My Battle With Addictions - Footballer Paul Merson Tells His Story.

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  • @Mike-1000
    @Mike-1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    I'm not a gambling addict but personally I find the amount of gambling enticing adverts during sports events are unbelievable.

    • @andyhornhornhorn
      @andyhornhornhorn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      You feel as though you can't watch a game without putting a bet on. They should ban gambling advertisements.

    • @Mike-1000
      @Mike-1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@andyhornhornhorn Yeah, everyone happy and laughing whilst they are betting. I'm not sure about a ban but certainly the volume needs looking at for sure.

    • @mrkipling2201
      @mrkipling2201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Mike-1000 absolutely. They all look happy and like they’re having a laugh. Maybe it’s fun for some people but I think it’s the wrong image to give out about gambling.

    • @beddybedford2757
      @beddybedford2757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I wonder if you can bet on these very rare heart incidents 🤔🤔be good odds

    • @G.E.MTFC_
      @G.E.MTFC_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why not ban good adverts then ? People are getting fat and over eating to. Would be never ending

  • @LeeGunner
    @LeeGunner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I bloody love Merse. What a player he was. Could listen to him all day 👊🏻❤️

    • @davidguardado4739
      @davidguardado4739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lee im a Sub mate... those were the days hey mate Merse was one of my first ever heros 💪

    • @davidguardado4739
      @davidguardado4739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He scored in my first game we beat Millwall 2-0 and Merson scored! I was hooked at age 7
      I got to stand in the North Bank before it was made all seater , feels like a lifetime ago. I remember the Noise and chants it was rocking , the day we left Highbury I cried .I knew Arsenal had sold out .

    • @ptiger7177
      @ptiger7177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brilliant James. He's a top man 👌🙌

    • @Jk-ns8mx
      @Jk-ns8mx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We bloody love you Lee!! Best gooner you tube channel on the circuit!! Geeeeezzz!!!

  • @simonwoolley6758
    @simonwoolley6758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Absolute legend dealing with a terrible illness
    A friend of mine was on the brink of pro football but tested positive for drugs and was in the papers
    Paul Merson got his number and took the time to give him a call and give him some very much welcomed and needed advice
    Top man

  • @rugbyvideo4531
    @rugbyvideo4531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I am amazed as Paul said no clubs have asked him to give a talk, his life experiences are invaluable. He has an ease of expression that people will listen to, great fella

  • @fitzroy7054
    @fitzroy7054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    As a gambling addict myself fighting the addiction this was helpful listening
    Thank you

    • @headtopturner9047
      @headtopturner9047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hope you manage to get better with it even if it has to be slow … every day can be better , it’s just somehow rationalising the thought processes .. you’ve got this

    • @lukeyoneshot6040
      @lukeyoneshot6040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hang in there brother you got this down man do not give up your a fucking fighter use all your strength and power to let it go 🙏🙌

    • @fitzroy7054
      @fitzroy7054 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@headtopturner9047 Thanks 🙏

    • @fitzroy7054
      @fitzroy7054 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lukeyoneshot6040 Thanks 🙏

    • @fitzroy7054
      @fitzroy7054 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Ross Hardy Thanks Brother 🙏keep strong

  • @user-vv1vu2ls1t
    @user-vv1vu2ls1t ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's the way he speaks, it's like he really thinks about what he wants to say
    Love listening to you PAUL

  • @robbarnett524
    @robbarnett524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    "If you can drink normally, then drink normally". This resonates with me. When I start I dont stop. Closing in on a year dry now. Great podcast 👍

    • @Jac-Jay
      @Jac-Jay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well done Rob, onwards and upwards🙏

    • @robbarnett524
      @robbarnett524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Jac-Jay thanks mate 👍

    • @joshsheridan2589
      @joshsheridan2589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good job mate. Worst illness ever

    • @robbarnett524
      @robbarnett524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joshsheridan2589 absolutely

    • @VR46314
      @VR46314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations mate

  • @robbie2474
    @robbie2474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Absolute legend..... Had his struggles but owns it... Fair play to him... Keep it up Merse

  • @jordantaylor439
    @jordantaylor439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I'm not a problem gambler, but because of Paul's documentary I've decided to boycott all of the gambling sites. Not for fear of being addicted, but because I won't give another penny to the people who pray on addicts in the way they do.
    You're both doing great work

    • @a-mh2811
      @a-mh2811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i'm with you

    • @watchinboats
      @watchinboats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes brother good on you.. what a bunch of vultures they are

    • @sjb7956
      @sjb7956 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am a problem gambler who asked for help and thankfully today I haven’t bet in 4 years.
      I was spending in excess of 1500 a month when I only earned around that. The blame lies with me but I must say that around 9 months off a bet I received an email from Sky Bet reminding me of a specific occasion I had bet this amount and had won this amount and that I could rejoin with the aid of a free bet.
      I take accountability for me but a found that dreadful that a company could prey on someone like that.
      I went from staking 96000 in a year (although I had won at points) to staking nothing. They know that you are a problem gambler and the fact they were trying to entice me back in was immoral in my eyes. I was in a place fortunately where I found it laughable it was that bad. But nonetheless - they cross a line with that stuff.
      Great listen that podcast 👍

  • @johnnicholas978
    @johnnicholas978 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The honesty of this guy is prodigal.. human nature at its best...

  • @tw9341
    @tw9341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Fair play to Merse for the interview and telling his story.
    We may sometimes mock him for his football opinions but takes a strong man to admit his demons.
    Two & a half years sober myself, and yes boozing led to other stuff

  • @twiggyeison
    @twiggyeison ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great humble attitude, he's not blaming everyone one else, accepting his mistakes and trying to do better.

  • @rabmcnair4488
    @rabmcnair4488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Love seeing people who manage to come out the other end. Well done Merson, you are much stronger than you give yourself credit for.

  • @garysmith2845
    @garysmith2845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As a compulsive gambler myself, this is a refreshing watch to know it’s not just me that feels like that

    • @JamesEnglish
      @JamesEnglish  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️

    • @ER-gw2xz
      @ER-gw2xz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stay strong mate. Help is out there.

  • @Bulldog55
    @Bulldog55 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Absolutely love Paul Merson talking football . His analysis on players /matches is insightful and honest . He was terrific on sky on a Saturday for years and made an afternoon a perfect watch for millions . He might have got a lot wrong in his personal life but he got a hell of a lot right. I used to love listening to Ray Wilkins too so interesting to hear that was Pauls hero growing up . Both class acts . This interview will help millions of others suffering with addiction . Good luck in your personal battles you have everyone’s respect. 👍🏻

  • @tobycarter6470
    @tobycarter6470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wonderful interview from James and Paul. I'm an addict who just about scrapes through in life after dropping out of various meetings that I did two years ago. These podcasts help me stop going to the limit of oblivion and to live and fight another day. Nice one James 👍❤

  • @ER-gw2xz
    @ER-gw2xz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I’ve had the pleasure of being in Paul’s company. He’s a great bloke. We all have our issues, he’s man enough to talk about his.

  • @JoshYeadon
    @JoshYeadon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Definitely the best interview I've ever seen/watched. One of the most honest too, leaves no stone unturned. Amazing man, glad he's better and on the mend. Deserves to be happy. ☑️🙌

  • @J03333E
    @J03333E 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Merse you are a legend nothing but respect for how respectful and truthful you are. Inspiring man

  • @kevindoughty3907
    @kevindoughty3907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Excellent interview James, Paul was a hero of mine when he was at Villa.. I bet him and Paul McGrath had some benders.. glad he's on the mend and never held anything back on the interview. I've been sober for 16yrs so know exactly what you've both been through.. All the best to the pair of you.. 👊👍

    • @JamesEnglish
      @JamesEnglish  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Well done Kev keep going

    • @Aaron-zr8tu
      @Aaron-zr8tu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well done Mate 👍 16 years sober is Amazing 🤝

    • @kevindoughty3907
      @kevindoughty3907 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JamesEnglish Cheers James.. Keep the interviews coming bro... 💪👊

    • @kevindoughty3907
      @kevindoughty3907 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Aaron-zr8tu Cheers Aaron.. it's not been easy at times, lost my only brother 2 years ago to suicide, then my Mum last year, so I stared the devil in the eye and told him to fuck off because if I touch 1 can I know I'll be back on the streets in London again.. I served my Country and suffer illnesses because of it, but now I've got my meds sorted through trial and error there's no way I'm going back there.. I've come to far and achieved to much to throw it all away again.. 😉👍

    • @Aaron-zr8tu
      @Aaron-zr8tu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kevindoughty3907 struggled with addiction all my life mate , like Paul said One day at a time ,I never used to get that saying (I would think wtf u on about ) but I live exactly like that now today I'm not going to use , sorry about your family but we as addicts can use loss as an excuse to hit the fuck it button but you never Kevin your Mum and brother would be proud of you take care mate stay strong and safe

  • @Matt_Gaughran
    @Matt_Gaughran 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m not into my football, but I’ve got addiction issues and I really think this bloke is a genuine nice guy. Really positive vibes. Truly love all these podcasts they are so helpful. You seem a very good man james! 👍🏻❤️

  • @mark7c
    @mark7c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I'm the same age as Merse and my addiction ran pretty much parallel with him. reading Tony Adams book Addicted had a big affect on me and I stopped Drinking aged 38 but while I was in the rehab I said nothing about the drugs or gambling. I didn't drink again until I was 48 but aged 40 started taking gear (smack) I used to gamble to try and win money to get gear but never came out on top. Like Merse I wasn't into casino gambling, it was horses, dogs, and got into betting on cricket in a big way, I remember sitting in a cafe watching 2 flies trying to get out, there was a window open at the top with a small gap, I sat with 3 mates putting money on which fly would get out first, sitting there for over an hour watching the flies. I've beaten drink ,coke pretty much every substance I've ever used but I cant beat smack and I cant beat gambling. Now having accepted that I've given up giving up I have a certain amount of peace with that. In a perfect world id be clean but I'm not so applaud anyone who has beaten living in the madness. It was a good listen James and you Paul...Just to finish I went to watch Pompey when Merse was there, it was the only time I watched him live but what a player you were!! .

    • @riboid
      @riboid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You sound right fun.

    • @sevans606
      @sevans606 ปีที่แล้ว

      Were you a professional footballer?

  • @MrBoothyboy1988
    @MrBoothyboy1988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This podcast has to be one of the most inspiring and touching ones I’ve ever had the pleasure of watching

  • @efclukey9574
    @efclukey9574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    One of the best podcasts I’ve ever listed to respect to you Paul and thank you mate and take care of yourself and reach out if you need anything

  • @sloopycat1954
    @sloopycat1954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankyou Paul, Thankyou James for sharing to help so many poor individuals, me included, so selfless.

  • @anthonyeverett5375
    @anthonyeverett5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    He’s still the magic man to me. I used to stand in the junior gunners, besotted by the things he could do with a ball. The original number 10. Well done son.

  • @D1Snr
    @D1Snr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was never an Arsenal fan, but I was born in 1982 and always remember watching an Arsenal match on ITV in 1990 and seeing Paul Merson. He was the first player I ever identified to my dad as being a good player. I was like "Dad, look at him, he's a good player". I've never forgot it.

  • @conorsmith8551
    @conorsmith8551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Merse, I love you mate. His honesty and openess to discuss his personal struggles I'm certain is saving lives

  • @garyhackett8475
    @garyhackett8475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this.....genuine guy. More power to him. From an Irish Spurs fan.

  • @Jk-ns8mx
    @Jk-ns8mx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    James you have done it again fella - absolute top draw interview. I’ve been a gooner for 43 yrs and Merse has to be in top 10 players I’ve ever seen down the Arsenal - this guy was magical and gave so much joy to me and my pals week in week out. Keep strong Merse your loved so much and deserve to be happy and healthy. Keep well gents! N5🙏x

    • @paulhamilton5469
      @paulhamilton5469 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My name is Paul and I gambling addict but I want to speak to Paul merson cause I was and I am the same and this podcast hit me where its truth

    • @dermotcoyle3483
      @dermotcoyle3483 ปีที่แล้ว

      1:13:16

  • @garydavy6792
    @garydavy6792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a true legend paul is I’m a Liverpool fan but I’ve always liked Paul loads of respect for him fantastic interview

  • @mrkipling2201
    @mrkipling2201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Don’t matter how much you are earning or how great your career is, mental health doesn’t care about any of that. He was a great player, one I loved watching even though I wasn’t a fan of any of the teams he played for.

  • @nikkis7453
    @nikkis7453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love Merson Arsenal Legend , he’s absolutley correct the first drink unfortunately opens up the floodgates for anyone with addiction problems , you have all Intensions to have that one drink and it goes completely pear shaped , same for the first line and first bet . Happy your currently at peace 🙏

  • @StephenLMW
    @StephenLMW 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One the best players of all time
    His story is very powerful and touching and I feel like he's done such a great job in trying to stay away from gambling
    I'm glad you got the magic man on the podcast James very good choice

  • @glengooner74
    @glengooner74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The Magic Man , Spent my youth watching merse play standing on the terraces on the north bank , What a player , Genius , Love ya Merse

  • @NH-bz9jv
    @NH-bz9jv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another absolutely superb interview. As a lifelong Chelsea supporter I spent many seasons praying that Merse would sign for us. Absolutely sublime footballer. Keep going Merse🙏🏻

  • @nofluffhypnosis
    @nofluffhypnosis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Been waiting for this one too. Mersons a legend

  • @Thurmoman
    @Thurmoman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is so honest which is amazing. Top man. Great interview James.

  • @graham2733
    @graham2733 ปีที่แล้ว

    Only just got round to watching you with Paul Merson.What a worth the wait was,he’s incredibly down to earth,honest,left nothing to hide.He’s actually a success story for him to come out the other side from the hell that he was in.Brutally honest is the best way that people can be with themselves.What a player he was,I’m 55 so remember him very well indeed.

  • @thescottishbawbag
    @thescottishbawbag 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've searched for that happy middle ground..still can't find it..realised, getting to fuck, living simple and getting out my comfort zone is my only recovery, a Strong , supportive missus helps ten-fold. Finding someone who accepts the demons you carry moves life forwards.

  • @JackManEveryday
    @JackManEveryday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Paul was my first favourite player, I was 5 or 6 year old and my dad had got me a season ticket. He absolutely tore what's now the championship to pieces for Boro, best player in the league by a million miles. My first ever pair of boots were red cos that's what he wore, people don't realise cos of his problems and cos he has a daft laugh on TV how much of an unbelievable player he was.

  • @summan41man
    @summan41man 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this interview, I was hanging on every word. I've always liked Merson, he's a good guy, genuinely humble.
    Gambling is horrible, I know too well. It seems to attract and encourage our introverted self, it thrives on our isolation, where we are at our most vulnerable.
    God bless you both.

  • @conor85882
    @conor85882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love Paul Merson. The player, the pundit and the fella

  • @kevbrown841
    @kevbrown841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another brilliant podcast james
    Mers very honest knows the struggles he’s had and brave enough to talk about it will help so many people who watch this 👊

  • @snipedotgenius
    @snipedotgenius 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    growing up watching him Ian Wright and my cousin Kevin play for arsenal my ultimate hero’s .. Paul’s story has made me cry several times life is tough ..

  • @djobscene4239
    @djobscene4239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Probably the most open interview I’ve ever seen, so gut wrenching to hear what others do when in addiction. I am currently talking to people about mine and this interview resonates big time at points…

  • @Abeeforth
    @Abeeforth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Magic Man, Merson.
    Loved him coming to The Boro, even if it was just about the money.
    Unbelievable player. Big respect to him for talking about his struggles.
    Wish him well for the future.

  • @karlsnowden9777
    @karlsnowden9777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Top interview, great story from a fantastic footballer and great guy which proves being rich and famous does not buy happiness. Family will always bring happiness I have had addictions and overcome them with a great wife and family and thanks to Paul and James fur telling this story which is inspirational and will hopefully help others who are struggling. Good luck for the future Paul.

  • @robb526
    @robb526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    James this Paul Merson podcast is the best podcast that you've ever done , only because everything he says I can (like so many addicts ) relate to I'm so glad to of met the fella a fair few times, I'm so glad he's got his demons under control for a daily reprieve ,may God bless him ,you and your followers (not that you read posts especially a month old post ,lol) 🙏🏼👍🏼

  • @jonathangault6465
    @jonathangault6465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always loved GREAT FOOTBALLERS...And This man is one of the GREATEST

  • @jdysontube
    @jdysontube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    James, your podcast is the best and your the best interviewer, you should be on bbc or itv Saturday night talk show. Paul merson is a lovely bloke, humble, down to earth, honest and was a top footballer. Keep your chin up Paul

    • @bradleycatterall6726
      @bradleycatterall6726 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why would he want to work for the bbc or itv? Proper nonce corporations

  • @markhawthorne525
    @markhawthorne525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Was the same as merson gambling when playing for doncaster rovers as a youth player would gamble YTS money and try and jump train home to sunderland hiding in toilets it never leaves you..still battlingv20 years on..can relate to everything he says

  • @Reppy48
    @Reppy48 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Paul Merson is a legend. great footballer, Great person. altogether Top man.

  • @kieransimpson4965
    @kieransimpson4965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much of what merson says rings true. Very authentic character

  • @youredonebuddy7435
    @youredonebuddy7435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great video credit to James and Paul both legends for bettering themselves!

  • @nickdavis487
    @nickdavis487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve been a Chelsea fan since 1973 my 1st game at 11 and I have seen some wonderful football and footballers over the many years of following my blues,But I have to say/Paul Merson was one of the best English players ever, he was called the Magic Man for that reason,he was magic, god bless you Merse n b lucky!!!

  • @Garngad_bhoy
    @Garngad_bhoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thourhgly enjoyed listening to Merse as I lived through everything he & others have I'm now 11 year clean from heroin & 18 month methadone today I have my family back a home that I'm happy in & my wee saviour my dog & Paul was right we aren't bad ppl we are sick ppl & sick ppl need help to get better all the best for the future both of you boys

  • @imnotavingthat6813
    @imnotavingthat6813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dya know when you cant see the woods for the trees, well after listening to this, im doing a 360 and getting back to being me
    Thank you Paul and you too James.

  • @jonwilson1765
    @jonwilson1765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love listening to Paul and I have so much respect for anybody that can beat addictions. Great show 👍

  • @bellis7085
    @bellis7085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is for me,the best one so far,so relatable,from both of you,thanks for this,much needed and good timing guys!

  • @Mcmahon143
    @Mcmahon143 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Paul Merson is one of my favourite people to listen to. He is the kind of person you could talk about anything to

  • @thfcno1274
    @thfcno1274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a yid, I have grown to like Merson, so glad he has pulled through, very likeable guy, says how it is, keep strong Merson, didnt like the shirt you wore, but a top man COYS

  • @SteveBevan79-
    @SteveBevan79- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Apart from not being a class footballer like Paul, this story is me in a nutshell. Thanks for posting this, emotional, but told a few home truths about me.

  • @JasonBrown-zg3tr
    @JasonBrown-zg3tr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Merson worth every penny you earned m8 a class act.Been there on a smaller scale and this is from a spurs fan.

  • @Ashley-oe2is
    @Ashley-oe2is 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You got this Merse lad, all the attention your brining to this horrible disease is immense too. Top lad for giving him the platform James, definitely a mutually beneficial arrangement this one. Two top REAL blokes.

  • @wiggyp1v255
    @wiggyp1v255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As an Arsenal fan I'm very much looking forward to this one

    • @JamesEnglish
      @JamesEnglish  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙌🏼

    • @nickdavis487
      @nickdavis487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a Chelsea fan I am so looking forward to this, Mers is a legend , even as a Gooner, happy Christmas

    • @davidguardado4739
      @davidguardado4739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💪

  • @tempzsixone1091
    @tempzsixone1091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good watch this one.The only time a gambler/addict wins is when they stop playing 💯

  • @Trecesolotienesdos
    @Trecesolotienesdos ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Merse is the best pundit on British TV. Straight-talking, genuine, down to Earth. Arsenal legend!

  • @robertmason6366
    @robertmason6366 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've read Paul's book "Hooked". What a brilliant read and I'm not a massive book buyer but I had to get this because I'm an addict like Paul. What I like about Paul is you learn something of him every interview. When he said " I never felt right in my own skin and felt itchy or kept moving in my sleep" I thought wow...that's exactly what I get. Paul in a wonderful human being...
    From a
    Recovering addict

  • @gdidj019
    @gdidj019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bookmarking this podcast I think I’ll be rewatching this a lot.

  • @63Baggies
    @63Baggies 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    An interesting insight into Paul Merson's character, his first thought in regard to regretting wasting money was the fact that he could have bought gifted that cash to someone else. This indicates a very kind heart indeed.

  • @Thanks_for_posting.
    @Thanks_for_posting. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great signing James thanks for telling your story Paul

  • @malterwitty5433
    @malterwitty5433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great podcast. Paul’s so honest, I wish him well, thanks James. Have a great festive season, and all the best for 2022.

  • @dv4092
    @dv4092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    absolute legend, always loved merse at villa, i'm going through the exact same thing as he was now, amazing to hear someone like him has gone through it aswell

  • @Mikethewire
    @Mikethewire ปีที่แล้ว

    I love his honesty never tried to blame anyone or anything

  • @Liam-us3cq
    @Liam-us3cq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Looking forward to this one! Merson is a class act 👍

  • @harryflashman2001
    @harryflashman2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This interview was amazing. I just love how quick and articulate Paul is with his answers. There is no filter with this guy, it's all laid bare. A great talker.

  • @mutts.nutts1
    @mutts.nutts1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I went to a talk night with Merse a few years back and such a genuine guy, lots of funny and compelling stories from him and have a lot of respect for the man and footballer

  • @aliboyd1981
    @aliboyd1981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Got to be one of the most genuine and refreshing ones you have done yet
    That could have been two lads in the boozer, maybe the coffee shop, discussing their shit with each other. I think the clearest example of how your own experience James can relate to the guest with zero risk of appearing patronising or arrogant, the way some knobs have slandered you.
    What a guy and his honesty specifically the "what has he got to be depressed about , he's loaded"
    Money means fuck all.
    He's seen the top and bottom at the same time!
    Think this has got to be your best result in terms of guest, but more than that, I think the strongest most genuine message and the number of views is not the proof..
    You'll have a higher percentage of viewers taking the positive from this . Quality not quantity!
    Mers, still a legend!
    There's a fucking motivation/help/support video/presentation/quotes from clips of this podcast. Thank you

    • @justinh6260
      @justinh6260 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Quite agree mate

  • @joejarvis9213
    @joejarvis9213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Boss interview this James. Always rated Merson as a footballer he was unbelievable this podcast shows what kind of man he is. Belter 👍

  • @fergusmaher7490
    @fergusmaher7490 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spurs fan here. But since Merse got into football analysis on tv, couldn’t respect the guy more. Completely honest and a very likeable guy. Wish him all the best.

  • @simonmoon8773
    @simonmoon8773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very powerful and positive - I hope he gets to speak to younger players and addicts, he will surely save some from that terror.

  • @danielmason7036
    @danielmason7036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can relate so much to this story (without the cups!!) Im a recovering gambling addict and the way you and Merse present yourselves here is very helpful for someone like me. I watch all of James' material, but this stands out from the rest. Fair play to you both for opening up on this vile disease. Respect!!

  • @ashjenkins7591
    @ashjenkins7591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fairplay to Paul, he was a top player and he is trying to help others now. all the best to him.

  • @ChrisBrown-nb4qu
    @ChrisBrown-nb4qu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not been to a meeting for a year or so and needed to hear this. Thanks Paul.

  • @gavinmartin1649
    @gavinmartin1649 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Outstanding interview this really touching. Great Job James, what a player Paul was in his prime sad that he had such troubles behind closed doors

  • @Maxdave13
    @Maxdave13 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm only half way through this interview and my heart is hurting for you, what a man, please stay strong brother

  • @robertmasters4004
    @robertmasters4004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anyone watching this should take note of merse because hes been threw a lot but has the courage to tell everyone hope he has a long wonderful life ahead of him

  • @kevinquinn6087
    @kevinquinn6087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a top guy, love hearing of successes and people showing the demon of addiction can by overcame day by day.

    • @user-yn7ye3tu7f
      @user-yn7ye3tu7f 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As much as I admire Merse. And I'm an Arsenal fan. He hasn't beat his addictions....YET!

    • @kevinquinn6087
      @kevinquinn6087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-yn7ye3tu7f hence the reason I wrote day by day and understand through my own experiences no addiction can be fully beaten .

    • @user-yn7ye3tu7f
      @user-yn7ye3tu7f 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hear that Kev. But it was only a few months ago he was crying on Harry's Hero's. He shouldn't be on pod casts talking of beating addictions until he has.

  • @jamesmccartney5324
    @jamesmccartney5324 ปีที่แล้ว

    Merson was a great talented player in his day. Thing I like about him is he’s upfront and honest about his problems. End of the day everyone has their ups and downs in life doesn’t make you a bad person.

  • @gavrfc09
    @gavrfc09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is a great guest to have james. Some cracking stories coming up for sure 👍🏻

  • @KB-md7oe
    @KB-md7oe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Look man. I hate england and arsenal but this podcast hits home. Guy chats the Truth. Good podcast James.

  • @jasecfcufc
    @jasecfcufc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    James laughs about his podcast and I say this strongly he is the British joe rogan and what a pleasure it is to listen weekly brother massive respect from what you was to now big respect from a farther of 4 x

  • @tomlawrence7675
    @tomlawrence7675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This will be a good one his book is amazing glad to see he is on the way back up. Amazing story . Keep up the good work James

    • @paulhamilton5469
      @paulhamilton5469 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My name is Paul and I gambling addict but I want to speak to Paul merson cause I was and I am the same and this podcast hit me where its truth

  • @Arisesir
    @Arisesir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Opening his soul, sad but a great interview from Paul, honesty from you both, respect Gent's.

  • @Arsenallozz
    @Arsenallozz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this james. I’m Arsenal through and through and we love Merson. Love hearing his story as sad as it is love hearing about him

    • @nialld1766
      @nialld1766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m Spurs through and through but Merse was a brilliant footballer, and much respect for how he deals with his difficult situation. Wish him continued good health

  • @garyo4057
    @garyo4057 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great down to earth honest interview, there are not many people who would put it all out there like Paul. Great interview, thank you.

  • @bevphillips56
    @bevphillips56 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Really enjoyed this interview, so interesting, loved every second of it. Wishing you the very best Paul x

  • @stevehall5835
    @stevehall5835 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im a compulsive gambler going into rehab on monday! Its called sporting chance merce and adams set the charity up! Nervous but excited! Watched this for abit motivation. Wish me luck

  • @bennetstone4005
    @bennetstone4005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not even an Arsenal fan but Merse was immense. One of the few players I'd pay to watch. He's also a brilliant summariser on Sky Sports.
    I just hope he knows how good he was. Mindblowing.