I feel miserable I feel like I’m dying. My tummy hurts so bad. This is the last baby I ever want to have I wanted a girl so bad but at this point boy or girl as long as it’s healthy it is my last. This is horrible I cry everyday and pray.
I know this is gonna sound terrible but smoking a little bit of weed can help tremendously, my wife’s 3 months already and that’s literally the only way I can get her to eat if she doesn’t smoke she’ll throw up every 5-30 minutes
😭😭😭😭 I am very sorry, I am going through the same situation I completely understand you, we are strong and god is with us I'm sending you a big momma hug 🥰
@Aisha Noor I’m sorry but what does hyperemesis have to do with being black? Hyperemesis doesn’t care if your black white or brown just like cancer or diabetes. Shit like that tears us together as people and it’s disappointing, I live in a dirt poor area and when I look at my friends I don’t see black brown or white I see good honest people just trying to make it. Anyways it’s all women not just black, me and my wife (we are of Hispanic descent) miscarried because they thought she was “overreacting” and wouldn’t give her the proper care and attention she needed.. now she’s 3 months pregnant again and we’ve already gone to the hospital twice for IV Drip, even after explaining it to them they think we’re hysterical or something or that it’s not a big deal.
@@JustAyedan if we’re gonna be completely honest it’s not about “women of color” it’s not a race issue it’s a class issue. You can be the darkest person in the world but if your considered upper class and have money of course your going to get the best medical care but if your broke no one cares
This is my very first successful pregnancy and I’m going thru HELL. I wake up and vomit, Drink water vomit, eat cracker vomit, I smell ANY food vomit. I’m so exhausted I can’t even explain. To those women who are going thru this I’m so so sorry. I 100% understand what you’re doing thru and I pray that it stops for you 😢.
Hey, hope you are feeling better. I went through the same thing last year. I discovered that magnesium helps a lot. I even ended up gaining some weight in my third trimester. I was still throwing up everyday but like 3times or less unlike the first and second where it was over 30 times. Take some magnesium. I was on bed rest the first 6months cause of HG. I hope this helps.
Same here right now...my 7th time now...its always so worth it at the end tho but i almost die for first 4 to 5 months its ruined my body and teeth😢 but my babies r healthy!
I lost my son at 3 days old because of HG 20 years ago. The Dr's/midwife wouldn't listen to me. I lost so much weight. Eventually, I passed out trying to get up off the sofa, which put me into early labour at 25 weeks. He wasn't even meant to take a breath, but he did he survived 3 days. I'm so glad this now has a name. Speak up ladies ❤
My first pregnancy and honestly has me contemplating it may be my last. The affect it’s had on my mental health, not being able to work and being put on disability, multiple hospitalizations... I’m almost in my 7th month and my entire pregnancy people have been telling me, “it’ll go away soon”, Dr’s not truly grasping the gravity of the condition, some nurses not even knowing what you’re talking about when you say “I have hyperemesis Gravidarum”... fun times
I'm considering my future pregnancies, too. I want 4-5 kids, but there's no way I can go through this again, it's complete torture 😭 Sending you tons of love!
i learned about it in Nursing school 35 yrs ago at San Jose State University in San Jose, Calif. i find it odd a OB/GYN doctor or nurse is not more aware/informed about HG
Literally 2 months pregnant and I am SICK as a dog and have been for the whole 2 months. I really hope this passes after the first trimester because I can’t even work and I feel so bad for my husband having to do EVERYTHING and support us through everything because I can not even get out of bed. The heartburn and the nausea is INTENSE. I drink water…I throw up…
I hope it’s better now. My first pregnancy, I was super sick for 24 weeks, second for 18 weeks. My advice is to avoid the iron. It is too heavy for stomach. Also, if you have some gossipy friend, it’s time to invite her over. For some reason, they have the ability to drag you into their drama, that you forget about your sickness. I know it sounds strange, but for me, it worked 😂
I have HG I'm only 9 weeks and brushing me teeth makes me throw up. ALL SMELLS make me throw up. I CAN SMELL EVERYTHING FROM A REALLY FAR DISTANCE.. Anyone cooking makes me throw up. Tv, noises make me throw up. I cant even be on my phone for more than 5 minutes. My ENTIRE body hurts EVERYDAY. I have excessive saliva i can fill up like 20 cups of saliva a day because if i try to swallow the saliva it makes me throw up EVEN MORE. I FEEL SO MUCH FATIGUE been in bed for a whole month. I feel like I'm dying slowly. If I dream about food I wake up and throw up. I can't DO ANYTHING. I CANT EVEN GET UP TO GIVE MY DOGS WATER N FOOD. NOTHING HELPS. Pills 💊 the ER gave me help for a few hours n then BAM DYING AGAIN. NO ONE UNDERSTANDS. WATCHING THESE VIDEOS ARE THE ONLY WAY I DONT FEEL ALONE. THANK YOU HG MOMS WHO BRING AWARENESS. it's True the Doctors DONT EVEN LISTEN. They don't give u the EMERGENCY HELP you really need. They force u to wait and wait for permission and appointments and blah blah when you're actually dying. It's sad that HG has little attention because it's Rare. I wish I could punch everyone in the clinic who tell me to wait for this and that. The worse is when your personal DR. Tells you "well if you continue to throw up, just go to the Emergency room" brush u off like you are crazy. Wish the system was different in California. HG is as serious as Cancer yet no one really treats it that way. ALL HG MOMS ARE REAL HEROES STAY STRONG MOMMAS . I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH AND YOURE NOT ALONE. STAY 💪 STRONG. XOXO MUCH LOVE. HOPE YA'LL SLEEP WELL TONIGHT. ONE DAY AT A TIME. 🙏
No one understands how horrible I feel and that I really cannot do anything! It’s all I can do to drag myself to work and I’m SUFFERING. This is not just “oh look it’s so cute morning sickness” NO! I’m so sick all day and all night and I’m exhausted 😩 no one will ever know the amount of times I’ve vomited and cried into my toilet whispering “I can’t do this”
@@rahmafiakhatib3328 oh my! Zalma and I are both doing great now. Labor and delivery was a breeze! She was 6 lbs 9 oz and 19 in long. I did have an epidural. …Forgot to mention: they had to give me anti anxiety medication through my IV because I was freaking out about the ring of fire so much. Had me loopy til delivery and she practically slipped out. 🥰
Pls help, next week I'm 5 months and still vommiting every day for the whole day. The only thing I got from my doctor is well you felt nice when you were making the baby, it will pass. It is not going away I feel misserable 😕
I had this with both of my babies. So so So hard .... people say she is pregnant just like as other normal pregnant woman. I had ended in ER twice in both of my pregnancy. No good thing... I felt that time I was waiting for my death in any minute. God give strengths to those ladies and happy to hear this thing are more in talk now.
I'm 23 weeks and still having to take 8mg of zofran a day to be able to eat/drink anything... And honestly I'm so scared to ever get pregnant again and it being even worse. How did you even decide to get pregnant again?
😔 Iam 8 weeks now and I feel like I die every second, I dnt feel my body anymore I dnt recognize myself. Iam really tired and feeling alone. I am pregnant after three miscarriages I suppose to be happy now but sometimes I want to die :( . I pray to God everyday I wish it does-not continue the whole pregnancy .
@@skalasedeeq2266 hang in there love, it does get better! Just take it one day at a time and remember that it is for a good cause. Also make sure to ask your doctor for medication if you still don't take any!
My OB brushed it off as me being a first time mom and not "knowing what morning sickness was". I lost 10 percent of my body weight by 20 weeks and was hospitalized over 10 times before they medicated me . I am 6 weeks post partum AND STILL throwing up. Everyone expects you to he happy, grateful and over the moon. The reality for me was much darker. I didn't want to live anymore I was that sick. Now I am recovering and love my baby but I will never forget that suffering. 💔
What did you do to help wit the pain? My girl is going through something like this , and I feel helpless. Went to the doctors yesterday and they told us the same morning sickness thing, but I know it’s something bigger than that.
@@riplilsnupe3158 I tried everything. Sea bands, ginger, all of it. But ultimately I had to be pushy with the doctors. I told them I needed relief and that none if it was working. I actually kept count of each time I threw up in a day and every time I couldn't keep anything down I went to the ER for fluids. Sometimes you have to take charge and let the doctor know. If they won't listen, find a new doctor. My husband did a lot of the housework. I can tell you she isn't faking it. I was. Bedridden my entire pregnancy. Be supportive and know pregnacy can be rough .
@@riplilsnupe3158 it's really terrible to be that sick for so long but when I see my little boy it makes it better. He's my whole world. I hope it ends sooner than later for you and you get relief.
Mine kicked in at 12 weeks full force. I couldn't eat or drink anything for 4 days. Thankfully my doctor gave me Zofran just with me calling her and it's been working relatively well, I can't imagine the pain of being dismissed on top of the vomiting... I was hoping it would stop soon but 23 weeks and still can't eat nor drink without the damn pill. I really hope you're feeling better now and enjoying your little baby ❤️
It's so bad that I've thought about terminating my pregnancy. I cant go through with it and its illegal now anyway. All I do is vomit. Ik i have to eat for my baby so it can grow but god damn I cant keep food down. I'm always hungry cuz I cant keep food in my tummy. I heard this stuff can be life threatening for the mom
It’s real and it sucks, I’ve had this problem for 3 of my pregnancy’s. It’s no joke, I cannot eat or drink anything without throwing up minutes after consuming. I sleep all day and only eat once a day until the next day. I was given medication for the nausea, it did not help at all. Worst feeling ever.
Classy how did you even have the strength to go through with another pregnancy? I'm currently dealing with it and honestly never want to be pregnant again. I feel so useless and miserable...
@@Opal5674 someone else in the comments said she had it with 6 pregnancies. Some fuckin how lol. Maybe people just have really strong willpower idk, I'm not doing this shit again after this run with HG. Fuck that.
It’s unbelievable how another woman can talk negatively about another woman struggling with hyperemesis. But its the first one when she’s on their period, is laying on bed dying all dramatic. I managed to work all through out my pregnancies dealing with hyperemesis and it was very rough. So before you talk about another woman struggling with it, get yourself checked out. A huge hug to those beautiful ladies struggling with hyperemesis!
My wife is 15 weeks & she is currently going through this, she rarely has good days, but it’s a living hell for her for the most part. I feel terrible because there’s nothing I can do to make her feel better. & worst of all is that we don’t have any health insurance. We’ve applied for financial aid praying that we get approved. I’m praying to God that my wife’s pregnancy gets a lot easier.
@@twilight6779 how is it their fault? It can be difficult to get approved for health insurance anywhere even in the US. I don’t think you should have kids at all.
Currently have this and I’m 13 weeks pregnant. This has made me never want to have any more children and this is my first pregnancy. I lay down all day, barely enough energy to shower and go to the bathroom. I never want to eat, because when I do, it comes back up. My throat hurts so bad from all the vomiting. I’m in and out of the ER getting fluids on an almost weekly basis now. Can’t work, can’t clean, can’t live any life outside of being pregnant.
I literally can’t wake up with this pregnancy because I’m so dehydrated. And I am a water lover😭. So now I drink water only late at night and super cold, with lots of ice to hide the flavor
For anyone reading this, getting my wife IV fluids with vitamins and zofran every 10-14 days. With freshly squeezed orange juice every morning helped ease her symptoms. The IV treatments were done by local IV services that come to home. It is key to keep them at 10-14 days and of course consult with your doctor before doing. Hope it helps!
@mysticalrosegl just a heads up. 10-14 days may be too long for some people. I have to go in for fluids every 2-3 days or everything just spirals out of control. Ask your doctor for signs and symptoms to help you know when it's time for iv fluids.😊
@@melaniesnyder9165 Of course like I said 10-14 days is what worked for my wife, because it was a medicated IV. Regular IVs or medicated IVs will be different for everyone. Just shared what worked for us. Good luck to all of you ladies!
I have this condition, wasn’t diagnosed until I went to the ER. Because I couldn’t keep anything down, was extremely lightheaded and depressed. Vomiting 12 or more times a day. Doctors wouldn’t listen to me, most don’t take me seriously, I’ve been losing weight. I think im slowly gaining the weight back. Im about to be 12 weeks so I still have a while to go. My OB doesn’t even listen, nobody does really. I take nausea medicine daily, it barely does anything. I can’t even do the multivitamin IV treatments anymore because when I went in for my first treatment it almost killed me from anaphylaxis, I even felt contractions starting I was so scared my baby wouldn’t survive that because I knew I was about to pass out and I couldn’t barely breath at all. Thankfully I was very lucky to have the nurses close and get immediate help and attention and eventually the stomach cramping stopped. They even called my OB and I’m angry my OB hasn’t tried to see me yet since the incident, because it can be dangerous for the baby because it deprives oxygen. I don’t work I literally can’t, I don’t even leave the house but very very rarely. I usually order food or groceries when i get low because it’s so hard for me to go out. I’m at a low point, I’m so depressed, stressed, this sickness has taken a toll on me mentally, and physically. Sometimes I just want to give up, but I try to think about the end goal and it helps me motivate myself. Barely pushing by day by day. And I also don’t have an income, even when I tried to get a job I was rejected because I was pregnant. I’m new to the state of California, trying to figure out how I can make a little bit of money. I’m just scared at how this whole thing is going to play out, trying to stay focused on the positives.
Mother of 6. Eye had HG for ALL of my pregnancies. Lost at least 30lbs., 24 hour nauseas & vomiting, zofran didn’t do much of anything, getting to the bathroom was a damn chore. One of my pregnancies, Eye threw up until Eye turned 8 months. Smh, stay strong mother’s-to-be, there IS a light at the end of the tunnel. 💚💚💚
I had rough morning sickness with my first but this time around I have HG and I honestly am pretty sure I'm getting a contraceptive implant after this. I'm hoping I have twins or something because I don't want to do this again. How the heck did you stick it out for 6?! 😭
My wife was in hospital for 10weeks with Hyperemesis. Its not morning sickness. Ginger and lemon wont work, its not morning sickness. Majority of individuals believe its just a bad case of morning sickness, that would be very neive. It is a completely debilitating illness, at its worst, as in my wife's case, it leaves you quite literally in a vegetative state
Thank youuuu my dear, that you as malé stated this... we need man like that... and have to admitt even some clueless ladies primitívely judging us " lucky ones" as overreacting and trying to throw on us other nonsensal "advices" and general recomendations..😮💨
I’m 12 weeks and going threw it I’m soooo mad at the world I don’t want kids I regret everything I’m just at the point that life sucks and crying isn’t helping me 😔 everyone tells me your strong you got this ! But I don’t no one knows how this hurts your soul and messes with your brain they really need to start working on a medication for women with HG pregnancy should be beautiful , it’s horrible right now .
pregnant with my second child, I had it with my first. & now with my second. watching this at work as I barley hang out 😔😔 it's so difficult, sometimes I think I wont make it.
@@seyibale yeah but to be dismissed like that is bs. And then if she is this sick how will she takecare of a newborn. Where is her time for recovery. Nowhere.
That's your fault you and everyone else knows how difficult and painful pregnancy is and yall know the consequences but guess what yall just keep on going so I feel no sympathy
@@twilight6779Its a gift and blessing to create life. Thats so messed up to say. Some pregnancies were unexpected even with condoms and birth control. Even if they were planned who tf are you what if ur mom aborted you? She stuck it out to have your ignorant rude ass
Literally lost almost 40 pounds from it. My husband dragged me to the ER after a long time of refusing to go. The doctor told me that I was in SEVERE starvation mode, my body had NOTHING. and I believed him because I was passing out all the time, so I wouldn’t even leave the house.
This is my first baby and will be my only biological baby. I’ve always wanted to be pregnant and now that I am I feel like I’m being punished for wanting such.
i had it, i was 16 and pregnant and threw up all day every day 6w-30w. i lost 20lbs in the start, i had to get shots in my butt just to keep the nausea meds down, and when i couldn’t keep water down i had to get fluids. it left me with bulimia, it’s been 4 years and i just now recovered from it and the effects it had on my mental health. this stuff is no joke.
HG is so draining not just physically but also mentally and emotionally. When it was said “locked in a dark room most of the day” that has been all of my pregnancies.. then you lose yourself mentally because you’re alone and miserable. But it’s so heartbreaking because we love kids and want more but it’s hard to think about putting yourself and your baby through all this again. It’s comforting knowing more women experience what I did but it’s also frustrating. It’s a terrible thing to experience.. I hope one day we’ll get answers and maybe better medications to help. I remember they put me on everything and nothing helped
This makes me feel like I’m not alone . This is very hard on me , my physical, mental and spiritual well being . Seems like Praying doesn’t even work 😔 this is such a struggle. Praying I don’t lose everything as a result. I am a single mother currently expecting. I sometimes feel like I can’t do this .
I’ve been so sick I had to quit my job I hate that I can’t contribute towards this family I know I can’t control it but I just hate not having control of my own body
I'm on the brink of losing mine, and my doctor won't diagnose HG. I feel so lost because my income is the main income in my household, and everybody tells me "this is normal".
People around who dont understand this hyperem conditions think and say you're weak. They even say "u must get up, fight those feelings, be strong,blah blah blah.." they think it's normal morning sickness when they themselves never ever go through morning sickness, i mean they pregnat but no morning sickness. Lucky them.
This has been very tormenting. I felt like I was the only person going through this when pregnant with my first child. I said I would never do this again and after getting off birth control (due to harmonal issues)here I am 7yr later experiencing this again. Feels like no one knows my struggle and can be very depressing. And the fact I have a high high saliva build up which causes me to spit often doesn't help any. I feel trying to get leave from work to be the hardest thing smh so over this smh
@@rahmafiakhatib3328 yes , I’m pregnant now with severe hypermesis. I’m no doctor but I do smoke a little and it’s the only thing that helps so that I may eat .My baby is growing fine so far .
OMG!!! Are you serious I’ve suffered sooo long and have struggled mentally with guilt. I judge NO mother if you can take a pharmaceutical to keep foods down why not try something natural.
Thank you for bringing awareness to HG. I'm in tears. I still think I have PTSD from it🥺😭. I lost 60 lbs. My OB didn't really make a big deal about it.
I went to ER too for excessive vomiting, they didnt even gave me IV and sent me home with tablets and dry crackers. Im 20 weeks now and I still have HG
It took me almost 7 years to get the courage up to endure another pregnancy after all the complications with my first. Now I’m only 6 weeks in with my second and I am being reminded of why I waited so long, I hope it doesn’t get as bad and last as long this time
We are in the same boat! Took me 6 years to gather up the courage… I am now 7 weeks pregnant and I am LITERALLY in bed all day everyday. I feel so bad for my daughter who is 6 years old because I am pretty much useless! Im pretty well bedridden and cant do anything with her. Thank god my mother has been taking her a lot so she can actually do some activities 😩 Praying you feel better soon 💕
i thought i withdrawing from heroin again but hadn’t relapsed… thought i was experiencing post acute withdrawal symptoms. went to the hospital and come to find out it’s this. lemme just say this, any women experiencing this and going through with their pregnancy is stronger than god.
Props to this reporter for bringing awareness about this. I literally feel like I’m dying. Idk how people are saying that it’s their 3rd time with HG. Good lord after the first time I know I never want to be pregnant again even tho I do want to have more children I just can’t put my body though this again
I would adopt. There are so many children out there that don’t have a mother or father or a family. Adoption is the most beautiful thing. I am emetophobic and this would be my worst nightmare, but I was always scared to have kids because I was scared I would throw up. I actually think all you women are so strong that have been through this, because throwing up to you is like a walk in the park. I have extreme anxiety and panic attacks with the slightest stomach ache. I was nauseous, no doubt, but I pulled through. Zofran helped me and sometimes smoking a hit or two of weed helped with the anxiety.
I'm so sorry to hear all your stories...😢 even though my pregnancies were a walk in the park compared to yours I think it's important to advocate for this 🙏💪
My ritual when I have a HG flair up: get in the bath or shower and make sure it’s hot, but not burning hot. Rub your belly in clockwise motions while you sway side to side gently under the hot water. Switch the water from your tummy to your back. Sometimes singing helps, believe it or not…humming, a song you love or know very well. I just got over a flair up doing this!
I had this there needs to be more awareness for this I kept getting dismissed like I was pretending I couldn’t walk to appointments I was dying and even hospital didn’t think anything of it.
I feel you when I had this I kept getting treated as if I was just complaining my whole pregnancy and I’m like no I AM NOT I don’t feel good and it’s seemed like my body was fighting against me!
I’ve been dealing with severe HG for 3 and a half months now and losing hope, I feel like I’m dying. I can’t do anything besides dry heave and throw up. Can’t work, can’t clean my house, can’t sleep, often can’t even brush my teeth due to it triggering extreme vomiting. This is literal hell! If you’re currently going through this you’re not alone ❤
@@1kthegamersrichkings874 I’m so sorry you’re going through this it truly is the worst :( anti reflux meds helped me a lot and I take them both morning and night, I feel a big difference when I run out or forget to take them. Getting IV fluids every week also helps. I had sea sickness bracelets on 24/7 and would take Zofran consistently 3x per day, if I missed a day i immediately got worse. I also recommend taking a strong vitamin B supplement that includes both folic acid and B6 (should help with nausea). Lastly constant snacking! The nausea and vomiting gets so bad when you’re hungry so try to eat whatever you can. Don’t feel bad or guilty for not eating good quality food just do what you have to to get through ❤️ Remember you’re not alone and eventually it does get a little better ❤️ I’m now 32 weeks, I thought I’d never get here🙏 I still feel nauseous all the time and still throw up everyday but not like it was in the beginning. It sucks but it’s manageable now. I usually just throw up in the morning and am able to keep food down the rest of the day.
Every pregnancy for me is like this and I was never diagnosed! I was also hospitalized for dehydration so many times!! And I'm tired of people thinking I'm over reacting. I cant do anything! Its horrible the full nine months!!
I have extreme fatigue, nausea and stomach pain. Life has become a living hell. I was happy when I finally got pregnant but now each passing day has become worse. I can’t stand, cannot sit, can’t walk or sleep on the side. Only position I have been able to sleep is on my back. This is an unbearable torture from last one month. Hope I will see some relief soon. I feel for all the women out there who been through this horrible experience..
I suffered 2 HG pregnancies and the 6th month was the worst.. I vomited from week 6 of my pregnancies until giving birth -> daily. Many days about 20 times per day, it was a NIGHTMARE! I had no life at all during my two pregnancies - I wasn’t a human being, most of the day in bed, suffering, vomiting, crying.. After my first baby I hoped so much that I wouldn’t experience this again, but I had the same symptoms during my second pregnancies too. I lost much weight, I had to change my nutrition, nobody could help me, no doctor knew what I was suffering from, only my midwives tried to help me, but nothing helped. It was unbelievable. I was completely lost - the feeling is like suffering an extreme hangover ever single day of your pregnancy! Today I know that the hormone progesterone is responsible for this..
Sari Gold it’s so crazy that hardly no one is understanding that it really is extreme suffering :/ I’m sorry you had to go through....how did you feel afterwards? We’re you able to get over mental trauma? I’m going through hg right now and I have serious anxiety and my mental is diminishing
Mine was as severe as yours. I couldn't even go to the hospital regularly so I had a nurse come to my home everyday to give me iv. But that went downhills from that- I got sepsis from the iv and i had to be hospitalized immediately. I was in critical condition. Even there I was vomiting non stop. and because of covid I didn't have any visitors. It was the biggest nightmare I ever went through.
I had this. My medical providers didnt understand the extent of my sickness. I was throwing up anywhere from 2-10 times every day. Until i started zofran at 12 weeks i woke up sick about 4am and couldnt do anything much besides lay in bed and run to the toilet until afternoon/late afternoon.
This is my 3rd pregnancy and I have NEVER been so sick. I lost around 11pds in my first trimester and now im 17weeks and nothing has changed. Im not gaining weight and im sick throughout the daaaay. I have no cravings and rarely have an appetite. I can attempt to force myself to eat and yet I can’t keep it down. It’s making me so depressed I just don’t know what to do anymore.
Hey sis, weed is like magic for HG, you don’t have to smoke it, if you could make it into tea o butter to spread on bread, you will your normal self again. I promise you. It has literally saved my life.
This is what ive had for all 3 of my pregancies . im in my third right now and having HG plus that depression is the worst. I feel like im dying , im weak and have no energy or happiness in me . Like its hard to explain to people who think its just a little throw up....NO its so so real , makes you feel like your not in your body. By my 3rd im a pro and know what triggers me to throw up and time out when i need to eat and make sure i stay awY from certain colors that will make me feel sick quicker. Its crazy! I figured out after my daughter and having to go to the ER during the first and second trimester that weed helped me. Just a little bit , it took away the sickness feeling for a while and acctually made me hungry for something. I STG if it wasnt for that id seriously be dead becauss i threw up all the medicine they would give me. And the hunger pains are the worst ! Its like someone is stabbing you !! My gosh yall , but everyone around me says their pregancies are amazing and im just over here walking thru hell.
How did you even have the strength to go through with another pregnancy? I'm currently dealing with it and honestly never want to be pregnant again. I feel so useless and miserable...
@@o0laieta0o girl ! I literally got pregnant 6 weeks after I just had a baby so it was like I was just still pregnant but this third one is so bad I’m definitely done . It sucks so much but just tell yourself it’s only temporary..
I'm 6 weeks pregnant,I feel the exact same way. I share my wish to die with my husband everyday. He is more comprehensive than before. This is my 2 pregnancy and I wasn't looking toward to it bc of that feeling. I feel horrible to say that but I mean it, everyday is a struggle, even breathing take out all the few energy left. I admire women who love being pregnant and don't have to go through this hell.
Ironic, hyperemesis can also be caused by Long term cannabis use. (someone correct me if I'm wrong) Not saying that would happen for you or anything I think it takes a whole lot of abuse (years of mad abuse) to trigger hyperemesis from cannabis and even then its episodic. I can see why that would be helpful tho, glad it works.
@@LucasCarroll0 you would actually feel it first hand if it was cannabis use. Cannabis is being checked to actually see if it can be prescribed pregnant women without any harm to the fetus, so far, they haven’t found any problems with it yet, hoping it gets passed!
@@FlawedNicely it is prescribed to some women when pregnant but after the baby is born wanted to act like it was bad to have in their breast milk, also not true.
@@LucasCarroll0 never have I heard of that unless your smoking fake stuff. I suffer from a digestion disorder that makes me sick alot but most days I can only eat if I smoke. Well pregnancy made that a lot worse for me and I was told to keep smoking. But a few weeks after stopping my body started going into labor super early at 24wks. I was told to keep smoking because at the time they could not do anything to stop it unless I was further on. So smoking helps my digestion disorder and saved my pregnancy and baby.
I had this with my 2nd pregnancy and it was by far the worse I’ve ever felt in my life. I lost 30 lbs the first 3 months and after birth I ended up weighing 108 vs the 150 I weighed pre getting pregnant. I ended up with PPD and it lasted 4 years until I decided to see a therapist. Some pregnancies are really bad for your body, but some don’t understand. People would always criticizing me on my weight. Ughhh 😒😑
This is my exact story with my two pregnancies. Thank you for speaking up. My family LOVES pregnancy and they always push my husband and I to have more and it literally takes me off my feet for 9months! Everyone hassles me to drink fluids and eat but little do they know I AM! I just can’t stop throwing it up 24-7!!!! Im talking middle of night too!
I’ve lost 10 lbs in my first month. My doctor recommended b6 and unisom and said if that doesn’t help in 2 weeks to come to her for something stronger. I hope it helps because I’m miserable. I wanted to lose weight this year before I found out I was pregnant but definitely not through starvation and potential harm of the baby.
This is my second HG pregnancy. I just found out I was pregnant, and the symptoms of it, were my first signs, to take a test. Purposeless fever. Nausea. Slipping and spiking BP, around the vomiting. Hunger but also nausea. I’m not afraid. But I’m apprehensive. It’s been 8 years since I had my first child. Maybe I don’t even remember properly, how bad it was. But I remember being in the ER for fluids every week, or so. I remember 26 ultrasounds. I remember sonograms on both of our hearts. I remember my kidneys struggling to keep up, as I already have 2 types of kidney disease. I remember the only thing that helped me, was High doses of CBD, THC microdoses, and they gave me suppositories at the end. Coca-cola syrup. Sprite syrup.
I lost 30 lbs in 2 months from such severe morning sickness with my son, but my doctor didn't take it seriously. Now he has developmental delays. I couldn't eat anything or barely drink anything. It's absolutely horrible.
Question for the HG mommas: how did you decide to have another? I’m 12 weeks pregnant with my first and I’ve decided this will be my only baby. How did you decide you could handle going through it all again?
After having my kids I realized everything my body went through was worth it. ❤ That’s the only thing that helped me make the decision to have 4 kids even tho I get sick with every pregnancy. 😢
I'm fortunate that I haven't had to be hospitalized, but I'm in my first pregnancy and experience constant all day nausea. I literally took everything. Unisom+B6, sucking on candies, phenergan pills and cream, motion sickness bracelets (on both wrists), Zofran, ginger ale... nothing helps. It's awful. 15 weeks in and it's still an every day battle. Because of it this will be my only pregnancy.
This is my 3rd pregnancy and I have no babies to show, I lost the 2 before and had HG with both. I’m barely past a month currently and I can’t even drink water. I’m exhausted, have a constant headache, nausea and vomiting never stops, no medication works and I feel weak and crazy all the time. I have a bunch of other health issues that are all exacerbated due to the pregnancy. I feel like giving up but I also really want to be a mom. This is hard and seems to be getting harder but I’m happy someone is bringing awareness of HG to the public cause it is not being diagnosed and treated appropriately until the mother ends up in the ER
I lost 9 pounds already and can’t even keep water down. I can’t get out of bed even to just go to the restroom with all throwing up. I told this to my doctor and he completely blew it off. haven’t taken my prenatals in about five weeks because I can’t keep them down. i’ve already ended up in the hospital and he didn’t really seem to take it seriously. There are days so bad I feel like I’m gonna die or I find myself wanting it to happen just so I don’t feel this pain and sickness anymore.
We need more awareness about this! I had this plus my mood swings were horrible. I get/got a lot of hate but I survived by taking medical marijuana. My baby is super healthy 👍🏼 Don’t blame others for taking that risk, it’s AWFUL 😢
@Melmel210 sis I totally understand! I hate everything and everyone around me including my poor partner 🥺 ( I feel so bad for him) Mood swings? Over the roof! The sickness doesn’t seem to be getting any better either at 15 weeks im getting frustrated 😣😞😞
Im on my 6th week of pregnancy first child my HG started at 4wk 4days. I ended up in hospital 2 days ago and off work since. Im so dehydrated and i feel cold all the time because im anaemic as well. Its torturous! Im staying in bed most of the time i feel disabled whilst my partner do things around the house. 🤦🏻♀️
@@SecretplaceintheGlory chill, its genetic. my mum, aunts and grandma (mum side) had it nothing to do with wifi. Im an athlete before pregnancy and always on a healthy diet. But thanks for your input anyway 😅
@@SecretplaceintheGlory no its not “generational curse” its genetic pregnancy illness. I am christian myself and been living and eating healthy. Seriously, reading your condescending comment is so disrespectful. And FYI i don’t have 5G nor the area I live has.
8 months pregnant and still in hell.. this is the most unbearable feeling I have ever felt. I honestly do not know how I have done it with two other small children and working from home full time. All the women that go through this are truly warriors!
I had Hyperemisis in my first pregnancy. I'm now 6 weeks pregnant and dreading the sickness that will come. I'm praying it isn't as bad thus time. I feel I've learnt how to manage it slightly better.
I'm 6 weeks too as of yesterday and my sickness started at only 5 weeks (but it's not HG and i vomit maybe twice a day.) I hope you're doing well and it goes smoothly!
I dont know how woman with this condition go throughout nine months with horrible pregnancy coz it was very bad for me,wish i had the medication your talking about.
This is my second time.. I almost decided I was done with pregnancy after the first time I went through this. It’s so hard. It hurts. It’s exhausting , it’s draining. I’m starving but can’t keep my on saliva down.. I just want an enjoyable pregnancy. I want to enjoy it so much that i want to do it again.
I’m already 16 weeks and still feel so nauseous slightly fatigue now but everyday is a struggle to push myself. I’ve been to the emergency room 3x I lost a lot of weight and medication barely works I just want all this to be over with
With that existing there still are ppl who are against the freedom of choice -.- not every women wants even a small chance to go through this. And for those who are struggling with it or struggled with it! YOU GOT THIS! YOU ARE SUPERHUMANS LADIES!!!❤️🥺
I’m pregnant with my second and it’s the same with my first it’s really hard to have HG. This my last because sometimes I say to myself I can’t take it anymore it’s so hard to have severe symptoms but through prayer I’ll survive this. I just Keep fighting for my baby 🙏🏻😭.
I’m 15 weeks living on a small island. My doctor is trying his best but I’m suffering mentally and physically. Mentally I’m not even sure how I feel towards my baby.
I have this. No medication helps unfortunately. The worst part is that i still have to work. Sure, its from home, but even in my bed everything seem to move around and sometimes it gets so bad that i cant read anymore. This really sucks. I cant see my friends, i just try to work and the rest of the time lie in a dark room being miserable or try to sleep and not vomit
My first pregnancy I did not have nausea this bad. This is my second pregnancy and I’m barely at 6 weeks and I’m so tired, I have no energy. I can barely eat anything my house is a mess. My husband had to take me to the er because I was throwing up everything even water. I’m sick of this “HG” I can’t enjoy anything. My hair is a mess, I can’t do house chores, I go to work just barely but I feel like shit all day, I throw up even when I haven’t ate anything. I just want to get home and lay down and sleep and not feel anything. I just want this nausea to go away. 😞😢
I had HG when pregnant I don’t know how I got through honestly very traumatic I threw up blood at least once a week for my stomach ulcers fainted and literally went blind for minutes at a time but some how it was also therapeutic really reminded me of when my mother had cancer she has BPD as well and would guilt trip me saying I would never under the pain she went through/ didn’t care for her even though I was her main caregiver missing about a quarter of that school year
I am not convinced that it’s genetic as I was the only woman in my family with such a severe nausea ( nobody in my family had it at all). It was absolutely awful for me and never ending story. However, I am glad that I went for a second one, and I would go for third if not for Covid apocalypse. I don’t think it’s good that doctor is scare mongering sick mothers that babies can be harmed, as the pressure on them is already too high. He also mentioned it can cause the autism. My mother worked in the center for autism, and nobody knows the cause. Apart from me, I only know one woman with such a severe sickness, and her daughter (now 10) is super smart, my both kids ( products of an awful sickness), have never been sick, very strong, healthy, beautiful and smart. So, those dark prognoses are something that should be left out.
I remember. I was thirty six years old and pregnant with my first and only child,, I was so nauseated.I cried everyday,, My doctor tried all the anti nausea medication and it didn't work,, I threw up All day everyday,, I had IVs etc,, I even threw up on the delivery room table, I only gained two pounds during my pregnancy,, My son was born healthy but a little underweight,, I never did that again,, He's an only child!!!
I’m in grad school and experiencing this right now. it’s truly getting in the way of my studies and I’m so tired of being sick. I don’t know how I’m going to make it through. I feel so depleted and just want the suffering to stop.
I remember feeling this way with my first born…I am now having PTSD with my rainbow baby and I legit sat on my toilet crying asking my husband how I’ll do it again now that I have a job. I’m so scared and I don’t want to throw up all day everyday…
I feel you my first baby I didn’t have to work and I’m 2 months pregnant right now I waited 8 years because I was so scared I was going to be sick to my stomach like my first pregnancy and here I am having to work and still deal with this…it’s a struggle I can’t wait for them to find a solution for the future
Im at my 2 month of pregnancy now this is my 4th child and i just lay in bed all day, i.cant eat any food, the smell of food cooking i cant stand it makes me nausea and vomiting. No one will understand. Its hard being pregnant
My first pregnancy I threw up about 3-4 times a day. I couldn't even leave my room. Now I am pregnant again and I can feel the nausea coming on. I hate the feeling especially I am only 6 months into my nursing job that I actually enjoyed, but hoping the symptoms don't get as bad the the 1st pregnancy. It's one of those things you don't wish on anyone.
@@jhelummhatre4823 Hi, I'm just now seeing this. But, I had two boys. I am now pregnant again with my 3rd boy and had to get treatment in the hospital with IV fluids. My mom had it severely with my little sister though years ago. They say having a girl can make it worst, but in my situation I've had all boys.
My second pregnancy was a disaster. I was literally on the verge of insanity. Nothing worked I believe it is only God that brought me through 34 weeks and had a successful delivery. Being hospitalized and depressed throughout. I know I was on the line of death. Pray that another woman will never have to endure HG.
I had this for all 4 of my pregnancies. I was surprised at how many people Had zero compassion. They could not even imagine how difficult it was. Feeing like this every day, all day, for almost the whole pregnancy is an unbelievably difficult way to live.
It's so true. I'm 9 weeks this week and I'm so nauseus all day long. I cant move or talk or eat properly. I feel sooo sick. I end up doing sick at times and it literally drains me out. It's awful. I either stay on the sofa when I can make my way down after much difficulty pr then go back to bed. All whilst moaning whilst I move to distract the sickness feeling. It's awful.
On my 3rd pregnancy (lost my 1st one, possibly due to the hyperemesis) the 2nd one, my son, was rough too. Praying this pregnancy doesn't result in HG or miscarriage 😫
Struggling with hg for my second pregnancy at 11 weeks. This one is moderate compared to the first maybe because i was particular about medication and IV this time. I am being forced to take prenatal vitamins but the smell makes me sick and i don't know what else to do. I don't want to keep feeling like a bad mother. Who else is struggling with this. No one seems to understand
Cyclizine and ondansetron with a round of steroid therapy and iv fluids got me through but I was sick and on meds right up to delivering my daughter. It's pretty traumatic
My sister had this debilitating condition during her first pregnancy almost throughout all 9 months, her 2nd pregnancy was easy peasy, but now she is pregnant for a 3rd time and suffering even more. She has lost 17 pounds and she's only about 11 or 12 weeks in and taking zofran but it doesn't work. I also had HG and it was horrible, 24/7 nausea and vomiting everyday. Unaware coworkers thought I was suferring from an eating condition and told me I looked very sick. I always ended up going home early. Couldn't sleep, think properly, drive, eat, drink, shower- just function. Eventually, I didn't have my baby.
It is horrible!!! I’m taking unisom and b6 and that still doesn’t fully take it away. People don’t understand how bad and depressing this is I lost 15lbs so far, I can’t even keep down water
I'm 12w2d pregnant. I feel like death, nauseous, vomiting, can't walk or stand and I used to work 18-20 hours/day prior to Pregnant helping my rescue animals at home
I just found out 2 weeks ago and wow it’s taken a toll on me. I look dead now, literally. Everything, everything smells. Whatever I can eat I end up throwing up. I’ve had 2 pregnancies and maybe felt sick 1 or 2 times and that was it but now… I don’t know if I’m gonna make it. Im so tired all the time 😭
Pregnant with my second now , with first it was so damn bad I even had to have a home iv bag, now im about 6 weeks and it's the same cycle I feel that hungover sickness constantly. It is the worse man , im struggling to the max rn.
Week 10 now. I lost 6kg so far. vomitting blood..cant eat, cant drink. 2x warded. Heartburn, the nausea wont go away.. 4 pregnancies with hyperem.i want abortion but cant afford. So i have to carry on.. First pregnancy i lost 18kg..
My second son had me going through this and I'm on my third and scared to death. Sick. I also ended up so mentally ill from this I believe I suffered phsycosis after. I believe it took part in my divorce too. And now I'm having a baby with a good man who's working hard, making so many changes. and I'm so scared. I can't stand meat. I can't be near my kitchen. I also get gaggy at the thought of being pregnant. I can't stand to get up. I really hope it's just the first trimester. The medicine they have helped me. But it was HUNDREDS to refill the prescription. It felt so good to eat for one week out of my whole pregnancy. I beat myself up every day bc I'm terrified I'll hope for miscarriage like I did with my second. I look at my beautiful son every day and I forgive myself as best I can but I hate what happened to me and the way I thought.
Hey..am so sorry for what you going through..I think I am at it too..my first pregnancy, almost hitting two months,I am sick whole day, can't stand the kitchen, can't stand the site nor the thought of food, can't drink or keep anything in my stomach,I feel miserable and desperate,my mouth is pouring with saliva..I need God more than anything..may God bless you and all other women out there..I literally cry due to vomiting the whole day and my throat is so painful
@@luizaechesa1708 I was just in the hospital getting IV treatment for hydration bc I couldn't do it. I'm gonna be real with you. The only thing that has helped me has been pot. The medicine is so expensive. Stick with medical so you aren't ever taking a risk. Cbd only helps so much for muscle tension. But the nausea is hushed with thc and for the first time was able to eat. I will probably be judged for this. And it is something that society taught us to discredit. My second child came fine. He is if anything more advanced than my first when he was 2 and 3. Better hand and eye coordination, better vocabulary, intellectual in spite of his small speech problem. We've been working on speech every day but he is otherwise healthy as a horse. He eats clean and was the most pleasant baby. I did not want to resort to it in my second pregnancy and I'm still perplexed about this one also. But I don't know how else I can help myself eat, and save my family the trauma. I am praying for you and any mother's enduring this. Much love to you. My heart aches that this is what can happen when we want to become vessels of life creation. It hurts. It's almost a slap. As if it isn't hard enough. I pray you do not need a pik line or any thing such as that. I don't pressure you to use what I do to combat the issues that come with this illness. But I say this to maybe save a life, or two.
@@liberatedhippything I think you are a very sincere person who is full of love and care even for those you barely know..Thank you for reaching out with such encouraging words full of warmth, encouragement, assurance and honesty..you are a great mom and a good person in general.Myself I am in a foreign country right now,far away from family and friends but with a very good loving and supportive husband,truly I thank God for him and people like you whom I can connect with even though don't know each other,but being that we are both women embracing the journey of carrying a life, something so beautiful..I am truly grateful..Once again I am so sorry for what you are going through,I am sorry for myself too and the amazing ladies out there but I know that truly we shall overcome and emerge victorious..many many blessings
@@luizaechesa1708 and may your baby be beautiful and healthy mama. I think that it is beautiful that you have such a wonderful husband. I am praying for you and everyone as well. You made my day very bright mrs. And I am grateful for those like you. I hope a miracle from god happens and takes away the sickness for you. You deserve peace!. Fingers crossed, I think I will come back here and check in. Xxx
@@liberatedhippything thank you so much and I proclaim victory in your words..sure I will give you an update with a testimony and I know we shall all be rejoicing.May God of heavens bless you so much and keep you,your unborn baby,your babies and whole family safe..I spread love and prayers upon your family.. tomorrow morning been scheduled for the hospital but I will be back with good news.. blessings
I went through this with my son...it was horrible. I will never have another child because I have no idea how I could take care of my son being as sick as I was. I couldn't function properly, all I did was vomit all day long from a few weeks in until the end. 😩
I feel miserable I feel like I’m dying. My tummy hurts so bad. This is the last baby I ever want to have I wanted a girl so bad but at this point boy or girl as long as it’s healthy it is my last. This is horrible I cry everyday and pray.
Is it letting up at all?
I know this is gonna sound terrible but smoking a little bit of weed can help tremendously, my wife’s 3 months already and that’s literally the only way I can get her to eat if she doesn’t smoke she’ll throw up every 5-30 minutes
😭😭😭😭 I am very sorry, I am going through the same situation I completely understand you, we are strong and god is with us I'm sending you a big momma hug 🥰
Same and consider abortion everyday !
Me too
I had this and the Drs thought I was just going crazy, I lost 50 lbs and couldn’t keep anything down this is something that needs more AWARENESS
@Lashawnda Stephens so true sis so true!
@Lashawnda Stephens I’m not pregnant though this was when I was though. But thank you do much
@Aisha Noor I’m sorry but what does hyperemesis have to do with being black? Hyperemesis doesn’t care if your black white or brown just like cancer or diabetes. Shit like that tears us together as people and it’s disappointing, I live in a dirt poor area and when I look at my friends I don’t see black brown or white I see good honest people just trying to make it. Anyways it’s all women not just black, me and my wife (we are of Hispanic descent) miscarried because they thought she was “overreacting” and wouldn’t give her the proper care and attention she needed.. now she’s 3 months pregnant again and we’ve already gone to the hospital twice for IV Drip, even after explaining it to them they think we’re hysterical or something or that it’s not a big deal.
@@handbanana2459 That’s the point they are making. Women of color do not get the proper health care they need in the US.
@@JustAyedan if we’re gonna be completely honest it’s not about “women of color” it’s not a race issue it’s a class issue. You can be the darkest person in the world but if your considered upper class and have money of course your going to get the best medical care but if your broke no one cares
This is my very first successful pregnancy and I’m going thru HELL. I wake up and vomit, Drink water vomit, eat cracker vomit, I smell ANY food vomit. I’m so exhausted I can’t even explain. To those women who are going thru this I’m so so sorry. I 100% understand what you’re doing thru and I pray that it stops for you 😢.
Hey, hope you are feeling better. I went through the same thing last year. I discovered that magnesium helps a lot. I even ended up gaining some weight in my third trimester. I was still throwing up everyday but like 3times or less unlike the first and second where it was over 30 times. Take some magnesium. I was on bed rest the first 6months cause of HG. I hope this helps.
@@malamachongo8472 thank you very much! I genuinely appreciate it🥰!
How are you doing now?
Same here right now...my 7th time now...its always so worth it at the end tho but i almost die for first 4 to 5 months its ruined my body and teeth😢 but my babies r healthy!
I'm also going thru 😭
I lost my son at 3 days old because of HG 20 years ago. The Dr's/midwife wouldn't listen to me. I lost so much weight. Eventually, I passed out trying to get up off the sofa, which put me into early labour at 25 weeks. He wasn't even meant to take a breath, but he did he survived 3 days. I'm so glad this now has a name. Speak up ladies ❤
I am so sorry for your loss 😢 i will keep you in my prayers
I'm so sorry ❤
I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss 😢😢💔💔
Yes and some doctors are so dismissive and lack compassion. Is not normal to throw up all day and not eat properly for weeks.
Yess ! When I first brought it up to my dr she dismissed me and said it’s Normal😕 until I ended up in the hospital needing 4 ivs !
My first pregnancy and honestly has me contemplating it may be my last. The affect it’s had on my mental health, not being able to work and being put on disability, multiple hospitalizations... I’m almost in my 7th month and my entire pregnancy people have been telling me, “it’ll go away soon”, Dr’s not truly grasping the gravity of the condition, some nurses not even knowing what you’re talking about when you say “I have hyperemesis Gravidarum”... fun times
I had this too…its all lies it doesn’t go away…its lessens, but never does it go away until the baby is out
I had this from week 6 to 14 it was terrible. I felt like I was going to die.
@@anavictoriapb well that was a blessing ! I had it until 21 weeks and then never got over the nausea until he was basically born!!
I'm considering my future pregnancies, too. I want 4-5 kids, but there's no way I can go through this again, it's complete torture 😭 Sending you tons of love!
i learned about it in Nursing school 35 yrs ago at San Jose State University in San Jose, Calif. i find it odd a OB/GYN doctor or nurse is not more aware/informed about HG
Literally 2 months pregnant and I am SICK as a dog and have been for the whole 2 months. I really hope this passes after the first trimester because I can’t even work and I feel so bad for my husband having to do EVERYTHING and support us through everything because I can not even get out of bed. The heartburn and the nausea is INTENSE. I drink water…I throw up…
Just reading your comment, I feel I’m dying from morning sickness.
Please let me how are you doing right now?
How are you now ?
I hope it’s better now. My first pregnancy, I was super sick for 24 weeks, second for 18 weeks. My advice is to avoid the iron. It is too heavy for stomach. Also, if you have some gossipy friend, it’s time to invite her over. For some reason, they have the ability to drag you into their drama, that you forget about your sickness. I know it sounds strange, but for me, it worked 😂
I have HG I'm only 9 weeks and brushing me teeth makes me throw up. ALL SMELLS make me throw up. I CAN SMELL EVERYTHING FROM A REALLY FAR DISTANCE.. Anyone cooking makes me throw up. Tv, noises make me throw up. I cant even be on my phone for more than 5 minutes. My ENTIRE body hurts EVERYDAY. I have excessive saliva i can fill up like 20 cups of saliva a day because if i try to swallow the saliva it makes me throw up EVEN MORE. I FEEL SO MUCH FATIGUE been in bed for a whole month. I feel like I'm dying slowly. If I dream about food I wake up and throw up. I can't DO ANYTHING. I CANT EVEN GET UP TO GIVE MY DOGS WATER N FOOD. NOTHING HELPS. Pills 💊 the ER gave me help for a few hours n then BAM DYING AGAIN. NO ONE UNDERSTANDS. WATCHING THESE VIDEOS ARE THE ONLY WAY I DONT FEEL ALONE. THANK YOU HG MOMS WHO BRING AWARENESS. it's True the Doctors DONT EVEN LISTEN. They don't give u the EMERGENCY HELP you really need. They force u to wait and wait for permission and appointments and blah blah when you're actually dying. It's sad that HG has little attention because it's Rare. I wish I could punch everyone in the clinic who tell me to wait for this and that. The worse is when your personal DR. Tells you "well if you continue to throw up, just go to the Emergency room" brush u off like you are crazy. Wish the system was different in California. HG is as serious as Cancer yet no one really treats it that way. ALL HG MOMS ARE REAL HEROES STAY STRONG MOMMAS . I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH AND YOURE NOT ALONE. STAY 💪 STRONG. XOXO MUCH LOVE. HOPE YA'LL SLEEP WELL TONIGHT. ONE DAY AT A TIME. 🙏
My heart aches to hear this and I hope to God it was just the first trimester for ya love. Are you good?
No one understands how horrible I feel and that I really cannot do anything! It’s all I can do to drag myself to work and I’m SUFFERING. This is not just “oh look it’s so cute morning sickness” NO! I’m so sick all day and all night and I’m exhausted 😩 no one will ever know the amount of times I’ve vomited and cried into my toilet whispering “I can’t do this”
Update pls🥺
@@rahmafiakhatib3328 oh my! Zalma and I are both doing great now. Labor and delivery was a breeze! She was 6 lbs 9 oz and 19 in long. I did have an epidural. …Forgot to mention: they had to give me anti anxiety medication through my IV because I was freaking out about the ring of fire so much. Had me loopy til delivery and she practically slipped out. 🥰
I feel this to my core 😩I’m so sad I am so exhausted I don’t want to puke anymore
Pls help, next week I'm 5 months and still vommiting every day for the whole day. The only thing I got from my doctor is well you felt nice when you were making the baby, it will pass. It is not going away I feel misserable 😕
@@nekotreci9777 you need a new doctor asap!!!! Hell to the naaaaa
I had this with both of my babies. So so So hard .... people say she is pregnant just like as other normal pregnant woman. I had ended in ER twice in both of my pregnancy. No good thing... I felt that time I was waiting for my death in any minute. God give strengths to those ladies and happy to hear this thing are more in talk now.
I'm 23 weeks and still having to take 8mg of zofran a day to be able to eat/drink anything... And honestly I'm so scared to ever get pregnant again and it being even worse. How did you even decide to get pregnant again?
😔 Iam 8 weeks now and I feel like I die every second, I dnt feel my body anymore I dnt recognize myself. Iam really tired and feeling alone. I am pregnant after three miscarriages I suppose to be happy now but sometimes I want to die :( . I pray to God everyday I wish it does-not continue the whole pregnancy .
@@skalasedeeq2266 hang in there love, it does get better! Just take it one day at a time and remember that it is for a good cause. Also make sure to ask your doctor for medication if you still don't take any!
@@o0laieta0o Thank you for your reply, your words were such relieve. I take Lergigan and emeprazole I hope the struggle ends soon.
I was told I was looking for attention and that every woman go through this.
My OB brushed it off as me being a first time mom and not "knowing what morning sickness was". I lost 10 percent of my body weight by 20 weeks and was hospitalized over 10 times before they medicated me . I am 6 weeks post partum AND STILL throwing up. Everyone expects you to he happy, grateful and over the moon. The reality for me was much darker. I didn't want to live anymore I was that sick. Now I am recovering and love my baby but I will never forget that suffering. 💔
What did you do to help wit the pain? My girl is going through something like this , and I feel helpless. Went to the doctors yesterday and they told us the same morning sickness thing, but I know it’s something bigger than that.
@@riplilsnupe3158 I tried everything. Sea bands, ginger, all of it. But ultimately I had to be pushy with the doctors. I told them I needed relief and that none if it was working. I actually kept count of each time I threw up in a day and every time I couldn't keep anything down I went to the ER for fluids. Sometimes you have to take charge and let the doctor know. If they won't listen, find a new doctor. My husband did a lot of the housework. I can tell you she isn't faking it. I was. Bedridden my entire pregnancy. Be supportive and know pregnacy can be rough .
@@riplilsnupe3158 it's really terrible to be that sick for so long but when I see my little boy it makes it better. He's my whole world. I hope it ends sooner than later for you and you get relief.
Mine kicked in at 12 weeks full force. I couldn't eat or drink anything for 4 days. Thankfully my doctor gave me Zofran just with me calling her and it's been working relatively well, I can't imagine the pain of being dismissed on top of the vomiting... I was hoping it would stop soon but 23 weeks and still can't eat nor drink without the damn pill. I really hope you're feeling better now and enjoying your little baby ❤️
It's so bad that I've thought about terminating my pregnancy. I cant go through with it and its illegal now anyway. All I do is vomit. Ik i have to eat for my baby so it can grow but god damn I cant keep food down. I'm always hungry cuz I cant keep food in my tummy. I heard this stuff can be life threatening for the mom
It’s real and it sucks, I’ve had this problem for 3 of my pregnancy’s. It’s no joke, I cannot eat or drink anything without throwing up minutes after consuming. I sleep all day and only eat once a day until the next day. I was given medication for the nausea, it did not help at all. Worst feeling ever.
How many months u suffered
Classy how did you even have the strength to go through with another pregnancy? I'm currently dealing with it and honestly never want to be pregnant again. I feel so useless and miserable...
Dang 3 or your pregnancies? can't be too bad or you'd get snipped
Is it true it gets worse with each one?
@@Opal5674 someone else in the comments said she had it with 6 pregnancies. Some fuckin how lol. Maybe people just have really strong willpower idk, I'm not doing this shit again after this run with HG. Fuck that.
It’s unbelievable how another woman can talk negatively about another woman struggling with hyperemesis. But its the first one when she’s on their period, is laying on bed dying all dramatic. I managed to work all through out my pregnancies dealing with hyperemesis and it was very rough. So before you talk about another woman struggling with it, get yourself checked out. A huge hug to those beautiful ladies struggling with hyperemesis!
My wife is 15 weeks & she is currently going through this, she rarely has good days, but it’s a living hell for her for the most part. I feel terrible because there’s nothing I can do to make her feel better. & worst of all is that we don’t have any health insurance. We’ve applied for financial aid praying that we get approved. I’m praying to God that my wife’s pregnancy gets a lot easier.
That's yall fault
Praying for you all! I hope you receive insurance soon! God Bless you!
I’m praying for the both of you ❤
@@twilight6779 how is it their fault? It can be difficult to get approved for health insurance anywhere even in the US. I don’t think you should have kids at all.
Currently have this and I’m 13 weeks pregnant. This has made me never want to have any more children and this is my first pregnancy. I lay down all day, barely enough energy to shower and go to the bathroom. I never want to eat, because when I do, it comes back up. My throat hurts so bad from all the vomiting. I’m in and out of the ER getting fluids on an almost weekly basis now. Can’t work, can’t clean, can’t live any life outside of being pregnant.
I’m 8 weeks, and I feel the exact same way like you. I’m honestly considering abortion. I have 3 kids to take care of with no help, it’s so horrible.
hey, May I ask how you got IV? I went to ER, they gave me nausea meds without any IV
Currently going through same, and i spit excessively all day, i will be on my bed till i give birth, because i dont even have the strength
I’ve had throughout both my pregnancies with girls. Can’t even drink water it’s so depressing. This is literally a life or death situation!
I literally can’t wake up with this pregnancy because I’m so dehydrated. And I am a water lover😭. So now I drink water only late at night and super cold, with lots of ice to hide the flavor
I’m having my first girl 🥺
The same thing I have now I can't keep water or food down I have lost weight drastically
@@Myrasroom congratulations!
@@sadsong3547 I did too 30lbs first pregnancy, 10lbs second. I'm currently 3 months pregnant and feel like it's happening all over again.
For anyone reading this, getting my wife IV fluids with vitamins and zofran every 10-14 days. With freshly squeezed orange juice every morning helped ease her symptoms. The IV treatments were done by local IV services that come to home. It is key to keep them at 10-14 days and of course consult with your doctor before doing. Hope it helps!
God willing I have a 2nd baby, I will likely have HG again, and I plan on advocating like hell for myself to get fluids as much as I can.
@@mysticalrosegl start the IVs early. This keeps the body from getting weak. As soon as you feel the symptoms starting.
@mysticalrosegl just a heads up. 10-14 days may be too long for some people. I have to go in for fluids every 2-3 days or everything just spirals out of control. Ask your doctor for signs and symptoms to help you know when it's time for iv fluids.😊
@@melaniesnyder9165 Of course like I said 10-14 days is what worked for my wife, because it was a medicated IV. Regular IVs or medicated IVs will be different for everyone. Just shared what worked for us. Good luck to all of you ladies!
Respect to all mother's and woman like us
It feels like I’m hungover all day 😭
tell me about it and literally nothing makes me feel 100% normal 😭 even medication has it’s side effects
@@annayaivette3008 I’ll pray for us because this is hell. 😩
I tell pple that
Cannabis
It’s literally like being poisoned by our pregnancy 😭😭😭
Only women who went through HG will understand how bad it is. My stomach hurts,water is tasteless,any food smell,you vomit.its awful.
I have this condition, wasn’t diagnosed until I went to the ER. Because I couldn’t keep anything down, was extremely lightheaded and depressed. Vomiting 12 or more times a day. Doctors wouldn’t listen to me, most don’t take me seriously, I’ve been losing weight. I think im slowly gaining the weight back. Im about to be 12 weeks so I still have a while to go. My OB doesn’t even listen, nobody does really. I take nausea medicine daily, it barely does anything. I can’t even do the multivitamin IV treatments anymore because when I went in for my first treatment it almost killed me from anaphylaxis, I even felt contractions starting I was so scared my baby wouldn’t survive that because I knew I was about to pass out and I couldn’t barely breath at all. Thankfully I was very lucky to have the nurses close and get immediate help and attention and eventually the stomach cramping stopped. They even called my OB and I’m angry my OB hasn’t tried to see me yet since the incident, because it can be dangerous for the baby because it deprives oxygen. I don’t work I literally can’t, I don’t even leave the house but very very rarely. I usually order food or groceries when i get low because it’s so hard for me to go out. I’m at a low point, I’m so depressed, stressed, this sickness has taken a toll on me mentally, and physically. Sometimes I just want to give up, but I try to think about the end goal and it helps me motivate myself. Barely pushing by day by day. And I also don’t have an income, even when I tried to get a job I was rejected because I was pregnant. I’m new to the state of California, trying to figure out how I can make a little bit of money. I’m just scared at how this whole thing is going to play out, trying to stay focused on the positives.
Mother of 6. Eye had HG for ALL of my pregnancies. Lost at least 30lbs., 24 hour nauseas & vomiting, zofran didn’t do much of anything, getting to the bathroom was a damn chore. One of my pregnancies, Eye threw up until Eye turned 8 months. Smh, stay strong mother’s-to-be, there IS a light at the end of the tunnel. 💚💚💚
Oh my god I couldn’t imagine going thru this more than once. You are so strong.
How many boys and girls do you have?
Eye? You mean I?
I had rough morning sickness with my first but this time around I have HG and I honestly am pretty sure I'm getting a contraceptive implant after this. I'm hoping I have twins or something because I don't want to do this again. How the heck did you stick it out for 6?! 😭
My wife was in hospital for 10weeks with Hyperemesis. Its not morning sickness. Ginger and lemon wont work, its not morning sickness. Majority of individuals believe its just a bad case of morning sickness, that would be very neive. It is a completely debilitating illness, at its worst, as in my wife's case, it leaves you quite literally in a vegetative state
Thank youuuu my dear, that you as malé stated this... we need man like that... and have to admitt even some clueless ladies primitívely judging us " lucky ones" as overreacting and trying to throw on us other nonsensal "advices" and general recomendations..😮💨
There's nothing like a mother's love.
I’m 12 weeks and going threw it I’m soooo mad at the world I don’t want kids I regret everything I’m just at the point that life sucks and crying isn’t helping me 😔 everyone tells me your strong you got this ! But I don’t no one knows how this hurts your soul and messes with your brain they really need to start working on a medication for women with HG pregnancy should be beautiful , it’s horrible right now .
How are you doing now???
pregnant with my second child, I had it with my first. & now with my second. watching this at work as I barley hang out 😔😔 it's so difficult, sometimes I think I wont make it.
Please hang on. This too shall pass. Don't gie up.
@@seyibale yeah but to be dismissed like that is bs. And then if she is this sick how will she takecare of a newborn. Where is her time for recovery. Nowhere.
That's your fault you and everyone else knows how difficult and painful pregnancy is and yall know the consequences but guess what yall just keep on going so I feel no sympathy
@@twilight6779Its a gift and blessing to create life. Thats so messed up to say. Some pregnancies were unexpected even with condoms and birth control. Even if they were planned who tf are you what if ur mom aborted you? She stuck it out to have your ignorant rude ass
Literally lost almost 40 pounds from it. My husband dragged me to the ER after a long time of refusing to go. The doctor told me that I was in SEVERE starvation mode, my body had NOTHING. and I believed him because I was passing out all the time, so I wouldn’t even leave the house.
This is my first baby and will be my only biological baby. I’ve always wanted to be pregnant and now that I am I feel like I’m being punished for wanting such.
Me too..my first is my last..am so drained
i had it, i was 16 and pregnant and threw up all day every day 6w-30w. i lost 20lbs in the start, i had to get shots in my butt just to keep the nausea meds down, and when i couldn’t keep water down i had to get fluids. it left me with bulimia, it’s been 4 years and i just now recovered from it and the effects it had on my mental health. this stuff is no joke.
i’m 16 and preg right now and i’m extremely sick rn and have been throwing up for 3 days straight and idk what to do
Did you find something that help I think my fiancé experiencing this 😢
HG is so draining not just physically but also mentally and emotionally. When it was said “locked in a dark room most of the day” that has been all of my pregnancies.. then you lose yourself mentally because you’re alone and miserable. But it’s so heartbreaking because we love kids and want more but it’s hard to think about putting yourself and your baby through all this again. It’s comforting knowing more women experience what I did but it’s also frustrating. It’s a terrible thing to experience.. I hope one day we’ll get answers and maybe better medications to help. I remember they put me on everything and nothing helped
HG is making me contemplate actually going through with my pregnancy right now 😔 it’s breaking me mentally
No words for Hyperemesis. I'm dying 😭
Me too girl me too
Prayers up, people don’t understand
Hang in there love, it's hard but it's going to be worth it at the end 🙏
This makes me feel like I’m not alone . This is very hard on me , my physical, mental and spiritual well being . Seems like Praying doesn’t even work 😔 this is such a struggle. Praying I don’t lose everything as a result. I am a single mother currently expecting. I sometimes feel like I can’t do this .
I’ve been so sick I had to quit my job I hate that I can’t contribute towards this family I know I can’t control it but I just hate not having control of my own body
I'm on the brink of losing mine, and my doctor won't diagnose HG. I feel so lost because my income is the main income in my household, and everybody tells me "this is normal".
Your fault
People around who dont understand this hyperem conditions think and say you're weak. They even say "u must get up, fight those feelings, be strong,blah blah blah.." they think it's normal morning sickness when they themselves never ever go through morning sickness, i mean they pregnat but no morning sickness. Lucky them.
This has been very tormenting. I felt like I was the only person going through this when pregnant with my first child. I said I would never do this again and after getting off birth control (due to harmonal issues)here I am 7yr later experiencing this again. Feels like no one knows my struggle and can be very depressing. And the fact I have a high high saliva build up which causes me to spit often doesn't help any. I feel trying to get leave from work to be the hardest thing smh so over this smh
Did you find something that help I think my fiancé experiencing this 😢
I wish the medical community would be more open and honest about what the CURE for this is.
What is it??
CANNABIS !
@@kaylalajay really? I'll stop vomiting if i smoke what about birth defects
@@rahmafiakhatib3328 yes , I’m pregnant now with severe hypermesis. I’m no doctor but I do smoke a little and it’s the only thing that helps so that I may eat .My baby is growing fine so far .
OMG!!! Are you serious I’ve suffered sooo long and have struggled mentally with guilt. I judge NO mother if you can take a pharmaceutical to keep foods down why not try something natural.
Thank you for bringing awareness to HG. I'm in tears. I still think I have PTSD from it🥺😭. I lost 60 lbs. My OB didn't really make a big deal about it.
Doctors dont care. They didnt even let me finish an iv at the er at uc greeley.
I went to ER too for excessive vomiting, they didnt even gave me IV and sent me home with tablets and dry crackers. Im 20 weeks now and I still have HG
They steady put pressure on us to gain weight. When we literally can’t keep anything down
I was scared from losing 20. How did you and your baby survive?
It took me almost 7 years to get the courage up to endure another pregnancy after all the complications with my first. Now I’m only 6 weeks in with my second and I am being reminded of why I waited so long, I hope it doesn’t get as bad and last as long this time
We are in the same boat! Took me 6 years to gather up the courage… I am now 7 weeks pregnant and I am LITERALLY in bed all day everyday. I feel so bad for my daughter who is 6 years old because I am pretty much useless! Im pretty well bedridden and cant do anything with her. Thank god my mother has been taking her a lot so she can actually do some activities 😩
Praying you feel better soon 💕
@@youngxmama2804 same here girl! Feel so guilty for my daughter missing out too. I hope we both get better asap 🙏💕
i thought i withdrawing from heroin again but hadn’t relapsed… thought i was experiencing post acute withdrawal symptoms. went to the hospital and come to find out it’s this. lemme just say this, any women experiencing this and going through with their pregnancy is stronger than god.
Props to this reporter for bringing awareness about this. I literally feel like I’m dying. Idk how people are saying that it’s their 3rd time with HG. Good lord after the first time I know I never want to be pregnant again even tho I do want to have more children I just can’t put my body though this again
Girlll I’m like 3rd 4th 6th ???? how tf did they even made it through 1st lol us woman are some soldiers frl to think a Man put us through this smh
I would adopt. There are so many children out there that don’t have a mother or father or a family. Adoption is the most beautiful thing. I am emetophobic and this would be my worst nightmare, but I was always scared to have kids because I was scared I would throw up. I actually think all you women are so strong that have been through this, because throwing up to you is like a walk in the park. I have extreme anxiety and panic attacks with the slightest stomach ache. I was nauseous, no doubt, but I pulled through. Zofran helped me and sometimes smoking a hit or two of weed helped with the anxiety.
Going through this right now. Feling Alone and obliged to work to support my family. Will not be having another child after this
I'm so sorry to hear all your stories...😢 even though my pregnancies were a walk in the park compared to yours I think it's important to advocate for this 🙏💪
It is the most depressive lonely condition. Not a single thing helps. Doctors are clueless.
My ritual when I have a HG flair up: get in the bath or shower and make sure it’s hot, but not burning hot. Rub your belly in clockwise motions while you sway side to side gently under the hot water. Switch the water from your tummy to your back. Sometimes singing helps, believe it or not…humming, a song you love or know very well. I just got over a flair up doing this!
I had this there needs to be more awareness for this I kept getting dismissed like I was pretending I couldn’t walk to appointments I was dying and even hospital didn’t think anything of it.
I feel you when I had this I kept getting treated as if I was just complaining my whole pregnancy and I’m like no I AM NOT I don’t feel good and it’s seemed like my body was fighting against me!
I’ve been dealing with severe HG for 3 and a half months now and losing hope, I feel like I’m dying. I can’t do anything besides dry heave and throw up. Can’t work, can’t clean my house, can’t sleep, often can’t even brush my teeth due to it triggering extreme vomiting. This is literal hell!
If you’re currently going through this you’re not alone ❤
Same situation 😭
Did you find something that help I think my fiancé experiencing this 😢
@@1kthegamersrichkings874 I’m so sorry you’re going through this it truly is the worst :( anti reflux meds helped me a lot and I take them both morning and night, I feel a big difference when I run out or forget to take them. Getting IV fluids every week also helps. I had sea sickness bracelets on 24/7 and would take Zofran consistently 3x per day, if I missed a day i immediately got worse. I also recommend taking a strong vitamin B supplement that includes both folic acid and B6 (should help with nausea). Lastly constant snacking! The nausea and vomiting gets so bad when you’re hungry so try to eat whatever you can. Don’t feel bad or guilty for not eating good quality food just do what you have to to get through ❤️ Remember you’re not alone and eventually it does get a little better ❤️ I’m now 32 weeks, I thought I’d never get here🙏 I still feel nauseous all the time and still throw up everyday but not like it was in the beginning. It sucks but it’s manageable now. I usually just throw up in the morning and am able to keep food down the rest of the day.
@@nandiniiiii928 I’m so sorry 😭 no one deserves this 💔💔
Every pregnancy for me is like this and I was never diagnosed! I was also hospitalized for dehydration so many times!! And I'm tired of people thinking I'm over reacting. I cant do anything! Its horrible the full nine months!!
I have extreme fatigue, nausea and stomach pain. Life has become a living hell. I was happy when I finally got pregnant but now each passing day has become worse. I can’t stand, cannot sit, can’t walk or sleep on the side. Only position I have been able to sleep is on my back. This is an unbearable torture from last one month. Hope I will see some relief soon. I feel for all the women out there who been through this horrible experience..
I suffered 2 HG pregnancies and the 6th month was the worst.. I vomited from week 6 of my pregnancies until giving birth -> daily. Many days about 20 times per day, it was a NIGHTMARE! I had no life at all during my two pregnancies - I wasn’t a human being, most of the day in bed, suffering, vomiting, crying..
After my first baby I hoped so much that I wouldn’t experience this again, but I had the same symptoms during my second pregnancies too. I lost much weight, I had to change my nutrition, nobody could help me, no doctor knew what I was suffering from, only my midwives tried to help me, but nothing helped. It was unbelievable. I was completely lost - the feeling is like suffering an extreme hangover ever single day of your pregnancy!
Today I know that the hormone progesterone is responsible for this..
Sari Gold it’s so crazy that hardly no one is understanding that it really is extreme suffering :/ I’m sorry you had to go through....how did you feel afterwards? We’re you able to get over mental trauma? I’m going through hg right now and I have serious anxiety and my mental is diminishing
Mine was as severe as yours. I couldn't even go to the hospital regularly so I had a nurse come to my home everyday to give me iv. But that went downhills from that- I got sepsis from the iv and i had to be hospitalized immediately. I was in critical condition. Even there I was vomiting non stop. and because of covid I didn't have any visitors. It was the biggest nightmare I ever went through.
So sorry ladies!!😣
How many boys and girls do you have?
😭😭😭😭Oh God help me.
I had this. My medical providers didnt understand the extent of my sickness. I was throwing up anywhere from 2-10 times every day. Until i started zofran at 12 weeks i woke up sick about 4am and couldnt do anything much besides lay in bed and run to the toilet until afternoon/late afternoon.
This is my 3rd pregnancy and I have NEVER been so sick. I lost around 11pds in my first trimester and now im 17weeks and nothing has changed. Im not gaining weight and im sick throughout the daaaay. I have no cravings and rarely have an appetite. I can attempt to force myself to eat and yet I can’t keep it down. It’s making me so depressed I just don’t know what to do anymore.
You might be getting anemia
Hey sis, weed is like magic for HG, you don’t have to smoke it, if you could make it into tea o butter to spread on bread, you will your normal self again. I promise you. It has literally saved my life.
This is what ive had for all 3 of my pregancies . im in my third right now and having HG plus that depression is the worst. I feel like im dying , im weak and have no energy or happiness in me . Like its hard to explain to people who think its just a little throw up....NO its so so real , makes you feel like your not in your body. By my 3rd im a pro and know what triggers me to throw up and time out when i need to eat and make sure i stay awY from certain colors that will make me feel sick quicker. Its crazy! I figured out after my daughter and having to go to the ER during the first and second trimester that weed helped me. Just a little bit , it took away the sickness feeling for a while and acctually made me hungry for something. I STG if it wasnt for that id seriously be dead becauss i threw up all the medicine they would give me. And the hunger pains are the worst ! Its like someone is stabbing you !! My gosh yall , but everyone around me says their pregancies are amazing and im just over here walking thru hell.
Same
How did you even have the strength to go through with another pregnancy? I'm currently dealing with it and honestly never want to be pregnant again. I feel so useless and miserable...
@@o0laieta0o girl ! I literally got pregnant 6 weeks after I just had a baby so it was like I was just still pregnant but this third one is so bad I’m definitely done . It sucks so much but just tell yourself it’s only temporary..
@@topangav1823 I hope I can be as optimistic as you in a couple years :) only 17 weeks left 💪
I'm 6 weeks pregnant,I feel the exact same way.
I share my wish to die with my husband everyday.
He is more comprehensive than before. This is my 2 pregnancy and I wasn't looking toward to it bc of that feeling.
I feel horrible to say that but I mean it, everyday is a struggle, even breathing take out all the few energy left.
I admire women who love being pregnant and don't have to go through this hell.
I remember crying to my mom I was gonna die. But I did with my doctor agreeing smoked marijuana my whole pregnancy. It was the only thing that helped
Ironic, hyperemesis can also be caused by Long term cannabis use. (someone correct me if I'm wrong) Not saying that would happen for you or anything I think it takes a whole lot of abuse (years of mad abuse) to trigger hyperemesis from cannabis and even then its episodic. I can see why that would be helpful tho, glad it works.
Its the only thing that helps me as well, it’s good to know I’m not the only one
@@LucasCarroll0 you would actually feel it first hand if it was cannabis use. Cannabis is being checked to actually see if it can be prescribed pregnant women without any harm to the fetus, so far, they haven’t found any problems with it yet, hoping it gets passed!
@@FlawedNicely it is prescribed to some women when pregnant but after the baby is born wanted to act like it was bad to have in their breast milk, also not true.
@@LucasCarroll0 never have I heard of that unless your smoking fake stuff. I suffer from a digestion disorder that makes me sick alot but most days I can only eat if I smoke. Well pregnancy made that a lot worse for me and I was told to keep smoking. But a few weeks after stopping my body started going into labor super early at 24wks. I was told to keep smoking because at the time they could not do anything to stop it unless I was further on. So smoking helps my digestion disorder and saved my pregnancy and baby.
I had this with my 2nd pregnancy and it was by far the worse I’ve ever felt in my life. I lost 30 lbs the first 3 months and after birth I ended up weighing 108 vs the 150 I weighed pre getting pregnant. I ended up with PPD and it lasted 4 years until I decided to see a therapist. Some pregnancies are really bad for your body, but some don’t understand. People would always criticizing me on my weight. Ughhh 😒😑
This is my exact story with my two pregnancies. Thank you for speaking up. My family LOVES pregnancy and they always push my husband and I to have more and it literally takes me off my feet for 9months!
Everyone hassles me to drink fluids and eat but little do they know I AM! I just can’t stop throwing it up 24-7!!!! Im talking middle of night too!
I’ve lost 10 lbs in my first month. My doctor recommended b6 and unisom and said if that doesn’t help in 2 weeks to come to her for something stronger. I hope it helps because I’m miserable. I wanted to lose weight this year before I found out I was pregnant but definitely not through starvation and potential harm of the baby.
An I been telling people I’ve been dying for 2 months no one believes me . But I lost tremendous weight and haven’t ate in 2 weeks
This is my second HG pregnancy. I just found out I was pregnant, and the symptoms of it, were my first signs, to take a test. Purposeless fever. Nausea. Slipping and spiking BP, around the vomiting. Hunger but also nausea. I’m not afraid. But I’m apprehensive. It’s been 8 years since I had my first child. Maybe I don’t even remember properly, how bad it was. But I remember being in the ER for fluids every week, or so. I remember 26 ultrasounds. I remember sonograms on both of our hearts. I remember my kidneys struggling to keep up, as I already have 2 types of kidney disease. I remember the only thing that helped me, was High doses of CBD, THC microdoses, and they gave me suppositories at the end. Coca-cola syrup. Sprite syrup.
does the cbd and thc have a negative affect on the baby what beand do you recomend
I lost 30 lbs in 2 months from such severe morning sickness with my son, but my doctor didn't take it seriously. Now he has developmental delays. I couldn't eat anything or barely drink anything. It's absolutely horrible.
Question for the HG mommas: how did you decide to have another? I’m 12 weeks pregnant with my first and I’ve decided this will be my only baby. How did you decide you could handle going through it all again?
After having my kids I realized everything my body went through was worth it. ❤
That’s the only thing that helped me make the decision to have 4 kids even tho I get sick with every pregnancy. 😢
With time, brings change ❤
HG was a living hell but when I became a mom I was willing to go through hell multiple times for my kids. It just happened ❤
I decided not too after hg with my daughter but here I am didn't even know I was pregnant I'm 9 weeks with little to no nausea just spitting yuck
I'm fortunate that I haven't had to be hospitalized, but I'm in my first pregnancy and experience constant all day nausea. I literally took everything. Unisom+B6, sucking on candies, phenergan pills and cream, motion sickness bracelets (on both wrists), Zofran, ginger ale... nothing helps. It's awful. 15 weeks in and it's still an every day battle. Because of it this will be my only pregnancy.
Wow I can’t believe you did all of that and you still were feeling the way you were.
@@sheilaemadian I believe her
This is my 3rd pregnancy and I have no babies to show, I lost the 2 before and had HG with both. I’m barely past a month currently and I can’t even drink water. I’m exhausted, have a constant headache, nausea and vomiting never stops, no medication works and I feel weak and crazy all the time. I have a bunch of other health issues that are all exacerbated due to the pregnancy. I feel like giving up but I also really want to be a mom. This is hard and seems to be getting harder but I’m happy someone is bringing awareness of HG to the public cause it is not being diagnosed and treated appropriately until the mother ends up in the ER
How did your 3rd pregnancy go Im asking cuz I’m currently going through the same thing and I want to know if it’s worth all the pain
I lost 9 pounds already and can’t even keep water down. I can’t get out of bed even to just go to the restroom with all throwing up. I told this to my doctor and he completely blew it off. haven’t taken my prenatals in about five weeks because I can’t keep them down. i’ve already ended up in the hospital and he didn’t really seem to take it seriously. There are days so bad I feel like I’m gonna die or I find myself wanting it to happen just so I don’t feel this pain and sickness anymore.
We need more awareness about this! I had this plus my mood swings were horrible.
I get/got a lot of hate but I survived by taking medical marijuana. My baby is super healthy 👍🏼
Don’t blame others for taking that risk, it’s AWFUL 😢
I smoked weed til my 6th week and it really helped keep my anxiety level down and ease my nausea and keep my appetite up.
@Melmel210 sis I totally understand! I hate everything and everyone around me including my poor partner 🥺 ( I feel so bad for him)
Mood swings? Over the roof! The sickness doesn’t seem to be getting any better either at 15 weeks im getting frustrated 😣😞😞
me too
Same!!!!! It's demonized too much.
Im on my 6th week of pregnancy first child my HG started at 4wk 4days. I ended up in hospital 2 days ago and off work since. Im so dehydrated and i feel cold all the time because im anaemic as well. Its torturous! Im staying in bed most of the time i feel disabled whilst my partner do things around the house. 🤦🏻♀️
@@SecretplaceintheGlory chill, its genetic. my mum, aunts and grandma (mum side) had it nothing to do with wifi. Im an athlete before pregnancy and always on a healthy diet. But thanks for your input anyway 😅
@@SecretplaceintheGlory no its not “generational curse” its genetic pregnancy illness. I am christian myself and been living and eating healthy. Seriously, reading your condescending comment is so disrespectful. And FYI i don’t have 5G nor the area I live has.
@@SecretplaceintheGlory u special kind of stupid
8 months pregnant and still in hell.. this is the most unbearable feeling I have ever felt. I honestly do not know how I have done it with two other small children and working from home full time. All the women that go through this are truly warriors!
True...
I had Hyperemisis in my first pregnancy. I'm now 6 weeks pregnant and dreading the sickness that will come. I'm praying it isn't as bad thus time. I feel I've learnt how to manage it slightly better.
I'm 6 weeks too as of yesterday and my sickness started at only 5 weeks (but it's not HG and i vomit maybe twice a day.) I hope you're doing well and it goes smoothly!
God help me I’m crying watching this I can’t get out of bed
Did you find something that help I think my fiancé experiencing this ?😢
I dont know how woman with this condition go throughout nine months with horrible pregnancy coz it was very bad for me,wish i had the medication your talking about.
This is my second time.. I almost decided I was done with pregnancy after the first time I went through this. It’s so hard. It hurts. It’s exhausting , it’s draining. I’m starving but can’t keep my on saliva down.. I just want an enjoyable pregnancy. I want to enjoy it so much that i want to do it again.
I’m already 16 weeks and still feel so nauseous slightly fatigue now but everyday is a struggle to push myself. I’ve been to the emergency room 3x I lost a lot of weight and medication barely works I just want all this to be over with
With that existing there still are ppl who are against the freedom of choice -.- not every women wants even a small chance to go through this. And for those who are struggling with it or struggled with it! YOU GOT THIS! YOU ARE SUPERHUMANS LADIES!!!❤️🥺
I’m pregnant with my second and it’s the same with my first it’s really hard to have HG. This my last because sometimes I say to myself I can’t take it anymore it’s so hard to have severe symptoms but through prayer I’ll survive this. I just Keep fighting for my baby 🙏🏻😭.
I don't know if I want to have any more kids after this also this is why I quit my job but I might apply for temp disability
I’m 15 weeks living on a small island. My doctor is trying his best but I’m suffering mentally and physically. Mentally I’m not even sure how I feel towards my baby.
How are you doing now?
I have this. No medication helps unfortunately. The worst part is that i still have to work. Sure, its from home, but even in my bed everything seem to move around and sometimes it gets so bad that i cant read anymore. This really sucks. I cant see my friends, i just try to work and the rest of the time lie in a dark room being miserable or try to sleep and not vomit
Guys I feel like I'm dying. Im not ok. I don't know why I did this again😢
My first pregnancy I did not have nausea this bad. This is my second pregnancy and I’m barely at 6 weeks and I’m so tired, I have no energy. I can barely eat anything my house is a mess. My husband had to take me to the er because I was throwing up everything even water. I’m sick of this “HG” I can’t enjoy anything. My hair is a mess, I can’t do house chores, I go to work just barely but I feel like shit all day, I throw up even when I haven’t ate anything. I just want to get home and lay down and sleep and not feel anything. I just want this nausea to go away. 😞😢
I had HG when pregnant I don’t know how I got through honestly very traumatic I threw up blood at least once a week for my stomach ulcers fainted and literally went blind for minutes at a time but some how it was also therapeutic really reminded me of when my mother had cancer she has BPD as well and would guilt trip me saying I would never under the pain she went through/ didn’t care for her even though I was her main caregiver missing about a quarter of that school year
I am not convinced that it’s genetic as I was the only woman in my family with such a severe nausea ( nobody in my family had it at all). It was absolutely awful for me and never ending story. However, I am glad that I went for a second one, and I would go for third if not for Covid apocalypse. I don’t think it’s good that doctor is scare mongering sick mothers that babies can be harmed, as the pressure on them is already too high. He also mentioned it can cause the autism. My mother worked in the center for autism, and nobody knows the cause. Apart from me, I only know one woman with such a severe sickness, and her daughter (now 10) is super smart, my both kids ( products of an awful sickness), have never been sick, very strong, healthy, beautiful and smart. So, those dark prognoses are something that should be left out.
I remember.
I was thirty six years old and pregnant with my first and only child,, I was so nauseated.I cried everyday,, My doctor tried all the anti nausea medication and it didn't work,, I threw up All day everyday,, I had IVs etc,, I even threw up on the delivery room table, I only gained two pounds during my pregnancy,, My son was born healthy but a little underweight,, I never did that again,, He's an only child!!!
I don’t care what anyone says, I am never getting pregnant again.
I’m in grad school and experiencing this right now. it’s truly getting in the way of my studies and I’m so tired of being sick. I don’t know how I’m going to make it through. I feel so depleted and just want the suffering to stop.
I remember feeling this way with my first born…I am now having PTSD with my rainbow baby and I legit sat on my toilet crying asking my husband how I’ll do it again now that I have a job. I’m so scared and I don’t want to throw up all day everyday…
I feel you my first baby I didn’t have to work and I’m 2 months pregnant right now I waited 8 years because I was so scared I was going to be sick to my stomach like my first pregnancy and here I am having to work and still deal with this…it’s a struggle I can’t wait for them to find a solution for the future
@@gugucastro3796 sending you all the positive vibes and hoping to get through it quickly. ☹️ stay strong!!!!
Just makes cry it’s so hard nearly week 14 still nauseous and not able to eat enough 😢
Im at my 2 month of pregnancy now this is my 4th child and i just lay in bed all day, i.cant eat any food, the smell of food cooking i cant stand it makes me nausea and vomiting. No one will understand. Its hard being pregnant
Me too.. Its worse when u have to take care of your toddler and kids under 7.
My first pregnancy I threw up about 3-4 times a day. I couldn't even leave my room. Now I am pregnant again and I can feel the nausea coming on. I hate the feeling especially I am only 6 months into my nursing job that I actually enjoyed, but hoping the symptoms don't get as bad the the 1st pregnancy. It's one of those things you don't wish on anyone.
Did you have a girl in your first?
@@jhelummhatre4823 Hi, I'm just now seeing this. But, I had two boys. I am now pregnant again with my 3rd boy and had to get treatment in the hospital with IV fluids. My mom had it severely with my little sister though years ago. They say having a girl can make it worst, but in my situation I've had all boys.
My second pregnancy was a disaster. I was literally on the verge of insanity. Nothing worked I believe it is only God that brought me through 34 weeks and had a successful delivery. Being hospitalized and depressed throughout. I know I was on the line of death. Pray that another woman will never have to endure HG.
I had this for all 4 of my pregnancies. I was surprised at how many people Had zero compassion. They could not even imagine how difficult it was. Feeing like this every day, all day, for almost the whole pregnancy is an unbelievably difficult way to live.
How many boys and girls do you have?
❤❤❤❤❤ going through it now. Sending love to you mama.
It's so true. I'm 9 weeks this week and I'm so nauseus all day long. I cant move or talk or eat properly. I feel sooo sick. I end up doing sick at times and it literally drains me out. It's awful. I either stay on the sofa when I can make my way down after much difficulty pr then go back to bed. All whilst moaning whilst I move to distract the sickness feeling. It's awful.
On my 3rd pregnancy (lost my 1st one, possibly due to the hyperemesis) the 2nd one, my son, was rough too. Praying this pregnancy doesn't result in HG or miscarriage 😫
Struggling with hg for my second pregnancy at 11 weeks. This one is moderate compared to the first maybe because i was particular about medication and IV this time.
I am being forced to take prenatal vitamins but the smell makes me sick and i don't know what else to do. I don't want to keep feeling like a bad mother. Who else is struggling with this. No one seems to understand
Have you tried vita fusion gummy prenatal. They are very easy on the stomach and tasty. They were the only vitamin I could ever take.
@@sheilaemadian thanks but won't this make me nauseated busy of flavours
@@zainabkadiri6350 I don’t think it should. I took it in both pregnancies of mine and it was the only prenatal I could handle.
Thanks
I understand I went through this and was just thinking I hate the smell of my prenatal, I be having to hold my breath and still end up smelling it.
Cyclizine and ondansetron with a round of steroid therapy and iv fluids got me through but I was sick and on meds right up to delivering my daughter. It's pretty traumatic
My sister had this debilitating condition during her first pregnancy almost throughout all 9 months, her 2nd pregnancy was easy peasy, but now she is pregnant for a 3rd time and suffering even more. She has lost 17 pounds and she's only about 11 or 12 weeks in and taking zofran but it doesn't work. I also had HG and it was horrible, 24/7 nausea and vomiting everyday. Unaware coworkers thought I was suferring from an eating condition and told me I looked very sick. I always ended up going home early. Couldn't sleep, think properly, drive, eat, drink, shower- just function. Eventually, I didn't have my baby.
It is horrible!!! I’m taking unisom and b6 and that still doesn’t fully take it away. People don’t understand how bad and depressing this is I lost 15lbs so far, I can’t even keep down water
I'm 12w2d pregnant. I feel like death, nauseous, vomiting, can't walk or stand and I used to work 18-20 hours/day prior to Pregnant helping my rescue animals at home
I just found out 2 weeks ago and wow it’s taken a toll on me. I look dead now, literally. Everything, everything smells. Whatever I can eat I end up throwing up. I’ve had 2 pregnancies and maybe felt sick 1 or 2 times and that was it but now… I don’t know if I’m gonna make it. Im so tired all the time 😭
Pregnant with my second now , with first it was so damn bad I even had to have a home iv bag, now im about 6 weeks and it's the same cycle I feel that hungover sickness constantly. It is the worse man , im struggling to the max rn.
Week 10 now. I lost 6kg so far. vomitting blood..cant eat, cant drink. 2x warded. Heartburn, the nausea wont go away.. 4 pregnancies with hyperem.i want abortion but cant afford. So i have to carry on.. First pregnancy i lost 18kg..
i feel like i’m dying 😖 i can’t do it
My second son had me going through this and I'm on my third and scared to death. Sick. I also ended up so mentally ill from this I believe I suffered phsycosis after. I believe it took part in my divorce too. And now I'm having a baby with a good man who's working hard, making so many changes. and I'm so scared. I can't stand meat. I can't be near my kitchen. I also get gaggy at the thought of being pregnant. I can't stand to get up. I really hope it's just the first trimester. The medicine they have helped me. But it was HUNDREDS to refill the prescription. It felt so good to eat for one week out of my whole pregnancy. I beat myself up every day bc I'm terrified I'll hope for miscarriage like I did with my second. I look at my beautiful son every day and I forgive myself as best I can but I hate what happened to me and the way I thought.
Hey..am so sorry for what you going through..I think I am at it too..my first pregnancy, almost hitting two months,I am sick whole day, can't stand the kitchen, can't stand the site nor the thought of food, can't drink or keep anything in my stomach,I feel miserable and desperate,my mouth is pouring with saliva..I need God more than anything..may God bless you and all other women out there..I literally cry due to vomiting the whole day and my throat is so painful
@@luizaechesa1708 I was just in the hospital getting IV treatment for hydration bc I couldn't do it. I'm gonna be real with you. The only thing that has helped me has been pot. The medicine is so expensive. Stick with medical so you aren't ever taking a risk. Cbd only helps so much for muscle tension. But the nausea is hushed with thc and for the first time was able to eat. I will probably be judged for this. And it is something that society taught us to discredit. My second child came fine. He is if anything more advanced than my first when he was 2 and 3. Better hand and eye coordination, better vocabulary, intellectual in spite of his small speech problem. We've been working on speech every day but he is otherwise healthy as a horse. He eats clean and was the most pleasant baby. I did not want to resort to it in my second pregnancy and I'm still perplexed about this one also. But I don't know how else I can help myself eat, and save my family the trauma.
I am praying for you and any mother's enduring this. Much love to you. My heart aches that this is what can happen when we want to become vessels of life creation. It hurts. It's almost a slap. As if it isn't hard enough. I pray you do not need a pik line or any thing such as that. I don't pressure you to use what I do to combat the issues that come with this illness. But I say this to maybe save a life, or two.
@@liberatedhippything I think you are a very sincere person who is full of love and care even for those you barely know..Thank you for reaching out with such encouraging words full of warmth, encouragement, assurance and honesty..you are a great mom and a good person in general.Myself I am in a foreign country right now,far away from family and friends but with a very good loving and supportive husband,truly I thank God for him and people like you whom I can connect with even though don't know each other,but being that we are both women embracing the journey of carrying a life, something so beautiful..I am truly grateful..Once again I am so sorry for what you are going through,I am sorry for myself too and the amazing ladies out there but I know that truly we shall overcome and emerge victorious..many many blessings
@@luizaechesa1708 and may your baby be beautiful and healthy mama. I think that it is beautiful that you have such a wonderful husband. I am praying for you and everyone as well. You made my day very bright mrs. And I am grateful for those like you. I hope a miracle from god happens and takes away the sickness for you. You deserve peace!. Fingers crossed, I think I will come back here and check in. Xxx
@@liberatedhippything thank you so much and I proclaim victory in your words..sure I will give you an update with a testimony and I know we shall all be rejoicing.May God of heavens bless you so much and keep you,your unborn baby,your babies and whole family safe..I spread love and prayers upon your family.. tomorrow morning been scheduled for the hospital but I will be back with good news.. blessings
I went through this with my son...it was horrible. I will never have another child because I have no idea how I could take care of my son being as sick as I was. I couldn't function properly, all I did was vomit all day long from a few weeks in until the end. 😩