@@satindrajakhari8152 Britain is no longer part of the EU (European Union), which is not the same as Europe. Europe is just the continent. Switzerland isn’t in the EU, but it’s a European country. For example: If Texas wanted to become independent, they would be no longer part of the United States, but still of America, because that’s the continent. I hope I could clear things up a little. If you wanted to, you could google the difference between the European Union and Europe for more information
Yeah what a crock of shit I'm English and i use rock paper scissors over everything to settle disputes, fisty cuffs and how I pay my debts. It's social and economical currency over here.
@@jonnyvelocity Totally a fucboi line and like most of this particular generation, uses a lot of words and flowery speech to disguise ineptitude and deceit. They even believe it themselves. The ultimate blasphemy.
@@wellknown1204 bruv, pack your shit and get out 😂😂😂 that statement/phrase has never been so relevant in its entirety, shame on you for such truth 😂🚶♂️
I cringed hard when he said that. she has chosen someone who is going to leave her a puddle of roiling emotion when she realizes there is never going to be something real here because he doesn't believe in anything emotionally tangible and fulfilling like a relationship label. him at the very least will need to remove her from all social media to the worst might have to flee the city when this implodes.
For real. They put this up for us to cringe at her thinking this was a real relationship, but I was already cringing at his nonsense. "If we don't call it a thing, then it's not that thing" is childish make-believe. Things are what they are no matter what you call them... "A rose by any other name...", and all that.
@@zill0678 I mean he made it pretty clear that he just wants to have fun. If she continues to choose to pursue him, full knowing that's where he's at... that's on her.
Ladies, when a man says he does not want a relationship stop making it about you and trying to convince men that you are worth changing for! They do not want a relationship, it is simple! If you do want a relationship and waiting for him come around. You are gambling and could lose. If you lose then take the L and don’t get angry because you broke you own heart and wasted your own time!
@@tanjimahmed6652 Men get criticised for doing this. Women, on the other hand, get away with saying it on national TV th-cam.com/video/G4SQcIlBQMQ/w-d-xo.html
@@Tupemo it wasn't a definite relationship and it turned out that she was the clingy one, trying to get him into accepting the role as her bf while he continuously rejected it but still "stayed" with her. It doesn't really seem like he had all the power just because the feelings were one-sided.
@@Weenadawg Yeah well, he had all the emotional power, since he wasn't the one who was trying not to get hurt, he just tried not to hurt her, while only half being with her, which really doesn't help.But I bet he was "with" her for selfish reasons.
@@Tupemo Selfish reasons being that he wanted a companion since he had nobody else in his life besides his therapist. It obviously didn't end well since it was toxic. However, I'd say she was selfish too because she thought that she could coerce him into starting a relationship with her when he would make it clear that he can't jump into a relationship when he's 1) not ready and 2) doesn't have the feelings to make the relationship successful. Also, both of them were hurt by the other. It wasn't onesided.
I just don't understand. Sometimes it's exactly like you said, but other times I hear people saying that when you give all of yourself is better. Why are relationships so difficult?
@Davin S I agree, it's good to have high expectations, but know how to curtail those expectations in the face of facts. And how to accept things as they truly are.
Check out Morley Robbins. Stress has significant biochemical/metabolic ramifications, especially when we are growing up. Morley explains how to address the condition and gives his answer away for free.
@@pixotass I definitely agree with what you said. I guess my take on this statement was that due to someone's past experiences/trauma that sometimes you can get jaded to the point where you expect the worse because it can feel more familiar and easier to navigate then experiencing love & kindness. Kind of like a natural reaction/gut feeling..... However, Even if that is your instant feeling I don't believe you should fall into a victim mentality and destroy the positive experiences. I just could relate to the knee jerk reaction of the statement.
@@pixotass Bruh when you're so used to people beating you down it getting punched is so much more familiar than being hugged. I can't really form relationships with people because of that. That's not a victim mentality, that's trauma. And trauma isn't something you can easily let go.
@Master Epp Returns Anyone (wtv their gender) desperate for love like this is a "poor thing" to me. BUT, if you're desperate for love to the point of being a creeper ( again, wtv gender) then yeah that makes you creepy.
I don't think he is so androgenous in his personality. He is actually pretty masculine. However his style is very flamboyant. He reminds me of Michael Jackson or Jack Sparrow. But I love his videos, because he always has good intentions.
I was so confused when he started talking. Maybe that’s why his voice attracts people, pure shock factor and it’s the most outwardly manly thing about him. It sounds deeper because it’s on a face you wouldn’t expect a deep voice from
@@vangler6492 Checking it out now, don't know if it was Jubilee editing or him in that particular video, but his demeanor, and the way he holds himself is different in his own videos. I don't know the slouch to the side in the video just made him look arrogant to me. Glad to see I'm wrong or he is just different on his own channel.
Not all people are capable of having casual relationships and there is nothing wrong with that, but be honest with yourself about it. Too often people enter a casual relationship with the hope that it will become more and set themselves up to be hurt.
Agreed. I understand people wanting a meaningful relationship but if it's made clear by a person that they don't want to get serious then the other person gets upset when they can't change them and make them fall in love? I mean, come on...
@@tobyfunk6858 She is in her 40's though so likely there is some level of desperation involved and since he was willing to have sex with her he might be open to having a relationship down the line... I mean some people also just don't make sense so idk.
I think that's true, and I think that men often get into casual relationships, with a hope it could be a thing, but also they can easily walk away from it if it isn't or they get bored. I've had guys tell me that's how they start things with casual sex and see if it goes anywhere. But whatever you want, like a hookup or fling, or whatever, clarity is important.
Yep i was thinking about that. How can this 43 year old woman, lack the emotional maturity to read, and Analise her own feelings, and his, in relation to this relationship, in a more rational way. She looked like a schoolgirl. She was head over heels for him, having an idealized version of him, and his feelings. The way she is dismissive of his feelings and what he was saying, is symptomatic of this. She was behaving like people do, when they fell in "love" for the first time i think. I said love, but i think of it as passion really.
She is not getting played just like you weren't. When both of you go for the 10% of men all women want and ignore the other 90%, you played yourselves.
How has she gone over 40 years without learning this lesson? If you're in a relationship where you're both not on the same page in regards to what you want out of it, move on from it.
@@patrickriarchy6054 idk how people like...dont get it..like its not THAT hard to know when a relationship is casual lmao. Its really on the person who catches feelings. Once you set those boundaries you should never feel guilty when the other person expects something more. Fuck that.
A viewer asked "Aba i have a question...... why is 3 months too early to say you love someone?". Good question, is there a time to tell people you love them? How soon is too soon?
Aba & Preach it comes down to cues, if you feel it first and you can tell they maybe aren’t there yet, keep your mouth shut. Jumping the gun is a bad way to ruin something that could have been.
I don't think there's such thing as too early...if you know you know. However I feel like a lot of people nowadays throw the word love around way too much and it's really just infatuation. Me personally, I don't think I'd know for sure until about 6 months minimum.
Aba & Preach There should never be a time stamp on saying “I love you”. You should never feel forced to say it either. Love should feel natural and authentic. Reducing it to a time frame is just immature and will push people away.
Some people can hide there true self for so long....I feel like you kind of have to live with someone for a period of time to know what they are really like. In 2020 Love is more complex than ever. I'm almost ready to believe it doesn't exist.
He talked about it and said that she was toxic with him, that they talked about this interview and she agreed that they were friends with benefits but wanted to victimize herself. He said that after those comments on that video, he felt like the bad guy because everyone accused him without knowing the behind story and if the roles were changed, and the guy was 10 years old than the girl, everyone would accuse the guy of being manipulative. He said it would never be a win win in these types of situations. Very nice guy, honestly. He presents himself very well.
Sadly, its always like this in a "he vs. she" situation. The guy is always at fault with society - the reason so many boys and men are jaded, cynical, bitter and apathetic these days.
@@mirrorflame1988 we need to start and get that equality doesn't mean superiority. And that a guy can suffer as much as a girl does. But it will take some time
Cactus Jack I don’t think it was just about getting someone to smash for the guy, I don’t think he has any problem getting women, I mean have you bn to the guy’s channel, the amount of thirsty females in there is alarming.
@Dr. Krieger no it's that what men provide makes the relationship work. You can't love a relationship into working. Just cuz it's over doesn't mean the love is gone.
Yes and no. She started off loving him as a person, and then when she realised he wasn't available like that she couldn't give up the idea of the possibility of having him. Just as another comment said, they started off casual but she caught feelings.
That's because no body puts a raw flame near a pizza, you use a pizza stone. So clearly you're a sociopath who kicks puppies and punch babies in the face. Poor girl is lucky she got out alive.
I told my bf I am the flame and he’s the pizza, because he looks like a pizza and same. I blamed it on me being European and language barrier, and he was like ok cool. He still looks like a fucking pepperoni though
Linnaea Borealis also I think that’s such a sweet thing to say to someone! ESPECIALLY with a language barrier. I think it makes the connection more about natural chemistry rather than using so many words.
Nighty Nightshade Haha maybe, my experience though is that language barriers suck. What I wrote above was obviously just a joke, but it’s true that I’m in an international relationship. I’m not the one with the language barrier issue though, it’s my bf. He’s good, he has a high level and a good grasp of the language but he’s still lacking. So we sometimes end up with silly misunderstandings and fights due to the language barrier. I find it more annoying than cute tbh 😂
"Because of the trauma and the life, I can take a punch better than I can take a hug" ... Today I learned why he's called "Preach". I had to jump out of my bed and jog that shit off.
Yup, when people try hugging me and i'm like "okay, what am i gonna do with these hands?". Nothing to be proud of it but something traumatized me back then and even today still. It's much easier putting my guard up than letting people in then being hurt stabbed in the back.
I cringed with such intensity, that my entire body shrivelled into a singularity. My body was under so much pressure, I almost collapsed into a black hole.
When I was in my 20s I wanted something more serious than everyone around me. I'm 31 and I still feel like I want something more serious than everyone around me. I think it is more a personality thing than age thing. Like as a person grows older they may go through changes, but I also feel like some people want something more serious younger and others never want it.
You most likely wont find a suitable partner to have a serious relationship with if a serious relationship is your prerequisite. The strongest relationships are the ones that blindside you and have growing pains. Relationships are gritty. They take time to develop. If you chase marriage, you’re highly likely to find one that doesn’t work.
@@slightly_handy2109 You're right, nothing wrong with Nephibis wanting a serious relationship but that is not gonna be the case from the get go. The video also literally has the complete opposite of what he looks for. Best way to find someone for you is by trial and error and being honest with yourself and them. Nephibis Some people think like that when their young and others learn it with age or experience. You'd be hard pressed to find a person after 40 that does not want a serious relationship with another individual.
@@dnw009 I should have stipulated that my point of view is best for younger people. You're right though, when people get to about 35,40 they become desparate for a life partner and just about anybody will do.
Try to not put so much pressure to find the right serious thing and it’ll come to you. You’ll always subconsciously be moving toward your goal but you will allow it to come to fruition naturally if you stop pushing too hard. It’s weird, things really do come when you stop looking for them (but whilst always keeping the end goal in your core).
All she needed to do was back off and give him the chance to pursue her at his pace..but she was too busy trying to force something too soon when he needed more time. Neediness is not attractive.
I never forgot how many times me and my wife (RIP) used to argue over saying "I love you" and my standpoint was that women tend to over use that to a point where it really held no meaning because women tend to say it and then do the exact opposite in showing it. The way I was raised real love wasn't about how many times you say it, but in how you showed it. And it's true growing up I was used to hearing my grandmothers, aunts, and mother say it all the time. But when my father, grandfather, and uncles said it that hit harder and resonated with me more because they never used those words casually in conversation with me or anyone else for that matter.
@@JohnDoe-vw4zf His wife started the arguments because he doesn't say "I love you" as often as she wants him too. I don't understand why people try to dictate how others express themselves emotionally.
"Shes from Europe" Been to: Greece Germany Switzerland + Know these ethnicities + cultures : Turks Arabs Russians Spanish French They all know "Rock paper scissors"
She is like a little teenager... she think she can be and feel young again... and when reality gonna hit her face, it s gonna be very painful... I feel sorry for her.
Na she doesn't seem that delusional she just put her ego down for him. And your inner child doesn't have to die as an older adult. My grandmother played silly games with me all the time as a child.
@@sanadrin8359 yeah probably that. Also TH-cam didn't like my big video and age restricted my shit. I was getting 50k to 100k views in July then they started hitting my channel with shit. W/e, youtube isn't a job to me
“I can take a punch better than I can take a hug.” I resonate with understanding this so much. Both from personal experience and with interactions with others. I’ve never heard that phrasing before but it really hits the nail on the head.
It's only when I began being honest to women, that i realised how as a man my feelings, desires and rights are not respected, It's not right to be emotionally blackmailed, or used as an emotional and mental punch bag for having a life, women abuse my presence and time, and some even dont think past the present, that when I walk out the door, I still have to exist, at work at home and in the world. Ive had some amazing moments just sitting up all night talking and sharing deep parts of my life and when I needed to leave weather it was 2am or 7am, the amazing time shared would be almost in a second wiped away by being made to feel guilty for having to go, i found myself trying to explain and justify why I need to go home, some women would act as if I'm lying, we are just friends, I can come and go as I please. People need to open their minds and consider eachothers lifestyle, and priorities. Like I said, when I leave I still am alive, it was as if I was a thing that only existed in their presence. Too many selfish babies acting like adults in the world, so it's not my fault I'm happier and safer just not socialising with women.
You’re actually trying to criticize people and accusing them of gaslighting you while you use people as free therapists? Maybe don’t use people and they won’t use you.
William F lol what? They are both contributing to the relationship. Being a simp or a white knight that gets his life sucked out of him is stupid. You probably just missed his point.
@@blank-vj1mc you have your opinion, I also have flaws, but I only made a comment which could never be counted as substantial in comparison to my experiences, as it is just an example, I respect your opinion but my comment does not reflect my true reality, peace and good vibes ✌🏽
z h If you don’t bother to share “your experiences” that justifies your opinion, don’t waste your time making a comment that is terribly worded in the first place.
@blue BLUE Every artist is cringe one form or the other cause art doesn't have to appeal to everyone, but he doesn't just spin chairs and have camera move around, he does music, painting art, magic tricks and stuff. Still though, it is great that you see him having great points instead of totally dismissing him.
1. Hearing "I Love You" from your Dad hits differently from hearing it from your Mom 2. "Because the trauma in the life i can take a punch better than i can take a hug" Man if that ain't the truth.
I have had someone introduce me as their girlfriend when we had no conversation about what we were and I didnt like it. It has to be a mutual agreement
Exactly! You have to consider the feelings of the other person regardless of gender. The double standards on this are really sad honestly... Why is a woman in unrequited love seen as the poor unloved vulnerable person, but a man in unrequited love is seen as pushy and creepy?
She dresses like the "cool chick" in high school. That's what she probably was 25 years ago and cannot let go. Don't get me wrong she is attractive and she can still sort of pull it off. That doesn't change that she could be his mom, and she's clinging to this young pretty boy like her lost youth. She's not getting her twenties back. It's all gone.
Strong infatuation will do this to some degree no matter who you are. We are all just gambling on whether its mutual and pretending to be adults in hindsight when it works out. The parts of the brain involved in courtship are intertwined with the parts involved in play behavior.
@@homelessrobot That's a very good point. Nobody can really say to be safe from it. After a certain age, though, "falling in love" it's not something to wish upon oneself. There is no worse fool than an old one.
He is actually an interesting character with some good youtube video about this experience and other things, but SPOILER ALERT... they didn't last and it crashed and burn badly.
He can acknowlegde what love is, but only wants to people to know him and his voice. It's normal, he has his hole life ahead. She is ok but still she should know better. Like someone said in another comment, it's a playa vibe
Gandalf721 Just because someone has strong feelings for you does not mean they are entitled to you reciprocating it back to them. If she is okay with him not putting a label on it and takes him as he is the way he is then it’s her choice. She knows what she’s getting into. She isn’t being misled or promised a relationship or anything of the sort. He offered her himself as he is and she accepted it.
I think neither of them are in a healthy relationship. She's way too committed, he's not broken off the relationship even if he can't really reciprocate what she needs.
“I can feel your expectations overtaking who I actually am…” (concerning people who compliment-bomb) - so true, something for parents to understand early on with their kids
Nobody is at fault here, it doesn’t have to be right vs wrong all the time. They felt differently about each other, and both expressed their feelings openly and honestly. He didn’t feel the same, and that’s just how it is sometimes.
This is an " artsy relationship" . Now that i am older i couldn't do it 🤣I find it super tiring and the lack of boundaries and constant delving in is no longer appealing. 🥴
That dude is right out of Anime Central Casting, I’ve never seen somebody try so hard to look like aloof, attractive, bad boy type you see in Anime all the time
As a woman I totally respect Pierre's honesty. He was stuck in an uncomfortable situation but was still able to voice how he felt. He cared enough for her not to lead her on just to save face.
I cannot imagine agreeing to have this conversation with anyone in room other than my partner and me. I wouldn't even want a priest or a therapist there... This is so bizarre.
oh shit. there I am. don't worry I'm cringing with ya'll lmao
My favorites all in one spot 🙏
this was cringy but was great and enjoy the content from both of yall XD
Dude you're hot af
Youre a goddamn legend
Y'all still fuckin?
This girl got a crush so bad she started dressing like him.
dont do that...
Read her for filth 🥴
I actually laughed out loud over this :)))) so true
👏👏👏😂🤣
Yoooooooooo you read her
When a guy does not want to label the relationship it means you are friends with benefits
Exactly
Not necessarily.
@@DucksUpDogsDownCatsSlide yes it does if both of you smashin
If y'all smashing and aren't boyfriend and/or girlfriend. Then I see no other possible word than friends with benefits. It's the literal definition
Period.
When a man says he doesn't want a relationship, BELIEVE HIM!! You won't change his mind.
Yeah, like we dont want it with that particular girl.
The myth of the heroine...
Exactly! When someone tells you bluntly what they want and do not want, BELIEVE Them!
This is so true, if a man loves you he loves you
😪😪😪
He’s like, I’m not your boyfriend and she’s picking out an engagement ring.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Faxxx no printer
Aba & Preach are friends, they just don’t want it yet.
TOP6 x Stealth that’s funny
lol fucking smoked em
lol
i remember in an old video they said they ain't friends, just colleagues
My lungs are BURNING. Lmao
This pretty obvious. They were casual and she caught feelings.
If the script was flipped she’d have filed a police report by now.
Yeah, don't let that happen to you my niggas
Feelings for some DICK
no one should be casual about sex tbh
Emelie no
*sHeS fRoM eUrOpE* like we don't know Rock paper scissors here lmao
@Wu Xeitan Atreides Britain isn't Europe anymore boo
@@satindrajakhari8152 lmao I hope you're joking, cuz you kinda understood something wrong there
@@bagel7080 must be, can you explain?
@@satindrajakhari8152 Britain is no longer part of the EU (European Union), which is not the same as Europe. Europe is just the continent. Switzerland isn’t in the EU, but it’s a European country. For example: If Texas wanted to become independent, they would be no longer part of the United States, but still of America, because that’s the continent.
I hope I could clear things up a little. If you wanted to, you could google the difference between the European Union and Europe for more information
Yeah what a crock of shit I'm English and i use rock paper scissors over everything to settle disputes, fisty cuffs and how I pay my debts. It's social and economical currency over here.
"Our relationship is the typical one crafted from the digital post-modern age."
You're saying a lot of words for Friends With Benefits.
Best. Comment. Ever. Not that you need my validation.
That's Exactly what it is. FWB
Yep they’re just fucking
It's a fuckboi line
@@jonnyvelocity Totally a fucboi line and like most of this particular generation, uses a lot of words and flowery speech to disguise ineptitude and deceit. They even believe it themselves. The ultimate blasphemy.
*couple walks in*
"ah, this german guy is dating a punk asian girl. allright"
*they start talking*
"what?"
These two is the embodiment of *don't judge book by its cover*
@@wellknown1204 bruv, pack your shit and get out 😂😂😂 that statement/phrase has never been so relevant in its entirety, shame on you for such truth 😂🚶♂️
@@buhlegobeni7880 lmaooooo
Hahaha 😂
I don’t think she’s German
I am and her accent sounds Scandinavian to me
Not that it matters though😅
“Because of the trauma, I can take a punch better than I can take a hug”... That shit hit different 💯💯💯
V-REDD it’s so true sadly :(
V-REDD which minute?
@@alice73333 13:19
When he said “Our relationship is a perfect representation of a digital post modern world” I threw up in my mouth
I cringed hard when he said that. she has chosen someone who is going to leave her a puddle of roiling emotion when she realizes there is never going to be something real here because he doesn't believe in anything emotionally tangible and fulfilling like a relationship label. him at the very least will need to remove her from all social media to the worst might have to flee the city when this implodes.
For real. They put this up for us to cringe at her thinking this was a real relationship, but I was already cringing at his nonsense. "If we don't call it a thing, then it's not that thing" is childish make-believe. Things are what they are no matter what you call them... "A rose by any other name...", and all that.
Thank you! I'm not the only one then. Oh my god smh
@@alyssaw3412 I’m not even completely convinced he believes his own bullshit LOL
@@zill0678 I mean he made it pretty clear that he just wants to have fun. If she continues to choose to pursue him, full knowing that's where he's at... that's on her.
Ladies, when a man says he does not want a relationship stop making it about you and trying to convince men that you are worth changing for! They do not want a relationship, it is simple! If you do want a relationship and waiting for him come around. You are gambling and could lose. If you lose then take the L and don’t get angry because you broke you own heart and wasted your own time!
Honestly to all the guys who need to hear this. This applies to you as well.
@@tanjimahmed6652 And doubly so for all the ladies, because girls never get that kind of advice.
@@MrNickPresley honestly in my experience it isn't true but I believe it's universal thing.
@@tanjimahmed6652 Men get criticised for doing this. Women, on the other hand, get away with saying it on national TV th-cam.com/video/G4SQcIlBQMQ/w-d-xo.html
Facts!!!!!! Lol
Miss Universe is my girlfriend but she has not yet realized it.
Oh yeah
You can't do that! your a man and that's sexual harassment.
THATS RAPE! RAAAAAAAAAAPE!
- ominous - I will!. What color was it?
An hypothetical female version of me is my girlfriend, but she hasn't been realized yet.
"Do you love him?"
"Yes"
"Do you love her?"
"What is love really?"
Awwwwwwkward!
Mmmm she need to go
She should leave
@@kossettereaditte7552 they broke up afterwards 😄
@Cody Ingram u cant say that.. its not even remotely true . yea the feelings may be different but what is stronger love ? Begging more ?
Is that not what Prince Charles said when someone asked if he and Diana were in love?
Dude sounds like a textbook case of avoidant attachment, and he can't handle labels because labels are commitments.
No...dude sounds like a textbook 24 year old. I said the same shit when I was that age. Just saying. Either way she should move on.
He does. Not everyone wants to get serious at 24 but just the things he says sounds like an attachmentphobe. She does need to move on though.
@@Amy-91 Studying that stuff was the best thing I could do for myself dating-wise. So many bullets dodged.
To be fair, I’m not sure how one could fall in love within 12 weeks....but you might have a point
no shes just crazy and needy
He's broken and she is in love with the idea she can change him. We all know how that ends.
Why would you say he is broken?
ENTANGLEMENT
White saviorism mentality
@@aleks8556 because anime bich....get real
@@aleks8556 he said he was used to negative and rejections so he’s been through a few things I’m assuming
Imagine if the roles were reversed, the guy would be labeled creepy.
He made a reaction video to it. He said a lot of people called him narcissistic and selfish.
@Brad Smith You might get a different feel if you watched his own videos.
@Brad Smith he is definitely not.
@@Angi3_6 ohh link i wana see
Brad Smith i don’t think you know what a narcissist is, then.
As much as she’s older, he’s more mature. He isn’t just going to o say things out of infatuation
It's obvious that he has all the power in the relationship, because she has so much more intense feelings about him than he has about her.
@@Tupemo it wasn't a definite relationship and it turned out that she was the clingy one, trying to get him into accepting the role as her bf while he continuously rejected it but still "stayed" with her. It doesn't really seem like he had all the power just because the feelings were one-sided.
@@Weenadawg Yeah well, he had all the emotional power, since he wasn't the one who was trying not to get hurt, he just tried not to hurt her, while only half being with her, which really doesn't help.But I bet he was "with" her for selfish reasons.
@@Tupemo I think he really liked her, he just didn't want things to move as fast as she did.
@@Tupemo Selfish reasons being that he wanted a companion since he had nobody else in his life besides his therapist. It obviously didn't end well since it was toxic. However, I'd say she was selfish too because she thought that she could coerce him into starting a relationship with her when he would make it clear that he can't jump into a relationship when he's 1) not ready and 2) doesn't have the feelings to make the relationship successful. Also, both of them were hurt by the other. It wasn't onesided.
She is going through a hard mid-life crisis...and he's a weirdly pretty man. I'm confused by Everything in this video.
thank -you , thats an honest and real observation '
I was confused by most of the other comments , at least you make sense
Yes.
Yeah
As the goat naruto once said, he’s prettier than Sakura!
Word.
When someone puts you on a pedestal THAT high, and that soon... the fall is gonna be BRUTAL!
Exactly !!!
On god. Been there that shit hurted
I just don't understand. Sometimes it's exactly like you said, but other times I hear people saying that when you give all of yourself is better. Why are relationships so difficult?
@Davin S I agree, it's good to have high expectations, but know how to curtail those expectations in the face of facts. And how to accept things as they truly are.
Yeah i felt this
Its like hes quoting some lyrics to a song ...while slowly packing his bag
i wanna know what love is *while packing my bags, car, and speeding off*
@@0fficialdregs The last thing she hears as he peels out of the driveway is "I WANT YOU TO SHOOOOOOW ME~"
@@MrNickPresley HOW CAN I LIIIVE~ WITHOUT YO-SCREEEECHVROOM.
@@MrNickPresley lol
he does actually make music lmaoo
"She doesn't know rock, paper, sciccors. She's from europe" HOW DO THOSE TWO THINGS CORRELATE?!
IKR??? I know it and im European. I dont know anyone who doesnt know it :D
Probebly because she didn't reconise the name in English. Blad, steen, schaar sounds way different then rock, paper, scissors
Probably language barrier, in my language it’s kivi, paperi, sakset
Missbluebell where are you from, The Netherlands? Because we call it steen, papier, schaar here idk if it’s just a regional difference tho😂
@@suusdebeste i am from Belgium
There’s a Mitch Hedberg joke: “I don’t have a girlfriend, but I do know a lady who would get angry if she heard me say that.”
We miss Mitch.
This coat I'm wearing is "Dry Clean Only." That means it's dirty.
That was the first thing I thought of too when Aba was talking about the women who call him their boyfriend - great minds 😎
I think that line always went past me, but yep.. he was talking about this, and that line is really funny now.
"He asked if I wanted a frozen banana, no, but I might wanna regular one later. So yeah"
WHEN HE SAID! " Because of the trauma of life, I could take a punch better than I can take a hug...." I felt that in my damn soul.
Check out Morley Robbins. Stress has significant biochemical/metabolic ramifications, especially when we are growing up. Morley explains how to address the condition and gives his answer away for free.
Western people sure likes to bitch and whine.
Let go of the victim mentality, it doesn't do u justice. There are no victims, just volunteers
@@pixotass I definitely agree with what you said. I guess my take on this statement was that due to someone's past experiences/trauma that sometimes you can get jaded to the point where you expect the worse because it can feel more familiar and easier to navigate then experiencing love & kindness. Kind of like a natural reaction/gut feeling..... However, Even if that is your instant feeling I don't believe you should fall into a victim mentality and destroy the positive experiences. I just could relate to the knee jerk reaction of the statement.
@@pixotass Bruh when you're so used to people beating you down it getting punched is so much more familiar than being hugged. I can't really form relationships with people because of that. That's not a victim mentality, that's trauma. And trauma isn't something you can easily let go.
She tries too hard...Poor thing.Glad i learned my lesson at 17 and not 43.
Dont be so sure hun you will learn even more
Same
Poor thing? Yet if the genders were reversed it's "what a creep." No sympathy from me.
@Master Epp Returns Anyone (wtv their gender) desperate for love like this is a "poor thing" to me. BUT, if you're desperate for love to the point of being a creeper ( again, wtv gender) then yeah that makes you creepy.
@@DetroitBabyGirl55 I have no doubt in my mind that you believe what you're saying right now 100% but is it true? Forgive me if I don't think so.
I don't think he is so androgenous in his personality. He is actually pretty masculine. However his style is very flamboyant. He reminds me of Michael Jackson or Jack Sparrow. But I love his videos, because he always has good intentions.
my thoughts exactly
Michael Jacksparrow
David Bowie
Very spot on. He said it himself as well
@SeventhkeyOmega Revenge David Bowie? Michael Jackson? Prince? Do these big names sound young to you?
God. When they first sat down i said "the girl on the left is prettier."
🤣🤣🤣
She still is
Exactly....
I said the same
I was so confused when he started talking. Maybe that’s why his voice attracts people, pure shock factor and it’s the most outwardly manly thing about him. It sounds deeper because it’s on a face you wouldn’t expect a deep voice from
I went to high school with the Asian man in this video. He is very talented and eccentric in a good way.
Bet he loves it too.
How was he in school?
He also has a TH-cam channel.
@@vangler6492 Checking it out now, don't know if it was Jubilee editing or him in that particular video, but his demeanor, and the way he holds himself is different in his own videos. I don't know the slouch to the side in the video just made him look arrogant to me. Glad to see I'm wrong or he is just different on his own channel.
Did you now?
Not all people are capable of having casual relationships and there is nothing wrong with that, but be honest with yourself about it. Too often people enter a casual relationship with the hope that it will become more and set themselves up to be hurt.
Corey
Agreed. I understand people wanting a meaningful relationship but if it's made clear by a person that they don't want to get serious then the other person gets upset when they can't change them and make them fall in love? I mean, come on...
@@cosseybomb Corey the tory
@@tobyfunk6858 She is in her 40's though so likely there is some level of desperation involved and since he was willing to have sex with her he might be open to having a relationship down the line... I mean some people also just don't make sense so idk.
I think that's true, and I think that men often get into casual relationships, with a hope it could be a thing, but also they can easily walk away from it if it isn't or they get bored.
I've had guys tell me that's how they start things with casual sex and see if it goes anywhere.
But whatever you want, like a hookup or fling, or whatever, clarity is important.
Imagine getting played at 40. She reminds me of me at 19. Low self esteem chasing someone who clearly didnt want me.
Exactly it is tragic, so hard to watch.
Yep i was thinking about that. How can this 43 year old woman, lack the emotional maturity to read, and Analise her own feelings, and his, in relation to this relationship, in a more rational way. She looked like a schoolgirl.
She was head over heels for him, having an idealized version of him, and his feelings.
The way she is dismissive of his feelings and what he was saying, is symptomatic of this.
She was behaving like people do, when they fell in "love" for the first time i think. I said love, but i think of it as passion really.
Rikki At that age he’s not playing her. She’s playing herself. She has the life experience to know better.
@@knightheaven8992 She craves this artistic deep love that knows no age, no gender etc and hears nothing of what this boy's pretty words actually say.
She is not getting played just like you weren't. When both of you go for the 10% of men all women want and ignore the other 90%, you played yourselves.
He talked her in circles, how can you say so much without saying much at all😂
He affraid of attachment
big stinky fart of creepy poison gas
That's how you get most girls. Talk enough to make it seem like you're engaged even when your dialogue contains no actual substance.
@@BoomSkwad47 Facts! 😂
It wasn't hard it seemed like she only understood half of what SHE was saying and a quarter of what he was saying
How has she gone over 40 years without learning this lesson? If you're in a relationship where you're both not on the same page in regards to what you want out of it, move on from it.
pretty sure she dumped man a lot when she was younger and now at 40 she's just getting desperate.
@Marcus Cato more like she hit it with her head
If you just want to hangout and be fk buddies thats cool too but it aint gunna magically become a relationship.
@Michal Blaszczak incel hours
@@patrickriarchy6054 idk how people like...dont get it..like its not THAT hard to know when a relationship is casual lmao. Its really on the person who catches feelings. Once you set those boundaries you should never feel guilty when the other person expects something more. Fuck that.
A viewer asked "Aba i have a question...... why is 3 months too early to say you love someone?". Good question, is there a time to tell people you love them? How soon is too soon?
Aba & Preach it comes down to cues, if you feel it first and you can tell they maybe aren’t there yet, keep your mouth shut. Jumping the gun is a bad way to ruin something that could have been.
Being "pushy" is a no-no, so the more time, the better.
I don't think there's such thing as too early...if you know you know. However I feel like a lot of people nowadays throw the word love around way too much and it's really just infatuation. Me personally, I don't think I'd know for sure until about 6 months minimum.
Aba & Preach There should never be a time stamp on saying “I love you”. You should never feel forced to say it either. Love should feel natural and authentic. Reducing it to a time frame is just immature and will push people away.
Some people can hide there true self for so long....I feel like you kind of have to live with someone for a period of time to know what they are really like. In 2020 Love is more complex than ever. I'm almost ready to believe it doesn't exist.
I think she's infatuated with him. I don't think she really loves him. I think she wants to possess him and mold him into something she really wants.
This, this is straight facts
That goes for anyone who "falls in love" in 3 months.
They fall in love with the strawman they've painted onto their partner.
🔥🔥
So basically she's just being a woman.
Nope, not even.
She wants that green card boi
She is a fan/Groupee, not a girlfriend and he is treating her like one.
He talked about it and said that she was toxic with him, that they talked about this interview and she agreed that they were friends with benefits but wanted to victimize herself. He said that after those comments on that video, he felt like the bad guy because everyone accused him without knowing the behind story and if the roles were changed, and the guy was 10 years old than the girl, everyone would accuse the guy of being manipulative. He said it would never be a win win in these types of situations.
Very nice guy, honestly. He presents himself very well.
@channel break yes she is. But people still wanted to blame him for not wanting to be with her
Sadly, its always like this in a "he vs. she" situation. The guy is always at fault with society - the reason so many boys and men are jaded, cynical, bitter and apathetic these days.
@@mirrorflame1988 we need to start and get that equality doesn't mean superiority. And that a guy can suffer as much as a girl does. But it will take some time
Cactus Jack I don’t think it was just about getting someone to smash for the guy, I don’t think he has any problem getting women, I mean have you bn to the guy’s channel, the amount of thirsty females in there is alarming.
So he's still a fuckboy manipulating y'all 🤣
She loves the idea of him, not him as a person.
@Dr. Krieger no it's that what men provide makes the relationship work. You can't love a relationship into working. Just cuz it's over doesn't mean the love is gone.
Spot on.
Yes and no.
She started off loving him as a person, and then when she realised he wasn't available like that she couldn't give up the idea of the possibility of having him.
Just as another comment said, they started off casual but she caught feelings.
@@444-w8k very well formulated and totally correct. You must have had experiences with love, otherwise you wouln't have had this insight.
@Dr. Krieger Cringe incel ideology
I told my girlfriend she was the flame to my pizza and she dumped me.
That's because no body puts a raw flame near a pizza, you use a pizza stone. So clearly you're a sociopath who kicks puppies and punch babies in the face. Poor girl is lucky she got out alive.
I told my bf I am the flame and he’s the pizza, because he looks like a pizza and same. I blamed it on me being European and language barrier, and he was like ok cool. He still looks like a fucking pepperoni though
Linnaea Borealis lmfaooo 😂😂😂
Linnaea Borealis also I think that’s such a sweet thing to say to someone! ESPECIALLY with a language barrier. I think it makes the connection more about natural chemistry rather than using so many words.
Nighty Nightshade Haha maybe, my experience though is that language barriers suck. What I wrote above was obviously just a joke, but it’s true that I’m in an international relationship. I’m not the one with the language barrier issue though, it’s my bf. He’s good, he has a high level and a good grasp of the language but he’s still lacking. So we sometimes end up with silly misunderstandings and fights due to the language barrier. I find it more annoying than cute tbh 😂
The whole thing was cringe but the way she whispered “fucking talented” hit different
she is probably recalling their passionate and great sex when she says "fuckn talented" but saying whatever in order for him to become what she needs
😂🤔😂😂
@@sesshonuyasha lmaoooooooo
Jesus I was reading this comment and she whispered "fucking talented" right as I read it... My soul about left my body from the cringe 😅😂
Lmfaoooooo
"Because of the trauma and the life, I can take a punch better than I can take a hug" ... Today I learned why he's called "Preach". I had to jump out of my bed and jog that shit off.
I ate glass to get over it
It's funny that I read this comment exactly the moment in the video when he said it.
timestamp pls 🥺
@@darkomaniac8 13:20
why is he called preach?
“I can take a punch better than I can take a Hug " - I felt that bro
justin Clarke 👍🏻
Tatea 👍🏻👍🏻
Man I felt that!!
Relatable
Yup, when people try hugging me and i'm like "okay, what am i gonna do with these hands?". Nothing to be proud of it but something traumatized me back then and even today still.
It's much easier putting my guard up than letting people in then being hurt stabbed in the back.
Anyone remember "She been with me for five years, I only been with her for eight months" Patrice O'Neal
NappaTheProducer Patrice O’Neal reference love it
Damn you almost had it but the line is delivered in reverse which makes it funnier
Haha!
yes
@@chrishernandez3699 My bad, corrected.
That boy doesn’t even know who he is yet, and she needs a man she can play house with.
Me: Oooo lesbians.
*He talks*
Me: Bruh.
Yup
But his voice do be really attractive
I’m glad I wasn’t the only one thinking that.
Omg I know
I thought he was a guy by his walk until he took the glasses of, then I was like "oh lesbians" then he spoke and I thought "ok I was right"
"Because of trauma and life I can take a punch better than I can take a hug". That's high-key a bar.
When Preach said “I can take a punch better than I can take a hug”, I felt that.
Big facts
Yooo
Facts
No pun intended...... ?
I think we all did 😔👌🏾
Whats crazy is, i got their genders mixed up lol.
This reminds me of Chowder singing "I 'm not your boyfriend " to Panini.
Those were the days 😆
I feel like this is the longest, most roundabout way of saying “it’s not you, it’s me”, even though it really is her.
My dude hit her with the "i need to love myself before I can love someone else" line. Indeed, most of it was "its not you, its me."
I cringed with such intensity, that my entire body shrivelled into a singularity. My body was under so much pressure, I almost collapsed into a black hole.
@@ajrt_2118 omg I've seen Pierre XO outside the context of his relationships loool wow I had no idea this could exist. I'm So Uncomfortable💔
Great description!
I cringed so hard I had to get up and close the blinds. I was afraid it might be contagious and affect the neighbors.
He's making fun of the guy lol.
lmfaooooooo
Jubilee's slogan should be: "come cringe with me"
Jubilee: Come Cringe With Me
Blake lively is my wife, just Ryan Reynolds and her aren’t aware of that yet.
What a coincidence Ryan Reynolds is my husband. And neither him nor Blake are aware. 😃
It's just an entanglement
@Jesse Tate you have a penis? Damn...
SHIET you right. he got a vagina now
@Jesse Tate yep, I'm totally gay for Ryan Reynolds.
When I was in my 20s I wanted something more serious than everyone around me. I'm 31 and I still feel like I want something more serious than everyone around me. I think it is more a personality thing than age thing. Like as a person grows older they may go through changes, but I also feel like some people want something more serious younger and others never want it.
You most likely wont find a suitable partner to have a serious relationship with if a serious relationship is your prerequisite. The strongest relationships are the ones that blindside you and have growing pains. Relationships are gritty. They take time to develop. If you chase marriage, you’re highly likely to find one that doesn’t work.
@@slightly_handy2109 You're right, nothing wrong with Nephibis wanting a serious relationship but that is not gonna be the case from the get go. The video also literally has the complete opposite of what he looks for. Best way to find someone for you is by trial and error and being honest with yourself and them.
Nephibis Some people think like that when their young and others learn it with age or experience. You'd be hard pressed to find a person after 40 that does not want a serious relationship with another individual.
@@dnw009 I should have stipulated that my point of view is best for younger people. You're right though, when people get to about 35,40 they become desparate for a life partner and just about anybody will do.
Try to not put so much pressure to find the right serious thing and it’ll come to you. You’ll always subconsciously be moving toward your goal but you will allow it to come to fruition naturally if you stop pushing too hard.
It’s weird, things really do come when you stop looking for them (but whilst always keeping the end goal in your core).
All she needed to do was back off and give him the chance to pursue her at his pace..but she was too busy trying to force something too soon when he needed more time. Neediness is not attractive.
She's forty three! She is running out of time
Marcus INfinity she is about 10 years out of time lol
For younger women yes, for her it doesnt even matter at this point
Young guys will have fun with a very old woman. But they will not settle down with her. Her window closed 16 years ago.
Doubtful. he said before he wasn't going for that 'deep' thing. He's still young, but mature enough to know it.
This dude is like a real life anime character…damn!!!
I never forgot how many times me and my wife (RIP) used to argue over saying "I love you" and my standpoint was that women tend to over use that to a point where it really held no meaning because women tend to say it and then do the exact opposite in showing it. The way I was raised real love wasn't about how many times you say it, but in how you showed it. And it's true growing up I was used to hearing my grandmothers, aunts, and mother say it all the time. But when my father, grandfather, and uncles said it that hit harder and resonated with me more because they never used those words casually in conversation with me or anyone else for that matter.
Akirazero u were arguing with her wife bc she said she loves you?
@@iamnia336 Probably she complained that he doesn't say it often enough. And then read his text again. Makes a of sense in that context
@@Kurostyle21 😖 still doesn't sound better
Yup, actions speak louder than words.
@@JohnDoe-vw4zf
His wife started the arguments because he doesn't say "I love you" as often as she wants him too. I don't understand why people try to dictate how others express themselves emotionally.
"Shes from Europe"
Been to:
Greece
Germany
Switzerland
+ Know these ethnicities + cultures :
Turks
Arabs
Russians
Spanish
French
They all know "Rock paper scissors"
yh not knowing the rock paper scissors was quite awkward
Am I the only one registering that as a joke?
Weird flex but ok
Even the Japanese know rock, paper, scissors. They call it ‘Jan-Ken-Pon.’ lol
it's likely she knows what it is but just didn't immediately recognize it in english
She is like a little teenager... she think she can be and feel young again... and when reality gonna hit her face, it s gonna be very painful... I feel sorry for her.
Na she doesn't seem that delusional she just put her ego down for him. And your inner child doesn't have to die as an older adult. My grandmother played silly games with me all the time as a child.
I think simply he Is just not much into her. Thats all. If those words came from someone he liked he would praise them.
@@dg4107 - Of course he isn't into her. I bet he likes men.
@@marthas.4456 Why would he like men? Even if he's not into her, he might as well be into other women.
@@njux1871 Maybe it's the metro-sexual vibe he gives off with the hair and the eye makeup...
Hearing the voice really fucked me up😂
I was not expecting that deep shit, swore it was a couple lesbians😭
He looks more feminine than some women
Am I the only one who knew he was a man? His face just looked masculine to me...
Legit thought dude was a chick.
I got that too. He's a TH-cam if you didn't know his stuff is kinda interesting.
@@zuhairs7929 he looks like a dude
I was making the teeth cringe face while listening at work. alt tabbed to see video and aba is making same face lol!
@Some Guy for real tho lol
@@OrderoftheWarlocks you have so many subs but like... why they no watch your videos? are you somehow interestingly boring?
@@sanadrin8359 yeah probably that. Also TH-cam didn't like my big video and age restricted my shit. I was getting 50k to 100k views in July then they started hitting my channel with shit. W/e, youtube isn't a job to me
@@OrderoftheWarlocks damn that sucks
@@sanadrin8359 hey, I have fun with the 20 people who watch my streams. I do this more for me than anything else. But I appreciate the sentiment.
"Yeah she's my girlfriend, she just doesn't know it yet"
"Sir youʻre under arrest"
It's cringy either way LMAO
its weird either way (male or female) but could be her not expressing it well.
Damn
get out 😂
I have heard a lot of guys say that about girls. That or "I just met my next baby's mama and she doesn't know it yet". Lmmfao
Conclusion: She's lost without him, and he's just "meh" for it
Sounds like all of my past relationships...I guess this has been a wake up call for me.
“I can take a punch better than I can take a hug.” I resonate with understanding this so much. Both from personal experience and with interactions with others. I’ve never heard that phrasing before but it really hits the nail on the head.
It's only when I began being honest to women, that i realised how as a man my feelings, desires and rights are not respected,
It's not right to be emotionally blackmailed, or used as an emotional and mental punch bag for having a life, women abuse my presence and time, and some even dont think past the present, that when I walk out the door, I still have to exist, at work at home and in the world. Ive had some amazing moments just sitting up all night talking and sharing deep parts of my life and when I needed to leave weather it was 2am or 7am, the amazing time shared would be almost in a second wiped away by being made to feel guilty for having to go, i found myself trying to explain and justify why I need to go home, some women would act as if I'm lying, we are just friends, I can come and go as I please. People need to open their minds and consider eachothers lifestyle, and priorities. Like I said, when I leave I still am alive, it was as if I was a thing that only existed in their presence. Too many selfish babies acting like adults in the world, so it's not my fault I'm happier and safer just not socialising with women.
You’re actually trying to criticize people and accusing them of gaslighting you while you use people as free therapists? Maybe don’t use people and they won’t use you.
William F lol what? They are both contributing to the relationship. Being a simp or a white knight that gets his life sucked out of him is stupid.
You probably just missed his point.
@@blank-vj1mc you have your opinion, I also have flaws, but I only made a comment which could never be counted as substantial in comparison to my experiences, as it is just an example, I respect your opinion but my comment does not reflect my true reality, peace and good vibes ✌🏽
z h If you don’t bother to share “your experiences” that justifies your opinion, don’t waste your time making a comment that is terribly worded in the first place.
@@blank-vj1mc thanks for the advice, wish you positivity in life ✌🏽
She looks like a high school principal talking to her student 🤔
Cuz she’s old af
or teacher!
Coz she's Dutch... All the women are like that 😂
I bet the first words she said to him was "you've been a naughty boy" and that's how they met.
He ain't with her. He's in Europe somewhere by himself
Czech republic
Prague if you want to put a fine point on it
I never thought about that "When your dad says he loves you"
"that hits diffrent" there is definately truth to that statement.
"I can take a punch better than I can take a hug."
I felt that.
"I can take a punch better than I can take a hug." Damn.
I don’t like compliments because I feel the need to reciprocate a compliment
he actually made a whole ass video for his side too explaining everything. she latched him her like an abandoned duck
Omg what’s his name
Makeup With Smidge pierre XO , the video is titled like “what a vital video taught me”
@@MiniMeags He's top comment and pinned.
@Omara Oliver Why not a duck? Jokes aside, it reminds me of the duckling from Tom and Jerry.
Cerise #23 yeah I found and subscribed to his channel
Damm, seeing PIERRE XO on here was surreal. His rants are mind blowing.
Same!
Not really
He’s brilliant
@blue BLUE I agree with you
@blue BLUE Every artist is cringe one form or the other cause art doesn't have to appeal to everyone, but he doesn't just spin chairs and have camera move around, he does music, painting art, magic tricks and stuff. Still though, it is great that you see him having great points instead of totally dismissing him.
1. Hearing "I Love You" from your Dad hits differently from hearing it from your Mom
2. "Because the trauma in the life i can take a punch better than i can take a hug"
Man if that ain't the truth.
“We’re not even best-“ you was about to hurt bros feelings with that one
When preach mentioned how your father saying they love you hits different I felt that in my spirit
I can't even remember the last time my father said that to me
@@DubstepMagiic lol same
What’s a father?
_If they swapped bodies this would be an internet meme_
I have had someone introduce me as their girlfriend when we had no conversation about what we were and I didnt like it. It has to be a mutual agreement
Exactly! You have to consider the feelings of the other person regardless of gender. The double standards on this are really sad honestly... Why is a woman in unrequited love seen as the poor unloved vulnerable person, but a man in unrequited love is seen as pushy and creepy?
@@WCBProductions A woman's unrequited love is seen as a gift/stamp of value, a man's unrequited love is seen as a sign he's low on value.
@@snapeinvader the world's disgusting
That dude should run if he can. Call law enforcement if he can’t.
She seems to have the mind of a teenage girl, some real arrested development there.
She dresses like the "cool chick" in high school. That's what she probably was 25 years ago and cannot let go. Don't get me wrong she is attractive and she can still sort of pull it off. That doesn't change that she could be his mom, and she's clinging to this young pretty boy like her lost youth. She's not getting her twenties back. It's all gone.
So nice when damaged people meet!!!
Strong infatuation will do this to some degree no matter who you are. We are all just gambling on whether its mutual and pretending to be adults in hindsight when it works out. The parts of the brain involved in courtship are intertwined with the parts involved in play behavior.
@@homelessrobot That's a very good point. Nobody can really say to be safe from it. After a certain age, though, "falling in love" it's not something to wish upon oneself. There is no worse fool than an old one.
He is actually an interesting character with some good youtube video about this experience and other things, but SPOILER ALERT... they didn't last and it crashed and burn badly.
How bad?
It was bound to happen tho...
_BlueBlazing_ pretty good. Pierre wasn’t looking for a relationship, but she started catching feelings when he said he didn’t want one to begin with
_BlueBlazing_ there’s a follow up video on Jubilee and Pierre talks about it on his own channel.
@Stasss 💀
Why is he getting hate? She's creepy and overly attached. 3 months dude, 3 months.
He can acknowlegde what love is, but only wants to people to know him and his voice. It's normal, he has his hole life ahead. She is ok but still she should know better. Like someone said in another comment, it's a playa vibe
Gandalf721 Just because someone has strong feelings for you does not mean they are entitled to you reciprocating it back to them. If she is okay with him not putting a label on it and takes him as he is the way he is then it’s her choice. She knows what she’s getting into. She isn’t being misled or promised a relationship or anything of the sort. He offered her himself as he is and she accepted it.
The expectation of a relationship vs the reality.
I agree with this
I think neither of them are in a healthy relationship. She's way too committed, he's not broken off the relationship even if he can't really reciprocate what she needs.
“I can feel your expectations overtaking who I actually am…” (concerning people who compliment-bomb) - so true, something for parents to understand early on with their kids
I feel bad for the woman but its also not Pierre's fault that she is more invested than he is
I misread that and I was about to go off like "How is it his fault?!" Then I read it again... Lol
Nobody is at fault here, it doesn’t have to be right vs wrong all the time. They felt differently about each other, and both expressed their feelings openly and honestly. He didn’t feel the same, and that’s just how it is sometimes.
*The Aba & Preach AND PierreXO is the crossover I didn’t know I needed!*
S. D. I KNOW RIGHT
The truth ⬆️
I call that "The longest breakup" their whole relationship.
This is an " artsy relationship" . Now that i am older i couldn't do it 🤣I find it super tiring and the lack of boundaries and constant delving in is no longer appealing. 🥴
“I don’t know what love is” a classic move
"because of the trauma in the life, i can take a punch better, than i can take a hug" amen.
If I would be in that situation, every answer would be: "this is the wrong place to discuss this."
That dude is right out of Anime Central Casting, I’ve never seen somebody try so hard to look like aloof, attractive, bad boy type you see in Anime all the time
Straight talk. That's a pretty man.
ewww fuck no
True..... but i still hate his how his hair is done.
Like...so pretty. Unbelievably pretty.
@@beccadotelpy a guy that looks like a girl isn't pretty, wtf are you people even saying, it's actually fucking creepy
Most men I know, the last thing they want to be called is pretty lol
Her: he's my boyfriend
*Few moments later*
Him: let's not label it yet.
As a woman I totally respect Pierre's honesty. He was stuck in an uncomfortable situation but was still able to voice how he felt. He cared enough for her not to lead her on just to save face.
Aba: "They're not only best friends they're lov-
Preach: "We're not even best friends".
Aww, poor Aba.
"Because the trauma in the life i can take a punch better than i can take a hug" Preach just made me cry 😢
I cannot imagine agreeing to have this conversation with anyone in room other than my partner and me. I wouldn't even want a priest or a therapist there... This is so bizarre.
Gawd damn when the dude opened his mouth 😂 I thought that was a woman 😂
I know I nearly dropped my phone 🤣
Same here.... about came out of the seat
I honestly think his goal is to confuse people. He's thin, has long hair, uses mascara, and has very feminine movements.
Yeah, Pierre gets that ALOT
Lol i thought i was going crazy for a sec
Coming back to this a year later and damn that’s a weird situation.
I'm sorry b4 they talked i thought this was a lesbian relationship he looked like a female
I cant believe that is even important.. how dare you ... I did too I thought the were lesbians too.
Niklas Smith well he is Asian. Lots of asian men look like their female’s when wearing makeup.
Me too haha
same
@@katmiller614 every man can look like a woman with makeup. We literally look like each other. The only masculine trait is the jawline