"I just want to be alive long enough so my mom doesn't have to go through the pain of burying me." Honestly related with you with most of what you've said here, and especially that line. You're a good man and I hope the best for you.
I’m the same way, I’m an introvert and just can’t find anyone that I really vibe with. It just seems like most people I know are focused on completely different things
9:12-10:00 that was so sad to hear. :( You’re still so young so I hope you can change your mindset on that. Your life is incredibly precious, so you shouldn’t underestimate your worth; keep looking forward because I’m sure there are greater things coming your way. Anyways, thank you for documenting your thoughts with us. Keeping you in my prayers! Stay safe on the road. ❤
i definitely want to keep doing my best, and i appreciate your thoughts and prayers. my main goal in life is to have a beautiful family of my own so seeing myself be 30+years old and still single is a reality i don’t want, i have no intention to harm myself but i just want my life to turn out and id say 98% chance that it will i’m just in a tough position right now
@@llamasixzero I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through a tough time right now. Hopefully making these videos helps you release some of that stress. And you can always reach out to vent and talk! 2024 has been pretty difficult for a lot of us.
Man you're so close, I think if you put yourself out there more (only if you want to) you'll be pleasantly surprised! I'm formerly a quiet guy, but I changed this summer by going to the beach every day after exercising: I told myself I have to say hi to at least one girl on the beach every day. Not in a cringe pickup way, but just to see if we hit it off. Next thing I know, I'm swimming with this beautiful Brazilian girl and now we're dating. I literally walked up to her, asked how how she's doing, then said, "So what brings you to the beach?" and from there it was history. Literally all you have to do is say hi! Don't get me wrong, I got shot down at least 10 times over the course of a month before I met this girl, but you only have to succeed once. I had minimal dating experience, but I just invited her to places I normally go and she fit into my life effortlessly. I think the best thing you can do is approach the subject as "I want to see a different side of myself and the world around me" which helped me go from the logical gamer guy in his room to the fun-loving guy with a frisbee on the beach :)
@@connor43057 love that story man, it really only does take some getting out there. Thank you for sharing and i hope things continue to go beautifully for you and her ❤️
I find this really hard to believe. You are extremely attractive, 100 per cent my type and probably many others. You look like a model and I think this channel is about to blow up tbh. You express yourself so beautifully too.
Old lady advice here: find someone that's a lot like you and has the same interests. Opposites attract but better to have things in common. Fall in LIKE with someone, someone you enjoy talking to and can hang out with. The deep abiding love will come.
@@artysmotorsports yeah that’s me, i’m never lowering my standards because why go through all this work for someone who isn’t worth it, i’d rather be alone.
You’re young. Use that time to FOCUS on getting a skill or education that pays well and save that and invest. Youth will go by so fast and so many young men waste time chasing women and pleasure and have nothing to show for it at 40-60. Focus on that now and you’ll have so much optionality at 30-40 to find a quality mate. Dating will just result in wasted time and money and heart break.
No worries, i dont exist for women in my simulation. 29 y.o quiet guy here. I can go out even for 10h everywhere but if i dont have good skill communication im living ghost. I hope i wont live long.
i think im the only woman here lmao but jus have to say you are attractive n your introspectiveness is a beautiful quality. im the same,, but im sure you will find someone who is just right for u (wishh it were me)
@@existforeternity thank you, attractiveness is subjective lol but i knew i was always different from everyone else as far as my thoughts and psyche so im glad someone notices :)
@@llamasixzero yes,you are attractive in my eyes ! & It’s certainly a gift to be unique and have different perspectives on things than the rest :) I feel the same about feeling almost alienated
I can help you. Dude, it's not "urgent" to find someone. It's urgent to simply go on dates just to practice talking to women. Consider it like guitar lessons, take it one at a time. Women can feel when a guy doesnt have much experience dating, and its a turnoff to them, because it makes them wonder if there's a major issue. It's a biological safety mechanism for them to see if the "female hive" has approved of you in some way. You can have standards for dates but put marriage and gf out of your mind completely. Your job is to date and really figure out what qualities you need, and yes, to get your heart broken a few times. As far as looks, you have a great face (I'd say an 8.5), but your hair style takes away from it too much. Experiment with a shorter style, but long on top, and you'll see a difference in how women look at you in stores. Quality women dont want to wonder if you are unemployed and living in moms basement. Also, join a gym to raise your energy level and get sone muscle on. I'll subscribe to watch your progress.
women beeing attracted to males who had alot of experiences isnt anything biological, this myth needs to stop. how do you think it was back then? when religion ruled and both genders stayed virgins until marriage. the actual reason for beeing attracted to someone who was alot of options is called society/societal expectations and industrialization.
@cosemer9614 I didn't necessarily say "physical experience". (Though I guarantee that was happening in every society.) . I mean being socially calibrated talking to women. They can sense a "soft boy" from a mile away. Dating is crucial to building the skill of being taken seriously as a sexual/dating option for women, especially today.
@@GUITARTIME2024 trust me bro i look terrible with short hair and girls have only been interested in me when ive had it long 😂 other than that when it comes to actually talking to them and approaching i actually do pretty well because ive learned a lot from a handful of experiences, there’s just been nobody that is worth it for me to go and spend my time on.
@@GUITARTIME2024 it def did happen, not nearly as much though compared to today. a soft boy? lmao. i guess you couldnt think of any other word but man that says alot about how you categorize people and how society infected your mind. its actually the opposite, you perform better when you keep it in, wich is why athletes are prohibited to so sometimes for weeks. not beeing able to talk to women doesnt make you soft, just inexperienced. also, its not that difficult to talk to women, you can learn yeah but not everyone is as nervous as the internet may make it out to be, rather passive. these women dont want best friends anymore, looks are compensating and money is king. not that many women are attracted to social skills when it comes to dating wich in itself dating isnt happening as much as you think either. the approach is way more complex imo. dating and keeping a woman interrested while dating is just alot of social skills. its in your comment too, the word "social" i mean. its just going outside, talking to people and observing and youre already halfway there.
It’s normal for young men to chase women. You are under 25 with a college degree and you’re good looking with the head of hair you don’t have a woman that sounds like a you problem, bro respectfully.
go to the gym to increase testosterone, military haircut, grow a beard. During your gym progress, read into philosophy (Karl Jung, Nietzsche, Schopenhauer), religion (Christianity) and psychology (skip neuroscience). If you see a pretty girl, walk up and tell her that. The trick to everything is symbolism and aura, which in simple terms means looks and attitude. Keep in mind, good looks is directly correlated with attitude, just like body and mind. Good luck
"I just want to be alive long enough so my mom doesn't have to go through the pain of burying me." Honestly related with you with most of what you've said here, and especially that line. You're a good man and I hope the best for you.
@@rajmathew6220 same for you man, thank you
Those shy , quiet, down to earth girls are gonee🤦🏽♂️
I’m the same way, I’m an introvert and just can’t find anyone that I really vibe with. It just seems like most people I know are focused on completely different things
@@Johnnyappl3seed63 same bro, lots of people don’t get it
9:12-10:00 that was so sad to hear. :( You’re still so young so I hope you can change your mindset on that. Your life is incredibly precious, so you shouldn’t underestimate your worth; keep looking forward because I’m sure there are greater things coming your way. Anyways, thank you for documenting your thoughts with us. Keeping you in my prayers! Stay safe on the road. ❤
i definitely want to keep doing my best, and i appreciate your thoughts and prayers. my main goal in life is to have a beautiful family of my own so seeing myself be 30+years old and still single is a reality i don’t want, i have no intention to harm myself but i just want my life to turn out and id say 98% chance that it will i’m just in a tough position right now
@@llamasixzero I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through a tough time right now. Hopefully making these videos helps you release some of that stress. And you can always reach out to vent and talk! 2024 has been pretty difficult for a lot of us.
Man you're so close, I think if you put yourself out there more (only if you want to) you'll be pleasantly surprised!
I'm formerly a quiet guy, but I changed this summer by going to the beach every day after exercising:
I told myself I have to say hi to at least one girl on the beach every day. Not in a cringe pickup way, but just to see if we hit it off.
Next thing I know, I'm swimming with this beautiful Brazilian girl and now we're dating. I literally walked up to her, asked how how she's doing, then said, "So what brings you to the beach?" and from there it was history.
Literally all you have to do is say hi!
Don't get me wrong, I got shot down at least 10 times over the course of a month before I met this girl, but you only have to succeed once.
I had minimal dating experience, but I just invited her to places I normally go and she fit into my life effortlessly. I think the best thing you can do is approach the subject as "I want to see a different side of myself and the world around me" which helped me go from the logical gamer guy in his room to the fun-loving guy with a frisbee on the beach :)
@@connor43057 love that story man, it really only does take some getting out there. Thank you for sharing and i hope things continue to go beautifully for you and her ❤️
I find this really hard to believe. You are extremely attractive, 100 per cent my type and probably many others. You look like a model and I think this channel is about to blow up tbh. You express yourself so beautifully too.
You’d be surprised with women’s standards these days
Make money and save money, enjoy life and your freedom!! Timmy C Arizona
Old lady advice here: find someone that's a lot like you and has the same interests. Opposites attract but better to have things in common.
Fall in LIKE with someone, someone you enjoy talking to and can hang out with. The deep abiding love will come.
@@wren3347 i love this, the problem is there is nobody that is even remotely similar to me
as a fellow boyfaliure, this is pretty relatable.
Don't lower your standards just because you get lonely. Most high value men are alone.
You can't have high standards until more experience is gained through actually dating.
@@artysmotorsports yeah that’s me, i’m never lowering my standards because why go through all this work for someone who isn’t worth it, i’d rather be alone.
when you get to 30 you have to sift between chicks that have had many relationships, kids, baggage. best time is when you're young imo.
@@casey-zd5mj yeah but the problem nowadays is that they already have too much baggage at age 20
@@llamasixzerofr
You’re young. Use that time to FOCUS on getting a skill or education that pays well and save that and invest.
Youth will go by so fast and so many young men waste time chasing women and pleasure and have nothing to show for it at 40-60. Focus on that now and you’ll have so much optionality at 30-40 to find a quality mate.
Dating will just result in wasted time and money and heart break.
@@BlahBlahPoop617 yeah you will never catch me chasing!!
No worries, i dont exist for women in my simulation. 29 y.o quiet guy here. I can go out even for 10h everywhere but if i dont have good skill communication im living ghost. I hope i wont live long.
@@newhusk don’t confine yourself in those circumstances, life could be worth living if you take some action.
i think im the only woman here lmao but jus have to say you are attractive n your introspectiveness is a beautiful quality. im the same,, but im sure you will find someone who is just right for u (wishh it were me)
@@existforeternity thank you, attractiveness is subjective lol but i knew i was always different from everyone else as far as my thoughts and psyche so im glad someone notices :)
Date him
@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 I wish
@@llamasixzero yes,you are attractive in my eyes ! & It’s certainly a gift to be unique and have different perspectives on things than the rest :) I feel the same about feeling almost alienated
Sent your own way
Brootal
Guy's way too good looking to be sent bro. You're delusional 🤣
I can help you. Dude, it's not "urgent" to find someone. It's urgent to simply go on dates just to practice talking to women. Consider it like guitar lessons, take it one at a time. Women can feel when a guy doesnt have much experience dating, and its a turnoff to them, because it makes them wonder if there's a major issue. It's a biological safety mechanism for them to see if the "female hive" has approved of you in some way. You can have standards for dates but put marriage and gf out of your mind completely. Your job is to date and really figure out what qualities you need, and yes, to get your heart broken a few times.
As far as looks, you have a great face (I'd say an 8.5), but your hair style takes away from it too much. Experiment with a shorter style, but long on top, and you'll see a difference in how women look at you in stores. Quality women dont want to wonder if you are unemployed and living in moms basement. Also, join a gym to raise your energy level and get sone muscle on. I'll subscribe to watch your progress.
women beeing attracted to males who had alot of experiences isnt anything biological, this myth needs to stop.
how do you think it was back then? when religion ruled and both genders stayed virgins until marriage.
the actual reason for beeing attracted to someone who was alot of options is called society/societal expectations and industrialization.
@cosemer9614 I didn't necessarily say "physical experience". (Though I guarantee that was happening in every society.) . I mean being socially calibrated talking to women. They can sense a "soft boy" from a mile away. Dating is crucial to building the skill of being taken seriously as a sexual/dating option for women, especially today.
@@GUITARTIME2024 trust me bro i look terrible with short hair and girls have only been interested in me when ive had it long 😂 other than that when it comes to actually talking to them and approaching i actually do pretty well because ive learned a lot from a handful of experiences, there’s just been nobody that is worth it for me to go and spend my time on.
@@GUITARTIME2024 it def did happen, not nearly as much though compared to today.
a soft boy? lmao. i guess you couldnt think of any other word but man that says alot about how you categorize people and how society infected your mind.
its actually the opposite, you perform better when you keep it in, wich is why athletes are prohibited to so sometimes for weeks.
not beeing able to talk to women doesnt make you soft, just inexperienced.
also, its not that difficult to talk to women, you can learn yeah but not everyone is as nervous as the internet may make it out to be, rather passive.
these women dont want best friends anymore, looks are compensating and money is king.
not that many women are attracted to social skills when it comes to dating wich in itself dating isnt happening as much as you think either.
the approach is way more complex imo. dating and keeping a woman interrested while dating is just alot of social skills. its in your comment too, the word "social" i mean. its just going outside, talking to people and observing and youre already halfway there.
It’s normal for young men to chase women. You are under 25 with a college degree and you’re good looking with the head of hair you don’t have a woman that sounds like a you problem, bro respectfully.
go to the gym to increase testosterone, military haircut, grow a beard.
During your gym progress, read into philosophy (Karl Jung, Nietzsche, Schopenhauer), religion (Christianity) and psychology (skip neuroscience).
If you see a pretty girl, walk up and tell her that.
The trick to everything is symbolism and aura, which in simple terms means looks and attitude.
Keep in mind, good looks is directly correlated with attitude, just like body and mind.
Good luck
Lmao no. Young women like young men with long hair and minimal facial hair.
@@Eirikr07 i agree
i feel like with shorter hair and a more masculine and scruffy appearance women my age are turned off and would see me as a creepy man
His hair looks good that way. That hairstyle suits him very well .
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