There is strength in keeping a relationship together. But there is also strength in understanding when things don't work out and parting peacefully and honestly with someone you still care about.
crazy coming back to this 3 years later and they are back together im happy they were able to get over the differences and work everything out. just wanted to come back after they got back together and see the comments. so happy for them.
I reckon you should go back to L.A. for longer periods of time, you love it there and you stopped going there because you had priorities in the UK, do what makes you happy we will all miss Lydia dearly but we all love you too
Hearing you speak about Lydia so kindly and seeing the tears in your eyes just melted my heart. I wish you and Lydia the best. I'm sure you will find the right person once you are ready for it. But being ready I so important. Life's too short. Make the most of it ;)
As someone who is getting over a breakup from a long term relationship just know, it's part of life cherish the good memories you had together and look forward to creating more in the future with many more people
@@amrikgola8993 They broke up, tom broke it off because he wants the freedom of being single. Still loves her but admits to himself it doesnt work. Wants no hate towards lydia (goes without saying) and yeah thats about it
We can all see how emotional you are regarding Lydia but if it's for the best then good for not only you but also Lydia. Wish you both nothing but the best because your great people. Keep doing you bro! ❤
Saw this video pop up in my “For you” section.. honestly watching this is INSANE, you guys worked it all out and now have the beautiful little Jelly Man! You guys are the best and I love you!❤
Damn...I wasn’t expecting that buddy! You never know what happens behind close doors as they say. But chin up buddy and hopefully you guys stay close and remain friends!😌
Recently had to make the same decision in my 2 and a half year relationship due to not being happy and having different goals, but I still believe one day you and Lydia will end up back together as you are very well suited! wish you both all the best.
I find it truly amazing and inspiring how you never let these stressful and negative emotions bleed into the vlogs so we never saw, I’m glad this has come out all together I’m so glad for you Tom. Love you man
Tom you're definitely one of the most positive people I watch, you manage to turn any shit situation into some sort of positive outlook, so kudos to that mate!
Gutted about the news. It have only been through a screen, but getting to know Lydia over these past two years or so has been an absolute pleasure. Such a wonderful woman. The shenanigans you two got up to provided so many laughs. Wish her all the best and who knows, maybe we’ll bump into her if we’re ever in the sky ✈️
TOM’s Vlogs are like a Netflix series LOVE the wholesome content! And long videos! * Thank you for providing Tom! * Edit: sorry about you and Lydia hope she will still enjoy to be in the vlogs! We all love her!
Just shows how many things we don't see on camera. I was watching last week's vlog "Summer is here" yesterday and you two were so happy together and now a week later, this. Honestly I was surprised. I hope everything goes well for you and for Lydia, much love man. Keep your chin up
JoJo I’ve honestly felt as if Lydia has cheated on Tom.. it’s a strong accusation but I highly beleive it and I hate thinking that would have happened.
Jodofly115 it’s his job/lifestyle, she knew this before they were together. Why would he change for some else. It’s his own life and he can live it as he well damn wants. You see 15-30 minutes of a 24 hour day so you don’t know anything of what it’s like behind the vlog...
RuckZz You’re right, that’s exactly what I’m trying to say, we only see between 10-60 minutes of Tom’s day so that leaves so much time of unseen moments. Emotions are high for everyone right now and yes even though he explained everything, people will speculate.
Sometimes the hardest decisions are the right ones, both you and Lydia are wonderful people and both deserve an amazing future even if you're together or not.
This just popped into my feed and I can't believe how far you both have come from trying to find yourselves in the world to just having a baby together, so proud and happy for you both
I think it’s for the best. You want to travel the world and it would be so hard to maintain a relationship. You never know what’ll happen in the future so KEEP MOTIVATED AND LETS GET SHXT DONE!!!! ❤️
i always got chocked up every time i watch this, i can just see in his eyes that he really did love her. Don't worry Tom, if she is the one, she'll come back❤️
Thank you so much for explaining about breaking up with Lydia. I've been in a similar situation for a long time where I'm in a relationship I don't want to be in and this video might've given me courage to make the call. Luv u Tom stay strong and most importantly get sh*t done!
Damn bro. I’m sorry to hear that you two have split up. But at least you’ve been honest with her and your viewers. That’s the best way forward! I hope Lydia pursues a great career in being an air hostess, and Tom, I hope you carry on with the amazing daily vlogs😃
I remember watching this and feeling - nahhh, they’ll get back together. So glad my hunch was right! You guys fricken rock together and your little lad is a testament to you both ❤
I’ve literally just come out of a 6 year relationship... it’s tough but sometimes you need to do what’s best for you ... I know it’s what’s best for me. Chin up Tom! And all the best Lydia.
Tom I had a similar situation. I lived in Canada and was in a 2 year relationship with a girl i loved. Put in so much time and effort to fly to europe and back often. Helped her to become a stewardess. What you said about her wanting the job and not being in a relationship was something i never considered myself. It was heartbreaking. I feel you man
Tom you have the biggest heart I know it must have been hard,but I believe you two will still have an amazing friendship and both of you will be happy and you never know what the future has in store for you two much love ❤❤
Knew it was going to be this 😞 recently had a 4 year relationship come to an end, so shit at the moment but time is a healer and things will get better
Be you, do you and enjoy life been subbed for many years now and the true subs who know you will support you right to the end!!! Love ya man. Toby (Brighton 🇬🇧)
Tom: I wanna do what I want when I want My brain: my boy wants to be a strong independent man, *i shed a tear* I’m so proud (Ps. I wish you both the best. You’re both amazing people and you’ll both do amazing things in life if you follow your dreams. Be safe dude, Godspeed, and uh.. don’t get robbed, yeah)
Keep your head up man you've almost brought a tear to my eye, lovely regards to Lydia and non of your videos will never be the same. I wish you the best time in life Tom and I'm here everyday 7pm ready to watch your videos, I'm sure you're fine bro💙😕💙
Take all time you need cause fate will sometimes forcefully bring you things that come unexpectedly. Take some time to recover. Horse around with the boys and livestream and get support from fans
Tom, from the bottom of my heart I wish you and Lydia amazing luck and I hope you both find peace through this situation. You're a strong person, and I hope you know we have both of your backs. 💜
Saw "The Perfect Wedding" vid 2 days ago but didn't have time to watch it and honestly thought you and Lydia got married~ Sad news, very sad news but wish all the best for her and this truly felt like such a difficult decision you had to make man~
Sorry to hear that Tom. But if it's what you feel is right then it is the best thing to do. I will miss Lydia though. Even though it is your decision, your probably going to get upset. So stay strong mate. Life's too short make the most of it. ❤️
Damn, I'm absolutely gutted for you man, honestly, I really feel for your pain! But like you said in the video, it's you that lives your life and you both have so many plans for yourselves, it's for the best! I hope you both live your best lives man and wish you both the best in your individual futures!
wow im only coming back to this now - this was a time where i wasn't watching the vlogs and had no idea they had broken up, I've been watching again over the past few months and it's so lovely to see you've got a family with her, little alfredooo, and to think 5 years ago you two had broken up ❤️❤️
Aww this is devastating really loved seeing Lydia in the vlogs...hopefully maybe one day fate will bring you back together until then enjoy life! Wish the best for you both.
Dude as selfish as it might sound like being alone is good for the soul - you gotta do what's gonna keep you happy rather than be feeling down and that. Cherish the good times but don't ponder on it too much Keep yourself happy bud bless up 🙌🏻
Aw Tom, I hope your ok and Lydia too. But if things don't feel totally right you cannot commit your life to it. I wish you both all the best. I've been following you since you recorded your games with a phone... And there have been life events you have shared I can relate to. I watch a lot of TH-cam. Probably too much.. but your only a half hour away from me and I've always felt a stronger connection to you than anyone else. I wish you all the best. Keep doing what your doing as you make a huge positive connection to so many people.
3 years later. Kid on the way 🥹
Yayyyy
😀
they got back together before covid
@@christineencrypt3892no shit
Just the way he talks about Lydia, you can tell hetruly does care and have the most insane amount of love for her! just amazing!
There is strength in keeping a relationship together. But there is also strength in understanding when things don't work out and parting peacefully and honestly with someone you still care about.
"Gotta have a little sadness once in a while so you know when the good times come." -Bob Ross
shadowboy0126 here here
Victoria this reminds me of all the babysitting i got at Alcoholics Anonymous when my mom would go.
Dilly dilly
Now you both have a beautiful baby boy. It's so wonderful to see you two together.❤
crazy coming back to this 3 years later and they are back together im happy they were able to get over the differences and work everything out. just wanted to come back after they got back together and see the comments. so happy for them.
I reckon you should go back to L.A. for longer periods of time, you love it there and you stopped going there because you had priorities in the UK, do what makes you happy we will all miss Lydia dearly but we all love you too
The Rados I swear he sold his apartment there tho?
@@olliewhatley Yea he did
Ollie Whatley he didn’t own an apartment in LA he rented it
The Rados LA vlogs r dead after more than a week or two
Grant Carson he did own it.
Is it bad I thought Steve had died just seeing the title
Harvey smith ME TOO I WAS LIKE STEVE NOOOOOOOOO
I thought it was Steve as well!!
Thomas Hutchinson never clicked so fast in a panic
I thought it was his grandad
@@colorren2991 same i was like fuuuuuck
Right. Build that warehouse of activities on Minecraft next?
Sounds good to me.
Nah it'll disappear like adrift
5 years later! Your back together , had little Alfie and now just bought a f**king farm! Tom your grandad will be super proud of you!
Hearing you speak about Lydia so kindly and seeing the tears in your eyes just melted my heart. I wish you and Lydia the best. I'm sure you will find the right person once you are ready for it. But being ready I so important. Life's too short. Make the most of it ;)
Lydia your a legend! Best of luck in whatever you do! We will miss you!
I read the title and immediately thought oh shit please say Gordon's okay😂
I had the exact same reaction
Same
Same bro
Same
Ninja Skrtle same
I didn't see that coming tbh. Hope your all good Tom and best wishes to Lydia in the future.
@@soundsgood7556 I see dw cheers buddy x
Lydia, like most ladies, drinks... and we all know what drinking does to people.
@@thelightsilent i mean i don't think that's the reason
@@thelightsilent can you leave a timestamp?
0:00 is the time stamp
As someone who is getting over a breakup from a long term relationship just know, it's part of life cherish the good memories you had together and look forward to creating more in the future with many more people
Sounds like the best option! All the best to Lydia, time for adventure
Good luck in this new chapter Tom! Love ya fella! And good luck Lydia as well! A lovely lovely lady.
Lydia if u see this i wish good luck with everything in ur life
She seems to be having a lovely life
I really wasn’t expecting that....I feel really bad for you buddy 😕 I hope you 2 will be really good friends ❤️
Wat happened cba to watch the fkn vid
@@amrikgola8993 They broke up, tom broke it off because he wants the freedom of being single. Still loves her but admits to himself it doesnt work. Wants no hate towards lydia (goes without saying) and yeah thats about it
Natei thanks. Saved me 32 mins. I didn’t who Lydia was (I know now it’s his Ex)
4 years later they have the most adorable son and are a happy family!!!!
Awww ❤️
Tom every time you have titles like this I think something bad happened to your grandpa, and I can't handle it.
CaptainRedTorch that old guy needs to stay alive
That was my 1st thought too
Same
Same
CaptainRedTorch dude every time lmao
I'm soooo sorry Tom. I've been here from day one man!!! You two were great together...however Tom you have the world as your oyster mate
She wasn't leaving spoons around Tom was
Nirav Vaja little do you know he used that example because he looked up and saw 7 individual spoons on the kitchen side
We can all see how emotional you are regarding Lydia but if it's for the best then good for not only you but also Lydia. Wish you both nothing but the best because your great people. Keep doing you bro! ❤
Saw this video pop up in my “For you” section.. honestly watching this is INSANE, you guys worked it all out and now have the beautiful little Jelly Man! You guys are the best and I love you!❤
I’m not crying. Chat is crying 😭. Godbless to you both on the next chapter ❤️
Damn I was hoping y’all would get married eventually and start a family 😢
Some things just don’t end up working out. That’s life sometimes My Friend.
They were married before as well, it was predictable when 2 parties stay put on their needs
Shinbi Mane Tom and Lydia haven’t been married
Thats the true reality of life. Unfortunetly sometimes just love is not enough.
❤️💙❤️💙
Damn...I wasn’t expecting that buddy! You never know what happens behind close doors as they say. But chin up buddy and hopefully you guys stay close and remain friends!😌
Hey tom hope you and Lydia both go far in life and wish nothing but health and future happiness for you two
Recently had to make the same decision in my 2 and a half year relationship due to not being happy and having different goals, but I still believe one day you and Lydia will end up back together as you are very well suited! wish you both all the best.
Watching September 1st 2024 and everything has changed.
Everything!
@@LifeOfTom❤ well done Tom
I almost started crying when Tom started crying Tom u have such a good heart and I wish Lydia the best
DANA Filmz sameeee
OMG HE HEARTED MY COMMENT thank you so much Tom!
@@lauslora6511 wtf do u mean he clearly showed his love for her but she teaches and he likes travelling so things didn't pan out
Head up mukka, at least Karl can be your new other half now
I find it truly amazing and inspiring how you never let these stressful and negative emotions bleed into the vlogs so we never saw, I’m glad this has come out all together I’m so glad for you Tom. Love you man
Tom being super ficking mature at the beginning and proving it's not clickbait at beginning. 👏👏
Tom you're definitely one of the most positive people I watch, you manage to turn any shit situation into some sort of positive outlook, so kudos to that mate!
Gutted about the news. It have only been through a screen, but getting to know Lydia over these past two years or so has been an absolute pleasure. Such a wonderful woman. The shenanigans you two got up to provided so many laughs. Wish her all the best and who knows, maybe we’ll bump into her if we’re ever in the sky ✈️
😊
TOM’s Vlogs are like a Netflix series LOVE the wholesome content! And long videos! * Thank you for providing Tom! *
Edit: sorry about you and Lydia hope she will still enjoy to be in the vlogs! We all love her!
Aww Tom when you teared up it made me cry 😢 sorry that you and Lydia didn’t work out. Hope you’re doing ok ❤️
Tom hope your doing okay, man sorry that you and Lydia didn't work out. Sending Huge love from Australia
I heard Lydia dropped Tom's fortune 4 pickaxe in lava
Tom Brown you can’t get fortune 4 you dunce
Harrison Kast so what let him believe what he wants to
@@iiechlonii it's part of the joke mate. I wouldn't let it bother you too much
Fortune 3 you mean?😅
Darragh Connolly r/woosh
Just shows how many things we don't see on camera. I was watching last week's vlog "Summer is here" yesterday and you two were so happy together and now a week later, this. Honestly I was surprised. I hope everything goes well for you and for Lydia, much love man. Keep your chin up
JoJo I’ve honestly felt as if Lydia has cheated on Tom.. it’s a strong accusation but I highly beleive it and I hate thinking that would have happened.
Jodofly115 it’s his job/lifestyle, she knew this before they were together. Why would he change for some else. It’s his own life and he can live it as he well damn wants. You see 15-30 minutes of a 24 hour day so you don’t know anything of what it’s like behind the vlog...
RuckZz You’re right, that’s exactly what I’m trying to say, we only see between 10-60 minutes of Tom’s day so that leaves so much time of unseen moments. Emotions are high for everyone right now and yes even though he explained everything, people will speculate.
@@jodofly1158 dont watch then FFS
Jodofly115 you say he’s got nothing to base it off then tell your own story.. 🤦🏽♂️
lydia if your reading this we all love you and will miss you
sorry but holy lord tom loved my comment my life is complete beam me up God
Jake Pennington beam me up god I love it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Jake Pennington That’s what did it for you, ay?
Sometimes the hardest decisions are the right ones, both you and Lydia are wonderful people and both deserve an amazing future even if you're together or not.
This just popped into my feed and I can't believe how far you both have come from trying to find yourselves in the world to just having a baby together, so proud and happy for you both
🥹❤️
I hate how much emotionally invested I was in their relationship... Damn man.
Etienne De Wet get a grip
Ya know...Sometimes Love just isn't enough. I wish the best for you both. Life is too short not to be happy guys.
I think it’s for the best. You want to travel the world and it would be so hard to maintain a relationship. You never know what’ll happen in the future so KEEP MOTIVATED AND LETS GET SHXT DONE!!!! ❤️
Who remembers Tom and Kate
piddleass
Don’t think he really wants to hear that name ever again
She’s single too now - make it happen Tom and Kate!
Martin J no
Why what happened between them?
i always got chocked up every time i watch this, i can just see in his eyes that he really did love her. Don't worry Tom, if she is the one, she'll come back❤️
And apparently, she was!
I think she might be...
Broo. What a prediction 👍
Thank you so much for explaining about breaking up with Lydia. I've been in a similar situation for a long time where I'm in a relationship I don't want to be in and this video might've given me courage to make the call. Luv u Tom stay strong and most importantly get sh*t done!
Dont call. Actually talk about it. If theres memories there that'll be the difference of what could turn it bad.
Shit happens, love Lydia, love you and her together but, sometimes shit just doesn't work out.
Tons doesn’t have room for anyone else in his life other than Steve
Jack Charman 😂😂😂😂😂
Steeve !
Been watching you since day one!
Tom you're such a massive inspirational to everyone.
Lydia is amazing and hope for the best in future.
Seeing this after your Father’s Day special. WOW what a time! Glad things turned around and now you have a beautiful family. ❤
Honestly wasn’t expecting that, wow. Good luck to you and Lydia in the future
Damn bro. I’m sorry to hear that you two have split up. But at least you’ve been honest with her and your viewers. That’s the best way forward!
I hope Lydia pursues a great career in being an air hostess, and Tom, I hope you carry on with the amazing daily vlogs😃
Ay tom it's ok man you still have us as a family and who know you may get lucky again but still tom you have us and we respect your privacy
Gutted to hear this mate, but you know it’s the right thing to do ♥️ x
I remember watching this and feeling - nahhh, they’ll get back together. So glad my hunch was right! You guys fricken rock together and your little lad is a testament to you both ❤
Props to Orion for having to edit this heartbreak that Tom's having to tell us about.
A dogs Dangly He edits the vlogs
Best of wishes to you and Lydia you deserve to live as happy equals, you guys have amazing paths in life to go through keep it up brooo!
I’ve literally just come out of a 6 year relationship... it’s tough but sometimes you need to do what’s best for you ... I know it’s what’s best for me. Chin up Tom!
And all the best Lydia.
Getting this pop up when I've just watched an hour-long video of you two and the beautiful lil Alfred... So unbelievably happy for you two
So glad you and Lydia are back together and now jellyman is on the way amazing ❤
I am so sorry to hear that Tom.
Make sure you always have milk in the fridge man
MFC
@@jackoshea3155 UTFB
UTB!
Already knew what this was about, and just want to say we’re all here and support you throughout everything Tom! Much respect and love to you always!
Well as they say, Life's Too Short, Make The Most Of It. Dilly Dilly!
Edit: Love the Korg quote. Spot on with the accent too
Thanks Tom, in a similar situation to you right now and the talk you had near the start was very helpful, keep living life to the fullest always
Tom I had a similar situation. I lived in Canada and was in a 2 year relationship with a girl i loved. Put in so much time and effort to fly to europe and back often. Helped her to become a stewardess. What you said about her wanting the job and not being in a relationship was something i never considered myself. It was heartbreaking. I feel you man
Tom you have the biggest heart I know it must have been hard,but I believe you two will still have an amazing friendship and both of you will be happy and you never know what the future has in store for you two much love ❤❤
Knew it was going to be this 😞 recently had a 4 year relationship come to an end, so shit at the moment but time is a healer and things will get better
No I love you to see you together 😢 Stay strong tom and good luck Lydia 💖
Be you, do you and enjoy life been subbed for many years now and the true subs who know you will support you right to the end!!!
Love ya man.
Toby (Brighton 🇬🇧)
Tom: I wanna do what I want when I want
My brain: my boy wants to be a strong independent man, *i shed a tear* I’m so proud
(Ps. I wish you both the best. You’re both amazing people and you’ll both do amazing things in life if you follow your dreams. Be safe dude, Godspeed, and uh.. don’t get robbed, yeah)
I love your vlogs and it’s sad that Lydia’s gone but still love your vlogs keep it up
Keep your head up man you've almost brought a tear to my eye, lovely regards to Lydia and non of your videos will never be the same. I wish you the best time in life Tom and I'm here everyday 7pm ready to watch your videos, I'm sure you're fine bro💙😕💙
I did notice Lydia hadn't been around, love use both
Take all time you need cause fate will sometimes forcefully bring you things that come unexpectedly. Take some time to recover. Horse around with the boys and livestream and get support from fans
4 years later, here's Lydia and Little Alfie :') EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON
so sad to hear this ive met u in real life and ur amazing just know that we are all here for you. Love Jack
Tom, from the bottom of my heart I wish you and Lydia amazing luck and I hope you both find peace through this situation. You're a strong person, and I hope you know we have both of your backs. 💜
Saw "The Perfect Wedding" vid 2 days ago but didn't have time to watch it and honestly thought you and Lydia got married~
Sad news, very sad news but wish all the best for her and this truly felt like such a difficult decision you had to make man~
Good Things Fall Apart by Jon Bellion should be playing quietly in the background
Random Gaming YESSSSS
Yes what a tune and it relates so much
Just came to watch this after watching you vlog about you showing Lydia and Alfie the secret project!
Sorry to hear that Tom. But if it's what you feel is right then it is the best thing to do. I will miss Lydia though. Even though it is your decision, your probably going to get upset. So stay strong mate. Life's too short make the most of it. ❤️
Damn, I'm absolutely gutted for you man, honestly, I really feel for your pain! But like you said in the video, it's you that lives your life and you both have so many plans for yourselves, it's for the best! I hope you both live your best lives man and wish you both the best in your individual futures!
You both deserve the best life can give. Hope you feel better, buddy. Love you man
wow im only coming back to this now - this was a time where i wasn't watching the vlogs and had no idea they had broken up, I've been watching again over the past few months and it's so lovely to see you've got a family with her, little alfredooo, and to think 5 years ago you two had broken up ❤️❤️
Crazy to think years later he now has a kid and is the happiest ever ❤😢
Aww this is devastating really loved seeing Lydia in the vlogs...hopefully maybe one day fate will bring you back together until then enjoy life! Wish the best for you both.
Crzy Bunny I am guessing yes
Dude as selfish as it might sound like being alone is good for the soul - you gotta do what's gonna keep you happy rather than be feeling down and that. Cherish the good times but don't ponder on it too much
Keep yourself happy bud bless up 🙌🏻
Thank you Lydia for the great memories and vlogs with Tom and best of luck for the future ❤️
Tom tearing up about Lydia is the most adorable thing. so big of them both
Aw Tom, I hope your ok and Lydia too. But if things don't feel totally right you cannot commit your life to it. I wish you both all the best. I've been following you since you recorded your games with a phone... And there have been life events you have shared I can relate to. I watch a lot of TH-cam. Probably too much.. but your only a half hour away from me and I've always felt a stronger connection to you than anyone else. I wish you all the best. Keep doing what your doing as you make a huge positive connection to so many people.
Tom I wish you the best in life and I respect your decision to end the relationship
"You go on I'll be okay
I can dream the rest away
It's just a little touch of fate
It'll be okay"
Bro😭😭 underrated comment right here
Who’s cutting onions 😭
Your an insperation Tom. Always staying positive. Much love to you at this testing time.
4 years later, you and Lydia and Alfie are a beautiful little family!
Tom what you said about Lydia should pursue being an air hostess was so beautiful!!! I cried I hope you two stay friends! 😁
I love the way you talk about her in the start of the video. Your a good person 💙