow Jessica this is my first time watching your channel...am so blessed by your teachings...thank u
I’m so grateful for this video it saved me and definitely helped me move forward on the right track. Thanks 🙏🏽
This video has more empowered me, I do not run after anyone, if one feels they can stay in my circle, most welcome, but if they feel am not worth them, then it's a bye, I really don't chase after anyone, I value my standards alot
Okay...you perfectly described me!
As she mentioned that one of the key factors of an attractive person is when she mentiined that; you dont have time for small talks or gossip, i immediately gave it a like👍
Dude, u proved me that I am really something. Proud introvert me. Wuuuuuuuuu. God Bless u Jessica. U won my heart & captured my attention with only one video.
Hey Jessica, This is one of your best videos I have seen. Thank you for what you do. You are a blessing and a person of value to our world. Thank you.
Thanks ❤
That's exactly how life is
Thank you sis
OMG im so excited and elated that you didnt make this about "if your sexy, if you got your hair,nails and pedi done, then youre a baddie!". I love you made this about how ppl are supposed to be on the path of self success!
You have really outlined good points, especially been emotionally intelligent & communicator.
Also, understanding that not everyone will like/love you makes you emotionally unbiased, as well as life being less miserable.
Keep it up Jess!
Si May questions, 1) where do you get your information from? Are you reading studies? Also are you talking about personality traits that make a person attractive?
Hi Jessica, you did it again. Thanks so much for your very insightful video. You talk with such clarity and confidence, you are such an inspiration and truthful person. Too bad not enough people can appreciate a person who possess the qualities that you have mentioned and can work together as a loving couple should. 💞
Thank you...I'll watch this video everyday early morning till it sinks in
Omg I stumbled across your page as a TH-cam suggestion… I’m definitely going to subscribe to your channel … Thank you for the confirmation it let’s me know I’m on the right path !!!
I have listened to several of your videos. I find you to be very capable you have a clear understanding on your subjects. And you exude confidence! I am African American and have spoken to numerous Africans from at least 20 different countries! You are exceptional!!! I bid you GOD Speed and Best Wishes!
Powerful message jessie. It was as though you had to choose a different tone that better convey the message; soft , strong and confident. Thanks dear. I also loved the part you talked about your trolls, and how you deal with it.