Would it even come to exist? From what I got, sociopaths tend to control their partners in order to create an hierarchy based on shame/guilt... I think it doesn't seem too attractive for a sociopath to have an "equal" fighting for space.
Watch a few episodes of House, particularly just after his original team were being replaced... There's a character who he nicknames "Cutt-throat Bitch". She's so nicknamed in the sub-text of the show, because she's actually psychologically his equal... SO to answer your question, it would likely resemble "Gregory House & Cutt-throat Bitch... Power Couple"... ...and me steering WELL clear of that shrapnel! Good luck, everybody else! ;o)
No. 2: You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met. Me who just made a minute - long video for my sad friend about how awesome they are: *breathing intensifies*
It's a friend going through a bad moment, you are showing empathy, something sociopaths don't know. Problem is when this sounds exaggerated or when they just met you.
Psych2Go: Just because someone in your life say these things doesn’t mean they’re a sociopath! Comments: My friend says this a lot time to cut contact lol
@Galaxion Art There was a disclaimer that it doesn't mean that everyone who says these things are a sociopath! Or were you too much in a hurry to find fault and devalue the maker of the video to even hear her say it in the video and also to read it in the Disclaimer under the video? You missed both..........that says a lot about you
@@rfitzcarter2477 Galaxion Art noticed it. He just made an allusion about the people who doesn't notice it and keep tginking the people around them may be sociopaths.
If they are cutting contact with you to avoid having an important conversation or to acknowledge your feelings it's so they don't have to take responsibility and it's called ghosting or gaslighting. If it's more persistent it's called stonewalling and it's a form of psychological manipulation and mental and emotional abuse and gaslighting is done to confuse or cause someone to doubt their own sense of reality. Narcissists and psychopaths do this.
9 things a sociopath might say: 1) “No one is ever going to love you the way I do.” 2) “You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met.” 3) “Don’t be so sensitive.” 4) “You’ll never survive without me.” 5) “You make me a better person.” 6) “You’re the only one who understands me.” 7) “You’re so needy.” 8) “I don’t have time for this.” 9) “You owe me.”
I’m a sociopath, and I’m fully aware of that. Trust me on one thing, I wouldn’t willingly choose to be a sociopath. I hate when anyone labels sociopaths as evil or terrible people. Like, I never willingly chose to be like this. Just am. And yeah, I realize it can be fixed (I think? Probably?).
Actually we are not genticly created like psychopaths,but we created a self defense mechanism who allows us to live in this world otherwise i would be dead,its preatty confusing to meet same person,im not diagnosed as one but i was emotionally abused and psychologist says that you have lots of those beahaviors,but as i said thats my self defense mechanism
Yes so true.. Ive been with my ex for 9 years and had 2 relapses during the relationship.. in the last few months I got stuck in freeze mode.. (fight/flight/ freeze) and had no energy to do anything anymore.. he literally sucked all of the life out of me.. so glad I dont live there anymore..
Sociopathy is just the mental disorder of not being able to feel certain emotions as it relates to emotional bonds, which they cannot form. They’re not all “leaches”, nor is every sociopath a manipulator (like this entire video suggests)
Yeah I had one a Male straight so called friend, always using and always wanting my woman their everywhere that's why I'm back to being a lone wolf to many headers outside even my mailman is bat shite crazy.
Being a sociopath means not being able to empathise with others- it does NOT make us unfeeling monsters who can't feel pain. But with how the media portrays us- no one believes us and thinks of us as abusive monsters.
As someone with ASPD (what some would label sociopathy), I've never said any of these phrases to anyone. "Sociopathy" is when certain emotions are lacking or muted, having other emotions that may be percieved as "warped" or "unhealthy", and not every "sociopath" is narcissistic. It doesn't mean that we are monsters, but that's all the media makes us out to be, something to be vilified and scared of. I'm super over being portrayed like this. It means that as soon as I feel close enough to someone to divulge my diagnosis, all of a sudden they think I've just been manipulating them, or that I want something from them. And it's like no, what I wanted was human companionship, that's literally the only thing I wanted. It doesn't matter what I say at that point though because obviously I'll say anything to make them stay, and then I'm alone again. Finding people who accept me for all of who I am is difficult, especially when I know that I can sometimes (okay a lot of times) be a difficult person to be around, it's such a draining process that sometimes I feel it isn't worth it anymore. (Sorry about the rant, I guess I just needed to vent.)
Wow I said the second one to my best friend. She has the worse self esteem and doesn't think highly of herself so I told her that she's one of the most amazing person I ever met to try and make her happy and feel better about herself.
This list is like a "manipulation for dummies" instructional video. Anyone can manipulate someone using these extremely common phrases. However, it doesn't mean you have ASPD. Also, if a psychopath/sociopath was manipulating you and they are cogent enough in their reasoning, you probably wouldn't be aware of what they were doing anyway.
i feel like it's a kinda covert thing. not all of them manipulate & even when they do it's subtle, sometimes gradual, hard to spot. there are the attention - drawing ones tho .. which seem to be everyone's common ex lmao
You seem very young to have already figured this out. When I speak with young women who are dating, I always tell them: think about how you feel about YOURSELF when you're with this person.
Okay, so I should try my best to make people worthy and appreciated and help them so I can then subetly milk them dry for personal gain. Thanks for the help.
Great insight! I'd like to add one more word into your phrase here if I may? I would say I'd add in "constantly". Pay close attention to how the person in question makes you feel constantly. Noticed that there's a smart a$$ in the comments that pointed out how they'd use these traits you mentioned in a manipulative narcissistic scheme. Smh. What we are to look for in order to avoid getting caught in their trap of atrocities is the consistency. And for no predetermined length of time in particular just until you feel satisfied that this person is actually representing who he/ she really is as far as character wise. Because 1st Red flag you see otherwise will definitely lead to 50 other abusive red flags waving at you fairly soon after if you continue to allow the person access to you and to your life.
These videos have helped me heal more than all the years I've spent in therapy. My ex is a narcissistic sociopath. And a seriously dangerous one. I'm so grateful for videos like these that I can put a name to my experience. It helps me heal knowing there's a term and I that I wasn't crazy, cause he sure made me feel like I was.
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My father is one, and my mom follows him because she grew up with physical abuse and can’t see the mental, she thinks since there is barely any arguing and how quiet our family is that there is no problem and my older sister and I are the ones pointing fingers when there isn’t anything there. (My older sister and I are the only ones who see the mental abuse.)
Some of these sentences are perfectly fine. For example, "you make me a better person" or even "I don't have time for this." It depends on the context, and even if someone has said all of these things, that doesn't make them a sociopath.
it depends on intentions, whether they’re used in a good faith or whether they’re used to manipulate the person to be controlling and possessive of them problem is that most movies portray toxic relationships, which make these phrases dangerous
No, I don't have friends to have a discord with, I hate most everything on twitter, and Fortnight is boring where as Minecraft is whatever I want it to be.
One of my closest friends is a sociopath, and I've been helping him, he's defiantly improved; but this information is very accurate. It's taken a while for him to come as far as he has, and I'm really proud of him (and yes, he was diagnosed by a doctor, don't worry I'm not just assuming) He used to say a lot of hurtful things to get his way, and even deny being a socio path; but after years of helping him he now admits that he is (hate saying it) a sociopath, and he now shows more emotion for others, he also has started to be less hurtful, and I'm really happy at how far he's come (it obviously wasn't easy, but I stayed with him and continued to help no-matter what he did or said) This goes to show that it's not impossible, it's just very, very, *very* hard... but I'm glad that I helped-- and still am-- it hasn't been easy for either of us, but I'm so happy with how he's been doing, and I've even talked him into getting a therapist to help a little more since I'm not a therapist and I can only o so much. So just keep fighting, because you can get better, it may not be easy or fast, but you can get there...
Run... He's not improving internally or anything. It's just he's just now good at hiding the sides that is socially inappropriate. That is all. Therapist can't do Jack for sociopaths. It only helps sociopaths learn how to manipulate people and learn them
It's good he's improving social skills which is good, though he can't actually understand or feel what another person is feeling, most of the time we don't mean to manipulate we don't know how exactly to function but glad he's getting better! Also we're not all mean and evil please don't let media fool you I watched this channel with my brother due to our pds and none of it is actually accurate to the actual pd itself it's describing manipulators and Jerks
As someone with ASPD, I can relate to a lot of these things but sometimes people with ASPD often don't realize what their doing Is wrong and manipulative. Yes, it's actually possible to accidentally gaslight someone or not realize when you're being insensitive. I don't like how we're represented in this video because it's a lot more than just negative traits. We're not entirely bad people and we can't help this. We can just try and learn from mistakes. I've embarrassingly done all of these and it's not on purpose. When I was younger I was fully unaware of how harsh and insensitive I was being till people pointed it out and was later diagnosed with ASPD. My rude humor and lack of self awareness is where my ASPD plays a role that isn't exactly fun when trying to make friends who don't understand why you're like this. Because of my ASPD, my whole life has been a horrible rollercoaster trying to make friends and understand how others feel. I have yet to go through therapy for this and I find it hard to maintain even relationships especially since I can't hold friendships.
@@kamthefemboi Aw, that's so sweet. I can get really mean sometimes though and my humor really isn't the best thing to be around. If you wanna talk though, I'm free a majority of my time. Aeryynn.n#5327 is my Kord.
I have ASPD as well and while I've never said any of the above phrases I have definitely been told that I can be insensitive (brutally honest and sometimes unfeeling is absolutely how some would have described me when I was younger), and same with the manipulation. When I was younger I didn't realize what I was doing could be percieved as "mean", even now when I'm older (and go to therapy) I still have a hard time differentiating between "right and wrong". If you're looking for a friend who will understand you completely and won't judge you for being who you are, I certain need more friends too. Let me know how I can contact you, if you're interested. I'd absolutely be willing to talk.
Unfortunately, I am unable to eat a good sandwich today :(. But just because I can’t have one, doesn’t mean you can’t! I hope you all get to eat an amazing sandwich today on my behalf!
Heard this very early on. lol now I know it's because I seemed to think things through much more thoroughly than he was used to, and he was afraid I would figure him out.
A psychopath is someone who inherits the disorder genetically and has more severe symptoms, a sociopath is someone who develops their disorder due to severe psychological trauma.
@@BumbleBlissWith every mental illness or disorder there are branches of it that include different types of symptoms that all sit under the same diagnostic umbrella. Psychopaths inherit ASPD genetically, and are biology incapable of experiencing regular love along with having an even harder time experiencing what we know as empathy or remorse. They're often harder to treat because they don't easily recognize that they are different, or that their disorder is any kind of problem. A sociopath inherits the disorder from extreme psychological trauma and can experience love the exact same as an individual without ASPD. They have an easier time than psychopaths when it comes to empathy and remorse, and are more likely to figure out due to their surroundings that there is something "wrong with them." Since psychopaths have their symptoms more severe, a charismatic personality shields their actual personality as it is their only way of successfully interacting with others. But with sociopaths, they often have to teach themselves how to "behave like a normal person" since that charismatic personality does not come as second nature to them, that's why learning psychology is of such benefit to people with ASPD. So no, they're not the same. Even if people refuse to acknowledge people who have ASPD as people with feelings, I won't stop defending the disorder and correcting misinformation.
@@leiv1448 Yea if you click in the replies I decided to take the time to educate them, since this disorder effects me and it hurts to see that no one cares to acknowledge us as regular human beings
I used to have a friend like this and most of the things mentioned in this video is what she said/did to me, so thank you so much for letting me know about sociopaths.
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I often get susceptible to people who are seemingly potable and have bad lives and I often put up with abuse in too many relationships. This video was helpful at least now I can see some shallow tactics that are huge red flags
This Channel has changed my life to a degree I'd say they made me able to continue going. I can identify Manipulation at the second and not to mention enhancing my confusion of who I am and how I can be the one driving my body. Being psychologically aware of why we do things can help reduce the effect it takes on your life and helps put yourself in control.
I find it funny how the youtube algorythm start suggesting me channels and videos specificly targeted at the actuall situation I am in. When I was in a crisis, youtube started recommending meditation channels, and I found one I like. Now I have other questions about my situation, and I get these videos a lot. Which I obviously started to watch. And I can relate to many of these things. So however I got here. Thank you for the content.❤
1. No one is ever going to love you the way I do 2. You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met 3. Don’t be so sensitive 4. You’ll never survive without me 5. You make me a better person 6. You’re the only one who understands me 7. You’re so needy 8. I don’t have time for this 9. You owe me
Sociopaths will do anything they can to make you feel like they are the only ones who care about you. This includes making up lies about bad things the people close to you supposedly said.👏
Basically i’m always telling myself that like if someone is doing something to me that i don’t like, then it’s my fault somehow, becuase it usually is, among other things. Like i know i’m worthless, and that i’m really dumb. Everything that’s wrong with me stems from the fact that I’m incredibly stupid. Basically just a whole bunch of stuff that i kinda just need to hear.
Yeah, I was thinking this. I don't have ASPD but clearly using these stereotypes isn't helping those stereotypes? They could've just said manipulative because I can empathize with the fact living with your disorder must have it's difficulties.
Yup, another ASPD here. I use some of these phrases, but I highly mean them. I try to be the best boyfriend to my partner since she is the only person I feel empathy for. But as usual, we Sociopaths/Psychopaths are dangerous demons according to the media. This shit is tiring.
@SHARIFAH RAINA BINTI SYED AZHAR Moe Then you have a very biased opinion about we ASPD. I hope you were kidding when you said that I should be a killer just because of my disorder. We are individuals and we make choices. The fact that some of us killed, abused or so, doesn't make us all the same.
I guess I have a little break up to do soon then because I'm dealing with a person just like that who disregards my feelingz even though they claim they love and care about me but actions speaks loudest.🥺💯 thank you for this
This is edited. I said "i do most of this, am i a sociopath?! QvQ" and some people here being rude. You know what? im not a sociopath those rude guys are, Thank you 💖 i drink tea btw
@@Endmoonyearsago i have Border Personality Disorder, a ruined childhood and depression. I accept that im mean and manupilative but i cant controll it...i really should go to a therapist but i cant because my parent cant afford the money :( i really know that everyone dislikes me and that really sucks...long story short i have a ruined life :> also i have no friends :D
I’m a high functioning sociopath, (and I also have therapy) so I haven’t actually said all of these, but, I will say I have said, “you owe me this.” Many many times😂
I’ve said ‘You make me a better person’ but that shvt was genuine. Never have I come across someone who (I felt) genuinely cared for my well-being til then. Felt like I sold my soul for a little piece of heaven, but I’m not complaining
Wow! My wife uses every single one of these phrases on a daily basis. When I call her out for being controlling she says it's my fault I feel that way, not hers. I can't blame her for being honest about how she feels, it's me being insecure that makes her insults hurt my feelings.
When I say you make me a better person to my best friend. I actually mean it. Im not as closed off as I was before she helped me open up. And I love complimenting her because she truly is beautiful
I was watching this, wondering if my "friend" who saw me having an anxiety attack (I hadn't told anyone) and used that against me was a sociopath. I am now sure of it
"You make me a better person." I don't know about this one... I often tell my friends this because they are the inspiration for me to achieve my goals. They keep me accountable, help me start over when I fall, and can celebrate in my successes. I think more often than not, people will mean it when they say that someone else makes them a better person.
It's about the intentions behind saying that. Sociopaths would say that to people so they can manipulate them into liking them and doing favors for them etc, but we say that to people because we actually think that way.
@@asliceofkai5006 it's hard if you focus on what people say, always focus on their actions.. Disregard what they say, everyone lies whether to others or themselves
I think my mom is a sociopath and so am I, she sees past me and my facades and I do the same with her, that's why we struggle to coexist. But I don't think all sociopaths are bad people.
Just expressing gratitude that you explained that just because people use these phrases, does not mean they are one. I've had several ex's label me as a narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath and use these videos as their evidence. Literally saying "I've heard you say this and that's why you're a sociopath/psychopath/narcissist." I'm not saying I am/am not any of the following, simply stating that, just as stated in the video, that these phrases alone should be used as a warning flags to further observe the behavior of someone else, and only mental health professionals are ones capable of making these judgements.
I was "best friends" with a sociopath from teens to mid thirties. Found out after our friendship ended. No one can make this decision for you, but if your friend is indeed a sociopath, she WILL push you to your limits. There are two things you can do to defend yourself from being preyed on, and you can gauge your friends reaction to them to decide what to do next. 1st work on your self-worth. Sociopaths choose people with low self esteem as their targets, and will try to keep it that way. 2nd demand accountability. DO NOT let this be negotiable. A sociopath will make excuse after excuse leavened with promises to do better, but never ACTUALLY do better. And beware, they will make themselves look like the victim, and are damn good at it. My "friend" was able to not only get out of domestic violence charges, but even managed to reverse them! I wish you the best of luck, and if I may there is one silver lining that will come of this..you will be one hell of a good bullshit detector!
@@trashgamedev5730 They stop themselves because their reputation will be ruined. Sociopaths are all about power and control and when they are about to do something that’ll ruin their chances of getting there, they’ll stop. My ex stepdad for example would verbally and physically abuse me when my mother wasn’t around but he would apologize, gaslight, and love bomb me with gifts because he knew that would tell my mom. Needless to say he’s in prison for life for assaulting and attempting to murder two young women, I really wish people would understand the severity of ASPD and how sociopaths really act when the public isn’t watching.
yknow whats funny, my brother and i sometimes do nice things and then using it for “favors” except he does it better than me, and most of the time i dont give a shit. my brother could be a ceo if it werent for him being a lazy ass
gets cheated on and has conctete proof of said cheating - "I know that you know I'm telling the truth" "I hope that someday you'll believe me" "why would i Iie to you? I have nothing to gain from this"
Man once again the media frames people with ASPD as heartless monsters despite the fact they CAN experience emotions to an extent on a spectrum of intensity
Psych 2 Go, LITERALLY made a disclaimer "Just because you or someone you know says these things, doesn't make you a sociopath" great you didn't pay attention to the disclaimer
I grew up with a bpd father and sociopathic mother, at first I thought she was a narcissist but that's just part of her, I've been suicidal since I was conscious and I am now 19, every day is a battle to undo the markings they engraved on me. But the worst part is that i think everyone is like them, and that I am attracted to people like them.
My mother was like this. I grew up being told "I owed her" even though she literally only used me as a tool against my dad and terrorized me. She wanted to stop me from ever leaving home (her) by telling me the world was dangerous, and I was safer at home "with her". She got angry when I had a possible scholarship that would take me to a college upstate. She never wanted me to even leave my hometown, because I wouldn't be reachable by her. The woman had children simply to have built-in supply. Unfortunately, trying to get away from her meant I ended up with more narcissistic sociopaths just like her. There are more of these monsters in the world than we realize, and they just float among us. I was conditioned by one to accept the abuses of the others.
I used to tell my best friend she was the most amazing person I ever met. Cause she was though. She always tried super hard, and we have a lot in common, and she was kind and sensitive and thoughtful. And she seriously was the best friend I ever had. And if she said someone didn’t like her, I’d say, “how could they not like you? Your the best! Your beautiful and sweet and funny, it’s their loss” but I actually meant it. and I used to tell her she made me a better person!! And that she was the only one that understood me!!!! But I meant it... and then I ended up cutting it off because her all time best friend was very manipulative and “toxic” but I had tried being friends with my BFF and not the other girl, but I ended up pulling my friend apart. So then I decided it was just better to back off. Because it’s either I’d have to stay with a bully, to keep being friends with her, or I’d have to stop being friends with them both. And I still feel bad. Because now my best friend is stuck with the manipulative person, that she’s tried to get away from before, but she can’t. Her other friend controls everything, even who she’s friends with, what she does with her things, how she talks. EVERYTHING.
I suggest to stay with your friend so you two can stay together and may talk privately about her manipulative friend. I mean as long as things don’t get violent, there is always a way out to choose who to befriend with.
Sure have they are so decieving they have their ways with their words .My dad is a sociopathic narcissist ! He always blames me for what he has done behind my back & says I am too senstive & paranoid .
When I was in 8th grade a girl was my "best friend". We would do everything together. She would always tell me I was pretty and how ugly and depressed she was. Eventually I realized I was getting ignored by her. I didnt know what was up because we where "besties". Over time she started calling me ugly. I eventually became depressed. Turns out she was spreading all my entrusted secrets with all my other "friends". Those "friends" of mine would tell rumors and lies about me to everyone and laugh at me behind my back. I eventually got out of that toxic situation and am so grateful to have much better, happier, mental health. Thank you for reading my story
As an Empath I have attracted many Sociopaths and honestly when it comes down to it, they are simply unable to care, and given enough time will slip up and be exposed. That being said, please my lovely beautiful fellow Human beings please watch out for them. Be safe. Love ya Guys. 💖
As a sociopath I can say that not every sociopaths and pasychopaths ale like that. Like me for example. Sometimes I really don't give a sh*t about the world, anyone and anything, but sometimes I do care, maybe less than avarage person but still. Anyway, I'm always trying to be a good person, I'm helping people, and I usually don't say things like in this video, but I think that often. But still that doesn't mean we are bad, at least not all of us
"A sociopath would say anything to get their way, even bending the truth"
So pretty much every among us player I seen
Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂
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Thats Disguise toast then
thats corpse lol
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This made me curious: how would a relationship between two sociopaths look like?
Would it even come to exist? From what I got, sociopaths tend to control their partners in order to create an hierarchy based on shame/guilt... I think it doesn't seem too attractive for a sociopath to have an "equal" fighting for space.
@@gabrielarocha492 there are politics who are couple. I think that would be fun
I sometimes wonder that too, I don't think i ever met sociopath couple
Hahahaha.. hell. (Learned how to not be so sociopathic, and what to look out for.)
Watch a few episodes of House, particularly just after his original team were being replaced... There's a character who he nicknames "Cutt-throat Bitch". She's so nicknamed in the sub-text of the show, because she's actually psychologically his equal...
SO to answer your question, it would likely resemble "Gregory House & Cutt-throat Bitch... Power Couple"...
...and me steering WELL clear of that shrapnel! Good luck, everybody else! ;o)
No. 2: You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met.
Me who just made a minute - long video for my sad friend about how awesome they are: *breathing intensifies*
that's really sweet and not sociopathic because you meant it.
@@rydohg your right :D
Nah, if you have antisocial personality disorder, and if you weren't getting treatment, you wouldn't even believe you were a sociopath.
It's a friend going through a bad moment, you are showing empathy, something sociopaths don't know. Problem is when this sounds exaggerated or when they just met you.
Thanks guys
9: you owe me
So literally every anime character in the world
I'm an anime character?
@@lanoface6049 :0
Lmao
You owe me a fall, Sherlock.
@@lanoface6049 but not the main character
Psych2Go: Just because someone in your life say these things doesn’t mean they’re a sociopath!
Comments: My friend says this a lot time to cut contact lol
Thanks for noticing the disclaimer!
@@Psych2go Yess finnaly my first ever reply on a youtuber!!
@Galaxion Art There was a disclaimer that it doesn't mean that everyone who says these things are a sociopath! Or were you too much in a hurry to find fault and devalue the maker of the video to even hear her say it in the video and also to read it in the Disclaimer under the video? You missed both..........that says a lot about you
@@rfitzcarter2477 Galaxion Art noticed it. He just made an allusion about the people who doesn't notice it and keep tginking the people around them may be sociopaths.
If they are cutting contact with you to avoid having an important conversation or to acknowledge your feelings it's so they don't have to take responsibility and it's called ghosting or gaslighting. If it's more persistent it's called stonewalling and it's a form of psychological manipulation and mental and emotional abuse and gaslighting is done to confuse or cause someone to doubt their own sense of reality. Narcissists and psychopaths do this.
9 things a sociopath might say:
1) “No one is ever going to love you the way I do.”
2) “You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met.”
3) “Don’t be so sensitive.”
4) “You’ll never survive without me.”
5) “You make me a better person.”
6) “You’re the only one who understands me.”
7) “You’re so needy.”
8) “I don’t have time for this.”
9) “You owe me.”
Thank you! :)
The last one Is the most dangerous... Because he thinks "persons aré just objects that can breath" :/
No. 8
Always hurts me a lot >:"(
Boi: *giving hope, sweet talks, and all
Also him: "me? Giving false hope? Don't be so sensitive"
>:"(
Worst part is my ex best friend used to say all of this to me
I’m a sociopath, and I’m fully aware of that. Trust me on one thing, I wouldn’t willingly choose to be a sociopath. I hate when anyone labels sociopaths as evil or terrible people. Like, I never willingly chose to be like this. Just am. And yeah, I realize it can be fixed (I think? Probably?).
Actually we are not genticly created like psychopaths,but we created a self defense mechanism who allows us to live in this world otherwise i would be dead,its preatty confusing to meet same person,im not diagnosed as one but i was emotionally abused and psychologist says that you have lots of those beahaviors,but as i said thats my self defense mechanism
exactly! I don't want to act like i do it just happens! Glad somone agrees with me
@@badkarma2377 its kinda hipocrissy beacause its hapened to us beacause of them.
Same thing with me
Does this "I didn't choose this" thing come off as gaslighting to anyone else? Like, your victims didn't choose to be hurt by you, either.
It's weird how everyones ex is a sociopath.
wait people have ex's?
if everyone’s ex is a sociopath, and if you have an ex, you’re technically a sociopath to someone
@@aoi69420 sadly, yEs
😂😂😂
Of course that’s what they would say.
Thing 1: They would tell you that they don’t care that your Minecraft pet has died
NOT BOK BOK THE WOLF!!!!
Put the on the right sock then the right shoe rather than socks than shoes
Thats A Pychopath silly
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@@thursdayplurbonym-boyporri8921 love your pfp
my ex, dating him for 10 months gave me severe anxiety for a year
A sociopath is like a leech who will suck the life out of you.
Yes so true.. Ive been with my ex for 9 years and had 2 relapses during the relationship.. in the last few months I got stuck in freeze mode.. (fight/flight/ freeze) and had no energy to do anything anymore.. he literally sucked all of the life out of me.. so glad I dont live there anymore..
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Sociopathy is just the mental disorder of not being able to feel certain emotions as it relates to emotional bonds, which they cannot form. They’re not all “leaches”, nor is every sociopath a manipulator (like this entire video suggests)
Well...yeah...hope ur doing better now
Yeah I had one a Male straight so called friend, always using and always wanting my woman their everywhere that's why I'm back to being a lone wolf to many headers outside even my mailman is bat shite crazy.
"It even has a watermark" ― Patrick Bateman
Or was he a psychopath?
He's the American Psycho. He said it himself :p
I think he really was a psychopath but we don’t know if all of his murders were real. I myself think they aren’t realistic at all
Patrick Bateman was psychotic, not psychopathic
@@whenthewhen3686 probably both
I got to return some videotapes
Being a sociopath means not being able to empathise with others- it does NOT make us unfeeling monsters who can't feel pain. But with how the media portrays us- no one believes us and thinks of us as abusive monsters.
But i am an abusive monster wot
And sociopath isnt even a medical term anymore
Sometimes I'm accidently a Sociopath
@@happydragon1611 Everyone has their moments, but sociopathy is a developed personality disorder and not an "accidental" behavior sometimes.
As someone with ASPD (what some would label sociopathy), I've never said any of these phrases to anyone.
"Sociopathy" is when certain emotions are lacking or muted, having other emotions that may be percieved as "warped" or "unhealthy", and not every "sociopath" is narcissistic. It doesn't mean that we are monsters, but that's all the media makes us out to be, something to be vilified and scared of.
I'm super over being portrayed like this. It means that as soon as I feel close enough to someone to divulge my diagnosis, all of a sudden they think I've just been manipulating them, or that I want something from them. And it's like no, what I wanted was human companionship, that's literally the only thing I wanted. It doesn't matter what I say at that point though because obviously I'll say anything to make them stay, and then I'm alone again.
Finding people who accept me for all of who I am is difficult, especially when I know that I can sometimes (okay a lot of times) be a difficult person to be around, it's such a draining process that sometimes I feel it isn't worth it anymore. (Sorry about the rant, I guess I just needed to vent.)
Anyone else seen the “da vinky” in the book
LMAOOOOOO
i hated more that
"Da binchi"
Wow I said the second one to my best friend.
She has the worse self esteem and doesn't think highly of herself so I told her that she's one of the most amazing person I ever met to try and make her happy and feel better about herself.
If you meant it genuinely its fine, its only sociopathic if you have ulterior motives like feeling like she owes you for you kindness.
As they said in the vid, compliment is fine
How could you
This list is like a "manipulation for dummies" instructional video. Anyone can manipulate someone using these extremely common phrases. However, it doesn't mean you have ASPD. Also, if a psychopath/sociopath was manipulating you and they are cogent enough in their reasoning, you probably wouldn't be aware of what they were doing anyway.
True but if you pay attention to their actions instead of their words it would be easy to spot
@@youropinionsareshitandsoar1954 Maybe in moment you don't realize but if you see this and reflect you will see the trends
i feel like it's a kinda covert thing. not all of them manipulate & even when they do it's subtle, sometimes gradual, hard to spot. there are the attention - drawing ones tho .. which seem to be everyone's common ex lmao
Anyone can manipulate a person
@@tracygill8653 Yes, sociopaths are just stigmatized
So your telling me sociopaths have cute little leaves on their heads?
*SARCASM*
One of my friends have a cute little leaf on their head, they're a sociopath 😱 /s
Edit: i made a spelling mistake
@@iforgoree wait are you fr?
pikmin?!
🌱
@@iforgoree my friend has a potato on their head 🥔
*me looking for something that my parents would say*
Lol
that hit different,,
Lmaoooo sammeeee 🤣🤣😭🤣
Literally my mom
0_0
Pay attention to how others make you feel & make time for those that make you feel worthy, appreciated, and help you along your path.
Awesome! Thanks!
Great advice Nicole
You seem very young to have already figured this out. When I speak with young women who are dating, I always tell them: think about how you feel about YOURSELF when you're with this person.
Okay, so I should try my best to make people worthy and appreciated and help them so I can then subetly milk them dry for personal gain. Thanks for the help.
Great insight! I'd like to add one more word into your phrase here if I may? I would say I'd add in "constantly". Pay close attention to how the person in question makes you feel constantly. Noticed that there's a smart a$$ in the comments that pointed out how they'd use these traits you mentioned in a manipulative narcissistic scheme. Smh. What we are to look for in order to avoid getting caught in their trap of atrocities is the consistency. And for no predetermined length of time in particular just until you feel satisfied that this person is actually representing who he/ she really is as far as character wise. Because 1st Red flag you see otherwise will definitely lead to 50 other abusive red flags waving at you fairly soon after if you continue to allow the person access to you and to your life.
Fun fact: there are also sociopaths that aren't assholes
True
Good luck convincing the media about it tho :l
Wait- HOW? Like I'm genuinely asking
yea, i have some sociopathic traits and can’t feel empathy but i still care about things
Thank you
These videos have helped me heal more than all the years I've spent in therapy. My ex is a narcissistic sociopath. And a seriously dangerous one. I'm so grateful for videos like these that I can put a name to my experience. It helps me heal knowing there's a term and I that I wasn't crazy, cause he sure made me feel like I was.
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That's too bad
My father is one, and my mom follows him because she grew up with physical abuse and can’t see the mental, she thinks since there is barely any arguing and how quiet our family is that there is no problem and my older sister and I are the ones pointing fingers when there isn’t anything there. (My older sister and I are the only ones who see the mental abuse.)
I understand you very well. I just separated myself from person like that
That's the wrost a narcissist socipath
Some of these phrases are in every Disney movie, romantic movie, and love song ever. And that is scary.
Some of these sentences are perfectly fine. For example, "you make me a better person" or even "I don't have time for this." It depends on the context, and even if someone has said all of these things, that doesn't make them a sociopath.
it depends on intentions, whether they’re used in a good faith or whether they’re used to manipulate the person to be controlling and possessive of them
problem is that most movies portray toxic relationships, which make these phrases dangerous
They're pretty common phrases.
@@chromberries7329 exactly. Or "you're the only one who understands me" or "you're the most amazing person I've ever met"
Fun fact: You have walked past a serial killer at least once.
I don't know if that's a fun fact 🤔
Mirrors are everywhere, bro.
@@that_weeb4509 cringe af
Everyday in the mirror.....i mean wut.
Yay, because getting stabbed is fun...
Lol literally everyone on twitter says "I don't have time for this" when you disagree with them
Edit: wow thanks for the likes
And the classic, "I have a life to tend to." Sure, buddy. Whatever.
I dont have time for this
I dint like being in somes those days expect yt.:)
Put them in rice
pack it up nagito komaeda
3 Things A Sociopath Would Say:
- I use Discord light theme.
- Twitter is a good app.
- Fortnite is better than Minecraft.
No, I don't have friends to have a discord with, I hate most everything on twitter, and Fortnight is boring where as Minecraft is whatever I want it to be.
3 things a clown would do
- use a hytale pfp
- edit his comment
- use false accusations to create a "funny" comment
@@stars_FLAC Who?
Foh lol minecraft sucks.
*psychopath
was gonna sleep but this was important !
Indeed
Same.
mhm
Ahem
anyways, have a good rest!
One of my closest friends is a sociopath, and I've been helping him, he's defiantly improved; but this information is very accurate. It's taken a while for him to come as far as he has, and I'm really proud of him (and yes, he was diagnosed by a doctor, don't worry I'm not just assuming)
He used to say a lot of hurtful things to get his way, and even deny being a socio path; but after years of helping him he now admits that he is (hate saying it) a sociopath, and he now shows more emotion for others, he also has started to be less hurtful, and I'm really happy at how far he's come (it obviously wasn't easy, but I stayed with him and continued to help no-matter what he did or said)
This goes to show that it's not impossible, it's just very, very, *very* hard... but I'm glad that I helped-- and still am-- it hasn't been easy for either of us, but I'm so happy with how he's been doing, and I've even talked him into getting a therapist to help a little more since I'm not a therapist and I can only o so much.
So just keep fighting, because you can get better, it may not be easy or fast, but you can get there...
Run... He's not improving internally or anything. It's just he's just now good at hiding the sides that is socially inappropriate. That is all. Therapist can't do Jack for sociopaths. It only helps sociopaths learn how to manipulate people and learn them
Why would you hate saying it yourself that he is a sociopath?
It's good he's improving social skills which is good, though he can't actually understand or feel what another person is feeling, most of the time we don't mean to manipulate we don't know how exactly to function but glad he's getting better! Also we're not all mean and evil please don't let media fool you I watched this channel with my brother due to our pds and none of it is actually accurate to the actual pd itself it's describing manipulators and Jerks
Sociopath: *changes volume to an unveven number that isnt a multiple of 5*
Me: *screams*
Sociopath: Don’t be so sensitive :)
Well that doesn’t say they are sociopath if you are watching tv together. OCD?
"Sentiment is a tipycal defect from the losing side" (Sherlock Holmes in "A Scandal in Buckingham)
Ok that’s to far
When I was little I used to put it on even multiples of 5 but now I have other things to worry bout so I just hold the button until it’s to my liking
@@lindildeev5721 I understood that reference.
As someone with ASPD, I can relate to a lot of these things but sometimes people with ASPD often don't realize what their doing Is wrong and manipulative. Yes, it's actually possible to accidentally gaslight someone or not realize when you're being insensitive. I don't like how we're represented in this video because it's a lot more than just negative traits. We're not entirely bad people and we can't help this. We can just try and learn from mistakes. I've embarrassingly done all of these and it's not on purpose. When I was younger I was fully unaware of how harsh and insensitive I was being till people pointed it out and was later diagnosed with ASPD. My rude humor and lack of self awareness is where my ASPD plays a role that isn't exactly fun when trying to make friends who don't understand why you're like this. Because of my ASPD, my whole life has been a horrible rollercoaster trying to make friends and understand how others feel. I have yet to go through therapy for this and I find it hard to maintain even relationships especially since I can't hold friendships.
honestly man i feel bad for ya hope u get better with time take care and donr give up dude
*hugs you* I feel really bad for you and if possible I would love to be your friend 😄
@@kamthefemboi Aw, that's so sweet. I can get really mean sometimes though and my humor really isn't the best thing to be around. If you wanna talk though, I'm free a majority of my time. Aeryynn.n#5327 is my Kord.
I have ASPD as well and while I've never said any of the above phrases I have definitely been told that I can be insensitive (brutally honest and sometimes unfeeling is absolutely how some would have described me when I was younger), and same with the manipulation. When I was younger I didn't realize what I was doing could be percieved as "mean", even now when I'm older (and go to therapy) I still have a hard time differentiating between "right and wrong". If you're looking for a friend who will understand you completely and won't judge you for being who you are, I certain need more friends too. Let me know how I can contact you, if you're interested. I'd absolutely be willing to talk.
@@deynish97 Being self-aware already gives us an advantage. I am a Sociopath with some Psychopath and Narc patterns, but being aware helps me a lot.
Alternate Title: How To Be Greg Heffley
I used to feel better about myself by thinking his life was worse than mine
@@annathegirlboss4886 s a m e
I mean, he does say "you owe me" a lot
I want to like, but there’s 69.
I guess you aren't wrong
Unfortunately, I am unable to eat a good sandwich today :(. But just because I can’t have one, doesn’t mean you can’t! I hope you all get to eat an amazing sandwich today on my behalf!
this is sad guys,
f in chat right mow :[
@@oofedultra F 😔
@@oofedultra F
F :(
Nah,pizza is better
me: * minecraft house explodes *
sociopath: oh...just rebuild ur minecraft house
me: ........... ur a sociopath
Agreement
I kinda Agree with the sociopath that u can just rebuild ur house :P but I think its dramatic if u host a funeral for ur minecraft house
Lol
@Naomi Yappa XD
@Naomi Yappa :(
Whenever I doubted my sociopath ex boyfriend's intentions he said to me - "you overthink a lot".
Heard this very early on. lol now I know it's because I seemed to think things through much more thoroughly than he was used to, and he was afraid I would figure him out.
Nothing is ever your fault, is it?
my friend just sent me this video and straight up said "fuck you" LMAO
They aren’t your friend
😂
You're a sociopath
@@youjustgotburned3980 shit-
That’s a true friend
Wow, a lot of people are sure Time traveling in this video
@@Angel-bl3zb early access
How °^°
They probably have ko-fi or patron
IT SCARES ME
Omg
This video: *exists*
Everyone at my school: hi that’s me! 😃👋
You forgot "I'm not a phycopath, I'm a sociopath, they're different."
A psychopath is someone who inherits the disorder genetically and has more severe symptoms, a sociopath is someone who develops their disorder due to severe psychological trauma.
@@felixmaxwell2279 Do they not do the same thing? Hurt people and not being able to feel empathy towards it? As well as not caring to care? 🤷🏾♀️
@@BumbleBlissWith every mental illness or disorder there are branches of it that include different types of symptoms that all sit under the same diagnostic umbrella. Psychopaths inherit ASPD genetically, and are biology incapable of experiencing regular love along with having an even harder time experiencing what we know as empathy or remorse. They're often harder to treat because they don't easily recognize that they are different, or that their disorder is any kind of problem. A sociopath inherits the disorder from extreme psychological trauma and can experience love the exact same as an individual without ASPD. They have an easier time than psychopaths when it comes to empathy and remorse, and are more likely to figure out due to their surroundings that there is something "wrong with them." Since psychopaths have their symptoms more severe, a charismatic personality shields their actual personality as it is their only way of successfully interacting with others. But with sociopaths, they often have to teach themselves how to "behave like a normal person" since that charismatic personality does not come as second nature to them, that's why learning psychology is of such benefit to people with ASPD. So no, they're not the same. Even if people refuse to acknowledge people who have ASPD as people with feelings, I won't stop defending the disorder and correcting misinformation.
*I am not a psychopath, I am a sociopath. Do your research.*
@@leiv1448 Yea if you click in the replies I decided to take the time to educate them, since this disorder effects me and it hurts to see that no one cares to acknowledge us as regular human beings
I used to have a friend like this and most of the things mentioned in this video is what she said/did to me, so thank you so much for letting me know about sociopaths.
"a sociopath will say anything to get their way, even bending the truth"
me: *intense breathing and sweating* no
well everyone wants their way, don't they?
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0:34 we really just ignoring the
"da vinky" ---> Sociopath
I saw it but I don't know what a da vinky is so I didnt think much of it
Leonardo Da Vinci or Da Vinky
The Da vinci code
"You're the most amazing prson I've ever met." Ive said this as a compliment, not as a way to start controling someone, but, it was a good compliment.
nice pp
@@kaanbasaran9112 its not a male lmao
@@Function.displayName they might mean pfp lol
@@Function.displayName ı know pp means Profile Picture my boı/gurl
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"Have You ever talked to a Sociopath?"
Me: I Don't Even Know what's a Sociopath
(Yes I Am Dumb so Don't Judge me)
lol
Early Access
I thought sociopath were a term for psychopath for the longest time
@laurens YT wait what
When did you made this comment?
I often get susceptible to people who are seemingly potable and have bad lives and I often put up with abuse in too many relationships. This video was helpful at least now I can see some shallow tactics that are huge red flags
This Channel has changed my life to a degree I'd say they made me able to continue going. I can identify Manipulation at the second and not to mention enhancing my confusion of who I am and how I can be the one driving my body. Being psychologically aware of why we do things can help reduce the effect it takes on your life and helps put yourself in control.
I find it funny how the youtube algorythm start suggesting me channels and videos specificly targeted at the actuall situation I am in. When I was in a crisis, youtube started recommending meditation channels, and I found one I like. Now I have other questions about my situation, and I get these videos a lot. Which I obviously started to watch. And I can relate to many of these things. So however I got here. Thank you for the content.❤
Love how they all have cute leaves on their heads lol
Same
they photovores
they photovores
me: AYO MOM I FOUND A EXPLAINION TO YOUR LIF-
Omg djsjrjkfj
Hey mum found a dead body in the trash looks like it came with a belt
hey mom can i murder morrowseer 👹
I wish that I could actually show this without getting kicked out of the house lol
That just fitted right in☠
HOW WAS THE VIDEO RELEASED 18 SECONDS AGO AND THE COMMENTS ARE FROM 1 MONTH AGO WHAT IS HAPPENING WHAT ARE Y'ALL UP TO
magic
Early access it's so simple
Patreon members have early access
They’re just time travelers OwO
@@anemari5809 ohh aight, didn't know that, thanks
No, I'm not scared of being alone, *I'm scared of NOT being alone*
1. No one is ever going to love you the way I do
2. You’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met
3. Don’t be so sensitive
4. You’ll never survive without me
5. You make me a better person
6. You’re the only one who understands me
7. You’re so needy
8. I don’t have time for this
9. You owe me
Ur basically discribing everybody at my school-
Not my friends tho.. thank god- 😱😳✨
Sociopaths will do anything they can to make you feel like they are the only ones who care about you. This includes making up lies about bad things the people close to you supposedly said.👏
Yep and they find out your vulnerability and use it against you
“I don’t have time for this”
But time is an illusion, so how can you have something that doesn’t exist, HMMMMMMMMMMM?!!!!!!
@Ivy true
@Ivy But how can you use the words "have" or "have not" if the thing that you are talking about don't exist HMMMMMMM?!!
@Ivy lets all just hope he isn’t being stalked by tony the clock XD
I say a couple of these things to myself (I am needy, Don't be sensitive)
Same, kinda.
Is it to yourself, about yourself?
@@gyneve yes
@@gyneve yes
Basically i’m always telling myself that like if someone is doing something to me that i don’t like, then it’s my fault somehow, becuase it usually is, among other things. Like i know i’m worthless, and that i’m really dumb. Everything that’s wrong with me stems from the fact that I’m incredibly stupid. Basically just a whole bunch of stuff that i kinda just need to hear.
I'M FINALLY TIME TRAVELER
How can you do this plss tell
@@bhavya_saini1451 they have early access because they have supported this channel.
N I C E
Wow... Pretty impressive...
"Da vinky?" I see that Corpse Husband reference there.
Good catch!
As a sociopath this is offensive QAQ
Not ALL of us want to become serial killers or abusive lovers okay?
Yeah, I was thinking this. I don't have ASPD but clearly using these stereotypes isn't helping those stereotypes? They could've just said manipulative because I can empathize with the fact living with your disorder must have it's difficulties.
Thank you! I feel the same way...
Yup, another ASPD here. I use some of these phrases, but I highly mean them. I try to be the best boyfriend to my partner since she is the only person I feel empathy for.
But as usual, we Sociopaths/Psychopaths are dangerous demons according to the media. This shit is tiring.
@SHARIFAH RAINA BINTI SYED AZHAR Moe Then you have a very biased opinion about we ASPD. I hope you were kidding when you said that I should be a killer just because of my disorder. We are individuals and we make choices. The fact that some of us killed, abused or so, doesn't make us all the same.
@SHARIFAH RAINA BINTI SYED AZHAR Moe dude I don’t care please shut up
I'm a diagnosed sociopath and tbh I do say things like this very often. I don't spend much time on the Internet but I enjoy watching your videos
Alternative title: Things Greg Heffley says every day.
true
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"you're so needy!"
Needy: *slaps* "DoNt cAlL mE nEeDy!"
Lol-
Needy people never get what they need 💎
BFDI reference. Nice!
How is that so relatable 😭
This channel has helped me so much, thank you it helps me a lot at times
I guess I have a little break up to do soon then because I'm dealing with a person just like that who disregards my feelingz even though they claim they love and care about me but actions speaks loudest.🥺💯 thank you for this
0:32
This is edited. I said "i do most of this, am i a sociopath?! QvQ" and some people here being rude. You know what? im not a sociopath those rude guys are, Thank you 💖 i drink tea btw
Uuuuuuuhhh
@@Endmoonyearsago i have Border Personality Disorder, a ruined childhood and depression. I accept that im mean and manupilative but i cant controll it...i really should go to a therapist but i cant because my parent cant afford the money :( i really know that everyone dislikes me and that really sucks...long story short i have a ruined life :> also i have no friends :D
Me too. I related to the majority of those things, i'm actually concerned lol
Are U impulsive?
@@navydavy wait why can i relate so bad to sometimes being mean and manipulative and not being able to control it-
''no one will love you like i do''
*''yeah, thats the point''*
I’m a high functioning sociopath, (and I also have therapy) so I haven’t actually said all of these, but, I will say I have said, “you owe me this.” Many many times😂
Never be around people who are not sincere or never express genuine feelings. If they speak negative all the time...you deserve better than this
I’ve said ‘You make me a better person’ but that shvt was genuine. Never have I come across someone who (I felt) genuinely cared for my well-being til then. Felt like I sold my soul for a little piece of heaven, but I’m not complaining
Wow! My wife uses every single one of these phrases on a daily basis. When I call her out for being controlling she says it's my fault I feel that way, not hers. I can't blame her for being honest about how she feels, it's me being insecure that makes her insults hurt my feelings.
When I say you make me a better person to my best friend. I actually mean it. Im not as closed off as I was before she helped me open up. And I love complimenting her because she truly is beautiful
I was watching this, wondering if my "friend" who saw me having an anxiety attack (I hadn't told anyone) and used that against me was a sociopath. I am now sure of it
Well that isn’t a good friend.
And I was wondering if my “friend” who always lies and Manipulates me and is egotistic is a sociopath.
I can’t think of sociopath and not think of Jonathan from “The Undoing.” So many diagnoses in that show, someone should do a breakdown.
@bex_l_e yes Jonathan. Just changed it, thanks.
When you have a relationship with a sociopath it's a nightmare...
@Becausepeopledotoomuch_ Have you been diagnosed?
@Becausepeopledotoomuch_ I don't know. You said you were a sociopath. Are you diagnosed?
@Becausepeopledotoomuch_ Why is this? You shouldn't care. You're a diagnosed sociopath, right?
@Becausepeopledotoomuch_ So, how did you become a sociopath?
@Becausepeopledotoomuch_ Ok. Can you feel empathy or love somebody
My ex friend was exactly like this.. It hurts. Watching this got me reliving those memories. She was truly a textbook sociopath
I have one friend that is a sociopath. He’s kind, but yet he does tease/ bother me in ways I don’t like.
"You make me a better person."
I don't know about this one... I often tell my friends this because they are the inspiration for me to achieve my goals. They keep me accountable, help me start over when I fall, and can celebrate in my successes. I think more often than not, people will mean it when they say that someone else makes them a better person.
It's about the intentions behind saying that. Sociopaths would say that to people so they can manipulate them into liking them and doing favors for them etc, but we say that to people because we actually think that way.
@@perssaukko6641 okay, I can understand that better. I guess now the hard part is knowing whether a person is authentic when they say it.
@@asliceofkai5006 it's hard if you focus on what people say, always focus on their actions.. Disregard what they say, everyone lies whether to others or themselves
I think my mom is a sociopath and so am I, she sees past me and my facades and I do the same with her, that's why we struggle to coexist.
But I don't think all sociopaths are bad people.
Just expressing gratitude that you explained that just because people use these phrases, does not mean they are one. I've had several ex's label me as a narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath and use these videos as their evidence. Literally saying "I've heard you say this and that's why you're a sociopath/psychopath/narcissist." I'm not saying I am/am not any of the following, simply stating that, just as stated in the video, that these phrases alone should be used as a warning flags to further observe the behavior of someone else, and only mental health professionals are ones capable of making these judgements.
Ummm. One of my “friends” says all of this to me repeatedly. And I’d feel to bad leaving her
R U N.
Run while you still can. Try not to look back. Or get her a therapist (idk if that will help)
Run
I was "best friends" with a sociopath from teens to mid thirties. Found out after our friendship ended. No one can make this decision for you, but if your friend is indeed a sociopath, she WILL push you to your limits. There are two things you can do to defend yourself from being preyed on, and you can gauge your friends reaction to them to decide what to do next. 1st work on your self-worth. Sociopaths choose people with low self esteem as their targets, and will try to keep it that way. 2nd demand accountability. DO NOT let this be negotiable. A sociopath will make excuse after excuse leavened with promises to do better, but never ACTUALLY do better. And beware, they will make themselves look like the victim, and are damn good at it. My "friend" was able to not only get out of domestic violence charges, but even managed to reverse them!
I wish you the best of luck, and if I may there is one silver lining that will come of this..you will be one hell of a good bullshit detector!
@@michaelkrull3331 tysm!! I was literally having a panic attack and she brought up he had math grade.
Sociopath: You'll never survive without me.
Me: wtf bro, mind your own business. What a jerk!
Not all sociopaths are bad, a lot of them are aware of what they are doing and stop themselves.
@@trashgamedev5730 They stop themselves because their reputation will be ruined. Sociopaths are all about power and control and when they are about to do something that’ll ruin their chances of getting there, they’ll stop. My ex stepdad for example would verbally and physically abuse me when my mother wasn’t around but he would apologize, gaslight, and love bomb me with gifts because he knew that would tell my mom. Needless to say he’s in prison for life for assaulting and attempting to murder two young women, I really wish people would understand the severity of ASPD and how sociopaths really act when the public isn’t watching.
yknow whats funny, my brother and i sometimes do nice things and then using it for “favors” except he does it better than me, and most of the time i dont give a shit.
my brother could be a ceo if it werent for him being a lazy ass
Lol
gets cheated on and has conctete proof of said cheating - "I know that you know I'm telling the truth" "I hope that someday you'll believe me" "why would i Iie to you? I have nothing to gain from this"
Isn’t that kinda like gaslighting?
@@shunohh yeah it is! so so sneaky 🤨
Man once again the media frames people with ASPD as heartless monsters despite the fact they CAN experience emotions to an extent on a spectrum of intensity
My friend: Says that he did all of that
Me: Hes FINE
Me: stares at the person who uses some of these words
Also me: sweats profusely as I stare into the mirror
Psych 2 Go, LITERALLY made a disclaimer "Just because you or someone you know says these things, doesn't make you a sociopath" great you didn't pay attention to the disclaimer
@@yummydragon8533 bro it's a joke
@@yummydragon8533it’s a joke chill, btw I know u are just copying and pasting this on a lot of different comments because u said it twice on one
Being honest I don't like how sociopaths are imaged as the bad guy
They're doing it unintentionally most of the time.
@@Samuel-kz7ow yeah and they are that way because their environment made them like that
I grew up with a bpd father and sociopathic mother, at first I thought she was a narcissist but that's just part of her, I've been suicidal since I was conscious and I am now 19, every day is a battle to undo the markings they engraved on me. But the worst part is that i think everyone is like them, and that I am attracted to people like them.
Can you please make more vid on this topic ?
If anyone agree then please like this
My mother was like this. I grew up being told "I owed her" even though she literally only used me as a tool against my dad and terrorized me. She wanted to stop me from ever leaving home (her) by telling me the world was dangerous, and I was safer at home "with her". She got angry when I had a possible scholarship that would take me to a college upstate. She never wanted me to even leave my hometown, because I wouldn't be reachable by her. The woman had children simply to have built-in supply. Unfortunately, trying to get away from her meant I ended up with more narcissistic sociopaths just like her. There are more of these monsters in the world than we realize, and they just float among us. I was conditioned by one to accept the abuses of the others.
Your mom is basically Mother Gothel and I'm so sorry you had to deal with her
Sounds like my dad :/
Monster is a tiny bit of an exaggeration don't you think.
@@user-oi1yo2yj4b did you read the paragrapy
@@user-oi1yo2yj4b On the contrary, Monster is a bit of an understatement.
I used to tell my best friend she was the most amazing person I ever met. Cause she was though. She always tried super hard, and we have a lot in common, and she was kind and sensitive and thoughtful. And she seriously was the best friend I ever had. And if she said someone didn’t like her, I’d say, “how could they not like you? Your the best! Your beautiful and sweet and funny, it’s their loss” but I actually meant it. and I used to tell her she made me a better person!! And that she was the only one that understood me!!!! But I meant it... and then I ended up cutting it off because her all time best friend was very manipulative and “toxic” but I had tried being friends with my BFF and not the other girl, but I ended up pulling my friend apart. So then I decided it was just better to back off. Because it’s either I’d have to stay with a bully, to keep being friends with her, or I’d have to stop being friends with them both. And I still feel bad. Because now my best friend is stuck with the manipulative person, that she’s tried to get away from before, but she can’t. Her other friend controls everything, even who she’s friends with, what she does with her things, how she talks. EVERYTHING.
D: so your friend being bullied by her other friend?
I suggest to stay with your friend so you two can stay together and may talk privately about her manipulative friend.
I mean as long as things don’t get violent, there is always a way out to choose who to befriend with.
@@cdorothy444 thanks.
This list is like all the things I think but would never have the audacity to say out loud.
So my friend always says "I wouldnt suurive without you (me)" and I shower her with complements but I dont think im a sociopath
Watching this has made me realise that I'm a sociopath mostly to myself and at times to others
a sociopath will do anything to win anything.
Not me bending the truth so I don’t get attacked by a fake friend-
Hey, its amazing how accurate the video is. When you put it all out like this, i actually start to dislike myself a wee bit more.
Hi! I'm you but from the future!
(Don't mind me, I'm just writing it for myself)
weirdo
@@MercenaryFox no
Time traveler!!! How!!!!
Damn
cAn YoU teLL mE hoW do U dO thAt?
Sure have they are so decieving they have their ways with their words .My dad is a sociopathic narcissist ! He always blames me for what he has done behind my back & says I am too senstive & paranoid .
0:32, don't use munchausen syndrome
"do you know someone?"
me: refuses to accept that i may or may not list all these things
When I was in 8th grade a girl was my "best friend". We would do everything together. She would always tell me I was pretty and how ugly and depressed she was. Eventually I realized I was getting ignored by her. I didnt know what was up because we where "besties". Over time she started calling me ugly. I eventually became depressed. Turns out she was spreading all my entrusted secrets with all my other "friends". Those "friends" of mine would tell rumors and lies about me to everyone and laugh at me behind my back. I eventually got out of that toxic situation and am so grateful to have much better, happier, mental health. Thank you for reading my story
I've never met a sociopath or maybe i have but i dont know anyone who used these well atleast for what i remember.
Also how many people time traveled here
@@AN68477 about 39
Me: sees "you owe me"
Also me: *stares at my brother*
As an Empath I have attracted many Sociopaths and honestly when it comes down to it, they are simply unable to care, and given enough time will slip up and be exposed. That being said, please my lovely beautiful fellow Human beings please watch out for them. Be safe. Love ya Guys. 💖
I am a fool
As a sociopath I can say that not every sociopaths and pasychopaths ale like that. Like me for example. Sometimes I really don't give a sh*t about the world, anyone and anything, but sometimes I do care, maybe less than avarage person but still. Anyway, I'm always trying to be a good person, I'm helping people, and I usually don't say things like in this video, but I think that often. But still that doesn't mean we are bad, at least not all of us