Dad wonders how he can support 6 kids plus my mom. Genuine concern. 🥺

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  • @sherwood9917
    @sherwood9917 ปีที่แล้ว +1733

    My favorite part is when he still doesn't believe what Dan tells him, but gives up and says, "I hope you're right, Dan."

    • @susanlawless1168
      @susanlawless1168 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Wow!! He still worries about her! That's so amazing

    • @yavonne4
      @yavonne4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      He doesn't even believe Dan about the time. 😂

    • @robertwhite3992
      @robertwhite3992 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      ​@@susanlawless1168Just beautiful

    • @sallygard63
      @sallygard63 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I like the way he sort of gives in , looks at his elbow and then says oh alright … 😂😂❤
      Bless his cotton socks 😊

    • @anital5020
      @anital5020 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      I can't help wondering what he was like before Alzheimers. He seems so concerned about everyone.

  • @lincolnsghost9995
    @lincolnsghost9995 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +534

    Divorced for 45 years and still worrying about the ex's financial situation. What a sweetheart of a guy.💙

    • @eloinfinity1541
      @eloinfinity1541 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      This man beats my imagination. A genuinely concerned dad.

    • @Magdalin7
      @Magdalin7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Maybe he think it happen yesterday or he dont remember the divorce part, my father almost the same,

    • @gwendolynwilliams7177
      @gwendolynwilliams7177 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      He’s so caring about everybody. He loves to eat and that’s great.

    • @leandramelo1030
      @leandramelo1030 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I know he's a sweetheart ❤️ love Ed wonderful man xo

    • @sirena0772
      @sirena0772 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Seriously very rare to know men or women to care for their ex’s mother or father of their children financial situation

  • @billiefurlow1585
    @billiefurlow1585 ปีที่แล้ว +716

    I died when he said, "She'll be after me, too!"
    This man is such a caretaker and protector. He is a giant help.

    • @donnafontaine2799
      @donnafontaine2799 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I agree dads comment is very funny...😅 gotta love this dad

    • @suecrumley5925
      @suecrumley5925 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      That was hilarious, such a sweetheart, but telling it like he sees it😅

    • @genevereid
      @genevereid ปีที่แล้ว +11

      😂

    • @tammym7940
      @tammym7940 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Me too! That is a long out loud moment! Darling Ed is keeping it real😂😂

    • @ButterCereal14
      @ButterCereal14 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I totally understand this conversation and so many others. It is so hard to see our parents go through this.

  • @mv1991
    @mv1991 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This man is a gem.

  • @newsound1286
    @newsound1286 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    He's so concerned for everyone's wellbeing

  • @malikasampson7673
    @malikasampson7673 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    It's amazing that at his age he still wants to fulfill his purpose. I could tell he was a hard working family man.

    • @Heisablessing
      @Heisablessing ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree with you. That's love.

    • @RhinoXpress
      @RhinoXpress ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That's his conscience coming out. Dementia can effect a lot of things, but it can't effect your spirit. I have seen this with people with dementia. there motor skills maybe slipping, but inside they are still the same person that they always were and every so often you see glimpses of that come out through their conscience. His compassion and concern for his ex wife after being divorced for 45 years was a sub conscience reaction.

    • @lydiasimmons1141
      @lydiasimmons1141 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I hope young men of today watch and learn from him.

    • @susanabushaban2719
      @susanabushaban2719 ปีที่แล้ว

      My dad was like this always worried about money. I miss him so

    • @kawanawelborn5687
      @kawanawelborn5687 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @Dan and Dad......just wanted to say ....TY for sharing your stories with us !!!!! You both are two amazing men !!!! I love to see Dad happy and the way he cares for everyone is AWESOME !!! I LOVE TO SEE HIM SMILE !!!!! Im sooo glad i found your channel ... Much love and respect !!! ❤❤

  • @brendaturner5015
    @brendaturner5015 ปีที่แล้ว +864

    I love that he is still concerned about the mother of his children, he wants everyone to live and be okay

    • @courtneyawalsh
      @courtneyawalsh ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@yoraray9998well…if he did a very crappy thing then…that stinks…but he still cares. And he ended up alone (other than his kids) so karma made him a bachelor I guess. Still has a decent heart despite his younger transgressions.

    • @darrenross1807
      @darrenross1807 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thought they were divorced

    • @paradiseadams6320
      @paradiseadams6320 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@darrenross1807 - *They are divorced for 45 years plus. He married again, and had Josh, but she passed at some point in time, and he doesn't remember her. He only remembers Joanne, his first wife that gave him 5 children. Dan is his first baby, Josh is his 2nd baby by his second wife. You got it now?*

    • @darrenross1807
      @darrenross1807 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@paradiseadams6320 got it

    • @darrenross1807
      @darrenross1807 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@paradiseadams6320 don’t watch the channel all the time so thanks for letting me know

  • @purejoy1985
    @purejoy1985 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    This is beautiful to see. Separated 45 years and still concerned that she has what she needs. How could anybody not love him 🙏🏿🙌🏿❤️

    • @Tha-Goddess
      @Tha-Goddess ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She was the love of his life ❣️

    • @Duciousness
      @Duciousness ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@@Tha-GoddessEvidently not, if they're divorced.

    • @decker8202
      @decker8202 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@DuciousnessYou would think so, but it's not always that simple. It would be lovely if it were.

    • @CarlKoberlein
      @CarlKoberlein ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤Love You Dad💝,ABBA Father Bless You !Thank You Dan for Posting,You are a good Son 👍🏻🕊💖

    • @expo1706
      @expo1706 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why did they get divorced in the first place?

  • @Matt-yb1mz
    @Matt-yb1mz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    "I want her to have no worries" 😢❤

  • @albertaatta-mensah354
    @albertaatta-mensah354 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Ed must have genuinely loved his ex wife even after being divorced over 45 years ago! He still cares about her well-being...what a marvelous man!❤

    • @mattparker2323
      @mattparker2323 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Reminds me od my soon to be ex father in law. Divorced from my wifes mom for years but still cared about her and willing to provide for her right up to the day she died 3 years ago.

    • @ThePolypam
      @ThePolypam ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@mattparker2323That's what happened with my parents, too.

    • @bontlemotshwene1357
      @bontlemotshwene1357 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This really showed me that the heart loves who it loves even if the brain can get in the way and then u get other people u love there will always be that one true love.

    • @marymosher5066
      @marymosher5066 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing the humanity and love it is cherished!

  • @SkyyNurse
    @SkyyNurse ปีที่แล้ว +462

    Ed’s love for Joanne moves me to tears ❤

    • @candyrae8059
      @candyrae8059 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I agree. Don’t it make you wonder why they divorced 45 years ago with how much he thinks about her and loves her?

    • @melissagonzalez4143
      @melissagonzalez4143 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I know I wonder why they divorced so long ago and they both stayed single ❤

    • @noushs8004
      @noushs8004 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Part of me thinks he doesn’t believe his ex is capable of taking care of herself 😅

    • @asmith8973
      @asmith8973 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      it's his first love, you never forget

    • @khokonmimikhan2658
      @khokonmimikhan2658 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@candyrae8059The ego didn’t match.

  • @verarivadeneira5275
    @verarivadeneira5275 ปีที่แล้ว +669

    “I want Joanne to be comfortable too “😢😢 oh man that got me!! He’s responsible and caring. 😢😢

    • @zv7577
      @zv7577 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I wonder what happened between them to divorce

    • @shirleyevans5457
      @shirleyevans5457 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂🎉😢​@@zv7577

    • @mls617983
      @mls617983 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@zv7577 Yes, I've wondered the same thing too. Another commenter said neither remarried.

    • @lindagail4355
      @lindagail4355 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@zv7577 I'm hoping a tell all book once the parents have both passed away. No hurt feelings you know😢😢😢

    • @gwendolynwilliams7177
      @gwendolynwilliams7177 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Oh my God, how does it feel to have someone to care about you like he cares about his wife. This man is so genuine in caring about his entire family no matter what the situation is. It gives me hope. This is how men used to care of their families. Some still do and I’m happy for them. His family loves him and he loves them. 🙏🏾☮️❤

  • @tayzonday
    @tayzonday ปีที่แล้ว +762

    Shout out to everybody on an elder care journey ✊ Thanks for sharing! 🙏

    • @Blessedone328
      @Blessedone328 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Been there for my dad, kept him during hospice in my home, and my mom until I passed out caring for her while working full time and having my own medical issues. They were married for 63 years. It’s a hard journey. My daughter told me my family wondered how long I thought I could handle the stress caring for them alone. Everything the Salingers experience, I can testify as a witness 1000%. Hats off to the children.

    • @ellendelossantos2623
      @ellendelossantos2623 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Love you grandpa❤

    • @DAMOUSE1985
      @DAMOUSE1985 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you because lord knows it’s not easy…. Been taking care of my mom for the last 10 years as she ages and become more medically complexed.

    • @DAMOUSE1985
      @DAMOUSE1985 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      “ I know she’ll be coming after me for money too” 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @firstlast476
      @firstlast476 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ChOcLaTe rAiNnNnnnNnNnnn 🎶 🎵

  • @arlainangel2882
    @arlainangel2882 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Dad have a generous heart. That's why you inherit that good heart Atty. Dan. 🙏🙏🍀

  • @susanagutierrez5925
    @susanagutierrez5925 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Such a decent, caring, and responsible man. Reminds me of my grandpa. ❤

  • @ededel4838
    @ededel4838 ปีที่แล้ว +299

    He's a provider to the core. We need more like him

  • @Jen195152
    @Jen195152 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    I’ve said it before, dementia can’t rob anything from your true soul!! His love and concern can’t be taken away!! What a precious,precious man!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @LDR411
      @LDR411 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for this reminder. It is so true of my dad with Alzheimer’s.

  • @justmyopinion2
    @justmyopinion2 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    The older generation had such a different sense of priorities and care when it came to family. Ed is such a decent and loving man, family is first with him.

    • @juliedsilva6626
      @juliedsilva6626 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yep not concerned about how many LIKES they can get, having real priorities...

    • @justmyopinion2
      @justmyopinion2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juliedsilva6626, times have changed...

    • @athomewithrobin292
      @athomewithrobin292 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

    • @chimwemwechiundira6002
      @chimwemwechiundira6002 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very much true

    • @bb7503
      @bb7503 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes they were providers.,protectors and hero's

  • @Green-lj8qj
    @Green-lj8qj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

    I wish every dad has a son like him❤
    BRAVO SON.

    • @hmcconomy
      @hmcconomy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes

  • @EljinRIP
    @EljinRIP 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    What an absolute gentleman.

  • @ericg3551
    @ericg3551 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    He's a Man who still wants responsibilities...what a GREAT MAN ❤

    • @Engineer_Ian
      @Engineer_Ian ปีที่แล้ว +7

      In our generation deadbeat dads all over

    • @lucyl3084
      @lucyl3084 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      What a beautiful, caring soul. Thank you for sharing your dad with the world.

    • @margarethmziray635
      @margarethmziray635 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Engineer_Ianwas looking for this comment 😅

  • @patriciasamo3364
    @patriciasamo3364 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    Who else prays to find a man as amazing as grandpa to have a family with? He is such an amazing man.
    Dan, thanks for sharing your dad with us!

    • @ExtraordinaryResearch21
      @ExtraordinaryResearch21 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Goodmorning, I absolutely 💯agree with you wholeheartedly. I love💛💚💙💜 grandpa🙏 ✝️

    • @kdouces4564
      @kdouces4564 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes. Everyone should have a husband, dad or grampa like him. 💙

    • @babyboasty6033
      @babyboasty6033 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me ❤

    • @yardleyj9391
      @yardleyj9391 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dan is pretty amazing too.

    • @sandyfinkelson2028
      @sandyfinkelson2028 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yardleyj9391absolutely!

  • @taylorromero3756
    @taylorromero3756 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    Hi Dan, When you said, "You have no idea how much you are helping right now. You are a giant help, Dad." it really struck me. I've been watching your journey and that statement could not be more true. Witnessing Grandpa and your family has made me laugh, cry, and think about what it means to be a family and cherish those around us. Thank you for sharing your life with us

    • @deadlyqueens
      @deadlyqueens ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I could not have said it better ♥️✌🏽

    • @Annientalu
      @Annientalu ปีที่แล้ว

      Dad s you tube views generating moneys. Is this not a financial abuse as dad has not have capacity to make wise decisions due to his illness. And his behaviour always shows that he is not happy living there. He wants his house. Car ,he needs to be in control

    • @mayavaughan7015
      @mayavaughan7015 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Annientalu he may not monetized thru TH-cam but he does have merchandise. How is it abuse?

  • @erinpennington9716
    @erinpennington9716 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Bless his heart. What a caring, loving soul. That is wonderful.

  • @Dee-Dee4959
    @Dee-Dee4959 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Listening to how Dad has raised such an amazingly grateful and caring son is amazing. Thank-you Dan.

  • @mariabrewer5504
    @mariabrewer5504 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Dan, this is what a Real Man looks like. Forever a Provider and Protector! ❤️

  • @aliciapalm1603
    @aliciapalm1603 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I moved to tears every time I see him worried about his ex-wife. He must have really loved her

  • @hts1443
    @hts1443 ปีที่แล้ว +414

    Your Dad is such a respectful man. His concern about your mom even though they've been divorced for decades is admirable. I definitely get a sense of the man he's been over the years ❤

    • @kanchr7537
      @kanchr7537 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I know lot of things have to go well for the couple to stay together. But , I can't stop wondering why they were divorced. :)

    • @badjuju2612
      @badjuju2612 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@kanchr7537 life happens. Sometimes its best to move on regardless if you still love someone.

    • @ryans9029
      @ryans9029 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's DEMENTIA... it has zero reflection of his personality before the disease.. personality change and irrational worry are Hallmark symptoms of DEMENTIA

    • @deadlyqueens
      @deadlyqueens ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely.. I wish my ex husband was half the man Ed is

  • @Donna-w4f
    @Donna-w4f 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He is always worried about his family. He may repeat, but he holds a conversation. I love him!😊

  • @CaliMishell
    @CaliMishell 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    His love for your Mom is so evident. He’s a good soul.

  • @305Alligator
    @305Alligator ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Even though he has dementia, his true character shines through. Grampa is always concerned about paying his bills and how he is going to help his family. He was brought up right, and he did the same for his children. He never says, who's going to give me money, who's going to pay my bills, who's going to take care of me and my family. We could all learn from this man, he obviously believed in taking care of his own, not begging for handouts.

  • @sowut68
    @sowut68 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    Dan is just so patient and kind even when he's repeated the same thing to him a million times he still answers him and tries to comfort him. And his dad is so sweet and loves his family so much.... Even his ex wife! What a sweetheart.

    • @kylebeverley517
      @kylebeverley517 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you ever need a good man like that I'm rite here 😊

    • @sowut68
      @sowut68 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kylebeverley517 lol I got a good man like that but good to know! 😛

  • @nancyhowell7735
    @nancyhowell7735 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    My husband’s dementia appeared about 2 years ago which necessitated him giving up on practicing medicine. It’s been a challenging time for both of us. I’m trying to learn from Dan (my husband’s name, too) about dealing with this terrible condition and what it does to the person you love. I’m not very patient and Dan’s treatment of Ed is something I strive to emulate.
    Thanks, Dan, for teaching me about patience. I only hope I do half as well as you.

    • @marymahar8446
      @marymahar8446 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Good Luck to you and your husband. ❤

    • @tabitharay3076
      @tabitharay3076 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Hang in there!! No one is perfect! I'm sure you're doing a fine job! You're there & trying!! Please don't be hard on yourself. God bless! 💜

    • @terrybahnsen1187
      @terrybahnsen1187 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nancy you can do this. It's hard to watch your loved one struggle with dementia. You need to be sure to take time out for yourself also. The fact your husband has someone that loves him caring for him already puts him in a very blessed place.

    • @dharris9127
      @dharris9127 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Dan is doing great but even he and Danielle mention that they were not as patient in early videos. It took time. They also have a village of RESPONSIBLE family adults to care for Ed TOGETHER. So, if you’re the primary 24/7 caregiver, you need support because elder care is hard. Keep in mind your patience would grow too if America was watching 😉

    • @grandma460
      @grandma460 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maybe join a support group. Most communities have. And I’m sorry, this must be so hard/so sad. Sending 💜

  • @kellecetraro4807
    @kellecetraro4807 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    That's one of the greatest conversations I've ever seen or heard between a kid and his pops. Thank you for sharing.

  • @IreneMitchell-c3x
    @IreneMitchell-c3x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Bless his heart...such a CARING..MAN..
    ❤❤❤

  • @msann5044
    @msann5044 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    Your Dad is an amazing, kind-hearted person. His love for his family is unconditional ❤️.

  • @jennyjenny4501
    @jennyjenny4501 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    I hope Grandpa realizes how much he means to all of us out here watching your TH-cam channel. I wish I could give him a hug!

    • @yavonne4
      @yavonne4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me too.

    • @chasb7771
      @chasb7771 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree 💯

  • @leesashriber5097
    @leesashriber5097 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    No matter the conversation, Grandpa Ed sees the good in people. Humanity can learn a lot thru his kindness. 🙏❤️🙏

  • @SuzyQ420
    @SuzyQ420 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    He's always so concerned that everyone is comfortable and safe.

  • @jodistarr89
    @jodistarr89 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    His parents did a great job!!! This man is just the absolute best !!!

  • @careycadogan8040
    @careycadogan8040 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You can clearly see this man is used to take care of his family & he lives to do it

  • @angelaheras5466
    @angelaheras5466 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Your dad is an extraordinary gentleman and so are you, Dan.

  • @katharineamin6066
    @katharineamin6066 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    He is such an amazing and loving man. ‘I want her to be safe and happy- I want her to be without worries’. ♥️

  • @jwwi3255
    @jwwi3255 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    What a good man, he is ! He still worries about his children and his wife too. Very responsible man he is! ❤

  • @lindylou2k3
    @lindylou2k3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That man’s heart is made of gold , Dr Elinger , we all Love you ❤ from Motherwell Scotland.. xxxx

  • @deesing7422
    @deesing7422 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    He is generation that is gone by when people were genuinely concerned, thoughtful and caring . So heartwarming to see .

  • @pbj0815
    @pbj0815 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    “She’ll be after me for some money too” I chuckled with you Dan 😂

    • @Lala97
      @Lala97 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

  • @americanmeteoritefan9670
    @americanmeteoritefan9670 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    He is such a lovely person to be worried about Joanne worrying about money after all these years ❤️.
    And the fact that he's showing us what it is to age gracefully with the loving care of a wonderful family.
    You're a great example to us all Salingers. 🥰

  • @cheribeasley149
    @cheribeasley149 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The most warming part of your videos.... is knowing that this is who he is in the raw. The care he shows for his family, even divorced is wonderful. He wants every one to be ok... its beautiful.

    • @gwendolynwilliams7177
      @gwendolynwilliams7177 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cheribeasley149
      So beautiful. If I want to smile I listen to him. What a sweetheart.

  • @Loveontop333
    @Loveontop333 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A real Man is instinctively a provider! He is he is pure masculine energy

  • @judywiggins5092
    @judywiggins5092 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Best dad ever. You explain everything so calmly. And so often. Dan, I appreciate you and Danielle as well. And Mark. "A GIANT HELP", like you said.

  • @elizabethspoon2606
    @elizabethspoon2606 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    He loves Joanne. I hope she knows how much he worries and cares about her. 💜 I love his facial expressions when Dan is telling him not to worry. Cracks me up. He looks like he’s being sold a used car.

    • @basbleupeaunoire
      @basbleupeaunoire ปีที่แล้ว +1

      IIRC, they've socialized together. She probably knows.

  • @cynthiasuzanne
    @cynthiasuzanne ปีที่แล้ว +30

    His concern about his former wife after 45 years divorced is remarkable! God bless him

  • @MarthaCruz-iu4sr
    @MarthaCruz-iu4sr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    What a sweet caring man! Dan is a wonderful patient son! Out of all the videos I've seen this is my favorite.

  • @elieenm4391
    @elieenm4391 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He has a wonderful son and has patience Bless his heart it's not easy getting old

  • @rosemeredith9660
    @rosemeredith9660 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    What a wonderful responsible man. There aren’t good men like him anymore. Even at his age, he wants to contribute. He is also a great communicator. Thank you Dan for talking with him and being patient with him. He was patient with you when you were a baby too. ❤️

    • @ZFern9390
      @ZFern9390 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is a indeed a dying breed. My dad passed healthy in his sleep at 86 and I would have loved to have him around longer because growing up he was a workaholic and not present but I thought when he got way up in age I'd have that window for his presence but he passed gently in his sleep and left this still as a stranger to me. He was a sweet spirited man though.

  • @marycreaney173
    @marycreaney173 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Ed remains concerned about Joanne and how she will manage financially. Despite his dementia he cares about his family. He is a wonderful person 😊 and his family are so good to Ed. ❤❤

  • @LOTW1
    @LOTW1 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    It just shows the kind of man he was before his mind was affected by dementia. In his struggle he still remembers the responsibilities he used to have and wants to fulfill them. A true man of honor.

    • @hopediggs1508
      @hopediggs1508 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES! LOVE HIM! ❤❤❤

    • @Godschild49
      @Godschild49 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Men like him don’t exist anymore ❤

    • @greaterishe7197
      @greaterishe7197 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @jessicamorales2555
    @jessicamorales2555 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pop is so sweet. Concerned about Joanne 😊

  • @margaretmunce1501
    @margaretmunce1501 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He’s so caring, even though he’s been divorced for almost 1/2 his life, he still wants to make sure your mom is okay, Dan.
    I love that. ❤❤🇦🇺

  • @sasharemez7373
    @sasharemez7373 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    5 kids, she was divorced, got a degree after divorce and has a nice retirement. Your mom is a Wonder Woman!!!

  • @tiastarr3757
    @tiastarr3757 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I love when Mr. Ed says I can't pay mine and her bills too. A wonderful soul 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛

  • @atepatty6216
    @atepatty6216 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    My sister who is a doctor once told me that when we get old, our hidden thoughts will be the once that we will mostly talk about. I admire your father for being such a gentle and kind soul. I know nobody is perfect and he might have made mistakes here and there, but now that he is this age, it is very evident that his love for his family including his ex-wife is ginormous. Amazing man. Amazing.

  • @alanlucas7736
    @alanlucas7736 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What a special human being Dr Salinger is. Watching his interactions with Dan always bring a smile to my face. Thank god Dementia hasn’t robbed him of his true character.

  • @Nightwatch-MGA
    @Nightwatch-MGA 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He's such a wonderful and caring man. GOD bless him.

  • @denisemmunger9437
    @denisemmunger9437 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Grandpa Ed is always worrying about everyone else but himself. Such a good heart. Gotta love him !

  • @MitchelynErag
    @MitchelynErag ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I salute the son for his patience. It's great that he takes care his father

  • @leleg3046
    @leleg3046 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Your dad heart is pure as Gold. He touches my heart and so kind🙂

  • @marinelistory
    @marinelistory 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He’s really concerned. 🥹
    God Bless you and your family ❤️

  • @Ranbowriter
    @Ranbowriter 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He wants her to be safe and happy. My heart ❤

  • @Solitude1990
    @Solitude1990 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I wish more men had your dad as a role model and hopefully through these videos you'll help some of the younger generation of men understand what it means to be a man. Your dad feeling responsibility towards your mother even after he understands they are no longer together, is an old feeling that is being relived because the concept of time is escaping him. It's not about how he feels now, it's about the fact that these feelings now are a clear mirror of feelings he has had his entire life and are more unfiltered now. I've worked with dementia patients and they're not all this kind. You get to see who the person truly is deep down inside, once their mind starts to be stripped down; and your dad's mind was and still is a beautiful one. May he continue to enjoy the rest of his days with family as he deserves to

    • @kundakaps
      @kundakaps ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What it means to be a man 😂

    • @jacquelinedawkins6956
      @jacquelinedawkins6956 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen, he is truly a good man, i wish there are still many more good gentlemen like him.

    • @venlafaxinedomperidone8377
      @venlafaxinedomperidone8377 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well men will be men when women start acting like women.

  • @farihas2908
    @farihas2908 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Here I'm dealing with an ex who is fighting hard not to support his young kids while this frail man is still worried. His gold heart always shines amidst his disease.

    • @tabitharay3076
      @tabitharay3076 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry you're going through that!

  • @cherialwayslearning4646
    @cherialwayslearning4646 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He still loves your mom, ❤ adorable.

    • @personalcheeses8073
      @personalcheeses8073 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He divorced her and married someone else, Josh’s mother. She died.

  • @jennyrenaud2411
    @jennyrenaud2411 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You have the patience of a saint. You're truly an amazing human being 😊

  • @Elizabethselby
    @Elizabethselby 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Every woman needs a man like this. Someone who worries even after they've divorced.

  • @sheliasmith233
    @sheliasmith233 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    He raised his children to be just like him. This shows he’s been a perfect parent!!!

  • @katrinakacey5935
    @katrinakacey5935 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I LOVE THIS GUY, AND I DON'T EVEN KNOW HIM❣

  • @yulandanchege4718
    @yulandanchege4718 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Dad still LOVES Mom soooo much! He enjoys talking with Dan! Dan, Thank You for loving and taking care of your Dad the way you do and for sharing him with the world! 🥰

  • @joanjohnson986
    @joanjohnson986 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You can see this man was a Real Good Dad Bless Him

  • @juliettedorsette7048
    @juliettedorsette7048 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He just cracks me up when he says I hope you are right Dan

  • @auroramabalot2044
    @auroramabalot2044 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sir even the dictor is already 91 yrs old, I like the way he sits, he crossed his legs elegantly. Maybe he is a very successful and a very good. doctor during his time.

  • @pamela-gw7xo
    @pamela-gw7xo ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Dan...I'm hungry!! 😂 He is such a gem!! Dan... Thank you for being so patient with your dad!! No doubt it is difficult, but you are doing such a great job of helping your dad feel comfortable and loved !! ❤ 😢 ❤ May God Bless you all ! 🙏

  • @Blaquediamond87
    @Blaquediamond87 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I love you guys, dad is the clear definition of a real man. Heart made of gold.❤

  • @MArie-qj1zz
    @MArie-qj1zz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love Ed's t-shirt!!! Cool. Such a sweet elderly dad. So concerned and worried about his kids and JoAnn. Love these videos! Cherish your time with him Dan and family.

  • @pamelacook7334
    @pamelacook7334 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your father is such a sweet and kind man. I wish I could give him a big hug. He always worries about everyone else. Thank you for being such a wonderful son Dan. May God bless you all.

  • @vandeolkon
    @vandeolkon ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Joann sounds amazing. 5 kids and going back to school! Wow!

  • @thuylan23n5
    @thuylan23n5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I love this grandpa, he's always thinking about his family and concerns about everyone. He's an amazing person. Love you Grandpa and keep Thriving ❤ ❤❤

  • @ady2962
    @ady2962 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I smile every time I watch your dad. I hope other people discover your channel to make them smile as much as I do 😊.

  • @lgmtmeri
    @lgmtmeri 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He cates so much of his family. He remembers that sweet.

  • @kimscioloro
    @kimscioloro 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dan, you have the patience of a hundred saints, bless you.

  • @cecillem.v.5449
    @cecillem.v.5449 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Grandpa really has a good heart 😊🥰❤

  • @beverlypearson5332
    @beverlypearson5332 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Your Dad is so sweet and thoughtful, Dan. And you’ve got the patience of a saint.

  • @gracetelfer3588
    @gracetelfer3588 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Dan, your kindness and patience with your Dad is commendable. ❤

  • @missebonytv
    @missebonytv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This melts my ❤heart

  • @Anibor_Good_Enough_Homestead
    @Anibor_Good_Enough_Homestead 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Awe, Ed is so sweet to still care about how your mom is doing; very respectful! I want to give him a huge hug. 🫂

  • @doozowings4672
    @doozowings4672 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    When I see videos like this, it is easy for me to see where Dan got his big heart from … I’m so happy for the both of you ..

  • @coracee7653
    @coracee7653 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What a giant of a man , even with dementia. ❤

  • @Adefortnite
    @Adefortnite ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is gold !! I like when he says “ pardon me “

    • @Irene15679
      @Irene15679 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep! And then he says. “WHAT”❤❤😂😂

  • @ThomasThomas-ql9rt
    @ThomasThomas-ql9rt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    His adorable ☺️ what a lovely human being dementia has not changed his amazing and truly kind character. Wonderful kids taking care of dad beautiful family.
    God bless!

  • @thurmancoker8818
    @thurmancoker8818 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My Dad was 67 when he died ,enjoy the time he's here.God Bless You!😊