Well Simon, you did a very good job explaining Social anxiety. Unfortunately our generation is plagued with it. But please don’t call yourself a loser for not pushing yourself to get out of your comfort zone. Because that DOESNT make you a loser, ANXIETY, and being INTROVERTED do NOT make you a LOSER. Go at your pace, and don’t FORCE yourself. Baby steps are steps too. I get such bad anxiety I pass out, I can’t just throw myself into situations. Everyone’s anxiety is different, so only do what works for you, and you have to experiment and possibly talk to a licensed therapist/psychiatrist for the best exposure therapy for you, or if you maybe need medication. I care about all of you so please take care of yourselves! 💙✨
appreciate it :) yeah I do understand that - I'm sorry about that. You really opened my eyes to it though. Maybe I am too hard on myself. I tell others things and try to help but maybe I shouldn't look at it that way for myself. Appreciate the concern
Uhhh... Heyy 👋 Uhh.. I just wanted to say that... Uhh.. That I'm struggling with the same "demons". I know that doesn't help u much but.. Idk... I just want to say that u aren't alone and.. That I'm struggling with the "demons". So... Yeah...
Thanks a lot dude, this really helped me. I overthink basically everything -if someone does not say hi to me -looking at someone’s hoodie -if someone does not respond to my text for 30 secs I don’t even know you personally, but you seem like the best person in the world, keep it wholesome
i agree with talking to people- it really does help with social anxiety. even just saying hi, it helps. im 16 at the moment and i just got my first job as a retail sales associate- i have to walk around on the floor and say hi a lot to people as well as greet people who walk into the store. i'm slowly getting there. im getting more social, im learning how to talk to people and greet them- how to keep a conversation going. im also learning how to not care about other people's thoughts. this one girl was staring at me that works there as well and i pushed it past me. who cares what they think- im doing my job. im learning, and really, if you're around my age and struggling with social anxiety i recommend getting a job like i did if you're able to. it really helps.
dear simon, i noticed that at the the end of the first episode of your amazing podcast you apologized for “rambling” about your personal life look this is gonna be a little savage but if they don’t want to hear it they can click off but don’t apologize for having a good virtual conversation with someone and plus that really helped me and it’s unbelievably entertaining and positive ilysm ty for everything
hey fellow overthinkers, trust me just as much harm as overthinking can cause it is also a weapon for quick thinking and other merits, some that you may be able to use to your benefit. If it gets to hard, others are there to help, even medication!! but bro this video is nice. Identify what is causeing, you dont have to figure out it by yourself but to avoid it, be yourself!!! like this video says, be sad when you are sad, dont put on a mask when you sad. Be you, This video is amazing thanks simon!!!!!!!!
Your such an enlightening person Simon , your videos have honestly saved my life and changed me from depressed cuddled in my bed to being happy and supportive . I adore you and your such an admirable person , please don’t stop no matter what happens , you have a beautiful soul and your future is very rewarding
Im going through a really hard time right now and I'm really struggling with my mental health. I found your videos today and they make me feel better and like im not alone. Thank you for putting out the content you do
SIMON PLEASE NEVER STOP POSTING, I FOUND YOU RECENTLY AND I AM GLAD I DID, u dont know how fking much u have helped me, thank you for existing and being my therapist
I have struggled with social anxiety for a while now. I’ve been trying to overcome it little by little, I’ve set a goal for myself to compliment at least 3 people when I go out. That’s helped a lot and I’ve been doing that for a few years now and I’m more confident now and I’m less afraid of talking to strangers!
Just wanna say, I’m going through a very difficult time where the people I trusted have left me, turned against me, and talked behind my back. I tried hard to turn the situation around, I tried to turn it back to what we were, but I couldn’t. And in dwelling on the problem, I also ruined my mental health. Now, after watching this video, it clicked. “What other people say doesn’t matter at all.” “I’m sure a lot of people made fun of me behind my back, but I don’t care.” Nothing is ever in your control: nothing. But what is in your control is the way you respond to it. And I choose not to let it affect me. I choose to be brave.
Thank you, ive been watching you for a bit. Idk whats wrong with me sometimes. Sometimes i feel like im useless and that no one needs me. Thank you for bringing me hope.
5:27 saying hi to people is hard for me cuz they will be close to me, i trust them and they leaves...for that reason i'm kinda scared to interact, i can't move on with the thing that i'm just being replaced and that i'm not good enough...ik everything changes by time, people come and go because that's the part of our life but damn it hurts to be replaced, to be left behind!! Maybe we can say this is a comfort zone for me and i need to learn how to push myself from expecting things from peoples cuz i might not be expecting much but ig from the wrong person...btw ur videos are so deep imma subscribe u rn dude~
Maybe this sounds weird, but fandoms can really help in hard times of life. I always imagine my otp next to me when I'm in public and feel uncomfortable. I escape the reality in my own way. Edit: I realised, this sounds like I watch movies and play computer games to escape reality. Actually I read books and stuff like that. (a lot of books)
I dont even know how to thank you. i was feeling so sad just because something stupid that happened at school. im always overthinking and i dont wanna so what if people judge me? im kinda new at a school and this girl asked if she wanted to hang out with her and her friend i said idk cause i was scared thta i wont be able to talk but i said yes now and i asked another girl if she wanted to hang out after and im so booked now
First of all if you ever visit Oregon you should go to Elk Rock Island which is a park in Milwaukee it’s really beautiful I love here and this video helped me realize how beautiful it is thank you I really needed more than anything thank you so much💗 (Q: Why do you wear socks in the sand?)
writing: wholesomesimon.com/
Hi I love you ❤
"I ran out of footage so enjoy some mario kart footage" haha what a legend
yea he is a legend, a one in a milion
Well Simon, you did a very good job explaining Social anxiety. Unfortunately our generation is plagued with it. But please don’t call yourself a loser for not pushing yourself to get out of your comfort zone. Because that DOESNT make you a loser, ANXIETY, and being INTROVERTED do NOT make you a LOSER. Go at your pace, and don’t FORCE yourself. Baby steps are steps too. I get such bad anxiety I pass out, I can’t just throw myself into situations. Everyone’s anxiety is different, so only do what works for you, and you have to experiment and possibly talk to a licensed therapist/psychiatrist for the best exposure therapy for you, or if you maybe need medication. I care about all of you so please take care of yourselves! 💙✨
appreciate it :) yeah I do understand that - I'm sorry about that. You really opened my eyes to it though. Maybe I am too hard on myself. I tell others things and try to help but maybe I shouldn't look at it that way for myself. Appreciate the concern
Uhhh... Heyy 👋 Uhh.. I just wanted to say that... Uhh.. That I'm struggling with the same "demons". I know that doesn't help u much but.. Idk... I just want to say that u aren't alone and.. That I'm struggling with the "demons". So... Yeah...
Thanks a lot dude, this really helped me. I overthink basically everything
-if someone does not say hi to me
-looking at someone’s hoodie
-if someone does not respond to my text for 30 secs
I don’t even know you personally, but you seem like the best person in the world, keep it wholesome
Listening to these videos after a panic/anxiety attack really helps. Or if you feel one coming, can recommend 10/10
I found your channel today due to stress from school and you’ve helped me tremendously. Thank you.
ty :) this is super helpful my social anxiety was very bad throughout high school and it’s definitely gotten a lot better but this is so great to hear
I really wanted to thank you that you helped me through a lot in my life :))
always got ur back :)
i agree with talking to people- it really does help with social anxiety. even just saying hi, it helps. im 16 at the moment and i just got my first job as a retail sales associate- i have to walk around on the floor and say hi a lot to people as well as greet people who walk into the store. i'm slowly getting there. im getting more social, im learning how to talk to people and greet them- how to keep a conversation going. im also learning how to not care about other people's thoughts. this one girl was staring at me that works there as well and i pushed it past me. who cares what they think- im doing my job. im learning, and really, if you're around my age and struggling with social anxiety i recommend getting a job like i did if you're able to. it really helps.
dear simon, i noticed that at the the end of the first episode of your amazing podcast you apologized for “rambling” about your personal life look this is gonna be a little savage but if they don’t want to hear it they can click off but don’t apologize for having a good virtual conversation with someone and plus that really helped me and it’s unbelievably entertaining and positive ilysm ty for everything
Dear Simon,
Keep up the videos and hope you don't overwork yourself in the process as always keep it wholesome
ps. I love you foo
love u too broo
hey fellow overthinkers, trust me just as much harm as overthinking can cause it is also a weapon for quick thinking and other merits, some that you may be able to use to your benefit. If it gets to hard, others are there to help, even medication!! but bro this video is nice. Identify what is causeing, you dont have to figure out it by yourself but to avoid it, be yourself!!! like this video says, be sad when you are sad, dont put on a mask when you sad. Be you, This video is amazing thanks simon!!!!!!!!
legit my new therapist
Thenkss man🧡, I'm from India and I’m fine, except.....it’s was a terrible day for rain, but I know I will be alright. Thanku for spreading positivity.
Your such an enlightening person Simon , your videos have honestly saved my life and changed me from depressed cuddled in my bed to being happy and supportive . I adore you and your such an admirable person , please don’t stop no matter what happens , you have a beautiful soul and your future is very rewarding
ok but like I'm in love with this series please keep posting these
will do :)
Im going through a really hard time right now and I'm really struggling with my mental health. I found your videos today and they make me feel better and like im not alone. Thank you for putting out the content you do
SIMON PLEASE NEVER STOP POSTING, I FOUND YOU RECENTLY AND I AM GLAD I DID, u dont know how fking much u have helped me, thank you for existing and being my therapist
I have struggled with social anxiety for a while now. I’ve been trying to overcome it little by little, I’ve set a goal for myself to compliment at least 3 people when I go out. That’s helped a lot and I’ve been doing that for a few years now and I’m more confident now and I’m less afraid of talking to strangers!
Going through a lot man ur videos always come in clutch thanks man 🙏🏽
love u branden
Im gonna start my better life. Thank you Simon.❤
Just wanna say, I’m going through a very difficult time where the people I trusted have left me, turned against me, and talked behind my back. I tried hard to turn the situation around, I tried to turn it back to what we were, but I couldn’t. And in dwelling on the problem, I also ruined my mental health.
Now, after watching this video, it clicked.
“What other people say doesn’t matter at all.”
“I’m sure a lot of people made fun of me behind my back, but I don’t care.”
Nothing is ever in your control: nothing. But what is in your control is the way you respond to it. And I choose not to let it affect me.
I choose to be brave.
Thank you, ive been watching you for a bit. Idk whats wrong with me sometimes. Sometimes i feel like im useless and that no one needs me. Thank you for bringing me hope.
5:27 saying hi to people is hard for me cuz they will be close to me, i trust them and they leaves...for that reason i'm kinda scared to interact, i can't move on with the thing that i'm just being replaced and that i'm not good enough...ik everything changes by time, people come and go because that's the part of our life but damn it hurts to be replaced, to be left behind!! Maybe we can say this is a comfort zone for me and i need to learn how to push myself from expecting things from peoples cuz i might not be expecting much but ig from the wrong person...btw ur videos are so deep imma subscribe u rn dude~
The scenery is amazing
So is simon
Thanks, my overthinking, anxiety-induced, and paranoid (not social type) brain needed this.
thank you
so deep it touched parts of me that i didnt knew i needed to hear...! thank you.❤
youre so amazing, im grateful for u simon
Welcome back! Hope you’re doing well, stay safe!
thank u! right back at u :)
YAY your back i really needed you!!!
yay! i got ur back :)
@@wholesomesimon it my birthday today and im alone can you wish me happy birthday?
his videos are free therapies fr, love you simon hope ur well
I know its an old video but,That really helps me and i hope u can get much more for ur effort on doing this stuff
Dear Simon,
Thank you for your videos. It's helping me through a tough patch
Congratulations brother...may u be a great part with yes theory and reach lot of people ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank YOU :) your voice is peaceful for me. soothing to listen to.. i lay down and just listen. good advice.
Maybe this sounds weird, but fandoms can really help in hard times of life. I always imagine my otp next to me when I'm in public and feel uncomfortable. I escape the reality in my own way.
Edit: I realised, this sounds like I watch movies and play computer games to escape reality. Actually I read books and stuff like that. (a lot of books)
damn your videos are so wholesome........i can't even imagine how would i get through those weeks without you huh
Thanks sm Simon, u really cheered me up
Damn , I am legit crying right now 💫 Thank you for bring there
Your videos feel so Nostalgic
hey simon, thanks for making my day 🥺😁
If I find out that somebody comes to hit dislike on any of his videos, someone is gonna have to catch these hands
hahahaha love uuu
@@wholesomesimonhi! I subscribed to you
I dont even know how to thank you. i was feeling so sad just because something stupid that happened at school. im always overthinking and i dont wanna so what if people judge me? im kinda new at a school and this girl asked if she wanted to hang out with her and her friend i said idk cause i was scared thta i wont be able to talk but i said yes now and i asked another girl if she wanted to hang out after and im so booked now
Your videos help me find myself. Thank you.
You help me more than my therapist so thank you a lot
Anyone know the song at 1:15?
did you find it???
@@bin1sha Rosyln by Bon Iver, slowed. :)
@@GameChroma thankyouuuuu
thank you, thank you for everything you always help me :( *hug* hehe
Thank you.
Is it only me who get so peace listening to his voice❤️
Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍
How do you get so many different clips it’s amazing
I overthink everything because I observe everything
I have social anxiety :>
i needed that
First of all if you ever visit Oregon you should go to Elk Rock Island which is a park in Milwaukee it’s really beautiful I love here and this video helped me realize how beautiful it is thank you I really needed more than anything thank you so much💗 (Q: Why do you wear socks in the sand?)
0:40 song name pls?
4:20
6:22
ok this is gonna be my morning motivation for shool haha
9:40❤
I love this
Hii~ Simon
Thank you so much ❤
love u jenny :)
@@wholesomesimon ❤❤❤
Love u Simon ;)
Underrated
I really appreciate you
literary me right know 2:34
I used to write you messages on discord complimenting your videos but I can’t do that anymore:(
Im sorry freja!! I turned that off for a bit bc i was feeling a bit overwhelmed but i turned it back on! I missed uuu
Awhhh Its alright to take a breakkk💜
🖤
Dear Simon,
Help me
who dislike this vid im angy
You mention friends a lot but not everyone has friends Simon
I need support
Help
Hi🤧
haii
Great video, missed you