ENFP Perspective on INTP Love
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ส.ค. 2024
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Yes. To be in an INTP's mind is the same as being in their heart.
Every INTPs favorite ENFP!
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Explain?
I'm an ENFP, married to an INTP for 14 years. I keep him entertained, he keeps me grounded 😂
That’s so funny but at the same time cute, haha
So, I have to ask. When you say he keeps you "grounded" is that a kind way of saying he casually but ruthlessly identifies the logical flaws in your illusions before you try to act on them?
Hahahaha yes we are the entertainers. I like my INTP boo for his calmness.
@@petersmall1574 not ruthless but more matter of fact i believe in a non judgemental way
I'm an INTP who's been quite introspective about feelings lately, but I'm still a mess with them haha, and I need a lot of time to process every kind of emotional information. I'm just noticing that I think (not 100% sure yet, but almost) that I'm in love with my-since 2 years ago-ENFP friend. I'm pretty conscious about my lack of emotional intelligence and that he has more emotional needs than I do, so I'm afraid of not being capable to do good in a relationship with him. I haven’t even talked to him lately, but I'm here searching for other ENFPs' perspectives hahaha. I don’t even know why I'm writing this information here XD.
I wanted to admit that I felt really accepted and understood when you talked about INTPs childlike way of loving. Not just because you said it, but also by the way you did it. It seemed quite honest and I really appreciate that. I think that INTPs are always unfairly misunderstood as cold and robot-like (things that people had said to me before, and which have made me insecure about my way of caring), so that statement actually warmed my heart :').
Thanks for the information, the video was great. You ENFPs are ✨💫🌈 (translation: amazing)!.
Thank you for the disclosure and support
@Muduri enfp male here. I am really into an an InTp girl . Lets talk lets help each other out
I ❤ intp being an enfp. Its like gravity to me 😅❤❤
I’m an ENFP. I’ve been married to an INTP for almost 17 years. Your analysis was perfect. We are very in love. It’s been fun and adventurous!
I am cheering your love!!! YASSSS
This makes me happy!!! YAYAYAYAYA I’m happy for y’all :D
I'm an enfp married to a intp 4 years strong. We knew each other in our teenage years, had a whole back and forth relationship (not toxic, more like testing waters in our immaturity not wanting to hurt the other..mostly not wanting to hurt him 😅) and kept a friendship when not in relationships. Happy to say we learned a lot and now understand why we always had such a strong connection! We never fight u less it's for fun and we always have a blast. If one of us is uneasey then so is the other. He's my other half ❤ and anyone reading, communication and patience is key! When it's the hardest is when it is the most important. Love and peace to all
I wish you many more years together~ I love hearing how type pairings can work!
ENFPs are the best. Absolute favorite type. The tricky thing is managing the flightiness of Inferior Si, as that can make nailing down a committed relationship difficult. Entirely worthwhile though.
I read your post on why ENFP are so cute on Quora I think. It was beautiful. Thank u. Anywho Im dating an INTP, and quiet confidence is the way he really is. Someone I can really rely on and trust.
Wow. That so captured my dynamic with my mom. Pure gentle accepting love. We were both infinitely curious. We were both a bit scattered too -- absent-minded, happily slightly eccentric. She though was so painfully introverted, right down to the agoraphobia. Getting her to come out of her shell for her first job in 20 years after 5 kids took itself 5 years. Her last twenty were the happiest. I very much wanted to protect such a fragile pure being. Thank you for this beautiful rendering of what one must say is an archetypal interaction between two types.
Thank you, Marshall. I want to make another video to add to my observations. Your description of mom is lovely, whole. I can picture the process of her coming out of her shell, the joy and strength involved.
You nailed it. Many regrets for ending marriage to an INTP. Hang in there, fellow ENFPs!
Much love to you, ENFP
@@jimclayson holy shit wow
what is it that you regret? ENFP
I regret not valuing his Ti, to feeling offended that he was distant, especially when that very difference between us made him seem stable and trustworthy to me. We should have gone to counseling, sparing our children and families and ourselves the grief of divorce.
I have tried dating several male INTPs as a heterosexual cis-female. I agree that they allow others to be themselves, which is lovely; I always encouraged them to be themselves, too, instead of trying to blend into what I am/fit in.
I also appreciated the purity of their intention, but I have pure intentions, too, as an ENFP who is forthcoming & honest & knows herself well, so it was mostly a mirroring effect.
I did, however, find that they had seemingly strongly held beliefs but didn’t always know how to explain or defend them with more than one argument. Smart, yes, but they seemed, to me, limited in their thinking despite being open-minded to possibilities, like ENFPs.
I found they didn’t communicate much and can go extremely long stretches without reaching out with so much as a text. While the face-to-face conversations could go for hours and were great fun, the time between seeing them (a week or more since it was the earlier stages of dating), the silence was too much for me personally to take. It was the most exciting stage, getting to know a new person, but they seemed either lazy or very guarded with their hearts. 🤷🏻♀️
I knew they were loyal and I could trust them, but the lack of quality time (due to distance, no one’s fault) & near-absence of words of affirmation in between meant we were not compatible.
I also find they struggle so much with voicing, much less identifying, their own emotions, and proudly avoid thinking about them at all costs. 🙁That’s an exhausting way to live, as I’m deeply in touch with my emotions & use them for guidance...but it’s their prerogative and I realized it wasn’t going to change, so I have had to end romantic connections with them.
I adore them as friends, though! The few times a year I talk to them, they’re fun & engaging, and talk my face off, haha. I think the ones I met were rather immature, INTP-Ts, perhaps. So I learned from my experiences with them & will continue to appreciate them from afar! ☺️
Thank you so much for sharing your detailed experiences and thoughts with INTPs. I agree that verbalized emotions and differences in quality time can affect the longterm success of intimate relationships. I think avoidant attachments will find this push and pull comforting, and if it changes to a different level of need, there will be work to do in redefining wants and needs. Not very easy.
I've got some deep-seated feels for an ENFP, and the thing I keep telling him is yeah, I'm super into you ... one of the hamsters in my brain is devoted to you alone...but I have no interest in taking over your life. The fact that you have a life of your own and pursuits that drive you is one of the main things that makes you so damn attractive to me. ❤
I definitely value and am attractive to personal autonomy and a strong sense of identity and core values. It is so hot. We can live our lives alongside someone, and the relationship does not define all of a person, it's a part of it where we can uplift and be refuges when needed.
Thank you, my best friend is your type and I’m intp. It is beautiful to hear your perspective, has given me a really warm smile that my best friend sees some of these traits in me.
I appreciate this video.
I'm an INTP, and I think this perspective is pretty accurate.
The only thing is, I'm not sure what you mean by our child-like qualities.
You have a childlike joy with your interests, honor play and curiosity that adults tend to lose as they age. It is endearing because ENFPs also value this lifelong endeavor, to play, be silly, explore.
@@BoontarikaSripom As an INTP, I get what you mean. As I get older, I find so many people becoming serious and losing themselves in life. But I like focusing on enjoying what mysteries life has. I always want to be curious, no matter how many years pass. It's absolutely one of my main drives.
I would so like to meet an INTP. I’m an INFP -so i see them like my male version counterpart. I’m curious how we differ .It’s like an imaginary INTP crush
hehe it's a potentially great match! If you're in the FB groups or discords you can lurk and absorb more of the similarities and differences, maybe even make some INTP friends :)
INTP here: INTPs tend to keep to themselves, so meeting them can be difficult. My girlfriend's mom is an INFP and we get along really well, so I think you're right! INTP and INFP work well. :)
As an INTP going through a break up with an INFJ I appreciate your kind words
Sending you love. Please stay kind to your heart. Give yourself time.
I'm INTP. I'm quite mystified by your interpretation of 'INTP love' as child-like and pure. I do realuse we are weak in that department, and I more than most. And that really means we are not always sophisticated in matters of love. But I can assure you from my experience that the childlike aspect can transform quite dramatically if we are ever hurt. There's a dark side.
ILY Boonie,
-- an INTP
Your love is felt
Thank you I loved this❤
Thank you for watching~ I am glad you enjoyed it.
I don't understand why people think ENFPs have a strong moral sense. They can seem quite oblivious to others and how to treat them with kindness and respect.
I think youve met unevolved ones
can you help me rate whether i am intp or istp.... i am very confused...
ENFP der have more emotional... intelligence than INTPs
By chance do you have Mauritius heritage?
I probably do not, but I looked up photos and can see why you asked. I am curious about my ancestry and it tends to change in data percentages over time... I am mostly mixed Thai-Chinese, and other heritages. I think it used to say Vietnamese and more south asian but the markers changed? I haven't checked in a while and guess it will change some more
@@BoontarikaSripom I see. It's just that we're in the same FB group and your profile pic there you have wavy hair and reminded me of a woman I used to know who was half Mauritian.
I've been asked if I'm mixed African here and there. In my ancestry report it is 1% North African, which is not a lot.
@@BoontarikaSripom Now I see you in this vid, the South East Asian is more apparent!
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