You seem to be very hard on yourself, don't do that to yourself. you seem like a good kid, and disciplined, don't give up or do anything stupid like drugs or alcohol to cope with these things. You'll go far if you can just keep it together keep trying and stay healthy
@@cameronhopewell641 thank you, yeah i know i could be very hard on myself. the thing is that i want to be on the higher end of people as far as intelligence and functionality so im pushing myself until i feel like im there.
Hey homie. I want to throw in my 2cents and say that you're perfectly fine where you're at now. You don't need to be anything for anyone. There's a lot of nobility in realizing the value of being comfortable with yourself and only yourself. Having humility & treating others how you'd want to be treated is never a bad thing to follow. Love & kindness is what makes us human so don't ever hate yourself for making honest mistakes - learning is part of the process of living.
I don’t think that the lesson here is that you should “become valuable” and make yourself worthy, as you said in the video. I mean these are some noble goals and everyone should strive for them but what I took away from this story is that this girl was plain mean. Telling everyone about these incident is so so low
bro i find myself messing up yesterday dming the person i used to like when i know it'll never work out just deleted the message because I dont owe him anything to show that he mattered to me when i clearly dont for him it hurts because he used me and is probably talking to other girls anyways i just keep reminding myself I have specific morals that he would never have he's completely disgusting. I understand where your coming from though you can't control your past or remember everyone but you'll find the right girl i hate how without knowing a person there's always going to be a perception towards you and judgement regardless without knowing your point of view because of what other people said and the actions we never attended to make.
you actually are sweet as well I really think you will find someone soon I'm rooting for you because you are in a good place and mindset some men just don't deserve it please just keep that kind side of you especially as an attractive man I really don't see that as often with guys that are pretty and that
@@TwinklePyx Its funny because the men that don't deserve the attention and time of most women are given it. For some strange reason women love chasing the men that couldn't care less about them.
Bro it was a 2 year age gap. Overreaction on both ends, you and her. Literally just an awkward hiccup. But yeah if she seemed promiscuous based on her Instagram or whatever, best to steer clear.
i forgot to mention that i later found out that this girl graduated #1 in her class and i only graduated in about the top 20th percentile, mainly because i only took 2 advanced classes because it didn’t matter. i just felt bad about not being prestigious in my studies or really anything worth mentioning like she was and that i had no business in trying to talk to her.
As a 20 year old girl/woman myself, I think you are being way too hard on yourself. You shouldn't want to optimize yourself for the validation of a person you are not even dating yet. Also I wouldn't worry too much about you sending that DM to her and it going around that you texted a HS senior, you didn't know and it really doesn't matter. It might be talk for a week or so but those things become irrelevant super quick.
going to fall asleep to this because i got rejected by a guy i wanted it to work with so bad- i thought he was so hot. it was a whole on and off situation for 7 months. just wasted my time and ruined a lot of opportunities. i have a lot of regret. i have no one to talk to. i cant sleep in silence with my thoughts 🥲 bless you for sharing 🫡
So you dont want to be with her cuz she is in high school and you're in college? But then you are upset that she does not want anything to do with you and gets with another guy. Sounds like the highschool issue was not really the issue to begin with. Just keep trying, you cant get good if you dont practice, keep playing the game.
Learn from your mistakes, never get attached to some girl you dont even know. You could pull 10 different better ones, ur good looking. But you are terrible storyteller lmao.
The purest form of love is women towards their children and women to Chad but yeah, keep coping that women are soulless robots whom you gotta earn their love
@@Jinx504what an incel way of speaking, especially the usage of the word “chad” lol. Women love their partners too in a pure way, they dont have to be “chad” or some rich handsome man.
You seem to be very hard on yourself, don't do that to yourself. you seem like a good kid, and disciplined, don't give up or do anything stupid like drugs or alcohol to cope with these things. You'll go far if you can just keep it together keep trying and stay healthy
@@cameronhopewell641 thank you, yeah i know i could be very hard on myself. the thing is that i want to be on the higher end of people as far as intelligence and functionality so im pushing myself until i feel like im there.
I mean this respectfully and non-creepily when I say that you have a beautifully symmetrical face and awesome hair like legit you could be a model
@@SocksPropaganda thanks i appreciate it, i get that more than i expect 😭
Hey homie. I want to throw in my 2cents and say that you're perfectly fine where you're at now. You don't need to be anything for anyone. There's a lot of nobility in realizing the value of being comfortable with yourself and only yourself. Having humility & treating others how you'd want to be treated is never a bad thing to follow. Love & kindness is what makes us human so don't ever hate yourself for making honest mistakes - learning is part of the process of living.
Hey I’ve been watching your videos and I’ve decided to upload my experiences as well. Wish me luck on this brave new adventure!
@@trustymilkshake nice bro 🙏
I don’t think that the lesson here is that you should “become valuable” and make yourself worthy, as you said in the video. I mean these are some noble goals and everyone should strive for them but what I took away from this story is that this girl was plain mean. Telling everyone about these incident is so so low
*this
There are too many women out there to be upset over one. If you always think that you will be less nervous.
bro looks like gigachad Finn Wolfhard & still gets rejected... It's overrr for us bOis 👏
to be fair she is top tier when it comes to looks with a disingenuous personality.. not a good combo for me
@@llamasixzero honestly that's really kind of u for leaving her available for us bro 🙏 we appreciate it
not even hating but this guy is like a 6 at best, without long well kept hair carrying his facial structure he would be sub 5
@@matty956 coping, jawline and chin is good, not a gigachad but upper tier normie at minimum
@@sneed1208 time to check your eyes
Dude let me put my ice pack on before you mog me 😂
much love bro
bro i find myself messing up yesterday dming the person i used to like when i know it'll never work out just deleted the message because I dont owe him anything to show that he mattered to me when i clearly dont for him it hurts because he used me and is probably talking to other girls anyways i just keep reminding myself I have specific morals that he would never have he's completely disgusting. I understand where your coming from though you can't control your past or remember everyone but you'll find the right girl i hate how without knowing a person there's always going to be a perception towards you and judgement regardless without knowing your point of view because of what other people said and the actions we never attended to make.
you actually are sweet as well I really think you will find someone soon I'm rooting for you because you are in a good place and mindset some men just don't deserve it please just keep that kind side of you especially as an attractive man I really don't see that as often with guys that are pretty and that
@@TwinklePyxhahahaha yeah
Gal
"The mindset"
Hahahahahah
@@socramzetroc1535 im deadass not thinking straight when commenting cus i was so upset
@@TwinklePyx Its funny because the men that don't deserve the attention and time of most women are given it. For some strange reason women love chasing the men that couldn't care less about them.
Bro it was just one time. You can try again
@@elenagazalova8835 yeah i’m going to try again as soon as i find someone interesting out here
Just got to go to Work and work on my self an leave that bull shit alone cause they don't give af.
Bro it was a 2 year age gap. Overreaction on both ends, you and her. Literally just an awkward hiccup.
But yeah if she seemed promiscuous based on her Instagram or whatever, best to steer clear.
i forgot to mention that i later found out that this girl graduated #1 in her class and i only graduated in about the top 20th percentile, mainly because i only took 2 advanced classes because it didn’t matter. i just felt bad about not being prestigious in my studies or really anything worth mentioning like she was and that i had no business in trying to talk to her.
sorry about this random comment but i got something to say about ur video. instant is zeldaeoh
As a 20 year old girl/woman myself, I think you are being way too hard on yourself. You shouldn't want to optimize yourself for the validation of a person you are not even dating yet. Also I wouldn't worry too much about you sending that DM to her and it going around that you texted a HS senior, you didn't know and it really doesn't matter. It might be talk for a week or so but those things become irrelevant super quick.
@@olivia8338 yeah it did become irrelevant and i knew it did, at the time it sucked though.
going to fall asleep to this because i got rejected by a guy i wanted it to work with so bad- i thought he was so hot. it was a whole on and off situation for 7 months. just wasted my time and ruined a lot of opportunities. i have a lot of regret. i have no one to talk to. i cant sleep in silence with my thoughts 🥲 bless you for sharing 🫡
You win some you lose some its all the same
how many months on estrogen?
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So you dont want to be with her cuz she is in high school and you're in college? But then you are upset that she does not want anything to do with you and gets with another guy. Sounds like the highschool issue was not really the issue to begin with. Just keep trying, you cant get good if you dont practice, keep playing the game.
@@Nothere780 i’m not upset that she didn’t want anything to do with me, i was upset at the situation and ultimately regretted even approaching her.
Hey man, Im uglier than you and I can find someone. You have a value, you just need to go after people that can see that value
Inmolate
Learn from your mistakes, never get attached to some girl you dont even know. You could pull 10 different better ones, ur good looking. But you are terrible storyteller lmao.
Only thing wmn are attracted to his money and attention.
The purest form of love is women towards their children and women to Chad but yeah, keep coping that women are soulless robots whom you gotta earn their love
@@Jinx504what an incel way of speaking, especially the usage of the word “chad” lol. Women love their partners too in a pure way, they dont have to be “chad” or some rich handsome man.
@eiliyah5901 @eiliyah5901 well at least you agree with me on the women love part unlike the other incel who thinks women only like money and attention
@@Jinx504 Most have an OF, I'd say they follow the herd like robots.
@eiliyah5901 Until the man loses his job and they're on the street. Men would date a wmn who worked at McDonald's, the other way around never occurs.