Or they came from a horrible family, (and so did the girl (me ), but they won't take any resources for help except for being taken care of by the girl for free, and still are rude and act like that is not enough!!! It's so deceiving when they come from a bad family but only want help in the form of breaking all your bones for them instead of accepting helpful resources (links to doctors, nicotine/cannabis quitting groups, or actual professional help other need they expressed/complained about)
To be honest, if there's a rich guy, who's dating a girl he really likes and vice versa. He'd never hesitate to spend money on his girl and won't go around calling her a gold digger. Because that's a real man. I've only seen these broke ass men who can't even afford to buy a bottle of perfume for their girlfriends calling girls gold diggers😭😭
@@cienfuegos8155 beacuse we are expected to have great profession,be the best house wife,look after kids, clean household,cook for the whole family and even washing their husbands underwear at the same time. I don't think you want to be in this hell hole
@Alkxxxz well said what lol he asked a question that has an answer - because as human beings women who are attracted to men have a need for companionship and sex. what is wrong with persuing it? women can find good men you're just upset women are seeing thru you.
Yes I noticed this in a room full of PhD students, an undergraduate male student will want to impress only my colleagues but not me. He will only ask me questions like what was your GPA during undergrad? How did you do in this particular hard class? Etc. As if I should be the one proving why I’m in the room next to my colleagues and not him. Boy bye. 😅 Don’t just watch out for broke losers, watch out for men who are emasculated easily.
My husband is from Mexico and grew up in a very poor family. He made enough to get by while we lived in Mexico but not a lot. He never once asked me for any money to help pay the bills. Everyday he gave me all his tips he made so I could buy food and essentials for my daughter and I. He said to me one day “I know I don’t have much, but everything I have is yours”. And that’s more than my rich, American ex had ever done for me.
That's really important to take into consideration. My dad didn't even finish highschool at was working with cows but he managed to get a corporate job and earns more money than my mom who has a degree. I don't see the reason to date only rich when it's something that you can lose easily or earn with time. I like most of her advice but i think this one is at least oversimplified.
@@rubyiskira8939 i think the point is their mentality, not their financial state literally, though that's the title. You can hear mentioning "its ok to split the bill". I think her point is that what matters are the standards. Like the guys who will get mad at you for having basic minimum standards and call women "too complicated"(when literally every human is) while having nothing on them themselves, not even basic human respect. Why should a person settle for less when they deserve so much more? and if a person does not deserve all that, then that video isn't meant for them. This video is for everybody who does not know there own self worth and is too grateful for everything, nah be selfish dude, otherwise you'll just get hurt
periodt u have an incredible husband. he may not be rich but men who provide whos poor is obviously better than a man who limits his provisions whos rich. your husband is the best periodt hes a king. love hearing this you go queen
Then she's broke too. Simple as that. They're both broke. I thought women and men are equal? Or do you only want to be considered equal when it suits you? You expect a man to provide but a man can't expect the same from a woman? Where is the equality in that?
@@imthebossyaknowimthebossst8868 haha fr. If they don't have a table that means they both can't afford a table which means they're both broke. If she doesn't wanna stay with a broke guy then he has the right to not stay with a broke girl. These women point fingers at men when their fingers don't even have rings on. Like you're broke too so why you rely on a man to fix your brokeness? Go find a job. We live in 2022 not 1950. Men used to provide not anymore
@@imthebossyaknowimthebossst8868 her point is that the man can’t even afford a table yet expects the woman to provide everything. did u even watch the video cause she literally said that it’s fine for men to have expectations, but it’s not ok when they can’t do anything themselves and take advantage of women. she’s not defending women who are entitled and have unrealistic expectations lol
One thing I like about her,after seeing this whole video, is that by saying "stop dating broke guys" she didn't mean you should look down on men who are miserable being broke, nor she asked you to be a gold digger. I liked how she specified that we rather stay away from guys who are non driven and don't have a sight of success in their life because you'll end up giving mother treatment to them while they take over you cause of insecurity and damage you later.
I(32) am disciplined, hardworking but poor. I have a brain injury and therefore don’t have the privilege to visit college or another institution to get higher education. Despite learning a lot and being interested I barely passed high school. I tried college but dropped out soon. Over the years I survived with small jobs like dishwashing or working as a waiter. Whenever I encounter women in a romantic context, they ghost me after learning about my educational past. Some even called me lazy. Its hilarious. I am getting judged for something I never had control over. Its sad. If you are poor - and already fighting with everyday struggle to survive - you are also not receiving any lovea and constanly judged negatively. Though those women never walked a day in your shoes.
I deeply regret paying for everything in my past relationship. I really do. I felt like a joke and got taken advantage of. I will never do that ever again
if a man were to say something like this, women would've replied with "if you're broke then just say that". didn't mean to belittle all the bad experiences you've had by any means but i just wanted to point out the double standard.
@@thewolfofthedarkness1470 Kingsabriel888 never said he was broke. Read his post again. It's called, "Being taken advantage of". He learned a life lesson. EVERYONE has to EARN what they get. EVERYONE. If you can't reciprocate what you get, don't expect it. It's really that simple. People just make it complicated.
Only dated well-off guys for the past 2 years and let me tell you.. whole different experience. These men tend to be more educated or at least aware, conversation is better, less stress, you can relax in your feminine energy. They want to provide because they are kind and manly and only expect a “thank you ☺️” in return and quality time together. Totally recommend
Having money is no guarantee that he's a good guy though, remember that. I remember dating a guy for a while who asked to split the bill on a pizza he brought me as a surprise.... Lol
Just cuz she says they're well-off doesn't mean they have to stay, there is such a thing as compatibily. Let the woman be, well-off or not they are still human with their own flaws 🤦♀️
@@amrask2018 some ppl date just to date and get experience to find out what they’re looking for in a partner there is no need to rush into marriage if you’re not ready it’s not slutting you’re just a fuckin weirdo
“Men don’t like women, men like other men” It’s sad how often I genuinely question if straight men even like women. I, a gay guy, feel like I like women way more than some straight guys
Back then during my highschool years, I would remember boys saying the most disgusting thing about girls just to get one of their "bros" approval. Even male podcasts that's supposed to "uplift" other men, literally only talk about women women women in the most DISGUSTING matter. It's literally 80% about women, and 20% about men. There's so much hatred for women and so much need for these men to get other men's validation, I'm starting to think that "pick me girls" & "daddy issues" are just men projecting themselves. Because I as a lesbian, am attracted to women. NEVER EVER have I, or will I talk about women in the same way these guys who apparently are "straight" do.
she isnt a virgn who isnt half naked online with a cookbook. she is sabotaging you on purpose. She is out of touch with reality. She is being passed around by the top 1% and thinks there are many guys like that, statistically speaking most women are dating the top 5% of men too + wanting traditional benefits without being traditional themselves + bailed out of every bad decision in the west already lol. Her advice is horrible
@@RR-et6zp i don't think it's bad advice at all, she's just telling us to raise our standards. if you're financially stable, then you deserve to have a financially stable partner, one that can provide for you. is this really that unrealistic?? I'll tell you this: my mom is the one providing for the family, my dad has been unemployed for a while and it's such a struggle for her. My dad's awesome, but personally I wouldn't like to go through this in my marriage. Liz's advice is great for the young girls who don't wanna be in the same situation, by looking for a man that can help financially
Moral of the story : Stop dating men with a broke mentality. The ones who will have high standards for you, but wants you to have low standards for them. The ones who will emotionally manipulate you into thinking women won't expect much from the man they love. If men can want a pretty girl without taboo, why is women wanting a well off guy taboo? Who made it taboo? Think about it. Ofc it's the men who want you to expect less. The standards for men in this world are already below the earth crust, and it's moving even more lower.
"Below the Earth's Crust" Funny, the men you seek exist, but you are here wasting time instead of getting in line! Time will have the last laugh when your standards start to drop with each passing year, and you'll wish someone would put the time into manipulating you.
5:30 she's so right. i just saw a video of a woman driving an expensive car and the comment section was full of broke guys insulting her saying its her daddy/brother/husband/son's car or on rental. broke guys go into a complete meltdown when they see a woman successful
This is so true,once I was driving through a well off neighborhood and the broke guy I was with saw a young mom picking her child up in the driveway and he was like ….” She must be a complete slut to live here and be so well off”. They’re completely jealous and pathetic in my opinion.
@@akezi.a1026 trust me and they don't even see how sexist misogynist and utterly mean they are. But at the end of the day those women are earning more and living a better life than them so who's winning 🤭😻
It's so funny to guys how they have to do everything, and women just sit and wait at the finish line and pick the best guys. And we live in a 'patriarchy' lol, women are a joke
@@GTA_6_Clips Maaan, if women could only pick the best guys, most of yall wouldn't even be born 🤣🤣 And give me a break, women have existed as simply a commodity for men to marry for centuries - their whole value was tied to the spouse. Who created this society and is now complaining about the aftermath? Men 🤡🤣🤣
It's funny because I've never met a woman with genuine ambition or dreams, and I'm a millionaire. Instead a woman tries to get a guy with ambition. Lol women are just lazy and pathetic.
@@sapphire_blue3657 if it was a woman, she would receive sympathy and empathy. But if it's a man, he receives abuse. Most women are disgusting self-absorbed creatures.
Can we all agree that Liz' irony and sarcasm are top tier today, I was laughing so hard at her comments. Like seriously, what do you bring to the GROUND? I can't 😭🤌🏻 she's the best
I died when she said if she was gonna support someone she'd rather support a woman cause they're more beautiful to look at. LOL. She said it with such conviction I couldnt stop laughing.
@@intrusiveminecraft Yes, and what's wrong with that? Broke men created the word "gold digger" to shame women for wanting to live comfortably without having to worry about money.
When I dated broke men men ridiculed me for having no standards. Now that I only date men with money men label me a golddigger. No matter what men will criticize you so don’t listen to them. 💅
Bro just because of one date you decided to be a gold digger damn that's actually sad when you think about it 😢 but respect to the man for actually staying with your spoiled ass
@@truthh8597you preach liz for criticising any men that got preferences for women yet you're getting mad at men who hates on girls that gold dig make that make sense.
@@Greenhunter365in todays times its a compliment to be called goldigger than a pandhandler even a goldigger will get more respect than q panhandler who gets seen as shit in society.
GIRL! I’ve been binging your videos the last few days and this one has me CACKLING!! I’m losing it at your truths and impersonations of these broke men 🤣🤣 dying because it’s SO RELATABLE 🤣
"what do you bring to the table?" honey there's no table for us to sit at, you've no money to buy the table, we're sitting on the ground. so, rather ask what do you bring to the ground? 😂😭😭 I LITERALLY CANNOT STOP LAUGHING AT THIS, LIZ ILYSM
This is true...my friend is a high income earner running her own business, the guy she married constantly belittled her and talk down to her when he didn't bring anything to the table (he was unemployed). He wasn't a good husband, he was a terrible father...and in the end he cheated on her and physically abused her, then had the audacity to sue for half of the business he didn't help run. Don't settle for broke and lazy men ladies!!!
Those men are the minority. Most of the times its the female that drag the man down, in the west ofcourse. In the east its more traditional and normal.
I’ve dated broke men in the past and didn’t dump them because I would feel bad for them, now that I’m older and got to know men better, I realized it was a mistake because the same broke guys will dump you with no remorse.
Psychologically, broke men always being dumped, not by women, but also by society. So, when they see powerful women, they actually don't want them, but they just want these women to feel rejected like they do, because powerfull women never knows what is it like to never have a choice and never have opportunities like those broke guys because they know, broke guys can never be the same level as those powerful women.
You know what's even worse is bringing up an issue and still no changed behavior. How are you broke and can't keep you word either. Gross. And he was wack in bed
“There are guys that have 100k in their pocket and will give you 10k and there are guys that have 100$ and will give you 100$” - something I always think about
she is sabotaging you on purpose. She is out of touch with reality. She is being passed around by the top 1% and thinks there are many guys like that, statistically speaking most women are dating the top 5% of men too + wanting traditional benefits without being traditional themselves + bailed out of every bad decision in the west already lol. Her advice is horrible
When you’re single and people act like you’re crazy cause you’re not chasing a relationship it’s when you know you’re surrounded but small minded people but you’re also in a good path on your own. Ladies, having high standards is a MUST!!!!!!! Thank you for another amazing video, Liz!
Having high standards doesn't mean that you only bring to the table yourself and your presence and your beauty A man has duties and for sure he must do it And women are the same They got their own duties that they should do The girl who says I only bring my presence etc Is like the guy who wants to split the pill with his date
@@mohammedkhattab4586 i agree on that, it's like being a man, setting high standards and sitting in bed doing nothing and splitting the bill with women. Ladies remember that to live up to high standards you have to for example take care of your beauty, sexual purity, develop a nurturing personality and become a caring person.
THIS IS SOO TRUE! ive never ever been in relationship and i didnt like when my friends or sisters let their men to treat them so badly, this video reminded me that mindset, LIZ I LOVE U THANK U SM 💓
I really needed this. I just broke up with someone like this, and I was thinking that I did wrong because he was loyal and loving but he also becomes very egoistic when he gets angry or when I refuse something to do. Thank you so much Liz from the bottom of my heart!💗
So glad you got out of that relationship!! I experienced the same way... now I'm constantly working on myself, becoming healthier and more disciplined, building my career and becoming smarter. I just realized how much I missed myself
Good for you girl. Leave. I just dumped a clown too. Waste of my time, money, vagina, I can't do it anymore. Never kept his word. No flowers, just smoked weed all day and took naps. Would come over empty handed looking at me to cook and he didn't even pay for the groceries. And he was bad in bed. It was time for him to go
I think if a guy calls you a 'bitch' or 'hoe', don't even try to argue. Just leave the relationship because he has already shown disrespect and if you forgive, he will think he can do that again and you will forgive him. Which again only means that he doesn't respect you at all.
For this I always give a second chance point blank say never say that again and if they repeat it I’m out because some men believe that it is an okay thing to say as it’s similar to “guy humour” but if you correct him and he disrespects your boundary then 100% ditch him
@@tea.-. No. He gets ONE CHANCE to disrespect you. Period. He thought he could get away the 1st time so of course he's going to do it again. Where's your self respect?
@@applesaretasty2.099yeah these kind of females dont understand, i hope they go through life and treat everyone like that. Their enitre lives are going to be so miserable 😂
Me and my ex bf broke up 3 months ago and everytime i watched this video i literally feel disgusted from the fact that i settled myself to that kind of guy 🤮
✨ Timestamps ✨ 1:47 - Start having higher expectations 3:51 - Don't date broke guys 6:07 - Don't go trough lengths to defend him 6:51 - Stop applauding the bare minimum 7:47 - Accept that you can't change him 8:28 - Do not let them talk or treat you disrespectfully 10:16 - Keep your options open 11:47 - Who are you expecting loyalty from? 12:37 - Think with your head first 13:27 - Never tell a man you have no one besides him 14:32 - Always keep a social life
All her advices are so on point. I even follow some of these before I even met liz through this channel. I never blindly choose a guy if he can’t be a good father, husband or whatever.
I will always stand behind this. No broke guys EVER. It's not even about being a billionaire, it's about being generous to your girlfriend which women naturally already are. I dates a 40 year old French man when I was 24/25 and I ALWAYS paid for dinners, and gave him gifts. I stayed because I was desperate to feel "wanted" by a man but ladies I am telling you - if he starts making stuff up like "my card is locked" or doesn't offer to pay for things first and you are noticing this in the first few dates - leave. There is always going to be someone out there who matches your generous nature. Leave the broke men for the women who want Walmart wedding rings. Just as a side note as I know for sure there will be angry and offended men in the replies: nobody is forcing you to change. You can stay as you are and you will attract your equivalent depending on what energy you’re putting out. If you don’t like being generous and putting in the effort - ok cool! That’s what you will get in return. It’s as simple as that. But don’t be surprised when women with standards who are looking for more reject you. You’re not what they want so simply move on.
Also "men like men" BOOM! The old french man broke up with me because he went to visit his friends back home and they basically did not like me. But of course, this break up was a blessing from God lol 🙌🙏
@@Him738 How did what she say hurt you? Are you the broke man she speaks of? Women are naturally generous, thats all ive seen all my life with my mom, while men if given the chance will take take take without even giving back in anyway possible, far more selfish than women.
I've never even dated before, but I still needed to hear this. I cant tell you how much this conversation was needed So thank you!! There's so many women out there supporting and defending men when they won't even defend you from a mosquito
whever i have mental breakdown while in abroad, you are the first one i searched and listened to. you gave me so much energy to ignore the voices around me. BIG THANKS to you, onnie^^
liz thank you so much for this . i just came across your video and channel and man i wish i had you when i was in high school and college! my college ex was a broke white trash guy from Jersey extremely verbally abusive calling me "bitchy" or a "bitch" and when i would speak up and say DONT TALK TO ME THAT WAY IM YOUR GIRLFRIEND THAT IS DISGUSTING he would go "ohhh like you have it so hard!" and mock me and he would say things like "im a good boyfriend i mean yeah i flirt with other girls and meet up with them behind your back but at least i dont hit you" like WtF?! and youre so right! he would be so disrepectful to me and then the next day text me like nothing happened or show up with flowers. it makes me sick thinking about it. i was just so young and didnt understand how to deal with it.he would always call me "crazy jealous insecure" bc i told him i found out he met up with girls behind my back that he claimed were just "friends" but i found out they had made out in the past. im so glad for this video bc it makes me realize i was NOT crazy and i deserved better! he also would ask me to pay or "forget" his wallet and i realize he would do this stuff bc he thought i had more money than him. he would always complain about not having money or a job. even when he did get a paid internship he complained about money and asked me to pay when i didnt even have a job. he also would bring up some random family trauma to make me feel bad for him or start crying so i wont leave him or so i would pay. so big lesson learned- never date a broke guy, theyre literally broke mentally and will try to bring you down!
I don’t understand why people are upset over this video? There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a partner who makes (good) money. Not everyone wants to just settle for anything, there are people who want a luxurious life, and that’s totally okay.
and what did you do to earn or deserve this luxurious life? being cute? I even doubt that. you'll complain and argue about him telling you what you should do. 3 Things is all what it takes for a woman to get any man ever existed: -just be: feminine, beautiful, as low body count as possible (I would say virgin but I don't want to hurt feelings).TradWife is the top-tier of women, highest value, like the high value men you talk about. Traditional stereotypical gender roles rooted in our nature. the media(against Men) trying to make it harder for men by telling you it's bad to be Trad but what they did is the main reason of all this breakups, divorces and depression. edit: meanwhile the man has to work his entire life and risked alot to get a luxurious life while you complaining that you deserve it by sitting here and telling him you're equal to him without even improving yourself. and if you got in any problem or divorced, the court(against Men, Too) will favour you. their logic: Equity
Ikr? These guys manipulate girls into thinking they are being a "gold digger" if they want a man to provide for them. And now woman are like "I'm an independent b!tch and i wanna spoil my man but i don't want my man to spoil me cause I'm an independent woman and not a gold digger"
My god! I love her so much! She made me realise what all mistakes I did these years dating broke and insecure guys who disrespected me and I blamed myself for everything. Now I know, what to do. Thank you so so so so much Liz ❤❤❤❤❤
This vdo changed my dating life for real I saw this vdo when i started dating my boyfriend and since day one i told him what i will and will not tolerate and like . I told him about my family and i made him feel like I wanted him and not needed him and I will leave immediately if he made me feel bad or unwanted or disrespected me . Thank you liz You are the older sister every girl deserves ❤️✨
@@pharaohhermenthotip1553 nah bro men usually do not have even basic hygiene habits and from my perspective, though i like men, the female body is much prettier naturally.
I’m the age of feminist equality men shouldn’t have to provide . Women make money . I doubt most women here would be willing to live up to the traditional womens role so why make men do it ? Serious contradiction
@@richardjohnson6140 It’s about energy, providing is masculine so when a woman has to provide she steps into her masculine energy and can’t let herself go into her feminine. Men that are in their natural masculine energy have the inner motivation/inclination to provide, they want to do it, it’s not something they are force to do. Any woman can provide for herself and for her loved ones, NO PROBLEM, but a woman that is in her feminine (feminine is about receptivity and multiplies the energy received by the masculine) that’s why traditionally masculine is about providing. There’s nothing wrong about a man that’s mostly feminine, he is most likely going to attract a woman in her masculine. It’s about balance, there has to be contrasting energy Ying & Yang. Gender equality means we have the same rights we are both worth the same, it has nothing to do with the role in the relationship. If you don’t want to provide don’t worry, you’re in your feminine, it’s okay you’re most likely going to attract women in their masculine. As for women like Liz & I that enjoy being in our feminine we look for masculine man and that’s what we get, they’re happy to provide, they enjoy being in their masculine and it doesn’t mean we can’t provide for ourselves and it definitely not only has to do with money.
holy moly all this nonsense. I'll stay single and I'll be better off. Who needs a woman nowadays in an era of microwaves and delivery meals? No relationships for me. Hit it and leave, that's my motto!
As a single mama doing it alone it felt good to hear this. Woman are expected to do everything and it’s exhausting it’s nice to have these feelings validated ❤
Who expected what for women? Y'all are always crying on the internet while taking the kids from their fathers. Men did evrething around you while you did nothing . Producing money as a women means contribution to the family. A man always works and cries in the bathroom
Dated a broke guy who couldn’t afford to pay for McDonald’s, got called a gold digger by all of his friends, and he ended up cheating on me. It’s so embarrassing that I let that happen, but never again. My standards are actual standards now 😫
Oh yea I must added that mine cheated too, a brokey went back to his ex whom he claimed to be toxic and cheated on him too. The self disrespect i had to myself damn it 😭😂
@@afrodit8582 mine asked the girl he was cheating on me with to be his girlfriend the day after he left me (over text ofc) and she said no then he came crying and begging for me to forgive him because he had no one else to talk to. I love men ❤️ nah but fr those men suck so much but I don’t regret it bc I learned a lot now and won’t settle or ignore red flags
Thanks Queen. You have helped me alot. Your videos are literally a confidence boost for me and the heart break I was going through and crying over since yesterday IS OVER. I AM SO GRATEFUL TO YOU. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH QUEEN
This woman is A BLESSING. She inspired me to have my TH-cam channel about feminine energy , AND I GOT 25k VIEWS. All thanks to her! I just stopped fearing and started to go forward
I’m glad that God blessed you with clarity, confidence, strength, and a strong understanding so you can bless everyone in your presence. Thank you for making this video and thank you for all the videos that you do make. I especially love this one
Moral of the story: be selfish and put yourself first always. Men are never ashamed to ask you for sex, labor and money. They love other men and being around men. Always put yourself first because the trauma and empty purse is not worth it. They are the original gold diggers.
MEN love MEN. The last guy I dated spent about 3 nights a week drinking and doing dr746 with his boss which is gay. I found it very suspicious and call it quits. Besides, he was 50, ugly and fat. I can't believe I felt for his charm. 😆
@@blue-sq7tj lmao yea of course the men are the selfish ones and the women are the selfless ones. isn't it convenient how everything's the men's fault and even when they admit it's the women's fault, it had something to doo with the men? women has more privileges than men but still complain about women having less privileges than men ain't that crazy?
@IceCold_Gold how did they use the word gay as an insult? because last time i looked, they said the boss is gay. idk how that’s insulting when they’re literally gay. like they were messing around with her boyfriend. why are you putting words in other people’s mouths? hypocrite lmao
Yass! honey yassss! We women are BLESSINGS! No more internalizing blame for sub par men or mis treatment from men, others, or OURSELVES!!!!! It's time for ALL of us women collectively to readjust our CROWNS!!!! I needed this today! Thanks Liz!
what do you bring to the table except nothing? yall women are not blessings, just some of yall, and the ones who are, we treat them as best as possible
@@sum6603 fighting invisible enemies 💀. Women can’t have anything, any channel that is dedicated or atleast has videos targeted for women is followed along by angry incels who click on these channels just to argue. Go outside, take a walk, do something good with your life.
Thanks Liz. I was desperate girl since I had broken up. And everyday I am trying to listen your videos, it works with my thinking more than any books related to this. Thousand love to you for making these videos for girls’ sake. Many girls like me do not know how men think and get lost by their manipulative acts. You have enlightened me.
Girl I'm a big sister,and I have to set a good example for my little sister,going through and experiencing the certain situations so I don't want my little sister to so I can give guidance to her,thank you for this message ,this is the message every young girl needs to hear.
@@miyiuz You guys need to chill. this video was completely this girls opinion although you may believe in what she says she is a human like everyone else. not to mention it literally sounds like she hates men. anyways my point is men don't think the way she described. most men cherish females everything she is saying is based off of her own experiences in real life.
She is out of touch with reality. She is being passed around by the top 1% and thinks there are many guys like that, statistically speaking most women are dating the top 5% of men too + wanting traditional benefits without being traditional themselves + bailed out of every bad decision in the west already lol. Her advice is horribleee
The main message demand the respect,state your boundaries, think with your mind not with your heart,use your integrity and be practical,never keep a relationship secret tell at least one person, keep a social circle to avoid attachment and keep your sense of self and integrity.Girl you put the whole themes of dating and independence in just one video,thank you for this,thank you.
@@HauptmannGallenstein to be honest I agree with most of what she said ,my only difference in her idea is to have a sense of realism and practicality,whatever expectations you have of your man you should also make sure you compliment and are at the same level of what you want from someone else, I personally don't have an issue paying for a bill or splitting it,just to show that I don't want anyone trying to use me or manipulate me because they paid for my stuff,but everything else on asserting your boundaries and creating a space where people respect you should be something both a male and female should do, inviting a negative person who doesn't respect your boundaries into your life is an issue.
she isnt a virgn who isnt half naked online with a cookbook. she is sabotaging you on purpose. She is out of touch with reality. She is being passed around by the top 1% and thinks there are many guys like that, statistically speaking most women are dating the top 5% of men too + wanting traditional benefits without being traditional themselves + bailed out of every bad decision in the west already lol. Her advice is horrible
@@RR-et6zp Of course this video is an opinion and her own personal advice,one does not need to agree to everything she said , choosing out certain factors that align with your life circumstances is important.This whole thing as well about 1% of men being rich and many women in America desiring that one percent man they seem believe is wildly available I can agree with you on.However,for me personally as a woman, I don't need to have a 1% rich person, I just need a person who has self respect and integrity for themselves and for me.I am a practical soul,this society runs on unrealistic idealism we all desire something powerful and that's because as human beings our egos can be dominant,but as my mom always has told me it's important to be thankful and have gratitude for what is around you. Edit:The woman was also honest about what she wanted and liked in a man which is power,not every woman has this same desire and she said that you don't have to feel the same.
I'm so proud of my teenage daughter for turning down a 19yr old guy when he asked her to be his girlfriend. He hasn't even taken her out on a date. He has a DUI and lost is driver's license. He goes on and on about how he is broke because he has over drafted by 500$. Yet he talks about he is going to buy steroids that cost 200$ . He even told her that he use to date girls that he spent a lot of money on but he likes that he feels he doesn't have to spend money on her. Well, he was so confused and surprised when my daughter would not accept him as a boyfriend. I'm proud my baby girl values herself more to not settle for less.
Thanks for sharing Elaine, nice to hear that you taught her well. The part of her story that caught my attention was how he tried to manipulate her self worth. Saying he spent a lot of money on other women, which is probably a lie. He did it to break her self confidence. He was the talker type. The BAD quiet ones are worse, they calculate and plan. Mom's and daughters are best friends for life!
That's just common sense. Always settle with someone on your level. I also did that with my wife. Looks and pussy is not enough, I value love, heart, education and dedication
@elaineflores4465: That manipulation 😅 “I like I don’t have to spend on you, like on other woman” - trying to condition her behaviour. One of the typical manipulations psychopats do. Totally calculated. Amazing your teenage daughter already had the maturity to see through this.
im seeing a lot more issues in this comment than his wages. he isnt a bad person cause he has no money, he is a bad person cause he makes awful choices .-.
Patriarchy is run by the death drive not life/love instinct. (Thanatos, from the Greek word for "death" is the drive of aggression, sadism, destruction, violence, and death.)
I'm the older sister but I don't have little sisters, like seriously all this advices and all this accurate comments that I did give good advices to the my exfriends they did treating me like for their lousy broke dumbasses boyfriends they didn't listen some of them end up pregnant marrying those beggars now they beat their asses every day and I couldn't care less cause they listen to me in first place like tf is wrong with women and girls all around the world like why the hell the settle for less what is wrong with them they should think with their head instead their heart like please they need to wake up for once for all this is so upsetting and outraging women should stand tall to those bastards specially for abusers you need to tell them who's Boss and who call the shots here I hope those women start cause all freacking life I've been surrounded by women who are like puppets they do whatever the hell that man told them to do I can beat my ass if those men told to those women to jump from a bridge they will not think twice even if those women got their ass beaten I'm not ashamed to say they are my family members cause the ones who should be ashamed are them not for staying with bum with a guy who's broke and treats like shit on top of they are ugly like this wise great woman said on her video men don't change if any woman thinks oh I can change him I have that effect on man hell no never think like that cause you will end up dead someday by those guys that's why I don't trust men and I'm not thinking about having a boyfriend or a husband I don't think about that at all I'm glad for having to witness all the the things that goes behind close doors with couples that made me to be more weary and cautious towards men also I don't fall for their bullshit and sweet talk easily
@@MichellesTravelVlogs lmao u don't plzzz my sister talks exactly like this girl ..well i dont hate it from this girl cauz she's not talking to me directly but if it were the case i would feel scolded at xD..so honey be grateful for ur sweet sister
What I got from this is basically don’t date men who don’t reciprocate the energy that you give, take advantage of you and your kindness and don’t pull their weight in the relationship. Also I think there’s a difference between a guy who is temporarily financially disadvantaged (unemployment in the short term or low salary) but still provides and cares for you opposed to broke guys, those with no ambition, drive and only wants to take and exploit but never gives. Finally not being afraid to leave if a guy doesn’t fulfil your criteria and needs because it’s better to be alone or with friends and family then settle for less than you want and deserve.
It's obvious that she isn't talking about just a poor guy. She's talking about broke men who'd have expectations for you but they don't want you to have any and they'll also call you a gold digger.. Ofc go for a dude who's temporarily poor but is building his life and doesn't slack down just because he's poor and doesn't take advantage of you.
If you are broke, dating should not be your priority. You can't take care of somebody else/provide for a woman if you can't take care of yourself. That doesn't mean you don't deserve love, or support, or that you're not valuable. However as she stated men are taught to associate their value and self esteem with material possessions, making broke guys really insecure and bitter. The guy I dated was broke, and I stayed with him, tried to help him, give him advices and I ended up begging him to do any type of romantic gestures that did not even require money....while he was spending his last economies on weed. He devalued me, tried to put me down, always trying to compete for dumb shit and make it seem like I was not good enough, that my interests were stupid. Instead of bettering himself he used that time to entertain other women because his gigantic but fragile ego needed external validation to fill the hole in his soul. This was a harsh lesson, but only when I got out of this relationship did I realize how unappreciated I was, and how much I settled. Now I'm on Tik Tok watching men spoiling their gf with love affection respect and gifts. Some of them don't even have that much money, but they'll make an origami roses bouquet for they gf if they can't afford real flowers. Some will write notes with little things they noticed about their gf just to be a better bf. It's FREE.99. Broke INSECURE guys will use their broke-ness as an excuse to do the bare minimum. Men have standards, and what insecure men fear the most is women beginning to have higher standards and not accepting the bare minimum from them anymore, cause then nobody would date them and they will rather have to date their homies rather than developing self awareness and respect for women. I'll cornrow the grass and mop the ocean before I ever date a broke insecure cheating in love with his homie ass mf again, and it's thanks to women with standards like Liz that I realized my value, thank you sis ❤️❤️❤️!
Oh my goodness i seriously, favorite video on the internet right now. I need this as like a subliminal playing in my mind every night as I go to sleep 👏👏👏
I'm laughing and crying at the same time Because you're so right! I've been in a situationship (not even a relationship) with a guy like this.. and never ever gonna accept something like this in my life! I learned from my mistake and now it's time to move on and to understand why did i accept the bare minimum!! And the disrespect
Thank you queen to all that time you used it for this video, that's change my mind because I have a lot of insecurities and sometimes I share this whith guy that I like and I get the point thay is totally wrong! Sharing insecurities for me sounds like that's cute or the guy is so safe to tell him about this sh*t but no, really no. That's big mistake. And about men like mens, yeah true af. Thank you liz, you are the life saver to all girls(fr), I hope that I could watch all of ur videos Luv you, u are blessing.
You are absolutely right about the fact that a women should never let a man disrespect or talk badly about her No matter how long you're in a relationship with him, there's no any right of him to use abusive words upon you.
she has to preserve her value for that/ She is out of touch with reality. She is being passed around by the top 1% and thinks there are many guys like that, statistically speaking most women are dating the top 5% of men too + wanting traditional benefits without being traditional themselves + bailed out of every bad decision in the west already lol. Her advice is horrible
Dude, I’m showing this video to my future daughter. Thank you for the message, especially towards the end when we do end up blaming ourselves. Without a doubt, some of us are naive. 😢 thank you. Yes I am a blessing. I gave him value.
Lord have mercy. You're gonna teach your daughter to be shallow and to pick rich guys over broke guys? What world do we live in? You'll never find the perfect man. This is not pretty woman. This is not a movie. This is real life. Humans are not perfect and they'll never be. Broke or rich, no one is perfect. Everyone has their own flaws. The title of this video is just so wrong in so many ways. But yeah a shocking triggering title will attract more viewers of course.
@@bigrom4183Liz is talking about the broke guys who do nothing to improve themselves, living off of their parents money and never lifting a finger to work . Would you want your daughter to date a guy like that?
you changed an ENTIREE generation to grow from their flaws and love who they are and treat themselves right when others knocked them down. Youre so well-spoken liz please never forget that ❤
i dated a broke guy for 4 months, it was my first relationship and i did all the things u said in this video 😭😭 i really thought i could change him and now im feeling embarrassed as hell
You are not traditional and need a king to deem you one. pull up the female delusion calculator. There are very few high value guys most women are dating a small percentage of men + your value is based on chaste and not being half naked online. Your level is who you can retain for a relationship. Most men are giving you sex attraction not relationship attractive.
I agree with this as a man who raised my income from 50k to 200k. A strong woman will make your life better, and you will work for her more and both of you will benefit in all things. Anyone who enables you to just sit there and not get it done and love you anyway or carry you, then you'll never have that feeling of success and you'll always resent her. Women, don't get caught up in that, don't lend money, and expect him to get it done - don't fall for the love trap - there is not just "the one" in a planet filled with options.
I don't understand your opinion... so only a man needs to "provide" and give money to a woman but never a woman to a man? why exactly, aren't we equal?
we dont live in the 1950, we are in 2023. men and women MUST provide equally in a relationship OR the one with more money MUST provide for the partner with less money, - a woman with more money must provide a better life for her partner, for the person that she is in a relationship with, and vice versa.
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"mens can smell your insecurities easily" that's soooooo true.
men*
his own mother cannot change him. I'm crying😭😭
Or they came from a horrible family, (and so did the girl (me ), but they won't take any resources for help except for being taken care of by the girl for free, and still are rude and act like that is not enough!!! It's so deceiving when they come from a bad family but only want help in the form of breaking all your bones for them instead of accepting helpful resources (links to doctors, nicotine/cannabis quitting groups, or actual professional help other need they expressed/complained about)
I’m so deadd😂😂😂
His mum made him like that anyway
and who are you. sit down 😄I love her
True
“I wanna meet this person in a dark alley” I screamed hahahahaha
😂😂😂
To be honest, if there's a rich guy, who's dating a girl he really likes and vice versa. He'd never hesitate to spend money on his girl and won't go around calling her a gold digger. Because that's a real man. I've only seen these broke ass men who can't even afford to buy a bottle of perfume for their girlfriends calling girls gold diggers😭😭
We actually cheat on little insecure girls like you :)
Avg riksha wale ki beti in India 🗿 ☕
@@neoWayne529 Sorry but my dad's profession isn't the same as your father's. did my comment trigger you kid?
Why are there so many Indian women in this type of videos.... what is it about Indian culture that makes girls such fake snakes
@@cienfuegos8155 beacuse we are expected to have great profession,be the best house wife,look after kids, clean household,cook for the whole family and even washing their husbands underwear at the same time. I don't think you want to be in this hell hole
"men like men" I have not heard anything more true.
Then why you want a man to like you ?
@@Lester_da_Molester did you hear me saying "i want men to like me"? Shut already up. I don't want assaulters to like me.
@@Lester_da_MolesterWe don't care about scrotes. We don't want them to lie to us telling us they like us, when they don't.
@Alkxxxz well said what lol he asked a question that has an answer - because as human beings women who are attracted to men have a need for companionship and sex. what is wrong with persuing it? women can find good men you're just upset women are seeing thru you.
@Alkxxxz Bruh you said well said to someone who asked then why women want a guy to like them. I just responded to that answering the why.
I gasped when she said men like men, that is the most truthful statement I've ever heard.
it’s absolutely true, just like it’s true that men hate women, they only like the exterior and what they can use.
Yes I noticed this in a room full of PhD students, an undergraduate male student will want to impress only my colleagues but not me. He will only ask me questions like what was your GPA during undergrad? How did you do in this particular hard class? Etc. As if I should be the one proving why I’m in the room next to my colleagues and not him. Boy bye. 😅 Don’t just watch out for broke losers, watch out for men who are emasculated easily.
GIRLLLL IKRRRR
Cap she's talking shit how tf does a man trust another man , absolutely bullshit but she's not wrong about masculinity
ikr this is so true I'm always gonna remember this
Liz: I would much rather date a woman
Her female viewers (including me): MY TIME HAS COME
You cannot even speak English properly. Pipe down!
FRRRRR
Maybe work on your grammar a bit
@@Spider-Fan2003 why?
lol she's like they're better to look at.
As a girl from an Indian household, this woman is literally a great inspiration
Same here
💯💯💯
bro bro bro lets just run away from this hellhole
@@cocacola37281 please 🙏
@@user-fu2xq3kw3m ?
My husband is from Mexico and grew up in a very poor family. He made enough to get by while we lived in Mexico but not a lot. He never once asked me for any money to help pay the bills. Everyday he gave me all his tips he made so I could buy food and essentials for my daughter and I. He said to me one day “I know I don’t have much, but everything I have is yours”. And that’s more than my rich, American ex had ever done for me.
That's really important to take into consideration.
My dad didn't even finish highschool at was working with cows but he managed to get a corporate job and earns more money than my mom who has a degree. I don't see the reason to date only rich when it's something that you can lose easily or earn with time. I like most of her advice but i think this one is at least oversimplified.
@@rubyiskira8939 i think the point is their mentality, not their financial state literally, though that's the title. You can hear mentioning "its ok to split the bill". I think her point is that what matters are the standards. Like the guys who will get mad at you for having basic minimum standards and call women "too complicated"(when literally every human is) while having nothing on them themselves, not even basic human respect. Why should a person settle for less when they deserve so much more? and if a person does not deserve all that, then that video isn't meant for them. This video is for everybody who does not know there own self worth and is too grateful for everything, nah be selfish dude, otherwise you'll just get hurt
That‘s beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
that is too cute for my heart-
periodt u have an incredible husband. he may not be rich but men who provide whos poor is obviously better than a man who limits his provisions whos rich. your husband is the best periodt hes a king. love hearing this you go queen
Men: “and what do you bring to the table?”
Liz: “You’re broke. There is no table.”
💀💀
Lmfaoooo and when she said sitting on the ground 😩🤣
Then she's broke too. Simple as that. They're both broke. I thought women and men are equal? Or do you only want to be considered equal when it suits you? You expect a man to provide but a man can't expect the same from a woman? Where is the equality in that?
@@imthebossyaknowimthebossst8868 haha fr. If they don't have a table that means they both can't afford a table which means they're both broke. If she doesn't wanna stay with a broke guy then he has the right to not stay with a broke girl. These women point fingers at men when their fingers don't even have rings on. Like you're broke too so why you rely on a man to fix your brokeness? Go find a job. We live in 2022 not 1950. Men used to provide not anymore
🤣🤣💯💯
@@imthebossyaknowimthebossst8868
her point is that the man can’t even afford a table yet expects the woman to provide everything. did u even watch the video cause she literally said that it’s fine for men to have expectations, but it’s not ok when they can’t do anything themselves and take advantage of women. she’s not defending women who are entitled and have unrealistic expectations lol
One thing I like about her,after seeing this whole video, is that by saying "stop dating broke guys" she didn't mean you should look down on men who are miserable being broke, nor she asked you to be a gold digger. I liked how she specified that we rather stay away from guys who are non driven and don't have a sight of success in their life because you'll end up giving mother treatment to them while they take over you cause of insecurity and damage you later.
No girl, she literally said DON’T DATE BROKE MEN. You’re twisting the narrative.
@@dcarrenob89she did 3:58
@@dcarrenob89bro she said that a broke guy is a guy with no ambition. Made it clear in the starting of the vdo....
I(32) am disciplined, hardworking but poor.
I have a brain injury and therefore don’t have the privilege to visit college or another institution to get higher education. Despite learning a lot and being interested I barely passed high school. I tried college but dropped out soon. Over the years I survived with small jobs like dishwashing or working as a waiter.
Whenever I encounter women in a romantic context, they ghost me after learning about my educational past. Some even called me lazy. Its hilarious. I am getting judged for something I never had control over.
Its sad. If you are poor - and already fighting with everyday struggle to survive - you are also not receiving any lovea and constanly judged negatively. Though those women never walked a day in your shoes.
@@dcarrenob89 broooo just watch the whole thing!
I deeply regret paying for everything in my past relationship. I really do. I felt like a joke and got taken advantage of. I will never do that ever again
if a man were to say something like this, women would've replied with "if you're broke then just say that". didn't mean to belittle all the bad experiences you've had by any means but i just wanted to point out the double standard.
@@thewolfofthedarkness1470 Kingsabriel888 never said he was broke. Read his post again. It's called, "Being taken advantage of". He learned a life lesson. EVERYONE has to EARN what they get. EVERYONE. If you can't reciprocate what you get, don't expect it. It's really that simple. People just make it complicated.
Only dated well-off guys for the past 2 years and let me tell you.. whole different experience. These men tend to be more educated or at least aware, conversation is better, less stress, you can relax in your feminine energy. They want to provide because they are kind and manly and only expect a “thank you ☺️” in return and quality time together.
Totally recommend
@@amrask2018 oh come on. She may NOT WANT any relationship. She may look for only hook up too
Having money is no guarantee that he's a good guy though, remember that. I remember dating a guy for a while who asked to split the bill on a pizza he brought me as a surprise.... Lol
Just cuz she says they're well-off doesn't mean they have to stay, there is such a thing as compatibily. Let the woman be, well-off or not they are still human with their own flaws 🤦♀️
@@amrask2018 some ppl date just to date and get experience to find out what they’re looking for in a partner there is no need to rush into marriage if you’re not ready it’s not slutting you’re just a fuckin weirdo
@@amrask2018maybe that was her way of saying she was living off sugar daddies
Men: we are the providers
Men whenever their women ask them to provide something: 😨😨😨
Lol😂
Where tf did u even get that lmao 😂actually nearly all man provide for their family and I can prove it statistically
@@saysamnang9851 not all. Most of them r providing. But they are brokeys😅😅
Men should stop dating broke women
@@z040880 if this kind of thoughts develops in every single person then we'll all die single and the only brokeys left the superior ppl match up
As a man I absolutely agree with you, the brutal truth.
the one thing that broke men have is the audacity.
Still less than ug-ly women
“Men don’t like women, men like other men”
It’s sad how often I genuinely question if straight men even like women. I, a gay guy, feel like I like women way more than some straight guys
Then that would make you straight?
Edit: Bi
Ew go fix urself
@@light-water and that would make straight guys gay whats ur point
i mean coz youre gay. Most straight guys steer clear of gay guys
Back then during my highschool years, I would remember boys saying the most disgusting thing about girls just to get one of their "bros" approval. Even male podcasts that's supposed to "uplift" other men, literally only talk about women women women in the most DISGUSTING matter. It's literally 80% about women, and 20% about men. There's so much hatred for women and so much need for these men to get other men's validation, I'm starting to think that "pick me girls" & "daddy issues" are just men projecting themselves. Because I as a lesbian, am attracted to women. NEVER EVER have I, or will I talk about women in the same way these guys who apparently are "straight" do.
"If a man is not willing to provide for me, then I'd much rather date a woman" so real of you lmaooo 🤣 same girl
q mulher perfeita meu deus kkkkkkkkkk
that's why human evolution is losing its pace, females are becoming more masculine, and too many guys accept it.
good luck
she isnt a virgn who isnt half naked online with a cookbook. she is sabotaging you on purpose. She is out of touch with reality. She is being passed around by the top 1% and thinks there are many guys like that, statistically speaking most women are dating the top 5% of men too + wanting traditional benefits without being traditional themselves + bailed out of every bad decision in the west already lol. Her advice is horrible
@@RR-et6zp i don't think it's bad advice at all, she's just telling us to raise our standards. if you're financially stable, then you deserve to have a financially stable partner, one that can provide for you. is this really that unrealistic?? I'll tell you this: my mom is the one providing for the family, my dad has been unemployed for a while and it's such a struggle for her. My dad's awesome, but personally I wouldn't like to go through this in my marriage. Liz's advice is great for the young girls who don't wanna be in the same situation, by looking for a man that can help financially
Literally a slap in my face. Thank u so much Liz! I love you🥹
I watch this video when I'm feeling off or down and it instantly makes me feel better. Liz is a gem
Becasue ur broke
This is a classic. This and her other video about clown shoes 😂 Legend.
Moral of the story :
Stop dating men with a broke mentality. The ones who will have high standards for you, but wants you to have low standards for them. The ones who will emotionally manipulate you into thinking women won't expect much from the man they love. If men can want a pretty girl without taboo, why is women wanting a well off guy taboo? Who made it taboo? Think about it. Ofc it's the men who want you to expect less. The standards for men in this world are already below the earth crust, and it's moving even more lower.
One word, "Therapy"
"Below the Earth's Crust"
Funny, the men you seek exist, but you are here wasting time instead of getting in line! Time will have the last laugh when your standards start to drop with each passing year, and you'll wish someone would put the time into manipulating you.
@@Goblin_Hands broke guy behaviour
I actually think the standards are way to high for men to be rich handsome have a nice body to communicate well and women just need to be pretty.
You're gonna end up alone with cats sweetie
5:30 she's so right. i just saw a video of a woman driving an expensive car and the comment section was full of broke guys insulting her saying its her daddy/brother/husband/son's car or on rental. broke guys go into a complete meltdown when they see a woman successful
they get hemotional real quick
Fr
This is so true,once I was driving through a well off neighborhood and the broke guy I was with saw a young mom picking her child up in the driveway and he was like ….” She must be a complete slut to live here and be so well off”. They’re completely jealous and pathetic in my opinion.
@@akezi.a1026 trust me and they don't even see how sexist misogynist and utterly mean they are. But at the end of the day those women are earning more and living a better life than them so who's winning 🤭😻
She didn’t date broke guys other wise how she got that car🤨
“Whole world is against him” made me laugh so hard
Omg cannot emphasise enough how guys with this mentality have no ambition and dreams 😭😭😭😭
It's so funny to guys how they have to do everything, and women just sit and wait at the finish line and pick the best guys. And we live in a 'patriarchy' lol, women are a joke
@@GTA_6_Clips Maaan, if women could only pick the best guys, most of yall wouldn't even be born 🤣🤣 And give me a break, women have existed as simply a commodity for men to marry for centuries - their whole value was tied to the spouse. Who created this society and is now complaining about the aftermath? Men 🤡🤣🤣
@@milktea_gang So right, he's a troll.
It's funny because I've never met a woman with genuine ambition or dreams, and I'm a millionaire. Instead a woman tries to get a guy with ambition. Lol women are just lazy and pathetic.
@@sapphire_blue3657 if it was a woman, she would receive sympathy and empathy. But if it's a man, he receives abuse. Most women are disgusting self-absorbed creatures.
“The fact that he dated you made his value go up, nobody would even look at him” so true😂👏👏
Can we all agree that Liz' irony and sarcasm are top tier today, I was laughing so hard at her comments. Like seriously, what do you bring to the GROUND? I can't 😭🤌🏻 she's the best
I died when she said if she was gonna support someone she'd rather support a woman cause they're more beautiful to look at. LOL. She said it with such conviction I couldnt stop laughing.
That and the brokey comment for me 😭I’m using that line moving forward
@@cloel5235 😂😂😂😂😭
@@coyoter9691 same 😂😂😂
@@cloel5235 and her straight face I just lost it 😂😂😂
She's talking with so much passion, I can tell that this message came from the heart.
@@salut9658your comment makes no sense .. just say your broke and this video applies to you and get out
@@salut9658 you’ve been on multiple of her videos already … thats the sad part .. no need to defend broke people , so why do you do it
@@salut9658 if you weren’t broke why defend them ? Seems like we struck a nerve LMAO
a passion for money XD
@@intrusiveminecraft Yes, and what's wrong with that? Broke men created the word "gold digger" to shame women for wanting to live comfortably without having to worry about money.
When I dated broke men men ridiculed me for having no standards. Now that I only date men with money men label me a golddigger. No matter what men will criticize you so don’t listen to them. 💅
Bro just because of one date you decided to be a gold digger damn that's actually sad when you think about it 😢 but respect to the man for actually staying with your spoiled ass
Damn yes women are criticised for whatever they do
Get back in the kitchen ( joke btw not really)
@@truthh8597you preach liz for criticising any men that got preferences for women yet you're getting mad at men who hates on girls that gold dig make that make sense.
@@Greenhunter365in todays times its a compliment to be called goldigger than a pandhandler even a goldigger will get more respect than q panhandler who gets seen as shit in society.
GIRL! I’ve been binging your videos the last few days and this one has me CACKLING!! I’m losing it at your truths and impersonations of these broke men 🤣🤣 dying because it’s SO RELATABLE 🤣
"what do you bring to the table?"
honey there's no table for us to sit at, you've no money to buy the table, we're sitting on the ground. so, rather ask what do you bring to the ground? 😂😭😭
I LITERALLY CANNOT STOP LAUGHING AT THIS, LIZ ILYSM
😂😂😂😂
@IceCold_Gold lazy broke men are unattractive
@IceCold_Gold i smell broke in your comment 🥱
🤣🤣🤣👋🏼
@@Lila17_ your broke too 😂
This is true...my friend is a high income earner running her own business, the guy she married constantly belittled her and talk down to her when he didn't bring anything to the table (he was unemployed). He wasn't a good husband, he was a terrible father...and in the end he cheated on her and physically abused her, then had the audacity to sue for half of the business he didn't help run. Don't settle for broke and lazy men ladies!!!
Those men are the minority. Most of the times its the female that drag the man down, in the west ofcourse. In the east its more traditional and normal.
Wow, what a man. They are so rare these days.
@@glodusmuspell9069 what's rare is the rate of you getting any women
@@kittomicals hahaha I love you
Woah.. A man for once did the same to a woman what women are doing from a decade.. Karma maybe..
Truth hurts. I’m literally crying and smiling at the same time. Very powerful message. Thank you❤. I needed to hear this
Because ur broke
I’ve dated broke men in the past and didn’t dump them because I would feel bad for them, now that I’m older and got to know men better, I realized it was a mistake because the same broke guys will dump you with no remorse.
And they should dump you
Exactly, that's just so true
straight up facts
Psychologically, broke men always being dumped, not by women, but also by society. So, when they see powerful women, they actually don't want them, but they just want these women to feel rejected like they do, because powerfull women never knows what is it like to never have a choice and never have opportunities like those broke guys because they know, broke guys can never be the same level as those powerful women.
I love this woman speaking straight facts, straight savage. she has men all over crying 😂
The world needs strong women and strong men who back them, Steven you part the men from the boys.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Or just many men won't give a shit about her
@@lifePlusJoey No one cares get off the video then
@@lifePlusJoey So why you here?
My mom married a broke guy and I have seen it all throughout my childhood and I still do. I promised to myself to never date a bum and I won't.
🤣😂😅Imagain your dad seeing this. Sucks though, would be nice if money were more attainable.
To many bums out here never!!
My dad married a broke woman :/
Same here
Same. Nothing but misery and struggle all in the name of "LoVe."
when she said, “because women always let these things slide.” i felt that :’)
You know what's even worse is bringing up an issue and still no changed behavior. How are you broke and can't keep you word either. Gross. And he was wack in bed
“There are guys that have 100k in their pocket and will give you 10k and there are guys that have 100$ and will give you 100$” - something I always think about
Liz is so unintentionally funny. I love her!
II think i's on purpose. Very very funny woman.
it's hilarious
she is sabotaging you on purpose. She is out of touch with reality. She is being passed around by the top 1% and thinks there are many guys like that, statistically speaking most women are dating the top 5% of men too + wanting traditional benefits without being traditional themselves + bailed out of every bad decision in the west already lol. Her advice is horrible
When you’re single and people act like you’re crazy cause you’re not chasing a relationship it’s when you know you’re surrounded but small minded people but you’re also in a good path on your own. Ladies, having high standards is a MUST!!!!!!!
Thank you for another amazing video, Liz!
Having high standards doesn't mean that you only bring to the table yourself and your presence and your beauty
A man has duties and for sure he must do it
And women are the same
They got their own duties that they should do
The girl who says I only bring my presence etc
Is like the guy who wants to split the pill with his date
@@mohammedkhattab4586 their own duties like what being a nanny? you want someone to cook or clean for you then go marry your mom
@@mohammedkhattab4586 i agree on that, it's like being a man, setting high standards and sitting in bed doing nothing and splitting the bill with women. Ladies remember that to live up to high standards you have to for example take care of your beauty, sexual purity, develop a nurturing personality and become a caring person.
Don't be sexist. Having high standards is a must for everyone
@@mohammedkhattab4586 exactly we both have duties
THIS IS SOO TRUE! ive never ever been in relationship and i didnt like when my friends or sisters let their men to treat them so badly, this video reminded me that mindset, LIZ I LOVE U THANK U SM 💓
I really needed this. I just broke up with someone like this, and I was thinking that I did wrong because he was loyal and loving but he also becomes very egoistic when he gets angry or when I refuse something to do. Thank you so much Liz from the bottom of my heart!💗
He is shity , he just acts nice to get what he wants , notice the behaviour when he don't get what he wants , not nice huh?
So glad you got out of that relationship!! I experienced the same way... now I'm constantly working on myself, becoming healthier and more disciplined, building my career and becoming smarter. I just realized how much I missed myself
Congrats girl 🥰😘💋🍸
Good for you girl. Leave. I just dumped a clown too. Waste of my time, money, vagina, I can't do it anymore. Never kept his word. No flowers, just smoked weed all day and took naps. Would come over empty handed looking at me to cook and he didn't even pay for the groceries. And he was bad in bed. It was time for him to go
@@naru8898love this for you
I think if a guy calls you a 'bitch' or 'hoe', don't even try to argue. Just leave the relationship because he has already shown disrespect and if you forgive, he will think he can do that again and you will forgive him. Which again only means that he doesn't respect you at all.
For this I always give a second chance point blank say never say that again and if they repeat it I’m out because some men believe that it is an okay thing to say as it’s similar to “guy humour” but if you correct him and he disrespects your boundary then 100% ditch him
exactly!!!!
@@tea.-. No. He gets ONE CHANCE to disrespect you. Period. He thought he could get away the 1st time so of course he's going to do it again. Where's your self respect?
@@yellaninpoppin9919 Ok well if that's the case, a woman should only get one chance to disrespect men as well, right? It's only fair
@@applesaretasty2.099yeah these kind of females dont understand, i hope they go through life and treat everyone like that. Their enitre lives are going to be so miserable 😂
"Stop applauding the tiny, small, bare minimum things he does!"-thank you for telling us that! ❤
as long as you are prepared to date a guy who doesn't compliment you. That's called equality.
wtf toxic femininity bs is this
@@poopyboi7188 I am just quoting what the TH-camr said, and btw how is it toxic?
@@Katrica670 if you cant even comprehend how toxic this is, you have to grow up
@@Katrica670 Males will get offended at everything and anything.
The amount of time I come back to this video is crazy.... I truly needed this today 😭❤️✨
Me and my ex bf broke up 3 months ago and everytime i watched this video i literally feel disgusted from the fact that i settled myself to that kind of guy 🤮
Giiiirl it's ok boo. I just dumped a lame yesterday. He had to go. I was tired. 9 months too long
"bcz men don't like women, men like men" 😭😭😭
you see, they’re all gay
I think i do like men after seeing this video 💀💀💀
@@saltyaphid3195proving our point 💀💀
@@originaleslie i mean after seeing how all of u are full or crap and delusion i kinda get why he like men
@@zerof1593 y'all hate facts huh lol
✨ Timestamps ✨
1:47 - Start having higher expectations
3:51 - Don't date broke guys
6:07 - Don't go trough lengths to defend him
6:51 - Stop applauding the bare minimum
7:47 - Accept that you can't change him
8:28 - Do not let them talk or treat you disrespectfully
10:16 - Keep your options open
11:47 - Who are you expecting loyalty from?
12:37 - Think with your head first
13:27 - Never tell a man you have no one besides him
14:32 - Always keep a social life
Thank you
As a man should do as well, he should not date a broke woman either. Actually nobody should date broke people in general. Higher standards people!
what the hell?
@@Satire_Filmz this
@@Satire_Filmz no the man is supposed to provide
All her advices are so on point. I even follow some of these before I even met liz through this channel. I never blindly choose a guy if he can’t be a good father, husband or whatever.
I love you Liz! You are helping me so much now. You’re like my therapist.
I will always stand behind this. No broke guys EVER. It's not even about being a billionaire, it's about being generous to your girlfriend which women naturally already are. I dates a 40 year old French man when I was 24/25 and I ALWAYS paid for dinners, and gave him gifts. I stayed because I was desperate to feel "wanted" by a man but ladies I am telling you - if he starts making stuff up like "my card is locked" or doesn't offer to pay for things first and you are noticing this in the first few dates - leave. There is always going to be someone out there who matches your generous nature. Leave the broke men for the women who want Walmart wedding rings.
Just as a side note as I know for sure there will be angry and offended men in the replies: nobody is forcing you to change. You can stay as you are and you will attract your equivalent depending on what energy you’re putting out. If you don’t like being generous and putting in the effort - ok cool! That’s what you will get in return. It’s as simple as that. But don’t be surprised when women with standards who are looking for more reject you. You’re not what they want so simply move on.
Also "men like men" BOOM! The old french man broke up with me because he went to visit his friends back home and they basically did not like me. But of course, this break up was a blessing from God lol 🙌🙏
it goes both ways. Girls are usually the ones taking from men so idk how tf u saying women are naturally generous
@@fernfernisfernie old man? Please dont even do that to yourself again 😔. Yuck
@@Him738 How did what she say hurt you? Are you the broke man she speaks of? Women are naturally generous, thats all ive seen all my life with my mom, while men if given the chance will take take take without even giving back in anyway possible, far more selfish than women.
@@tnago916 men are not more selfish than women generally speaking. And i'm in 10th grade so i mean yeah im broke but i aint an adult
I've never even dated before, but I still needed to hear this. I cant tell you how much this conversation was needed So thank you!! There's so many women out there supporting and defending men when they won't even defend you from a mosquito
dont take advices from this girl please,world will become disaster for any men
@@skullet1381 it should, girl shouldn't settle for a chapri ladka
There are also lots of good men who catch hell because of ridiculous generalizations and prejudgments.
@@commonbeing9359 CHAPRI LADKHA HELP 💀💀
also u go kween slay
Fr and I never dated I want too but scared all and not I don't think i'm ready
whever i have mental breakdown while in abroad, you are the first one i searched and listened to. you gave me so much energy to ignore the voices around me. BIG THANKS to you, onnie^^
Girl ! You're so on point when u said don't tell 'em i don't have friends no family that's dangerous fr ..i wish I'd knew this queen earlier
My self respect re-entering my body whenever liz uploades 🧘🏻♀️
REALLY THO ❤😂
liz thank you so much for this . i just came across your video and channel and man i wish i had you when i was in high school and college! my college ex was a broke white trash guy from Jersey extremely verbally abusive calling me "bitchy" or a "bitch" and when i would speak up and say DONT TALK TO ME THAT WAY IM YOUR GIRLFRIEND THAT IS DISGUSTING he would go "ohhh like you have it so hard!" and mock me and he would say things like "im a good boyfriend i mean yeah i flirt with other girls and meet up with them behind your back but at least i dont hit you" like WtF?! and youre so right! he would be so disrepectful to me and then the next day text me like nothing happened or show up with flowers. it makes me sick thinking about it. i was just so young and didnt understand how to deal with it.he would always call me "crazy jealous insecure" bc i told him i found out he met up with girls behind my back that he claimed were just "friends" but i found out they had made out in the past. im so glad for this video bc it makes me realize i was NOT crazy and i deserved better! he also would ask me to pay or "forget" his wallet and i realize he would do this stuff bc he thought i had more money than him. he would always complain about not having money or a job. even when he did get a paid internship he complained about money and asked me to pay when i didnt even have a job. he also would bring up some random family trauma to make me feel bad for him or start crying so i wont leave him or so i would pay. so big lesson learned- never date a broke guy, theyre literally broke mentally and will try to bring you down!
"you should not be worrying about gold diggers you should be worried of being broke"😂
"You should not worry about golddiggers, you should worry about being broke" -Liz
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The way I laughed 😂😂
I love it when Liz changes her voice and mimics sarcastically like 7:52 HILARIOUS 🤣
Saaaame hahaha
I thought the same thing🤣
that voice is the best hahaha
I lended money to a broke guy once, guess what, he never paid me back. 🙄 won't do that again!
Listen they never do. Ever.
I don’t understand why people are upset over this video? There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a partner who makes (good) money. Not everyone wants to just settle for anything, there are people who want a luxurious life, and that’s totally okay.
and what did you do to earn or deserve this luxurious life? being cute? I even doubt that. you'll complain and argue about him telling you what you should do. 3 Things is all what it takes for a woman to get any man ever existed:
-just be: feminine, beautiful, as low body count as possible (I would say virgin but I don't want to hurt feelings).TradWife is the top-tier of women, highest value, like the high value men you talk about. Traditional stereotypical gender roles rooted in our nature. the media(against Men) trying to make it harder for men by telling you it's bad to be Trad but what they did is the main reason of all this breakups, divorces and depression.
edit: meanwhile the man has to work his entire life and risked alot to get a luxurious life while you complaining that you deserve it by sitting here and telling him you're equal to him without even improving yourself. and if you got in any problem or divorced, the court(against Men, Too) will favour you. their logic: Equity
Ikr? These guys manipulate girls into thinking they are being a "gold digger" if they want a man to provide for them. And now woman are like "I'm an independent b!tch and i wanna spoil my man but i don't want my man to spoil me cause I'm an independent woman and not a gold digger"
Struggle love... benefits men.
A guy should make a video about how not to date broke girls and we gonna hear a lot of people whining about how sexist he is
Except men get criticized for wanting a women that's younger then them so it's only fair if it happens the other way around
"there's no gold for us to dig." That's my fav line 🤣🤣
My god! I love her so much! She made me realise what all mistakes I did these years dating broke and insecure guys who disrespected me and I blamed myself for everything. Now I know, what to do.
Thank you so so so so much Liz
❤❤❤❤❤
This vdo changed my dating life for real I saw this vdo when i started dating my boyfriend and since day one i told him what i will and will not tolerate and like .
I told him about my family and i made him feel like I wanted him and not needed him and I will leave immediately if he made me feel bad or unwanted or disrespected me .
Thank you liz
You are the older sister every girl deserves ❤️✨
"i would rather date a women because honestly they are more beautiful to look at" FELT SIS PLS FELT TO THE NEXT LEVEL!!!!
I FEEL YOU
That's because women lag themselves in makeup, whereas men don't wear any. If men wore makeup, they would be equally as attractive
@darkangel9559that’s different than makeup bruh like beard is natural
@darkangel9559and women do their hair too
@@pharaohhermenthotip1553 nah bro men usually do not have even basic hygiene habits and from my perspective, though i like men, the female body is much prettier naturally.
Liz: “If a man is not willing to provide for me, I would much rather date a woman.”
QUEEN 😂❤
I’m the age of feminist equality men shouldn’t have to provide . Women make money . I doubt most women here would be willing to live up to the traditional womens role so why make men do it ? Serious contradiction
@@richardjohnson6140 It’s about energy, providing is masculine so when a woman has to provide she steps into her masculine energy and can’t let herself go into her feminine. Men that are in their natural masculine energy have the inner motivation/inclination to provide, they want to do it, it’s not something they are force to do. Any woman can provide for herself and for her loved ones, NO PROBLEM, but a woman that is in her feminine (feminine is about receptivity and multiplies the energy received by the masculine) that’s why traditionally masculine is about providing. There’s nothing wrong about a man that’s mostly feminine, he is most likely going to attract a woman in her masculine. It’s about balance, there has to be contrasting energy Ying & Yang. Gender equality means we have the same rights we are both worth the same, it has nothing to do with the role in the relationship. If you don’t want to provide don’t worry, you’re in your feminine, it’s okay you’re most likely going to attract women in their masculine. As for women like Liz & I that enjoy being in our feminine we look for masculine man and that’s what we get, they’re happy to provide, they enjoy being in their masculine and it doesn’t mean we can’t provide for ourselves and it definitely not only has to do with money.
holy moly all this nonsense. I'll stay single and I'll be better off. Who needs a woman nowadays in an era of microwaves and delivery meals? No relationships for me. Hit it and leave, that's my motto!
This channel has turned into a fem ceI circlejerk
Tell me you're a 304 without telling me
"what do you bring to the ground" IM CRYING
Love you LIZ!!
Going through a breakup, you are really helping me :)
As a single mama doing it alone it felt good to hear this. Woman are expected to do everything and it’s exhausting it’s nice to have these feelings validated ❤
Do everything in what sense no man gonna look after your ant his
women are expected to do everything?
@@alessandro_lon yeah im very confused with that lol
@@alessandro_lon Far from it…it’s quite the opposite
Who expected what for women? Y'all are always crying on the internet while taking the kids from their fathers. Men did evrething around you while you did nothing . Producing money as a women means contribution to the family. A man always works and cries in the bathroom
Dated a broke guy who couldn’t afford to pay for McDonald’s, got called a gold digger by all of his friends, and he ended up cheating on me. It’s so embarrassing that I let that happen, but never again. My standards are actual standards now 😫
I'm dying 🤣🤣🤣 McDonald's??!!!
Nah what how does that even happen 😭 😭 😭 😭
My ex called me a gold digger because i told him I want the slightly expensive McDonald's meal. He can go, what an ugly brokey too 💀
Oh yea I must added that mine cheated too, a brokey went back to his ex whom he claimed to be toxic and cheated on him too. The self disrespect i had to myself damn it 😭😂
@@afrodit8582 mine asked the girl he was cheating on me with to be his girlfriend the day after he left me (over text ofc) and she said no then he came crying and begging for me to forgive him because he had no one else to talk to. I love men ❤️ nah but fr those men suck so much but I don’t regret it bc I learned a lot now and won’t settle or ignore red flags
I love this and how you add humour to it. Love the energy !xxx
Thanks Queen. You have helped me alot. Your videos are literally a confidence boost for me and the heart break I was going through and crying over since yesterday IS OVER. I AM SO GRATEFUL TO YOU. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH QUEEN
"you have no money to buy a table" 💀💀 🎯
LMAOO
I never laughed this hard hahahahaha 😭
😂😂😂😂😂
BYEEEEEEEEE
Shaming broke men is so wrong
This woman is A BLESSING. She inspired me to have my TH-cam channel about feminine energy , AND I GOT 25k VIEWS. All thanks to her! I just stopped fearing and started to go forward
keep going
@@elisethy4985 thank you❤️❤️❤️
Subscribing rn. We support women who support women
@@uwaaeouiui oh my god! Thank you !!!🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️ I value it so much !
@@legallybrunettemee awe you deserve it queen !! ❤️❤️
I’m glad that God blessed you with clarity, confidence, strength, and a strong understanding so you can bless everyone in your presence. Thank you for making this video and thank you for all the videos that you do make. I especially love this one
Love this!!! Thank you so much for making these videos Liz! ❤
Moral of the story: be selfish and put yourself first always.
Men are never ashamed to ask you for sex, labor and money. They love other men and being around men.
Always put yourself first because the trauma and empty purse is not worth it.
They are the original gold diggers.
Yup they don’t like when women have standards like the one in your comment.
@IceCold_Gold Yes we all the main characters so stop it
MEN love MEN. The last guy I dated spent about 3 nights a week drinking and doing dr746 with his boss which is gay. I found it very suspicious and call it quits. Besides, he was 50, ugly and fat. I can't believe I felt for his charm. 😆
@@blue-sq7tj lmao yea of course the men are the selfish ones and the women are the selfless ones. isn't it convenient how everything's the men's fault and even when they admit it's the women's fault, it had something to doo with the men? women has more privileges than men but still complain about women having less privileges than men ain't that crazy?
@IceCold_Gold how did they use the word gay as an insult? because last time i looked, they said the boss is gay. idk how that’s insulting when they’re literally gay. like they were messing around with her boyfriend. why are you putting words in other people’s mouths? hypocrite lmao
Yass! honey yassss!
We women are BLESSINGS!
No more internalizing blame for sub par men or mis treatment from men, others, or OURSELVES!!!!!
It's time for ALL of us women collectively to readjust our CROWNS!!!!
I needed this today! Thanks Liz!
so, why are you a blessing?
what do you bring to the table except nothing? yall women are not blessings, just some of yall, and the ones who are, we treat them as best as possible
Answer the question, why are you a blessing????
what makes you a blessing
@@sum6603 fighting invisible enemies 💀. Women can’t have anything, any channel that is dedicated or atleast has videos targeted for women is followed along by angry incels who click on these channels just to argue. Go outside, take a walk, do something good with your life.
Thanks Liz. I was desperate girl since I had broken up. And everyday I am trying to listen your videos, it works with my thinking more than any books related to this. Thousand love to you for making these videos for girls’ sake. Many girls like me do not know how men think and get lost by their manipulative acts. You have enlightened me.
Men like men hits me so hard 😭 this is one of the best videos of liz so far ❤❤❤
Girl I'm a big sister,and I have to set a good example for my little sister,going through and experiencing the certain situations so I don't want my little sister to so I can give guidance to her,thank you for this message ,this is the message every young girl needs to hear.
so true we big sisters HAVE to be good examples for our younger sisters and teach them how be WOMEN
@@miyiuz You guys need to chill. this video was completely this girls opinion although you may believe in what she says she is a human like everyone else. not to mention it literally sounds like she hates men. anyways my point is men don't think the way she described. most men cherish females everything she is saying is based off of her own experiences in real life.
She is out of touch with reality. She is being passed around by the top 1% and thinks there are many guys like that, statistically speaking most women are dating the top 5% of men too + wanting traditional benefits without being traditional themselves + bailed out of every bad decision in the west already lol. Her advice is horribleee
@kyvrsii same but this girl is like an older sister
The main message demand the respect,state your boundaries, think with your mind not with your heart,use your integrity and be practical,never keep a relationship secret tell at least one person, keep a social circle to avoid attachment and keep your sense of self and integrity.Girl you put the whole themes of dating and independence in just one video,thank you for this,thank you.
Basically what she is saying is : be entitled just because you have a Vag and then expect the man to have to "earn" his worth. Just ridiculous
@@HauptmannGallenstein to be honest I agree with most of what she said ,my only difference in her idea is to have a sense of realism and practicality,whatever expectations you have of your man you should also make sure you compliment and are at the same level of what you want from someone else, I personally don't have an issue paying for a bill or splitting it,just to show that I don't want anyone trying to use me or manipulate me because they paid for my stuff,but everything else on asserting your boundaries and creating a space where people respect you should be something both a male and female should do, inviting a negative person who doesn't respect your boundaries into your life is an issue.
she isnt a virgn who isnt half naked online with a cookbook. she is sabotaging you on purpose. She is out of touch with reality. She is being passed around by the top 1% and thinks there are many guys like that, statistically speaking most women are dating the top 5% of men too + wanting traditional benefits without being traditional themselves + bailed out of every bad decision in the west already lol. Her advice is horrible
@@RR-et6zp Of course this video is an opinion and her own personal advice,one does not need to agree to everything she said , choosing out certain factors that align with your life circumstances is important.This whole thing as well about 1% of men being rich and many women in America desiring that one percent man they seem believe is wildly available I can agree with you on.However,for me personally as a woman, I don't need to have a 1% rich person, I just need a person who has self respect and integrity for themselves and for me.I am a practical soul,this society runs on unrealistic idealism we all desire something powerful and that's because as human beings our egos can be dominant,but as my mom always has told me it's important to be thankful and have gratitude for what is around you.
Edit:The woman was also honest about what she wanted and liked in a man which is power,not every woman has this same desire and she said that you don't have to feel the same.
This video made my day lmao love the humor! More power to you, Liz
I'm so proud of my teenage daughter for turning down a 19yr old guy when he asked her to be his girlfriend. He hasn't even taken her out on a date. He has a DUI and lost is driver's license. He goes on and on about how he is broke because he has over drafted by 500$. Yet he talks about he is going to buy steroids that cost 200$ . He even told her that he use to date girls that he spent a lot of money on but he likes that he feels he doesn't have to spend money on her. Well, he was so confused and surprised when my daughter would not accept him as a boyfriend. I'm proud my baby girl values herself more to not settle for less.
Thanks for sharing Elaine, nice to hear that you taught her well. The part of her story that caught my attention was how he tried to manipulate her self worth. Saying he spent a lot of money on other women, which is probably a lie.
He did it to break her self confidence. He was the talker type.
The BAD quiet ones are worse, they calculate and plan. Mom's and daughters are best friends for life!
That's just common sense. Always settle with someone on your level.
I also did that with my wife.
Looks and pussy is not enough, I value love, heart, education and dedication
@elaineflores4465: That manipulation 😅 “I like I don’t have to spend on you, like on other woman” - trying to condition her behaviour. One of the typical manipulations psychopats do. Totally calculated. Amazing your teenage daughter already had the maturity to see through this.
A product of the modern dating scene, he'll find someone else that will take his burden and ruin them.
im seeing a lot more issues in this comment than his wages. he isnt a bad person cause he has no money, he is a bad person cause he makes awful choices .-.
I wish I had an older sister like her in my life. 😂 She is so accurate. Absolutely love her!!!
Ikrrrr lol my sister is like her but sugar coats it so much like no please give me the harshest truth
Patriarchy is run by the death drive not life/love instinct. (Thanatos, from the Greek word for "death" is the drive of aggression, sadism, destruction, violence, and death.)
I'm the older sister but I don't have little sisters, like seriously all this advices and all this accurate comments that I did give good advices to the my exfriends they did treating me like for their lousy broke dumbasses boyfriends they didn't listen some of them end up pregnant marrying those beggars now they beat their asses every day and I couldn't care less cause they listen to me in first place like tf is wrong with women and girls all around the world like why the hell the settle for less what is wrong with them they should think with their head instead their heart like please they need to wake up for once for all this is so upsetting and outraging women should stand tall to those bastards specially for abusers you need to tell them who's Boss and who call the shots here I hope those women start cause all freacking life I've been surrounded by women who are like puppets they do whatever the hell that man told them to do I can beat my ass if those men told to those women to jump from a bridge they will not think twice even if those women got their ass beaten I'm not ashamed to say they are my family members cause the ones who should be ashamed are them not for staying with bum with a guy who's broke and treats like shit on top of they are ugly like this wise great woman said on her video men don't change if any woman thinks oh I can change him I have that effect on man hell no never think like that cause you will end up dead someday by those guys that's why I don't trust men and I'm not thinking about having a boyfriend or a husband I don't think about that at all I'm glad for having to witness all the the things that goes behind close doors with couples that made me to be more weary and cautious towards men also I don't fall for their bullshit and sweet talk easily
how is she accurate? she's completely wrong
@@MichellesTravelVlogs lmao u don't plzzz my sister talks exactly like this girl ..well i dont hate it from this girl cauz she's not talking to me directly but if it were the case i would feel scolded at xD..so honey be grateful for ur sweet sister
I watch this video everytime I think of doing something dumb.
So true im watching it for the 15th time or so
I laughed probably the loudest in 2 weeks “since the breakup ” 😂😂😂
Idk about you but when i watched this i am also glad that my break up happened :D
What I got from this is basically don’t date men who don’t reciprocate the energy that you give, take advantage of you and your kindness and don’t pull their weight in the relationship.
Also I think there’s a difference between a guy who is temporarily financially disadvantaged (unemployment in the short term or low salary) but still provides and cares for you opposed to broke guys, those with no ambition, drive and only wants to take and exploit but never gives.
Finally not being afraid to leave if a guy doesn’t fulfil your criteria and needs because it’s better to be alone or with friends and family then settle for less than you want and deserve.
Ur one of the few mature people on this comment section
@blackking3473 I'm a man, you silly goose.
It's obvious that she isn't talking about just a poor guy. She's talking about broke men who'd have expectations for you but they don't want you to have any and they'll also call you a gold digger..
Ofc go for a dude who's temporarily poor but is building his life and doesn't slack down just because he's poor and doesn't take advantage of you.
No money -> no girl
@ciello★ Jup, its the bare minimum.
If you are broke, dating should not be your priority.
You can't take care of somebody else/provide for a woman if you can't take care of yourself.
That doesn't mean you don't deserve love, or support, or that you're not valuable.
However as she stated men are taught to associate their value and self esteem with material possessions, making broke guys really insecure and bitter.
The guy I dated was broke, and I stayed with him, tried to help him, give him advices and I ended up begging him to do any type of romantic gestures that did not even require money....while he was spending his last economies on weed.
He devalued me, tried to put me down, always trying to compete for dumb shit and make it seem like I was not good enough, that my interests were stupid. Instead of bettering himself he used that time to entertain other women because his gigantic but fragile ego needed external validation to fill the hole in his soul.
This was a harsh lesson, but only when I got out of this relationship did I realize how unappreciated I was, and how much I settled.
Now I'm on Tik Tok watching men spoiling their gf with love affection respect and gifts. Some of them don't even have that much money, but they'll make an origami roses bouquet for they gf if they can't afford real flowers. Some will write notes with little things they noticed about their gf just to be a better bf. It's FREE.99.
Broke INSECURE guys will use their broke-ness as an excuse to do the bare minimum.
Men have standards, and what insecure men fear the most is women beginning to have higher standards and not accepting the bare minimum from them anymore, cause then nobody would date them and they will rather have to date their homies rather than developing self awareness and respect for women.
I'll cornrow the grass and mop the ocean before I ever date a broke insecure cheating in love with his homie ass mf again, and it's thanks to women with standards like Liz that I realized my value, thank you sis ❤️❤️❤️!
Oh my goodness i seriously, favorite video on the internet right now. I need this as like a subliminal playing in my mind every night as I go to sleep 👏👏👏
I'm laughing and crying at the same time
Because you're so right!
I've been in a situationship (not even a relationship) with a guy like this.. and never ever gonna accept something like this in my life! I learned from my mistake and now it's time to move on and to understand why did i accept the bare minimum!! And the disrespect
"Him dating you is a blessing. So you better start to act like a blessing"
dayum thanks queen I'll definitely put this on my wall
Omg i laughed and I felt soo good! You are on point! So wholesome ❤
Thank you queen to all that time you used it for this video, that's change my mind because I have a lot of insecurities and sometimes I share this whith guy that I like and I get the point thay is totally wrong! Sharing insecurities for me sounds like that's cute or the guy is so safe to tell him about this sh*t but no, really no. That's big mistake.
And about men like mens, yeah true af.
Thank you liz, you are the life saver to all girls(fr), I hope that I could watch all of ur videos
Luv you, u are blessing.
You are absolutely right about the fact that
a women should never let a man disrespect or talk badly about her
No matter how long you're in a relationship with him, there's no any right of him to use abusive words upon you.
she has to preserve her value for that/ She is out of touch with reality. She is being passed around by the top 1% and thinks there are many guys like that, statistically speaking most women are dating the top 5% of men too + wanting traditional benefits without being traditional themselves + bailed out of every bad decision in the west already lol. Her advice is horrible
Isn't that just logic?
@Sumaya No
goes in both directions.
I'm shocked people need someone telling them to be respectful and care for each other
@@arturnorge6875 she's delusional
Dude, I’m showing this video to my future daughter. Thank you for the message, especially towards the end when we do end up blaming ourselves. Without a doubt, some of us are naive. 😢 thank you. Yes I am a blessing. I gave him value.
Lord have mercy. You're gonna teach your daughter to be shallow and to pick rich guys over broke guys? What world do we live in? You'll never find the perfect man. This is not pretty woman. This is not a movie. This is real life. Humans are not perfect and they'll never be. Broke or rich, no one is perfect. Everyone has their own flaws. The title of this video is just so wrong in so many ways. But yeah a shocking triggering title will attract more viewers of course.
@@bigrom4183 looks like you're broke
@@dawn3589 I'm financially stable but thanks
@@bigrom4183 I get why most men would hate this video but in reality, both sexes should be financially stable
@@bigrom4183Liz is talking about the broke guys who do nothing to improve themselves, living off of their parents money and never lifting a finger to work . Would you want your daughter to date a guy like that?
omg, i love your mindset. This is what i needed, thank you !!!!!
you changed an ENTIREE generation to grow from their flaws and love who they are and treat themselves right when others knocked them down. Youre so well-spoken liz please never forget that ❤
i dated a broke guy for 4 months, it was my first relationship and i did all the things u said in this video 😭😭 i really thought i could change him and now im feeling embarrassed as hell
Ima be honest with you don't base your judgement about others watching a single youtube videos.Do what u feel like BALANCE IS EVERYTHING.
@@ho-leesheet5923 nah he treated me like trash because he had 0 respect for me and now i know why
@@bimbocrack good for you.Guys like that needs to be left alone for eternity.
You are not traditional and need a king to deem you one. pull up the female delusion calculator. There are very few high value guys most women are dating a small percentage of men + your value is based on chaste and not being half naked online. Your level is who you can retain for a relationship. Most men are giving you sex attraction not relationship attractive.
one of the biggest flaws of the female psychology is thinking they can change a man. Secondly, it's judging a man based on their wealth.
I agree with this as a man who raised my income from 50k to 200k. A strong woman will make your life better, and you will work for her more and both of you will benefit in all things. Anyone who enables you to just sit there and not get it done and love you anyway or carry you, then you'll never have that feeling of success and you'll always resent her. Women, don't get caught up in that, don't lend money, and expect him to get it done - don't fall for the love trap - there is not just "the one" in a planet filled with options.
You are the first man that tells the value of a strong woman.
facts.i don't believe anyone should even think of getting lended money unless it's a life or death situation.
I don't understand your opinion... so only a man needs to "provide" and give money to a woman but never a woman to a man? why exactly, aren't we equal?
@@zks1323 so only woman can take money from a man and woman can lend money from a man but a man cant lend money from a woman?
we dont live in the 1950, we are in 2023. men and women MUST provide equally in a relationship OR the one with more money MUST provide for the partner with less money, - a woman with more money must provide a better life for her partner, for the person that she is in a relationship with, and vice versa.
Thank you Liz
The more I watch your videos the more I understand
The mistakes I made and avoid making mistakes in the present 💜
I can't even express how badly I needed this video. Thank you so much for existing!