5 Humble Habits To Skyrocket Your Charisma
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Keanu Reeves has become the internet’s crush, whether he knows it or not. Normally on the channel, we cover extroverted celebrities, who charm in larger, obvious ways. What’s amazing about Keanu (aside from the fact that he’s 54 and looks 34) is that he is massively popular in spite of his reclusive and more introverted nature.
So in this video, we are going to explore why Keanu is so popular, and what you can learn to exude incredible charisma as an introvert.
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0:31 - Reason #1: He directs praise towards others.
2:05 - Reason #2: He exudes zen-like presence.
3:15 - Reason #3: He uses enthusiastic hand gestures.
5:12 - Reason #4: He embraces his type.
7:03 - Reason #5: He lives generously.
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When introverts get comfortable, we often get called extroverts
justice23cooksey YESSS
Agreed
I have constantly been mistaken as an extrovert. So everyone would constantly want to be around me and I'd just be like mmmmmm but I need a date with my bed too. The anime is calling my name
People seem to think introverts and extroverts are polar opposites but in reality they can have almost the exact same likes dislikes and mostly the same personality except one thing introverts find it harder to trust and show themselves to others while extroverts can find it easier yo lower there walls no one Is completely one or there other
I think everyone in this world are Ambievert,it's about condition
Somebody: * gives Keanu a compliment*
Keanu: (uno reverse card)
777 likes
999th like
YOU'RE breathtaking!
Somebody: *uwu*
NO, YOUR BREATHTAKING!
My introverted self taking notes:
1. Be 54 but look 34
2. Appreciate complements
3. Have a zen like presence
4. Punctuated enthusiasm from an introvert is unexpected and captivating to people.
5. Rub hands together when you start a story.
6. Use Visual, audio and/or kinesthetic emphasis when telling stories.
7. Be generous with your time with people.
8. Let go of things that do not matter to you, so that you can invest more time in things that matter to you.
Most of all. Let dogs eat ur shoelaces
As a women this would make me attracted to you. 100 points though if you add humor/ an anecdote that no one expects from you in that second. This makes the most charming person possible imo and you make people around you laugh
😂😂😂😂
@@user-qm8xe9tl9t I'll take that as advice
@@user-qm8xe9tl9t 😂
In a nutshell: Just be yourself. The more I watch the more I realize that what makes these people so great is that they're being genuine and vulnerable. That's what makes them charismatic at the end of the day. They are not "trying" to make an impression, necessarily. There's a fine line on trying too hard to be a certain way and actually applying these tips and still be yourself. I think the best thing I can do is focus on growing my confidence and the rest will come naturally.
some people are too weird to be themselves. it is not always well received
theres no thing as too weird, thats called being true top who you are.
When I am myself, I don't say a word at all.
What makes these people so great is called empathy! In today’s society it is ashamed it is usually considered a weakness and our children are not being taught empathy. I was babysitting my grandson and nephew both 4 years old. My grandson tripped hurt his arm and was crying in pain. My nephew totally ignored him…I brought my nephew over and said you see he is hurt, why don’t you help him? I can see the difference in both 4 year olds- and I know how they are being raised. My nephews parents are always working-struggling: they had kids young with nothing saved and now they are working such long hours to try to make it-they don’t have much “quality time” as the kids are left to play by themselves or be quiet and watch cartoons.
My grandson’s parents saved, bought a house and decided to wait to have kids when they were stable, done with college and both worked extremely hard and decided when they had kids mom would stay home to raise them and work part time from home. She ( my daughter in law) constantly interacts, looks them in the eyes, has conversations and asks lots of questions like how does that make you feel or what do you think of that and she listens!
I think compassion and empathy need to be taught at the beginning of life ( looking in your baby’s eyes, holding them when they cry, singing nursery rhymes and smiling at them) and continued throughout. ( teaching good ethics)
My two cents!
Worst advice lol
“He uses enthusiastic hand gestures”
Me an Italian: amateur
Mamma Mia me Gusta paparazzi isla de muera
WelcomeTo Life “me gusta” and “isla de muera” are spanish
@@raff03 me bueno
WelcomeTo Life bueno el burrito
@Draugr 👌
*So Basically he is liked*
*cause he doesnt act like a celebrity*
its called being genuine, and it is a uncommon trait in the world no just with in celebs
Lucas well, not really
non-celebs don't act like this either.
@Lucas Pewdie Pie wish he was like him. All he does is scream like a child all day. He loves attention so no. Nothing like him
@@therealist499 w h a t
I love this guy!
0:31 - Reason #1: He directs praise towards others.
2:05 - Reason #2: He exudes zen-like presence.
3:15 - Reason #3: He uses enthusiastic hand gestures.
5:12 - Reason #4: He embraces his type.
7:03 - Reason #5: He lives generously.
I have 3 of them 1 kinda
Kudos for the summary :)
Thank you for summary man
Thanks for the summary
Real reason: he’s a good looking multi-millionaire blockbuster movie star
What makes keanu different from other actors is -
1. His great dressing style
2. His witty nature that makes other smile
3. He's very humble.
4. Less interviews that makes audience interested in him. If latest interview of John wick will air tomorrow I will definitely watch it because he does very little media interactions and interviews.
5. He has connected himself to the audience.
1) if you like his dressing style you must dress like a bachelor on wash day….or toddler.
2) He’s not that much different really… from the view from my sofa of course. I wonder if he’s just infatuated with teeth? A man knows how to get what he wants.. 😁
3) sounds like frugal to me.
4) The interviews before a movie release would make sense.. outside of questions about the movie, it’s wash rinse and repeat.
5) willingly? 😂
@@peonyblossom1800 bro's just a hater
Thanks you guys for your love and support for me, I really appreciate you guys, how long have you be my fan
I think all of this is BS.
It is the Roles he played that made him famous. Neo. John Wick. Guys just love this silent calm hero stereotype. It has nothing to do with his personality. He is an ordinary guy.
@@peonyblossom1800 dude just get a life
Keanu: *talks calmly*
people: oh so charismatic
Me: *talks calmly*
people: are you on drugs?
First time?
Lol
Well it depends on your past exhibited behavior. If you usually are very energetic, sudden calmness will seem out if place and put people off, as it's out of the comfort zone
@@dylangaeta6462 its a joke.
Idk why but I like the fact people think i look like I’m tired all the time
Lost opportunity to title this video “WHY KEANU REEVES IS BREATHTAKING”
Genius Idea: Missed
I mean, yeah. But it would seem as clickbaitty, given that _that_ is not the topic of the video. Charisma would just be hoping on the bandwagon of overpraising Keanu for views
That is also another prime example of spreading the praise. Whether the guy who said it was joking or not, Keanu made everyone feel good by spreading the energy and praise.
he can still change it
would be smart
gen·u·ine
you’ve got a great point
Keanu's secret goes way beyond hand gestures and demeanor. It's his intelligence and thoughtfulness that keeps drawing you in, the way he considers every word before uttering it, the way he cares. It's the character not the gestures that make the man.
Keanu takes a compliment, magnifies it, and sends it back out into the universe to multiply. Bless this man.
As an introvert, I want quality individuals over a quantity of acquaintances.
Curious, Is there a way you sort out quality acquaintances?
Christopher Harders by actions. Being an introvert allows you to let the other person do most of the talking to figure out how they act/react. While you stay rather emotionally closed off.
Step/Sit back and watch closely.
Observe how they behave/interact with other people, how their behaviour does and/or does not change with their environment, whether they live by their words or not.
@Draugr, typically intellectual people tend to be introverts, but as with all rules, there are exceptions.
Keanu doesn‘t try to be cool, he simply IS.
Like a Lily and Rose Don't pretend they just are?
Cringe
@@channel_abc123_
Yes 😂
"No one is born cool, except of course..."
Me
I once saw Keanu Reeves at an art exhibit opening in Los Angeles. He was dressed in a dark brown suit with a dark shirt and tie. The man stood out because he’s Keanu, but was not flocked by people. He has this way of blending in despite being a celebrity. He seemed genuine and had a super humble energy about him. I regret not saying hello as a fan…
Everybody know if you want to get flocked you wave a couple of bottle and watch them all flock
Either that or a pool full of liquor
But Keanu is making empty hand gestures waving his hands... if he had a bottle they would all flock
Keanu has gone through so much in his personal life and I think that adds to his humility. There is no one like him.
Keanu's secret why he's popular? He's genuine. People see that.
You're right, on that for sure. Even if it's only on a subconscious level, when nobody actually thinks "that person's so fake", we respond to the uncomplicated way someone speaks and acts on some level. Some more than others, but I think all humanity has at least some of that beneath the surface. We just get numb to phoniness because there's so much of it.
He’s also a zaddy
And because he managed a successful career giving him mass exposure. Which might relativize his virtue. Maybe he even knows he did some bad stuff to get to where he is and that furthered his humility. - Do you ever wonder how many Keanu Reeves (or beyond that) there are in the world that you have never heard about?
Same reason why Pewdiepie is popular and likable. He's so genuine
@d0cy0 - A major reason why PewDiePie is popular is because 1) very skillful self-marketing regimen and 2) with that you can always find a group of people who would like anything (example: Bob's Boogers, hah), and 3) especially if you cater to the lowest common denominator, which ties into #1. PewDiePie bought into the easy way and as such helped feed it, and if he then complains about what has become of TH-cam and moves away, he is neglecting his own doing. It is a popular strategy to buy Jesus costumes from Satan, so to speak. - I have a very sensitive bullshit detector, so I see less innocent ignorance in people than many others. - PewDiePie attained great success in a really messed up system.
"you've been dubbed the internet's boyfriend, how do you feel about that?"
"i've been what"
Er what
Um what
What now?
"At-least take me out to eat first"
Exactly my reply.
The thing PewDiePie and you guys are getting wrong about why Keanu is so well thought of for his generosity....... is that he would NEVER brag or humble brag about his donations. Yet both of you couldn't wait to tell your followers.
Be generous and don't talk about it. That's why we love Keanu. Let other people expound on your virtues, not YOU.
Hug difference.
The world would be a better place if we had more people like Keanu. A beautiful soul. Thanks for sharing.
There's one more. It's you.
Thanks you for your love and support for me, I really appreciate you guys, how long have you be my fan
when a public figure or celebrity doesn't have social media, it really says something about them
Like??
alicia mai True, they’re usually just livin life with less stress and less noise
it's so funny how when I call people out on bad behavior in social media they attack me by commenting on how low my follower count is
Yeah that they grew up on fame and a lot of them dont know how to use computers. Lol. No, but for real Google it, it's hilarious.
This really says a lot about our society
“humility is not thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less”- Classic!
i liked that one too
If everyone grasped that idea, it would change the world in a beautiful way. It's currently still quite primitive and ego driven, imo
That is a great bit of wisdom though.
Lol I know that quote from PewDiePie's videos, back in 2016/2017
One of my all time favorite quote.
He's down to earth, chilled out and very grateful for the life he has. It's hard not to be inspired by that kind of calmness. I've always been an introvert, and it's cool to see someone so famous be the same way.
I also saw Keanu once on Sunset Blvd. hanging out in front of the Viper Room (mid 90's) with a couple people. And I was walking along the side walk, he looked over and nodded his head, and he just seemed like a friendly and genuine person. In LA you often see celebrities out and about and they always seem exasperated and self involved - but not Keanu.
Thank you for sharing this great story.
ALL INTROVERTS UNITE!!!
separately
In your own rooms.
This needs more likes 😂😂😂
Edit: the comment I was replying to had likes in the double digits just last night!!!
🤓 could not have said it better. I'm with you. From way over there...
😂😂😂
Hermit convention!
got it 😂
Keanu doesn't tell you what kind of person he is. He shows you what kind of person he is. That's what lots of introverts do.
We'd rather not, but people keep finding us.
There any videos on how to be more stealthy?
100
because actions speak louder than words
introverts do not express their feeling.
That's an annoying thing about extroverts, they can talk too much and do little to back it up
Simply put, Keanu Reeves just seems to be a nice guy. Everything I've heard about him, and read about him, is almost always someone, famous or otherwise, saying how kind, thoughtful and generous he is with his time. There is even a TED talk out there by a woman who talks about how he gave her an interview as a teenager, just because she asked. Introverts have a lot to offer the world, and the world shouldn't be so biased towards extroversion. Read 'Quiet' by Susan Cain, it's the introvert's bible.
I remember our training two years ago. The trainer divide the group between Introverts and Extroverts.
Introverts were so comfortable with each other that the trainer were confused if we really are introverts.
"He redirects praise"
"YOU'RE BREATHTAKING!"
You’re ALL breathtaking!
@@Raizo_Ch ngl if he'd said that it wouldve been even better
. Actually he did say that also 😄
When a fighter can parry attacks, a keanu can parry compliments plus postive vibes
@@telor6746 in some 70% chance he might absorb it and multiply it by random amounts and expelled it in huge AOE
Interviewer: You're very handsome
Keanu: No, you're very handsome :)
Interviewer: Sir.... I'm a woman..
Keanu: You're still handsome.
aRe yOu AsSuMiNg mY gEnDeR???
Handsome used to be gender neutral.
Keanu: YOU'RE HANDSOME!! YOU'RE ALL HANDSOME!!
"She's tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt me." -- Pride and Prejudice, 18XX.
the word handsome is not gendered you can be a 'handsome women'
Keanu is super nice and humble, bro. I mean, seriously. He's not a snob. That man's so priceless. One of this planet's best humans.
Keanu Reeves is a legend. When I came to the US I watched a lot of movies to learn social skills and it really helped me. I also learned to be charismatic in the jaunty social skills school. Blessed!
"Introverts are the best. People just don't know it yet."
Everyone has something to offer , but more often than not introverts end up not showing the best of what they have
@ThatOneAsianBroChick introvert never tell themselves as introvert. They just say," i just quite one. "
Just saying.
@@tutankhamen5080 why is that?
i became introvert because they dont get me. makes me authentic on my own. feels good. my conversation skills is still there im just unsociable and dont start conversations.
Many extroverted people say they are introverted because it's popular now.
It's sad. Extroverts are needed on this world and we should make extroverts proud 😑
How to be popular:
1. Care less about being popular.
2. Care about literally anything else than being popular.
Lmao
very accurate
yeah like being pretty
@Reeky Debbarma bro God is not always the answer, i just find you funny
@Reeky Debbarma trying, not wasting my time praying that i become usefull in life
Keanu actually had a coach of communication work with him on his hand gestures as a way to energize his calm mellow personality. Brings it into balance. I'm the mellow type too and this really works well to help me become more lively.
Keanu reeves is great. Decrnt acting. Seems like a cool guy in the very few interview segments ive watched of him. His run is goofy as hell too. Seemingly great dude
*This channel is a guide for aliens to learn how to imitate and blend with humans*
TIL I'm an alien 👽
You need to learn in order to survive
Blck Ntrovert TV more like you need to adapt to survive
But aliens do not exist, fellow land walker. This is a myth spread by your collective politician farms to sow discord amongst the herds of regular land walkers. All hail Zeinab! Your friendly next-door emperor.
@@rocketassistedgoat1079 omg we are the aliens!!! DuHhHhHh!!!
guy in the crowd - *YOU ARE BREATHTAKING!*
Keanu Reeves - _no u_
Jerome false he did not say that
he did say that
I didn't know Keanu visited imageboards.
U r breathe taking
He used the Reverse Card
I keep coming back to this video without searching it, I have watched it several times and always with a huge smile. I realize while watching Keanu how cool it is to be a kind introvert, sometimes I feel like I am boring or too serious. Still taking my time to realize that I am cool lol
I'm glad that finally being a good person is beginning to be trendy again
Step 1: be Keanu Reeves
Step 2: be immortal
Step 3: be breathtaking
Step 4: bask in glory
Travis La Flamé
Step 5: stay Keanu Reeves
Step 6: Now you are Internet's Boyfriend/Girl Friend
Travis La Flamé delete bask and add deflect instead.
Very accurate
@Travis La Flamé you're breathtaking
Finally, a channel that can help me pass the "I'm not a Robot" test.
That’s what a ROBOT would say!
Squidward! The robots are running the Navy!!
lol
I still can't identify all the cars in photos either.
Whether intended as a joke or not this was funny and relatable
It seems to me Keanu is a very one of a kind type of person, but thank you for introducing us to this video and explaining how Keanu is such a great communicator and a generous human being. ❤️
I love, admire, and respect Keanu Reeves lifestyle, message, and principles…simply the best kind of human! 🥰
How to be popular being introvert:
Step one: Be keanu Reeves.
Ya I’m pretty sure I can’t get that first step down
Or as pretty faced as most actors in general X)
Lol. I'm dead
be yourself and be Christ like.
@@cut-- best comment of a lifetime.
Long story short... He is authentic. I think the internet misses that since most have become superficial.
Thank you! I was wondering if it was really THAT complex of an explanation? lol A lot of introverts don't come off charismatic or charming either because they have to conform in some way or mimic extroverts to "fit in." Some can do it well, most don't and people can feel that awkwardness.
@αlιуαн we live in a society
He's got that thing which all of us should strive for, called benevolence.
*_WE LIVE IN A SOCIETY._*
Most were always superficial. We only just now realized it.
As an extrovert, I love seeing an introvert true personality come out. You guys get in your own head caring what other people think, but you guys are some of the coolest people on Earth.
Honestly this video touches topics so much deep than I anticipated, and I am truly thankful.
"You think of yourself less without thinking less of yourself." That's golden.
It twisted my brain so much, can you explain?
@@bibomisa6999 when you focus on a select few things instead of trying to be everywhere at once, you don't act as selfish, but at the same time, you don't look down on yourself
@@megafiremario12volt Oh, thank you!
@@bibomisa6999 No Problem!!!
Aj Ordillas I still don’t get it, help! 😂😭😭
"Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself, less."
That quote really hit me. :')
If it hit you too hard, I hope it didn't leave a bruise
Reading just about anything by C.S. Lewis will do that to you.
Cooooool
Yeah I love it
Semper Invicta The only real natty was Rich Piano... may the nattiest rest in peace
Before he revamped his career he was with his girlfriend at my teen job in santa monica beach. He was polite, looked me in the eye and talked to me like we were friends. Glad to see his success matches his personality.
It’s amazing that you identified he uses a kinesthetic modality… love your videos!
The best way to be popular as an introvert is to become a meme...a breathtaking one that is.
JOHN MAYER
Hammad Ali be a fun guy ahehehh heheheh
Hammad Ali He may he popular on the internet, but he is no joke
not really, I mean he became really popular back then, with the matrix and all... And memes, at least the kinds of memes as that we know of today, don't exist back then.
And be *_BREATHTAKING_*
Despite the thumbnail's suggestion, you can become a famous introvert, but you can't become Keanu Reeves.
Yep
But some of the most famous peoples are introvert
Bill gates, elon musk, steve jobs, and that guy who plays batman role ( i can't remember his name)
He is a Unicorn. Even unicorns want to be Keanu Reeves
The reality
@@helo9316 George Clooney?
Darin De Paul says: No.
I loved this guy since his early Bill and Ted days. I'm so glad he gets the love and respect for his movies (wasn't always the case) that he's always deserved
KEANU makes me well up with emotion because of his deep compassion and empathy for others , beautiful human being
How to be Keanu Reeves:
STEP 1: You can't.
Legally change your name
kamuelalee or how about just be ourselves - that’s Why Keanu is likeable - his integrity and honesty and transparency / authenticity
What's step 2
@@amandeeprandhawa7397 Step 2: Denial.
step 2: maybe
“What is your secret for always staying down-to-earth?”
“Well, you know... gravity.”
HAHAHA
LOL,this made me laugh today
I am not really like him (obviously, who is?) but thats the first thing I had in mind as well after hearing the question.
And the funny thing is: its not because I thought "oh, I will look humble" but rather "I think thats funny"
How can you tell the cleverest jokes?
You can see the punch-line coming from a mile away, but still laugh when it gets here!
He was sitting on the ground at that moment. I thought he would go with that XD
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Keanu is not in his 50's , he's over 500 years old and Immortal
Aa actual vampire
@@dimunnpabebet7040 not really. He's more of a demigod to be honest
@@dimunnpabebet7040 your comment make me laugh
hes half breed remember
Ah no wonder his a cultivator
"You're the internet's boyfriend"
Keanu: (Harry Potter voice) I'm the what?
pretty sure he says "I've been what?"
I love you
She said he has 'been' the internet's boyfriend, so he asked I've 'been' what?
You're a power unit Keanu.
You're a bloody wizard!1!
I think what also makes him realise what is so important is the sheer loss he has had in his life. His natural personality, combined with the loss he has unfortunately had, I think really grounds him in what is important, real, meaningful, and prevents him from being lost in all the BS now in Hollywood.
Agreed
Tremendous thanks for this video. I’m a professional musician/singer that has used previous theater training to “turn on” certain skills and qualities when the situation requires it. But it’s so refreshing and inspiring to see a deeper and truly meaningful way of being in public as an introvert through Keanu’s examples. Absolutely fantastic, thank you so much for making this video.
It's pretty simple.. let go of ego. Be humble, gracious and caring.
True, but to plenty of people, that seems to be completely impossible.
well said
Well typed, that's all what it takes
It's conceptually simple, but to practice it on a moment-to-moment basis for every moment (or at least most moments) of the rest of your life? That project is a bit more tricky. People dedicate their entire lives to that project. If you think you've completely ditched your ego, it's likely the case that you've become more egocentric, not less. Arrogance quite often masquerades as humility, even to one's self.
That's exactly why pride is not a good thing contrary to what different social tribes imply
Keanu Reeves is our Introverts ambassador. One of the best out there. Someone whom the introverts can look up to because usually when it comes to charisma people always pointed the introverts to look up to popular extroverts. Keanu Reeves show that you can be successful while staying true to who you really are and not changing yourselves just for the sake of fitting in.
Also this is a man that have suffered big loses. I think he lost a pregnant girlfriend, close relatives and have never stopped being kind and gracious towards others. Introvert Ambassador indeed.
@@benjaminroman916 don't mess with a lonely patient kind introvert, cuz he will kill you with a fuckin pencil !!!
@@juliansihite1289 That sounds like a sociopath rather than a introverted person.
@@awkwardsanchez6231 hahaha
No. Thats just a magic trick. The pencil disappeared didnt it?
Water should not cost a penny. Well done Charisma for your work.
Wow! I loved Keanu before I knew how kind and generous he is, but once I did, I think he’s just an amazing human being.
*Sorrow and human tragedy made this man to one of the most humble persons in Hollywood*
Humility tends to come through that.
He had the ability to learn/grow from that. Not many peeps do.
@@whoareyou1034 absolutely agree.
Tragedy?
I disagree with it a bit @O'SSÉIN. A humble person is always humble, even if he/she is blessed with happiness or have met with unfortunate series of events... I think people like Keanu and Keanu himself for that matter, was always like that🙏🙏
1:21
Grandma: Oh, you’re getting so big!
Me: I would like to thank my mom for feeding me
Jack Kaczmarski ok
My legs for always keeping me up.
My arms for always being by my side and my fingers, I could always count on them.
😂😂😂😂
Gotta stay humble. 😂
that would be sweet if you said that.
It All Boils Down to KEANU Reeves BEING EXACTLY WHO HE SAYS AND ACTS HE IS. No matter how hard any person tries to cover his real nature, WHETHER INTROVERTED OR EXTROVERTED, THE TRUTH WILL ALWAYS COME OUT.
All these times, only genuineness has come out of Keanu because HE NEVER has ulterior motives to what he's been doing. Just being a pure person 💖God Bless him!
I love him! I love Keanu energy! ❤
Keanu is one of a very small group of Hollywood hits that is still respectable and not totally batshit crazy.
nah he's crazy but he embraces his crazy and is comfy with it so it's charming.
@@souio Nothing wrong with being a little crazy.
I, Voyager1776 and also handsome😳🖤
_*“The simple act of paying attention can take you a long way.”
― Keanu Reeves
True
Yep. People think I'm some smart cookie. I tell them, "No I'm not, I just pay better attention."
How to Be Human without trying to fit in.
Stuff like this really makes me stop and just think in deep thought. Completely an eye opener.
Love is Attention
This man is my whole model. I wanna be someone better and more giving because he inspires me
Keanu saying "No, YOU'RE breathtaking!" Has become a popular meme, but it's a wonderful display of his charisma and way of speaking to others.
Also, I find it so difficult to keep eye contact with people. My eyes dart back and forth, because I'm not good at holding my eyes on something without crossing them in a really derpy way. XD So I don't blame Keanu for that ^^
Everyone: why are you so quiet? like you don't talk.
*Me: i talk but not to you.*
My mind is kinda talkative tho. So shut your mouth
I hate it when people say that to me. It's so condescending.
Story of my life
I want to ask "And why do you speak so much? Why can't you be silent for at least a minute?" But I don't say anything cause...I don't want to be seen as rude.
I tell people that all the time lol
I'll just lock myself into my room and think about it.
please do and whatever you find for yourself, just do it. just let me say this: it's ok to want to be a loner :)
Lone wolf, huh?
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LOL I love this comment
This is my life, at all my work places and during my schooling I barely spoke to people but everyone liked/thought I was cool/wanted to be around me. This is very accurate.
As a big introvert and lover of all things Keanu, this is one of my favorite videos. 🧡
Charisma on Command: HeY, YoU WaNnA bE PoPULar As An INtrOVert?
Me: [Thanos voice] Impossible...
I understood that reference..
The hardest choices require the *strongest wills*
@Yaroslav L Well probably both, and both feed into each other (generally you don't like something if you're bad at it, and you don't practice and improve (get good) at something unless you like it).
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@@xynx1211 I didn't like French in high school but I was good at it
Basically.. he is just a really nice guy and its impossible not to like him.
It seems that way. I like him. I saw him when I was a kid in 'Bill and Teds Excellent Adventure.' And 'Point Break' is awesome. I cannot not like him. You're right. 😊♥️
That might be why he was with puppies, he fits right in.
Nailed it!
Ok, but with this comment It seems you UNSHADOWED yourself.
Who wants to understand will understand 😂
@@stefanodella756 it is possible to over analyse somthing, and sometimes if you want to learn it's best not to over complicate it.
Living by the example of "those" we are inspired by! Very helpful! Thank you!
Keanu is just a really good person time and time again through the years with his actions in life, and that's why we all love him.
As an introvert, I look at something when I am telling a story because I am easily distracted by people's faces and other things that are going on. If I am looking at someone's face, I am reading it. If I am looking at something happening in the background, I am preoccupied with figuring out what's happening. So I have to look at something neutral, like the table or the floor, so that I can process my thoughts or access my memory.
This! Definitely this! Also I'm surprised he didn't talk about micro expressions. Looking down and to the right is actually thinking about the story and telling it truthfully
This is exactly how I am! But I was told after a job interview that they went with another candidate because they felt it was rude I wasn't making eye contact :(
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I’m an introvert and I do the same in conversations, sometimes I avoid eye contact and I am very aware of it. I need to do this to be able to dig inside my thoughts so I can expose them verbally. Introverts are better at writing than at speaking. Also as an introvert I can say that there is nothing more annoying than someone talking to you while stabbing their sight into yours without even blinking once. It’s super annoying and extroverts tend to do that without even being conscious about it.
I am an introvert and i look in the eye of people because it gives me billions of information. Talking to them after is just unnecessary and annoying😆😁
Im bad at writing and speaking...
idk if it’s just me but i literally cannot stare at peoples eyes (unless i like them) for longer than 5 seconds. every time a teacher looks at me in the eyes i quickly look away and idk why
@@niodagino9438 I do the exact same thing. I'm really trying to look people in the eyes but Im just unable to do it for longer periods of time. I can't explain it, it just feels unnatural to me.
Same
Well done on the donation! That's wonderful. Thank you for the Keanu video. Great analysis. We share a trait or two, but he is truly special.
These are some great tips. I identify with Keanu's social style. I'll take notes, analyze, synthesize, and deploy this information in my next conversation with a human.
“humility is not thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less”
yea well i have both of those down so checkmate
Not a good thing to practice 🙂 check out more of his stuff
Ok, that made me laugh. Well played. : )
Lol
Pride!
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"Silence is a source of great strength." - Lao Tzu
Ya mean the immortal Keanu Reeves
“Fuck off before I eat your dog”-Bruce lee
Love this quote
The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room
i like one of his saying "who would miss us when we die? the one who love us would miss us" 👏
an admiral example that comes to mind is the late Neil Peart, considered to be the greatest drummer ever, a superb humbled human with a god-gifted talent who who was always away from the limelight and did not talk high of himself but instead always praised others
I don't think Keanu is very charismatic. I just think he's genuinely a great guy. hahah.
@Hamaa7 Charisma.
Hamaa7 The fact that he does things for people without expecting anything in return and is truly grateful for what he has in life. But also because he gives people something he only has a finite amount of........time.
Hamaa7 Yeah it does help. Do good things and give even if it’s just your time, most people will appreciate it and those that don’t well it doesn’t matter because you weren’t doing it for appreciation you were doing for yourself. If they don’t want it fair enough move on.
Extroverts are like an action film. Fun at first and cool for everybody to see.
Introverts are like the cool interesting series that takes a while to get going but when it does oh boy your in for something special.
nah. Introverts are more like an action film with lots of fighting and minimal talking. Extroverts are like a drama where they just won't shut up
aye
Introverts like Nolan's movies
@@rodiusmaximus😂... I agree and still can't disagree with @coco cooley...
too bad some people are like those who stopped watching WandaVision after the first episode, they are missing out on awesomeness.
Thank you. Your video gave me a brief reality check - especially towards the end in reference to your water donations. I needed to remember to be truly grateful for what I already have, and chasing the next cool thing doesn't ALWAYS have to occupy the forefront of my anxiety problems. Again, thank you.
If you’re a celebrity and a very kind person(where a lot of celebs turn arrogant), you become very popular bc they all think “what a nice guy.” But if you make no money but you’re the same amount of nice.. it doesn’t matter to anyone bc yours just one among billion… reality…
"Not everything Keanu does is ideal."
And that's what makes him easy to relate with.
Me: has school presentation
Introduction:
"I really want to thank my parents, my friends and my teachers, without you I wouldn't be here..."
That could actually really work great for you :D Nobody would expect that and I think it would be an amusing start!
Lmao
Hey, how'd it go? :D
as someone studying to be a teacher and working in schools this made me smile!
Genius.
so humble & loving to all people
Happy Birthday Charisma on command!!🎂