That statement and the fact that she was trying to mess up the service dog's sense of smell is so cruel to both the owner and the dog. Anyways I imagine if she just focused on her work instead of wasting time tormenting that person she'd still have a job.
Can we take a moment to appreciate the real mvp here? The service dog. Despite all of the other lady's shit, dog was a certified 10/10 good boi, keeping its hooman safe!
@@chillero3heftig712 There's the strong possibility that she gave a fake story to her family and friends, one that makes her look like the good guy. Or maybe it's just birds of a feather flock together, and they're all pieces of shit.
Hiding under the bed ONCE and startling each other is like sitcom shenanigans, but sleeping there for MONTHS with a specific intention to BE WITH YOU is stalker behavior. That roommate needs to see somebody.
The OP of the first story could very well get the co worker in court and get her arrested if she so desired, seeing that there is also proof that the co worker doxxed OP, it would be HARD KARMA if the co worker got into legal trouble
@@RandomStuffReally Not just doxxing, which is illegal in most jurisdictions, but also criminal assault by spraying OP with gasses she knows are life threatening
Not just the doxxing, but if she mentioned anywhere on the forum that she KNEW the perfume would trigger your condition and wore it anyways, you would definitely have three cases of attempted first degree murder on your hands.
Intentionally attempting to distract a service dog, alone, is illegal. God forbid the dog got distracted for one second and something actually happened, that could classify as attempted murder. That woman is all kinds of fucked
Daniel being shocked that someone legitimately says "You look too young to be disabled" is so precious. Unfortunately, yeah, we hear that ALL the time. Some people literally their entire lives. Kind of love that he's completely baffled by it, and angry about it. It's nice to have it recognised by people who don't deal with it.
10000% correct. I’ve grown up with chronic pain and would not be believed by various teachers and peers that it was literally painful for me to walk across campus. Now I’m in my early adult years and brace myself for any comments I get when spotted with and without a cane. The most I’ve gotten are strange looks, but I fear the ineducation is going to wear on me soon💔
@@TransGuyOnTheFly I once considered writing a book on it: "You only see my good days". Sort of an anthology styled piece based on real stories of how people make their assumptions based on things like appearance and the state of the individual when they're NOT completely crippled by their disabilities. Some people, like me, only leave the house when they're having a good day, so to the people who only see us on those days... we look perfectly fine. It's some kind of bias. Survivor bias maybe? I'm not sure. But it needs to stop. If it helps, if you get that kind of comment again, ask them something like, "Tell me, how old do you think you need to be to get hit by a bus?" It doesn't always fix things, but a lot of people have to suddenly step out of their biases and realise that bad things can happen to anybody at any time.
@@rhysplaysvirtualIt wouldn't be such an appealing option if people wouldn't harass you on the bad days, depending on the disability. After some brain damage, I started having an issue where some mornings I couldn't walk. It would vary, but I'd typically be "better" by the end of the day (difficult, but I could walk around if I needed to). Which meant some mornings, I'd walk in to work fine. Other days, I'd be in a wheel chair and lifting myself up into my work chair. The amount of shit I put up with about how I was clearly just seeking attention from coworkers was so infuriating I just started staying home or showing up late on those days.
She got herself fired from a job. She posted op's real name and more online for people to target op outside the job. Then her actively doing things to trigger op's illness this can be harassment of intent to harm or kill. It's like constantly giving someone deathly allergic then thing they are allergic to.
HR fired her on the spot because they hope they won't be on the hook for failing to provide a safe working environment. They're hoping OP just goes "ah, well, that's dealt with then". OP honestly should sue the company for failing to intervene when the coworker repeatedly reported OP to HR for... using the tools legally afforded to her to manage her medical condition? Yeah. OP shouldn't even have needed to contact HR herself over this. Huge oversight and failure to take responsibility on the companies part.
Yeah, that's not good. But, the dog in the office is a problem. You shouldn't pose a danger to other people or try to dox them and make their life unsafe. But, you also need to keep dogs out of the office, unless 100% in there for good reason. I just think she should find a heart monitor or something, like on a watch. I'd have to see precedent, too, if they did this back in the 80s, because then people were sane. But, I doubt they'd let a service dog in an office for that reason then. But people are increasingly getting worse at training animals, and many supposedly nice dogs have behavioral issue underneath the surface. With people, you can just talk to them, but an animal you can't. So, you never know when they might have enough.
@@BKNeifert Well, looks like I just found Karen's burner account. This is such a nonsense take that shows you don't know anything about how to help disabled people or those with serious medical conditions who need more involved aids and treatments. Service dogs of that size can help brace a person collapsing from their condition, like a seizure. One of my professors in university while I got my Master's degree had two service dogs for this exact reason.
@@jvever4904 Yeah, but you have to think about people, and the wider effect on society. There's people who shouldn't have animals, and their dogs can become dangerous, as a result. Or even a dog that's generally well behaved, can display unknown and hidden behavioral issues. I just see it clearly, that this is a road to disaster. Because you start blurring the lines of what makes a service animal, you end up having alligators at the mall, like happened in my own County in Pennsylvania.
Yeah seriously. My advice would be: block that person's number, tell friends you will never speak to them again in any way shape or form, and as soon as you can move far away. This is not a sane individual. This isn't someone being a bit too forward from clumsiness. This isn't a dumb decision. This is a planned decision made knowingly by someone to actively violate someone's boundaries in a time they physically can't defend themselves. Get as far from them as you physically can, and make sure your friends know that you are so they don't accidentally leak any information.
Thanksgiving host does not owe anyone her home and time. She set the boundary, they said they weren’t going to respect it, so then she enforced the boundary. If they want to follow their own rules, they can eat in their own house. Like… that’s what your house is for.
I could see her being a little AHish for the fact she cancelled for everybody when maybe only a few were kicking up a fuss, but it’s her child’s life, so … naw.
@@jediping in my experience (I'm immunocompromised), it's much easier to just cancel something like that than risk some people pretending to follow the rules, or have the people who turn up be resentful towards you because of other people's inconsiderate behaviour
I personally would have first asked everyone to get flu and covid vaccinated and send pictures of the confirmation. Then the child (depending on their age) could wear a mask. I think in general it’s the right thing to do to stay home when you are sick REGARDLESS of if there is an immunocompromised kid or not. I personally think holidays are important for child growth and this could be a relatively safe learning opportunity for the child to start to learn how to navigate social situations with a medical condition (once again it depends on that child’s age). If they are old enough to know that you canceled a tradition because of them, it could lead to isolation of the child and that’s also not good. My thought is basically there isn’t enough information to say one way or the other but it could have been handled slightly different.
@@carolbaker2773 you’d suggest the child wear a mask in their own home in order to not feel isolated? there’s a physical barrier isolating them from the family. assuming the family members (including those who got upset) would agree to get vaccinated and send legitimate proof, that doesn’t mean they can’t get sick. also, one person wearing a mask doesn’t help as much as everyone wearing one. plus, the dinner would (most likely) be indoors, so at some point the mask would be off and the child would be vulnerable. unless they’re made to eat in a separate room, which is further isolation. OP decided it would be unsafe for their child, and that can teach them to advocate for themselves because of their health condition. just like the story of the coworker “firing herself”, the tradition wasn’t canceled because of the child. the family members arguing with OP over their boundaries canceled the dinner themselves. PS: I agree that it’s good to stay home if you’re sick regardless of if there is an immunocompromised person. Some people don’t care about others so it’s better to err on the side of caution.
@@positivevibesveda I am not saying they did anything wrong, just that I would do stuff differently and gave suggestions on other alternatives than just cancelling an event. Of course, I don't know the level of immunocompromised the child is or their age, both of which could affect decisions. Do we have a child that is 3 on chemo for lymphoma? Then that child gets to stay in a bubble and the event is cancelled. Do we have a 10-yr old that is on corticosteroids because they have uncontrolled allergies? Then I would ask for vaccinations and have my kid wear a mask and ask everyone to also wear one. I personally don't believe that masks are as much of a barrier as most people think (I am a veterinarian and wear one for a minimum of 4 hour a day.) If I cannot trust my family that much, then I would just cancel it. But even my conservative family that didn't believe in covid regulations all put masks on when my 90yr old grandpa came for Xmas and 1 family stayed home because their kid got the flu.
As a bald man who is secure in his baldness, sometimes a hat is needed for various reasons. Without hair, my head gets cold. Hair also blocks some light from blinding you. If the restaurant has annoying flashing lights like, say, from a TV playing a sports game, the hat may prevent a light induced migraine. Not having hair can be nice, it is very refreshing in a cool breeze, but your hair provides so many functions you don't realize until it's gone.
@@hadesisbaby im really going out on a limb here but id guess it might have something to do with the head being more easily accessible than if a "layer" of hair were covering it
Also even if you're not balding, hats are fashion. it's a wing place. People can decide what they want to wear, and forcing someone to change their fashion or appearance to show power over them at a wing spot... where I promise you there were definitely a good majority of others still wearing their hats... it's a power thing. Everyones talking about how he's showing his kids not to respect others, but I think he's showing his kids to respect themselves and stand up for themselves - and not dim themselves because another person's opinion who's entire goal is to enforce their power over others.
The brother really went "yeah cool proposal and all.. did you know that slave labor wasnt used to make your diamond? I hope you feel worse about yourself" like ????
Also the fact that he didn’t even bother to have a conversation with his brother about it to get the full story before jumping right into public humiliation speaks volumes. He says he wasn’t trying to hurt the girl but he took exactly zero steps to be sensitive to the subject and protect her feelings because he was in such a rush to humiliate his brother. Gross behavior.
The first story hits home a little. As someone young-ish who also has an 'invisible' disability - people rarely ever take it seriously. You'd think having a trained service dog is visible and legitimizing enough but unless you're like 60+ or have to rely on a wheelchair (which comes with its own plethora of discrimination) there will ALWAYS be at least one certified Asshat trying to "expose" you as a faker and playing down how serious your condition is or can be. Considering her "pranks" could've ended really fucking dangerously if not for Max being the goodest of good boys, I think getting fired is the least consequential punishment that she could've gotten.
My dad is completely blind, and he's had Karens try to get him kicked out of restaurants and stores for having his guide dog with him. Some people demand to see paperwork to "prove" that it's a real guide dog, despite the obvious guide dog harness, my dad obviously being completely blind (he has glaucoma, and you can tell just by looking at his eyes), and the fact that there is no official government documentation to prove that a service dog is a service dog. The worst is when we've waited an hour for a bus just for the driver to not let us on because "dogs aren't allowed" and some bus drivers have gotten really really hostile about it. I was ready to throw hands with em when I was a kid. Thankfully every driver that did that got fired, because not letting a blind man on with his guide dog is illegal, but it's fucked up that we had to wait another hour or just walk miles to get home from the grocery store because of them.
@@Dog_in_tree it’s super sticky because a dog is considered a medical device and right to privacy is suppose to be sacred in the US, but we really need to have more regulations on service dogs to protect the people that need them. I’m a veterinarian and people have come to me asking for a “prescription” service dog paper. Emotional support animals are also causing so much confusion so having defined terms for both is a must IMO. The amount of obviously fake service dogs I see in the airport is astonishing and I get mad because I know the hardships people face that absolutely need those dogs. Certification and registration is what I think needs to happen and a stiff financial fine for anyone forging those papers need to be in place.
Jeweler here, growing a diamond doesn't mean the diamond will be flawless. They have some control over the outcome but not complete control. They also don't have full control over how much the diamond will be when it's cut. So getting a large CT diamond that's flawless would be impressive and worth a good amount.
I got my wife a natural diamond and it’s not flawless, but that’s okay, those inclusions add a little extra uniqueness to the diamond and it looks beautiful. And the pricing was similar to a lab grown. Inclusions don’t ruin the diamond like most think (as I’m sure you’d agree). All in all either works but no one should look down on either lab grown or natural
I don't buy lab-grown jewels lol you can tell they're artificial tbh. Cut and all that is whatever, but to pretend there's no difference is highly disingenuous.
@@Sarah27HI don’t know about other jewels, but lab grown diamonds are literally identical. You must be thinking of some other kind of knock-off. Also, they’re more ethical for the environment and the laborers involved.
@@Sarah27H I think you're confusing actual diamonds grown in a lab with fake diamonds. If you can tell a difference, it's fake and not actually a lab-grown diamond at all.
12:40 coming from a gay trans man, OPs friends would be a lot less sympathetic if the victim was a woman. just saying. not to mention, they're probably walking on eggshells, trying to forgive him because the creepy guy wasn't straight, even though being gay or something is not an excuse at all to be creepy toward someone.
I'm not trans but I'm gay and demiaroace and I've had to explain that SA is not only a VERY SERIOUS crime but a generally terrible thing to do more times than I have fingers and toes, and I can confirm.
“Is this a service animal?” And “What service does it provide?” Are *the only questions* staff, co-workers, random people are allowed to ask. Your health status is no one’s business. I work in a grocery store and I’m constantly astonished at the questions staff and customers ask. One clerk actually said “You blind or something?” (She didn’t last long.) I know people buy vests and lie but as long as the dog is well-behaved, it’s not worth the hassle. If you’re allergic, stay away and the stores are regularly cleaned. It’s not that big of a deal.
I had someone's very large so-called service dog put it's paws on my chest when I was walking into a store. I wasn't expecting it and if my boyfriend hadn't caught me, I would have fallen backwards onto the pavement.
@@Jane-yg3vz that’s what I mean when I say “as long as they’re well-behaved”. People know their dogs and that person 100% knew that his dog was prone to doing that. Either it was a service dog in training..which I doubt because they’re not brought into the community with those behaviors. And he would have explained that. Or most likely, it was an entitled person who doesn’t care what damage their animal can do. I have a small dog, I can carry her. And while she’s not a registered service animal she has actually learned to sense my neurological episodes and barks at me when I need to lie down. She just naturally learned to sense it without us training her to do so. I have carried her into places saying she’s a service animal if asked, not often but I’ve done it. But I honestly didn’t bring her for that reason.. it was just convenient at that time. If I had any doubt about her behavior.. she would stay home at all times. I also carry her because she’s not trained as a service dog and even though I know she wouldn’t jump on anyone, it’s not worth the risk to others.
On the allergy: I'm dangerously allergic to dogs. One day will be fine but two weeks of (near) daily exposure and I get persistent asthma attacks (I don't even have asthma). OP is a colleague. We'd have conflicting medical needs. One of us would have to be moved. But that doesn't mean OP's service dog is now banned from work, nor is it something we could solve among ourselves. And I'd never report them to HR as a supposed fraud or try to trigger their condition/distract the service dog. That's between me, my doctor and our employer. That woman got herself fired and is damn lucky she wasn't arrested.
Lab grown diamonds should be the default. They're more economical, vastly better for the environment, don't fund warlords in 3rd world countries, and don't use slavery or child labor. If a partner got me a blood diamond, that would be a total deal-breaker because it would show how tone-deaf they are and how misplaced their system of values is and clearly they don't know me.
They should also be announced to be lab grown with no shame and DEFINITELY not lied about the origin just to further devalue them and being up the value the natural option.
Also lab grown diamonds are generally MORE pure than "wild" diamonds (in terms of the clarity and amount of imperfections at the molecular level). This is because the equipment used in the labs are able to reproduce a diamond's structure without introducing foreign material. Whereas in the earth, the rocks around it will always be in contact with + interacting with the diamond's uncut surface. In case this matters to anyone still on the fence.
To me, getting the same product for a lower price is always a good thing. It will look just as good on the ring, and the couple can afford to spend more on the wedding/honeymoon because they didn’t break the bank on paying for artificial scarcity. If your partner is ever hesitant on the “lab grown” thing that’s how you should explain it to them. It will look just as beautiful on you, and we can afford to spend more on our wedding and honeymoon with the saved money.
Golden child is typically a term used when describing a particular partern of abuse. The golden child is the one favored and often not held to the same standards as the other kid/kids. Usually there is also a scapegoat who is punished for things the golden child is not, often blamed for things not their fault, and used as an emotional outlet for the abusive parent. The golden child is often on the parents side or oblivious to the abuse and the scapegoat usually ends up with mental health issues and resentment towards the family.
I would've just said "I'm not taking off my hat while we are here." and if she asks why the great parenting hack "Because I said so." There was no benefit to being a smartass to her in front of the kids.
@@cats1970 i dunno, if she's condescending or manipulative with the kids, and especially of she’s trying to subtly (or not) turn them against the father (like many of such people do), putting her in her place and showing them she's not untouchable just because she's their grandma and "an elder" can be good. if the kid goes overboard with the disrespect you can always talk to them, but in my experience with the above (my whole family ended up not talking to the grandmother after years of trying to be civil with her), knowing you CAN tell your "elder" to sod off when they deserve it is empowering for a kid. no one is beyond reproach.
As someone with multiple chronic health conditions, I really appreciate the sentiment in the coming of this video. Sometimes if your condition is not immediately obvious at first glance, some AHs think you’re faking. In my experience the younger you are the more likely people are to not believe you. Thankfully most people are not like this, but It’s still some of the most insane f**kd up s**t I’ve ever heard.
That changes things. The roommate under the bed was trying to affect OP’s mind with their presence and psychic crystal stuff to make them fall in love or sum WHAT
Exactly. You teach people how to treat you. And if they learn they can treat you like a doormat, or an errant child to boss around, they will. All he showed his children was how to set boundaries, and personal autonomy
I had to scroll WAY too far down to see this comment. Maybe I have the ethos of a pirate or something, but I am not taking my hat off in a wing place because of someone third party’s ideas about what’s polite. Unless the restaurant has a dress code that stipulates no hats, that’s my decision to make. And what the stepmom got mad about probably wasn’t the hat, but that she couldn’t boss around the OP
better question to ask the girlfriend: "how would you feel if I bought you a lab grown diamond, and tried to pass it of as a blood diamond or something else and then you found out?" I personally would be quite disgusted at the prospect of someone taking advantage of the perfectly avoidable suffering of others for my benefit, so I objectively wouldn't want a blood diamond. But if someone tried to pass a lab grown one off as one to me, I would be very put off by the ruse itself... Idk, it's like why do you think you need to lie to me about something like that? Who do you think I am?
I don't think the brother ever said it was a natural diamond. According to OP, he just said it was "really unique and super expensive." It's possible he was lying in that statement (maybe he got it for cheaper because it was lab-grown) but I don't think it would even be possible for OP to know he was lying just by looking given they aren't a jeweler. Given the reaction of the fiancee, it seems like maybe she perceived lab-grown diamonds as lesser and as a result felt lied to even if there technically weren't any lies.
@@ellag3265 you don't know that. Form the story it's clear she was bringing about the uniqueness of the diamon (lab diamonds are not "unique" they can't be, they are easily replicated). Lab diamonds are SIGNIFICANTLY cheaper and she was bragging about the price and expensive the DIAMOND is. No matter how fancy the band it's not comparable to the diamond (at least not normally). She was upset cause she felt LIED TO. She clearly thought if was a natural diamond otherwise she would just say (oh yeah! I know it's lab grown) and nothing will happen. The brother is upset BECAUSE he felt exposed otherwise he would laugh at his face for trying to expose nothing. Not get angry that he said something that isn't true. I'm someone who prefers lab diamonds but If I was the girl and was lied to about my ring i don't care for the price but If you felt the need to LIE about such a simple thing. What are you gonna lie about next?? I hate liars man I can't understand the people that felt like the truth should not come to light and let this poor women brag while making her look the fool
When my husband was getting my engagement ring, really the only thing that mattered to me was that the sapphire was lab grown. First of all I didn’t want him to waste extra money on it being from mining, but also it is TRULY a cruel industry. Sometimes I wish we never even got me a ring because we aren’t ring people lol
Only mined gemstone I want is one I cracked of the rock walls myself. Let me have a connection to the shiny rock through the entire process and appreciate all the effort that goes into making a ring.
Intentionally trying to trigger your heart condition feels like it should be classified as attempted murder? That's like trying to sneak peanuts into your food because she doesn't believe you have an allergy
If it wasn't for Max the good boy it Could become manslaughter, or if it went wrong. But otherwise assault can be anything from an unwanted tap to a near death experience without the intent to actually end a life
If you love stovetop stuffing, you should consider having it as a leftover as a stuffing waffle by adding more water than it calls for only enough to make a slightly moist dough some leftover mashed potatoes and cheddar cheese to help bind it together once your stuffing is combined with everything mentioned you spray your waffle iron with non stick spray and on its highest setting you cook them until crispy and serve with a turkey omelette smothered in turkey gravy. It is to die for.
Dude I just got married and my ring is so perfect! It's a tungsten band with trex fossil, meteorite, and opal. My two favorite things in the world is space and dinosaurs, plus it doesn't catch on anything (no stones held up by little arms), I can still work on cars while wearing it, it is so absolutely perfect!
Service dog story: If the only thing someone did to make you look bad was to tell the truth about what you did, you're the one who made you look bad. People don't have to lie and keep secrets for you, especially if you're hurting them
On top of having zero evidence that the diamond wasn’t real, he also thought lab grown meant fake, and it doesn’t, it’s exactly the same. He knows nothing about the ring beyond _possibly_ the person the brother maybe went to for it specializes in lab grown (again, real) diamonds. So, the fiancé believing that she’s wearing a rare diamond ring can still be 100% accurate, even if the loser brother’s wild conjecture were true, which, he has no proof of, so either way he’s just sitting around being a Debbie downer at family dinner. He’s just poo pooing something happy bc he wants everyone to be alone and miserable like him. And he succeeded bc these people always do. 🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢 When a friend I used to have would say stuff like “say we went ____ instead of _____” I would say I couldn’t do that bc I’m a terrible liar and I hate the practice. I’m just not a liar. BUT- if I suspect something is bs and it’s between other people, not me, and it’s inconsequential to survival or safety, dude. I’m not going to say something if I’m not involved. This had nothing to do with that guy. The only lie was his excuse for why he was being a jerk being that he cares AT ALL about the truth, he even said in his post the girl “bragging” is what bothered him, not her “believing something” that wasn’t true, which, AGAIN, he has no proof this is even the case, he’s meddling and casting doubt about things he doesn’t even know for sure. This was never about the virtuous pursuit of protecting people from harmful lies. Idk what other post you could be talking about besides the ring one.
@@rainbomgyou're a shitty person. If you let that poor women get lied to. You hate lying cause you know it's wrong. But you have no problem if other people are lied to. How would you feel if your significant other lied to you about such a thing. This inconsequential thing that shouldn't matter. What is he gonna lie about next cause he obviously doesn't have your problem and is very comfortable lying to his future wife. People like you are the problem.
@rainbomg uh no i wasn't talking about the ring, i was talking about the asshole who kept harassing the person with the service dog and then got upset when they got fired for their own actions...
@ hey cool thanks for clarifying it in the op! I don’t really get how the “lie and keep secrets” part applies to that though- it wasn’t really implied that she wanted that in the post. Eh, it’s cool. Thanks again for making it more clear for people
I know this is his second channel, but I really enjoy this content! I find myself looking forward to these videos and his fun commentary almost more than his sketch videos!
No disrespect to him, but I haven't watched the main channel in months. I find this a lot more entertaining, someone with an actual personality doing reddit readings shouldn't be such a novel concept. And the few that do have an actual personality just devolve into looking at weirdly specific subs and just acting way too fake and into it.
There is nothing at all wrong with lab grown diamonds. In fact personally I would have a preference for them, since they don’t come with all of the insane messed up stuff mined diamonds do.
I do too. But I wouldn't appreciate being lied to. If this happened to me, I would also question the foundation of my relationship, if I'm agreeing to marry a liar that has no problem lying to my face about something so that he can make me "happy".
@@saranaila5905 yeah, it’s literally what I understand stirring the pot. The heat and ingredients are already there, you’re just moving the flavor along faster.
"I hope she goes low or no contact with you." oh nooo. the mother-in-law he doesn't like and the mother his wife finds over-the-top might not talk to them anymore??? how traaaaagic. i'm sure he's sobbing at the idea of losing her.
My BIL's seizure alert dog recently passed away. RIP Lily. You were the goodest girl. Karen in story#1 suuucks. She was repeatedly putting OP's life in danger, and IMO, she deserves to be jailed.
I once got "too going to be disabled" from a nurse in my doctor's office. She then answered all the questions they're required to ask at the yearly physical on my behalf, incorrectly (she kept saying I wasn't having trouble with things I do have trouble with and when I tried to correct her she argued with me; she seemed to believe I wasn't understanding the questions).
hear the "you're too young to be disabled" all the time, chronic illness doesnt discriminate funny enough, and you're also born with it, no clue why old people constantly try to tear young disabled people down like we aren't goin thru it enough
With the MIL wing restaurant story I have a couple thoughts. Was he very rude in what he said? Yeah absolutely. But clearly this MIL has crossed a lot of boundaries and clearly likes to start drama, and the husband AND wife both agreed that they weren’t gonna take her crap. Sometimes you have to make people aware of how crazy they’re being, and like Daniel said, this is just the straw that broke the camel’s back. Also, the comments about how it’s normal to take your hat off in a restaurant are crazy. If you dress up, or practice old fashioned etiquette in a Buffalo Wild Wings, more power to you but that should not be expected.
Honestly my Oma (grandmother) is like that MIL. She was a straight hateful bitch, but in subtle ways she denied and told us we were "misunderstanding her" when pointed out. My dad knew and warned my mum that his mum was like this. They put up with it for years because she was alone (my grandfather died) but she could not go one interaction with doing or saying something hateful, making digs, creating drama over stupid shit. It took her throwing a laptop my dad leant her on the concrete and smashing it to pieces for all of us to give up and wipe our hands of her, knowing she'd never change while we kept forgiving her actions and words
Daniel - you don't need to wait until Thanksgiving to make a box of stovetop stuffing. It takes less than 10 minutes to make. Treat yourself whenever you want it.
You've got me picturing service animals in my head wearing hairnet body suits so they can be with their person working in a hair-free environment and it's both adorable and disturbing. 🤣
For the MIL story, I just see pettiness on both sides. We dont know the general context so we cant judge on that, but based on the story they are both just being passive aggressive towards each other like middle schoolers. ESH but also I dont think its a huge deal
Agreed, both being petty. I’m a gal who frequently wears caps in wing type restaurants/bars but won’t in nicer places. I also have toxic family members that I truly have worn thin patience with who will intentionally push boundaries to see what they can get away with. Based on the limited context of the dude and wife being on the same page, I have a feeling this was a long time coming. I’m guessing they chose passive aggressive over a full on tongue lashing since the kids were there.
Hey, just want to say that I really enjoy your music, and your videos. I'm glad you give a sense of reason into these stories, because they're always so depressing when I read them by myself.
The OP in the last story definitely has the whole "i could treat her better" jealousy vibes. OP wants Emily and thinks his brother doesn't deserve her like OP does
Having 3 kids does not and should not make you immune to being fired. It's your responsibility as a parent to respect your job enough to be professional, work hard, and earn your keep.
First of all, lady spraying stuff at the woman’s desk to trigger her condition. That’s assault. It’s also kind of breaking the Geneva Protocol, I think that would classify as chemical warfare. So that’s both assault charges and war crimes
It's assault, but definitely not chemical warfare, because that's not classified as a chemical warfare agent, and it's also not being used in warfare. If someone goes to their hospital and attacks a nurse (even one specifically wearing a red cross) that's not a war crime because it's not warfare related. It's obviously still heavily illegal just not a war crime.
As someone who uses a cane at age 21, I have heard the “you’re too young for that” schtick more than I can count and it’s SO ANNOYING. It’s usually from older people who don’t mean harm, but sometimes it’s from people questioning my need for it. I don’t “look disabled” to their standards, so I must be faking for attention. Some people think it’s perfectly fine to interrogate a stranger about their personal medical information. Just because no one told you that you were special growing up doesn’t mean everyone is faking for attention, Karen.
Watching this on my break at work and as soon as you read that he figured they were lab (which yeah they ain’t fake) I double-taked bcuz I’m taking a break from certifying and tagging jewelry 😂
At 24:11, I never knew people had a huge thing about hats. For my whole life, my dad has always worn a hat. I've only seen him without it whenever he sleeps. That isn't to say he doesn't have hair, he has good hair genes. Didn't know people saw it as being immature or bad mannered, huh? I just that that the mother in law was being nitpicky on something random and illogical.
It used to be considered good manners to remove a hat indoors. There's no one reason why but several, including that since hats are meant to protect from the environment wearing them in someone's home or business implied you didn't believe their place was clean or safe enough to remove it and that it might imply you didn't feel welcome. This also used to apply to other outwear like coats/jackets and spats, when people still wore the latter. It's mostly just a holdover nowadays and there probably weren't a ton of people side-eyeing your dad everywhere he went, though he might have had a comment or two. When hats were more common, there were more social rules about them is all.
@@fibanocci314Tbf I really don’t think the mother in law actually cared. She just wanted to demean others. (The post made it sound like they usually put up with bullshit from her, but decided in advance they weren’t going to be walked over this time.)
@chloskyskies4399 I agree. I was only responding about the social convention because OP expressed concern that their dad was being judged by strangers for unknown reasons.
@@ghoultooth Yes. But if you love your spouse, and they love you, and it’s not an abusive/gaslighting situation, then you do what you need to do to keep the peace for your spouse.
@@Lari-lc3zqyeah if its not the spouse just always siding with their parents because thats their family then its probably better to be the bigger person, but if all of them are being petty for no reason I'm gonna play ball with that because I'm also petty lol
The moment Daniel's girlfriend said, "versus a BLOOD DIAMOND??" ---Daniel, my man. This woman is a keeper. Get her a ring (moissanite tho, those are prettier than diamonds)
2:43 the belief that HR is here to protect employees, while common, is misplaced. HR exists to protect the company from disgruntled employees, not to protect employees from any harm. they only get involved when it seems like a lawsuit or other liability issues may come into play.
29:47 exactly what I was thinking throughout that entire story. Dude even teenagers can be influenced by the adults around them. A kid of any age with parents in an unhappy marriage is going to be lacking that example, which can lead to hardships in life. Of course so would divorce, but not divorcing and staying in an extremely toxic relationship for your kids could be just as bad for them as just divorcing all together
Baseball cap guy; I'm stubborn. I'm petty. I don't like being talked down to, I would have 100% picked the same fight. He probably shouldn't have posted on AITAH because that was kinda his intention, it might fit better on petty revenge or something. But tbh I was so proud of him in that moment.
Hi! You're fragrant sensitive! It's actually super unknown but super common for people to have differing levels of sensitivity to strong scents. Some people get migraines or heart issues or nervous system overreactions or throw up. It doesn't have to be related to the lungs themselves, even. It can also be a thing for many chronically ill people that strong scents will set off their other health issues, even if there's isn't a direct link between them explaining it. I love that you took a moment to show this is a real consideration because it's one of the most common ways people make existing in public extremely painful. For some reason, they can't fathom that strong smells are enough to knock us on our asses for hours or days. Pls keep this up, it's more helpful than you know!
what even is that last story. you are stirring the pot for no goddamn reason. You don't actually know much of anything about the ring and you didn't think you'd upset your brothers fiancee. What on earth dude.
"Too young to be disabled." I have heard that before, and it's disgusting. Once, while out to eat with my spouse, they went to the restroom. While they were gone, someone came back to their table complaining about a young person using the handicap stall, making very distasteful remarks. My spouse returned to our table, and I asked them if they used the handicap stall. They said yes. I immediately saw red and called this person out, saying, "Not everyone's disabilities are visible, and you're disgusting for saying that. My spouse had 4 strokes shame on you." The manager overheard and comped our meal and told them not to worry about the bill as their order was no longer being made, and they were banned from returning. Abelists suck. NTA
“Take a good look at your wife because in twenty years she’ll be her mother.” You can tell that Redditor had an antiquated, sexist view, bringing the wife in for no reason when she hadn’t done anything to warrant it and telling the guy he should’ve just taken his hat off. Why put him at fault for not following that tradition yet still blame the wife for no reason at all?
I feel like I won't stop hearing "You look too young to be disabled" until I'm 60. I had my disease as a little kid and it's never going away, and neither is hate for disabled people.
2:55 "She started purposely wearing strong perfume and spraying air refresher around my desk, which triggers my condition" so she was straight up trying to kill her
The mother in law from the chicken place who sat in the car the whole dinner time, did some seriously narcissistic shit. I recommend every one to not entertain this behavior!
The hat thing is so stupid. Taking it off out of "politeness" is your own decision and you don't make it for other people. Balding or not, don't judge people that wear a hat. EHS is right, and the problem was not the hat...
Daniel and his gf both saying cubic zirconia wrong was actually so cute 😂 and the spark in his eyes when he’s on the phone to her and laughing at her funnies🥹ahhh young love
Thought I was having deja vu since I had read the first story before this video came out and now I'm glad to have heard it again via your glorious channel haha. That woman is a psycho.
I don't get people who needs to be in everyone else's business. Let other people live theirs lives, ffs, especially when they're not hurting other people. And no, being offended does not give you the right to control others. They're your emotions, learn how to deal with them.
Like the person said a lab grown diamond is still a diamond. They are indistinguishable from the ones dug up from the ground. In fact I would argue that if diamonds mined from the ground weren’t artificially kept scarce the lab grown ones might be more expensive.
Regarding the sick kid story: I experienced something similar when I was put on doctor's orders to quarantine my newborn for a month because he didn't have an immune system yet, after we brought him in because he seemed sick. I informed relatives of this and had one contact me saying all manner of nonsense about how dare I bar them from seeing my kid and the whole nine yards. No amount of explanation did the trick and to this day, that person is still upset about that. To make things even more insane, the whole reason my kid got sick in the first place was because that relative had visited and (without my knowledge) didn't take proper precautions before holding kiddo for a while. WILD times.
Does that first Karen not realize many people are born with disabilities...? "...too young to be disabled" is a psychotic statement
A minority of under-aged self-diagnosed mental illnesses are valid. A laughable minority.
The classic two-hit combo of ageism and ableism 😔
That statement and the fact that she was trying to mess up the service dog's sense of smell is so cruel to both the owner and the dog.
Anyways I imagine if she just focused on her work instead of wasting time tormenting that person she'd still have a job.
@@unusbecauseimnotamasochist9045 but if we call her a karen to her face i'm sure she'd be the first to throw out the discrimination card 🙄
Can we take a moment to appreciate the real mvp here? The service dog. Despite all of the other lady's shit, dog was a certified 10/10 good boi, keeping its hooman safe!
If you're a mother of 3 who can't afford to lose your job maybe not do things that will get you fired.
she shouldnt have any children in her care. how does she even have a (ex?) partner and how does she have friends who stand up for her
@@chillero3heftig712 There's the strong possibility that she gave a fake story to her family and friends, one that makes her look like the good guy.
Or maybe it's just birds of a feather flock together, and they're all pieces of shit.
the kids dont need her to not be fired, they need a welfare check
Hiding under the bed ONCE and startling each other is like sitcom shenanigans, but sleeping there for MONTHS with a specific intention to BE WITH YOU is stalker behavior. That roommate needs to see somebody.
Time to put all sorts of storage totes under there.
No, they do NOT need to see *somebody*! That's the LAST thing you wanna say about a Stalker xD
@That_Random_British_Dude 😂
@@That_Random_British_Dude I think they meant like a professional, like a therapist not a romantic partner
I am concerned about what kind of sitcoms are out there now.
The roommate under the bed story sounds like a creepypasta, I was imagining The Rake.
Oooh we've got an expert opinion here.
@@CZsWorld Didn't expect to see CZ in here 😳
Cz! What are you doing here?!
Write that down, write that down!!!
I was thinking of a sleepwalking Greg kind of scenario at first- but the rake seems more fitting with the conclusion of the story.
the first one: Honey- she DOXXED you. She chose her fate the moment she put your full name out on the internet. She's at fault, possibly legally.
The OP of the first story could very well get the co worker in court and get her arrested if she so desired, seeing that there is also proof that the co worker doxxed OP, it would be HARD KARMA if the co worker got into legal trouble
@@RandomStuffReally Not just doxxing, which is illegal in most jurisdictions, but also criminal assault by spraying OP with gasses she knows are life threatening
Not just the doxxing, but if she mentioned anywhere on the forum that she KNEW the perfume would trigger your condition and wore it anyways, you would definitely have three cases of attempted first degree murder on your hands.
Intentionally attempting to distract a service dog, alone, is illegal. God forbid the dog got distracted for one second and something actually happened, that could classify as attempted murder. That woman is all kinds of fucked
Daniel being shocked that someone legitimately says "You look too young to be disabled" is so precious. Unfortunately, yeah, we hear that ALL the time. Some people literally their entire lives. Kind of love that he's completely baffled by it, and angry about it. It's nice to have it recognised by people who don't deal with it.
10000% correct. I’ve grown up with chronic pain and would not be believed by various teachers and peers that it was literally painful for me to walk across campus. Now I’m in my early adult years and brace myself for any comments I get when spotted with and without a cane. The most I’ve gotten are strange looks, but I fear the ineducation is going to wear on me soon💔
@@TransGuyOnTheFly I once considered writing a book on it: "You only see my good days". Sort of an anthology styled piece based on real stories of how people make their assumptions based on things like appearance and the state of the individual when they're NOT completely crippled by their disabilities. Some people, like me, only leave the house when they're having a good day, so to the people who only see us on those days... we look perfectly fine. It's some kind of bias. Survivor bias maybe? I'm not sure. But it needs to stop.
If it helps, if you get that kind of comment again, ask them something like, "Tell me, how old do you think you need to be to get hit by a bus?" It doesn't always fix things, but a lot of people have to suddenly step out of their biases and realise that bad things can happen to anybody at any time.
Some people look too old to still be ignorant jerks, but here we are...
@@rhysplaysvirtualIt wouldn't be such an appealing option if people wouldn't harass you on the bad days, depending on the disability. After some brain damage, I started having an issue where some mornings I couldn't walk. It would vary, but I'd typically be "better" by the end of the day (difficult, but I could walk around if I needed to). Which meant some mornings, I'd walk in to work fine. Other days, I'd be in a wheel chair and lifting myself up into my work chair. The amount of shit I put up with about how I was clearly just seeking attention from coworkers was so infuriating I just started staying home or showing up late on those days.
He’s a funny dude. Cute, too. His reactions to these stories/comments/posts are priceless.
She got herself fired from a job. She posted op's real name and more online for people to target op outside the job. Then her actively doing things to trigger op's illness this can be harassment of intent to harm or kill. It's like constantly giving someone deathly allergic then thing they are allergic to.
Sadly, people do that last thing too.
HR fired her on the spot because they hope they won't be on the hook for failing to provide a safe working environment. They're hoping OP just goes "ah, well, that's dealt with then". OP honestly should sue the company for failing to intervene when the coworker repeatedly reported OP to HR for... using the tools legally afforded to her to manage her medical condition? Yeah. OP shouldn't even have needed to contact HR herself over this. Huge oversight and failure to take responsibility on the companies part.
Yeah, that's not good. But, the dog in the office is a problem. You shouldn't pose a danger to other people or try to dox them and make their life unsafe. But, you also need to keep dogs out of the office, unless 100% in there for good reason. I just think she should find a heart monitor or something, like on a watch. I'd have to see precedent, too, if they did this back in the 80s, because then people were sane. But, I doubt they'd let a service dog in an office for that reason then. But people are increasingly getting worse at training animals, and many supposedly nice dogs have behavioral issue underneath the surface. With people, you can just talk to them, but an animal you can't. So, you never know when they might have enough.
@@BKNeifert Well, looks like I just found Karen's burner account. This is such a nonsense take that shows you don't know anything about how to help disabled people or those with serious medical conditions who need more involved aids and treatments. Service dogs of that size can help brace a person collapsing from their condition, like a seizure. One of my professors in university while I got my Master's degree had two service dogs for this exact reason.
@@jvever4904 Yeah, but you have to think about people, and the wider effect on society. There's people who shouldn't have animals, and their dogs can become dangerous, as a result. Or even a dog that's generally well behaved, can display unknown and hidden behavioral issues. I just see it clearly, that this is a road to disaster. Because you start blurring the lines of what makes a service animal, you end up having alligators at the mall, like happened in my own County in Pennsylvania.
The roommate under the bed story is some obsessive psycho killer shit.
Psycho Killer? Qu'est-ce que c'est?
@@LucaTeemant Exactly where my brain went. That song is stuck in my head now. 😂
Yeah seriously. My advice would be: block that person's number, tell friends you will never speak to them again in any way shape or form, and as soon as you can move far away.
This is not a sane individual. This isn't someone being a bit too forward from clumsiness. This isn't a dumb decision. This is a planned decision made knowingly by someone to actively violate someone's boundaries in a time they physically can't defend themselves.
Get as far from them as you physically can, and make sure your friends know that you are so they don't accidentally leak any information.
People are literally addicted to niceness. Imagine defending this
It's insane that the psychos friends were defending him. How would they feel if he was under their beds?
bro that roommate is so weird. and the fact that he's trying to make HIM feel bad about it bothers me. he definitely lied to his friends too
Prob a fake story tho
@@Dog_in_tree i could 100% see this being a story crafted to fit the "gay predator" narrative thing
Thanksgiving host does not owe anyone her home and time. She set the boundary, they said they weren’t going to respect it, so then she enforced the boundary. If they want to follow their own rules, they can eat in their own house. Like… that’s what your house is for.
I could see her being a little AHish for the fact she cancelled for everybody when maybe only a few were kicking up a fuss, but it’s her child’s life, so … naw.
@@jediping in my experience (I'm immunocompromised), it's much easier to just cancel something like that than risk some people pretending to follow the rules, or have the people who turn up be resentful towards you because of other people's inconsiderate behaviour
I personally would have first asked everyone to get flu and covid vaccinated and send pictures of the confirmation. Then the child (depending on their age) could wear a mask. I think in general it’s the right thing to do to stay home when you are sick REGARDLESS of if there is an immunocompromised kid or not. I personally think holidays are important for child growth and this could be a relatively safe learning opportunity for the child to start to learn how to navigate social situations with a medical condition (once again it depends on that child’s age). If they are old enough to know that you canceled a tradition because of them, it could lead to isolation of the child and that’s also not good. My thought is basically there isn’t enough information to say one way or the other but it could have been handled slightly different.
@@carolbaker2773 you’d suggest the child wear a mask in their own home in order to not feel isolated? there’s a physical barrier isolating them from the family.
assuming the family members (including those who got upset) would agree to get vaccinated and send legitimate proof, that doesn’t mean they can’t get sick. also, one person wearing a mask doesn’t help as much as everyone wearing one.
plus, the dinner would (most likely) be indoors, so at some point the mask would be off and the child would be vulnerable. unless they’re made to eat in a separate room, which is further isolation.
OP decided it would be unsafe for their child, and that can teach them to advocate for themselves because of their health condition.
just like the story of the coworker “firing herself”, the tradition wasn’t canceled because of the child. the family members arguing with OP over their boundaries canceled the dinner themselves.
PS: I agree that it’s good to stay home if you’re sick regardless of if there is an immunocompromised person. Some people don’t care about others so it’s better to err on the side of caution.
@@positivevibesveda I am not saying they did anything wrong, just that I would do stuff differently and gave suggestions on other alternatives than just cancelling an event. Of course, I don't know the level of immunocompromised the child is or their age, both of which could affect decisions. Do we have a child that is 3 on chemo for lymphoma? Then that child gets to stay in a bubble and the event is cancelled. Do we have a 10-yr old that is on corticosteroids because they have uncontrolled allergies? Then I would ask for vaccinations and have my kid wear a mask and ask everyone to also wear one. I personally don't believe that masks are as much of a barrier as most people think (I am a veterinarian and wear one for a minimum of 4 hour a day.) If I cannot trust my family that much, then I would just cancel it. But even my conservative family that didn't believe in covid regulations all put masks on when my 90yr old grandpa came for Xmas and 1 family stayed home because their kid got the flu.
As a bald man who is secure in his baldness, sometimes a hat is needed for various reasons. Without hair, my head gets cold. Hair also blocks some light from blinding you. If the restaurant has annoying flashing lights like, say, from a TV playing a sports game, the hat may prevent a light induced migraine. Not having hair can be nice, it is very refreshing in a cool breeze, but your hair provides so many functions you don't realize until it's gone.
i don’t really see how hair prevents flashing lights from getting in your eyes either lol unless you’ve got emo bangs which very few ppl do
@@hadesisbaby im really going out on a limb here but id guess it might have something to do with the head being more easily accessible than if a "layer" of hair were covering it
Also even if you're not balding, hats are fashion. it's a wing place. People can decide what they want to wear, and forcing someone to change their fashion or appearance to show power over them at a wing spot... where I promise you there were definitely a good majority of others still wearing their hats... it's a power thing.
Everyones talking about how he's showing his kids not to respect others, but I think he's showing his kids to respect themselves and stand up for themselves - and not dim themselves because another person's opinion who's entire goal is to enforce their power over others.
To the OP of the first thread: Don't feel guilty, because SHE TRIED TO KILL YOU.
The brother really went "yeah cool proposal and all.. did you know that slave labor wasnt used to make your diamond? I hope you feel worse about yourself" like ????
Exactly right?! He was butthurt because everyone prefers his brother (I wonder why...)
The one time when avoiding slave labor is the cheaper option. It’s a win-win!
Also the fact that he didn’t even bother to have a conversation with his brother about it to get the full story before jumping right into public humiliation speaks volumes. He says he wasn’t trying to hurt the girl but he took exactly zero steps to be sensitive to the subject and protect her feelings because he was in such a rush to humiliate his brother. Gross behavior.
The first story hits home a little.
As someone young-ish who also has an 'invisible' disability - people rarely ever take it seriously. You'd think having a trained service dog is visible and legitimizing enough but unless you're like 60+ or have to rely on a wheelchair (which comes with its own plethora of discrimination) there will ALWAYS be at least one certified Asshat trying to "expose" you as a faker and playing down how serious your condition is or can be.
Considering her "pranks" could've ended really fucking dangerously if not for Max being the goodest of good boys, I think getting fired is the least consequential punishment that she could've gotten.
My dad is completely blind, and he's had Karens try to get him kicked out of restaurants and stores for having his guide dog with him. Some people demand to see paperwork to "prove" that it's a real guide dog, despite the obvious guide dog harness, my dad obviously being completely blind (he has glaucoma, and you can tell just by looking at his eyes), and the fact that there is no official government documentation to prove that a service dog is a service dog. The worst is when we've waited an hour for a bus just for the driver to not let us on because "dogs aren't allowed" and some bus drivers have gotten really really hostile about it. I was ready to throw hands with em when I was a kid. Thankfully every driver that did that got fired, because not letting a blind man on with his guide dog is illegal, but it's fucked up that we had to wait another hour or just walk miles to get home from the grocery store because of them.
@@Dog_in_tree it’s super sticky because a dog is considered a medical device and right to privacy is suppose to be sacred in the US, but we really need to have more regulations on service dogs to protect the people that need them. I’m a veterinarian and people have come to me asking for a “prescription” service dog paper. Emotional support animals are also causing so much confusion so having defined terms for both is a must IMO. The amount of obviously fake service dogs I see in the airport is astonishing and I get mad because I know the hardships people face that absolutely need those dogs. Certification and registration is what I think needs to happen and a stiff financial fine for anyone forging those papers need to be in place.
Jeweler here, growing a diamond doesn't mean the diamond will be flawless. They have some control over the outcome but not complete control. They also don't have full control over how much the diamond will be when it's cut. So getting a large CT diamond that's flawless would be impressive and worth a good amount.
I got my wife a natural diamond and it’s not flawless, but that’s okay, those inclusions add a little extra uniqueness to the diamond and it looks beautiful. And the pricing was similar to a lab grown. Inclusions don’t ruin the diamond like most think (as I’m sure you’d agree). All in all either works but no one should look down on either lab grown or natural
I don't buy lab-grown jewels lol you can tell they're artificial tbh. Cut and all that is whatever, but to pretend there's no difference is highly disingenuous.
@@Sarah27HI don’t know about other jewels, but lab grown diamonds are literally identical. You must be thinking of some other kind of knock-off. Also, they’re more ethical for the environment and the laborers involved.
@@Sarah27H I think you're confusing actual diamonds grown in a lab with fake diamonds. If you can tell a difference, it's fake and not actually a lab-grown diamond at all.
@@Sarah27HSlaver.
That roommate, utterly psychotic. How could anyone think OP was in the wrong for how he reacted to this guy SLEEPING UNDER HIS BED FOR MONTHS???
OP reacted a whole lot nicer than I would have
12:40 coming from a gay trans man, OPs friends would be a lot less sympathetic if the victim was a woman. just saying.
not to mention, they're probably walking on eggshells, trying to forgive him because the creepy guy wasn't straight, even though being gay or something is not an excuse at all to be creepy toward someone.
Truth! Also a trans man here (mostly aroace spec). It doesn't matter the identity or orientation, a creep is a creep, full stop.
Tbf lots of people are just as unsympathetic regardless of the gender of the victim
I just want to know how they would respond if he was under their beds.
@@pollypockets508not well at all. But ofc it's different when it's someone else and you don't have live and deal with the issue
I'm not trans but I'm gay and demiaroace and I've had to explain that SA is not only a VERY SERIOUS crime but a generally terrible thing to do more times than I have fingers and toes, and I can confirm.
Asthma can be triggered by allergic reactions, so you very well could be allergic to certain smells.
as an asthmatic myself, I hate it when I'm having an asthma attack and someone doesn't believe I need to have an inhaler, it pisses me off.
@RandomStuffReally Same! I hate the "I can't see your health problem so you muuuuust be lying" mentality
Most likely she lied her ass off to her family about why she got fired.
@@thecroc ??
my asthma and other factors make me aggressively strong to any smoke wven just burnt hair smell. like asthma, chest pain ect
“Is this a service animal?” And “What service does it provide?” Are *the only questions* staff, co-workers, random people are allowed to ask. Your health status is no one’s business. I work in a grocery store and I’m constantly astonished at the questions staff and customers ask. One clerk actually said “You blind or something?” (She didn’t last long.) I know people buy vests and lie but as long as the dog is well-behaved, it’s not worth the hassle. If you’re allergic, stay away and the stores are regularly cleaned. It’s not that big of a deal.
I had someone's very large so-called service dog put it's paws on my chest when I was walking into a store. I wasn't expecting it and if my boyfriend hadn't caught me, I would have fallen backwards onto the pavement.
Oh no what a terrible incident.
Tell them they suck and continue on your business.
@@Jane-yg3vz that’s what I mean when I say “as long as they’re well-behaved”. People know their dogs and that person 100% knew that his dog was prone to doing that. Either it was a service dog in training..which I doubt because they’re not brought into the community with those behaviors. And he would have explained that. Or most likely, it was an entitled person who doesn’t care what damage their animal can do.
I have a small dog, I can carry her. And while she’s not a registered service animal she has actually learned to sense my neurological episodes and barks at me when I need to lie down. She just naturally learned to sense it without us training her to do so. I have carried her into places saying she’s a service animal if asked, not often but I’ve done it. But I honestly didn’t bring her for that reason.. it was just convenient at that time. If I had any doubt about her behavior.. she would stay home at all times. I also carry her because she’s not trained as a service dog and even though I know she wouldn’t jump on anyone, it’s not worth the risk to others.
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On the allergy: I'm dangerously allergic to dogs. One day will be fine but two weeks of (near) daily exposure and I get persistent asthma attacks (I don't even have asthma). OP is a colleague. We'd have conflicting medical needs. One of us would have to be moved.
But that doesn't mean OP's service dog is now banned from work, nor is it something we could solve among ourselves. And I'd never report them to HR as a supposed fraud or try to trigger their condition/distract the service dog. That's between me, my doctor and our employer. That woman got herself fired and is damn lucky she wasn't arrested.
Lab grown diamonds should be the default. They're more economical, vastly better for the environment, don't fund warlords in 3rd world countries, and don't use slavery or child labor. If a partner got me a blood diamond, that would be a total deal-breaker because it would show how tone-deaf they are and how misplaced their system of values is and clearly they don't know me.
They should also be announced to be lab grown with no shame and DEFINITELY not lied about the origin just to further devalue them and being up the value the natural option.
Also lab grown diamonds are generally MORE pure than "wild" diamonds (in terms of the clarity and amount of imperfections at the molecular level). This is because the equipment used in the labs are able to reproduce a diamond's structure without introducing foreign material. Whereas in the earth, the rocks around it will always be in contact with + interacting with the diamond's uncut surface. In case this matters to anyone still on the fence.
My only exception for this is used jewelry. Reuse over producing new product, tho i understand if people want a unique ring
@joannjames7985 totally, and you can find perfectly unique secondhand pieces
To me, getting the same product for a lower price is always a good thing. It will look just as good on the ring, and the couple can afford to spend more on the wedding/honeymoon because they didn’t break the bank on paying for artificial scarcity.
If your partner is ever hesitant on the “lab grown” thing that’s how you should explain it to them. It will look just as beautiful on you, and we can afford to spend more on our wedding and honeymoon with the saved money.
Golden child is typically a term used when describing a particular partern of abuse. The golden child is the one favored and often not held to the same standards as the other kid/kids. Usually there is also a scapegoat who is punished for things the golden child is not, often blamed for things not their fault, and used as an emotional outlet for the abusive parent. The golden child is often on the parents side or oblivious to the abuse and the scapegoat usually ends up with mental health issues and resentment towards the family.
OP’s roommate really said: “I am the one hiding under your bed, teeth ground sharp and eyes glowing red!” /ref😭💀
NBC monster was far more honest than this roommate
I am the one hiding under your stairs! Fingers like snakes and spiders in my hair!
Whenever an old-fashioned kind of person tells me that a gentleman wouldn't behave the way I'm behaving, I tell them that I'm not a gentleman.
Yeah, would be my response too. I'm not trying to fit a stereotype of who you think I should be.
Thats basically what the guy said.
I would've just said "I'm not taking off my hat while we are here." and if she asks why the great parenting hack "Because I said so." There was no benefit to being a smartass to her in front of the kids.
@@cats1970 i dunno, if she's condescending or manipulative with the kids, and especially of she’s trying to subtly (or not) turn them against the father (like many of such people do), putting her in her place and showing them she's not untouchable just because she's their grandma and "an elder" can be good. if the kid goes overboard with the disrespect you can always talk to them, but in my experience with the above (my whole family ended up not talking to the grandmother after years of trying to be civil with her), knowing you CAN tell your "elder" to sod off when they deserve it is empowering for a kid. no one is beyond reproach.
Surprise microphone, surprise camera.. who knows what’s next?! Surprise piano? Additional surprise cameras? The suspense is killing me
Surprise video in the video
Surprise Daniel
Surprise bagpipes!
Surprise guest host
A surprise piano would blow my mind lol! Just reaches under the desk and hauls a keyboard up onto his alp and presses all the keys somehow lol!
As someone with multiple chronic health conditions, I really appreciate the sentiment in the coming of this video. Sometimes if your condition is not immediately obvious at first glance, some AHs think you’re faking. In my experience the younger you are the more likely people are to not believe you. Thankfully most people are not like this, but It’s still some of the most insane f**kd up s**t I’ve ever heard.
Life before death my dude
(I agree, btw)
Not “physically saturate”. PSYCHICALLY. Like PSYCHIC. Oh goodness.
That changes things. The roommate under the bed was trying to affect OP’s mind with their presence and psychic crystal stuff to make them fall in love or sum WHAT
thank you I was practically yelling at my screen lol
Still creepy though.
Whether it's physical or psychological, it's still creepy af. Doesn't change that. 😂
@@Vampress09 "I'm not touching yooooouuuuu...I'm not touching youuuuuuuuu..."
Daniel, your curls look ✨a m a z I n g✨ today! Whatever you're doing, it's working!
I was going to say this too! Gorgeous hair
Really? I thought he should wash it.. it looks pretty greasy
@@Iris-cn4pvhe just used some product, they are definitely not greasy
LUSCIOUS AF
@@Iris-cn4pvthose are what JUICY curls look like
That guy with the creepy roommate would definitely have been assaulted if he didn't gtfo.
Exactly. You teach people how to treat you. And if they learn they can treat you like a doormat, or an errant child to boss around, they will. All he showed his children was how to set boundaries, and personal autonomy
this needs SIGNIFICANTLY more likes. I absolutely do not understand the YTA comments on this one.
I had to scroll WAY too far down to see this comment. Maybe I have the ethos of a pirate or something, but I am not taking my hat off in a wing place because of someone third party’s ideas about what’s polite. Unless the restaurant has a dress code that stipulates no hats, that’s my decision to make. And what the stepmom got mad about probably wasn’t the hat, but that she couldn’t boss around the OP
better question to ask the girlfriend: "how would you feel if I bought you a lab grown diamond, and tried to pass it of as a blood diamond or something else and then you found out?" I personally would be quite disgusted at the prospect of someone taking advantage of the perfectly avoidable suffering of others for my benefit, so I objectively wouldn't want a blood diamond. But if someone tried to pass a lab grown one off as one to me, I would be very put off by the ruse itself... Idk, it's like why do you think you need to lie to me about something like that? Who do you think I am?
I don't think the brother ever said it was a natural diamond. According to OP, he just said it was "really unique and super expensive." It's possible he was lying in that statement (maybe he got it for cheaper because it was lab-grown) but I don't think it would even be possible for OP to know he was lying just by looking given they aren't a jeweler. Given the reaction of the fiancee, it seems like maybe she perceived lab-grown diamonds as lesser and as a result felt lied to even if there technically weren't any lies.
I want a lab grown myself.
@@ellag3265exactly
@@ellag3265 you don't know that. Form the story it's clear she was bringing about the uniqueness of the diamon (lab diamonds are not "unique" they can't be, they are easily replicated). Lab diamonds are SIGNIFICANTLY cheaper and she was bragging about the price and expensive the DIAMOND is. No matter how fancy the band it's not comparable to the diamond (at least not normally). She was upset cause she felt LIED TO. She clearly thought if was a natural diamond otherwise she would just say (oh yeah! I know it's lab grown) and nothing will happen. The brother is upset BECAUSE he felt exposed otherwise he would laugh at his face for trying to expose nothing. Not get angry that he said something that isn't true. I'm someone who prefers lab diamonds but If I was the girl and was lied to about my ring i don't care for the price but If you felt the need to LIE about such a simple thing. What are you gonna lie about next?? I hate liars man I can't understand the people that felt like the truth should not come to light and let this poor women brag while making her look the fool
Exactly my thoughts. I hate liars.
When my husband was getting my engagement ring, really the only thing that mattered to me was that the sapphire was lab grown. First of all I didn’t want him to waste extra money on it being from mining, but also it is TRULY a cruel industry. Sometimes I wish we never even got me a ring because we aren’t ring people lol
Only mined gemstone I want is one I cracked of the rock walls myself. Let me have a connection to the shiny rock through the entire process and appreciate all the effort that goes into making a ring.
Intentionally trying to trigger your heart condition feels like it should be classified as attempted murder? That's like trying to sneak peanuts into your food because she doesn't believe you have an allergy
I’m pretty sure it legally qualifies as assault.
@turner15 I believe you're right, even if I don't agree with it. Assault feels like so much less than this
If it wasn't for Max the good boy it Could become manslaughter, or if it went wrong. But otherwise assault can be anything from an unwanted tap to a near death experience without the intent to actually end a life
If you love stovetop stuffing, you should consider having it as a leftover as a stuffing waffle by adding more water than it calls for only enough to make a slightly moist dough some leftover mashed potatoes and cheddar cheese to help bind it together once your stuffing is combined with everything mentioned you spray your waffle iron with non stick spray and on its highest setting you cook them until crispy and serve with a turkey omelette smothered in turkey gravy. It is to die for.
I do not like stuffing but this description almost makes me want to try stuffing waffles lol
Dude I just got married and my ring is so perfect! It's a tungsten band with trex fossil, meteorite, and opal. My two favorite things in the world is space and dinosaurs, plus it doesn't catch on anything (no stones held up by little arms), I can still work on cars while wearing it, it is so absolutely perfect!
Is it the Saga Bands one? Because the Saga Band's one is priced at exactly 420.00$ which is hilarious
Wow! That sounds incredible! May I ask where you can find something like that?
That’s incredible
Congratulations
I've never heard of fossils being used for wedding rings before, that's literally so cool???
Service dog story:
If the only thing someone did to make you look bad was to tell the truth about what you did, you're the one who made you look bad. People don't have to lie and keep secrets for you, especially if you're hurting them
On top of having zero evidence that the diamond wasn’t real, he also thought lab grown meant fake, and it doesn’t, it’s exactly the same. He knows nothing about the ring beyond _possibly_ the person the brother maybe went to for it specializes in lab grown (again, real) diamonds. So, the fiancé believing that she’s wearing a rare diamond ring can still be 100% accurate, even if the loser brother’s wild conjecture were true, which, he has no proof of, so either way he’s just sitting around being a Debbie downer at family dinner. He’s just poo pooing something happy bc he wants everyone to be alone and miserable like him. And he succeeded bc these people always do. 🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢
When a friend I used to have would say stuff like “say we went ____ instead of _____” I would say I couldn’t do that bc I’m a terrible liar and I hate the practice. I’m just not a liar. BUT- if I suspect something is bs and it’s between other people, not me, and it’s inconsequential to survival or safety, dude. I’m not going to say something if I’m not involved. This had nothing to do with that guy. The only lie was his excuse for why he was being a jerk being that he cares AT ALL about the truth, he even said in his post the girl “bragging” is what bothered him, not her “believing something” that wasn’t true, which, AGAIN, he has no proof this is even the case, he’s meddling and casting doubt about things he doesn’t even know for sure. This was never about the virtuous pursuit of protecting people from harmful lies.
Idk what other post you could be talking about besides the ring one.
@@rainbomgyou're a shitty person. If you let that poor women get lied to. You hate lying cause you know it's wrong. But you have no problem if other people are lied to. How would you feel if your significant other lied to you about such a thing. This inconsequential thing that shouldn't matter. What is he gonna lie about next cause he obviously doesn't have your problem and is very comfortable lying to his future wife. People like you are the problem.
@rainbomg uh no i wasn't talking about the ring, i was talking about the asshole who kept harassing the person with the service dog and then got upset when they got fired for their own actions...
@@lynniewood lolol it applies.
@ hey cool thanks for clarifying it in the op!
I don’t really get how the “lie and keep secrets” part applies to that though- it wasn’t really implied that she wanted that in the post. Eh, it’s cool. Thanks again for making it more clear for people
I know this is his second channel, but I really enjoy this content! I find myself looking forward to these videos and his fun commentary almost more than his sketch videos!
No disrespect to him, but I haven't watched the main channel in months. I find this a lot more entertaining, someone with an actual personality doing reddit readings shouldn't be such a novel concept.
And the few that do have an actual personality just devolve into looking at weirdly specific subs and just acting way too fake and into it.
Daniel Thrasher 2024 -
“Sometimes the surprise were the microphones we made along the way”
There is nothing at all wrong with lab grown diamonds. In fact personally I would have a preference for them, since they don’t come with all of the insane messed up stuff mined diamonds do.
I do too. But I wouldn't appreciate being lied to. If this happened to me, I would also question the foundation of my relationship, if I'm agreeing to marry a liar that has no problem lying to my face about something so that he can make me "happy".
@@saranaila5905I agree with this, OP wanted to stir the pot but it’s not really her fault they broke up. The fiancé put in the ingredients.
@@end_slayer I'm not sure they broke up. If they did I wouldn't blame anyone BUT the fiancé
@@saranaila5905 yeah, it’s literally what I understand stirring the pot. The heat and ingredients are already there, you’re just moving the flavor along faster.
@@end_slayer yep exactly
Wow I’m never this early. Lab grown diamonds are NOT CHEAP!!!! And they are conflict-free, ethical diamonds. That dude was a jerk
"I hope she goes low or no contact with you." oh nooo. the mother-in-law he doesn't like and the mother his wife finds over-the-top might not talk to them anymore??? how traaaaagic. i'm sure he's sobbing at the idea of losing her.
Daniel's girlfriend when he calls her and asks questions about engagement. I hope he prefaced it😂
My BIL's seizure alert dog recently passed away.
RIP Lily. You were the goodest girl.
Karen in story#1 suuucks. She was repeatedly putting OP's life in danger, and IMO, she deserves to be jailed.
I once got "too going to be disabled" from a nurse in my doctor's office. She then answered all the questions they're required to ask at the yearly physical on my behalf, incorrectly (she kept saying I wasn't having trouble with things I do have trouble with and when I tried to correct her she argued with me; she seemed to believe I wasn't understanding the questions).
*too young
Autocorrect
Ngl though "too going" seems to make sense in a way too haha. Like too energetic or able to accomplish tasks normally to be disabled
As a service dog handler, NTA!!! People can be so awful sometimes
Friendly high five from another service dog handler! 🦮
Question on the terminology: does that mean that you have a service dog for your own needs or that you train service dogs?
@@fibanocci314It means they have a service dog that aids them
hear the "you're too young to be disabled" all the time, chronic illness doesnt discriminate funny enough, and you're also born with it, no clue why old people constantly try to tear young disabled people down like we aren't goin thru it enough
also Daniel's gf's voice reveal omg, send her LOVE pls she sounds cool as hell
never have my feelings about thanksgiving stuffing been so accurately represented. i feel seen today
Best part of the meal. Olives and pickles tie for second, and desserts for third.
As an asthmatic myself I find the first story to be f***ing insane. I would die for sure 😱
With the MIL wing restaurant story I have a couple thoughts. Was he very rude in what he said? Yeah absolutely. But clearly this MIL has crossed a lot of boundaries and clearly likes to start drama, and the husband AND wife both agreed that they weren’t gonna take her crap. Sometimes you have to make people aware of how crazy they’re being, and like Daniel said, this is just the straw that broke the camel’s back. Also, the comments about how it’s normal to take your hat off in a restaurant are crazy. If you dress up, or practice old fashioned etiquette in a Buffalo Wild Wings, more power to you but that should not be expected.
Honestly my Oma (grandmother) is like that MIL. She was a straight hateful bitch, but in subtle ways she denied and told us we were "misunderstanding her" when pointed out. My dad knew and warned my mum that his mum was like this. They put up with it for years because she was alone (my grandfather died) but she could not go one interaction with doing or saying something hateful, making digs, creating drama over stupid shit. It took her throwing a laptop my dad leant her on the concrete and smashing it to pieces for all of us to give up and wipe our hands of her, knowing she'd never change while we kept forgiving her actions and words
Daniel - you don't need to wait until Thanksgiving to make a box of stovetop stuffing. It takes less than 10 minutes to make. Treat yourself whenever you want it.
It's more special if ya wait, though
@@charstevens2686 fair point
i completely agree that the surprises in our life are the microphones we made along the way
Daniel's girlfriend was a delight to listen to, and she was so correct and valid 🎉
Yees, it was love at first sound for me!
You've got me picturing service animals in my head wearing hairnet body suits so they can be with their person working in a hair-free environment and it's both adorable and disturbing. 🤣
🎶miiiiiiiiiiiiiiiind yooooooooooour buiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiisneeeeeeeeeeees🎶
I sing this using the "You're not invited" tone 😂
The roommate under the bed story sounds like an answer to the question.
What if you lived with your stalker?
Gives me chills
I'd definitely be afraid to take a blacklight under that bed for fear of what I'd find.
For the MIL story, I just see pettiness on both sides. We dont know the general context so we cant judge on that, but based on the story they are both just being passive aggressive towards each other like middle schoolers. ESH but also I dont think its a huge deal
Agreed, both being petty. I’m a gal who frequently wears caps in wing type restaurants/bars but won’t in nicer places. I also have toxic family members that I truly have worn thin patience with who will intentionally push boundaries to see what they can get away with. Based on the limited context of the dude and wife being on the same page, I have a feeling this was a long time coming. I’m guessing they chose passive aggressive over a full on tongue lashing since the kids were there.
Does anyone else STILL have the "Stop Bringing Baggage" song from the last video stuck in their head? Just me?
Hey, just want to say that I really enjoy your music, and your videos. I'm glad you give a sense of reason into these stories, because they're always so depressing when I read them by myself.
😂 I'm with you. Stuffing is the one of the best parts of Thanksgiving. So yum
I read that as suffering😅
The OP in the last story definitely has the whole "i could treat her better" jealousy vibes. OP wants Emily and thinks his brother doesn't deserve her like OP does
37:00 it’s like calling ice “fake ice” because it was made in a freezer.
Having 3 kids does not and should not make you immune to being fired. It's your responsibility as a parent to respect your job enough to be professional, work hard, and earn your keep.
In some way, it's even worse because if these kids think this is normal behavior from their mother... bad parenting
@@jonnnnniej Good point
4:27 Finally… unsurprising microphone.
First of all, lady spraying stuff at the woman’s desk to trigger her condition. That’s assault. It’s also kind of breaking the Geneva Protocol, I think that would classify as chemical warfare. So that’s both assault charges and war crimes
No its not. No prosecutor on this planet would try to charge them with a fxking war crime LMFAO
It's assault, but definitely not chemical warfare, because that's not classified as a chemical warfare agent, and it's also not being used in warfare. If someone goes to their hospital and attacks a nurse (even one specifically wearing a red cross) that's not a war crime because it's not warfare related. It's obviously still heavily illegal just not a war crime.
@@teratsukielizabeth543I was ready to get mad. I need help TwT. It’s just the internet.
As someone who uses a cane at age 21, I have heard the “you’re too young for that” schtick more than I can count and it’s SO ANNOYING. It’s usually from older people who don’t mean harm, but sometimes it’s from people questioning my need for it. I don’t “look disabled” to their standards, so I must be faking for attention. Some people think it’s perfectly fine to interrogate a stranger about their personal medical information. Just because no one told you that you were special growing up doesn’t mean everyone is faking for attention, Karen.
The surprise keyboard is just around the corner…fear it
Watching this on my break at work and as soon as you read that he figured they were lab (which yeah they ain’t fake) I double-taked bcuz I’m taking a break from certifying and tagging jewelry 😂
At 24:11, I never knew people had a huge thing about hats. For my whole life, my dad has always worn a hat. I've only seen him without it whenever he sleeps. That isn't to say he doesn't have hair, he has good hair genes. Didn't know people saw it as being immature or bad mannered, huh?
I just that that the mother in law was being nitpicky on something random and illogical.
It used to be considered good manners to remove a hat indoors. There's no one reason why but several, including that since hats are meant to protect from the environment wearing them in someone's home or business implied you didn't believe their place was clean or safe enough to remove it and that it might imply you didn't feel welcome. This also used to apply to other outwear like coats/jackets and spats, when people still wore the latter. It's mostly just a holdover nowadays and there probably weren't a ton of people side-eyeing your dad everywhere he went, though he might have had a comment or two. When hats were more common, there were more social rules about them is all.
@@fibanocci314Tbf I really don’t think the mother in law actually cared. She just wanted to demean others.
(The post made it sound like they usually put up with bullshit from her, but decided in advance they weren’t going to be walked over this time.)
@chloskyskies4399 I agree. I was only responding about the social convention because OP expressed concern that their dad was being judged by strangers for unknown reasons.
"Should you respect your MIL?" - depends
-> does she respect you? Then yes
-> does she NOT respect you? Then no ❤
More like:
Does your spouse respect her? If yes, then yes. If no, then side with your spouse.
How do you know? Hos be hoen
@@Lari-lc3zqIdk about that. A spouse’s mother/father might be lovely to them, but not to you.
@@ghoultooth Yes. But if you love your spouse, and they love you, and it’s not an abusive/gaslighting situation, then you do what you need to do to keep the peace for your spouse.
@@Lari-lc3zqyeah if its not the spouse just always siding with their parents because thats their family then its probably better to be the bigger person, but if all of them are being petty for no reason I'm gonna play ball with that because I'm also petty lol
BEST INTRO EVER 😂😂😂 0:10
SURPRISE MICROPHONE TIMEEEE 4:29
SPOLIER
The moment Daniel's girlfriend said, "versus a BLOOD DIAMOND??" ---Daniel, my man. This woman is a keeper. Get her a ring (moissanite tho, those are prettier than diamonds)
2:43 the belief that HR is here to protect employees, while common, is misplaced. HR exists to protect the company from disgruntled employees, not to protect employees from any harm. they only get involved when it seems like a lawsuit or other liability issues may come into play.
Wow, glad I refreshed the page
Hehe, same! 😄
Late to the party :P why?
Lol same
Daniel “The Piss Filter” Thrasher!
Has an interesting 💍 to it. 🤣
Please put these videos on spotify so I can build my Minecraft boat while listening to AITAH
Calling your girlfriend asking about diamonds might be sending some signals there Daniel.
Great video and keep up the great work on both channels!
29:47 exactly what I was thinking throughout that entire story. Dude even teenagers can be influenced by the adults around them. A kid of any age with parents in an unhappy marriage is going to be lacking that example, which can lead to hardships in life. Of course so would divorce, but not divorcing and staying in an extremely toxic relationship for your kids could be just as bad for them as just divorcing all together
Baseball cap guy; I'm stubborn. I'm petty. I don't like being talked down to, I would have 100% picked the same fight. He probably shouldn't have posted on AITAH because that was kinda his intention, it might fit better on petty revenge or something. But tbh I was so proud of him in that moment.
Hi! You're fragrant sensitive! It's actually super unknown but super common for people to have differing levels of sensitivity to strong scents. Some people get migraines or heart issues or nervous system overreactions or throw up. It doesn't have to be related to the lungs themselves, even.
It can also be a thing for many chronically ill people that strong scents will set off their other health issues, even if there's isn't a direct link between them explaining it. I love that you took a moment to show this is a real consideration because it's one of the most common ways people make existing in public extremely painful. For some reason, they can't fathom that strong smells are enough to knock us on our asses for hours or days.
Pls keep this up, it's more helpful than you know!
what even is that last story. you are stirring the pot for no goddamn reason. You don't actually know much of anything about the ring and you didn't think you'd upset your brothers fiancee. What on earth dude.
"Too young to be disabled." I have heard that before, and it's disgusting. Once, while out to eat with my spouse, they went to the restroom. While they were gone, someone came back to their table complaining about a young person using the handicap stall, making very distasteful remarks. My spouse returned to our table, and I asked them if they used the handicap stall. They said yes. I immediately saw red and called this person out, saying, "Not everyone's disabilities are visible, and you're disgusting for saying that. My spouse had 4 strokes shame on you." The manager overheard and comped our meal and told them not to worry about the bill as their order was no longer being made, and they were banned from returning. Abelists suck. NTA
WE LOVE YOU DANIEL THANK YOU FOR YOUR AITAH STORYTIMES
“Take a good look at your wife because in twenty years she’ll be her mother.” You can tell that Redditor had an antiquated, sexist view, bringing the wife in for no reason when she hadn’t done anything to warrant it and telling the guy he should’ve just taken his hat off. Why put him at fault for not following that tradition yet still blame the wife for no reason at all?
The phone call ending was so cute 😭
I feel like I won't stop hearing "You look too young to be disabled" until I'm 60. I had my disease as a little kid and it's never going away, and neither is hate for disabled people.
As a 17 year old with no hair I often leave my hat on indoors because I am, yes, insecure. In a nice restaurant I will but a wing place?? Come on bro…
2:55 "She started purposely wearing strong perfume and spraying air refresher around my desk, which triggers my condition" so she was straight up trying to kill her
The mother in law from the chicken place who sat in the car the whole dinner time, did some seriously narcissistic shit. I recommend every one to not entertain this behavior!
Exactly. It sounds like they usually put up with it, but decided to finally set boundaries the second she pulled something
40:41 Daniel's auditioning to be a kidney. We got 'em, boys!
bros speedrunning these surprise microphones
These ones were down to earth and realistic enough to bring me down a little bit. But you still make it entertaining as heck
The hat thing is so stupid. Taking it off out of "politeness" is your own decision and you don't make it for other people. Balding or not, don't judge people that wear a hat. EHS is right, and the problem was not the hat...
Daniel and his gf both saying cubic zirconia wrong was actually so cute 😂 and the spark in his eyes when he’s on the phone to her and laughing at her funnies🥹ahhh young love
Daniel you are the positive we need rn
the first karen is the type of person to give you something you are allergic to as a test
Come on ppl.. Give Daniel what he wants. Let the man be a piss filter! 🤣
Thought I was having deja vu since I had read the first story before this video came out and now I'm glad to have heard it again via your glorious channel haha. That woman is a psycho.
I don't get people who needs to be in everyone else's business. Let other people live theirs lives, ffs, especially when they're not hurting other people.
And no, being offended does not give you the right to control others. They're your emotions, learn how to deal with them.
Like the person said a lab grown diamond is still a diamond. They are indistinguishable from the ones dug up from the ground. In fact I would argue that if diamonds mined from the ground weren’t artificially kept scarce the lab grown ones might be more expensive.
I got an ad with a thanksgiving turkey just after you read the one about cancellation of Thanksgiving
Regarding the sick kid story: I experienced something similar when I was put on doctor's orders to quarantine my newborn for a month because he didn't have an immune system yet, after we brought him in because he seemed sick. I informed relatives of this and had one contact me saying all manner of nonsense about how dare I bar them from seeing my kid and the whole nine yards. No amount of explanation did the trick and to this day, that person is still upset about that. To make things even more insane, the whole reason my kid got sick in the first place was because that relative had visited and (without my knowledge) didn't take proper precautions before holding kiddo for a while. WILD times.