Healing Our Sisterly Love ft. Sorelle Amore

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  • @xxsm5853
    @xxsm5853 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Having known and followed Sorelle (Sorelle’s channel and what she portrayed) it’s very interesting to see how much she’s opened up lately. And it’s very refreshing to actually see even some darker parts of her.
    Fully human. Very nice.

  • @StefWild
    @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This is my favourite video of all time. It's so special to me to have this raw and vulnerable conversation with my sister. I would love to know how it made you feel. Was it helpful? Did you learn anything? What realizations did you have? :)

    • @softbuns21
      @softbuns21 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I realised that we can have narcissistic qualities from having narcissistic parent(s) but it doesn’t mean we either are or aren’t. I have struggled with ‘not turning out like them’ for a long time and it’s comforting to know that I will have some qualities I’ve picked up in order to survive or just by being around them. And I can recognise and work on those qualities. Thank you for this 🫶

    • @stayawakenhealthy2539
      @stayawakenhealthy2539 ปีที่แล้ว

      Loved it Stef, I'm SO glad I've met you both and your Mum.💕💕💕 Living outside the same little village as you, It's always a pleasure to stop and chat with you. In the Vid towards the end, I loved where you both mentioned you don't know when your time is up. That's SO true as 11 yrs ago this May I had a fall off a ladder and Dr's said I would NOT live to my ex-partner OR I'd be in a wheelchair. I lived and am not in a wheelchair and VERY much think it happened for a reason and my number was NOT up. After 20 + yrs of being together and raising 5, I now feel VERY FREE and at 57 yo I NOW think "How do I want to be remembered." Sorry for raving on Stef,🙏 I'll be planting tree's for "Mother Earth" and to give homes and food to our wildlife. All my 5 Young adults are happy which makes me happy. StayYOU Stef and Sorelle and life will continue to be GREAT for the AWAKE.💯🙏👌👏👏✔✔💕💕

    • @StefWild
      @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@softbuns21 Love!

    • @lugiono4867
      @lugiono4867 ปีที่แล้ว

      Z

    • @melissa_louise
      @melissa_louise ปีที่แล้ว

      This made me reflect massively on my own relationship with my sister!

  • @KonradNomad
    @KonradNomad ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I think the family holiday was perfect, because we had a good time and things came up that no one was prepared to discuss in the past. I know there were family interventions with me, especially when I came back from Poland being all high and mighty, and then the whole family brought it up and it hurt but at the same time it propelled me to become the person I am today.
    Stef you have changed so much in the past few years and I am extremely proud of your transformation and Sorelle as well. I love you both and I can't wait for family holiday no.2 yippeeeeee
    p.s. Stefi I sent you messages, on instagram, whatsapp, in the past, message me when you are happy to talk. Love you

  • @alexrockinjapan8501
    @alexrockinjapan8501 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is a beautiful interview. So genuine and real. There is just so, so, so much value in this kind of openness and these kinds of raw conversations/discussions.
    Being vulnerable, showing one's imperfections, and exposing one's true self without the need to impress. It's just like the lyrics of (rock) songs and exactly why they are so powerful and help (heal) people. Chester's lyrics and Linkin Park's music are just one of the many examples out there and I just mention them because I know that Sorelle listens to them (Meteora ♡) and maybe now I also understand the reason why.
    Stef's insights about narcissism and that it is actually just a survival and protective mechanism were really eye-opening. I had already realized that it often stems from the "chain of abuse" but I guess I haven't fully realized that it's there for self-defense and that everyone or at least most people who experienced or witnessed abuse have some of that in themselves.
    I got the feeling that you are both extremely gorgeous and knowledgeable people and you should never compare yourselves to each other or other people. There's only one person you should compare yourself with and that's the person you were yesterday.
    Also, these (TH-cam) videos helped me a lot to overcome the mental and emotional abuse I suffered in my last relationship (which was with a narcissist) and probably also the family dynamics I had to endure when I was young. I'm pretty sure I can't post links, so here are just the titles:
    ① The Worst Snake of All is Malevolence | Jordan Peterson
    ② When Childhood Abuse Turns Into Disturbing Behavior - The Story of Beth Thomas | Dan Abrams
    ③ How Your Past Trauma Really Works I Dr Gabor Maté
    ④ Chamath Palihapitiya: Money, Success, Startups, Energy, Poker & Happiness | Lex Fridman Podcast #338
    ⑤ Visionaries are People Who Can See In The Dark | Justine Musk
    There's probably nothing more healing and helpful than hearing other people's stories, realizing that you are not the only one and that you are not alone, starting to face your own pain and your past, and letting it all out by openly talking about it.
    Thank you Stef and Sorelle (⌒‐⌒)♡

  • @goodthinkingtv
    @goodthinkingtv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stef, what a beautiful soul you are ❤️. I can relate to your suffering from childhood and how you're feeling. It's amazing to turn that pain into something positive to help others. So much respect to you 🙏
    I find it strange that Sorel talks about being set for life financially and you're really struggling. I hope she shares with you, as she's been blessed in that department. Wishing you both the best ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alicegornik9525
    @alicegornik9525 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seeing both of you sharing so much vulnerability is just heart warming. Thank you for showing us how important it is to do the inner work. It’s so inspiring to see you just being human. That’s what really matters. That’s what connects us all.

  • @Bobadillaadventurs
    @Bobadillaadventurs ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hello friend shout-out from Phoenix Arizona I love you both you're both great souls with the great attitude

  • @Jan.harvey
    @Jan.harvey ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love hearing the roosters! And I love hearing and seeing how compassionate and intuitive and understanding you are with each other. You have both grown so much.

  • @hayleeromrell3000
    @hayleeromrell3000 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “I want to be part of your life.” Sweet, vulnerable, genuine.

  • @leichtliving8740
    @leichtliving8740 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing healing ladies. I have three sisters and trauma, expectations of one another, expectations of immediate and distant family also society has so many impacts on the way we perceive ourselves and the life we choose to live now as adults. Thankyou sisters of the world for sharing your experiences❤❤❤

  • @laurafantuzzi5359
    @laurafantuzzi5359 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think this kind of therapy-like conversation format has a lot to offer to people who are struggling with some form of trauma, to relate and be able to observe some of the healing process happening in real time and maybe pick up a few ideas for themselves… it’d be great to get raw conversations like that with more people! I think you would be really great at having those conversations and helping navigate people through their thoughts and emotions like you did in this video, through demonstrating in real time how you talk about your feelings and emotions and sharing your own experience with inner work and healing.

  • @LovinDebsFit50s
    @LovinDebsFit50s ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Subscribed and Listening. I’m so sorry that y’all had to go through that. I got married when I was 16 years old and I was mentally and physically abused. I came from a dysfunctional family. Self-healing work is important and it’s never too late to start healing. I will be turning 60 this year. Much love to you beautiful sisters!! 🫶✨🫶

    • @StefWild
      @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry to read about your abuse and thank you for sharing about your experience. It definitely is never too late to start the healing journey.

    • @LovinDebsFit50s
      @LovinDebsFit50s ปีที่แล้ว

      @@StefWild Thank you love. Blessings from the USA

  • @murielwolf1201
    @murielwolf1201 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you two so much. Stef, you're so brave. You made my heart so happy and warm. Love you.

  • @sandydemeester
    @sandydemeester 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! What a beautiful raw and real conversation. Family Dynamics and sister relations are so powerful and intricate connections. Thank you for sharing, I felt your tears (I teared up too), and the love and so much life between you both.

  • @richatomar
    @richatomar ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You both really made me cry! I have two older sisters and recently we have been working on ourselves and rebuilding our bonds too! Thanks for sharing your story. My heart was full listening to it, felt so similar in experiences of my own family even we are continent apart.
    When Sorelle shared her trying to keep a happy face after her father beating Steff, i felt it connected me to see why Sorelle keep making funny or silly faces quite often in her videos, felt like a learnt coping mechanism. I myself took on self deprecating humor as an armor after getting beatings from my mom growing up, like oh tht beating didn’t even feel anything, or it didn’t hurt me i am so strong even when I was dying inside from insult, disappointment and fear..
    Thanks again both of you! Wish you much love and successes in all you do.

  • @AwakeThriving
    @AwakeThriving ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I also have a sister... the sibling rivalry is sooo REAL! Wish I could talk to mine this way one day... This was truly inspiring and touching! ✨🙏❤️

  • @tina-5842
    @tina-5842 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just had the feeling to pause the video for a moment to let you know, hat I absolutely love listening to you raw connversation. It made me think about my own relationship to my sisters. Thanks for sharing ... and now I will enjoy the rest of this video!

  • @autumnschlecht5138
    @autumnschlecht5138 ปีที่แล้ว

    The pure love and vulnerability is inspirational and relieving. I have an older stiffer who we have a similar life trauma and rivalry. I have followed your sisterly healing for about three years now. I am overjoyed to see your family to heal and to grow into a new butterfly

  • @ribby109
    @ribby109 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, I can relate to both of you in many ways. Keep going ❤️

  • @KonradNomad
    @KonradNomad ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow great interview.... You two must be so lucky to have a brother like Konrad. He seems like a super cool guy. :)

    • @SorelleAmore
      @SorelleAmore ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He’s the greatest man I know 🥹🥹🫶🏻🫶🏻🥰🥰💞💞💞💞

    • @boshenaw.929
      @boshenaw.929 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, I have known Konrad for many years now, He is an awesome human being :-)

  • @tessapriem2981
    @tessapriem2981 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was really beautiful. Very touching. So glad I watched. Thank you for this! Loved it.

  • @zahradoeslife
    @zahradoeslife ปีที่แล้ว

    I found so many similarities between you both and the relationship I have with my sister... I was in full-on tears by the end (still am hehe). I so appreciate and respect how deep and vulnerable you were both willing to go - conversations like these are beyond important, both on screen and off. Thank you for sharing such an intimate conversation and for being so honest. It's beautiful to see the results of self-work as well as inter-personal work and how deeply that can impact our most important relationships.
    I've followed Sorelle for many years now, and so found Stef through Sorelle, and it's fascinating to see how much you've both grown over the years. Thank you for living as your Unique Selves, in your own Essence, sharing the magic that you both came here to share. Love from a fellow Aussie

  • @empowerment.artist
    @empowerment.artist ปีที่แล้ว

    I cried many times. Many of the content creators seem so perfect, but when you share what immense hardships you lived through and have overcome it makes you relatable and (even more) inspiring. It may be silly but it also takes away the jealousy for me, bc of the part of me that still believes some people got everything easily.
    I'm multi passionate and my things turn into gold as well, interestingly I was a golden child, too.
    Now that I've overcome my traumas and illnesses, I can help others, too.
    Your wisdom and openness is so important healing, thank you so much

  • @cigdemturkmen
    @cigdemturkmen ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. It was intense and interesting. I love it

  • @BonnieMurthy
    @BonnieMurthy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such beautiful sharing from both of you! ❤
    Wishing you both a lifetime of connection, sisterly love and shared experiences that bring you closer and closer x

    • @BonnieMurthy
      @BonnieMurthy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ps- loved the rooster announcing the end of the video. That’s what I call good timing 😅

  • @melissa_louise
    @melissa_louise ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg this is the best video, so wholesome and lovely! Thank you both for allowing us to witness this side of your being!

  • @KeriAI518
    @KeriAI518 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing conversation! I'd give anything to have this type of interaction with my sister. Clearly you two have done tremendous work on yourselves. So rare that the family scapegoat and golden child can see the family with 20/20 vision. So much trauma and pain growing up with a narcissistic parent. Thanks for being so real, it gives me hope that there is the possibility for healing.

    • @StefWild
      @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your comment! Yes it is rare but it is doable with a lot of inner work and when both parties want to come back to love :)

  • @franchescabisono8241
    @franchescabisono8241 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow mind blown by the courage to be so open and vulnerable in this conversation. Very interesting to listen to the development of your characters, both of you seems to have grown so much, congratulations. Thank you for sharing.

  • @nadjabayer4921
    @nadjabayer4921 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok, I cried. I could feel all of it. I'd with to have more connection to my parents and brother, but we always stop at only talking about the surface. Thanks for sharing.

  • @lot7343
    @lot7343 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Stef for being so vulnerable! I feel so relieved to hear you have experienced feelings that I also have. But I kept them in the shadow and now I realised it's okay and I just have to do more healing. You are both so inspiring. Keep sharing your wisdom! Cuz I'm loving it!

    • @StefWild
      @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww this is so amazing to read. Thank you for sharing a bit about your experience. Yes, all parts of us deserve love, even the darkest creepiest ones. That's the way we bring them out of the shadows and learn to understand them :)

  • @Triox.Travels
    @Triox.Travels ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of the most powerful conversations I have ever witnessed, let alone on the internet. Thank you so much Steph for opening up this space of vulnerability and keeping it so real.

  • @celiatudor4686
    @celiatudor4686 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my I was crying and laughing with you beautiful ladies, especially at the end. Thankyou both for being so raw and vulnerable, been following both your journeys for years now (came along to on of your tantra workshops stef) . Makes me reflect on my relationship with my brother and how we can become closer, life is so precious 🙏 💜 hope your travel adventures manifest in the future!

  • @sigridkarl6206
    @sigridkarl6206 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This conversation is so wholesome - it really touched me and i learned a lot from you two - thank you for that!
    I also had the experience that the connection with my siblings got a lot better and closer as soon as I opened up and we had these kinds of vulnerable conversations, where we reflected a lot about the past and family dynamics and it really feels good and there's just even more love and connection there afterwards - so it really is worth it to talk about the uncomfortable and at times painful memories and emotions
    everybody has their own timeline when they are ready to talk about this - but i feel like if one person does the first step - it just opens a door for the others to be vulnerable as well and to connect and be there for each other
    Also I really relate to the struggle of physical distance - that sometimes you need it to go your own path - but that it can also be really hard because you just miss family a lot
    but when you get to spend time together you just really appreciate it so much more and try to be present and try to prioritize quality time
    I love my siblings and my sister so much - this video just makes me want to hug them right know

    • @StefWild
      @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for sharing about your experience! So lovely to read and good on you for being brave enough to have these conversations with your loved ones :)

  • @diese_anna633
    @diese_anna633 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much for sharing your vulnerability with us!

  • @agallagher9125
    @agallagher9125 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. So much wisdom and beauty in this conversation. You touch on some really heavy issues with such love and humility. Thank you both for sharing this. ❤

    • @StefWild
      @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much

  • @ananastea
    @ananastea ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hey, I looooved this! thank you so much for your vulnerability. i have 4 sisters and even though we are on great terms and i love them to death, this was still so relatable, therapeutic and cool to see as we had somewhat similar moments in the past. it’s amazing how strong the sibling ties are and how willing we are to restore and upkeep a good relationship. i’m happy for you both! and thank you again for sharing.

  • @mack_on_earth
    @mack_on_earth ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Enjoyed this talk so much. Real talk is so healing ❤️‍🩹

  • @andreadybvik
    @andreadybvik ปีที่แล้ว

    This was beautiful to watch! Thank you for sharing from this honest and raw place 🤍

  • @jana222
    @jana222 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stef your laugh is so beautiful!
    Great interview, I enjoyed it soo much. Would love to see a part 2 in the future.

  • @anandarogers8631
    @anandarogers8631 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cried when you guys cried but it was tears of happiness for you two! Happy that you two are healing and love each other so much and sharing this experience together. This inspired me to reach out to my brother, so imma go do that now! K thanks byeee

  • @AlexaJanell
    @AlexaJanell ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The time is 4:44 here as I watch you two embrace 💗🫶🏽

  •  ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such a beautiful conversation, very healing. Thank you ! 💛

  • @222ashleyelizabeth
    @222ashleyelizabeth ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Watching this I felt sad. I missed out on a lot of connection with my sisters growing up and even now. I also felt hopeful that one day this kind of conversation can happen with my siblings. This is was beautiful 🧡

  • @livlau
    @livlau ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow. that was a lot of raw emotion. this conversation felt difficult to have, it really pushed a lot of uncomfortable buttons inside of me. (some tears were shed) but i think this has also given me curiosity and hope regarding my own relationships with family and siblings.
    thank you for the sheer bravery, courage, empathy and unfiltered openness that was present. this dynamic was an absolute pleasure to experience. thank you beautiful humans

  • @Lsohito
    @Lsohito ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was really beautiful and powerful ❤ It’s so amazing that you each do the part that helps to heal your relationship. This shows the magic that can happen when all parties does the work. You made me cry ❤

  • @ivita_
    @ivita_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very valuable conversation! Thank you both!
    Wondering - have you ever checked your human design profile? Feels like Sorelle is Manifestor..

  • @kylatustin
    @kylatustin ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤LOVE you two so so much and seeing your togetherness and open sharing brings my heART alive. Yay for healing our sisterhood wounds for self and humanity. You both inspire me so much .. and yes I bawled happy tears along with for Steph 😢❤

    • @StefWild
      @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awwwwww thank you sista from another mista! I love you so so much and can't wait to spend more time with you

  • @sebastianfronc256
    @sebastianfronc256 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re both freaking awesome ❤ Such a wonderful conversation that I would wish anyone could have with close and loved ones ❤ You’re such an amazing souls. You have no idea how much goodness has come out of your hearts and how inspirational it is

  • @Mohanadeva
    @Mohanadeva ปีที่แล้ว

    You have the most adorable laugh
    What a beautiful podcast and as a bigger brother i really felt that “because i love you” at the end 😩🥺😍😍😍😃😀🥰🙏🏼🙏🏼✌️

  • @taylorTyo
    @taylorTyo ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video so much; thank you both for sharing your vulnerability & connection with us all!! 🥲

    • @StefWild
      @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว

      Our pleasure! :)

  • @leslie.m.342
    @leslie.m.342 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this 💕💕💕

  • @ironfaces8406
    @ironfaces8406 ปีที่แล้ว

    The deeper i‘m into this „growing“ and „healing“ topic, i realize that people‘s patterns are so similar. There are some basics, each on a spectrum. There are relationships which are „the opposite“ of one another where it is „easier“ to find you own standing point , to discover yourself? (You ever thought about the word discover? Like Dis-cover - look behind a cover/fassade? ) Anyway, what i wanted to say is, to be that open and talk about what happened in life and how you looked behind the covers :D is always helping others SO MUCH, because it mirrors in so many people, just on an other spectrum… we, people, are searching for similarities anyway.

  • @MsShCat
    @MsShCat ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is beautiful on so many levels ❤

  • @ironfaces8406
    @ironfaces8406 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK you two for this video!!!! You make my Heart melt and my synapses go craazy. And it also motivates me to talk about my brain stuff seriously! It is so freakin helpful to listen to other people SPEAK IT OUT!! :D

  • @mariedavtyan371
    @mariedavtyan371 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG I'm crying😭

  • @AlexaJanell
    @AlexaJanell ปีที่แล้ว

    Crying over your love 😭😭😭 this was so real, raw and beautiful 💗 thank you for sharing your journey with us 🫶🏽

  • @juliho3779
    @juliho3779 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing!
    I deeply wish I could have kind of this conversation with my sister. Our relationship is shit and have always been. I worked so much on myself the last years. But to talk to my sister to give space for healing seems impossible. You inspire me. I feel a lot of love watching you two. ❤

    • @StefWild
      @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you can find a way back to love with your sister. Goodluck beautiful, I know how hard it can be

  • @julianaloureiro3868
    @julianaloureiro3868 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well, I don't have the perfect words but thank you for sharing this podcast! Me and my brother have many traumas because of our father and also other complicated family dynamics and this video really helped me to see a lot of things in our relationship, it was impactful. Thank you so much ❤️ Also I just want to say that the moment you had by the end of the podcast when you both were emotional was a blessing to me in some way, I felt privileged to be able to see you sharing your love, it was beautiful 🥺❤️

  • @peace9458
    @peace9458 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Now i know what i want to do with my sister ❤ thank you so much beautiful humans for being you 🤗🤗🙏❤️☀️

  • @zita-m
    @zita-m ปีที่แล้ว

    Gosh, this makes me want to have a sister... But hey! I have a pretty awesome brother too. :)

  • @MrAustella
    @MrAustella ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you both soooooo much!! I think I’m going to keep on coming back to it because I felt like some things were connecting with me. I feel like there is more space for me to open up to myself! I love you ! Thank you for this amazing talk ❤️❤️❤️❤️💓💓❤️💓💓

    • @StefWild
      @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! I've rewatched it a few times now and always get another insight from it too. Have had some big feelings after recording and releasing this. So healing. Thank you for your comment!

  • @softbuns21
    @softbuns21 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is SUCH a beautiful interview! I have gain so much from your conversation and I really appreciate you guys sharing with us all 🫶

  • @screen7136
    @screen7136 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think siblings are peoples first friends. I dont think theres nothing wrong with that. Society might pressure familys to divide but maybe for a reason theyre a huge source of strength and confidence. It helps for your spouse to have a healthy relationship with their family.

  • @linneahasselgren
    @linneahasselgren ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg, THANK YOU. ❤️

  • @lamyyartifex
    @lamyyartifex ปีที่แล้ว

    Time to call my sister, I guess ❤

  • @shanikanegrini1507
    @shanikanegrini1507 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    01:07:30 the han sang Halleluja while you hugged!🙏♥️🐓

    • @StefWild
      @StefWild  ปีที่แล้ว

      hehehe yes :)

  • @anasun5963
    @anasun5963 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you !

  • @zoeamy290
    @zoeamy290 ปีที่แล้ว

    How.... Do you have a relationship with your dad after this? Intense video.

  • @krstnenepoviem8250
    @krstnenepoviem8250 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are not narcissists

  • @liebingf
    @liebingf ปีที่แล้ว

    🍃 🍀 💚

  • @nadahaboudal
    @nadahaboudal ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorelle maybe you shy off because in your childhood if you were a " shiny start" your not loved by the majority of your family ( sis , bro , mom) and your dad used ur success as a way to punish your sister.

    • @SorelleAmore
      @SorelleAmore ปีที่แล้ว

      Holy shit. Wow. Maybe.

  • @veraschmidt5098
    @veraschmidt5098 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Being in tears watching you guys, just one word: WOW.🙏🏻❤️🥹