WHAT WE DO WHEN WE FIGHT AND MAKEUP Q&A
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ส.ค. 2024
- People are messy, therefore relationships will be messy... Not just who you're romantically involved with, but friendships, family, work relationships etc... It's normal to have conflict because we are all different. But they way we approach conflict and resolve it is of the utmost importance. We hope you enjoyed this video as we broke down how we try to handle conflict and sharing some of our personal experiences in how we have fallen short and even had some big wins while approaching this topic.
Something that we would love your advice on is the length of videos. We understand we are all over the place and we want to create a more streamlined approach to these videos so that we can produce more content... there are things we are working on regarding this topic but we would love your input! What length videos do you like? Are you more willing to watch an entertaining Vlog that is longer or a sit down video like this that is longer? We want to keep you interested and watching the full videos so any advice on that would be great! We could not be building this without you...
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Just like how Jess and Gabe has the conteam, we should be called the masterminds
OMG YOU ARE A GENIUS HAHAHAH Anyone else have any thoughts on this???
@@ToriAndChad That is literally the perfect name lol
THIS IS THE BEST THING I'VE EVER READ I LOVE IT
bro that’s such a cute idea! agreed.
Yessss!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Thanks to everyone who supported the channel! If you notice, we have a different camera! haha. V excited about it. If you have time, read the description and let us know on the length content you want from us and what you think works best on TH-cam! Love Yall!
Tori and Chad Masters I love how y’all are doing your videos now! But some ideas for y’all to do in the future...you should definitely do a cooking with chad and maybe some more Q&As about some things like modesty, tattoos, drinking, cussing, purity, dating boundaries , etc!!
We did film a portion of a cooking with Chad! And smart about the Q&A's! we have so much to say on those topics but we also like to research in advance to make sure we are sharing information that is good for our audience! That is why it takes a little bit longer the produce these videos! Thanks for all the feedback!
Would also love a Q&A on LGBTQ. I know its a very difficult topic, but I just don’t see enough Christian TH-camrs giving good advice about it, and I think you could produce some very godly insights!
I'm only a teenager and have so much to do before I'm ready for a relationship but I love watching your videos to prepare myself FOR marriage, if that's God's will. I myself have had so much difficulty with the topic of forgiveness and the way you guys put it was amazing. Never stop doing what you're doing, either through TH-cam or Instagram; never stop encouraging because it's what helps me and hundreds of others to remember God's love and purpose for my life. And Chad, always gonna love the mini-hands!!
Thank you for saying that! We want to make our videos watchable for anyone and everyone! (of course we have such a strong Faith presence in our videos, so that eliminates some people :(...) but we are doing the best we can! Also thank you for being so encouraging to US! It means so much! I'm currently high fiving you with the tiny hands! haha
I feel the same way about forgiveness. Tori and Chad did such a great job! Love this video and I would LOVE a part 2!!!!
I agreee I’m also a young adult and I felt the topics y’all discuss are always made so genuine, pure and centered on Christ!! I love it so much:-) thank you for being so vulnerable and genuine to us in all of ur videos!! Such a testimony love the both of you masters hehe
I think it’s amazing how open you guys are with your relationship and willing to talk about the not so fun parts. I feel like this is something a lot of couples, especially Christians, shy away from in fear of not looking perfect. God is truly using you guys for an amazing purpose and y’all have definitely helped me grow so much!
It bothers me how we shy away from it... I understand why because we want to protect our image, and not be vulnerable for fear of being judged but that removes the chance to experience grace from God and from people...
So much Godly wisdom in this! I appreciate y’alls humility and boldness to keep talking about hard stuff!
Much love!!
Thanks for saying that! To be honest with you, it's actually easier for us to talk about the hard stuff because it's so important to us! We find it much harder to "tread lightly" on subjects because it makes us feel less authentic (not that you need to be super deep and introspective to be authentic, but to us personally, we love going deep!) haha
"...I felt empowered to fix this with her FOR CHRIST..."
That was🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🙌
Guys. WOAH! I almost didn't click on this video because conflict is an area where I struggle in general. There are a lot of people in my life who refuse to take blame for anything and never say sorry so my view of conflict has been corrected and more difficult. Working on it. Anyway, I'm not even halfway through and it's been so impactful! THANK YOU
Dang that's powerful! Thanks for giving this video a shot and challenging yourself! It really speaks of your character that you we're willing to watch something that would make you uncomfortable...thanks for being awesome!
What can people do if family members or friends they love have very negative attitudes toward life. It's very complicated as not everyone is willing to ask for help or even willing to take any responsibility? If one is willing to try and others dont. It's hard to ever get resolved too often. Ignoring issues never helps.
Regular subscription box readers know the difference when Chad write it vs when Tori does.
But to answet the question, I loveee longer sit down videos where you talk about certain topics. They contain so much wisdom in them and I never get out of them without a new lesson.
hahha I actually write them all! (Chad here)... Today was a bit different because have some personal stuff going on and trying to keep up with everything life keeps throwing! lol So sorry if this one wasn't as "fun" as I typically try to make them! But stay tuned fun stuff is coming! Also, thanks so much for being such a great supporter! We love that you like the longer videos... to be honest, the longer ones are much easier than the short ones. We just get nervous that it may be too long for "youtube" ya know?
"Sometimes the goodness of your heart will lead you to have conflict with people because you want the best for them."
That hit hard, it's honestly so relevant to my life this past year. Thank you for the reminder because i've gotten into the habit of confusing love with being kind which is not healthy especially when i avoid confrontation :(
When I get a notification that you guys updated, my mood comes up automatically. And I’m still 18 years old but what great knowledge I get from you guys to prepare for life already!
Very nice of you to say that!
I am 18 too and I am happy I found their channel
I'm Muslim and I love this, it's amazing how similar our religions are! Love that you guys center God in your relationship that's what we do too as Muslims.
Yes for the Masterminds and yes for the part 2!🔥❤️(I asked the question with “who says sorry first” haha)🙌🏻 #Mastersfam #Masterteam #Masterminds
haha your read that! haha amazing! Thanks for the hashtags too, we want to come up with a name because some people don't want to be called subscribers but something more personal!
On the length of videos....because I have watched almost all of your videos and know that I always really appreciate what you guys have to say, when I saw you had a new video (yay!) and that it was 30min, I decided to wait until I could sit down and give full attention to it. When I watched it, it did not at all feel that long! :) I agreed with everything you had to say. Good wisdom. I would say I'm more likely to give time to "wisdom videos" than to a long vlog (but the vlogs are really fun). Actually, a note on the vlogs...I appreciate them because you guys still make it worth our time. Examples - Tori sharing her devotion during the get-ready, or Chad explaining what Love means to him in the birthday video. That is part of why I value your videos so much. Thanks again! Looking forward to your next video!!
Powerful video-especially about spiritual warfare! The story about realizing that the enemy is against marriage and is trying to destroy it-incredible. Thank you so much for making this video!
Yes ma'am! the enemy is not fond of marriage and it's sacred union! So remembering to fight the real enemy in a united way is the best thing we can do! Thanks for supporting us!
Thanks for the heart ♥️ you out in your videos, this one especially! Great quote at the end & love the awesome picture quality!
Hey y’all! That was amazing and I’m so thankfullllllll- just a couple nights ago I had a major conflict, but then God used the conflict for amazing things now and still is!! Thank you for inspiring me to make a channel of my own , it has been something I wanted to do for years but never took the time to learn and get started actually... so thankful!
Wow you guys dropped some truth bombs. So happy I stumbled across this channel, always appreciate your honesty and wisdom. Please do a part 2!!!! 🙏🏻
Thank you for this. When you both mentioned how Satan hates unity so the enemy will cause strife. I totally needed to be reminded of that. I’ve been struggling mentally and I have to remind myself that the enemy is trying cause conflict not only with relationships around me but the relationship I have with myself.
Your husband is really wise and humble and so good looking!!
Such a timely message full of wisdom.your marriage is an inspiration. Blessings from Kenya
Great advice about overcoming conflict by denying the enemy!! 🙌🏻 That was such great wisdom!
This is my new favorite channel! Love you both + how much you compliment each other. Thank you for this amazing video.
You guys are so inspiring to me, I can feel how God talks to me trough you, thank you so much!
I always watch videos till the end. That being said, I'm more likely to get excited about a long sit-down video than a long vlog. I think the lengths of your videos are good!
WOW this video has blessed me..it's so good, as always, thank you..!! I love your perspective on conflicts here + I'm totally inspired by how u two handle conflicts in the right perspective of the Bible! What a beautiful Christ-centered relationship! and anyway, I think I'm a people-pleaser too.. but I love what Chad says in the video; "don't be afraid of having conflict because that gives space for God to come in the picture & redeem things". Very well said!! So thank you once againn for doing this! Your videos have been such huge blessings for me (+ I believe many more people out there hihihi), love u both!! :)
watching this a few years later and WOW---thanks so much for sharing how you have worked through conflict. Ach, I fall so short in this area but your video really a) brought grace to this b) reminded me of our identity in Christ and c) encouraged me to keep pursuing the Lord in conflict
I like the longer videos! I watch the whole thing no matter how long.
We are thankful you watch the entire thing! It actually helps us!
You guys are so beautiful inside and out!! So thankful for y’alls obedience to share some wisdom!!
Thannks for being kind and encouraging us!
I'm just new to this channel. And the first time I saw these Master's I already fall Inlove. It's like there's something about you guys that makes people fall Inlove in just a single snap. Thank You for the wisdom's and encouragement ❤💙🖤
We are happy that you made it! Thanks for finding us and being so kind!
okay, you guys are SO real and that’s why we follow you, and I believe this is just the beginning. Seriously, what God holds for you both is SO huge that I can already imagine how we’re gonna celebrate your 1M subscribers hahaha thanks for being so inspiring and for pushing us to be more like Jesus. And I do love longer videos, so if you could please put a 1hour video I’d be glad to watch it 🤣🤣
That would be literally crazy. Trust me when I say, we cannot fathom that lol. It just seems so far away... Like we just hit 1million views on here total, and we have friends that get that per day. hahah But we believe God is already moving on this channel and we are excited for whatever He wants to do on it! Also, love that you like the longer videos I think we will try to mix it up a bit with the timing of videos so that people who want shorter videos feel encouraged to watch as well! Thanks for the love!!!
Y'all better PREACH! Haha love it. I'm not in a dating relationship right now, but this is definitely going to be helpful in a future husband-wife relationship, and definitely helpful in friend relationships too!! I also love how you guys said that it is satan we are fighting against, not each other. so good!! P.S. I love the sit down long videos! Lots of good stuff in every minute. :) also love the fun entertaining ones too! (ready for #cookingwithchad haha)
Sooo much wisdom❤️❤️ Thank you guys for this! I appreciate this content👌🏾
This is gold!! Thanks for sharing with us some advice you've learned. Hope you guys are doing amazing! Blessings :]
I'm so thankful for you two, for your marriage and for your channel, a truly big blessing for me! PART 2 PLEASE!!. Blessings from Paraguay 💕
Very kind of you to say all of that!
I loved this!! This was really good to hear and you both are so strong in your faith. And to answer y’all’s question, I love the longer videos. I wouldn’t worry about a time limit because I get so much out of them and sometimes I wish they were longer, haha! And I’m sure other people would agree to this! :)
Thanks for saying that! The main thing we are struggling with is... could this 28 minute video be 2 14 minute videos? or 4 7 minute videos etc... Just not sure how we should break them up to encourage people to click on them!
Wow, you guys are so amazing and real. Thank you!! God bless you and your marriage.
Thank you so much for this! So much wisdom ❤️!
Thank you so much for taking the time to comment and be kind!
Great advice, I would love a part 2 to this video!
Oh man! Let me break out the camera! haha
I honestly love the longer videos!💕
Coming from a different religion this makes me feel how much we're similar. I look up to your wisdom and experience... you and Chad are blessed and we're grateful to watch your journey unfold. So much love and grace x
Aww thanks for sharing that! We are thankful for you!
Such a great video. Def do a part 2, or series! I am single right now with no prospects, but I am learning so much and hopefully will bring a lot of these wonderful things to my future relationship!
This is so encouraging that so many people would want a part 2!
This was so helpful I loved it!! Thank you so much for this! You guys are the BEST youtubers! Keep shining your light for Jesus :)
Thank you for being so encouraging! People like you help us to do what we are doing! Seriously, thankyou!
This is gold to me. Thank you very much for sharing.
Wow I am so happy how you present your relationship with the aim to honor God. Also when I am from Germany I feel connected with you, esspecially because of the believe in God. I've watched so many videos from you both and you encouraged me in so many points. Thank you so much, praise God. I have also a relationship and your tips helped me to overthink something and to work on how to communicate etc. Move on with TH-cam, I am sure you will help many other people who are in a relationship, engaged or married. God bless you!
So powerful. Love this you guys.
This is some amazing stuff, thank you for being good role models
wow, i definitely avoid conflict. This inspired me so much, thank you for being vulnerable with us. I love this type of videos!! so good. Gods so good. Keep being bold about your love for Jesus.
Thanks for the love! We enjoy making videos like these!
Loveeed this. I tend to avoid conflict too 😐 I am single but I love hearing how you guys resolve conflict because I feel it is preparing me with the right Godly wisdom I will need someday 💓 thank you guys!
... Btw every answer recieved a kiss (YOU GUYS ARE THE CUTEST)
hahah that's just some real life right there.
You 2 are amazing and have such wisdom for your age. I've been happily married for 37 years and I still learn more and more from listening to you. God bless, love your videos and how humble you are. You understand the gospel and God's love and forgiveness so well, it took me years to get where you're both at. Praise God!
Oh wowowow! Congrats on such a long marriage! love that! You are so kind to encourage us like this... Thanks so much for the love Danielle! I'm sure Tori and I could learn books on books of wisdom from you...
@@ToriAndChad you are welcome, but amazingly enough I find that at my age (60), I have learned quite a few things from you and Tori and other young Christian couples (also from Andrew East & Shaun Johnson.). But you 2 are really quite amazing, you have such a healthy relationship, I will pray for you both that you won't let get Satan get the best of you ever and that your eyes will always stay focused on God and His love. You have something very precious. I've seen so so many of our friends's marriages destroyed through the years because they let go of God or have too much pride to admit they're wrong, etc. Chad I am so impressed that as a man you are so humble and willing to admit when you are wrong and apologize; that makes all the difference in the world as to how your wife responds to you. Keep up the good work with God in it and God Bless.
Thankyou both so much for posting this! Soso much wisdom! So excited for more videos ☺️
Thanks for taking the time to watch it! Can't wait to get more videos for yall!
I love how you put that we don’t deserve grace. I’ve always thought that if I am not perfect in the area I don’t want to give grace to that person, (Nobody is) I have to forgive them because God forgave me.
In a world of so many people pleasing christians(me)You answer questions from a clear biblical perspective and honesty .With the goal to please God!! I love you guys.😇🙏🏽❤️ Keep your videos coming!!💯
Thanks a lot for saying that!
Woooww!! This video was fantastic! You guys have AMAZING videos, but this one has to be my favourite!!!
Thanks so much for the love!
y’all are amazingggg and give such great advice !!!
Thanks for watching the entire thing and taking it what we are sharing!
Loved your q&a!!! Really really helpful!!! Please do a part 2!! Thank you guys for being yourselves!!💕
Thanks for the love!
Sooo good!! Thank you for your advice!☺️
Second one please:)
I'd love a video of you two doing a more indept video on bible study - like about how to start, what to use, stay concentrated + focused
~ lots of love from the Netherlands💞
Btw loved the end :)
I love all your videos Chad and Tori! But I need to say that today, you guys are such incredible people and an amazing Christ centered couple! I love your marriage and you definitely inspire everyone who watch you! And this video is such an important one, it definitely helps me deal with conflicts with my husband in a healthy way!
I had the first real fight with my boyfriend and struggeled with how to choose forgiveness, cause I still felt so angry. After your video I feel so at peace and so humbled that my anger completely disappeared. You had the words God intended me to hear right now at this point. Thank you ❤️
Oof that qualityyyyyy thooooo 👌🏾❤️
Just trying to be excellent over here hahah
Tori and Chad Masters i love you
I would love to see more videos about marriage. For Christian singles out here trying to prepare for marriage and women trying to navigate how they should talk to their husbands in a godly submissive way. How we should address conflict with wisdom and grace. This video definitely gave me much more insight and will have an impact on my future marriage for sure! Thank you guys for being faithful and being a big sis and bro that I can come to for advice!!
I will be praying for you guys this week! 💓
Those are great ideas!!! Thanks for encouraging us and being so consistent in supporting what God is doing in our lives! Very kind of you!
around 17:00 , you two begin discussing not going to bed angry. I find Ephesians 4:26 to be very helpful :) it states, "And don't sin by letting anger control you. Don't let the sun go down while you are still angry." This scripture reallllly tugs at my pride and everytime I read it/remember it, I feel the Holy Spirit tell me to humble myself and abide by this! Hope this helps, Love you guys!! God Bless :D
Love that Grace! Thanks for sharing this!
Thank you for sharing this important video! This gives me hope that one day I’ll be able to have a healthy marriage and not fear conflict with him. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ You Guys are so beautiful in the Lord! Love y’all!!!
Thanks for taking the time to watch it! Conflict can be a very very good thing when it's done right! We love you!
love this advice! Thanks for answering my question you guys! much appreciated :)
Absolutely! Thanks for asking a great one! haha
YAY!! Been looking forward to this video!
We hope that you love it!
Tori and Chad Masters I love it!!! Great job!
Thanks for watching the entire thing! !!
I just love how you guys are real. Watching this made me learn more things about you both especially on how you guys handle conflicts. this is a great topic and your pointers are very useful in resolving it.🐢🐨
Aww thanks! hahah We appreciate you saying that!
Tori and Chad Masters lol i actually sent you a longer dm for the ctual perspective on conflict lol and how i love your video lol i wont get away without a cheering post. yall are the best in this hahaha yoda approves this video 🐢🐨😂
Can't wait to read what you wrote!
YES!!!!!! Bethel’s Peace album!!!! I love it!!!!
Thank you so much for this, it helped me a lot, even tho I'm not ready nor in a relationship. But it really helped me, so thank you very very much ❤️
We are so happy you found it helpful!
I love how honest this is.x
always a joy to watch your videos Tori & Chad! I'd love for you guys to film a video where you tell your individual stories of following Jesus!
That is definitely on the list... We can't wait to share our testimonies with you all and hear more about yalls!
LITERALLY , what a great timing , I feel sooo down , your videos really grows flowers in my heart , I love you guys 💞💓
Aww that means so much! thanks for saying that! Love you!
@@ToriAndChad I LOVE YOU MORE 💞😭😍
Wow!! Thank you for this video, it's definitely something that I struggle with. Love you both
You're very welcome. We struggle with this too!
OMG I can totally relate to Tori! Love this guys! 💛
We love you!
Guys, thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and strategies for this topic! This is something I need to work on. God bless you both so much!!👍🏼🤗🙌🏽
Something we all need to work on! Thanks for sharing!
You and those little hands Chad!!! Love the beard Chad! Love both your advices and words of wisdom!! You guys sound like pros 🙂
Love that you love the hands haha Thanks for all your kind words!
Really enjoyed this video and enjoy this channel!!
Oooh! Good video!!! ☺️ very timely 😂
You guys are such a great couple. I am so much like Tori in that I do not like any conflict and I take it personal. Thank you for sharing your conflict resolution tips.
Aww thanks for the love!!!
Woohoooo... Amazing video guys 👍👌 I love your content... A sincere & genuine effort by someone always stands out... Kudos to you both... Annndddd I must add, you both are glowing n howwww... 😍😍😍
You've made the best use of this quarantine phase ...Love you... Stay home, Stay safe... ♥️♥️♥️
Ahem Chad, where can I get these lil hands ??
Aww thanks a lot, Priyancka! Very kind of you! We really do hope our authenticity and effort stand out! We always want to leave our subscribers (aka the fam) better each time we post and if we did that, then our goal was accomplished! Thanks for believing in us!
This is such a timely vid for me!!
We love hearing that!
If we deserved grace, it wouldn't be grace because that is the fundamental principle to the gospel.
Amen!
So much wisdom!!! Thank you!
Thanks for the love!
This was so helpful. Thanks guys!!!
I didn’t feel like it was too long, especially during quarantine :)
We're so happy that you liked this! And thank you for watching the entire thing and letting us know your thoughts on the length!
Another useful video, thanks!
We're glad you are able to use it!
Very good stuff 👌
Keep it up 👍
this video is speaking so much wisdom!!! thankful y'all are empowered to share this stuff because it is so important for people to hear!!! also LOVE your current worship music favs and wanted to recommend Chris Renzema's new album and Made for Jesus by John Mark Pantana!!
Oh man! I will have Tori look that up and add it to our playlist!
Wish I could give two tiny-handed thumbs up! ;)
I loooove the last sentence you put on the video... So true about harmony.
Also, about the length of the videos, whatever you prefer I think!!
A mix of both types could be interesting, but whatever fixes better with you :) :)
Aww dang! You watched the entire thing! That means so much... I put a lot of thought into what I want to say in those text boxes and that even one person reads them it means so much!
@@ToriAndChad hahaha, yesss!! I see your videos until the very end ☺️☺️ And today's sentence was precious and completely true. 😊🙏🏻 I may steal it and put on IG tomorrow haha 💖
:) do it! and tag me!
Fireproof is a great one too
War Room is also my favorite!!!
War Room is awesome
Thank you
You guys should definitely do a part two 👀👀💯
This is way after your video was posted, so you probably will never see this. However, I just wanted to let you know that this really helped me and made me look at conflict and fights in a way I had never thought about before.
I love you guys so much ❤
part 2 please because i love you guys
❤❤ God bless you both always. I totally love the God factor. It's great because it makes people want to know Jesus and give their lives to him.
Amen! !
You guys NEED to collaborate with Paul and Morgan!!! PLEASEEEEE! 🤩🤩🤩
Ooo! It's pretty long, as you said haha, but it means it contains lots of wisdom ❤ Send you lots of kisses!
Hahah Yeah, we thought about making it two videos... But who cares! hahah We hope that anyone who needs advice or just extra thoughts on this topic will enjoy it!
@@ToriAndChad Watched it one moment ago! Guys, you did awesome job, like wow! ♡
You're so kind! Thanks for boosting our confidence!
this video was so on time!
:)
Yasss amazing video yet again!...I love the way you guys can get real and don’t act perfect, the way ye talk and be honest is great and the advice is amazing ilysm....also Tori i love your chains where are they from??!....ilysm you inspire me day in day out..lastly lol do u have any recommendations for prayer journals??..it’s amazing the way we are WAY away from each other but I feel like I’ve know ye forever!...ilysm xxx 😊💖💖🇮🇪👍🏻🙏🏻🥰 (also read description I think whatever length that you guys are able for and remember to take some time to chill lol)
Sophie! Thanks for commenting! And thank you for the kind works about not being perfect... We truly do strive to be better every day, but we have our moments... haah often. But we want to learn about them. We got Tori's chains from Lisa Leonard Designs! And maybe you can message Tori privately on IG about the prayer journals! I (chad) respond to these comments haha! We love you Sophie!
Thanks for the reply you guys...I lovee the way you take time for your viewers and reply, I actually didn’t get ig even as a teen I never thought I needed it but that’s ok I’ll look online...xx...and Chad where are the lil hands from lol ?
hahah The tiny hands I got from amazon!I think Tori uses a personal Journal to write down prayers etc but its not a specific guided one.. :(
Thanks for taking the time to respond to my never ending questions lolll......did tori ever fix the candle?....also keep up the amazing work you put in never ending effort into all of the videos...keep smiling and stay safe ilyms!ll🥰🙏🏻❤️👍🏻🤩😄
Not yet! We put the candle on hold so we can do more videos :) haha