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Wife of the Party # 102 - Bert & Ila
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ม.ค. 2020
- Hey Guys! Today I sit down with my husband Bert and my Daughter Ila for an open and honest late-night family conversation about the different ways we all experience life, what Ila thinks adulthood will be like, anticipating high school, and much more!
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Right out of the gate I feel like I stumbled into an awkward internal family argument that I had to slowly back out of the room from and pretend I didn't catch any of it.
Well done!
@Chris for Trump 2020 fuck trump. He lost. BLM. ACAB
@@mirahloste9477 really? You're going to be one of those?
@@jackadams3878 I am. It was uncomfortable.
Bert and Leeann: grown up conversation
Ila: [visible discomfort]
Saw that. Lol
Reminds me of home.
Loved watching her try (with some success) to sink into her chair.
I imagined ila as honey boo boo the way Bert talks about her
Lmfao
Can you even imagine the ymh fam podcast once their sons are a little older...
"Wanna meet your uncle, Robert Paul Champagne?"
@@asoiic uncle Sowoo
Uncle Terry
ZTH - dude that comment has me crying lmao
They'll never do that
Click immediately because I'm still laughing about Ila shooting dice at her Catholic school. 🤣🤣🤣
From someone who grew up in an alcoholic home with a lot of trauma, this video makes me so emotional just to watch what a normal healthy family looks like. I think it is so special that you can all openly talk about your feelings, I know Georgia and Ila will grow up to be amazing young women!
Bert needs Ila on all his podcasts just to tell him not to interrupt
This is an amazing episode. Seeing the REAL in other people's lives is the best thing.
LeeAnn is such a gem, love love her charm, wisdom and how wonderful she is to her family. They're a lucky bumch
Uhhhh... I was getting the impression that leeann is a closet psycho that hates her own family
What fucking podcast did you watch??!
@@isaacwanless3029 nah one has to take the handle, that’s her
This is marriage I’ve been with my wife since 19yrs old and now have two kids and our 40’s. I’m so lucky to have my best friend be the mother of my children. But... there are always issues and communication is key. Amazing podcast !!!
Leanne is so sensible and reasonable. Bert feels a little threatened by his one lack of self control. But LeAnn tries to cover for him to soften the blow of reality for him. That's true love!
I think it’s his insecurities as a person. Its what makes it comedians, comedians.
Dude, Bert loves his kids so so so much. He truly does operate on a different frequency. He is totally pushing love energy to his wife and more so his daughter. But there is static.
Bert and his family always put a smile on my face man funny and loving family.
Really?
I'm at 3:36 and I hear and see lotsa dysfunction.
Yeah. Too bad the husband is pretty racist though. And dying. And pretty fat also.
Don’t forget the rotting teeth.
@@DeKosta You forgot abject narcissim and Peter Pan syndrome. His spouse have three children, not two.
No wonder theyre the Bickersons.
But podcast worthy?
Me thinks not.
They put a smile on my face too!
“There are positives to that, where you rob a train in Russia” HAHAHA
He is the machine
I love this and wish my family had talks like this. I’m almost emotional. Actually I am. In a good sad way. But it reinforces how I want to raise my kids
Bert is a creative and there is a price for everything, "the price for creativity is that its hard to catalyze identity because you are interested in everything. one of the problems that creative people have is they have a hard time establishing identity and they have a hard time monetizing their creativity, its very difficult to be a creative and make money, you can make money for other people but you're dead by then so its not very helpful to you." -Jordan peterson
Omg i love the way you are both real and raw and human.. there is no Bert without LeAnn visa versa and thats the best to see yall work it out and talk to your kids honestly. Ayour podcasts have gotten me thru alot of depression and anxiety..thank god for yall
THANK YOU for leaving the discussion in and posting this. I have similar anxieties to/identify with Bert and hearing your side in these situations really really helps me with my social/family interactions.
I'm so greatful for all the Kerischer/Studio Jeans podcasts in one way or another. 💜
I love your honest reflection of normal family interaction. We to often get caught in the idea that life is full of a lot of perfection. This is love, this is what communication looks like. Sometimes it's not clean, most times it's not pretty, but at the end you witness the full circle, and can see clearly that you're all on the same page. Family.
This episode could represent a very original and potentially successful formula for future podcasts because of the authenticity of the window into family dynamics. Almost like sitting in on a family therapy session. I think people will really like and appreciate it.
I just clicked on random sections of this video several times and each time Bert was the one talking. lol
He ALWAYS talks. Drives me nuts some times when he does it on Something's Burning.
Sign of being a control freak and insecure. I have a son and a mother who are just like that
That's what makes bert who he is.
@@jordanrodriguez6412 This is the only reply that matters.
Well he doesn't listen to anything anyone else says, so in his mind if he isn't talking, nothing is happening
Ila going "Don't interupt, don't interupt!"
I felt that lmao. Our dad interjects all the time in family convo and we have to tell him to simmer down
Ila doesn't take no shit 😂
Omg, this was such a tense podcast. I loved finally seeing Ila and her personality "in person". It really seemed like Burt was super pissed or uncomfortable in the first 1/3rd of it but you did such a good job communicating and deescalating when it got uncomfortable.
Also, you seem like an exceptional mom and wife with how you communicate with Ila and Burt. You're doing such a phenomenal job
Bert*
I’m a fairly well emotionally balanced 25 year old dude from Tennessee and I’m crying out of jealousy. I’ve never had this kind of conversation with my mom or dad in my entire life. She’s gonna be a good person Bert. You done good.
Really thought provoking shit too.
Love your family and the way you work through things together. Teens are mini adults and deserve the respect and inclusion they are given in your family, thanks for letting us in and giving us a realistic and honest perspective of family life.
I was diagnosed with Aspergers at the age of 25. This includes an irrational craving for validation from people I don't really have a true connection to. How others saw me was more important then how I saw me. How they experienced my presence was more important then how I experienced it from my own position.
fartist123 greetings fellow Aspie, I’m right there with you.
Oh shit, I guess I’m talking to my doctor this week then haha
This sounds way too familiar
I have a strong feeling I have aspergers syndrome. 29 years old but its uncanny how I've been like what they say aspergers syndrome people are like.
Thanks for writing this I went and did some research and now at age 30 I’m gonna get some test done for me and my son who I suspect may also have autism
@@BA-os8th Aspergers is someone who has autistic tendonsies, not autism. The smount of similarities you have in common with autism determines where you fall on the spectrum of high functioning, or low functioning. Aspergers is usually so high functioning that it usually goes undiagnosed most peoples lives.
Bert and Leanne are dope af for sharing so much of Their life with us u da goat
Families interacting in a positive insightful sincere compassionate manner
Four minutes in and I'm back on heroin after 19 years sober
😂😂😂😂😂 That's fuckin gold. I could have easily relapsed on Dilaudid now that u mention opiates........
LOL
Lmfao
The whole time I was like... What?
Dont brag
This is hitting home so hard. She is such a varsity mom that she’s parenting me through a podcast. I’m looking for a job now and I feel like Bert. It feels so degrading even though I know I’m smart and I’m a hard worker and I’d be good at a lot of jobs.
I feel this 100%. I was in the exact same position getting super depressed not having a good job/living up to my own expectations. It's temporary, people will notice your real potential and worth I guarantee it. Stay up my friend, I wish you the best!
Hey Burt, I'm just like you in that I feel things very intensely, I'm empathetic to the people around me and it effects who I am. It's taken me a long time to learn how to use that to my advantage but it also still brings me down at some points too. I've had to learn that reality is the individual brain's perception of what's going on around it, it's ok for other people to think differently than me, and if their opinions are too intense for me it's ok for me to disengage and not continue with the topic of conversation and walk away with my opinion in tact.
I love your and LeeAnn's podcasts, thank you for doing them.
I love the way Bert and Leeanne interact with there children.
The most real and wholesome. Shout out to this family.
He was so pissed at the beginning of this lolol 😂
I got my period watching this podcast and I'm a 40ish man.
Bee Seagull bruh same 😆
If you're not into using your brain for once, maybe don't listen
You guys are kids that’s why you don’t get it. It’s a side of Bert we never see and his wife brings that to the table. Weekend fans gtfooh
Burnt needs so much counseling’s
No kidding, success is 100% luck to a degree where for him it's about 98% of the equation... He's the luckiest FOOL ever!
Family therapy session. I love it, and I love you guys. Glad you decided to release this episode. 💕
Oh wow, when you asked who you thought she'd grow up to be more like and Ila said "myself" I was so impressed! She's such an intelligent person, I'm sure she's going to grow up to be even more amazing and intelligent.
Oh my God!!!! This is wild. I’m dyslexic and I’m a scroller and a shopper if I’m not done I will continue with it. My brain goes off course if I’m having conversations with people A Lot. I get what Bert and Isla saying. My husband is totally like Leeann and Georgia. Thank You for this podcast today I needed it. Today is Sunday January 12.
That was a great..REAL LIFE. Podcast it's great to see the process of a healthy conversation even when it gets rocky. This proves when you listen truly we get a solution that can help each other understand we are all the same but different.
Good on you including your daughter in your podcast and sharing your personal life in your professional life. You 2 are good parents.
This is how families sould be able sit down and just talk things out & understanding each other instead of finger pointing. awesome to see!
It's insane how much Isla looks like LeeAnn but thinks like Berg. When LeAnn asked her what she thought the hardest part of being an adult is and she went into this whole thing about trying to hold down a job and paying bills but being alone at an apartment and having a seizure and nobody coming to help you so you lay there and suffer until you die... That's Bird's child right there!!
You know how podcasts can feel like you're listening in on a conversation, this one took that to the next level. It's cool they allow us to be a part of those conversations that normally never leave the family.
Always a big fan of bert's, budding fan of the rest of the family lol love all the insight to life and comedy you guys give. lmao the Dr. drew podcast/2bears1cave brought me here, I didnt know your wife even had a podcast! I feel like a stalker following all these podcasts of you guys Lee Ann lol.! Our better halves have unique insight on us and its rare to find someone, who's famous, with the humility and trust in his family to let them also engage with your fans and share more of your life. Bert, joe, tom and ari (mostly bert on this one though, just alittle more relatable ig) helped me lose weight and acknowledge my problems with alcohol aided sleep. Anyway just enthusiastic about seeing all of you do well and be happy, thanks for always trying to be genuine bert, leeann thankyou for any "course corrections" you've helped Bert make along the way to help shape who he is now. Im sure he cant imagine life without you guys, and vice versa. very inspiring family/work that you guys do for your fans etc.. lol
Amazing podcast! It was so nice to see a real convo! Also Ila calling Victim Bert out was amazing!! His reaction was healthy instead of getting confrontational like my father would have, even though it was obvious he was bothered by it! He wasn’t mad at her but didn’t luv that she saw right through him! I appreciate his honestly and realness!!! Every family should watch this!
Love how Ila thinks you guys are so over rated. your great parents! thanks for a good example of how to communicate with your kids and spouse.
This is probably one of my favorite podcast i've watched. It's just such an honest, open, real conversation between a family. I can see why this family is so successful, because you can't build Disney without multiple perspectives. I teach a FOUR LENSES class in the Air Force and this reminds me of my class. You guys should look at taking the test, I can send you it.
What is this test? Im genuinely curious and intrigued
This pod cast is the best ever! Real talk, real people, real life…this is what I could listen to and take something away from every episode…thank you and your family for being real people…
We arent built for moderation as a species. You have to exercise moderation to be healthy, some people find it easier to do than others. Youre not broken, you just have some work to do, be patient with yourselves. Kids need to be taught moderation and whats healthy, you guys are doing exactly what every other household is supposed to be doing....Including teaching your children how to voice their opinions or qualms intelligently and articulately by including them into the conversation when they are mature enough to learn.
The roles are reversed in my family, Im more the practical one, my wife is 100% the opposite (just like bert). It is a legit godsend as we cover each others asses without even knowing we did so. It took me every bit of a decade to realize that and come to terms with it.
You have a wonderful family and wish the best to you in 2020 and beyond.
I love Bert's heart...he may be a party animal but he has such an innocence about him that is so endearing!!!
Isla is a mini Leanne! She sounds just like her. Its adorable!
Judging by some of the stories Bert has told, Ila is more like a mini Doctor Doom!😂
Ila looks like LeAnn, but has berts brain. Georgia looks like Bert, but has leanns brain.
Has anyone else ever showed up at middle school after a weekend and been like...."yea, i was on a podcast watched by 70k people this weekend"
Halston just cracking up at Bert and Ila being the same person is the best part 😂😂😂
So happy to see that you have full conversations with your kids. my parents literally never had conversations with me when I was a kid and I'm so fucked up from it now. Cheers!
Anyone else get the impression, mostly because of the stories Bert and LeAnn tell, that Ila is going to grow up to be one of the best comedians in the world??
The test answers Bert reads on 'Hey Big Boy are among the funniest things I've ever heard in my life! I crack up laughing EVERY time I think about it.
I believe it. I think all the stories are about her are so fucking true 😂
Awe Ila is such a sweetie. This was such an awesome heartwarming thing to see. Wish i got to talk like this with my family.
You never have to worry about Bert wearing a wire for the FBI.
Gotem
As a deep feeler and a daddy's girl, I definitely could relate a lot of things that were discussed and saw myself in. Hopefully this was as cathartic for you guys as it was for me if not more. I've got an hour left to hear but I just wanted to make this comment first before I forget. 🤗
Great to see a family communicating which so many people have trouble with.
I'd like to see Leanne question her thought process a little more. She enters every argument with almost complete certainty and doesn't contemplate the alternative.
For example, Ila getting her learner's permit. It's a once in a life time event. Bert sees the fun side in going around the block, Leanne sees the responsible side.
If you're on your death bed, which memory are you more likely to remember?
Balance is important, so consider both when making your decision.
oh man, I would have loved to be in this podcast when bert started talking about 5th grade advice and Leanne starts trying to tell bert about adding value to statements, I feel like this may be the 1 thing she doesn't get about people with super intense feelings and growing up with those. How simple statements are judgements to people that feel like bert and I do, which is why pointing out negative behavior even in a kind, reserved, helpful loving manner is still a stab to our heart and self worth and can send us spiraling even when well intentioned AND we have encouraged you to do it, because you are in our inner circle of the 1-3 people we trust with everything. which sounds like BS because we also seem like we tell everybody everything, but in reality we tell everybody 90% which makes us seem really open and honest about who we are, and then our inner circle gets 95% which seems to you like everything but there is that extra 5% that NO ONE would ever get because it would destroy us. Hence slim fast crying in the shower (which btw there is like 15 layers to that not 5 like you think you know and 3 that the general public gets)
Don’t you think the fact that she said that and you felt the way you felt and voiced what you felt was therapeutically good for you? If somebody saying it to you makes you feel a certain way and you’re still able to have the self awareness to leave the comment that you did means it was something that was worth saying, and helpful in growing up and getting past/understanding these childhood traumas. And they are traumas. Sometimes you need to hear things that upset you enough times to articulate just how and why you feel something than holing it away
@@simplycy919 ok we are deep here, ya I totally get that but i still see a disconnect, while Leanna probably understands bert better than anyone ever will, and I'm sure he knows this, I was simply stating there is still that area where he shuts down like the high school advice part and then played it off with comedy. While everything is great and healthy, there is another level there where even deeper understanding could occur... and of course the only reason I saw it is because I'm my own mess and shade everything I see through my own pain and experiences, that is what we all do
I love your podcast. I'm a listener/watcher, but I don't comment often.
Love listening. It definitely puts me in a position where i can reflect on myself and how i interact with other ppl. I can definitely relate to all of this.
This is my family. Me as Bart, my wife as LeAnn and the girls as my boys. They owe me for telling the story of my family. Thanks fam for sharing this.
I feel things so intensely and I’ve never heard someone explain how my brain works before
Ila is talking about popularity. At home Georgia is big sister and at school she’s top dog and asserts her dominance cause everyone is watching
As a young girl I experienced many of the same sensory issues and thought patterns as Ila. At 18 I was diagnosed for aspbergers, Ila reminds me of my young aspie self :)
Real family dynamic over here. Probably hard to put personal things out for people to see but It’s actually very helpful for people out there with family who lacks communication the way you guys have. Great episode!
Idk if it says more about me, but the beginning didnt seem thay tense at all lol I would have thought that was pretty good energy for some of my family
There is saying about comedian that struck me the most. Comedians are the most serious people you will ever met in real life.
This was great Bert your in good hands your wife is a great psychologist for the family I salute you guys 👏
Your podcast has spoken to me so much! I am like Bert in the fashion that everything is so extreme to me... the worst thing for me is that not everyone understands my sense of view... my wife is understanding me more and more but it is hard at times... she is so strong and understanding... Bert, what advice would you give someone who feels as intense as you do, especially during hard times... I love the feeling of happiness, but when things are negative, it hits me hard!
the family episodes are always my favorite
I adore this family so much. Ila is my hero. I hope she is getting the most normal life possible for a teen and a dad as goofy as Bert. The genuine love this family has is so freaking wholesome.
Thank you for sharing your open and honest conversation! Open dialogue is priceless, especially with girls, so thank you for sharing! My most precious memories growing up are of asking my dad to tell me “true stories”☺️
I’m only a few minutes in to the podcast and I was thinking how nice your outfit looked and then you said Ila picked it out! 🤯
This was healing to watch. You guys are a great family.
This was sooo dope!!! These r the podcasts I look forward to...and I think you guys do it with your guest but when it's family it gets so much deeper n interesting!!! Fucking awesome!!
Subscribed today. Really love what your doing. Love the family vibe :) cheers from Italy 🇮🇹
Leann is so sweet😅 it takes some *PATIENCE* to deal with Bert 😂
last night i watched the sock sock shoe shoe sock shoe sock shoe video on instagram - im a sock sock shoe shoe person like most people LOL this morning im in my room im putting my socks and shoes on, all the sudden i look down and i have one foot completely dressed and the other completely naked - sock shoe sock shoe - LMBO you got in my head Ila and Bert - it gave me a great laugh and started out my Birthday (today) with a smile - Thanks guys, youre all the best and we love listening and watching
Interesting comment. And so true. A belated Happy Birthday salutation to you.
Keep On Keepin' On, Staying Strong!
_Peace&JahBless_
I was watching and then doing something else for a moment, while listening at the two minute mark- only to glance at the screen to see Ila burying herself in the couch.
This family talk is wonderful.
So endearing to watch the family be together. Smile. Good parenting :)
1:07:00 This reminds me of myself and really caring about what people think, like just wanting to be a face in the crowd and then her sister comes along and shines a big spotlight on her and is essentially like "look over here everyone". Almost like embarrassing or social anxiety if that makes sense
Someone mentioned in the comments that they thought Ila would be like Honey Boo Boo with the way that Bert talked about her. Burt does say some things about his daughter, jokingly but he isn't being serious. You can tell he loves both of his daughters very much. Ila is the antithesis of Honey Boo Boo. She's very smart. Burt and Ila are alot alike.
It's nice to see more of the family dynamic
I love how real this is like this is how families are.
This started out rough but turned very special. LeAnn is such a good woman.
I love when you have your kids on. It's really insightful.
A lot of these comments are very bizarre. (Not the 2bears1cave references, but others) Great podcast, Leanne :) Love your guys' dynamic
Something tells me Ila will be a actress in the future.
Yeah lots of people deliver dialogue containing 's' or 'ch' as 'xxxxx'. That girl sounds like walkie talkies interference.
This made me feel so happy and like I’m not alone because I have always felt so different because I have a very ADHD brain
I just love y’all so much. You are such real & present people. Happy New Year!
Such a great episode. Thank you!
LeeAnn honestly has the patience of Job 😅
Oh my ila is so much like her dad!!!!!!
One of your best podcasts, it would have been great if Georgia was there..I love Berts idea of a Sunday night podcast where everyone can listen to it at a later time, if only everyone could communicate like y'all did it was amazing ❤
25:00 good lord Ila is like me when I was a teenager. I have pretty bad ocd and anxiety and I would think up all these hypothetical scenarios of what would happen to me or people around me as an adult and I would spiral into depression and have panic attacks. I would think similar things about what if I need to go to the hospital and I can’t drive yet? What if my mom calls me but when I pick up it’s a police officer on the other end saying she died in a car accident. I used to think all kinds of crazy stuff like that. Now I’m 26 and I do drive and I have a job and stuff. But I just couldn’t fathom that at her age.
Omg and Bert mentioning Barns and Noble. So when I was looking for a job for the first time, I literally went to a mall and walked up and down and entered every store and spoke to every manager about working there. And the first store I went into was Barnes and Noble. I knew they were hiring and I said that I had already sent in my online application. And the manager was like, okay I’ll give you an interview right now! And I was HORRIFIED. I was so scared and I could just feel my face heat up. I think i did okay. But they never followed up with me. But it was so scary. But I survived.
Youngans note: No matter what, the key to relationships is being able to talk about it. You have to be able to talk about things, EVERYTHING else matters less. Read this again until you understand it.