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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 พ.ย. 2024
- Healing money shame (I'm broke)
There's been a lot of things that I have healed over the time I've been doing inner work but I never would have thought that money shame would be one of them. Yet, it's been such a hidden driver towards my worth. Through going broke I've been able to uncover it and disatach my worth from financial success. It's allowed me to create more safety in my body. Through healing money shame and getting to the root of where it was coming from, I've taken my power back and been able to feel a deep inherent worth that doesn't rely on how successful I am financially and its been sooooo freeeeing!
It wasn't an easy one for me to uncover because financial success was so deeply ingraned into my makeup through my family and society. Something that we are all so deeply ingrained with since birth these days. It's like money has become the primary value of the world above anything else. At the cost of connection/ interconnectedness, community, morals and ethics and...love.
Through this video I hope that you maybe give yourself a moment to examine whether you also have attached your worth to your financial or career success and how that might be driving the actions you take in life. In a worldwide culture that is so driven by money, how much we have in our bank accounts and the titles that we carry, be the person that knows that you are worthy from the inside...without those factors affecting you.
Let me tell you...it's incredible freeing and confidence boosting. It creates a solid foundation for many other opportunities and paths in life that maybe you wouldn't have considered previously.
Learn more about my journey towards healing money shame through my video, make sure you subscribe to my TH-cam channel and like the video if you have enjoyed it. Also, drop me a comment and let me know what you got out of this video (I love reading your comments!).
Stef X
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I just love how raw and real you are! And I totally resonate with everything you said, it's all so actual for me too: placing freedom before wealth and creating wealth that is aligned with my soul.
I'm wondering what this video brings up for you? Do you feel like you attach your worth to money too?
Thank you so much for watching my video and being a part of this community,. I appreciate you deeply! :)
Thank you for this video!!! Listening you made me exhale finally... I'm also taking a break from Instagram because it overwhelmed me so much. I'm 31 and have a 17 old son, I studied many things: dancing, singing, yoga, philosophy in academia and now I'm "just" a stay at home mom and I have no idea where life takes me from here... Almost everyone online pushes success and "finding your dream" and earning massive amount of money. Also the thing that pisses me off is that in the spirituality/self help/coaching world it seems that if you"re broke, you're on the wrong path, not enough money equals you're not in alignment with the universe.... and I'm like... what?! Sorry if I'm a bit out of place and can't phrase my thoughts properly, english is not my mother language. Your perspective on this topic is soooo down to earth and relatable, it's not fancy and glittery but it helped me ease into my situation. I work on these topics in therapy and I'm on the path that you're talking about, finding my true motivation and core values and creating from there and also accepting that this time is for my son and this is the most wonderful (and a very hard) job I can have now... even if it's changing nappies and dealing with tantrums, helping him discover himself and the world.... and yes, I'm broke too.... but I hope that doesn't make me a less loving partner and mother... also my life experience and the inner growth of the past 10 years is mine and it's not measurable. Thank you again for helping me feel seen!
You go Stef ❤ the more I’m online the more “ick” I feel. I really think the internet is something we have no idea how to truly use yet. I even realize how much I hate using a keyboard to text!!! Buttons? A screen? I hate it! Especially when I think about work? I put so much emphasis on finding a job to find my worth… but what about a job I can ride my bike to? A job where I can use my hands? I feel you Stef! I think I lost myself in the internet… among many other things. Money feels like Monopoly money. I want to feel complete in myself, not my wallet… I can lose my wallet too easily for there to be that much worth in it 😂
Yes! So important we listen to all those feelings and sensations that our bodies send us! So feel you on the job part! I honestly feel that if it doesn't give me some level of fulfilment then I don't do it. In regards to money, I guess its part of the system we live in but so many people have just made it everything, and cherish it like a god when its simply a means to an end. There is so much to it! I like having money. I don't like the system its attached to that much haha ;P Love ya Lizzy!
When I look back, my parents never had fights about money from what I remember, but they were really great at saving. We lived frugally, but there was always money for holidays, education and great food.
It was only when I got married that the trouble started and continues right through. There was no saving, as any money I would save would be confiscated and spent.
Looks like it was not really my problem because as soon as I got out of that relationship, my situation changed again and I have started back on having aboundance.
I now think that stressing about money is like living in stress and exercising obsessively "to stay healthy". I found that exercising a lot less and being happy produces a lot better health, so most likely works the same with money :-)
Oh I love this! It's such a good reflection! Yes I agree with you! And I love the money mindset your parents had. You really have done so well after getting out of that marriage :) Love you!
I am proud I am broke because I know I can survive well without money. It took me the longest time to be comfy with that fact though. Having money is great but being broke allows you to stretch yourself and become self-sufficient in lots of different ways. Sure, there are some days it beats you but fixing something that is broken brings much more happiness than giving someone else a few hundred pounds to fix something for you ever did.
If I make myself a crochet blanket that keeps myself and my partner warm in winter I feel great... my Mom and my sister would just go and buy one as they do have money, not lots but enough that they don't have to think about it but where's the satisfaction with that?
I'm so glad you are doing well and love seeing your videos... don't disappear totally though, we'd miss you
Very interesting video 👌🏽.
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I have the same shame about money, thank you for the video