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Guys please dont get stuck in a situation like this. There shouldnt be any games if its mutual . Its all a waste of time and effort if their actions dont match their words. The person will always give you hope that it will work out. Dont be disrespected, you dont deserve to be treated like that.
I’ve endured this for the past 3 months. It was draining and gave me anxiety. We spent time when she wanted to only but she wants to talk/text me daily. She never wanted to open up to me. I had to bargain for her time. I was putting out the most effort and communicating how I felt. I was vulnerable, transparent, emotionally available and honest. I decided it was enough because it was heading no where. I was losing my focus and couldn’t concentrate on what’s important in my life, which is completing my master’s degree in nursing. Fellas, take heed to this video and allow no one to string you along. That feeling of uneasiness inside can kill your motivation and cause unnecessary stress. Thanks Jess!!!!!
Brother, I endure it for 4 months and your experience is like gazing in a mirror. I decided to remove myself and take back that power away from her and focus more on myself and goal.
@@salamiganiuolatunji1033 I was never the type of guy to deal with women who have daddy issues and emotional baggage. I never thought she would allow her past to seep into what we were trying to establish. She was an emotional terrorist. I would pull away, she would text me an say she misses me. I would be suckered back in. We would talk about it and everytime I think we bend a new corner, the same issues arise. I don't know how and why I dealt with it. I genuinely liked her. I seen her and said I wanted to make her my girlfriend but that was a wrong thought. In the end, I told her, I am letting you go for good.
@@smith6603 Put thyself first, be stingy. I am not saying to treat women bad going forward. Be careful of these females who are dating out here and they aren't fixed/heal. One must reflect, hold themselves accountable, atone for your past, evolve, enjoying being single, love yourself before you start dating. These females jump from man to man and not fixing their mindset. Protect your peace by any means necessary.
I also experienced this for 6 months until I sent an email saying I won't be "chasing" her any longer. There's more to the story but sounds more fictional than factual...
Women doesn't want to take responsibility for their bad behaviors they just want to be professional victims guys cut off any woman who tries to come with any form of negativity and drama without any warning your peace of mind is not negotiable
Yep, at the end it usually ends up splitting ways. Either ignore her when she reaches out and play her game, or best of all walk away, and let her play games with someone else.
Because they don't know what they really want. Been through it before, but I had to let her know I know what I bring to the table( no time for nonsense) and I hold both of us down if needed to let her know no she can depend on me during trying times. Some women need to realize only they can fix what's broken with them selves
@@merlinparviz1474 No, you have to go to the INTERSECTION that has the LEAST TRAFFIC!! :) Those places, do not NEED LIGHTS at all! Just Simple 🛑 and Go!
I was talking to this girl for a few months. She works at a bar I hang out. She then pushed me away so I avoided for a month. She started coming back but backed away again. Then she came back by walking close to me. Darting glances and really looking where I'm at. I would say hi but I didn't approach. Now she avoids eye contact. Did I miss my shot?
Thank you Jessie,I always get a lot out of listening carefully to your advice,it keeps me on an even keel as relationship problems can be a real test on one's sanity,I sometimes watch more than once to try and take it all in, by the way I love your hair do,looks fab💯👍
Thanks for this video Jess and I also learn a lot from people's comments. My opinion is if a lady really interested in you, she won't be playing games, she will be the one doing the chasing. Mix signals thing sucks, it drains out the energy in you and make you lost focus. Just walk away without the intention of going back to her. Focus on your goals.
Hate how I started watching all these dating videos after I had been ghosted, & owed money at the start of this year😑 But this will prepare me for the next girl🙏🤞 Crazy how it’s already going to be 2023, & been no contact since February
fellahs you'll spend less time and energy by simply just walking away and meeting some new ladies... Mixed signals are an unnecessary headache. There are no shortage of good women, especially if you live in a city.
Going through this too I contacted her once she did reply me and she said I don't know so I will start the no contact now She's going through difficult times and I know that she's talking to someone
Hi Jessica when she say she doesnt want a relationship but she told me that she trust me and she is being herself when she is with me.. Does this mean that she is hiding her feelings for me..?
Great command over english language and proper use of right words jessica.. i must say your channel is growing rapidly.. cheers from india !! Learning allot about the behaviour of females from this channel
This has always been a "super " challenge for me.....She always expressed interest when we have private or alone time but when she gets involved with the mundane avenue of common people who have absolutely no idea about how to express passion, she pulls back and leaves me on "hang"
It's even Harder when your in Love with a Beautiful Queen who suffers from Bi Polar!! Confusing!! Is it her or the Bi Polar?? I'm still hanging in there after 16 months!!
Mixed signal are for the others guys not me ,I will just tell her what I want and if she doesn't respond I just leave, take it or leave it and it work for me.
What if she says "I dont thinks we should hang out anymore." and then 5 days later she's texting me to go out to eat together and at the end of the night gives me a hug before we part for the night. Then again says "I dont think we should hang out anymore" and 4 days later shes texting me again to go out to the movies together and again hugs me before we part for the night. Then I tell her I think we Im going to move on, and she says "I care about you I dont want you to move on but if you do I want to stay in contact". You wanna talk about mixed signals. What the hell is going on in her screwed up head
Am a reverend minister...apart from the bible and I carefully listen u....this channel helps me in my counselling job....I am really learning...hmmm..u have no idea....u re the best ...
The conclusion says it all ma'am mixed signals are always negative signals. It is advisable to quit the relationship as early as possible unless you are the type that is in for games.
My guys,atm have situation with this girl,she is nice to,was respectful except 1 situation when she changed plans on the last moment. Spent some time with her recently,she stayed overnight but nothing happened because she refused. What she said is that she is scared about relationship because she live beetwen 2 countries. Hard situation but I have to let it go.
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5:54 BRO I WAS LEGIT SLOUCHING AND WHEN I GOT UP TO SIT UP. I WAS SHOCKED ABOUT THE TIME LOLL. on a serious note thank you for the advice. with everything going on it makes me feel better knowing im not the only one here
Been going through this with a friend for a while now that gives me these signals like touches my arms, laughs at everything i say, etc. When I finally told her how I felt about her, she said she dosent feel the same so we stopped talking for a few months. Now shes hitting me up again and whenever we do hang, she starts giving me the same signals. I was confused, but this clarifies a few things, thank you ❤
Brilliant advices. 1000 times better than sooo many dating coaches on youtube, who keep on going with jaded formulas, and selling false hopes(eg.turning a cold girl hot for you) etc its very sad tbh.
mam ur the best i just want to add a point where the girl says no for realation asks for date and gets angry when watches talking to another girls. but she can speak to all men wt about that can u pls leave me a message
PS I meant to say I met this woman when I speak into my phone it's sometimes types the wrong thing so please forgive the error I'll try to speak into the phone more clearly next time by the way what language do you speak some of my friends are some Guyana Mozambique New Guinea I have friends all over the world I don't live too far from Columbia University I knew President Obama when he attended Colombia University I know a lot of famous people but that's not important the important thing is to know yourself sometimes you have to get rid of the negative within yourself so that the positive can come in to your life it takes a lot of meditation and fasting and alone time yes we need to be alone without ourselves to think and heal
I have a child with my ex. Im trying no contact and im just trying to keep it as when and where i need to pick up my daughter from. But my ex constantly messages telling me my daughter is upset over the split or she will send pics of her asleep or she asks me to go get her some food when my daughter is in bed or asks me to walk the dog. All along telling me she doesn’t want me is this mixed signals ?
Can mixed signals be when even after being together 2 years they have no definite time frame for when you might live together and move to the next phase of the relationship. I'm very confused so of course part of me had me believing for different reasons that she may be living a double life, be fearful, or something else. I'm ready and talk about it but she has "8" reasons now why she can't.
What if your wife was all good? Then now she's sending mixed feelings, we live in different places. But since lately we don't talk or text as much as we used to
What do you do when a female asks you to marry her and then goes m i a right after she asked pops up on random weekends and awkward times of the night like what you doing after not getting one call in the last 2 days unless you initiate it i know what it mean just clear it up for me please
That’s what I searched to hear from this channel a month ago. I decided to move on but I wasn’t sure if I did the right decision. But I’ve heard you, now I know my fives months are gone just like games😒
Gonna pretend I didn't see that lol, can't pretend to not feel it tho, I'm all cherry cheeks popping here ,omj ...... on point as ever . i needed that , thanks Jess hope your ok and all is well within stay safe and sweet 🍯 queen . Nice keys to notice even folded sleeves appreciates hard work so Have a bless one still Yuh feel meh till soon.
Waw thanks Jessica for your video on mixed messages . I've learned alot from this video. I follow all your videos they are just the best out there . All the others just don't do it for me .But somehow your videos hit the mark every time . Thankyou once again for such a great help for me . Keep making great relationship videos. Us men out there in the real world will really thank you for your very good help Thank you Kevin xxx
Yes thank you for all your relationship videos I love them all Iam learning so much more about women thanks to you God bless you for this gift he has given you to help many thousands of us me who need your help Thank you Jessica xxx Kevin x
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
Guys please dont get stuck in a situation like this. There shouldnt be any games if its mutual . Its all a waste of time and effort if their actions dont match their words. The person will always give you hope that it will work out. Dont be disrespected, you dont deserve to be treated like that.
Love dinning at Jessica's Table of "Wisdom!"
Thanks for this vid Jessy ,it has come on the right time for me
Nice content
I’ve endured this for the past 3 months. It was draining and gave me anxiety. We spent time when she wanted to only but she wants to talk/text me daily. She never wanted to open up to me. I had to bargain for her time. I was putting out the most effort and communicating how I felt. I was vulnerable, transparent, emotionally available and honest. I decided it was enough because it was heading no where. I was losing my focus and couldn’t concentrate on what’s important in my life, which is completing my master’s degree in nursing. Fellas, take heed to this video and allow no one to string you along. That feeling of uneasiness inside can kill your motivation and cause unnecessary stress. Thanks Jess!!!!!
Hey Ajani, how did you deal with this?
Brother, I endure it for 4 months and your experience is like gazing in a mirror. I decided to remove myself and take back that power away from her and focus more on myself and goal.
@@salamiganiuolatunji1033 I was never the type of guy to deal with women who have daddy issues and emotional baggage. I never thought she would allow her past to seep into what we were trying to establish. She was an emotional terrorist. I would pull away, she would text me an say she misses me. I would be suckered back in. We would talk about it and everytime I think we bend a new corner, the same issues arise. I don't know how and why I dealt with it. I genuinely liked her. I seen her and said I wanted to make her my girlfriend but that was a wrong thought. In the end, I told her, I am letting you go for good.
@@smith6603 Put thyself first, be stingy. I am not saying to treat women bad going forward. Be careful of these females who are dating out here and they aren't fixed/heal. One must reflect, hold themselves accountable, atone for your past, evolve, enjoying being single, love yourself before you start dating. These females jump from man to man and not fixing their mindset. Protect your peace by any means necessary.
I also experienced this for 6 months until I sent an email saying I won't be "chasing" her any longer. There's more to the story but sounds more fictional than factual...
Women doesn't want to take responsibility for their bad behaviors they just want to be professional victims guys cut off any woman who tries to come with any form of negativity and drama without any warning your peace of mind is not negotiable
Yep, at the end it usually ends up splitting ways. Either ignore her when she reaches out and play her game, or best of all walk away, and let her play games with someone else.
Its all a test men; stay stoic, patient and always keep your purpose #1.
I agree with you
Because they don't know what they really want. Been through it before, but I had to let her know I know what I bring to the table( no time for nonsense) and I hold both of us down if needed to let her know no she can depend on me during trying times. Some women need to realize only they can fix what's broken with them selves
Women will gaslight the hell outta you and then holler about “where are all the good men” and that BS “pressure” talk they always use..
I received mixed signals from someone then i decided to move on and now she wants me and i dont want her..... sometimes its not worth the headache
If she is Sending more MIXED SIGNALS than🚦LIGHTS , you will CRASH at the RELATIONSHIP INTERSECTION!!! LEAVE!
No you just have to wait for the green light!!
@@merlinparviz1474 No, you have to go to the INTERSECTION that has the LEAST TRAFFIC!! :) Those places, do not NEED LIGHTS at all! Just Simple 🛑 and Go!
@@fitforlifepft1 Lol, dude you should write a book about this 😂!
@@merlinparviz1474 lol I have a name for this.. It is called “Traffic Lighting” lol
I was talking to this girl for a few months. She works at a bar I hang out. She then pushed me away so I avoided for a month. She started coming back but backed away again. Then she came back by walking close to me. Darting glances and really looking where I'm at. I would say hi but I didn't approach. Now she avoids eye contact. Did I miss my shot?
back up value yourself self worth
Advice: Plan your exit strategy.
🏃🏽♂️💨
Thank you Jessie,I always get a lot out of listening carefully to your advice,it keeps me on an even keel as relationship problems can be a real test on one's sanity,I sometimes watch more than once to try and take it all in, by the way I love your hair do,looks fab💯👍
Jessica, you're a straight up head turner with that hairstyle if I may say so.
blushing....
Maybe I needed to see this video at this time. Going through right now and it's not even funny anymore.
If you keep playing games with someone then eventually you will only attract people playing games.
Good luck and see if it is fun when the wall hits.
"Taking action will give you a clear idea of where she's at in her mind"
Thanks for this video Jess and I also learn a lot from people's comments. My opinion is if a lady really interested in you, she won't be playing games, she will be the one doing the chasing. Mix signals thing sucks, it drains out the energy in you and make you lost focus. Just walk away without the intention of going back to her. Focus on your goals.
I love this channel so much. You’re so articulate.
backhanded compliment. If you know you know.
You're amazing Jess. Keep up
Hate how I started watching all these dating videos after I had been ghosted, & owed money at the start of this year😑 But this will prepare me for the next girl🙏🤞 Crazy how it’s already going to be 2023, & been no contact since February
fellahs you'll spend less time and energy by simply just walking away and meeting some new ladies... Mixed signals are an unnecessary headache. There are no shortage of good women, especially if you live in a city.
Dealing with this right now. Thank u Jessica. It’s like u are always on time with what I’m experiencing…❤️
Going through this too I contacted her once she did reply me and she said I don't know so I will start the no contact now
She's going through difficult times and I know that she's talking to someone
Hi Jessica when she say she doesnt want a relationship but she told me that she trust me and she is being herself when she is with me.. Does this mean that she is hiding her feelings for me..?
U was right everything you said...worked made her come right back. ❤ u a Boss Jessica 😘 thanks
So glad!
I'm a male and I don't like showing my affections in public
Great command over english language and proper use of right words jessica.. i must say your channel is growing rapidly.. cheers from india !! Learning allot about the behaviour of females from this channel
I bet Ghanaian's speak the best english in the whole african continent
You're such a bright soul Everytime I look and listen to you my holly soul vibrates instantly. I love you Jess💯
Such a weak man 😂😂😂 u should know all these before now wtf , lol, a woman gotta teach u these things ? 🤣🤣 weak
Forget the mixed singles love your dreadlocks
Thanks for everything 😘😘😘
This has always been a "super " challenge for me.....She always expressed interest when we have private or alone time but when she gets involved with the mundane avenue of common people who have absolutely no idea about how to express passion, she pulls back and leaves me on "hang"
Thanks to be on our men’s side… very good messages to us…
It's even Harder when your in Love with a Beautiful Queen who suffers from Bi Polar!!
Confusing!!
Is it her or the Bi Polar??
I'm still hanging in there after 16 months!!
Mixed signal are for the others guys not me ,I will just tell her what I want and if she doesn't respond I just leave, take it or leave it and it work for me.
We are in 2022 and the year is almost ending 🙌🙌🙌 The fourth point Jess......am "walking away"🚶🚶🚶🚶
You’re simply amazing, Jessica
You have answers for all my problems in my relationship 😌
To sum things up she hates you 12:10 lol
Very helpful & insightful. I'd rather always walk away from incoherent girls.
What if she says "I dont thinks we should hang out anymore." and then 5 days later she's texting me to go out to eat together and at the end of the night gives me a hug before we part for the night. Then again says "I dont think we should hang out anymore" and 4 days later shes texting me again to go out to the movies together and again hugs me before we part for the night. Then I tell her I think we Im going to move on, and she says "I care about you I dont want you to move on but if you do I want to stay in contact".
You wanna talk about mixed signals. What the hell is going on in her screwed up head
Using you.dude
She is wating on another guy and playing with you
Did she pay? Get rid of her and find someone who likes you.
Am a reverend minister...apart from the bible and I carefully listen u....this channel helps me in my counselling job....I am really learning...hmmm..u have no idea....u re the best ...
The conclusion says it all ma'am mixed signals are always negative signals. It is advisable to quit the relationship as early as possible unless you are the type that is in for games.
Finding difficulties meeting him online
Thank you Jessica I guess there's no woman out there for me
You are absolutely amazing and inspiring to this generation…God bless you!!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
My guys,atm have situation with this girl,she is nice to,was respectful except 1 situation when she changed plans on the last moment.
Spent some time with her recently,she stayed overnight but nothing happened because she refused.
What she said is that she is scared about relationship because she live beetwen 2 countries.
Hard situation but I have to let it go.
Jessica, youre so beautiful. thanks so much for these counsels.
Your hair is glorious, I just want to drape it over my bald head and pretend to look nearly as glorious.. I can but dream
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Jessy jessy.much love from kenya
These are some real powerful words Jessica I love them
Perfect 👍
5:54 BRO I WAS LEGIT SLOUCHING AND WHEN I GOT UP TO SIT UP. I WAS SHOCKED ABOUT THE TIME LOLL. on a serious note thank you for the advice. with everything going on it makes me feel better knowing im not the only one here
Wonderful teachings👏
Jessica looking out for us❤❤👏👏
I like your new hair.
Try and fail, but don't fail to try.
It's best to move on
Been going through this with a friend for a while now that gives me these signals like touches my arms, laughs at everything i say, etc. When I finally told her how I felt about her, she said she dosent feel the same so we stopped talking for a few months. Now shes hitting me up again and whenever we do hang, she starts giving me the same signals. I was confused, but this clarifies a few things, thank you ❤
Brilliant advices. 1000 times better than sooo many dating coaches on youtube, who keep on going with jaded formulas, and selling false hopes(eg.turning a cold girl hot for you) etc its very sad tbh.
mam ur the best i just want to add a point where the girl says no for realation asks for date and gets angry when watches talking to another girls. but she can speak to all men wt about that can u pls leave me a message
Chaiiiii💖💖💖💖💖
I☝ LOVE YOU JESSICA THE GENIUS🤝🤝🤝
†Believe🕯💥✊
PS I meant to say I met this woman when I speak into my phone it's sometimes types the wrong thing so please forgive the error I'll try to speak into the phone more clearly next time by the way what language do you speak some of my friends are some Guyana Mozambique New Guinea I have friends all over the world I don't live too far from Columbia University I knew President Obama when he attended Colombia University I know a lot of famous people but that's not important the important thing is to know yourself sometimes you have to get rid of the negative within yourself so that the positive can come in to your life it takes a lot of meditation and fasting and alone time yes we need to be alone without ourselves to think and heal
Jess your locks are 🔥🔥👍🏾
RIGHT THE new style is differentttt
Should I keep it??
Thanks
Yes, keep it
Thanks so much jessica I have experienced it. Infact I thought you were talking about me... thanks once again God bless
I think moving foward is best, the fact that one day ill be damn rotten 6 feet below makes no mfs make me wait no time for games
I ain't dating anyone why ask for help
He just said he love me, and then says he was just joking so not wasting my time!!
On #5... I was told a chick. " Are you going to keep talking about". Big red flag.
I have a child with my ex. Im trying no contact and im just trying to keep it as when and where i need to pick up my daughter from. But my ex constantly messages telling me my daughter is upset over the split or she will send pics of her asleep or she asks me to go get her some food when my daughter is in bed or asks me to walk the dog. All along telling me she doesn’t want me is this mixed signals ?
Can mixed signals be when even after being together 2 years they have no definite time frame for when you might live together and move to the next phase of the relationship. I'm very confused so of course part of me had me believing for different reasons that she may be living a double life, be fearful, or something else. I'm ready and talk about it but she has "8" reasons now why she can't.
Great video!
If she does this, delete her & move on. It's not worth the stress & headache
You don't want a woman like that anyway...
What if your wife was all good? Then now she's sending mixed feelings, we live in different places. But since lately we don't talk or text as much as we used to
Immediately after watching the video,she texted
That’s crazy
i dont understand copen is either a colour or a scrabble word never heard about copen strategy
Hi guys i have a question regarding my ex, can you help me
What do you do when a female asks you to marry her and then goes m i a right after she asked pops up on random weekends and awkward times of the night like what you doing after not getting one call in the last 2 days unless you initiate it i know what it mean just clear it up for me please
if the guy reports her as a one off does the bloke still lose and still goes to jail his self for relorting
I will move definely and both partners should compliment one another
except you were trying to say coping strategy probably a typo error
More with kids involved content
That’s what I searched to hear from this channel a month ago. I decided to move on but I wasn’t sure if I did the right decision. But I’ve heard you, now I know my fives months are gone just like games😒
Gonna pretend I didn't see that lol, can't pretend to not feel it tho, I'm all cherry cheeks popping here ,omj ...... on point as ever . i needed that , thanks Jess hope your ok and all is well within stay safe and sweet 🍯 queen . Nice keys to notice even folded sleeves appreciates hard work so Have a bless one still Yuh feel meh till soon.
I like your hair style. It looks so beautiful. Thank you far all your teaching. We glade to having you to build our knowledge. Be blessed!!! Jessica.
you hit it head on.. awesome advise
I played it too
Matthew 11:16-19 sums it all.
Thanks Jessica I like your explanation you always heat on the forefront.
Waw thanks Jessica for your video on mixed messages .
I've learned alot from this video.
I follow all your videos they are just the best out there . All the others just don't do it for me .But somehow your videos hit the mark every time .
Thankyou once again for such a great help for me .
Keep making great relationship videos.
Us men out there in the real world will really thank you for your very good help
Thank you
Kevin xxx
I wish i get this information months ago
Thanks Jessica fabulous as usual great teaching on this video
Kevin fro
Radcliffe Manchester
UK 🇬🇧
Thanks so much!
Perfect Jessica
Today dier why your hair come forward
Thank you very much Jessica for sharing. I got value.
Hi Jessica,what if she's sleeping with another guy and lying to you but she doesn't know you already know
What other signal are you waiting for?
Look at her iPhone
you are the legend jessica..everyday I'm learning to be better with what i want from women and relationship by your videos..thank you
Yes thank you for all your relationship videos I love them all Iam learning so much more about women thanks to you
God bless you for this gift he has given you to help many thousands of us me who need your help
Thank you Jessica xxx
Kevin x
Walk Away