Listen, fuck all of this “missed out” shit. So you missed out, alright then. You’re 20 now, as you’ve previously mentioned you are making good money for your age, you’re 6 feet tall, your face looks decent, and there’s nothing in your life glaringly terrible. I’m 19 and I’m in school, I won’t lie, I’m kind of a bum. I go to class, I do boxing, I make music, but other than that I spend a lot of time on bs, so I’d say I’m somewhat of a loser. I have a girlfriend, and we fuck with each other so much man. You have way better assets than me. I understand you think that no girls like you, but let’s be real you haven’t even looked. I heard you say in another video that you have asked one or two girls for their number before, which is basically zero. If you had even talked to as little as 20 females in the span of two years (not even romantically interested, just simply interacting and being friends), then I’d say maybe you could be complaining. But man you have a bunch of things going for you, you are the only thing holding yourself back. So what if you have strict criteria? Ok then maybe it will take a bit longer. But hey, you can start making some effort now or you can keep going as you are. You have the power brother, take control of your life❤️
I am 19 and have had rough experiences trying to date girls in high school. I would say we are in similar situations buts it’s not about what happened to you it’s about how you react. You reacted with “damn this is so fucked my life kinda sucks”. I reacted with “Ok, this is not going well for me but thats good. This is an opportunity to work full time and invest 100% of my money because I don’t have to spend it on a girl” I have been employed full-time since 16 and had 2 jobs over each summer. Your bad situation is my good situation. Good luck with everything brother
im 19 turning 20 soon still havent had a relationship with someone i'm just not wanting to involve myself in hook up culture I just feel so sad internally so I probably won't have a chance atm with anyone. Honestly though you seem conventionally attractive and i'm sure you'll find your person I know now I wish I just loved myself I mean I spoke to someone online before but it was a mess and even then online just never works out.
I dunno like I also struggle with my appearance atm because of how someone made me insecure but yeah still untouched at least I hope I find an untouch man who i'm attracted to
@@TwinklePyx luckily for you there are a lot of untouched men out there and i’d say at least half are waiting for someone like you. As far as appearance there is always work that can be done but you can’t let it consume you, stay pure
@ I feel like atm I’m consumed with the way I look as the person I spoke to was toxic and ended up being a racist so I’ve been comparing myself to something I have no control over white girls keep feeling like I’m not good enough when that’s not true I just know there’s things I wanna fix physically in order for me to be satisfied with myself I just want to look good for the man I end up being with but it’s always going to be for myself as I’m not satisfied but really thank you I’m glad though you stood your ground about patience you seem to be at a good point in your life I defo aspire to do that then focus on a relationship once I’m happy with myself
i am 18, still virgin still does not date with girls, but that's ok, life is not about having a relationship life, its about fulfilling your purpose and goals that are unique to one another
I missed out too bro, shit didn’t happen till my junior and senior year of high school. But both were situation-ships, only really lasting about a week and an half . I played football and ran track so those kept me busy. I was 19 when I graduated, I’m 24 now and still haven’t had a real relationship. I shoot my shot sometimes but i always get rejected ( I should probably shoot my shot more often) all I do now is go to work, go to the gym, play some basketball here and there, or go skateboarding. I don’t go to clubs or bars I don’t find them interesting at all, if anything that’s where you’ll find the worst kind of women. Idk even know anyone tbh, I just chillin now
@@Shaun_J you are a lot like me, and yeah the clubs and bars have no women i’d be interested in. lots of people are also telling me to approach more often but cold approaching a woman based on looks is icky imo. I am also just chilling, working, gaming, and getting into crypto.
@@llamasixzero yeah I can relate a lot. I don’t cold approach either, I’ve tried a couple times and just ends the same. I think it’s better to find girls through friends, but so far that hasn’t worked for me either. I don’t really know anymore, ngl I hate seeing couples
Dude....i'm 35 and never been in a relationship. You think it's too late for YOU? Dude, you're nuts. Go live your life! That's an order! Haha. Seriously though, it's not about getting just any relationship under your belt (forgive the pun), it's about knowing yourself and finding someone who matches you. In my experience, the more you search the less you find. Work on yourself, figure out who you are and become an expert at being you.....and women will find that attractive. Chill out dude, work on yourself, and good things will come.
@@TwistedLullabies That's a funny way of saying it, haha. You mean did women show an interest in me? They did, but my self-confidence and self-respect was always so far down in the gutter that I couldn't do anything about it. I was also already addicted to porn, haha....so there was no incentive.
Yo dog just my two cents but I would say don't pass up a good girl just cuz she's been with someone else. You're still young as hell too I didn't have my first girlfriend until i was 21 and that lasted 3 years. And they were 3 beautiful years. I'm 25 now. Also opening your heart up to someone doesn't make you a "stupid person". I know it can feel like that when you open yourself up to someone and you get hurt, but I promise you the answer isn't to shut yourself down to the possibility of love again. Believe me I been thru it, I did shut myself down for a while and that only makes you feel more isolated and alone. It's ok to open your heart to people and accept that some of them are gonna hurt you. Some of them are gonna let you down. But some wont. Some people you'll make amazing connections with, you just gotta have a lil courage to do so. Anyways i might just be yappin but yea dog, girls will come.
Not sure if you do but tell them that you need time to get physical. Otherwise they think you try to hold them on the side… or you’re not really interested.
This video was on my home page i don’t usually get recommended with (unpopular content) except for music, so i guess the algorithm is working, anyhow i don’t think you’re feeling this way cuz of your own opinion but mostly cuz of society, tbh i really hate how we feel like we need to be like the others so that we feel “normal” or whatever, society standards are pretty random and low, it’s actually a good thing to have your own standards and go by your own rules, and frankly i think more people should be focusing on building themselves and their future instead of focusing on the search of the potential gf/bf cuz they’ll only find someone who would meet the low standards, which is not helping you grow better rather than just being stuck in circles trying to figure out who’s the one, i think we should focus more on who we want to become so then we actually get to meet someone who has worked as hard as we did and who’s naturally fitting into our requirements, other than that is really just a waste of time and energy, yeah u could be having fun and learning new stuff but at the end there’s a lot of pain to deal with since they are not the one (we’re just not there yet) so let’s just make the best of our lives and get prepared to build a solid foundation that will absolutely provide a fulfilling future, rather they meet you there or not.
I’m also 20, never been in a relationship but imo I never rly felt like I was missing out or even wanting to be in a relationship in high school or even now. maybe it’s cuz my friends never rly had boyfriends or partners in general either and we just had each other. I never went looking for someone to talk to and engage with just to do it for the purpose of wanting to start a romantic relationship. I always think it will just come naturally yk, like when u least expect it or when u just aren’t looking for it. also I have to say it but u look like the emo kid from Horton hears a who 😭
Dude I'm a 5'4 feet tall Méxican full Brown skin And I can't believe I had a better romantic and social life than YOU Something deeply wrong is happening in the U.S.
Your young you have plenty time ,you look like a young Mick Jagger I think you should just put yourself out there more, you can definitely get you a goodwoman.
Listen, fuck all of this “missed out” shit. So you missed out, alright then. You’re 20 now, as you’ve previously mentioned you are making good money for your age, you’re 6 feet tall, your face looks decent, and there’s nothing in your life glaringly terrible. I’m 19 and I’m in school, I won’t lie, I’m kind of a bum. I go to class, I do boxing, I make music, but other than that I spend a lot of time on bs, so I’d say I’m somewhat of a loser. I have a girlfriend, and we fuck with each other so much man. You have way better assets than me. I understand you think that no girls like you, but let’s be real you haven’t even looked. I heard you say in another video that you have asked one or two girls for their number before, which is basically zero. If you had even talked to as little as 20 females in the span of two years (not even romantically interested, just simply interacting and being friends), then I’d say maybe you could be complaining. But man you have a bunch of things going for you, you are the only thing holding yourself back. So what if you have strict criteria? Ok then maybe it will take a bit longer. But hey, you can start making some effort now or you can keep going as you are. You have the power brother, take control of your life❤️
I am 19 and have had rough experiences trying to date girls in high school. I would say we are in similar situations buts it’s not about what happened to you it’s about how you react. You reacted with “damn this is so fucked my life kinda sucks”. I reacted with “Ok, this is not going well for me but thats good. This is an opportunity to work full time and invest 100% of my money because I don’t have to spend it on a girl” I have been employed full-time since 16 and had 2 jobs over each summer. Your bad situation is my good situation. Good luck with everything brother
it'll all work out! you haven't missed out at all. all the time you've spent working on yourself will never go to waste but love comes and goes
@@lilbukr thank you i appreciate this 👆👆❤️
holy cope, missing out on teenage love fucks up your brain chemistry
im 19 turning 20 soon still havent had a relationship with someone i'm just not wanting to involve myself in hook up culture I just feel so sad internally so I probably won't have a chance atm with anyone. Honestly though you seem conventionally attractive and i'm sure you'll find your person I know now I wish I just loved myself I mean I spoke to someone online before but it was a mess and even then online just never works out.
I dunno like I also struggle with my appearance atm because of how someone made me insecure but yeah still untouched at least I hope I find an untouch man who i'm attracted to
@@TwinklePyx luckily for you there are a lot of untouched men out there and i’d say at least half are waiting for someone like you. As far as appearance there is always work that can be done but you can’t let it consume you, stay pure
@ I feel like atm I’m consumed with the way I look as the person I spoke to was toxic and ended up being a racist so I’ve been comparing myself to something I have no control over white girls keep feeling like I’m not good enough when that’s not true I just know there’s things I wanna fix physically in order for me to be satisfied with myself I just want to look good for the man I end up being with but it’s always going to be for myself as I’m not satisfied but really thank you I’m glad though you stood your ground about patience you seem to be at a good point in your life I defo aspire to do that then focus on a relationship once I’m happy with myself
keep in mind that i am not complaining about what im talking about, im sharing it for you guys. i have no reason to complain as i am doing very well.
i am 18, still virgin still does not date with girls, but that's ok, life is not about having a relationship life, its about fulfilling your purpose and goals that are unique to one another
Some preferences are good but don't let them close doors for your dating life.
@@garybregel1572 yes, i’m working on being more open
Bro you are 20 !!! The "love" that ppl experience in their 20s is exactly the same as the "teenage love" trust me bro. Live your life lol.
I missed out too bro, shit didn’t happen till my junior and senior year of high school. But both were situation-ships, only really lasting about a week and an half . I played football and ran track so those kept me busy. I was 19 when I graduated, I’m 24 now and still haven’t had a real relationship. I shoot my shot sometimes but i always get rejected ( I should probably shoot my shot more often) all I do now is go to work, go to the gym, play some basketball here and there, or go skateboarding. I don’t go to clubs or bars I don’t find them interesting at all, if anything that’s where you’ll find the worst kind of women. Idk even know anyone tbh, I just chillin now
@@Shaun_J you are a lot like me, and yeah the clubs and bars have no women i’d be interested in. lots of people are also telling me to approach more often but cold approaching a woman based on looks is icky imo. I am also just chilling, working, gaming, and getting into crypto.
@@llamasixzero yeah I can relate a lot. I don’t cold approach either, I’ve tried a couple times and just ends the same. I think it’s better to find girls through friends, but so far that hasn’t worked for me either. I don’t really know anymore, ngl I hate seeing couples
@ same bro
Dude....i'm 35 and never been in a relationship. You think it's too late for YOU? Dude, you're nuts. Go live your life! That's an order! Haha. Seriously though, it's not about getting just any relationship under your belt (forgive the pun), it's about knowing yourself and finding someone who matches you. In my experience, the more you search the less you find. Work on yourself, figure out who you are and become an expert at being you.....and women will find that attractive. Chill out dude, work on yourself, and good things will come.
Why haven't they come for you?
@@TwistedLullabies That's a funny way of saying it, haha. You mean did women show an interest in me? They did, but my self-confidence and self-respect was always so far down in the gutter that I couldn't do anything about it. I was also already addicted to porn, haha....so there was no incentive.
Yo dog just my two cents but I would say don't pass up a good girl just cuz she's been with someone else. You're still young as hell too I didn't have my first girlfriend until i was 21 and that lasted 3 years. And they were 3 beautiful years. I'm 25 now. Also opening your heart up to someone doesn't make you a "stupid person". I know it can feel like that when you open yourself up to someone and you get hurt, but I promise you the answer isn't to shut yourself down to the possibility of love again. Believe me I been thru it, I did shut myself down for a while and that only makes you feel more isolated and alone. It's ok to open your heart to people and accept that some of them are gonna hurt you. Some of them are gonna let you down. But some wont. Some people you'll make amazing connections with, you just gotta have a lil courage to do so. Anyways i might just be yappin but yea dog, girls will come.
they do not come dude that’s cap
what is meant for you, will happen and be meant for you.
You know, bro, wisdom comes at a hell of an hour-when youth is gone, the storm is over and the girls have gone home.
Not sure if you do but tell them that you need time to get physical. Otherwise they think you try to hold them on the side… or you’re not really interested.
This video was on my home page i don’t usually get recommended with (unpopular content) except for music, so i guess the algorithm is working, anyhow i don’t think you’re feeling this way cuz of your own opinion but mostly cuz of society, tbh i really hate how we feel like we need to be like the others so that we feel “normal” or whatever, society standards are pretty random and low, it’s actually a good thing to have your own standards and go by your own rules, and frankly i think more people should be focusing on building themselves and their future instead of focusing on the search of the potential gf/bf cuz they’ll only find someone who would meet the low standards, which is not helping you grow better rather than just being stuck in circles trying to figure out who’s the one, i think we should focus more on who we want to become so then we actually get to meet someone who has worked as hard as we did and who’s naturally fitting into our requirements, other than that is really just a waste of time and energy, yeah u could be having fun and learning new stuff but at the end there’s a lot of pain to deal with since they are not the one (we’re just not there yet) so let’s just make the best of our lives and get prepared to build a solid foundation that will absolutely provide a fulfilling future, rather they meet you there or not.
Hey, In the same position as you. Also 20, and in college. tbh, you're a perfectly good looking guy (but maybe experiment more with hairstyles?)
@@pratiksedhain1821 i look horrible with short hair, and thank you
I’m also 20, never been in a relationship but imo I never rly felt like I was missing out or even wanting to be in a relationship in high school or even now. maybe it’s cuz my friends never rly had boyfriends or partners in general either and we just had each other. I never went looking for someone to talk to and engage with just to do it for the purpose of wanting to start a romantic relationship. I always think it will just come naturally yk, like when u least expect it or when u just aren’t looking for it. also I have to say it but u look like the emo kid from Horton hears a who 😭
@@h4iliann thanks?? 😭
@@llamasixzero it’s a good thing don’t worry 😂😭
@ yeah i thought he was pretty cool and i honestly do look like him
@ see!! and bro saves whoville
Dude
I'm a 5'4 feet tall Méxican full Brown skin
And I can't believe I had a better romantic and social life than YOU
Something deeply wrong is happening in the U.S.
@@socramzetroc1535 100% bro its beautiful whenever i see a older mexican couple, they truly love each other.
Your young you have plenty time ,you look like a young Mick Jagger I think you should just put yourself out there more, you can definitely get you a goodwoman.
lmao im 23 still alone i just am done haha
Wow, you are beautiful
You didn't miss shi. Teenage? CP ain't it bro
Only gets worse
Its hell bro
@@rome5268 fr the best word to describe it.
@@llamasixzero "ignorance is bliss" :/
@ 100% true, i’ve never been the same person since 2021 and i wish i could feel happy like my old self again one day.
@@llamasixzero yeah man 27 I understand bro