Keep trying to win her ONLY if you see these signs

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

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    • @noelneel9091
      @noelneel9091 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@JessicaOS Please i need your help. I'm seriously in pain. Please help me.

    • @jakehill2010
      @jakehill2010 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey Jessica! 😊

    • @Steveaky
      @Steveaky 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If she turns to you to open up all of a sudden she sees you as her gay best friend

  • @gregorylatta8159
    @gregorylatta8159 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +151

    Lack of reciprocity is the biggest red flag.

    • @tevbuff
      @tevbuff 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @gregorylatta8159 Agreed 100%

    • @alriyamy613
      @alriyamy613 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🎉🎉 period

  • @mnickiel09
    @mnickiel09 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +166

    _DON'T EVER LET A WOMAN MAKE IT A CHALLENGE SIMPLY TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER, PERIOD_

    • @TeW33zy
      @TeW33zy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yeah u want a woman easy which is understandable. But woman who are easy are open and other men will see that and try to sleep with her.

    • @kwekswilliams6884
      @kwekswilliams6884 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@TeW33zyit's not about being easy but as a human being you know what you like so if she prefers you she's to connect the dot with you if it's the other guys she shouldn't. Period

    • @KarlEmanuel-f4l
      @KarlEmanuel-f4l 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @TeW33zy I can't go out there and do my best to provide for my family, only to be greeted with stupid mind games and attitudes.

    • @iamflashin
      @iamflashin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      AYE FOR REAL DOE

    • @azure8696
      @azure8696 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TeW33zyTF are you talking about?😂🤣😭

  • @viomao1963
    @viomao1963 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    If she's playing hard to get " leave her" chasing her will lower your self esteem

  • @Trelznc
    @Trelznc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I’m glad men are in sync here cause who wants to go through these headaches just to be loved ?

    • @FF-bj4nq
      @FF-bj4nq หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I doubt men will be loved even after going through these

    • @jorammuwanguzi3698
      @jorammuwanguzi3698 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂😂😂

  • @briar35981
    @briar35981 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    This is good. Always look for reciprocal effort. Remember, your not the only one she's testing. She will have multiple suitors and she's trying to find the best and with the most resources. HYPERGAMY is real. Never be afraid to walk away.

    • @YalaMan01
      @YalaMan01 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you. I needed this.

    • @Requordman
      @Requordman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ​@YalaMan01 Be very careful with some of these simp advisers. As a man, you also have the liberty to have multiple women as suitors. Then, choose the best for yourself!! Don't put yourself in an unnecessary competition with men you do not know. If the lady isn't ready to deal with you, walk away from her and move on to the next. Women make it easy for the men they like. Concentrate on your health, finances and peace of mind. If she isn't adding up to any of these 3, my guy, run. The dumpest thing a man will do is to tolerate a woman who plays mind games and seeks a man to prove himself to her.

    • @YalaMan01
      @YalaMan01 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Requordman You must be one of the best in the world ❤️🤗😂

    • @Requordman
      @Requordman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@YalaMan01 bro, as a man, you already have problems to figure out. So, why do you go for a woman whose intentions about you is also another problem for you to figure out? It doesn't make sense one bit! Deal with women who are ready to deal with you.

    • @GB-gf3dm
      @GB-gf3dm หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@UsmanAbiodun-or3hp Claiming someone is a golddigger just for looking for the best security in a relationship (which money provides) is ignorant. Golddiggers aren't looking for security (or even love) in a relationship. They are con artists.

  • @Kingglory1997
    @Kingglory1997 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +183

    Romantic relationships require maturity and being intentional. Under 25s usually don’t understand the concept of love and relationships. Even data shows that couples married under 25 have the highest divorce rates. Mature up, get your life in order and look for compatibility.

  • @cecildah7486
    @cecildah7486 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Perfect video. Currently in this phase now and everything you said is right on point. She's worth fighting for. God bless you

  • @TS-eg8dm
    @TS-eg8dm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    In today's date, men have no time to wait it out. Testing to see if she's gonna come back in, the truth is many of these women are sleeping with more than one man at the same time, whenever she's not available. And if she's unavailable too often, I definitely do not waste my time. I don't necessarily ghost her, but I stop texting her. I don't block her either, but I just won't respond too often, I won't prioritize reading her message, And when she decides to come around, I won't prioritize my time to focus on her.
    I'm not playing hard, but I just don't waste time with these modern women. When we date a woman, we spend money on her. I'm not gonna run her down so I can give her my cash. She better run me down and that's what's going on now, ha ha, ha. I'm not cocky. I'm just confident and smart. Reciprocation is what I responto very well

    • @Requordman
      @Requordman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Bro, you said it all... I won't beg you to spend my money and time..

    • @TS-eg8dm
      @TS-eg8dm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Requordman Appreciate you sis👍🏾

    • @davidmatovu4230
      @davidmatovu4230 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      The guy she loves doesn't do much

    • @iamflashin
      @iamflashin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      DAM ALL FACTS BRO ❕❕❕

    • @iamflashin
      @iamflashin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RequordmanSHEESH DAT SHT HIT

  • @ChardinKinkonda
    @ChardinKinkonda หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I love this woman so much, she is so inspiring. i have learned a lot from your videos

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wonderful

  • @obinnadike3923
    @obinnadike3923 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    We don't have time for games. Is either you are in or out. 😂

    • @skepo22
      @skepo22 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I met this girl that leave in my appartment on a cool evening we chatted, I collected her number then about 2 days ago I sent her message introducing myself, she didn’t reply until 3 days ago.. she was like hey mentioned my name and said morning… I asked her how was her night? It took 30min for her to reply it was good and she didn’t ask how was mine, already knew it was a red flag.. I asked her if she is working today? Haven’t gotten a reply. Am about to delete her number right away I don’t play games.

    • @richardkimuyu1765
      @richardkimuyu1765 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@skepo22 do it let her go we should see other people

    • @VARCHANT
      @VARCHANT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My G 😂

    • @iamflashin
      @iamflashin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      MAN IM TELL’N U

    • @pfuxamutirikhotso4094
      @pfuxamutirikhotso4094 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@skepo22 Wasted time

  • @br_josh
    @br_josh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    They won't 'test' the HR executive or play hard-to-get when they are looking for a job but something tells them they need to 'test' a man? Can you see why many of them cannot have a good relationship? Do you think that a high-quality man has much time for tests by one who should be an assistant to him?

    • @TheVineAbiola
      @TheVineAbiola 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@br_josh who should be an assistant to him??? A person's wife is their assistant??
      If many guys feel this way, then no reason why the rate of divorce is so high.
      Wow.

    • @MUSIQ_IS_MY_LIFE
      @MUSIQ_IS_MY_LIFE หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TheVineAbiola Not married women but single ones

  • @lambypigs
    @lambypigs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Definitely take it personally, we not kids/teenagers.. I have no time for "test" and games , chicks who's mutually interested in you will not play games

  • @erickLukula
    @erickLukula หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I actually needed this..

  • @jowurani
    @jowurani หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great video

  • @odinakajulian7474
    @odinakajulian7474 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My two scent here from my experience with women is that if she's interested she'll make time for you. If she's giving flimsy excuses walk away. Life is full of trial and error. Embrace rejection and move on. If she's interested but playing games she'll come back. It's up to you as a guy to decide if you still want to or not. Women are attention lovers know when she's using you as an option to feed her ego. Self respect will make you know your worth in people's lives. Don't be a nice guy. It never ends well because you'll definitely be used financially or emotionally.

    • @odinakajulian7474
      @odinakajulian7474 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Let me add this also. When someone wants something they go all in. So, if she's not reciprocating then she's not that interested in you. Rather she's just being kind not to hurt your feelings.

  • @MrYoooki
    @MrYoooki หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Came just in time... Thanks Jessica

  • @kratosmarketanaletics456
    @kratosmarketanaletics456 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    wow ...this was really informative..feels like a game of chess ,thank you for shedding some light on this

  • @dancowan5129
    @dancowan5129 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Nah, if she can't show her worth to me immediately, she's gone. I don't play games, and if she wants to, she can play them with someone else. I don't have time for games and tests.

    • @livermorej7238
      @livermorej7238 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dancowan5129 fact my man big respect 🙏

  • @UguruSamuelAbaraogu-f6b
    @UguruSamuelAbaraogu-f6b 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love you Jessica,you are the best of your kind. You are beautiful, confident and yes you hit the nail on the right spot. Thank you for being you.

  • @obinnadike3923
    @obinnadike3923 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Pass her test? Is this a job interview? Meanwhile, while we are at it, money is being spent😂

  • @diingthiong3504
    @diingthiong3504 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    We should withdraw our attention if they don't notice our efforts

  • @NineToes19
    @NineToes19 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Don’t walk away. RUUUUUNN!!!!!!!

  • @GodBlessTheChild1
    @GodBlessTheChild1 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    All of needing these explanations means dump her. If she has to do all of this guessing then she should dump you. Learn to leave quick! This type of energy causes doubt. Life is too demanding on other points to juggle for someone to care for them.
    “Thank You!” for sharing
    🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @Chosen_Wealth
    @Chosen_Wealth หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank You Jessica ❤.

  • @olabisiabraham801
    @olabisiabraham801 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Jessica! This is profound.

  • @yrnbornstarr821
    @yrnbornstarr821 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    The guy she wants doest have to try, remember

  • @OdoguKashimbi
    @OdoguKashimbi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi pipo Smith here from Zambia n I just want to say I thank God for this ledy I mean Jessica like she has really really helpt me like that's me been honest on a normal day like this one this Jessica thin is something El's I thought I have lost everything I worked like I thought have lost the love of my life not until I started following this beautiful n intelligent Jessica n may God how can someone be this complete like Jessica you are one in a million otherwise much love from Zambia n God all might helpt you reach every were ur eye's are able to see

  • @addoasante7437
    @addoasante7437 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Jess we need a lecture on "Self Evaluation before Relationship"

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      good idea

  • @007-bourne
    @007-bourne 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Jess. Good advice once again, it ain’t easy though. Patience in a foggy situation can be testing!

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely!

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video was timely. I needed to watch it
    Thanks Jessica for sharing❤

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @emmanuelagbafor2027
      @emmanuelagbafor2027 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@JessicaOSyea

  • @NJM4279
    @NJM4279 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    They can pretend to be like that. Remember, they are also watching this video . Don't try so hard chasing a liability

    • @ebenezaboadu673
      @ebenezaboadu673 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha 😅

    • @MakelLevy-wu8rs
      @MakelLevy-wu8rs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You said it all 😅

    • @HusseinAli-q4t
      @HusseinAli-q4t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So who’s gonna talk then 😂😂🤦🏾🤦🏾

    • @scribemanjustice2028
      @scribemanjustice2028 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good

    • @goddey242
      @goddey242 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂

  • @RodneyDailey-df7sj
    @RodneyDailey-df7sj หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great content thank you Jessica

  • @dynamic9016
    @dynamic9016 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks much for this video.

  • @vensonleviticus
    @vensonleviticus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video Jessica 📹
    Precious my mentoress

  • @4hinson777
    @4hinson777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Jess, It's been a good miniute since taking in one one of your good videos. Lol ... Fellas, don't chase, just replace. Express interest but if she doesn't reciprocate keep it movin. No time for stupid games. Facts

    • @promotarfx
      @promotarfx หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No time to entertain drama

  • @AbdoulieJarju-ji8cv
    @AbdoulieJarju-ji8cv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Interesting my sister you really couch my heart may god bless you

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for watching

  • @greensidehealth
    @greensidehealth 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for this

  • @felisco-multipurpose
    @felisco-multipurpose หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really great tips. Love it 💕

  • @NBGUYVER
    @NBGUYVER หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wait ✋️ so a woman is immature and testing you to see if you're emotionally mature?

  • @dynamic9016
    @dynamic9016 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have a female friend name Jesse who does everything you explained with me..Thanks much Jessica..

  • @tashingabravechaitezvi8596
    @tashingabravechaitezvi8596 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you, Jessica. I paused your video and followed your advice. You're a genius 🥰

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you sooo much Jessica!

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome!

  • @jamesbarnes1427
    @jamesbarnes1427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Keep up the great videos Jessica! 👍👍

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @Its_superdave09
    @Its_superdave09 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you
    God bless you for this Jess! 👍🏾

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome and just so you know, i appreciate the way you interact with my channel. Means a lot

    • @Its_superdave09
      @Its_superdave09 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm honoured! 🙌🏾 @@JessicaOS

  • @daima-v8s
    @daima-v8s 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You have good skills personality and attitude.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @SamuelPendar
    @SamuelPendar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Jessica, I usually like your content but trying to give justifications for womens’ games is ludicrous. If a woman is truly interested, she won’t play games. If she is playing games or “testing” it means her interest is low; she’s not that into you. Period. Guys listen, walk away immediately when the games begin! Don’t waste your time trying to raise her interest. Just walk. The next woman might value you more.

  • @DabohChelsea-ik7bm
    @DabohChelsea-ik7bm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome

  • @korjaysamuel9499
    @korjaysamuel9499 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Exactly that's what she's doing

  • @sanelesithole5427
    @sanelesithole5427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, I really needed this

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No problem 😊

  • @Requordman
    @Requordman 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Keep trying to win her?😂😂. That funny! The only thing men are winning here is our life goals and dreams. Nothing less!! Relationships should be mutual. If a man approaches a woman and she's interested, she should be direct with it. We already have problems to figure out. It is very silly to go for a woman whose intention about you is also another problem for you to figure out!

    • @edwinalcantaradelarosa4691
      @edwinalcantaradelarosa4691 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is gold, just see your best friend, how difficult was to talk to him/her in the beginning? Exactly, it was mutual and easy, because you were BOTH interested in things to work

  • @zico352
    @zico352 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much

  • @davidfreeman8091
    @davidfreeman8091 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks Jess

  • @DicksonEli2024
    @DicksonEli2024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello Jessy, nice to see you again

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You too!

  • @CodeWithClinton
    @CodeWithClinton 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    There’s a girl I like, and I believe she feels the same way, but I’m not ready for a relationship right now. I had to block her on all platforms, which really hurts. I still have feelings for her, and I hope our paths cross again soon.

    • @UsmanAbiodun-or3hp
      @UsmanAbiodun-or3hp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro are you a developer?

    • @CodeWithClinton
      @CodeWithClinton 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@UsmanAbiodun-or3hp yes I am.

    • @PrinceoftheLightSkins
      @PrinceoftheLightSkins 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Take her, opportunities like that don’t come everyday. Trust me you’ll wish you had her with you when no one is standing at the end waiting for you.

    • @CodeWithClinton
      @CodeWithClinton 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@PrinceoftheLightSkins thanks King.

    • @KOSEUNTI
      @KOSEUNTI หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@CodeWithClinton don't block her.. let her always see you so you'd ring in her head.. be of impact to her make sure you keep her busy with things that can develop her for you. Give her books to read, advise her to learn a skill.. be busy and keep her busy.. she'd love you more.. make sure you're not distracted too

  • @Eriecartel
    @Eriecartel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    this video contradicts a video where you state shes stringing you along. One minute you say dont tolerate hot and cold the next you say hot and cold could mean shes fighting her feelings. If shes fighting her feelings it means you are an option and she doesnt see you as the main one so essentially you are a backup.

  • @alexgodwinchinonso4531
    @alexgodwinchinonso4531 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Some just take you for granted

  • @mn1994
    @mn1994 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What are lovely conversation ❤❤

  • @akandejoseph01
    @akandejoseph01 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you for these tips 😅

  • @allanbrown8655
    @allanbrown8655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Last 3 relationships cost me a lot in monetary terms 😮

    • @estebantv8395
      @estebantv8395 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@allanbrown8655 boss leave and have peace

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good one Jessie your a wise woman,good things come to those who wait 👰🏾‍♂️

  • @petshopb
    @petshopb 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am trying to get a girl for 3 months long now... She shows 4 of these 5 signs. She is still coming back. I am thinking now to walk away and hope she will figure out quicker if she wants me.

  • @SKYKID45
    @SKYKID45 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love you jesica ❤❤❤

  • @samokoniha7022
    @samokoniha7022 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank u a lot for this....wat i really needed at this time

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Always welcome

  • @nickislearning
    @nickislearning หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Or, you could find a woman who doesn’t play games. Just a thought ❤

  • @MVD8796
    @MVD8796 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You have given us very good and sometimes wise advices related to relationships over the years, but I would like to know if you have already gotten engaged, if yet married?
    Peace ✌ from Luanda-Angola

  • @mufadzimasviba3216
    @mufadzimasviba3216 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That guy winding a tape took me back to my teenage years

  • @FonyuyAyuveaElvis
    @FonyuyAyuveaElvis หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well said but I really wish to know if all these appy to godly relationships as well because to me a lady who doesn't have the fear of God is a no go area

  • @chonga_j
    @chonga_j หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    *never mind the games and all, i caught her she had cheated on me!*

  • @Steveaky
    @Steveaky 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I sent a treble txt one of them mentioning I didn’t sleep all night and probably won’t go into work and hate letting people down…but also it it just happened to be my birthday and I told her that too! Guess what no happy birthday txt or any txt and I haven’t heard from her since.

  • @iamflashin
    @iamflashin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WELL U DEFINITELY FKN KEPT ME COOL PERFECT TIMING PERFECT VID 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @problemslayer3538
    @problemslayer3538 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not if she's in a rebound. Head the opposite direction and never look back

  • @aliactsc
    @aliactsc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    "Playing hard to get" got some of us in a lot of trouble, Jessica. I'm sorry, but I have to caution men about this "playing hard to get" game. I almost self deleted because of this due to a false accusation. I love your content but for our generation, this might just be a dangerous game, especially if she attended/attends an ivy league university.

  • @danieltob6362
    @danieltob6362 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Make plenty of money guys

    • @GB-gf3dm
      @GB-gf3dm หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're gonna need it. 😂

  • @DabohChelsea-ik7bm
    @DabohChelsea-ik7bm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good afternoon Jessica

  • @Maskman_original
    @Maskman_original 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If a men is focusing on a better future for him and her, why the hell testing him so that you can distracting him so that you can have a better future; that makes sense. Why don't we as men start testing women with our friends to see how loyal women are.

  • @modinxpression9513
    @modinxpression9513 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you 🥂

  • @TheoplisFisher
    @TheoplisFisher 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Naw…this a bad return on investment. She plays game and I’m On my way! Out the door. Absolutely no games period.

    • @GB-gf3dm
      @GB-gf3dm หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can do that. But the point of the video is for you to consider the woman's comparable value. Fools walk away from gold that's hard to get. 😢

    • @TheoplisFisher
      @TheoplisFisher หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GB-gf3dm fools gold everywhere it’s cheaper not to keep her.

  • @Dbrwrld888
    @Dbrwrld888 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Went thru these test and still walked away

  • @MrXslim
    @MrXslim 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I realized something today this woman I was talking to I thought she interested in me was actually playing me for a fool and I had enough of her stupid little games she plays so I decided to walk away and never speak to her again because they are other women out there who won’t play theses games with me and she was following other guys behind my back making up stories that she was married oh and other good story that she made up that she had a supposedly partner I’m just glad I walked away because that I’m not tolerant of that BS if she wants to play games do it on her on own time not wasting my time

  • @reggresseau5427
    @reggresseau5427 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Men observe and evaluate too.

  • @OGTrollTroll8
    @OGTrollTroll8 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They have rules for Simps and non for the man she wants.

  • @Derickongo-ox7np
    @Derickongo-ox7np หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have noticed these traits in a friend

  • @curtisamoako8685
    @curtisamoako8685 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good idea

  • @dingdong3482
    @dingdong3482 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Sorry Jessica but fuck em if they don't reply or show you respect move on and don't look back ❤

    • @user-bs5qr5ie4s
      @user-bs5qr5ie4s 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @dingdong3482 lol
      I can advice you as a man on how to get ladies attention
      And how to get ladies to say yes

    • @darlingtonsilva2612
      @darlingtonsilva2612 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please advice me on how to get a working class lady to say yes to you, there is this lady, she is very matured, also from Africa, she’s in her middle 30’s and vet matured, working class lady, we both are in the same office, I have approach her twice, she told me that, she’s not ready for relationship, even she will, that it will be some one from the sane country with her, that shares the the same culture and traditions, she gave me her number, I do text her, but she don’t give me much attention

    • @vaice2k
      @vaice2k 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What country is she frm? hw abt u?​@@darlingtonsilva2612

    • @dingdong3482
      @dingdong3482 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @darlingtonsilva2612 go to Thailand lady love you for long time

    • @NtokozoChristian
      @NtokozoChristian 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@darlingtonsilva2612 Leave brother, time is money... Surely she's seeing someone else or doesn't necessarily see you as the one... Run brother man, just run away mate

  • @ugochuke
    @ugochuke หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Men deserve more 😢, we don't care about all this game.

  • @kartof47
    @kartof47 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why play? Playing hurts alot in the end making you dissapear... why that play, why people are not believing in true intentions ? Why pure is considered strange....

  • @iconerable
    @iconerable หลายเดือนก่อน

    Testing is the method used in the 90s. It doesn't work anymore; its either u r in or out

  • @emmanuelessel2811
    @emmanuelessel2811 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Jesse I am with someone. Where I keep we keep on chatting every blessed time even at work times, we each other respect. We do everything ,We cross the elements of friendship. We have good times together, but whenever I propose to her ,she keeps on pushing me away. She's not ready for a relationship, saying I should move on ,But she opens up to me ,tell me everything about her and her family, showing me family pictures.
    SO WITH THIS SHOULD I MOVE ON?

    • @solomonblack6344
      @solomonblack6344 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bro you might be in a friend zone. Sorry it hurts.

    • @UltimateBallaPOM
      @UltimateBallaPOM 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She told you to move on, what more proof do you want that she can't be with you?

    • @Arab_World_Scholarships
      @Arab_World_Scholarships 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@UltimateBallaPOM Maybe a move on official letter with a friendship certificate 😂😂😂😂

  • @eniolasamuel7754
    @eniolasamuel7754 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks so much for this video but I will love to ask for more clarification.
    Based on the examples you gave for sing number 4, plz I will love to ask what then can I do and how can I go about it cous that what exactly am facing.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi Sam, Let jump on a private call so i can elaborate further. Sign up as a VVIP here: www.patreon.com/JessicaOS

  • @roguegoldza8305
    @roguegoldza8305 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Only accept tests from God

  • @abrahamgpoquee5013
    @abrahamgpoquee5013 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey J, thanks so much. I’m Abraham l met a girl at my job site of recent and l tried to establish something with her (relationship) and she’s displaying some of these signs. But the frustrating part is she’s don’t reply to my messages until after 5 to 6 hours and we both work with the same company and same position but senior for me . What’s your advice? Please reply.

    • @olusholaige4851
      @olusholaige4851 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      11:02 don’t get into a relationship with anyone who works at same company or establishment with you. It’s a red flag to any type of romance or relationship you wanna have. Be wishes.

  • @ErickSande-hb1kd
    @ErickSande-hb1kd หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never chase a woman who is playing hard to get, by any stretch of the imagination.
    Be kind to yourself gentleman

    • @QuietStorrm860
      @QuietStorrm860 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ErickSande-hb1kd well, I definitely dont want a woman thats easy to get. Cant take that seriously.

    • @ErickSande-hb1kd
      @ErickSande-hb1kd หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@QuietStorrm860 it's not about easy or hard to get. It's more vibrational. It's about protecting my mental health.
      I used to believe that a woman must play hard to get when I was young.
      Ugandan women are approachable, they get married at a high rate. Kenya women are not very approachable and the rate of singleness isn't very amazing. Women in their late 20s and mid 30s still playing hard to get. Lol

  • @victorayodele2577
    @victorayodele2577 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yeah thats right

  • @jameskakungulu9122
    @jameskakungulu9122 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really don't have to fight that hard to win a woman.

  • @bernardthuo2455
    @bernardthuo2455 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If she play games she is not that interested in you. An interested woman can do anything to get you. Just walk away and never chase her,period!

  • @BillGriffins
    @BillGriffins 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    U have a very wonderful and sweet voice, i wish tried doing ASMR, i bet u guys will kill to see that.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      U reckon?

  • @robertcarney6259
    @robertcarney6259 หลายเดือนก่อน

    not a test kind of man, Man of my word yes, test me Na i’m good.

  • @ceptermicray
    @ceptermicray 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    HERE IS A TOPIC: MONEY

  • @jamesbarnes1427
    @jamesbarnes1427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What if she has all this! But want give u a answer about getting back with you? But only tells u she loves u and doesn't want anyone else but u. But says she's letting Jesus let her know? 🤔

    • @redpillknowledge1578
      @redpillknowledge1578 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Dude why would you want to get back with an ex? 🤨🤔 y'all dudes be funny 😅😅

    • @jamesbarnes1427
      @jamesbarnes1427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @redpillknowledge1578 not me my best friend! It was just a Question? My friend wanted a answer... lol

    • @jimifash
      @jimifash 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't go that far!
      At the very end, we're all humans.
      A TH-cam comments section is one of the wrong places to decide if two people who were previously in love should get back or not when you don't know the context of why a breakup happened in the first place; and for as fickle and irrational as humans can be.
      That's not how the human world works. Not ever, actually!

    • @UltimateBallaPOM
      @UltimateBallaPOM 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your friend should move.
      Right now their ex is benefiting having your friend around without any of the responsibility that comes with being in a relationship with them.
      They might genuinely be unavailable or, more than likely, exploring their options and treating your friend as a safety net.