How To Effortlessly Defend Yourself In Any Argument

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  • @sarahs6165
    @sarahs6165 ปีที่แล้ว +5355

    Staying calm and not letting your emotions overtake you in an argument is a huge advantage to keeping a clear head and responding efficiently. Easier said than done but extremely important.

    • @sunnyfinn3125
      @sunnyfinn3125 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Understanding the motive is very crucial Sarah

    • @richardvanheesen1606
      @richardvanheesen1606 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      agreed. and it is hard to do

    • @Damidas
      @Damidas ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It's also a good way to piss the other person off because they think you don't care enough about the argument to get upset over it

    • @JewTube001
      @JewTube001 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@richardvanheesen1606 i think its hard to do because people are constantly pushing and prodding at you for an emotional response.

    • @mathewstudios2410
      @mathewstudios2410 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah that's why I cannot argue with my older sister at all because she always gets super emotional.

  • @A_Wild_Dyzzy
    @A_Wild_Dyzzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2090

    When I was a child my father would yell at me when I did something wrong. He was a good dad, but this caused me to develop a problem where I shut down when someone starts yelling at me. This channel has helped me get over that struggle and remain calm and not back down. I sincerely appreciate your videos.

    • @EeLyos
      @EeLyos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Respect

    • @LauraR0ckzLolz
      @LauraR0ckzLolz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      I can't stand when people yell and get angry. I don't know why, I just shrink into myself and feel scared.

    • @elichapin3366
      @elichapin3366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@LauraR0ckzLolz some people are mean, some grew up with parents who did that, and it rubbed off, and some just have a hard time not yelling, thats just one of there struggles

    • @A_Wild_Dyzzy
      @A_Wild_Dyzzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@LauraR0ckzLolz That’s exactly what I would do. I remember getting falsely accused of something by my 4th grade teacher and I chose to admit to it instead of sticking up for myself just so it would be over with sooner. Maybe that’s not the same way you feel, but you aren’t alone. I support you. And I wish the best for you on your journey.

    • @russianbot4418
      @russianbot4418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I grew up in a similar family as well but with a highly narcissistic dad that would just make up whatever Bizzaro world story to fit his narrative headed to just dropping the hammer on me for nothing real.
      As an adult, I have put a massive amount of time and effort into learning to both communicate and debate. Now my family avoids having any form of heated discussions with me because I can shut down their nonsense in and then railroad them into looking like fools in seconds and never look like the bad guy for any of it.

  • @antoniorose1206
    @antoniorose1206 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    “Understood Piers” exactly! I was having an argument with a coworker in which he repeatedly made contradictory statements in order to win. The best way to conclude is to just be content in your own view and accept that this person is not going to change for you. Showing respect, regardless of whether you respect the person!

    • @jcbbb
      @jcbbb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why wouldn't you just lay out the contradictions if you're using the energy to say anything lol

    • @asdfqwert7712
      @asdfqwert7712 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jcbbbyou think that because your trying to “win” the conversation/debate the best thing to do is let them sink deeper into there contradictions and delusion the more polite, respectful and clear cut you are with your statements makes them seem like a barking dog whilst you seem like the patient owner waiting for the dog to tire itself out

  • @omarshehab585
    @omarshehab585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6868

    It's interesting how Piers does that for a living but Andrew handled him profoundly.

    • @tysoflowin
      @tysoflowin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +258

      Right? He’s impressively articulate and well-thought out for being a kickboxer lol

    • @noicecars3052
      @noicecars3052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +372

      @@tysoflowin cuz he’s not just a kick boxer
      He is a business man who has studied the realities and nature of the world. He is truly a .001% man

    • @noahmulawin4350
      @noahmulawin4350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      That's why he the Top G

    • @whatdisd
      @whatdisd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      I disagree. Tate went around in god damn circles and wouldn't acknowledge the dangers of his beliefs and his popularity

    • @skinnybonesjonestheallseei74
      @skinnybonesjonestheallseei74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @@whatdisd because that's what he was asked??

  • @Matt_duroch
    @Matt_duroch ปีที่แล้ว +10440

    Imagine a 10 year old watching this to win an argument with their siblings
    Disclaimer: I was ten when I posted this and I’m not deleting it because it was relatable at the time pls don’t judge lol

    • @Friendly_G
      @Friendly_G ปีที่แล้ว +532

      Lol wouldn't work since the winning argument would just get ignored 🤣

    • @dakuten7883
      @dakuten7883 ปีที่แล้ว +383

      I'm 14, doing just that.

    • @Missyisbored
      @Missyisbored ปีที่แล้ว +204

      I’m 16 yes I’m doing that😂

    • @irucat5149
      @irucat5149 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      what color is your BUGATTI?
      Works everytime

    • @laserstockings
      @laserstockings ปีที่แล้ว +50

      …oddly specific

  • @salbas5698
    @salbas5698 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +268

    Knowing how well to articulate one self and get over hard times is key to getting your head above waters. Most times in order to stay in check one would have to consistently keep improving and looking out for new ways and opportunities. Some of us have battles we are fighting inside but regardless we should stay strong and steadfast and keep your head up

    • @salbas5698
      @salbas5698 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sir Zach has really been helpful with my career and general life, I bless the day I met him

    • @gregmenville
      @gregmenville 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A lot is usually spoken of Mr Zachery Micah Demers

    • @tobiasjohnson32
      @tobiasjohnson32 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who is Zach?

    • @chrisfergy
      @chrisfergy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have had the pleasure of working with Zach M Demers for several years and have been consistently impressed with his ability to deliver results. He is a skilled investment advisor who is dedicated to his clients' success

    • @robertanikki1606
      @robertanikki1606 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have had the pleasure of working with Zach M Demers for several years and have been consistently impressed with his ability to deliver results. He is a skilled investment advisor who is dedicated to his clients' success

  • @thedude7319
    @thedude7319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3618

    this is why your channel is great, instead of like a lot of other people dogpile on this debacle. you made a teachable moment out of it

    • @justinthawsetmyo4173
      @justinthawsetmyo4173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      when you say it like that they sound like the annoying parent that tries to make a learning opportunity out of everything

    • @tonyeltigre4745
      @tonyeltigre4745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@justinthawsetmyo4173 first time watching this channel? 🤨

    • @justinthawsetmyo4173
      @justinthawsetmyo4173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tonyeltigre4745 no I just never thought of it that way

    • @tonyeltigre4745
      @tonyeltigre4745 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justinthawsetmyo4173 what way?

    • @chiderajames8387
      @chiderajames8387 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I swear down. I rate him highly 👏🏿

  • @Christian-jr1gn
    @Christian-jr1gn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13790

    Piers Morgan just made Tate look so much better than what he was trying to do lmao

    • @TurdFergusen
      @TurdFergusen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +539

      not to mention the name of the show is “uncensored” but piers is arguing for self censorship

    • @0ned
      @0ned 2 ปีที่แล้ว +238

      @@TurdFergusen it's Piers Morgan Uncensored not everyone else uncensored.

    • @eddiebear34
      @eddiebear34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@TurdFergusen how is he doing that? He interrupts and he goes OTT with analysis of people's words. But that's not asking for someone to sensor themselves.
      I never knew who he was until this interview. I think it's a bit strange that someone at 36 years old finds 18 year old girls more appealing than women in their mid 20s. Not sure when he said it. But that's girls just outta school. Even if he said it within the past 10 years, it's a bit young for him

    • @TurdFergusen
      @TurdFergusen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      @@eddiebear34 thats your hangup, not biology’s.

    • @eddiebear34
      @eddiebear34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@TurdFergusen beast alert

  • @DarcyIsLame
    @DarcyIsLame 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I'm about to become John Wick in the group chat after this video.

  • @sultanmohammed4944
    @sultanmohammed4944 ปีที่แล้ว +2265

    Summary:
    1-spot when they enter “fight mode”
    2-watch a misquoting
    3-beware of derailing interruptions
    4-don’t steamroll concessions
    5-catch any logic gaps
    6-draw a conversational boundary
    7-acknowledge and common ground
    8-give yourself permission to change your mind

    • @f1atl1n3
      @f1atl1n3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      9 - Jet in jail for human trafficking

    • @pamukpicker
      @pamukpicker ปีที่แล้ว

      @@f1atl1n3 yet you are spreading hate from your mothers basement

    • @Green_Drag
      @Green_Drag ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@f1atl1n3 which you haven't done.

    • @lawlessfarming9878
      @lawlessfarming9878 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Wish this worked with woman....nr5-catch any logical gaps, wont help you because they then derail the conversation and act like their a victim and say you are attacking them....the worst part for men is that we want to get to a logical answer/conclusion/end as quick as possible. We speak factual,not emotionally. So this is good advice when speaking to most men, but not with women.

    • @Testosteroneisnaturaltrump2024
      @Testosteroneisnaturaltrump2024 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@f1atl1n3 10 - get a life

  • @user-uk9er5vw4c
    @user-uk9er5vw4c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2774

    Piers looked just unprofessional, Andrew did an amazing job remaining calm and assertive

    • @snakedogman
      @snakedogman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      The only thing that makes Piers look professional or respectable is his suit.

    • @marieantoinettev712
      @marieantoinettev712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@snakedogman yes, right 😅!

    • @gertje8875
      @gertje8875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would not have been able to keep my cool with such a boobjob. elvis christ that Piers is a donkeybone.

    • @ARCPolus
      @ARCPolus ปีที่แล้ว

      @@snakedogman nah he's anti LGBT representation so he's the goat for me

    • @AedanBlackheart
      @AedanBlackheart ปีที่แล้ว +8

      While looking agitated/pissed and acting genuinely annoyed.

  • @raquelsalvador8462
    @raquelsalvador8462 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I am downloading this to be better at argument. Since I am really bad at expressing myself, because i was always interrupted since i was young when i wanna make my point.

  • @bangwithcamino693
    @bangwithcamino693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1337

    Solid breakdown. The reason Andrew didn't change his mind was because he still believes in the sentiment of the things he said. He just knows going forward, to have an impact with his words, he has to phrase them in a less emotionally triggering way because of his popularity. Piers couldn't get that and wanted him to recant. Not changing your mind, for Andrew benefits his brand.

    • @crackwitz
      @crackwitz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      there's a difference between changing one's own mind, and getting the Spanish Inquisition treatment.
      that there was Spanish Inquisition (struggle session). everyone is obligated to stand their ground in the face of such an offense.

    • @tekbal
      @tekbal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      This is the most thoughtful comment I've seen so far in this comment section that resumes exactly what Andrew was trying to transmit with his interventions. You have my like sir.

    • @Icemario87
      @Icemario87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@crackwitz Rightly said. Give no ground in these environments. Jordan Peterson didn't, either. If you apologize even once, you're done. They always have killed the people that apologized.

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's very difficult to entertain the notion of another angle or difference of opinion when you're being interviewed by someone who's hostile and adversarial. Piers makes people want to be guarded as to them avoiding being baited into a "Gotcha" moment.

    • @goldenremnant2610
      @goldenremnant2610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed 100%. It would be different if Piers actually provided countering truthful reasons why Tate should recant his position but even IF he did, this would NOT be the time or place to recant because a big part of Tate’s brand is mental and testicular fortitude to withstand the onslaught of unpopularity.
      Like it or not, recanting, even if merited by Tate’s own principles, would be perceived as a loss of character on Tate’s part by his fans.

  • @jdreid323
    @jdreid323 ปีที่แล้ว +929

    IMO, the best way to win any argument is not even to win, but to get the person you are talking to understand what you are saying. The moment you become aggressive, or passive is when you have either escalated or removed yourself from the conversation, just stay neutral. It's ok to have an opinion on something and express emotion just don't force it upon the receiver. As someone who has been in many arguments, it never goes well when you both leave thinking nothing got settled or your point never got across.

    • @strannick2212
      @strannick2212 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      dont force it on the receiver, just present it to him. and make sure its a good one. if not, fix the facts or logic to make it a better one

    • @NtrosXo
      @NtrosXo ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@strannick2212 some people are just too ego driven and blind

    • @JewTube001
      @JewTube001 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      i guess that's true but it's annoying if you're actually right. i don't mean right in a arrogant way, but when you're actually right or at least 99% right yet the person yelling at you is either incapable of understanding or deliberately chooses to not understand. i think those are just free loss situations.

    • @JewTube001
      @JewTube001 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@strannick2212 often the facts and logic simply aren't relevant. someone may be married to a poor position, or refuse to change their position because it would make them look bad, or because they don't like you, or think you should be subservient to them regardless of their error.

    • @sgtcrusher66
      @sgtcrusher66 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well said

  • @scoot5342
    @scoot5342 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    Tate is one of the best communicators I have ever seen. Def a good study. Thanks

    • @timm8998
      @timm8998 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      lol

    • @DanielKolbin
      @DanielKolbin ปีที่แล้ว

      Hitler also had charisma.

    • @WSGVal
      @WSGVal ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Funny joke

    • @the-ironclad
      @the-ironclad ปีที่แล้ว +56

      ⁠@@WSGVallove him or hate him, you can’t deny is is world class communicator. How else did you think he got so famous so quickly and reached the level of status and fame? I don’t agree with everything about Tate but I can give him his props. If your hatred blinds you so much to not acknowledge the skill, then it’s you that’s blind

    • @WSGVal
      @WSGVal ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@the-ironclad funny sarcasm

  • @matthewarendse1913
    @matthewarendse1913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    The 1957 film, 12 Angry Men, is also a great example of how and how not to conduct yourself in an argument/debate. While certain characters had their views clouded by bias, the single biggest takeaway I believe that came from this film is that you have to be willing to admit or at least realise that your views could be wrong on a given issue. I believe that when you enter an argument firstly you should go in with the mindset to listen and to understand and know that you could be wrong and secondly to figure out whether the person you are conversing with is of a similar mindset and is also willing to concede a view when proven wrong.

  • @goncalobaia1574
    @goncalobaia1574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1738

    I'm not the kind of guy who loves Tate, but man Piers was completely awful in that interview

    • @leonrussell9607
      @leonrussell9607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Thats pretty normal for piers

    • @mwright80
      @mwright80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Agreed!

    • @franciscopereira5760
      @franciscopereira5760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      You don't need to like Tate that's OK

    • @ZhangtheGreat
      @ZhangtheGreat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      That's how Piers operates. He's a bully. He's not there to talk; he's there to fight.

    • @cangjie12
      @cangjie12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Piers is always awful 🤮

  • @thecommonsensecapricorn
    @thecommonsensecapricorn ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I hate arguments. One of my close friends at the time came to my house and lashed out at me for saying I was disappointed she flaked on me. She came at me HARD saying I was selfish and a bad friend because her mom is an addict and I should know how much she’s struggling with that. The whole argument she kept throwing that at me and when I’d try to defend myself she’d come down harder because in her eyes I was a sociopath for even trying to defend myself. Her moms been an addict for 10 years and her brothers have cut her off. She chooses to remain in contact and be affected by her mom.
    Ultimately the way she came at me that day isn’t something I think I should ever experience with a friend, that level of emotional attack… hell no. She kept saying “I don’t think I can be friends with someone like you” and I was like that’s fine by me I definitely don’t want to be friends with you

  • @laurawebber1743
    @laurawebber1743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    You C on C guys are amazing! This was an extremely informative upload using two controversial characters to illustrate the topic perfectly. Very well balanced. I've watched loads of your vids... first time I've commented.

    • @tsoupakis
      @tsoupakis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      they had an amazing podcast that were going much more in deep on popular events

  • @randyb90210
    @randyb90210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +705

    Piers is just like that annoying lady who interviewed Jordan Peterson. "So what you're saying is " lol 😆

    • @dariusbrock2713
      @dariusbrock2713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Peirs more likely doesn't put it in a question form. He does more of "This is what you ARE saying"

    • @zee7056
      @zee7056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Cathy Newman. JP dismantled her piece by piece.

    • @HypnosisBear
      @HypnosisBear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMAO 🤣🤣

    • @oldbot64
      @oldbot64 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      JP is a master at seeing through BS lmao

    • @matthowells6382
      @matthowells6382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It does seem to be a characteristic of British media that the interviewer heavily leads the conversation and doesn't allow for much deviation from whatever question is being asked. This has both pros and cons of course.
      Jeremy Paxman is one of the best examples of this, he'll let someone talk at length if they're sticking to his question but he will interrupt the second they stop doing so or they say something he can pick up on. It's really refreshing as an American when it comes to interviewing politicans especially, as they will often try and answer a different question that suits them. British journalists are much less likely to let that fly than here in the US where the interviewer just let's them do what they want.
      However, when it comes to a person defending themselves from accusations or criticism, the British style certainly leads to more frustration and confrontation as the interviewer is much more able to push an agenda that may have been decided beforehand.
      Then you add Piers Morgan into that dynamic and you've got a 'spicy' interview haha

  • @JentonAktinwson
    @JentonAktinwson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +776

    I recommend everyone to find the book titled Tate Mindset; it goes deep into all of this, and it changed my life

    • @suhhh950
      @suhhh950 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i try to find that ebook last week and finally. find it on your channel. thanks dude

    • @DanielCruz-xq6eo
      @DanielCruz-xq6eo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Yo talk about bot accounts making the same exact comments at the same time across multiple videos,
      If you’re still searching for the book go find Jesus instead

    • @sirsanchez1330
      @sirsanchez1330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'll buy it when Andrew Tate himself says so

  • @TopazBeast
    @TopazBeast ปีที่แล้ว +892

    I don’t agree with Tate on a lot of his takes, but you can’t deny he composes himself very well. He is very intelligent when it comes to social interactions. Look at his conversations with Xqc for example.

    • @sgtcrusher66
      @sgtcrusher66 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Tate is right about everything

    • @HansHan028
      @HansHan028 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sgtcrusher66 Hmmm, his courses are a complete scam. He knows how to be right about everything to earn money. That's why he became muslim, for muslims to buy his courses and for him to earn even more AND for him to keep his social position, basically to keep being famous. That's why he became muslim to become more famous and not lose his fame. Open your eyes.

    • @JCX-9
      @JCX-9 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Let’s see where his smarts will take him.

    • @RoxyCherryRozy
      @RoxyCherryRozy ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Tate is right about 70-80% of things

    • @sgtcrusher66
      @sgtcrusher66 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @EvaMira in your opinion which is fine I respect that but what is he wrong on out of curiosity ?

  • @kadenwhiteaker
    @kadenwhiteaker ปีที่แล้ว +123

    This is such a well put together video. You derserve a sub and a like. Very valid points with no bias.

  • @Fusion679
    @Fusion679 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    1. Ver cuando entran a modo pelea (desde el inicio te etiquetan como un problema / pelean contigo antes de que puedas explicar tu punto de vista)
    2. Ser consciente de cuando comienzan a manipular tus palabras y no permitirlo, aclarar a lo que te refieres.
    3. Cuando comienza a interrumpir, hacer una pausa, decir que entiendo a la otra persona y pedirle por favor que no me interrumpa.
    4. Mantenerse calmado y no interrumpir
    5. Estar atentos a las fallas en su argumentación
    6. Poner límites en la conversación (ser directo y no hablar de lo que no quiero hablar)
    7. Primero establecer los puntos en común y luego discrepar
    8. Ser abierto de mente (no ver el cambiar de opinión como una debilidad)

    • @Name-yu6ux
      @Name-yu6ux 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ty

  • @jamesburgess2k
    @jamesburgess2k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Also, watch out for "half-concessions".
    They'll start the sentence by agreeing with you and want you to agree with their point, and after you agree to it, they'll tie you into something else (usually putting you in a bad light) in the second sentence, strawmanning you.
    DON'T go back on what you agreed with, just expound on your opinion to more accurately describes your stance, while maintaining you still agree with the first point. Same with yes or no questions, feel free to answer than, just be ready to explain your opinion if they try to loop you into something. Always confirm that you agree with their first point, but *your* version of their second point, not theirs.

    • @jackhhun2698
      @jackhhun2698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      never give them their frame

  • @Mizzy873
    @Mizzy873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    Great video. I found this conversation between Andrew and Piers fascinating, not just because of the subjects they talked about, but the psychological battle between the two of them.

    • @DaZeDmerlin
      @DaZeDmerlin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tate is good at it, but he’s also a manipulative sociopath. He actually is misogynistic as hell. The way he avoids agreeing with this is masterfully done. But he’s a manipulator and he’s good at it.

    • @krishrughoor8119
      @krishrughoor8119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@DaZeDmerlin not he is not he does not hate women

    • @thechunkmaster8794
      @thechunkmaster8794 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's a literal "Battle of the Bastards"

    • @ismefate5857
      @ismefate5857 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DaZeDmerlin ok sheep

    • @432HzPlug
      @432HzPlug ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DaZeDmerlin define misogynistic?

  • @T-StoryChannel
    @T-StoryChannel 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    This video is exactly what I needed to start my day on a positive note. It's a reminder that success comes to those who work hard and never give up. Thank you for this motivation!

  • @fixed-point
    @fixed-point 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I'm not sure I agree with the last point. I don't disagree with the words "Give yourself permission to change your mind", but I think it's almost always both ethically and intellectually wrong to change your mind *during* an argument unless it is *very* clear that you were wrong. Changing your mind is like grooming yourself -- it should usually be done in private.
    Why? Because you don't actually have *time* during an argument to think it all the way through, especially in a medium (TV) where pausing to think about something for more than a brief moment (i.e. dead air) is bad for viewership. It's like trying to translate poetry into another language in real-time as it's read to you, all while preserving the rhyme scheme and without pausing between stanzas. Your brain just isn't that quick. If you think it is, then you're doing it poorly.

    • @river8142
      @river8142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This^^^ in an emotionally charged situation, there's a fine line between admitting you're wrong and being forced into doing so. Arguments can only be productive to an extent, they're no place for serious self-reflection

    • @ryanvacation7319
      @ryanvacation7319 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good points

    • @sub7se7en
      @sub7se7en 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There can be instances where during an argument you can change your mind and it's appropriate to change your mind. I've had instances in my personal life where in the argument the other person made me realize my error. This doesn't happen very often. The vast majority of cases this isn't true for me, but it does happen. For some it may happen more often for others even less than the infrequency it happens for myself. Regardless, in such situations you should concede in humility.
      And, respectfully, I disagree with the sentiment of your last two sentences. Outside of a medium like TV, you can sit there for a moment and think about it. You don't have to constantly be responding. You can take time to think. And sometimes it doesn't even require that. Your brain can be that quick. A realization sometimes dawns on you suddenly. Something the other person says can trigger an "aha" moment and then the matter is settled. I'd be surprised if this has never happened to you. I've been on the receiving and the giving end of that "aha" moment.

    • @FM-dm8xj
      @FM-dm8xj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      System 1 and system 2

    • @toobusytocare7555
      @toobusytocare7555 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Especially if you were constantly interrupted

  • @cmdaltctr
    @cmdaltctr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +368

    I came to notice a pattern here, that you'd most probably need these 90% of the time if you're ever getting interviewed by a western media, or anyone "trained" by their style/system of thoughts. For the most part I've seen interviews in other countries in other languages, people are actually discussing and understanding things rather than trying to demolish or cancel that person. It's slowly becoming apparent to me that these "interviewers" has someone pulling the strings, putting a leashed dog on these prime channels trying to cancel that person they interviewing. It's not about seeking the truth, modern media pushed by the western nations no longer about seeking the truth.
    A media that can convince people that a nation has WMD, who can convince people to justify their government to interfere with someone's country and caused millions of death, and so many other disgusting things for the past decades - how can I expect anything different as an output in return? That's the very definition of insanity.

    • @RexGalilae
      @RexGalilae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Can confirm.
      News debates in Asian countries are often way more heated and unprofessional but they're not playing a game to goad you into a corner where you have to apologize or get cancelled
      It's just two people arguing very loudly lol but I'd take that over these duplicitous mind games

    • @marieantoinettev712
      @marieantoinettev712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Very well said and profoundly thought.
      Thank you 🙏!

    • @55xxSwEeTxmExx55
      @55xxSwEeTxmExx55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      absolutely - wish more ppl realized this

    • @petergaty3681
      @petergaty3681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thats what happened to kanye after interview with peirs

    • @nasara690
      @nasara690 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He who controls the media controls the narrative

  • @AnaniGalabov
    @AnaniGalabov 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just keep on smiling, on arguments this will make them feel losing it . Works every time for me.

  • @TheMusicPioneers
    @TheMusicPioneers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    These videos are getting better and better each time

    • @AndersonShamon1997
      @AndersonShamon1997 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah he’s gotten better over the years

  • @aadityakalwani
    @aadityakalwani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I've been waiting for a charisma on command analysis of Tate, and you certainly delivered well so thank you

  • @djjazzyjeff1232
    @djjazzyjeff1232 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    #8 is HUGELY important. That show high emotional maturity and also personal strength, because by giving yourself permission to change your mind, you're admitting that you're not perfect, which is the biggest hurdle for so many people.

  • @CoolPapaJMagik
    @CoolPapaJMagik 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    This interview was a big W for Andrew

    • @JuanHernandez-ze3si
      @JuanHernandez-ze3si 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      And a huge L for Piers

    • @hatersgottahatewejustgotta198
      @hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Prolly one of the few W's that he's taken so far 💀

    • @AM-cl8ti
      @AM-cl8ti 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198
      ً

    • @RoxyCherryRozy
      @RoxyCherryRozy ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 he is like this in podcasts and other interviews too. You just choose to judge based on a few seconds clips or media articles.

  • @12thMandalorian
    @12thMandalorian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Another classic Charisma on Command video, i appreciate each upload as they have helped me become a better person

  • @livelittle411
    @livelittle411 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am on the don't try to win an argument. Always first seek common ground , let others present their views , let them talk and seek to understand what made them defensive, correct any misperception you found , until you can find that common ground , don't talk listen more
    Once fully understood others views and their emotions , then engage . That way the person could go from your enemy to a potential ally .
    Any time you feel no common ground can be reached , pause and leave .continue the conversation another time .

    • @yessyvascielo1131
      @yessyvascielo1131 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I actually wanted to ask, how do you deal with people who are really sassy and have good comebacks? Or if there is a situation where there is no time but there is still a person insulting you etc, watch a scene with Érica Sinclair and Murray from Stranger Things 3, or maybe someone like Max From Stranger Things aswell, I know this is kinda weird but how do you deal with people like that? I’m just very horrible st defending myself really and I get scared easily 😢😢😢😢it’s because I have nothing to say in the moment and I just get kinda of shocked as well lol

  • @ShekharKumar-jh3uc
    @ShekharKumar-jh3uc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    A very well made video, everyone can benefit from such content because I love it when people have healthy debates and discussions

    • @ArthurMorgansDeadHorse
      @ArthurMorgansDeadHorse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not sure id call Piers rudely attacking tate a healthy discussion lol. He was a total dbag

  • @rhyguy6260
    @rhyguy6260 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I used your advice here to absolutely steam roll someone who was rude to me. It was the First time I have ever stood up for myself and it was amazing!!!

  • @Unelith
    @Unelith ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I had the same hunch to just let them speak and return to my argument later, but unfortunately it doesn't always work - when you have limited time, and especially so if you also, at the same time, are arguing against status quo on that limited time. All that the other side has to do is to keep interrupting you

  • @skettlez9732
    @skettlez9732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    How to end any argument. Say, "are you trying to argue with me or talk to me, because I don't know about you but I just wanna talk to you" This works for me

  • @wisdomkekang896
    @wisdomkekang896 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I use this Andrew Tate's tactics when discussing with someone whose sole purpose is to portray me as a villain rather than come to a conclusion about the truth

  • @gridmatrix6364
    @gridmatrix6364 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well done looking objective on both parts, so we can learn both sides and the tools of charisma/ retosim. Enjoy how you calmly show each example right on the go.

  • @BOSS_1417
    @BOSS_1417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    "My Unmatched Perspicacity coupled with sheer indefatigability makes me a feared opponent in any realm of human endeavour " ~ Emory Andrew Tate II

    • @remarcablemc
      @remarcablemc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I had to google those words. Once understood it’s very powerful

    • @_aweshit
      @_aweshit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me: /whoosh

    • @_jdgeorge_
      @_jdgeorge_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Tate is amazing.

    • @anblox0770
      @anblox0770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      W

    • @mao5170
      @mao5170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A month late, but to clarify; that was his father's words.

  • @thetorontogirl
    @thetorontogirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "Give yourself permission to change your mind." is another way of saying "show humility and learn". Definitely didn't expect this to be a point but it's one, if not the most, important point. It's not about being right or wrong but being able to understand someone's POV.
    I feel like people are so afraid to change their position and mind about a topic because they believe it defines them as a person. It's not the principle of giving up your own beliefs but simply seeing a different perspective and realizing that perhaps you may have not seen the full picture. I respect the person who grows within an argument. It's definitely hard for me to apply this point and actually took me aback when he mentioned it because I find it hard giving myself permission and realizing I may have overlooked some things within an argument.

  • @untraumatizer3647
    @untraumatizer3647 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Andrew's eloquence skill is that when you ask him a question he gives you an immediate answer that an average person would take around 10mins to come up with an answer that smooth and perfect, and he does it every single time. Andrew Tate is world class when it comes to holding a conversation.

    • @maxwellpruner2168
      @maxwellpruner2168 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol, world class. Read a book. He trafficks women

    • @HeadlessStatue
      @HeadlessStatue ปีที่แล้ว +11

      zip up ur pants when ur done

    • @bvamstel9282
      @bvamstel9282 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@HeadlessStatue He walks around with knee-pads I'm sure.

  • @BrandonWatkins614
    @BrandonWatkins614 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    Regardless of what you think about Andrew, it is interesting how well he comports himself in interviews, and there are many tactics he used that others can learn from when engaging in debates of their own.

    • @xalexbanx
      @xalexbanx ปีที่แล้ว

      they're both toxic and pathetic

    • @nntflow7058
      @nntflow7058 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He is not good when he got caught lying. He suddenly have big outburst and started to randomly insult everybody for no reason.

    • @Catchy_Sight
      @Catchy_Sight ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nntflow7058 Show me an example

    • @danielaorellana8216
      @danielaorellana8216 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We could say the same about hitler. There are enough people in this world to put as an example someone with questionable behaviors/ideologies.

    • @OmegaStella
      @OmegaStella ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danielaorellana8216no matter what you think about Tate it’s unfair to link him to hitler because hitler is a lot worse

  • @tk000
    @tk000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Big shout out to #8. Much like not learning from past mistakes, so many people refuse to allow themselves to change their minds when presented with new/better information, learning that they're wrong, or as society as a whole continues to evolve.

    • @julius43461
      @julius43461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's tough, because if you are totally open and honest, you will never be able to settle on anything. New information is presented all the time. I realized it greatly depends on how much you share with others, or through social media. Personally I was typing a lot of my opinions and ideas in my private file, but never shared any of my opinions publicly. Because of that, I am changing my mind on things very frequently. This made me realize that if politicians were honest and open to new ideas, they would be changing their minds all the time, which would make them even less popular, because they would be seen as grifters and whatnot.

    • @VoVina111
      @VoVina111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@julius43461 well said

    • @ryanvacation7319
      @ryanvacation7319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@julius43461 good points. Probably in trust worthy relationships being open and willing to change your mind have benefits but if your a public figure it could be misconstrued by your detractors.

    • @julius43461
      @julius43461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ryanvacation7319 Yeah, if they were honestly interested in changing their minds, they would be switching partied all the time, kind of how many ordinary people do.

    • @TheWorldsprayer
      @TheWorldsprayer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Disagree. You have to choose the things you will/will not compromise on in life. Granted there are often a lot of things in life you CAN compromise on, but to take this video as an example, the majority of waht Tate is talking about is stuff he passionately believes in with legitimate, objective cause. He does not need to allow himself to change his mind on something important to him. When discussing your favorite flavor of ice cream...that's a different matter.

  • @sapphire2640
    @sapphire2640 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the art of conversation truly is beautiful. unfortunately, most people when they hear the world "argument" think of one side being the winner and the other side being wholly steamrollered and feeling humiliated. that is not how it has to be.
    one tip is to go into an argument with the mindset to understand another opinion, with the mindset that its okay to not come out completely winning. its okay to compromise on a view. its okay to be wrong too. people respect people who are willing to admit they are wrong. this way, you are less likely to get mad or stressed.

  • @gipsybauski8971
    @gipsybauski8971 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    This video is so great. An objective, sober analysis of a conversation between two highly controversial persons where siding even a little bit with any one of them could get you ostracized. You managed to find something good in their behavior and their speech without codoning what each one of them stand for. Big respect for that! It takes skill to create informative content based on two people that many people don't want to touch with a then foot pole.
    And the the level of detail is amazing. It's better than some expensive psychology courses.

    • @Slechy_Lesh
      @Slechy_Lesh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Controversial is an understatement. I assume you well know why.

  • @rayunutoa6125
    @rayunutoa6125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You GUYS!! this was the video I’ve been waiting for you to do! Thanks for covering argument tips! I’m not good at this, so fr sure I can’t wait to put these tips to practice thank you thank you!

    • @diarmuidbrady5525
      @diarmuidbrady5525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have a look at jbp and cathy newman

    • @halfbadboy3250
      @halfbadboy3250 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah they just afraid of getting cancel

  • @willgab7342
    @willgab7342 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just stay chill the entire time they eventually give up, work's every time.

  • @bermund13th27
    @bermund13th27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    Andrew Tate is a reality check that everyone needs.

    • @hatersgottahatewejustgotta198
      @hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's more like a 'how to be delusional' thing. Exactly the opposite of a 'reality check' that's why all his boyfriends are so delusional. Maybe you too and the thing about delusions is that u think it's real. U prolly stay too much on the internet watching Andrew so pls just go out and see the real world. Pls.

    • @steveanton763
      @steveanton763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      What's the message he has that everyone needs to hear?

    • @jamesbirkett8060
      @jamesbirkett8060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      @@steveanton763 Similar to the ideas of other popular influencers of young men (JBP, Tate, Alex Hormozi, Gary Vee:
      Life is suffering.
      Taking on responsibility is the route to a meaningful life.
      You should strive for real achievements and to become a protector and provider.
      Not all masculinity is toxic.
      It's okay to want money.
      Go to the gym, get in shape, and you'll feel and perform better in every way.
      Don't waste your life because it's the only one you've got.
      No one cares if your life is a success more than you.
      Women are born with value (Youth, beauty, fertility etc..) men have to make their value, through competence.
      Focus on getting yourself in a good position, and the women, cars, peace and enlightenment will come.
      Hard work actually works, use the internet for it's infinite leverage to make money fast.
      I don't know, that's scratching the surface I guess, if you want to hear the best of his advice then there are some clips here on youtube, but tatespeech on rumble is where he posts content now.
      I do not agree with everything that Andrew says, and certainly wouldn't phrase most things in the same way, but I do agree with OP that he's a reality check in a lot of ways for people who are disconnected with how difficult it really is to be a success and to act as an individual.

    • @johnnyson7474
      @johnnyson7474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@steveanton763 woman don't like to be objectify, but they always calls themselves the prize

    • @skypuff
      @skypuff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@johnnyson7474 😅 because they seem to always choose who wins.

  • @anonymoussource8705
    @anonymoussource8705 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    Here's a better tip: Stop trying to win arguments, try getting something out of them, or just leave them if they are wasted time.

    • @caydizzlepierce4163
      @caydizzlepierce4163 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thankyou, I needed that reminder

    • @finnhenderson3909
      @finnhenderson3909 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nice

    • @T.Alexis926
      @T.Alexis926 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed.

    • @shivamsingh-cs2ub
      @shivamsingh-cs2ub ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thats not how world work atleast on television level

    • @googane7755
      @googane7755 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@shivamsingh-cs2ub That's why most people don't do them. The main goal of television is to get attention, ratings, etc not a productive conversation.

  • @brianboogie9700
    @brianboogie9700 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm new to stock market /Crypto and would like to invest but I've go no idea on how to make good profits. Pls what's the best approach you'd recommend?

    • @zahorpitafi7954
      @zahorpitafi7954 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, at the moment bitcoin is the best and profitable coin to buy and invest in..

    • @miaejaita7119
      @miaejaita7119 ปีที่แล้ว

      The only safe reliable,genuine and highly experienced expert I can refer you to is Mrs Claudia Walter's.

    • @nelsonkatherine2123
      @nelsonkatherine2123 ปีที่แล้ว

      My first investment with Mrs Claudia Walter's, gave me a profit of 87k dollars and ever since then she has never failed to deliver and I still stand by saying she is the most sincere broker I have know

    • @judysamaniego1606
      @judysamaniego1606 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow I'm just shocked some one mentioned expert Mrs Claudia Walter's name i thought I'm the only one trading with her

    • @garyjesus1387
      @garyjesus1387 ปีที่แล้ว

      How does this Bitcoin stuff work, I am interested and willing to invest heavily as I have heard too many testimonies

  • @elfnino4878
    @elfnino4878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Piers Morgan is like debate practice for rich people. He smirks and grins as he uses these tricks, knowing full and well what he's doing. Notice he loses the smirk when Andrew parries it with his own debate training.

    • @Brisingr73
      @Brisingr73 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Mind games like this are just gross, man. I wish people were more consistently sincere and direct.

    • @CrabCrabCrabskateCrab
      @CrabCrabCrabskateCrab ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@Brisingr73 it's a debate,man there's no right or wrong --- you were supposed to use your point and plotted your opponent point against themselves

    • @panama2468
      @panama2468 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's an exercise in eristic discussion. 😂

    • @monkeygameplay5455
      @monkeygameplay5455 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@CrabCrabCrabskateCrab are you kidding me ? He is trying to force stuff he misunderstood and saying that he said it when he didnt if you dont pay attention to those garbage people , theyre gonna eat you alive

  • @TheEncouragementKid
    @TheEncouragementKid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Your channel is GOLD! I couldn't sit through the entire debate with AT and PM, but I did leave a comment mentioning how great your channel is and how it will help us with people like PM. And here we are a direct video about it! Thank you my dude! You're a legend and I've told at least 12 people in the real world about your channel 🙂♥️

  • @ibo1137
    @ibo1137 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tate is a master at talking.

  • @josephle2155
    @josephle2155 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    You don’t have to change your mind, you can apologize for what you said and how it made someone feel uneasy, but there’s also accept people for who they are.

    • @old_dan
      @old_dan ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I don't think that's completely accurate. You only apologize for something you said if you made a mistake or talked in the heat of the moment out of anger or something. You don't apologize because others didn't like your words. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. When I find myself in those kinds of conversations I just say "I'm sorry you feel that way" and move on. Not every argument needs to end in an friendly agreement.

    • @speedheat9773
      @speedheat9773 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@old_dan fr sometimes people are looking for that 'I'm sorry" as a way to validate themselves even if they're completely wrong about the subject at hand. One thing i always tell people is that apologizing is an easy way out and people will walk over you and have zero respect for the things you care about. Sometimes you have to put your foot down (respectfully) without blowing up. Some people just don't know the meaning of the word disagreement and assume that if you don't agree with me then you're against me and there's no middle ground. Its honestly wild how egotistical some people are nowadays.

    • @unknownweirdo077
      @unknownweirdo077 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can disagree about apologizing, because sounds to me you just want aproval to you are always right and somebody was wrong by disagreeing with you.

    • @sgtcrusher66
      @sgtcrusher66 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      tate isnt responsible for YOUR feelings YOU are responsible for YOUR feelings feelings are subjective to each individual individually. why should someone apologize for your feelings ? maybe you should apologize for YOUR feelings and reaction . if your uneasy maybe you should investigate that further and YOU work on YOUR feelings Tate has NO idea HOW YOU will feel towards his comments if your OFFENDED thats on YOU someone else might not be offended its he obviously has a internet following so alot of people arent offended by him maybe you should try to understand what he says more again we all dont have to agree about everything but get a hold of those feelings

  • @isac6978
    @isac6978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It can be so incredibly though to come back to your point after being interrupted repeatedly well done to tate on this one

  • @apt.dzykhq1848
    @apt.dzykhq1848 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s amazing that you also given us the example of misquoting around this part 10:00 😂

  • @MrZerosixZeroone
    @MrZerosixZeroone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Two absolute masters with words it was spectacular to listen and watch this interview.

  • @anantharamashok9501
    @anantharamashok9501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Wow. The way Tate evaded many close ended tricky questions and proved his point is simply amazing. He is not one of those guys who simoly make a point without anything to back it up.

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Then you havent watched enough Tate lol

    • @anantharamashok9501
      @anantharamashok9501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@xMckingwill Maybe all you have watched is a handful of reels about him which are taken out of context. lol

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@anantharamashok9501 Nah I have watched chunks of what he says with full context. Not simple reels. Take of your rose tinted glasses lol

    • @anantharamashok9501
      @anantharamashok9501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@xMckingwill An Anime and game addicted boy. Iam not surprised. Lets have the conversation once you grow up buddy.

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@anantharamashok9501 huh? We are having a conversation I didnt personally insult you idk what happened. 🤷‍♂️

  • @misterdrifter4883
    @misterdrifter4883 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for this video, you do this world a service 💯

  • @aranh4
    @aranh4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It has been a minute since I watched some Charisma University videos. I used to binge them a lot as I enjoy very much the subjects and tips. Congratulations on 5M followers!

  • @vinspiration2609
    @vinspiration2609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Gotcha" questions are also common among socially combative people. I dealt with this recently with a high ticket salesman. Everything was fine and friendly until I declined his offer. He then got defensive and made attempts to guilt trip me. Don't play into their game.

  • @DarkSentinel52
    @DarkSentinel52 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you just showed some of the reasons why i despise arguing with people

  • @alisonthorne323
    @alisonthorne323 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Piers is always do that “interrupting” people during interviews. Well handled Andrew. I like the finger method for stopping being interrupted. I am definitely going to try this.

  • @4E-P
    @4E-P 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I end up being always right, because when I am wrong I change my mind

  • @oliviamou60
    @oliviamou60 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1) Spot when they enter fight mode.
    Subtle: Label YOU as an issue.
    Misquoting you. Showing vS having respect is a big difference. Simple solution: reestablish your own point view before defending it.
    Argue with you Before letting you explain.
    2) Derailing interruptions before you can make a good point.
    Pause, acknowledge the person (“Understood, Pierce; I respect you have the right to think that.”) continue arguing.
    3) Preempt their interruption.
    If they still interrupt, one finger stop gesture.
    4) Don’t steamroll concessions.
    Flip side: don’t be the interrupter and prevents you from reaching common ground.
    You can’t make good points when ppl. Interrupt.
    Physically relax into the argument by taking deep belly breaths.
    5) Catch any logic gaps.
    Remember the premise of their argument.
    6) Draw a conversational boundary DIRECTLY.
    7) Acknowledge any common ground.
    Example: I completely agree. Genuine tone and voice. Then state what exactly you disagree with.
    8) Give yourself permission to change your mind.
    It’s not a sign of weakness. You do NOT need to change your preexisting self to fit your beliefs . Takes confidence to change belief in front of others.

  • @madrooski9982
    @madrooski9982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    10:20 By the way, Tate wasn’t changing his opinions from his past self, he is just phrasing it in a way now that is more digestible for the audience.

  • @julius43461
    @julius43461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    4:22, Yes, I loved this one. His body language was saying "Oh no I can't interrupt him now, now what?"

  • @sinthopmethiankit9681
    @sinthopmethiankit9681 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much, my group chat always have arguments and most of them blame them on me an I feel sad but after I saw this video it helps me a lot with my arguments.

  • @jsbsjbsndbbxnx6617
    @jsbsjbsndbbxnx6617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks a lot for this video. It’s exactly what I’ve been looking for in the past week.

  • @nfsfan0946
    @nfsfan0946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Love or hate Tate, you got to admit that he was more down to earth then Piers in this argument

    • @themadcat5288
      @themadcat5288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not hard, it's Piers Morgan. Andrew Tate is a manipulative jackass that built his empire on virgins idolozing him because a woman dumped them, Piers is just a straight up clown.

    • @hatersgottahatewejustgotta198
      @hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Even tho I hate Andrew and I know what he says is a complete nonsense 99% of the time I really respect how he handled the situation here and how calm he was.

    • @derrickrose6161
      @derrickrose6161 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 you’re a sheep and can’t comprehend the truth that’s why you think 99% of what he says is wrong

    • @balistahr.o.g1103
      @balistahr.o.g1103 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 tell me. What do you hate abt Andrew tate ?

  • @suhanrahaman4695
    @suhanrahaman4695 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this video makes me want to get into more arguments

  • @NonnyStrikes
    @NonnyStrikes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Last part of this was awesome. The point/lesson of allowing yourself to change your opinions from past without worrying so much ... allowing you to grow... yeah. Good stuff.

  • @thesw9k
    @thesw9k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was a very well done analysis. Solid

  • @AlfieScarborough-e6o
    @AlfieScarborough-e6o 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    repeating the question is a very good technique just to get it clear as to what's being asked.

  • @JRay2113
    @JRay2113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Andrew Tate was very likely “prepped” for this meeting with Piers Morgan. Very smarty thing to do. A fighter to the core.

  • @prodigystake
    @prodigystake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Andrew didn't say it was bad to change your mind he said he is responsible for the things he has said. I think we all know that Andrew is fully capable of changing his mind seeing as he literally changed his whole religion. If somebody really thought changing their mind was bad they sure as Hell would not change their whole religion.

    • @SubconsciousLight
      @SubconsciousLight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You need to adapt, for that you need change your perspectives. You don´t get where Tate is if you can`t change yourself and he aknowledges his saying with responsibility. You don`t talk lightly when you are aware of responsibility and weight of words.

    • @hkhan3535
      @hkhan3535 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He did not "change" his religion. He said Islam is the only true religion left on this earth because all other religions already started to water down their rules to fit with the modern woke ideals. So it's the religion that "changes their minds", not him. So he needs to convert to Islam which fits more with what he believes.

    • @ScientObject40
      @ScientObject40 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@hkhan3535 He actually converted to Islam. There's videos of him praying in a mosque too.

    • @migvel1711
      @migvel1711 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@hkhan3535 u don’t just go from being an atheist to a Muslim without completely disconnecting from your past ideologies on that stance.

    • @hkhan3535
      @hkhan3535 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@migvel1711 since when Andrew converted from atheist? He was a Christian. Christianity and Islam are both Abrahamic religion. So it's normal for a Christian to convert to Islam.

  • @CADJewellerySkills
    @CADJewellerySkills 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Proof you can learn something even from the worst people.

  • @seriouslyscared2912
    @seriouslyscared2912 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Negativity is the greatest way to force the other person into fight mode to the point where they blunder more than they normally do

  • @seanyshepfit
    @seanyshepfit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Hahahaha Tate. Like him or not, the man is an excellent communicator. His philosophy of approaching life like chess and staying 2 steps ahead at all times is intriguing. Also, Piers Morgan got outsmarted by some girl from Love Island, he never stood a chance against Tate 😂

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  • @dbradley3173
    @dbradley3173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I agree that openness to changing your mind is a powerful, positive thing. However, I don't think Andrew was wrong for holding strong to his position here. He can stand on his opinion, and that's ok too.

    • @BurtHandsome
      @BurtHandsome 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think in this scenario you're right, Andrew wasn't meant to change his stance on anything with this mockery of an interview with Piers, he's the last person you'd want to have on the frontlines for thst one

  • @tooyou4925
    @tooyou4925 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love the way the guy says he's not endorsing anyone but basically praise Tate

    • @buggy1638
      @buggy1638 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      no hes not lol

    • @dannysummers4591
      @dannysummers4591 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where did he endorse him? He just said he handled the debate well.

    • @JewTube001
      @JewTube001 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      tate just held his ground well and piers uses a lot of annoying tactics. not sure what else you want to do about it, maybe he's a bad man or maybe not but that's just how this interview went.

    • @vernvern1507
      @vernvern1507 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tate deserves praise, anyone that wins over Morgan by the end of one of his interviews deserves some level of respect l, and if you watch the second interview Morgan does with rate, Morgan comes in with a completely different attitude and a higher level of respect for tate

    • @deaconblues77
      @deaconblues77 ปีที่แล้ว

      He just showed what happened in the interview.

  • @SheriBellLifeCoach
    @SheriBellLifeCoach 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Charisma on Command ... question: is your program as fast-paced and idea-loaded as your free TH-cam videos? Clearly, you guys have a lot to teach. But to be honest, I get exhausted trying to digest all the info you stuff in your videos. I don't leave thinking I've learned and understood your concepts. I leave feeling my brain is like, "WTH?" lol

  • @Scottlp2
    @Scottlp2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Step 1. Realize (from previous knowledge of the person) that you are dealing with someone likely to do this to you.

    • @inconnu4961
      @inconnu4961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great point! Thanks for mentioning it!

    • @VoVina111
      @VoVina111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      true it felt like Tate was ready lol

  • @odysseynoone3831
    @odysseynoone3831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Piers derives great pleasure and satisfaction from getting the people he interviews to say "I'm sorry". The motivation is beyond a journalistic motivation I think, he enjoys breaking them emotionally.

  • @thesunisout2858
    @thesunisout2858 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just agree and say you are worse then what they say you are, that usually stops them arguing with you.

  • @minisnakali
    @minisnakali ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I've heard nothing but bad things about Andrew Tate, but his attitude and social behavior here is genuinely praise worthy and something to learn.
    I've always been aggressive and hyper, so speaking slowly and taking breaks is a must for me during debates.

  • @Online_Tabernacle
    @Online_Tabernacle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That is the best analysis ever, I love this kind of content. Andre Tate is the best

  • @kiminem4087
    @kiminem4087 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1. look them in eyes and look way they move their body
    2. take deep slow breath
    3. stay focused
    4. look it from 3rd person (meaning it doesn't have to do with you it's their perspective, don't get it personal. If you get it personal they win)
    5. W8 them to finish and ask them is that all, may I answer now. In same time you are saying to them that there is nothing special in what they said but still you "show respect" by asking may you answer now but actually you are luring their "YES" towards you giving yourself advantage over them and lowering their guard in same time.
    6. Speak slow and low voice use hands up and down and nod your head so that they reflect that and start nod and follow hand gesture up and down (agreement movement) commanding it from them without saying it.

  • @florsierra9591
    @florsierra9591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This was the perfect set of tips for me today. Thank you

  • @oweshmohamed9863
    @oweshmohamed9863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Love your videos, very helpful and informative.

  • @lonermotsho
    @lonermotsho 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    *Second Confession*
    Sitting on the cold, hard floor
    Her blood still wet on my hands,
    Beside me lies Grace's lifeless body
    Her ashen face covered with crimson hair strands.
    Little Gracie was everything to me,
    My spitting image, my pride.
    I raised her all alone
    Taught her what's wrong and what's right.
    Wish I could say I didn't mean for her to die
    But we both know that's a grave lie
    My selfish ambitions got the better of me
    And I wouldn't set the raven free.
    Saw those somber wings flap under the scarlet sky
    As the world was crumbling around me.
    My stone-tough soul cracking fast but no one else could see.
    Then it sang me a jovial tune and I was alright,
    I had found my shining pitch-black knight.
    I needed to show my savior to Grace
    "She'd be delighted to see my beaming face."
    Yet, for the first time since my fable had started
    Gracie looked up at me, disgusted.
    "I thought you wanted me to be elated."
    "Not by becoming someone we always hated."
    "I can't let go of something I long awaited."
    "You have no choice," she stated.
    I failed Gracie but something hurt more,
    It was the thought of letting my prisoner go.
    Had to make a decision right away
    I was too stubborn to let her stand in my way.
    Every passing second my wrath spread like a wildfire
    And I hit her on the head over and over.
    Sitting on the floor that's colder than a silent goodbye
    Her dried blood on my hands resembling vampire black dye,
    Beside me Grace rests motionless
    Yet I heard her loud and clear, "You can still fix this

  • @DeathDeclined
    @DeathDeclined 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Piers : Read the 48 laws of power
    Tate: Wrote the 48 laws of power

  • @CoachTC23
    @CoachTC23 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is a tremendous breakdown. Take out personal bias and this is a true masterclass of healthily debating.

  • @WaitingForChocolate
    @WaitingForChocolate 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Why is no one concerned that tate literally said "I think my sister is her husbands property"? He's being cast in such a good light in this video despite his glaring moral issues. Surely another speaker could have been endorsed to demonstrate defending yourself in conversations. I didn't expect this from this channel.

  • @DD-ql9cr
    @DD-ql9cr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Crazy to see how excellent Andrew Tate is at listening and speaking. Would love to learn that!