@@speedfreak8200 You obviously missed the Evening live event recently where Dan and Danielle told Ed that they love him. Eds reaction was, like "Yeah, whatever. " The men of Eds generation didn't talk about such things.
Dan has actually taught many people watch his videos how to deal with parents with dementia. It's an education channel in every sense. I have learnt a lot from him. Thanks Dan.
I agree with everything but splitting him between 2 homes. That is not stable for his memory loss and escaltes confusion for dementia Alzheimers person.
It's probably the only way to do it and stay sane . Otherwise they would put him in a home . He hired them both a few years ago when his dementia first started .
Goodmorning Uppityupshaw, I can't help but to notice how Dan manage to throw in some brownie points for himself, but Grandpa is so wise and no fooling him even with Dementia 😅😂 Last Saturday it was Danielle with the heart❤ tattoo on her ring finger when Grandpa asked to see her ring as proof she is married to Dan and he still walked away unconvinced that she wasn't married 😂😅 now Dan is trying to convince Grandpa he is the favorite son. Grandpa have too many children to fall for that trap Daniel 😂🤣
It’s heartbreaking to see this intelligent man who was once a Doctor and performed surgeries is now a man who suffers from memory loss and gets confused as to his surroundings. Dementia is a terrible thing.
I would be terrified. Luckily, I think there’s just enough familiarity with his family and surroundings that takes the edge off the nose we’re connecting somehow.
My mom was in a home at 91,in diapers,with diebetes,I would answer her questions over and over but somehow she never forgot who I was,she passed at 93 peacefully and very natural,but I got to go home to give me a break
Me too, gotta love me some Grandpa Ed, Dan, and Danielle what's there not to love? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, ♥ God is good! My 🙏 🤗 😘 ☺ for this family. May God bless you also and wishing you many blessings ,if you believe keep your faith because this day in which we live we just gotta stick together and believe all things are possible thru Jesus, take care and be safe, ♥
I'm a nurse, coming up on 45 years. Dementia and Alzheimers are extremely difficult diseases - for the individual and for those that love them. There may come a time when he doesn't remember you. I'm sure that you have talked to many people about this disease. God bless you
Cap'n Crunch with crunch berries not helping Ed's cause. The brain survives on fat not sugary carbs. Ed could show the world what a proper diet can do at age 91. Fat & protein and no simple carbs may improve Ed's life and make things easier and D & D.
@@laketahoe2241 Is this a joke? First it's so random and unrelated to anything in the video. Importantly, don't spread lies. The brain eats glucose under normal circumstances. When not available it does ketone bodies.
@@kundakapsthe other nurse is correct about sugar bad for dementia. I’ve been a nurse for 52 yrs and a diet of fats and proteins much better and less inflammatory for anyone. I was a supervisor on a dementia unit and learned a lot.
I worked my whole nursing career in nursing homes, specifically the memory loss unit. Dan, you and your family are doing an AMAZING JOB with your Dad!!! If anyone says any different, I challenge them to work in a memory care unit for ONE DAY!!! Again, you're doing an AWESOME JOB !!!
Hi from Scotland 🏴 I worked in care homes most of my working life this is so hard for the people closest to the dementia sufferer. They call it the “ LONG GOODBYE” as they forget you more and more as time goes on. It’s so sad to see people who were once respected Drs, Teachers, Pharmacists, Surgeons, Engineers etc unable to recognise their own children. May God bless all those who look after their declining loved ones there’s a special place in heaven for them. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Dan, the videos you make could be used as teaching tools for caregivers. My mom had dementia and I was blessed that as the disease progressed, she became sweeter and sweeter. But the patience required to keep reassuring her that everything was okay was unending. You, sweet son, truly are the best son! Diane in NC
Dad is awesome...in spite of memory loss..he is still very sober minded .i know 91 year olds with no dementia who curse and call people names the whole day.
😅That shake of his head when you say that you are his "favorite." You are doing your best with Grandpa Ed. That darn confusion and forgetfulness from alzheimer's sucks. He's been great at folding socks. Blessings always.
As a caregiver to a 97 year old with memory issues I can relate to Dan here. He is being so patient but I’m sure he could use an extra hour, I know I usually can lol. The lady I care for is always ready to hop up like she has to be somewhere, she can run circles around me ❤
Trying to get him back to bed is not going to happen. ❤. My husband got up every morning at 4:00 am except for the morning he passed away. Now I sleep until I feel like getting up. I dreamt of him last night. It was a nice visit, I still feel his presence in the house, even though I know he is no longer here he will be in my heart until I pass. It's really a hard job taking care of a family member who doesn't even remember you😢. Dan you and Mark have a heart of gold.
He takes it so well. After coming home after a brain aneurysm rupture and 19day coma I would go through sudden memory loss. I wouldn't know where I was or where I was going. It was terrify for me. Fear would grip me instantly. To see him smile in the middle of it all makes me want to cry. Tears of joy. May GOD bless him with that throughout.
I went thru this with my dad. He would wake up at 2AM to try get the newspaper outside in the snow! Of course it hadnt arrived yet. I had to start using a bed alarm bc he would jettison out of bed every hour and i had to make sure he didnt fall. He had sundowners. My dad thought i was his mother. I was getting no sleep. He passed away and when the funeral home came, they picked him up and that crazy bed alarm went off one last time. Ultimately, It was a relief for me but I think also for his confused state of being. I think my dad would have been frightened to be in a nursing hime setting rather than home. Hospice was beyond words helpful.
Love to Grandpa Ed ❤. Feeling I need to share. I'm not trying to trigger anyone ❤. My mum was diagnosed in July in 2007 with Alzheimer's. I live 370 miles away, we travelled often. Seeing a rapid difference! Drove during the night to be there new year. ( I was going through some stuff). Even though she was more confused, She knew there's was something wrong ! 2 weeks later, she deteriorated, hospital for weeks. They wanted to put her in a home on palliative care! Not in hells chance. She was stubborn. A strong woman. She hardly knew any of us. During the time we had with her, we all laughed, oh my goodness, we cried. We would get on at her to bring her back, just for a few seconds. She passed in April 2009. Nothing was conventional. I won't go into details. I just wanted to share this. The first time I have ❤. Enjoy every minute with your parents ❤
Thank you for sharing your story. Sorry you don’t have your mom anymore. You have your memories, keep them in your heart. m.th-cam.com/video/AhOlck6wyQQ/w-d-xo.html
Your mom, like so many of us, including Dr. Ed, cherished her independence. It's difficult to allow someone else to take control of our lives, but it's good to have family to know when to step in. Hoping good memories sustain you ❤
Dr Ed. Is amazing, as is his family. I've watched for so long But, on this video, I got an overwhelming feeling to share! My adrenaline was going crazy with emotions. My mum was July 2007 until April 2008. Not 2009. Short time. I've never grieved for her. I just wanted/ needed to share. Just to say, love your parents. Thank you so much for replying. Godbless you and your family ❤
❤ I love grandpa “well it’s not really early. I’ll stay up and talk to you!” Dad you just have memory lost- I know that I got something! 😂😅❤❤😊😊 gotta ❤ him.
I’m 81 and so worried about this! He is wonderful and your family is so kind to him. You are blessed with patience and I think that you are his favorite son. We can’t escape the aging process but only hope that it goes smoothly. ❤
Don’t worry; my neighbor is 93 and drives & travels a lot. He is as sharp as a tack & looks like 70. Just eat antioxidants & stay away from processed foods
Dan and Daniel, I love your interactions with Dad. He is always polite to you both. I love how he always says “ I’M 91!” With such surprise on every video. Thank you for sharing your journey. My husband is 20 years older than me and he has similar challenges. You help me more than you know!
Your patience is heartwarming... And Grandpa was so cool even in his confusion... I loge how he sat back and said "well take a seat and let's talk.." 😂❤
Amazing. He has healthy reasoning, just memory loss. You are great in helping him cope with it. Pushing the agenda of “the best son” is humorous, yet Mr. Ed never bites the hook.
Bless him , and you . Can’t imagine how much it’s so hard for him to not know where he is and who he lives with . Must also be upsetting to hear him say who are you . Sending prayers to all of you . ❤
Dear Dan and family...thank you so much for these updates. I am taking care of my Dad who has dementia. Your updates help me stay encouraged. Prayers for you all 🙏💗
Good morning Dan, good morning Pop. You're a great son Dan. Having gone thru this with my mother-in-law and some brothers, I appreciate how you and Danielle are sharing this journey. As this progresses you will see his behaviors/routines change. It will more than likely require a change of routine for you, Danielle, and Mark. It is tough, however when his story ends y'all will be so happy that you took care of him......and such wonderful memories y'all will have from documenting these videos. High five to you guys!❤🙋♀️
The longer y'all talked, the more clear he got. Ed looked very confused, almost afraid. It reminds me so much of my dad. It's so sad. But he is so blessed to have Mark, Danielle and of course you, his favorite son!!😊
Pop looks down at his socks and Dan says “You’ve got avocado socks on”! 😂😅. Adorable as all get out to mention his cool socks !!!!!! 🥑😂👍. You’re great with Pop !! May God Bless you for the incredible patience you hang on to , you’re teaching us so much and setting a wonderful healthy example to us all who may have to Face one day what you do ! 🙏
Grandad ED my weekly catch up .this beautiful family . has given me .hope and strength to carry on .with my mother who was never the easiest person to get along with .thank you for this it gives people hope .who are struggling
My grandmother had Alzheimer’s. It’s a terrible disease, but she was still amazingly sharp and intelligent until she couldn’t speak anymore. The last stages are so heartbreaking. I love watching these videos. Everything is so relatable. Awesome job Dan! We all love Grandpa! ❤
I admire the patience and the kindness Dan shows to his father. In fact, the entire family!! The circle of questions and answers has to be frustrating, but Dan treats it with dignity and as if it were the first time his father asked, even if it's the 5th! The entire family is amazing ... most people are pushed into care facilities where they don't have ANY familiarity with people nor surroundings, which can be terrifying for them with dementia or Alzheimer's. God bless you and your entire family. It's such a great teaching channel.
Dan, the kindness that you share with your dad puts a lump in my throat. He and your mom obviously raised their children well. Sending you much comfort, strength and peace as you navigate this difficult but loving journey.💖
At least he's plesent in his confusion, I know people who get angry and rude. Dan God bless you I know it takes a lot of patience to answer the same questions so many times in a day even with the ones we love.
You're a Great Son Dan to your dad, Dan, and doing a good job helping ED in my years of Geriatrics Nursing, sometimes Dementia can make them restless and cannot sleep.❤
I remember when my mom would want to get up at 4 am and have long talks. Now that she is gone, I would give my right arm for her to do that. Growing old sucks. Growing old with dementia is harder. You are so patient with your dad. Keep your spirit up.
I have an uncle who is starting to get dementia and he's not going to be as easy to help as Ed (not saying Ed is all that easy) just because he's a grouchy old mean fart. Ed is such a sweet heart he lifts me up every morning without even trying. That's why we love him.❤😊❤
I absolutely love the teasing! Dad's favorite son. It is also clear that it is not fake teasing, not just for show, but true love for your father, showing in your voice.
A fine example of a patient son. It's amazing the 24hr care that the family give. Role reversal. A father who brought up his family well. To have to remind his dad who he is with gentle humour is phenomenal. ❤❤❤
Dan, I am so glad you're teaching everyone who doesn't know someone with this disease how difficult it can be for the one suffering from it and the ones who love the one suffering from it. Your patience is EVERYTHING. It is a breath of fresh air to see how loving and kind you are to him as in less than 2 minutes later, he will have forgotten everything that was said, and then we start all over again. Never is there anger or hostility in your voice about it because it's just what's happening. You just roll with the punches and keep going like any great fighter does. There is one thing I know for sure... yes you are the best son any father would want just as much as we love pops, we love and appreciate you and everything your doing to bring awareness to this disease and how we as the family need to treat the ones suffering from it. As a woman who watched both of my grandparents succumb to this horrible disease I THANK YOU DAN! ❤ ❤ ❤
I literally look forward to those daily clips. My Dad is also starting to loose his memory and those clips have helped me understand a whole lot ... Keep it up Dan!!! I love it when Dad says "I'am 91?? lol
Dan. You are an absolute angel. Like another commenter said, you have taught me to have so much more patience and grace with my grandmother who I caretake for. I was already pretty patient with her, but I knew I could be better. I have a hard time dealing with the asking of the same question over and over and over. And the second you answer it, they ask again. Iwould sometimes catch myself getting frustrated. And at some of my lower moments, I have snapped a few times. Please don't attack me, guys. I'm just trying to be real and honest. But since I've started to watch you and Chris Punsalan's videos, I just about never snap. I get frustrated much less. And if i do start to get quite frustrated, i am able to hold it in until i am in a different room, so Gram doesn't see me visibly frustrated.
Dan, you’re an amazing son and caregiver. Great teacher! I’ve seen so many others with no patience and thank you for sharing this. You’re voted our favourite son on this channel!💗
Yes, it is heartbreaking! My dad is a pharmacist, raised a beautiful family all by himself and even provided for his extended family. But he doesn’t know anyone now. He’s just 83😢
You and your wife are great with your Dad Dan. Very patient, and that means so much! My Dad lived till he was 96. He was very hard of hearing, and I think he called me by my Mom's name, his sister's name, and my sister's name. But that was ok. I do that myself LOL. I think every parent does. We all learn valuable lessons from you, thank you!
I hate this disease. I went through this with my grandma and now my mom. It's so kind to attempt to reorient him. It must be so scary. It was the most difficult when my grandma became nonverbal and couldn't feed herself.
Day after day, hour after hour. You're so patient, Dan.
So true!
@PjDurkin-mf6vm I've been watching this channel for a while and have never heard the word ❤️ LOVE ☆ I know it exists, that's obvious
@@speedfreak8200 You obviously missed the Evening live event recently where Dan and Danielle told Ed that they love him. Eds reaction was, like "Yeah, whatever. " The men of Eds generation didn't talk about such things.
Oh I know Dan probably has his moments and he’s entitled. This disease is horrendous.
@@PjDurkin-mf6vmand off camera.
Dan has actually taught many people watch his videos how to deal with parents with dementia. It's an education channel in every sense. I have learnt a lot from him. Thanks Dan.
That is so true. I will definielty use some of his techniques when the time comes for my mother!
Me too.
Dan is just awesome 🙌
I agree with everything but splitting him between 2 homes. That is not stable for his memory loss and escaltes confusion for dementia Alzheimers person.
@@buffysummers74 Better than a nursing home. He with people who love him what better could ask for
It's probably the only way to do it and stay sane . Otherwise they would put him in a home . He hired them both a few years ago when his dementia first started .
Dan keeps trying to convince Ed he’s his favorite son but Ed never falls for it!🤣🤣🤣
I was typing the same thing! LOL!
Never! 😅
Goodmorning Uppityupshaw, I can't help but to notice how Dan manage to throw in some brownie points for himself, but Grandpa is so wise and no fooling him even with Dementia 😅😂 Last Saturday it was Danielle with the heart❤ tattoo on her ring finger when Grandpa asked to see her ring as proof she is married to Dan and he still walked away unconvinced that she wasn't married 😂😅 now Dan is trying to convince Grandpa he is the favorite son. Grandpa have too many children to fall for that trap Daniel 😂🤣
Lol😂 never!
Favorite son 🤣
It’s heartbreaking to see this intelligent man who was once a Doctor and performed surgeries is now a man who suffers from memory loss and gets confused as to his surroundings. Dementia is a terrible thing.
He shoukd be in a nursing home...itsbthe same routine every day he can't hear...hexl thinks it's 1983...not making fun but yhis us ridiloxus ...
He's was not A Surgeon he was A FootDoctor
@@norrisc7163Podiatrist do foot surgery, I am one of them, you can Google
Yes! So sad 😞
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I love how Dan went from sleepy and tired to joking and ready to dress and feed his dad ... RESPECT man ❤️
My thoughts also.
Ultimate Respect For Dan And The Salinger Family
Same here. God richly bless Dan and the family.❤🙇♀️
For sure
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Even with Dementia he's always positive, inquisitive and upbeat!
Love ya Grandpa Ed ❤ ✌🏿
Must be scary for grandpa at times.. God bless you Dan, so patient.. Definitely a best son.❤❤❤
I would be terrified. Luckily, I think there’s just enough familiarity with his family and surroundings that takes the edge off the nose we’re connecting somehow.
@@dsalnorcal1434 Oh for sure.. Have a wonderful weekend. 🌻
My mom was in a home at 91,in diapers,with diebetes,I would answer her questions over and over but somehow she never forgot who I was,she passed at 93 peacefully and very natural,but I got to go home to give me a break
When you have short term memory loss like this, it's frustrating, but then again, it's a blessing, because he doesn't remember.
@@dsalnorcal1434 It's very hard to be terrified, when you don't remember what you said 2 seconds ago.
I will never tire of hearing his amazement to hear he is 91!
He never knows how old he is but he always remembers he was born 1932😢❤
I’m 91?!?!? Nah I don’t believe it
Dan is such a gentle soul.... His LOVE for his father is very clear, I am addicted to watching Dan and his family.
We all addicted to grandpa show.
Yes he is told and he gets great delight in getting things from fans. This is educational for people
Does Grandpa take afternoon naps?
God bless the whole family 🙏🏽
Me too, gotta love me some Grandpa Ed, Dan, and Danielle what's there not to love? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, ♥ God is good! My 🙏 🤗 😘 ☺ for this family. May God bless you also and wishing you many blessings ,if you believe keep your faith because this day in which we live we just gotta stick together and believe all things are possible thru Jesus, take care and be safe, ♥
I love it when he says,"what the hell is going on". He is so sweet, God bless him.
Me too. He has a fighting spirit yet is very polite and worries for his family.
I say that all the time and my mind is perfectly intact.
Dan, you're still trying to get him to crown you the "best son" and Ed's traction control system works perfectly every time 😂
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I know Dan's just teasing paps but everytime he said 'im your favorite son' paps immediately got back his memory loss 😂😂
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I'm your favourite son..🤣 grandpa never said you're his favourite son but in his heart yes you are..i can tell..❤️
I'm a nurse, coming up on 45 years. Dementia and Alzheimers are extremely difficult diseases - for the individual and for those that love them. There may come a time when he doesn't remember you. I'm sure that you have talked to many people about this disease. God bless you
Cap'n Crunch with crunch berries not helping Ed's cause. The brain survives on fat not sugary carbs. Ed could show the world what a proper diet can do at age 91. Fat & protein and no simple carbs may improve Ed's life and make things easier and D & D.
@@laketahoe2241
Is this a joke?
First it's so random and unrelated to anything in the video.
Importantly, don't spread lies. The brain eats glucose under normal circumstances.
When not available it does ketone bodies.
@@laketahoe2241 Danielle has repeatedly said he only wants cereal for breakfast
I’m pretty sure he usually has Cheerios or special k with a banana when possible.. maybe the captain crunch is Andrew’s
@@kundakapsthe other nurse is correct about sugar bad for dementia. I’ve been a nurse for 52 yrs and a diet of fats and proteins much better and less inflammatory for anyone. I was a supervisor on a dementia unit and learned a lot.
Poor Grandpa, God bless his heart! ❤
He took care of you for years when you were young, and now you take care of him. He made you feel safe, and now you make him feel safe. Mad respect!
Pretty sure that was Joanne.
Grandpa always laughs. That's a good sign. He is the dearest man! ❤
He was obviously an early riser, bless him. Its an evil illness. Both my parents had it, your doing great looking after your father Dan. X
So real. This is so heartbreaking. Dan you are super patient with Dad. I know it's hard. God bless you. ❤
Love it when doc Ed says "I'm 91!".... so cute 🥰
He might have dementia, but Ed sure comes up with the greatest lines: “You’re asking somebody who doesn’t remember anything.”
😅 yes..I really chuckled at that one. He's a very funny man.❤
Don't mind him, he only can't remember anything whenever Dan ask him that very question, he's so lovely, I could watch him all day
I worked my whole nursing career in nursing homes, specifically the memory loss unit. Dan, you and your family are doing an AMAZING JOB with your Dad!!! If anyone says any different, I challenge them to work in a memory care unit for ONE DAY!!! Again, you're doing an AWESOME JOB !!!
I get so tickled at grandpa when Dan tells him he's 91, he's reaction always makes me laugh, I'm 91? Bless his heart .
Warm greetings to Grandpa and you and your family Dan. God bless you for your love and patience.
He's in good shape. He got up so easily from that chair when you said to him let's go get you dressed. Much ❤❤❤ from London
He wasn't going to let you go back to sleep. 😂😂. Great family. Very patient.
Hi from Scotland 🏴 I worked in care homes most of my working life this is so hard for the people closest to the dementia sufferer. They call it the “ LONG GOODBYE” as they forget you more and more as time goes on. It’s so sad to see people who were once respected Drs, Teachers, Pharmacists, Surgeons, Engineers etc unable to recognise their own children. May God bless all those who look after their declining loved ones there’s a special place in heaven for them. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Dan, the videos you make could be used as teaching tools for caregivers. My mom had dementia and I was blessed that as the disease progressed, she became sweeter and sweeter. But the patience required to keep reassuring her that everything was okay was unending. You, sweet son, truly are the best son! Diane in NC
“A little bird told me am your favorite son”. …😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love it
Dad is awesome...in spite of memory loss..he is still very sober minded .i know 91 year olds with no dementia who curse and call people names the whole day.
I love the excitement in his voice when he says, "I'm 91!" Really makes me smile 😃
😅That shake of his head when you say that you are his "favorite." You are doing your best with Grandpa Ed. That darn confusion and forgetfulness from alzheimer's sucks. He's been great at folding socks. Blessings always.
As a caregiver to a 97 year old with memory issues I can relate to Dan here. He is being so patient but I’m sure he could use an extra hour, I know I usually can lol. The lady I care for is always ready to hop up like she has to be somewhere, she can run circles around me ❤
Hi Grandpa and Dan!! Bless your hearts 💕 Dan... Grandpa is never gonna admit to a 'favorite' 😂 Nice try Dan!😅 Love you all!!❤
You and Pop have a great day! Be Well take care 🕊️
You're Grandpa Ed one of the Dearest Gentlemen I've ever seen and you're in your Safe Haven as I call it, sending you much ❤ today and everyday.
Pop still not giving in to you being the favorite son😂😂
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Trying to get him back to bed is not going to happen. ❤. My husband got up every morning at 4:00 am except for the morning he passed away. Now I sleep until I feel like getting up. I dreamt of him last night. It was a nice visit, I still feel his presence in the house, even though I know he is no longer here he will be in my heart until I pass. It's really a hard job taking care of a family member who doesn't even remember you😢. Dan you and Mark have a heart of gold.
Dan: "I'm your favorite son."
Grandpa:"If you say so."
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I love when you try to get him to say you're his favorite. Regardless of his state of mind, he knows better than to say THAT! 😆
He takes it so well. After coming home after a brain aneurysm rupture and 19day coma I would go through sudden memory loss. I wouldn't know where I was or where I was going. It was terrify for me. Fear would grip me instantly. To see him smile in the middle of it all makes me want to cry. Tears of joy. May GOD bless him with that throughout.
I went thru this with my dad. He would wake up at 2AM to try get the newspaper outside in the snow! Of course it hadnt arrived yet. I had to start using a bed alarm bc he would jettison out of bed every hour and i had to make sure he didnt fall. He had sundowners. My dad thought i was his mother. I was getting no sleep. He passed away and when the funeral home came, they picked him up and that crazy bed alarm went off one last time. Ultimately, It was a relief for me but I think also for his confused state of being. I think my dad would have been frightened to be in a nursing hime setting rather than home. Hospice was beyond words helpful.
Love to Grandpa Ed ❤. Feeling I need to share. I'm not trying to trigger anyone ❤. My mum was diagnosed in July in 2007 with Alzheimer's. I live 370 miles away, we travelled often. Seeing a rapid difference! Drove during the night to be there new year. ( I was going through some stuff). Even though she was more confused, She knew there's was something wrong ! 2 weeks later, she deteriorated, hospital for weeks. They wanted to put her in a home on palliative care! Not in hells chance. She was stubborn. A strong woman. She hardly knew any of us. During the time we had with her, we all laughed, oh my goodness, we cried. We would get on at her to bring her back, just for a few seconds. She passed in April 2009. Nothing was conventional. I won't go into details. I just wanted to share this. The first time I have ❤. Enjoy every minute with your parents ❤
Thank you for sharing your story. Sorry you don’t have your mom anymore. You have your memories, keep them in your heart. m.th-cam.com/video/AhOlck6wyQQ/w-d-xo.html
Your mom, like so many of us, including Dr. Ed, cherished her independence. It's difficult to allow someone else to take control of our lives, but it's good to have family to know when to step in. Hoping good memories sustain you ❤
Thanks For Sharing Your Memories I Think It Create A Sense Of Community Where People Can Relate
Dr Ed. Is amazing, as is his family. I've watched for so long But, on this video, I got an overwhelming feeling to share! My adrenaline was going crazy with emotions. My mum was July 2007 until April 2008. Not 2009. Short time. I've never grieved for her. I just wanted/ needed to share. Just to say, love your parents. Thank you so much for replying. Godbless you and your family ❤
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❤ I love grandpa “well it’s not really early. I’ll stay up and talk to you!” Dad you just have memory lost- I know that I got something! 😂😅❤❤😊😊 gotta ❤ him.
I’m 81 and so worried about this! He is wonderful and your family is so kind to him. You are blessed with patience and I think that you are his favorite son. We can’t escape the aging process but only hope that it goes smoothly. ❤
Don’t worry; my neighbor is 93 and drives & travels a lot. He is as sharp as a tack & looks like 70. Just eat antioxidants & stay away from processed foods
I just love grampa ❤hes such a sweet soul 😢
Dan and Daniel, I love your interactions with Dad. He is always polite to you both. I love how he always says “ I’M 91!” With such surprise on every video. Thank you for sharing your journey. My husband is 20 years older than me and he has similar challenges. You help me more than you know!
Your patience is heartwarming...
And Grandpa was so cool even in his confusion... I loge how he sat back and said "well take a seat and let's talk.." 😂❤
Grandpa Ed couldn't be in better hands than he is with Dan and the family. ❤🙏❤️
"Hello baaby..." to the dog 😊❤
...sweet man that one!
Poor “dad” it’s so sad seeing such an intelligent person “go wrong “ you are a fantastic family. Please stay as you are, you are doing great ❣️
Imagine this happens EVERYDAY. Needs patient and mutch Love ❤❤❤!!!
Dan you won't believe how much i love these videos..... Your patience is commendable keep it up.
Dan you are the best son ever, I like the fact that even though Grandpa has a memory loss but you are treating him with respect and so much love ✊
Yo pops crossed his legs like he is going to be there for a while 😂😂😂
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( I sure do ) He is such a good sport. ❤
Amazing. He has healthy reasoning, just memory loss. You are great in helping him cope with it. Pushing the agenda of “the best son” is humorous, yet Mr. Ed never bites the hook.
Puts a smile on my face all the time. His smile is contagious.
Bless him , and you . Can’t imagine how much it’s so hard for him to not know where he is and who he lives with . Must also be upsetting to hear him say who are you . Sending prayers to all of you . ❤
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Dan, there's a channel on YT posting your videos.
It goes by the name of
The grandpa show.
I am thankful you remember you're Pop's favorite !!!
Favourite son 😂 god loves a trier, Dan! Avocado socks 🤭 Your humour outweighs the seriousness ❤
Dear Dan and family...thank you so much for these updates. I am taking care of my Dad who has dementia. Your updates help me stay encouraged. Prayers for you all 🙏💗
I love grandpa!!! He's amazing!!! Wish he could remember more! Dan you're the best!!
Good morning Dan, good morning Pop. You're a great son Dan. Having gone thru this with my mother-in-law and some brothers, I appreciate how you and Danielle are sharing this journey. As this progresses you will see his behaviors/routines change. It will more than likely require a change of routine for you, Danielle, and Mark. It is tough, however when his story ends y'all will be so happy that you took care of him......and such wonderful memories y'all will have from documenting these videos. High five to you guys!❤🙋♀️
I admire the family this is not easy! ❤❤❤❤
Your dad is one good kind man. Thank you so much for taking care of him ❤
Must be sundown dad is such a sweetheart
The longer y'all talked, the more clear he got. Ed looked very confused, almost afraid. It reminds me so much of my dad. It's so sad. But he is so blessed to have Mark, Danielle and of course you, his favorite son!!😊
Pop looks down at his socks and Dan says “You’ve got avocado socks on”! 😂😅. Adorable as all get out to mention his cool socks !!!!!! 🥑😂👍. You’re great with Pop !! May God Bless you for the incredible patience you hang on to , you’re teaching us so much and setting a wonderful healthy example to us all who may have to Face one day what you do ! 🙏
Grandad ED my weekly catch up .this beautiful family . has given me .hope and strength to carry on .with my mother who was never the easiest person to get along with .thank you for this it gives people hope .who are struggling
Omg I think you are the best son ever I admire everything you are doing with your father.
The patience of a saint.
Shot out to my favorite grandfather from NJ !!!! We love you ❤❤❤ and God bless you!
My grandmother had Alzheimer’s. It’s a terrible disease, but she was still amazingly sharp and intelligent until she couldn’t speak anymore. The last stages are so heartbreaking. I love watching these videos. Everything is so relatable. Awesome job Dan! We all love Grandpa! ❤
This is how it is , been there done that . sad but true. Love Grampa Bless his heart !.
I admire the patience and the kindness Dan shows to his father. In fact, the entire family!! The circle of questions and answers has to be frustrating, but Dan treats it with dignity and as if it were the first time his father asked, even if it's the 5th! The entire family is amazing ... most people are pushed into care facilities where they don't have ANY familiarity with people nor surroundings, which can be terrifying for them with dementia or Alzheimer's. God bless you and your entire family. It's such a great teaching channel.
You are son every parent would want to have....so respectful,patient,loving caring ..u have all the qualities of an ideal son.God bless u Dan
Dan, the kindness that you share with your dad puts a lump in my throat. He and your mom obviously raised their children well. Sending you much comfort, strength and peace as you navigate this difficult but loving journey.💖
Wow, Dan 💜🤗 over and over all day every day. Doing these youtube just might save your sanity and your humanity 💜💚💙
Grandpa can tell he can trust you. He goes from scared and panicky to lets chat some more. You are great with your dad good job.
At least he's plesent in his confusion, I know people who get angry and rude. Dan God bless you I know it takes a lot of patience to answer the same questions so many times in a day even with the ones we love.
It must be frightening for him at times.
Dan, you do a wonderful job assuring him he’s safe and ok!
I love that you love your Dad and are so patient with him. Bless you and your dear wife.
You're a Great Son Dan to your dad, Dan, and doing a good job helping ED in my years of Geriatrics Nursing, sometimes Dementia can make them restless and cannot sleep.❤
Bless his Heart & his cute little Avocado Socks. Your all Blessed to Have eachother.
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I remember when my mom would want to get up at 4 am and have long talks. Now that she is gone, I would give my right arm for her to do that. Growing old sucks. Growing old with dementia is harder. You are so patient with your dad. Keep your spirit up.
So much for sleeping in on a Saturday 😅😂❤
You’re dad raised Angels !!
I have an uncle who is starting to get dementia and he's not going to be as easy to help as Ed (not saying Ed is all that easy) just because he's a grouchy old mean fart. Ed is such a sweet heart he lifts me up every morning without even trying. That's why we love him.❤😊❤
Everyone is different but I keep reminding myself that we are only seeing “chosen seconds” out of their day.
@dsmith2858 He does have a great disposition but I've seen him grumpy for sure.
I absolutely love the teasing! Dad's favorite son. It is also clear that it is not fake teasing, not just for show, but true love for your father, showing in your voice.
A fine example of a patient son. It's amazing the 24hr care that the family give. Role reversal. A father who brought up his family well. To have to remind his dad who he is with gentle humour is phenomenal. ❤❤❤
I am a CNA and caregiver for Alzheimer’s and Dementia patients. Pop breaks my heart. They all do. Bless their hearts. ❤️
Dan, I am so glad you're teaching everyone who doesn't know someone with this disease how difficult it can be for the one suffering from it and the ones who love the one suffering from it.
Your patience is EVERYTHING. It is a breath of fresh air to see how loving and kind you are to him as in less than 2 minutes later, he will have forgotten everything that was said, and then we start all over again. Never is there anger or hostility in your voice about it because it's just what's happening. You just roll with the punches and keep going like any great fighter does.
There is one thing I know for sure... yes you are the best son any father would want just as much as we love pops, we love and appreciate you and everything your doing to bring awareness to this disease and how we as the family need to treat the ones suffering from it.
As a woman who watched both of my grandparents succumb to this horrible disease I THANK YOU DAN! ❤ ❤ ❤
Poor guy. That must feel very scary for him. Thank God he’s home with his kids .
I literally look forward to those daily clips. My Dad is also starting to loose his memory and those clips have helped me understand a whole lot ... Keep it up Dan!!! I love it when Dad says "I'am 91?? lol
Nothing but love for Grandpa and his family! ❤❤❤
Dan. You are an absolute angel. Like another commenter said, you have taught me to have so much more patience and grace with my grandmother who I caretake for. I was already pretty patient with her, but I knew I could be better. I have a hard time dealing with the asking of the same question over and over and over. And the second you answer it, they ask again.
Iwould sometimes catch myself getting frustrated. And at some of my lower moments, I have snapped a few times. Please don't attack me, guys. I'm just trying to be real and honest. But since I've started to watch you and Chris Punsalan's videos, I just about never snap. I get frustrated much less. And if i do start to get quite frustrated, i am able to hold it in until i am in a different room, so Gram doesn't see me visibly frustrated.
Dad you are at your loving beautiful FAVORITE Son & Daughter-in-law Daniella. You’re safe Dad that’s where you are🫂❤🫂❤️🫂❤
Dan, you’re an amazing son and caregiver. Great teacher! I’ve seen so many others with no patience and thank you for sharing this. You’re voted our favourite son on this channel!💗
I love how he is always surprised hes "91". What a special men!!! Greetings from Arizona.
Yes, it is heartbreaking! My dad is a pharmacist, raised a beautiful family all by himself and even provided for his extended family. But he doesn’t know anyone now. He’s just 83😢
You and your wife are great with your Dad Dan. Very patient, and that means so much! My Dad lived till he was 96. He was very hard of hearing, and I think he called me by my Mom's name, his sister's name, and my sister's name. But that was ok. I do that myself LOL. I think every parent does. We all learn valuable lessons from you, thank you!
I hate this disease. I went through this with my grandma and now my mom. It's so kind to attempt to reorient him. It must be so scary. It was the most difficult when my grandma became nonverbal and couldn't feed herself.