My youngest is 11 and I still cry thinking about the feeling I had knowing she was my last. It truly is a grieving of a stage of life. Kim you are so relatable, genuine and real. You are helping so many women and families by just being you.
True. Postpartum depression is very common among women, especially the very first time ❤it’s so wonderful for women to support each other this way! Beautifully relatable to. Definitely.
My 4th baby is my last ❤️ she just turned 3 November 7th .I have struggled and been back and fourth wanting a 5th. but my hubby just wants to be done enjoy them ..and have us time but it's so hard. 😫 my heart breaks knowing that times over but at the same time excited to move forward..they grow up so fast. my oldest will be 9 in February then my second turned 6 in July my third will be 5 in January and like said my 4th just turned 3 😁
First of all, people say you look great because you do. It's not about the size of your clothes or how much concealer you wear...it's that glow of meeting your newest love, of loving selflessly. I don't know who needs to hear it, but all new moms look great! I've had lots of babies, and my last turns 4 this year. Watching this video is bittersweet. I'm so glad I did though, because I can relate to so much and I'm nodding along with a friend. I love how often you say every mom and every baby is different. Learning how to take cues from this new human instead of following a book was the most important thing I learned how to do.
I love this! I’m 61, and if I lived close, I’d bring meals, do laundry, play with the older kids, and whatever else I could do to help. This video reminds me that even tho I do not live near you, I live near plenty of other new mamas who would appreciate kindness. Thanks to you, I’ve reached out to some that I think may need a bit extra help. Also, big question on my mind….how is the DISCO van coming along? Would love an update!
You have 5 children including a newborn... the fact that you are able to string more than two sentences together is Ahhmazing right now! We are all so so so so impressed by everything you say and do Kim. I hope you feel the love we are all sending!
One thing I realized with my first was that during pregnancy everyone is so focused on how you're doing and feeling and they want to know about you. Once the baby's here they literally only ask about the baby, unless it's a mom asking because they understand, of course. That was so hard to adjust to. Love your energy and real life in your videos! ❤️
That is so true. I’m going thru that right now and it’s so frustrating that my MIL does that. It’s like I’m chop liver 😅😢 I mean I get it the baby is truly the star of the show but us moms are really going thru it and need support.
I started watching you about 1 1/2 yrs ago. I'm a retired 64 yr old guy who enjoys cooking. Divorced, never had kids. Kind of adopted my neighbors girls as family. Watched them grow up. Now they are having kids. I'm trying to get them to watch you. Not my expertise, but I think you could be helpful to them. Thank you for what you do.
We like the "unorganized" videos. And I listened every single word and enjoyed it! Thank you, Kim !! I have 2 kids and today I will find out the gender of my third one!! So excited !!
People say you’re beautiful and look great because they know how hard the newborn phase is and how much you’ve gone through. They want to encourage you and help you feel amazing even though you’ve been spit up on, gotten no sleep, and have done nothing more than feed the baby and change diapers. ❤️ Life is a miracle and also so much work. I think women often feel like their failing even though they’ve accomplished so much. You’ve been an encouragement to so many. Let them attempt to encourage and compliment you ❤️
Even though I was never able to have children, I love listening and learning from you Kim. Your videos really do bring so much joy to my days. Thank you for all you share with us. 💜💜💜
Happy Thursday Wads family & friends. Isn't our Kim a breath of fresh air? Always bringing happy and sending love our way. Stay blessed people and know you are loved! xoxo
I had no idea you had HG pregnancies! Mine keep getting worse. I have had 4 pregnancies with just 2 living children. My last pregnancy I was in the hospital every week for fluids until they ordered me a PICC line for home health because I couldn't keep meds or anything down orally. I need all IV for about a month. I lost 50lbs in less than 60 days. I was in multi organ failure, admitted twice for 5 nights, 6 days both times. Missed my man's birthday and 4th of July, watched fireworks from my hospital room. But luckily I made it and baby made it out alive. Somehow she ended up being 9lbs 2oz at 38+3. I was induced due to preeclampsia. I'm so glad you can manage it and you're an inspiration!
This was very helpful as a first time mom , I’m tired all the time and it’s only my first but the part that hit the most is where you said that the baby wants to be with you because they love you and that’s all they’ve known is to be close to you 💗💗
I'm done having babies (I'm 50) but now I get to enjoy grandbabies! I'm having the 2nd grand in February. I sent this to my daughter in law in hopes she gives herself grace and rest! I really hope she watches your video!
Kim I’ve always considered your long freezer meal videos my favorite, but I so loved this one!! You’re just the cutest thing when you are just talking about whatever pops into your thoughts! I chuckle every time. I’m waaaay out of my post partum days, but I’ll sure tell ya what, I wish I’d had a friend like you when I WAS in that season of my life!!! I had no one at all either and I was very young. I had zero clue what was going on. I still consider it a miracle that my daughter survived!! Lol. Thank you for always being so sweet and so honest with sharing your feelings & thoughts. ❤ Those babies of yours are some lucky little people. 😊
My children are now adults and I was hesitant to even watch this video because it’s not relatable to me anymore. But Kim is my friend and I wanted to show support so I am watching the video. As her usual self… she is making this video easy to watch.😊
I was afraid to watch this because you look soo put together as a mom of 5 and I’m over here dying with 2. You were refreshingly relatable. Thanks for keeping it real!
I had the exact experience with my first child. I had him at 23. My husband is military so we aren't by anyone we know so I didn't have a support system. I had HORRIBLE postpartum anxiety and in my heart I knew I was going to die and my baby wouldn't be taken care of cause I was the only one that could take care of him. But thankfully I got into therapy and got stuff figured out so when it started happening with this one I was prepared and knew that it was normal. Bless you for talking about it.
I had my first at 23 and got postpartum anxiety badly as well. The crazy thing about it is that it's just our brain doing the right thing by focusing on potential dangers and wanting to protect the baby however it's on overdrive and feels terrible.
WOW I never did the math to realize you were only 23 when Avalina was born. I was barely capable of keeping myself alive at 23. Obviously we don't see behind the scenes, but from what's in your videos, I love how laid back you are with your kids. It seems like you have good expectations but encourage them in a loving way!
I was barely 17 when I had my first and was scared to death but still didn’t want a epidural I didn’t want any drugs in my babies system by the time I was 24 I had 2 more all natural and the second one was a frank breech birth butt first very painful they offered me pain meds but I refused even the epidural has a strong narcotic I’m it so that’s a big no for my babies
@@Wannasue09 lol I had an epidural it was great, literally the only reason I’d even consider having another baby is cause I didn’t feel the pain 😂😂 I think if I had , it be one and done
@@thelifeoft6798 I understand completely I’m not against an epidural I know everyone’s different and now that I’m a grandmother I’m actually glad 2 of my daughters had one and one had to have a C-section and no Mother wants to see her child in pain so I’m thankful they had that option
I'm due with my first baby in 9 days! Watching you go through your pregnancy/birth/post partum experience has been like watching a big sister go through it and then get to pass down all the good advice. Thank you for all you do in sharing and opening up so us newbies can benefit from your knowledge. Your family is so lovely and I really admire the grace with which you handle yourself and your style of parenting and hope I can emulate some of that in my own life.
I‘m due with my first in February. I really enjoyed Kim sharing the „explicit“ stuff like the literal birth and post partum. I feel most people don’t really talk about that unless it’s all sunshine and rainbows.
I had my first baby when I was 20 yrs old. She is now 33 and has 6 brothers and 5 sisters. Collectively, I was pregnant for 9 solid years. I loved it and hoped it would never end. But here I am in my 50's, my baby will soon be 12 and I still remember the smell, the warmth and the softness of baby's skin. I say, Embrace, capture and enjoy every moment you have with your children because they grow up so fast and soon be out on their own. Blessings to your sweet family and keep up the good work Kim. Your babies are beautiful and You are awesome!
My mind is blown thinking of people talking crap about your house. As if you don't have a newborn and 4 other kiddos and just life. You are doing great and I love that you are so open and real. Be blessed today 😊
After my friend had her first I went over and offered to do her dishes and she thought that was so weird. A few months later she said ‘remember when you offered to do my dishes? I totally should have taken you up on that and I will if I ever have another one!’ Lol. How is Wolfgang so big!! He’s so sweet!
You are amazing Kim. Best mom ever!!!! He does look like he's 6 months old. He's long and big. He's so cute and looks like Alex. You have an amazing family as you know.
I have 5 too and without a doubt 0-1 was the HARDEST transition. For exactly the same reasons you mentioned. There is no preparing you for what happens when you become a mom. Our poor firstborn ha!
I just love you Kim! My husband and I decided many years ago that we didn't want children. I'm now 45 years old and had to have a hysterectmy in Feb. of this year because of ovarian cancer. But, still I love this vlog! It's so interesting to me and I know you are helping so many new moms and moms to be out there. Thank you for all of the information and as always the laughs!
Been watching Kim for awhile now and this is definitely the most rattled I've ever seen her after giving birth. Postpartum is hard sometimes, and that's okay. Remember that you can't take care of anyone else if you aren't taking care of yourself.
Kim don't worry about the spitting. In German we say "Speikind Gedeihkind" means "spitting child thriving child". It was so true with my second child. He grew as weed and spitt a lot (for month, until he ate solids). I loved the quote you said about kids have a hard time, they give us a hard time! So true. Touched my heart.
I was 34 when I had my first child, after having a heart attack at age 28! I had no complications during pregnancy. My son who is now 17 is truly my miracle blessing!
I've heard so many times that zero to one is the hardest and yes, I knew nothing.. yes, it was hard but I got to sleep! I only had to worry about me and the baby. I had no other obligations. I could sleep when she slept, I could shower or eat whenever I could fit it it, etc. 2-3 was the hardest!! I had one in school, and one older toddler/prek (but not in preschool), and the newborn. You got it exactly right- you have laundry and cooking and cleaning and errands and school events.. I ended up back in the hospital because I did too much too soon. One piece of advice I'd give new moms is DO NOT let anyone pressure you into having visitors at the hospital! Or even for the first week or two. It's a rough go at first and I've regretted each time letting visitors come to the hospital, come to my house the day I come home from the hospital, and almost every family member coming the first week we are home. You both need sleep to heal and time to work things out and form a bond.
Oh! Yes, food is a huge help or hindrance. I was so thankful for all the help with meals, snacks, and grocery shopping when I got it. When you have your first or second people are more likely to bring you meals or offer to help with different things but 3 (+) you're on your own.
Omgosh I vividly remember (18yrs and 4months ago), my Georgia was 3-4 months and STILL a cryer, especially if overstimulated. I remember having had a ling day visiting in laws- got home & husband’s friends stopped by to see the baby. I literally started crying when the guests were on the sofa and passing my baby around to their 10yr old son as my baby was crying & that mom just kept saying it was “ok! Babies cry!” And they wouldnt get the hint and LEAVE!!! I was NOT a people pleaser after that! I grabbed her and went to another room and just cried because i wanted everyone out of my house and i wanted family naptime!
You, my dear are a super mom!! Very inspiring! I felt the same way when I had my last child. He's 28 now! I also felt sad when menopause hit, but I do have to say it was nice not having Aunt Flo visit so often...lol I love watching you and your family, and all the energy you have. Sending you lots of love!!
The newborn stage was the easiest for me. Teachings your child to be a decent human being is the hard part lol trying to teach them to learn to read and write has been the hardest for me.
My kids are all grown and graduated from college and I don't know why I even watched this, but I did and loved it. Kim, you are amazing and I am in awe of you. And as for babies or parenthood even the biggest thing I can say is "this too shall pass". The sleepless nights will pass, toddlers pushing boundaries will pass, tween stages will pass, ect ect. Nothing about parenthood is forver & always except for how much you love your kids. ♡
The last time I went through postpartum was 36 years ago, but I still remember it so well. I think you, sweet friend, are an amazing wife and mom! Remember to take care of YOU. Sending you a big hug!❤️❤️❤️
I don't want kids/can't have kids..yet I still watch all of these videos because Kim is just amazing and a fantastic mother too and just feels like a friend.
I had my one and only child when I was 23. My mother passed away when I was 19 and both grandmother's shortly afterward. So when I had my son, I was so lost and clueless about so much. This was before Google became the place to go for information. I literally told my son, I so wish I had your videos to watch before I had him because of the fantastic information you gave about labor and delivery. Now, this postpartum video as well explaining what happens after baby is here. You really do help more women than you know. I mean I was so clueless I had to get information from my husband's ex-motherinlaw 🤣🤣. Wish I could of had more children but I was only meant to have one. Thank you for sharing so much, you are doing great! ❤️
I agree. My sons are 45 and 49. The only book back then was Dr. Spock's baby book which actually helped me with my first born...just reading that something he was doing was normal for that age. So having YT and mothers talking about pregnancy and post partum has to be so comforting for them. And Kim does it in such a fun and whacky way to make young Moms feel everything will be just fine 💜💙💚💛🧡
@@cathleenweaver6483 yes! It's all so scary and overwhelming. Kim definitely has a way of explaining everything that puts your mind at ease. I also so appreciate that she even goes as far to talk about how your body will be after birth and talking about the products you will want/need to help you feel better afterwards. She isn't afraid of saying too much, which I love. If I could only turn back time to have Kim with me as I was becoming a first time mom, it would have made so many things easier. She's incredible.
@@elizabethblanch5871 Isn't it amazing how Kim can touch all different women of all different ages? I think she would make a wonderful midwife. She would be so helpful to all Moms 💜💙💚💛🧡
I think it’s so sad how you are always entertaining and surrounded by people, yet no one offers you help. I would be cutting people out of my life left and right. Also that Oprah video saved my sanity after I gave birth to my twins. I randomly remembered seeing that interview years and years previously and I searched for it and studied it. It SAVED my sanity and helped me help my children. Amazing. Also - you are looking good Mama, and Wolfgang is wonderful. But I wish you had true friends and family around you. You deserve it. Love from Iceland.
Oh Kimberly! We can only imagine how many women you are helping when you talk about the realities. Of course it is amazing and a miracle, but it is also messy, painful, exhausting ,rewarding, idolating, scary... Wolfgang is adorable and I wish you and your entire family continued health and happiness. Always enjoy watching the channel.
My last baby is 5 now. All of the baby phases are everything you said. It’s SO good, hard, overwhelming and wonderful. Nothing like it. Great video. ❤️
I think your honesty is so great! As a Mom who has a 16 year-old daughter who is talking about which college she wants to go to (GULP!), I can attest to how all the feels about how fast it goes!!😢 I sometimes wish I could go back and relive those baby days. It’s such a special time you never get back. Enjoy every minute and never apologize!!😊
Hi Kim. I watch your videos each time you post a new one. I used to be a busy Mom (like you) - now mine are grown. There's good days, and not so good days - yet it's all this incredibly wonderful blessing. Being parents is our greatest role in life. You are a pro !! You may not realize this, but what you & Alex are doing each day, is you are teaching your kids to be wonderful parents just like you. When they have babies, you'll witness them nurturing and providing the best care of them. You taught them that. It's the greatest of life's rewards yet to come. And, so many more babies to hold. Keep doing EXACTLY what you're doing. Lots of love, Nancy
I had five; they are 31, 30, 28, 22 and 19 now. They are all amazing humans and we have a close family. Looking back now though, I wish I had spent more individual time with each one. We did our best and devoted ourselves to them but did not concentrate on the individuals. Just wish I had done it! You are very wise to see the importance in that.
I'm 39 years old (will be 40 when baby girl gets here, God willing) and 14 weeks pregnant! My youngest son turned 16 (Edited to add: years old not months old!) this last week. I'm totally starting over (we had NO baby supplies!) and with a girl this time...never had a girl before... I'm so excited. I thought that part of my life was over but I didn't want it to be! Just think... terrible two's will hit when my youngest is 18 years old! But that's okay. I'm loving it. I'm charishing it. I'm so very very grateful. If I could talk my husband into another after this, I would but I don't see that happening lol So (now that first trimester is over) I'm trying to enjoy every minute. Currently I'm waiting for the first kicks but not wishing them on too quickly because this is likely the last time I'll be impatient for first kicks! I wonder what the transition is going to be like for me now 🤔 will it be akin to first baby or will I jump right in like a pro? I guess I'll find out soon enough!
Even though I’m almost 75, and really don’t need the tips and tricks, I’m sure there are so many out there, that as a mama of 5 you will help, lots of knowledge in that pretty lil head of yours. Kim, I love you, your just a doll, you make me laugh, and I’m also HAPPY,every time I watch you❤️
Kim, thank you so much for talking about the postpartum weight. You really DO look great (meaning you don’t look like you have extra weight on you!). But hearing you say you feel like it takes a year or two literally was freeing for me to hear. I’m 9 months postpartum and feel larger now than ever and every other woman at my church who recently had a baby looks like they shrunk back to normal so fast. Its been a REAL point of insecurity for me. Hearing you say this makes me feel normal and like maybe there isn’t something wrong with me! Thank you 🥲
My gran (mom's side) had 10 post-war era in Belgium EU; 10 is a lot. A lot a lot. My gran always thanked her big garden. They did not have much or a big house. The boys had a room, and the girls had a room, but the big garden actually saved her. It was her answer to everything? "Go play in the garden" (when they weren't in school or doing homework).
I had 5 children also, started very young (16) and very old (40) for the last one although mine were spaced far apart 8yrs between 2&3 and 10 yrs between 3&4 when #5 arrived I was glad she was the last one 😆 and when the change of life happened I was super happy 😁. You are allowed to whatever feelings you experience and never apologize for them. I wish I had someone like you to have shared then what you do now. You're the best friend Kim I didn't have.
Kim, I wish every mother to be could hear this vlog. You tell it like it really is. Which is what every new mother needs to listen to. Learn to give yourself grace when fumbling through life with a new human that you are responsible for. 💕💕💕
You are SO INCREDIBLY RIGHT when you say 0 to 1 is the most WILD, most difficult transition. Holy cow. I just have no words except I wish I could go back and hug myself in those first several months. I look back and KNOW that I'm a freaking superhero for getting through that time.
Great talk. I’m currently 38 weeks with #9. I’m glad your talking about the pp/recovery phase. For me, this is harder than the birth! I’m going to try the Frida mom pp kit. My last birth, the hospital provided only mesh underwear & pads. No squirt bottles, witch hazel wipes, cooling pads, sprays, nothing. I remember having to wipe at the hospital. Horrible!!! I’m going to spoil myself this time.
Thank you for sharing your wonderful thoughts so off the cuff and honestly. So many of these topics aren't spoken to as they should. Even explaining to people how I would rather just exclusively breastfeed goes around and around. Pumping is 100% a pain! Love hearing your story and I think you're gonna help so many first time moms
Kim you are so lovely, friendly and helpful. This video will help many new mothers. Am I allowed to say that Wolfgang is absolutely gorgeous. I would listen to him gurgling and talking for hours. I think he looks just like his daddy.
"you're my best friend" 🎶 (Queen) Indeed I always look up for a new video. I've been following before you had Meredith. you've been present in tough times and somehow help me through it it. I've always been glad for this "friendship"
I was the lady that was like "$12 for a peri bottle?" So I justified it this time by telling myself I need a bottle for each bathroom. Oh. My. Gosh. It's like night and day - worth every penny!
The newest update I got Tuesday afternoon!! I do need surgery to fix the fistula apparently it might be just one. I have to have a colonoscopy before surgery. The surgery will be done a couple days after the colonoscopy. I do not health insurance so all these bills will have to be covered by my hubby and I. Please continue to pray for us.
As much of an engaged and wonderful mother (parents) you are I’m shocked with both of your large families there is no one to come help you. I was so lucky to have that with my kids and it makes me sad no one ever stepped up to help you. ❤
Omg I had to giggle when you said they should be there for you it sounded like Wolfgang said yeah as if he agreed, he’s so adorable I love you and your amazing family what an amazing friend xxxxxxx
It’s so strange to think that I got married at 23 and I’m now 35 and most likely will never give birth to a child. I watch your videos and I’m just amazed at all your skills at being a great mom and adult! There are days when I feel mentally more like 19 then 35. You are amazing!
What you said at the end of the video is totally me. I literally have had TH-cam glued to me since I had my first child. I have a 3 and almost 2 year old, and TH-cam, content creators such as yourself, all make a huge difference in the lives of those who feel alone so I appreciate you and your videos! Thank you!
I would love to see the houses of the people who call you out on ANYTHING. Man you are for sure a super hero and I am glad my husband doesn’t watch every video because his expectations vs reality would be a real hard hit.
That's what's so loveable about you. YOU ARE REAL and that's what women can relate to. These perfect mom videos are hard to live up to. My 1st baby book was Dr. Spock he said have wine while pregnant to relax, buy Brandy for the baby's gums for teething and drink the rest. Boy have things changed!!
Found the book Kim! It's called Secrets of the Baby Whisperer by Tracey Hogg ♥️ reading parenting books helped me feel sane during my postpartum. My son is 17 months now. I remember watching so many of your videos while pregnant and exhausted lol
I have four kids and completely agree that the first is the hardest transition. Your entire lifestyle and schedule has to change, your priorities shift and absolutely everything is new which takes an enormous amount of mental energy. All the emotions and hormones are new. I was 20 and was also just learning how to be an adult. I wouldn’t change a thing though. Most magical, rewarding, and fulfilling experience.
Thank you 🙏🏻 I’m 2 months PP with baby number two- still feeling lost. 0 help from people who say well it’s they’re second they “have” everything they need already but noooo we need help! Not things. It’s overwhelming and exhausting- and Im totally touched out and man trying to explain that to even a loving and supporting dad is so hard. Moms are incredible superhero’s that Carry Soooo much on their plates that is mindless- the world would fall apart without us and it’s hard to feel blessed somedays but looking at it as “I get to have these children” is a great way to put things in perspective. Love watching all your videos but especially in this time the realness of motherhood hits home for me ❤️ you’re doing an unbelievable job and your family is beautiful.
I definitely understand all the emotions with the last baby. We are expecting our last baby (similar reasons: having enough time for our kids), and first girl. I was surprised and excited to be experiencing a little girl, but was a lot more emotional than I thought putting giving away all the little boy clothes. So many firsts and lasts with this baby. Everything is so precious and wonderful, but also so sad and emotional at the same time! Add in the hormones and I don't know how we function at all. 😂 Enjoy this time. Such an amazing, crazy stage of life!
I’m not a parent, and I just love your videos. I watched the entire video and know for sure that I will bring or send food to family and friends with newborns!!
I love how honest you are about your first and how hard it was and how you had anxiety, everything you said about your struggles with your first I resonate with and felt 100% the person who helped me get through that time was you. I remember finding your channel and I looked up (still do) to you so much and thought you were such a supermom you seriously inspired and helped me so much just figure out motherhood and this next part of my life and I remember thinking there’s no way you ever felt/struggled the way I did. Anyways I’m so happy you and your TH-cam channel exists! ❤
Hi, 50 year old mother of five here and stepmother to three additional kiddos. I also have four grandchildren. I love your channel and I really wish you were around when I was younger. My fifth child spit up a lot and was really fussy. At first they told me it was colic which is just a catchall phrase as I'm sure you know. It was discovered when he was about six weeks old that he had a relaxed sphincter at the top of his stomach and it was allowing his food and acid to come back up. They put him on baby Zantac or something like that and it made a world of difference. He'd still spit up quite a bit here and there but at least he wasn't suffering with heartburn. Hoping this information might help you out. I breast-fed him till he was two years old and I don't regret it at all. I probably would've gone longer but he weaned himself. I actually cried when he weaned himself. You are amazing so keep doing what you doing taking care of all of those amazing children and yourself and your husband. And I love almost all of your videos and I have used many of your recipes. I wish I could live close to you I would come and hold the baby while you showered and I would cook for you because I love cooking for people… Bye!!
Omg😂. You crack me up! Funny how having babies doesn’t change all that much from generation to generation. I had 4 in 5 years, back in the 80’s. I’m 63. Just spent the day with 2 grands, ages 2.5 & 8 months. I made the families dinner, folded laundry, cleaned up the house, took the kids on a long walk, had a dance party with the 2.5 yr old and I’m exhausted! My 4th and youngest daughter is due with her 4th (our 14th grand) next month. She is planning on doing the 5-5-5 recovery. I’m like wth is that?! Well, it’s 5 days in bed, 5 days on the bed, and 5 days near the bed 😳. Guess who she thinks her nurse is going to be. Yep! Me. Cause no one takes care of you & your babies like your mom does🥰. You’re so right to enjoy the time with your baby, especially your last. Someday you’ll miss it.
Preach it 🙌🏼 on visitors after baby! I finally put my foot down with baby 3. I refused to let anyone besides our parents come by until I was 2 weeks postpartum. It was an issue with people but I didn't care, it helped me. If I lived near you, I would have fed you and folded your laundry! Postpartum is hard
Great advice! Up until the part when Wolfgang was infront of the camera. Lol I just found myself staring at him (smiling ear to ear) and vaguely listening to you. Lol. He is beautiful. All your kids are beautiful. ❤ this family.
I had my 3rd and last baby a month ago. This time around I wanted to go all natural this time and I ended up watching your labor and delivery vlog just a week before I had my baby. I’m not going to lie, I was a bit scared. Lol. You were a rockstar and I thought “there’s no way I’m strong enough to do that”. So I just prayed that I would have the strength to have a quick and natural birth. Turns out, I did have just that, at home, unexpectedly! I woke up a little after 4am with contractions already 2.5 minutes apart. Started getting the bags ready, and by 5 I had to wake up my husband to finish off cause the contractions were intense and I wanted to focus on breathing. By 5:30 we called our parents to come get the kids. And by 6 my baby was born in the bathroom! God heard my prayers and gave me what I wanted! Lol.
I'm sorry your local friends and family haven't been making you breakfast and brownies, that really would've been nice! Appreciate you being real, as always!
Kim, you are an awesome person as well as an awesome Mom. I'm a great grandmother and I enjoy every minute of your videos. It is so great that you share your experiences and knowledge to help others as they experience or are about to experience these same situations. I'm the mother of 3, grandmother of 5 and great grandmother of 3. I hope you can believe me when I tell you what a great job you are doing as a mother. It is important and it is difficult but the rewards are beyond words. Thanks for sharing with us.
Our 4th and last baby was so easy going, Non of us can remember him ever crying. The first night home from the hospital, I changed him, fed him and put him to sleep at 10...he slept straight through til 7!!!! He took 2 hour naps all through the day, loved being held by everyone. He's the kind of baby I wish on all moms. Oh and we got to the hospital at 6:55 am and he was delivered at 7:30 am, yep half hour later. Everything with this guy was easy. He was 8 lbs 12 oz, so a pretty big baby. Our only daughter...cried unless being fed, all day long for 3 full months, she was just one of those babies.
Hi Kim, I mentioned this is an earlier video, I was always told by the doctor not to eat chocolate in the first 6 months of babies life as that can cause them to spit up more. Also any kind of veggie from the cabbage family (cauliflower, sprouts, cabbage) can cause upset tummies and produce more spit ups.
It takes me about 2 years to loose the weight, bones to go back to normal and to feel slightly like me again too 😂 I know the feeling but I don’t mind. My body did an amazing thing and I’m in no rush to “snap back”
And sometimes the snap back needs help 😅 After my 3rd I had to go to pelvic floor therapy to help my hips and stomach muscles get back to their original spot 🤣
@@Fruitsandveggiesmama breath, relax and enjoy your family. Your body is doing what it’s built to and it created a whole human cell by cell 😀 women need to give themselves a break and be ok that our bodies will come back to “normal” or our “new normal” and that’s great either way. It takes time though. X
Kim you are a gem, one of a kind. I love you so much I feel like we can all relate to you. You and Alex are fantastic parents. I could listen to you all day, you make me laugh and make me cry a good cry .i would love to have you for a neighbor.
Kim I think you're doing an amazing job. I wish I had your energy. I'm a mom to 4 grown kids and a granny to 3 beautiful grand daughters. I'm 55 now I don't feel it even tho I have a lung disease that keeps me on oxygen 24/7. Any how I just wanted to pass a piece of advice. Enjoy your kids. Every age. Sometimes you get so caught up in raising them you forget to enjoy them. Watch them play, get in the floor and play with them. I realize that I didn't do that and I miss them being younger. Except that tween phase. Boy oh boy are they lucky I didn't run away from home. Thank you Kim for being real and being my "friend" when I need one. You are one of a kind!
I am three weeks postpartum! It’s nice to hear from someone who is in the same boat! Thanks for sharing your experience, it is lovely and very helpful❤❤❤
Kim I just loved this. Even though I am about 25 years past newborn/postpartum I still enjoyed this. My girls are 22 months apart. They are 25 and 26 right now. The best thing my Mama told me is “It won’t last forever”. She was so right. Man I miss her so much. Those long hard days with diapers and bottles and sickness. (My husband worked nights back then)They were long hard days. But they did not last forever. Those were good old days and we have a good new day each time the sun comes up. You and Alex are doing a great job!!!❤ Ps. I wonder if they make one of those Boppie Wraps for a 26 year old. They still snuggle up to Mama and I still love every second of it 💕💕
I have watched your videos for several years and loved watching your videos during our night feeds. Our son was born just a few days before Meredith and he falls asleep to the sound of your voice 🤣 today my son isn't feeling well and once again fell asleep to the sound of your voice. Thanks for being our baby whisperer Kim!
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My youngest is 11 and I still cry thinking about the feeling I had knowing she was my last. It truly is a grieving of a stage of life. Kim you are so relatable, genuine and real. You are helping so many women and families by just being you.
True. Postpartum depression is very common among women, especially the very first time ❤it’s so wonderful for women to support each other this way! Beautifully relatable to. Definitely.
I thought my 3rd son was going to be my last, but we had #4 at the age of 37 (12 year age gap between 3 and 4) and now expecting #5 at age 39!
My 4th baby is my last ❤️ she just turned 3 November 7th .I have struggled and been back and fourth wanting a 5th. but my hubby just wants to be done enjoy them ..and have us time but it's so hard. 😫 my heart breaks knowing that times over but at the same time excited to move forward..they grow up so fast. my oldest will be 9 in February then my second turned 6 in July my third will be 5 in January and like said my 4th just turned 3 😁
First of all, people say you look great because you do. It's not about the size of your clothes or how much concealer you wear...it's that glow of meeting your newest love, of loving selflessly. I don't know who needs to hear it, but all new moms look great!
I've had lots of babies, and my last turns 4 this year. Watching this video is bittersweet. I'm so glad I did though, because I can relate to so much and I'm nodding along with a friend. I love how often you say every mom and every baby is different. Learning how to take cues from this new human instead of following a book was the most important thing I learned how to do.
I love this! I’m 61, and if I lived close, I’d bring meals, do laundry, play with the older kids, and whatever else I could do to help. This video reminds me that even tho I do not live near you, I live near plenty of other new mamas who would appreciate kindness. Thanks to you, I’ve reached out to some that I think may need a bit extra help. Also, big question on my mind….how is the DISCO van coming along? Would love an update!
You have 5 children including a newborn... the fact that you are able to string more than two sentences together is Ahhmazing right now! We are all so so so so impressed by everything you say and do Kim. I hope you feel the love we are all sending!
One thing I realized with my first was that during pregnancy everyone is so focused on how you're doing and feeling and they want to know about you. Once the baby's here they literally only ask about the baby, unless it's a mom asking because they understand, of course. That was so hard to adjust to. Love your energy and real life in your videos! ❤️
That is so true. I’m going thru that right now and it’s so frustrating that my MIL does that. It’s like I’m chop liver 😅😢 I mean I get it the baby is truly the star of the show but us moms are really going thru it and need support.
I started watching you about 1 1/2 yrs ago. I'm a retired 64 yr old guy who enjoys cooking. Divorced, never had kids. Kind of adopted my neighbors girls as family. Watched them grow up. Now they are having kids. I'm trying to get them to watch you. Not my expertise, but I think you could be helpful to them. Thank you for what you do.
We like the "unorganized" videos. And I listened every single word and enjoyed it! Thank you, Kim !! I have 2 kids and today I will find out the gender of my third one!! So excited !!
This! 🙌🏻
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People say you’re beautiful and look great because they know how hard the newborn phase is and how much you’ve gone through. They want to encourage you and help you feel amazing even though you’ve been spit up on, gotten no sleep, and have done nothing more than feed the baby and change diapers. ❤️ Life is a miracle and also so much work. I think women often feel like their failing even though they’ve accomplished so much. You’ve been an encouragement to so many. Let them attempt to encourage and compliment you ❤️
Even though I was never able to have children, I love listening and learning from you Kim. Your videos really do bring so much joy to my days. Thank you for all you share with us. 💜💜💜
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Same for me.
Same for me too!❤😊
Me also ❤
Hardest thing for me was “turning the page “ after my last child. I even grieved when my kids said they were done❤🥲
Happy Thursday Wads family & friends. Isn't our Kim a breath of fresh air? Always bringing happy and sending love our way. Stay blessed people and know you are loved! xoxo
Yes! Definitely one part of my morning I look forward to for sure 💜
@@SimplyEb3 Have a glorious day!
You to Aimee! ❤️ And yes she is
She is absolutely wonderful! ❤
I'm finding myself listening to old vlods of hers even during the night ❤️
I had no idea you had HG pregnancies! Mine keep getting worse. I have had 4 pregnancies with just 2 living children. My last pregnancy I was in the hospital every week for fluids until they ordered me a PICC line for home health because I couldn't keep meds or anything down orally. I need all IV for about a month. I lost 50lbs in less than 60 days. I was in multi organ failure, admitted twice for 5 nights, 6 days both times. Missed my man's birthday and 4th of July, watched fireworks from my hospital room. But luckily I made it and baby made it out alive. Somehow she ended up being 9lbs 2oz at 38+3. I was induced due to preeclampsia. I'm so glad you can manage it and you're an inspiration!
This was very helpful as a first time mom , I’m tired all the time and it’s only my first but the part that hit the most is where you said that the baby wants to be with you because they love you and that’s all they’ve known is to be close to you 💗💗
I'm done having babies (I'm 50) but now I get to enjoy grandbabies! I'm having the 2nd grand in February. I sent this to my daughter in law in hopes she gives herself grace and rest! I really hope she watches your video!
Kim I’ve always considered your long freezer meal videos my favorite, but I so loved this one!! You’re just the cutest thing when you are just talking about whatever pops into your thoughts! I chuckle every time. I’m waaaay out of my post partum days, but I’ll sure tell ya what, I wish I’d had a friend like you when I WAS in that season of my life!!! I had no one at all either and I was very young. I had zero clue what was going on. I still consider it a miracle that my daughter survived!!
Lol. Thank you for always being so sweet and so honest with sharing your feelings & thoughts. ❤ Those babies of yours are some lucky little people. 😊
My children are now adults and I was hesitant to even watch this video because it’s not relatable to me anymore. But Kim is my friend and I wanted to show support so I am watching the video. As her usual self… she is making this video easy to watch.😊
I was afraid to watch this because you look soo put together as a mom of 5 and I’m over here dying with 2. You were refreshingly relatable. Thanks for keeping it real!
I had the exact experience with my first child. I had him at 23. My husband is military so we aren't by anyone we know so I didn't have a support system. I had HORRIBLE postpartum anxiety and in my heart I knew I was going to die and my baby wouldn't be taken care of cause I was the only one that could take care of him. But thankfully I got into therapy and got stuff figured out so when it started happening with this one I was prepared and knew that it was normal. Bless you for talking about it.
I had my first at 23 and got postpartum anxiety badly as well. The crazy thing about it is that it's just our brain doing the right thing by focusing on potential dangers and wanting to protect the baby however it's on overdrive and feels terrible.
WOW I never did the math to realize you were only 23 when Avalina was born. I was barely capable of keeping myself alive at 23. Obviously we don't see behind the scenes, but from what's in your videos, I love how laid back you are with your kids. It seems like you have good expectations but encourage them in a loving way!
I had my son at 21! It’s definitely an interesting time, but you grow up so fast and it pays off later in life!
I was barely 17 when I had my first and was scared to death but still didn’t want a epidural I didn’t want any drugs in my babies system by the time I was 24 I had 2 more all natural and the second one was a frank breech birth butt first very painful they offered me pain meds but I refused even the epidural has a strong narcotic I’m it so that’s a big no for my babies
@@Wannasue09 lol I had an epidural it was great, literally the only reason I’d even consider having another baby is cause I didn’t feel the pain 😂😂 I think if I had , it be one and done
@@thelifeoft6798 I understand completely I’m not against an epidural I know everyone’s different and now that I’m a grandmother I’m actually glad 2 of my daughters had one and one had to have a C-section and no Mother wants to see her child in pain so I’m thankful they had that option
I'm due with my first baby in 9 days! Watching you go through your pregnancy/birth/post partum experience has been like watching a big sister go through it and then get to pass down all the good advice. Thank you for all you do in sharing and opening up so us newbies can benefit from your knowledge. Your family is so lovely and I really admire the grace with which you handle yourself and your style of parenting and hope I can emulate some of that in my own life.
I‘m due with my first in February. I really enjoyed Kim sharing the „explicit“ stuff like the literal birth and post partum. I feel most people don’t really talk about that unless it’s all sunshine and rainbows.
I had my first baby when I was 20 yrs old. She is now 33 and has 6 brothers and 5 sisters. Collectively, I was pregnant for 9 solid years. I loved it and hoped it would never end. But here I am in my 50's, my baby will soon be 12 and I still remember the smell, the warmth and the softness of baby's skin. I say, Embrace, capture and enjoy every moment you have with your children because they grow up so fast and soon be out on their own. Blessings to your sweet family and keep up the good work Kim. Your babies are beautiful and You are awesome!
Kim, you are a breath of fresh air! You put a smile on my face and make me giggle!
My mind is blown thinking of people talking crap about your house. As if you don't have a newborn and 4 other kiddos and just life. You are doing great and I love that you are so open and real. Be blessed today 😊
I did not know that. How sad. They truly do not know or follow Kim for sure. Kind hearted, best mom award 🏆
After my friend had her first I went over and offered to do her dishes and she thought that was so weird. A few months later she said ‘remember when you offered to do my dishes? I totally should have taken you up on that and I will if I ever have another one!’ Lol. How is Wolfgang so big!! He’s so sweet!
You are amazing Kim. Best mom ever!!!! He does look like he's 6 months old. He's long and big. He's so cute and looks like Alex. You have an amazing family as you know.
I have 5 too and without a doubt 0-1 was the HARDEST transition. For exactly the same reasons you mentioned. There is no preparing you for what happens when you become a mom. Our poor firstborn ha!
I just love you Kim! My husband and I decided many years ago that we didn't want children. I'm now 45 years old and had to have a hysterectmy in Feb. of this year because of ovarian cancer. But, still I love this vlog! It's so interesting to me and I know you are helping so many new moms and moms to be out there. Thank you for all of the information and as always the laughs!
Been watching Kim for awhile now and this is definitely the most rattled I've ever seen her after giving birth. Postpartum is hard sometimes, and that's okay. Remember that you can't take care of anyone else if you aren't taking care of yourself.
Kim don't worry about the spitting. In German we say "Speikind Gedeihkind" means "spitting child thriving child". It was so true with my second child. He grew as weed and spitt a lot (for month, until he ate solids).
I loved the quote you said about kids have a hard time, they give us a hard time! So true. Touched my heart.
I was 34 when I had my first child, after having a heart attack at age 28! I had no complications during pregnancy. My son who is now 17 is truly my miracle blessing!
I've heard so many times that zero to one is the hardest and yes, I knew nothing.. yes, it was hard but I got to sleep! I only had to worry about me and the baby. I had no other obligations. I could sleep when she slept, I could shower or eat whenever I could fit it it, etc. 2-3 was the hardest!! I had one in school, and one older toddler/prek (but not in preschool), and the newborn. You got it exactly right- you have laundry and cooking and cleaning and errands and school events.. I ended up back in the hospital because I did too much too soon.
One piece of advice I'd give new moms is DO NOT let anyone pressure you into having visitors at the hospital! Or even for the first week or two. It's a rough go at first and I've regretted each time letting visitors come to the hospital, come to my house the day I come home from the hospital, and almost every family member coming the first week we are home. You both need sleep to heal and time to work things out and form a bond.
Oh! Yes, food is a huge help or hindrance. I was so thankful for all the help with meals, snacks, and grocery shopping when I got it. When you have your first or second people are more likely to bring you meals or offer to help with different things but 3 (+) you're on your own.
Omgosh I vividly remember (18yrs and 4months ago), my Georgia was 3-4 months and STILL a cryer, especially if overstimulated. I remember having had a ling day visiting in laws- got home & husband’s friends stopped by to see the baby. I literally started crying when the guests were on the sofa and passing my baby around to their 10yr old son as my baby was crying & that mom just kept saying it was “ok! Babies cry!” And they wouldnt get the hint and LEAVE!!! I was NOT a people pleaser after that! I grabbed her and went to another room and just cried because i wanted everyone out of my house and i wanted family naptime!
You, my dear are a super mom!! Very inspiring! I felt the same way when I had my last child. He's 28 now! I also felt sad when menopause hit, but I do have to say it was nice not having Aunt Flo visit so often...lol
I love watching you and your family, and all the energy you have. Sending you lots of love!!
The newborn stage was the easiest for me. Teachings your child to be a decent human being is the hard part lol trying to teach them to learn to read and write has been the hardest for me.
My kids are all grown and graduated from college and I don't know why I even watched this, but I did and loved it. Kim, you are amazing and I am in awe of you. And as for babies or parenthood even the biggest thing I can say is "this too shall pass". The sleepless nights will pass, toddlers pushing boundaries will pass, tween stages will pass, ect ect. Nothing about parenthood is forver & always except for how much you love your kids. ♡
The last time I went through postpartum was 36 years ago, but I still remember it so well. I think you, sweet friend, are an amazing wife and mom! Remember to take care of YOU. Sending you a big hug!❤️❤️❤️
I don't want kids/can't have kids..yet I still watch all of these videos because Kim is just amazing and a fantastic mother too and just feels like a friend.
I had my one and only child when I was 23. My mother passed away when I was 19 and both grandmother's shortly afterward. So when I had my son, I was so lost and clueless about so much. This was before Google became the place to go for information. I literally told my son, I so wish I had your videos to watch before I had him because of the fantastic information you gave about labor and delivery. Now, this postpartum video as well explaining what happens after baby is here. You really do help more women than you know. I mean I was so clueless I had to get information from my husband's ex-motherinlaw 🤣🤣. Wish I could of had more children but I was only meant to have one. Thank you for sharing so much, you are doing great! ❤️
I agree. My sons are 45 and 49. The only book back then was Dr. Spock's baby book which actually helped me with my first born...just reading that something he was doing was normal for that age. So having YT and mothers talking about pregnancy and post partum has to be so comforting for them. And Kim does it in such a fun and whacky way to make young Moms feel everything will be just fine 💜💙💚💛🧡
@@cathleenweaver6483 yes! It's all so scary and overwhelming. Kim definitely has a way of explaining everything that puts your mind at ease. I also so appreciate that she even goes as far to talk about how your body will be after birth and talking about the products you will want/need to help you feel better afterwards. She isn't afraid of saying too much, which I love. If I could only turn back time to have Kim with me as I was becoming a first time mom, it would have made so many things easier. She's incredible.
@@bridgetwallace9892 Wow you said it!!!! Having support is so valuable especially someone who makes you laugh like Kim💜💙💚💛🧡
♥️❤️♥️oh yes my mom passed before I was married and my hubby was in the Navy and we had no family this video is wonderful
@@elizabethblanch5871 Isn't it amazing how Kim can touch all different women of all different ages? I think she would make a wonderful midwife. She would be so helpful to all Moms 💜💙💚💛🧡
I think it’s so sad how you are always entertaining and surrounded by people, yet no one offers you help. I would be cutting people out of my life left and right.
Also that Oprah video saved my sanity after I gave birth to my twins. I randomly remembered seeing that interview years and years previously and I searched for it and studied it. It SAVED my sanity and helped me help my children. Amazing.
Also - you are looking good Mama, and Wolfgang is wonderful. But I wish you had true friends and family around you. You deserve it. Love from Iceland.
Am I ever going to have a baby? No. BUT, do I love Kim?? YES! You are amazing. Sending love from England! xxxxxx
Same.
I’m 6 weeks postpartum. Thank you so much for this video. Your perspective and positivity is refreshing
Oh Kimberly! We can only imagine how many women you are helping when you talk about the realities. Of course it is amazing and a miracle, but it is also messy, painful, exhausting ,rewarding, idolating, scary... Wolfgang is adorable and I wish you and your entire family continued health and happiness. Always enjoy watching the channel.
My last baby is 5 now. All of the baby phases are everything you said. It’s SO good, hard, overwhelming and wonderful. Nothing like it.
Great video. ❤️
I think your honesty is so great! As a Mom who has a 16 year-old daughter who is talking about which college she wants to go to (GULP!), I can attest to how all the feels about how fast it goes!!😢 I sometimes wish I could go back and relive those baby days. It’s such a special time you never get back. Enjoy every minute and never apologize!!😊
Yes!!! I miss it so much!!
Hi Kim. I watch your videos each time you post a new one. I used to be a busy Mom (like you) - now mine are grown.
There's good days, and not so good days - yet it's all this incredibly wonderful blessing. Being parents is our greatest role in life. You are a pro !!
You may not realize this, but what you & Alex are doing each day, is you are teaching your kids to be wonderful parents just like you. When they have babies, you'll witness them nurturing and providing the best care of them. You taught them that. It's the greatest of life's rewards yet to come.
And, so many more babies to hold.
Keep doing EXACTLY what you're doing.
Lots of love, Nancy
I had five; they are 31, 30, 28, 22 and 19 now. They are all amazing humans and we have a close family. Looking back now though, I wish I had spent more individual time with each one. We did our best and devoted ourselves to them but did not concentrate on the individuals. Just wish I had done it! You are very wise to see the importance in that.
I'm 39 years old (will be 40 when baby girl gets here, God willing) and 14 weeks pregnant! My youngest son turned 16 (Edited to add: years old not months old!) this last week. I'm totally starting over (we had NO baby supplies!) and with a girl this time...never had a girl before... I'm so excited. I thought that part of my life was over but I didn't want it to be! Just think... terrible two's will hit when my youngest is 18 years old! But that's okay. I'm loving it. I'm charishing it. I'm so very very grateful. If I could talk my husband into another after this, I would but I don't see that happening lol So (now that first trimester is over) I'm trying to enjoy every minute. Currently I'm waiting for the first kicks but not wishing them on too quickly because this is likely the last time I'll be impatient for first kicks! I wonder what the transition is going to be like for me now 🤔 will it be akin to first baby or will I jump right in like a pro? I guess I'll find out soon enough!
Even though I’m almost 75, and really don’t need the tips and tricks, I’m sure there are so many out there, that as a mama of 5 you will help, lots of knowledge in that pretty lil head of yours.
Kim, I love you, your just a doll, you make me laugh, and I’m also HAPPY,every time I watch you❤️
Kim, thank you so much for talking about the postpartum weight. You really DO look great (meaning you don’t look like you have extra weight on you!). But hearing you say you feel like it takes a year or two literally was freeing for me to hear. I’m 9 months postpartum and feel larger now than ever and every other woman at my church who recently had a baby looks like they shrunk back to normal so fast. Its been a REAL point of insecurity for me. Hearing you say this makes me feel normal and like maybe there isn’t something wrong with me! Thank you 🥲
My gran (mom's side) had 10 post-war era in Belgium EU; 10 is a lot. A lot a lot. My gran always thanked her big garden. They did not have much or a big house. The boys had a room, and the girls had a room, but the big garden actually saved her. It was her answer to everything? "Go play in the garden" (when they weren't in school or doing homework).
Thank you for sharing the real side of postpartum💜
I had 5 children also, started very young (16) and very old (40) for the last one although mine were spaced far apart 8yrs between 2&3 and 10 yrs between 3&4 when #5 arrived I was glad she was the last one 😆 and when the change of life happened I was super happy 😁. You are allowed to whatever feelings you experience and never apologize for them. I wish I had someone like you to have shared then what you do now.
You're the best friend Kim I didn't have.
My 3 were spaced as well. I was 22, 34 and 39 when I had mine. My daughter (12) is growing up with my grandbabies aged 9 and 3.
Kim, I wish every mother to be could hear this vlog. You tell it like it really is. Which is what every new mother needs to listen to. Learn to give yourself grace when fumbling through life with a new human that you are responsible for. 💕💕💕
You are SO INCREDIBLY RIGHT when you say 0 to 1 is the most WILD, most difficult transition. Holy cow. I just have no words except I wish I could go back and hug myself in those first several months. I look back and KNOW that I'm a freaking superhero for getting through that time.
Great talk. I’m currently 38 weeks with #9. I’m glad your talking about the pp/recovery phase. For me, this is harder than the birth! I’m going to try the Frida mom pp kit. My last birth, the hospital provided only mesh underwear & pads. No squirt bottles, witch hazel wipes, cooling pads, sprays, nothing. I remember having to wipe at the hospital. Horrible!!! I’m going to spoil myself this time.
Thank you for sharing your wonderful thoughts so off the cuff and honestly. So many of these topics aren't spoken to as they should. Even explaining to people how I would rather just exclusively breastfeed goes around and around. Pumping is 100% a pain! Love hearing your story and I think you're gonna help so many first time moms
Kim you are so lovely, friendly and helpful. This video will help many new mothers.
Am I allowed to say that Wolfgang is absolutely gorgeous. I would listen to him gurgling and talking for hours.
I think he looks just like his daddy.
"you're my best friend" 🎶 (Queen)
Indeed I always look up for a new video.
I've been following before you had Meredith. you've been present in tough times and somehow help me through it it. I've always been glad for this "friendship"
I was the lady that was like "$12 for a peri bottle?" So I justified it this time by telling myself I need a bottle for each bathroom. Oh. My. Gosh. It's like night and day - worth every penny!
The newest update I got Tuesday afternoon!! I do need surgery to fix the fistula apparently it might be just one. I have to have a colonoscopy before surgery. The surgery will be done a couple days after the colonoscopy. I do not health insurance so all these bills will have to be covered by my hubby and I. Please continue to pray for us.
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@@allanaburton650 thank you Allana. I'm nervous. This is my first major surgery.
Will continue to pray. May the Lord put a hedge protection around you and everyone involved🙏
@@FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts thank you Faithy. Hope you and Otis are doing well this lovely morning.
Your people are here for and I as well as others wish all of the best blessings God can send to you & Tony!❤
As much of an engaged and wonderful mother (parents) you are I’m shocked with both of your large families there is no one to come help you. I was so lucky to have that with my kids and it makes me sad no one ever stepped up to help you. ❤
Omg I had to giggle when you said they should be there for you it sounded like Wolfgang said yeah as if he agreed, he’s so adorable I love you and your amazing family what an amazing friend xxxxxxx
It’s so strange to think that I got married at 23 and I’m now 35 and most likely will never give birth to a child. I watch your videos and I’m just amazed at all your skills at being a great mom and adult! There are days when I feel mentally more like 19 then 35. You are amazing!
What you said at the end of the video is totally me. I literally have had TH-cam glued to me since I had my first child. I have a 3 and almost 2 year old, and TH-cam, content creators such as yourself, all make a huge difference in the lives of those who feel alone so I appreciate you and your videos! Thank you!
You have done amazing through it all. You now have a precious baby boy. Your a great mom.
I would love to see the houses of the people who call you out on ANYTHING. Man you are for sure a super hero and I am glad my husband doesn’t watch every video because his expectations vs reality would be a real hard hit.
That's what's so loveable about you. YOU ARE REAL and that's what women can relate to. These perfect mom videos are hard to live up to. My 1st baby book was Dr. Spock he said have wine while pregnant to relax, buy Brandy for the baby's gums for teething and drink the rest. Boy have things changed!!
He’s growing soooo fast!!! He’s so beautiful just like mommy!
You are positive and amazing! Please don’t let the haters get to you. I’m shocked at what some people feel they can say. Thanks for sharing.
Found the book Kim! It's called Secrets of the Baby Whisperer by Tracey Hogg ♥️ reading parenting books helped me feel sane during my postpartum. My son is 17 months now. I remember watching so many of your videos while pregnant and exhausted lol
Thank you! I came to the comments to see if anyone had found the book! I can’t wait to read it! 💛
I have four kids and completely agree that the first is the hardest transition. Your entire lifestyle and schedule has to change, your priorities shift and absolutely everything is new which takes an enormous amount of mental energy. All the emotions and hormones are new. I was 20 and was also just learning how to be an adult. I wouldn’t change a thing though. Most magical, rewarding, and fulfilling experience.
I can’t believe your newborn is so large and in charge 😂 he’s so beautiful! Loved this video xo
I’ve always wanted to help new Moms as a Mom’s helper to take care of Mom & baby.
I just turned 28 and I hope to be a mom one day. I’ve learned so much from your content ❤ thank you
Kim I have that exact sweater. Let’s plan to wear them the same day like we did with our besties back in the 80’s
Thank you 🙏🏻 I’m 2 months PP with baby number two- still feeling lost. 0 help from people who say well it’s they’re second they “have” everything they need already but noooo we need help! Not things. It’s overwhelming and exhausting- and Im totally touched out and man trying to explain that to even a loving and supporting dad is so hard.
Moms are incredible superhero’s that Carry Soooo much on their plates that is mindless- the world would fall apart without us and it’s hard to feel blessed somedays but looking at it as “I get to have these children” is a great way to put things in perspective.
Love watching all your videos but especially in this time the realness of motherhood hits home for me ❤️ you’re doing an unbelievable job and your family is beautiful.
I definitely understand all the emotions with the last baby. We are expecting our last baby (similar reasons: having enough time for our kids), and first girl. I was surprised and excited to be experiencing a little girl, but was a lot more emotional than I thought putting giving away all the little boy clothes. So many firsts and lasts with this baby. Everything is so precious and wonderful, but also so sad and emotional at the same time! Add in the hormones and I don't know how we function at all. 😂 Enjoy this time. Such an amazing, crazy stage of life!
I think you are such a wonderful mom! Yes, your children should come before housework! The house can wait!
I’m not a parent, and I just love your videos. I watched the entire video and know for sure that I will bring or send food to family and friends with newborns!!
I love how honest you are about your first and how hard it was and how you had anxiety, everything you said about your struggles with your first I resonate with and felt 100% the person who helped me get through that time was you. I remember finding your channel and I looked up (still do) to you so much and thought you were such a supermom you seriously inspired and helped me so much just figure out motherhood and this next part of my life and I remember thinking there’s no way you ever felt/struggled the way I did. Anyways I’m so happy you and your TH-cam channel exists! ❤
Hi, 50 year old mother of five here and stepmother to three additional kiddos. I also have four grandchildren. I love your channel and I really wish you were around when I was younger. My fifth child spit up a lot and was really fussy. At first they told me it was colic which is just a catchall phrase as I'm sure you know. It was discovered when he was about six weeks old that he had a relaxed sphincter at the top of his stomach and it was allowing his food and acid to come back up. They put him on baby Zantac or something like that and it made a world of difference. He'd still spit up quite a bit here and there but at least he wasn't suffering with heartburn. Hoping this information might help you out. I breast-fed him till he was two years old and I don't regret it at all. I probably would've gone longer but he weaned himself. I actually cried when he weaned himself. You are amazing so keep doing what you doing taking care of all of those amazing children and yourself and your husband. And I love almost all of your videos and I have used many of your recipes. I wish I could live close to you I would come and hold the baby while you showered and I would cook for you because I love cooking for people… Bye!!
Omg😂. You crack me up! Funny how having babies doesn’t change all that much from generation to generation. I had 4 in 5 years, back in the 80’s. I’m 63. Just spent the day with 2 grands, ages 2.5 & 8 months. I made the families dinner, folded laundry, cleaned up the house, took the kids on a long walk, had a dance party with the 2.5 yr old and I’m exhausted! My 4th and youngest daughter is due with her 4th (our 14th grand) next month. She is planning on doing the 5-5-5 recovery. I’m like wth is that?! Well, it’s 5 days in bed, 5 days on the bed, and 5 days near the bed 😳. Guess who she thinks her nurse is going to be. Yep! Me. Cause no one takes care of you & your babies like your mom does🥰. You’re so right to enjoy the time with your baby, especially your last. Someday you’ll miss it.
Preach it 🙌🏼 on visitors after baby! I finally put my foot down with baby 3. I refused to let anyone besides our parents come by until I was 2 weeks postpartum. It was an issue with people but I didn't care, it helped me. If I lived near you, I would have fed you and folded your laundry! Postpartum is hard
Great advice! Up until the part when Wolfgang was infront of the camera. Lol I just found myself staring at him (smiling ear to ear) and vaguely listening to you. Lol. He is beautiful. All your kids are beautiful. ❤ this family.
I had my 3rd and last baby a month ago. This time around I wanted to go all natural this time and I ended up watching your labor and delivery vlog just a week before I had my baby. I’m not going to lie, I was a bit scared. Lol. You were a rockstar and I thought “there’s no way I’m strong enough to do that”. So I just prayed that I would have the strength to have a quick and natural birth. Turns out, I did have just that, at home, unexpectedly! I woke up a little after 4am with contractions already 2.5 minutes apart. Started getting the bags ready, and by 5 I had to wake up my husband to finish off cause the contractions were intense and I wanted to focus on breathing. By 5:30 we called our parents to come get the kids. And by 6 my baby was born in the bathroom! God heard my prayers and gave me what I wanted! Lol.
I'm sorry your local friends and family haven't been making you breakfast and brownies, that really would've been nice!
Appreciate you being real, as always!
Kim, you are an awesome person as well as an awesome Mom. I'm a great grandmother and I enjoy every minute of your videos. It is so great that you share your experiences and knowledge to help others as they experience or are about to experience these same situations. I'm the mother of 3, grandmother of 5 and great grandmother of 3. I hope you can believe me when I tell you what a great job you are doing as a mother. It is important and it is difficult but the rewards are beyond words. Thanks for sharing with us.
Our 4th and last baby was so easy going, Non of us can remember him ever crying. The first night home from the hospital, I changed him, fed him and put him to sleep at 10...he slept straight through til 7!!!! He took 2 hour naps all through the day, loved being held by everyone. He's the kind of baby I wish on all moms. Oh and we got to the hospital at 6:55 am and he was delivered at 7:30 am, yep half hour later. Everything with this guy was easy. He was 8 lbs 12 oz, so a pretty big baby. Our only daughter...cried unless being fed, all day long for 3 full months, she was just one of those babies.
Hi Kim, I mentioned this is an earlier video, I was always told by the doctor not to eat chocolate in the first 6 months of babies life as that can cause them to spit up more. Also any kind of veggie from the cabbage family (cauliflower, sprouts, cabbage) can cause upset tummies and produce more spit ups.
Ty as you are absolutely 💯 correct
It takes me about 2 years to loose the weight, bones to go back to normal and to feel slightly like me again too 😂 I know the feeling but I don’t mind. My body did an amazing thing and I’m in no rush to “snap back”
And sometimes the snap back needs help 😅 After my 3rd I had to go to pelvic floor therapy to help my hips and stomach muscles get back to their original spot 🤣
Took me 4 years to lose the baby & pregnancy weight of have 3 babies close together.
@@Fruitsandveggiesmama breath, relax and enjoy your family. Your body is doing what it’s built to and it created a whole human cell by cell 😀 women need to give themselves a break and be ok that our bodies will come back to “normal” or our “new normal” and that’s great either way. It takes time though. X
Just here to say that you're the best and I love the mother that you are ❤️ thanks for sharing!
Kim you are a gem, one of a kind. I love you so much I feel like we can all relate to you. You and Alex are fantastic parents. I could listen to you all day, you make me laugh and make me cry a good cry .i would love to have you for a neighbor.
Kim I think you're doing an amazing job. I wish I had your energy. I'm a mom to 4 grown kids and a granny to 3 beautiful grand daughters. I'm 55 now I don't feel it even tho I have a lung disease that keeps me on oxygen 24/7. Any how I just wanted to pass a piece of advice. Enjoy your kids. Every age. Sometimes you get so caught up in raising them you forget to enjoy them. Watch them play, get in the floor and play with them. I realize that I didn't do that and I miss them being younger. Except that tween phase. Boy oh boy are they lucky I didn't run away from home. Thank you Kim for being real and being my "friend" when I need one. You are one of a kind!
My youngest is almost 5. I have decided to get pregnant with my 3rd and final. This totally brought back all the feelings
This was definitely helpful. 💕 I'm 2 months pregnant with my second and it was lovely getting cozy with you and hearing your experience and advice.
I am three weeks postpartum! It’s nice to hear from someone who is in the same boat! Thanks for sharing your experience, it is lovely and very helpful❤❤❤
Kim I just loved this. Even though I am about 25 years past newborn/postpartum I still enjoyed this. My girls are 22 months apart. They are 25 and 26 right now. The best thing my Mama told me is “It won’t last forever”. She was so right. Man I miss her so much. Those long hard days with diapers and bottles and sickness. (My husband worked nights back then)They were long hard days. But they did not last forever. Those were good old days and we have a good new day each time the sun comes up.
You and Alex are doing a great job!!!❤
Ps. I wonder if they make one of those Boppie Wraps for a 26 year old. They still snuggle up to Mama and I still love every second of it 💕💕
Your looking radiant today Kim 🌷
I have watched your videos for several years and loved watching your videos during our night feeds. Our son was born just a few days before Meredith and he falls asleep to the sound of your voice 🤣 today my son isn't feeling well and once again fell asleep to the sound of your voice. Thanks for being our baby whisperer Kim!
Rouge is just French for red :) but it’s also referred to a cream or powder in makeup for lips or cheeks :)