Thank you darling for the video! When I was living in Africa, I didn't know depression exist. I remember that we used to laugh about it that these white people are always depressed in spite of everything they have until I came abroad. Depression here is real!
Aww my dear. It is so real nd killing so many. That's why when I hear someone left and went back home, I don't just jump into conclusion because its really crazy out here
Have tried telling people in Africa who are so eager or salivating to come abroad, but most of them won't listen. They think I'm trying to block their blessings. Immigrating is ok if you're really down and have nothing. People who have good jobs back home should just stay home and come visit abroad for vacation. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
Aquagirl this is so true. If you have a good job back at home, it is not necessary to move here but they won’t listen oooo. It’s good you tell them the truth though that way they won’t say they weren’t told
Completely agree with this... I am an Indian but still this is true for us Indians..... we have lot of people moving out to foreign countries, myself being one... but you don't realize you are in a totally different world with no one around no support at all. This is a big issue and I haven't found solution to it myself. Don't know what I am going to do. PEOPLE THINK ABROAD IS HEAVEN, BUT YOU JUST ARRIVED IN HEAVEN WITH NO MONEY IN POCKET AND THEN HEAVEN IS NOT SO HEAVENLY.
I agree with this.I'm Kenyan and years back I travelled to Dusseldorf,Germany to visit my sister and experienced the un-social part of life first hand.Life was lonely.I would mostly spent time in the house, especially when she is at work.The streets were almost empty most times; people are most times locked in their houses, playing video games or surfing.I didn't bond with the environment and when my visit visa expired, I was happy to travel back home!
@Carolyne Aketch Did you feel better as soon as you landed back home? I am an international student with just a few months to go and I cannot wait to touch down JKIA.
@@royalann3477 Yes, I miss home a lot; I have friends but I still feel lonely. I am a masters student in California. Yes, let's chat on IG. What's your handle?
Funny how life changes. I moved to the US at age 19 and I remember the loneliness that used to cut like a knife. I have been living in the US now for 45 years and when I visit my motherland I find the community closeness strange.
Thank you for posting this video. I’m from Colombia and have been in the United States for a few years on grad school. Before moving, a man who has returned to my country from the US warned me about loneliness and depression while abroad and I did not believe him. I thought he was just a grumpy man. Now I understand what he meant and I warn upcoming grad students about the cons of living abroad and how to prepare and cope with them. There’s always a price to pay for the things you want in life, we just gotta chose which one we’re willing to pay
Awww so true sometimes we think those who warned us are just unhappy with their lives but most times they’re actually telling us the truth. Thank you for sharing that and I hope you’ve learnt to cope with the loneliness in the US? It gets better with time ❤️
@@royalann3477you chased money that’s what you get. Money doesn’t grow on trees, you have to work hard to see them, choice is yours, you can stay under the sunshine enjoying your community and be broke.
I think the UK is even better especially if you are from an English-speaking background and my experience of living in the UK and Italy, I realized the British are more receptive to Africans than Italy. The threat of depression in Italy is a millionfold!
@@royalann3477it’s not your job to support them back home unless is your old parents or your kids. Brothers, sisters, cousins, uncles, friends are not your financial obligations. They have their own parents who should provide for them or if they adults they have to support or work for themselves. We cannot save everyone, God gave us all hands and heads to work not rely on others. Yes, we can help or support others but only if we don’t suffer for our own disadvantage. If you have to struggle to find money only to give to your family who just waiting for your money without doing anything then that’s using the person who sending the money
I’m Nigerian I migrated at 17. Now I’m 28, I like the life abroad. Could it be because I came younger? I also prefer interacting with people of all cultures than sticking to Nigerians.
That's great Swiitdoll. I believe its because of your experience and probably how open minded you are. There are others actually most struggling as well especially the ones who came at older ages. Where in Italy are you based? Where you're based might also be a factor
i am a native englishman and there are many times i wish i was born in another place that maybe had less money but has a nicer way of life and community. not just work every day like her
@@royalann3477 chiming in from.the US: yes. It's HARD to find community. Some states here are friendlier than others (as it's a huge country), but the hyper individual culture makes it really tough to form real connections.
Yeah. Im a dentist in Kenya, Nairobi. Trained in the US stayed there 14 years. Last week I saw a Kenyan-American patient. Her life is imploding out there in Virginia and she's bipolar. She can't go back to her job back there. Need to find her a shrink here. That place out there is difficult for Africans, it's not all that
Exactly! It’s not all that. It’s really difficult because of how we were raised with community with everyone minding everyone’s business. A neighbour can discipline another’s child etc but here every man to himself making it worse when our families back home don’t also check up on us thinking life is perfect out here. Thank you for watching
Hello my sister, I am Mugisha Jonas from Africa UGANDA to US and life is really depressing and lonely. I did not know that life is really difficult abroad before traveling to USA. Thanks for the video you shared. I love your videos
I’m in Germany, originally from South Africa 🇿🇦… I miss home everyday, i am so sad and depressed here, I regret coming here. At this point I hate everything 😢 . I wish my visa got denied.. I swear I was so excited to come abroad but I’m as unhappy as ever
Aww Carol so sorry. Have you tried making friends? Have you considered visiting South Africa sometimes to help motivate some of the challenges you’re facing.
Sorry to hear that you are going through what most of us are. I guess we need to start a support group online. What do you think? I am a Zimbabwean and am currently based in Thailand. I have a 2 South Africans friends, but we live in different towns.
Yes Sarah. A support group to support Africans is really needed at this point. Since you’re a mental health officer, I believe we can also talk on the channel how people can get help with their depression etc and how they can join this support group. Africans are not raised to speak up and when we do, it’s mostly when we’re at our worst. Many like Carol and myself need help
Whenever you leave your culture yu bcom a foregner.just like when a river enters into an acean it automaticaly loses its name.its not a rocket science.God never meant life to be that way but humans either out of greed,anger,lack of wisdom choose to leave. Every kingdom has its culture and its own way of life.~much lov from Kenya.
Righttt? We really are! And if you don’t send, all the good you’ve done wouldn’t matter. People are literally denying themselves a good sleep and working all day.
THAT'S WHY, I HAD TO PUT A STOP TO THIS MONEY SENDING BUSINESS. YOU CAN ONLY APPRECIATE SOMETHING IF YOU WORK FOR IT YOUR SELF. YOU HELP THEM, AFTER THAT ITS DO IT YOUR SELF. PEOPLE HAVE TO REMEMBER YOU CAN'T LIVE A GOOD LIFE ON CHARITY. FROM ABROAD.
Exactly! You can’t continue supporting them for all your life. Some even make budget based on when you will be paid. They will be expecting you to pay unnecessary expenses just because you’re abroad ooo hmm
@@royalann3477because they never truly loved you, you trying to pay them so they can show you some love and appreciation. Real loving family never demands, but when receiving from your own will, will appreciate you for even little you give.
The loneliness we suffer abroad is partly our fault. If you ask a Naija lady out in this America, she would turn you down except if you're a doctor making millions. How can we have social bonds when we're all about the money and status?
Obi you’re right. Because we came here with the mindset to make money, it tends to influence a lot of things. Sometimes going out and meeting people in a social setting is the way to start a conversation and create community. Thank you for watching
@@royalann3477 When I was new to America I joined an African Facebook group for dating. All the ladies were only interested in the doctor in the group, a group of over 600 people! He was the life of the party and the day he married from outside the group, the group died. All the ladies stopped responding to all the posts. Food for thought; why is it that 99% of guys here get their papers through marriage to American women whereas there are more Nigerian Americans with papers than the ones without. Indians never marriage outside their culture remember
Hmmmm I sometimes wonder why those people back home think us here in abroad are living well,sad enough if I don't send money home no soul will ever call to check on me,so I've stop such ooo,from work to my room.... thanks for sharing this video 😍😍🇬🇧
Aww Miriam it’s not easy ooo. Because of money they will call you saaa. You won’t get any call until it’s the time of the month where they need money and after you send, you might not even get a thank you or any other call talk less of being asked how you are. They think we’re living well ooo and hence we can’t complain oooo. Thank you for watching ❤️
I'm a Cameroonian even with family here i feel depressed and lonely. Constant headache. I am praying GOD for strength and knowledge to inform my family i want to return home. I'm more miserable and may end up hurting myself. 😢Family situation isn't the best home but if i stay here, i will likely loose my mind. I am praying my PR gets rejected i don't want to live here.
@royalann3477 Thanks for your advice. I'm a nanny for my aunt. I can't get a job. She's planning to apply for my residency, but I just want to tell her to stop and I will return home. I have had suicidal thoughts for 6 months now, and only my fear of God is holding me back. It would be a wasted opportunity, but as time goes by, I might end up doing something terrible.
here in tz dar es salaam everyone mind them bussiness unless jobless so they will start aproachin you for them benefit under the shadow of friendship...
I am struggling with trying to switch my sponsorship coz I dint have enough working hours and I have people back home asking for money every week, coz i recently came 5 months back i know how difficult it is at home even though I can't help everyone I'm stressed by work and the calls and lonliness
@@royalann3477 It is even worse for us people of colour, you find yourself isolated from the natives of the country while at the same time you are somehow excluded from the expart community. I intend to carry-out a research on the experiences of Africans in the Diaspora focusing on mental health.
Sarahsimtat you are so right. It’s very sad as we find ourselves isolated from both sides. You sure should do the research. I myself became a mental health advocate after experiencing the struggles out here and realised I had no knowledge on mental health plus all the stigma surrounding it.
@@royalann3477 Thanks hey, l will get in touch with you once l get started on my project. I am actually a qualified Community Psychologist from Zimbabwe however am currently teaching in Thailand.
Thank you for watching. I hope this message helps our families back at home to extend care to us 🥹 because some of us are just bottling emotions and working day and night to send money home. Will we have to do this ALL our lives? Hmm
Awww the truth in this. Without asking for anything but just to check up. Just to know about my well-being. We need compassion too because we’re not just money making machines.
What you are saying is the truth. I always made fun of white people that cry put loud "depression, loneliness". I never thought I would exprerience it here. Especially in western cultures, there is no sense of community and nobody minds your life. S even if you have problems whether personnal or not, you won't have anybody to run to for help. When you are in your home country, yes you can feel sadness and loneliness but atleast you are surrounded by family and relatives and you have someone to talk too, even you can talk with a stranger on the road , he won't mind listening to you😂. That is why here in Europe many people end up in therapy. without freinds or family nearby life can be too much
And when it comes to papers in this countries where u have to learn the launguege. After u have to go and do acourse and get a job u need 5 good yrs. But our pipo at home doesnt know that
You’re right. The grass isn’t greener on the other side as they say but greener where you water it. The fact that we wanted to come doesn’t mean we can’t complain when things aren’t like it seemed. It helps other people not to come in with that same delusion we had. Thank you for watching
That's a backward mindset...talk about your problems...and work towards solving them. She's not complaining, but stating the reality of those who don't want to accept anything less out of life...wake up my friend.
Thank you darling for the video! When I was living in Africa, I didn't know depression exist. I remember that we used to laugh about it that these white people are always depressed in spite of everything they have until I came abroad. Depression here is real!
Aww my dear. It is so real nd killing so many. That's why when I hear someone left and went back home, I don't just jump into conclusion because its really crazy out here
Sweeping racist comment, "all whytes are depressed" don't blame us because all your males jumped ship and ran away.
My sister you have said it all, to follow God abroad is not easy but God is helping
Have tried telling people in Africa who are so eager or salivating to come abroad, but most of them won't listen. They think I'm trying to block their blessings. Immigrating is ok if you're really down and have nothing. People who have good jobs back home should just stay home and come visit abroad for vacation. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
Aquagirl this is so true. If you have a good job back at home, it is not necessary to move here but they won’t listen oooo. It’s good you tell them the truth though that way they won’t say they weren’t told
Let them come. They are about to not believe it. I cannot wait for December to leave and never return.
God bless you,you're a good person only people like we,can understand you❤❤❤
Completely agree with this... I am an Indian but still this is true for us Indians..... we have lot of people moving out to foreign countries, myself being one... but you don't realize you are in a totally different world with no one around no support at all. This is a big issue and I haven't found solution to it myself. Don't know what I am going to do. PEOPLE THINK ABROAD IS HEAVEN, BUT YOU JUST ARRIVED IN HEAVEN WITH NO MONEY IN POCKET AND THEN HEAVEN IS NOT SO HEAVENLY.
I agree with this.I'm Kenyan and years back I travelled to Dusseldorf,Germany to visit my sister and experienced the un-social part of life first hand.Life was lonely.I would mostly spent time in the house, especially when she is at work.The streets were almost empty most times; people are most times locked in their houses, playing video games or surfing.I didn't bond with the environment and when my visit visa expired, I was happy to travel back home!
Aww Carolyne this is the life oooo and it’s worse if you’re unemployed. Depression will drive you nuts. Sorry you experienced such ❤️
@Carolyne Aketch Did you feel better as soon as you landed back home? I am an international student with just a few months to go and I cannot wait to touch down JKIA.
Aww you miss home right? Home will always be home but did you find a community here? You’re a student? @sharon can we chat on IG?
@@royalann3477 Yes, I miss home a lot; I have friends but I still feel lonely. I am a masters student in California. Yes, let's chat on IG. What's your handle?
Funny how life changes. I moved to the US at age 19 and I remember the loneliness that used to cut like a knife. I have been living in the US now for 45 years and when I visit my motherland I find the community closeness strange.
Thank you for posting this video. I’m from Colombia and have been in the United States for a few years on grad school. Before moving, a man who has returned to my country from the US warned me about loneliness and depression while abroad and I did not believe him. I thought he was just a grumpy man. Now I understand what he meant and I warn upcoming grad students about the cons of living abroad and how to prepare and cope with them. There’s always a price to pay for the things you want in life, we just gotta chose which one we’re willing to pay
Awww so true sometimes we think those who warned us are just unhappy with their lives but most times they’re actually telling us the truth.
Thank you for sharing that and I hope you’ve learnt to cope with the loneliness in the US? It gets better with time ❤️
@@royalann3477 Thanks for the good wishes, I sure have.
Very true ,am in U.K and there is no social life here, bad weather and lonelyness.
Trueeee. Like it’s like this out here oooo hmmm
Welcome to the club of loneliness, from work to home lifestyle
Exactly Miriam. No friends or community. Just work work hmmm
@@royalann3477you chased money that’s what you get. Money doesn’t grow on trees, you have to work hard to see them, choice is yours, you can stay under the sunshine enjoying your community and be broke.
I think the UK is even better especially if you are from an English-speaking background and my experience of living in the UK and Italy, I realized the British are more receptive to Africans than Italy. The threat of depression in Italy is a millionfold!
Not only Africans. I am a Bulgarian livign in Denmark for 9 years. I am thinking of going back home.
Aww so sorry 😢 How are things there exactly?
No one has ever put it so clear as you did.
Thank you.
Thank you for taking time to watch ❤️
My biological family didnt give a rats a* about my wellbeing when i lived abroad they were only interested in the money they could get from me.
Aww so sorry about that. Hope you’re surrounded by people who truly love you now?
Life is short. Set your priorities right. My abroad is just for visit, stay few days and go back.I'm happy in Nigeria
Thank you for watching Chris. Great knowing you only visit and very happy in Nigeria 🇳🇬
Exactly my view
Hmmmmm personally I don’t even know wat to do dear abroad life is making me go crazy and I sometimes feel am loosing myslf hmmm
Awww so sorry. Do you have some friends? Try finding something you love doing.
They won't ask how their family member is doing. They will tell you their problems as they are the only ones with problems.
Righttt? We also have problems ooo even sometimes pass them but it’s difficult getting someone who genuinely cares without wanting money
@@royalann3477it’s not your job to support them back home unless is your old parents or your kids. Brothers, sisters, cousins, uncles, friends are not your financial obligations. They have their own parents who should provide for them or if they adults they have to support or work for themselves. We cannot save everyone, God gave us all hands and heads to work not rely on others. Yes, we can help or support others but only if we don’t suffer for our own disadvantage. If you have to struggle to find money only to give to your family who just waiting for your money without doing anything then that’s using the person who sending the money
I’m Nigerian I migrated at 17. Now I’m 28, I like the life abroad. Could it be because I came younger? I also prefer interacting with people of all cultures than sticking to Nigerians.
That's great Swiitdoll. I believe its because of your experience and probably how open minded you are. There are others actually most struggling as well especially the ones who came at older ages. Where in Italy are you based? Where you're based might also be a factor
Also did you migrate alone or with family? That might be a factor too
@@royalann3477 oh I live in England. But I’ve visited Venice in italy
Awww ok. Nice to know and how was it?
Reality will later hit you
i am a native englishman and there are many times i wish i was born in another place that maybe had less money but has a nicer way of life and community. not just work every day like her
Even as a native it’s difficult finding community?
@@royalann3477 chiming in from.the US: yes. It's HARD to find community. Some states here are friendlier than others (as it's a huge country), but the hyper individual culture makes it really tough to form real connections.
That’s really sad because community is very important
Thank you for watching Casey
@@royalann3477 i know :/ and I think it's a hidden darkside of living in western superpower countries that many people don't talk about
Yeah. Im a dentist in Kenya, Nairobi. Trained in the US stayed there 14 years. Last week I saw a Kenyan-American patient. Her life is imploding out there in Virginia and she's bipolar. She can't go back to her job back there. Need to find her a shrink here. That place out there is difficult for Africans, it's not all that
Exactly! It’s not all that. It’s really difficult because of how we were raised with community with everyone minding everyone’s business. A neighbour can discipline another’s child etc but here every man to himself making it worse when our families back home don’t also check up on us thinking life is perfect out here. Thank you for watching
Thank you for watching Mai
Thanks for sharing this with us, sis. We needed to hear this. Much love from Ghana 🇬🇭
Thank you Flore. Great having you here❤️
You gave said the truth sis abroad life is not easy at all but people back home doesn't understand
Very true Alicia. We hope many realise that the struggle is very real out here
The problem is that we keep on preaching these things to our African family but they don't listen at all.
Exactly they don’t mostly because of the life We or others portray about life here
Thank you for watching Anne
If they all about your money so why you care about them that much? They clearly want to use you
Very revealing wow! Thank you so much for sharing this. God bless you
Thank you for watching sis ❤️
Hi loves, if you’re abroad and understand what I’m talking about, please share your experiences in the comments 👇
Hello my sister, I am Mugisha Jonas from Africa UGANDA to US and life is really depressing and lonely. I did not know that life is really difficult abroad before traveling to USA. Thanks for the video you shared. I love your videos
I’m in Germany, originally from South Africa 🇿🇦… I miss home everyday, i am so sad and depressed here, I regret coming here. At this point I hate everything 😢 . I wish my visa got denied.. I swear I was so excited to come abroad but I’m as unhappy as ever
Aww Carol so sorry. Have you tried making friends? Have you considered visiting South Africa sometimes to help motivate some of the challenges you’re facing.
South Africa is such a lovely place and you should visit sometime. Thank you for watching Carol
Sorry to hear that you are going through what most of us are. I guess we need to start a support group online. What do you think? I am a Zimbabwean and am currently based in Thailand. I have a 2 South Africans friends, but we live in different towns.
Yes Sarah. A support group to support Africans is really needed at this point. Since you’re a mental health officer, I believe we can also talk on the channel how people can get help with their depression etc and how they can join this support group. Africans are not raised to speak up and when we do, it’s mostly when we’re at our worst. Many like Carol and myself need help
@@royalann3477 Sure i will be glade to take this one on. Let me clear things on my schedule and then we can take on this challenge!
Thanks for your sincerity. Many are misslead for lack of proper research.
Very true ooo hmmm. Thank you for watching
Whenever you leave your culture yu bcom a foregner.just like when a river enters into an acean it automaticaly loses its name.its not a rocket science.God never meant life to be that way but humans either out of greed,anger,lack of wisdom choose to leave.
Every kingdom has its culture and its own way of life.~much lov from Kenya.
Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts with us.
Preach it sister 🙌
I really appreciate you taking time to watch
We are making some of our families back home lazy by giving them money all the time.
Righttt? We really are! And if you don’t send, all the good you’ve done wouldn’t matter. People are literally denying themselves a good sleep and working all day.
THAT'S WHY, I HAD TO PUT A STOP TO THIS MONEY SENDING BUSINESS. YOU CAN ONLY APPRECIATE SOMETHING IF YOU WORK FOR IT YOUR SELF. YOU HELP THEM, AFTER THAT ITS DO IT YOUR SELF. PEOPLE HAVE TO REMEMBER YOU CAN'T LIVE A GOOD LIFE ON CHARITY. FROM ABROAD.
Exactly! You can’t continue supporting them for all your life. Some even make budget based on when you will be paid. They will be expecting you to pay unnecessary expenses just because you’re abroad ooo hmm
Thank you for watching Amali
@@royalann3477because they never truly loved you, you trying to pay them so they can show you some love and appreciation. Real loving family never demands, but when receiving from your own will, will appreciate you for even little you give.
This video is actually so informative and important.❤
Thank you for watching Camie ❤️
Plain truth. But they don't know about it. its heartbreaking.
Very heartbreaking 💔
You said it all my sister. This abroad life is not for me. I will rather die in Africa 😂😂
😂
Truth to the core!
Thank you for watching 🙏
💫 100% True
Thank you for watching
The loneliness we suffer abroad is partly our fault. If you ask a Naija lady out in this America, she would turn you down except if you're a doctor making millions. How can we have social bonds when we're all about the money and status?
Obi you’re right. Because we came here with the mindset to make money, it tends to influence a lot of things. Sometimes going out and meeting people in a social setting is the way to start a conversation and create community. Thank you for watching
@@royalann3477 When I was new to America I joined an African Facebook group for dating. All the ladies were only interested in the doctor in the group, a group of over 600 people! He was the life of the party and the day he married from outside the group, the group died. All the ladies stopped responding to all the posts. Food for thought; why is it that 99% of guys here get their papers through marriage to American women whereas there are more Nigerian Americans with papers than the ones without. Indians never marriage outside their culture remember
Hmmmm I sometimes wonder why those people back home think us here in abroad are living well,sad enough if I don't send money home no soul will ever call to check on me,so I've stop such ooo,from work to my room.... thanks for sharing this video 😍😍🇬🇧
Aww Miriam it’s not easy ooo. Because of money they will call you saaa. You won’t get any call until it’s the time of the month where they need money and after you send, you might not even get a thank you or any other call talk less of being asked how you are. They think we’re living well ooo and hence we can’t complain oooo. Thank you for watching ❤️
I tell you if you don’t call, they won’t ooo 😂 sometimes it’s just so annoying but what can we do
Thank you for watching Miriam
Exactly
I'm a Cameroonian even with family here i feel depressed and lonely. Constant headache. I am praying GOD for strength and knowledge to inform my family i want to return home. I'm more miserable and may end up hurting myself. 😢Family situation isn't the best home but if i stay here, i will likely loose my mind. I am praying my PR gets rejected i don't want to live here.
I rather suggest you get a job and move out. Going back home might not be the solution
Sorry for what you’re going through
@royalann3477 Thanks for your advice. I'm a nanny for my aunt. I can't get a job. She's planning to apply for my residency, but I just want to tell her to stop and I will return home. I have had suicidal thoughts for 6 months now, and only my fear of God is holding me back. It would be a wasted opportunity, but as time goes by, I might end up doing something terrible.
here in tz dar es salaam everyone mind them bussiness unless jobless so they will start aproachin you for them benefit under the shadow of friendship...
Aww hmmm. Even people are faking friendships just for selfish reasons. It’s well
I swear you’re saying nothing but truth
Thank you Somore. Really appreciate you taking time to watch
New fan watching from Kenya 🇰🇪
Great having you here. One of my bestie is a Kenyan and I can’t wait to visit Kenya
I am struggling with trying to switch my sponsorship coz I dint have enough working hours and I have people back home asking for money every week, coz i recently came 5 months back i know how difficult it is at home even though I can't help everyone I'm stressed by work and the calls and lonliness
It's not really easy. You cannot help everyone and 5 months is still too soon for such calls of help. Thank you for watching
You're right out here it really gets lonely.
Very true. Finding community is very difficult as each to its own culture is very dominant here.
@@royalann3477 It is even worse for us people of colour, you find yourself isolated from the natives of the country while at the same time you are somehow excluded from the expart community. I intend to carry-out a research on the experiences of Africans in the Diaspora focusing on mental health.
Sarahsimtat you are so right. It’s very sad as we find ourselves isolated from both sides. You sure should do the research. I myself became a mental health advocate after experiencing the struggles out here and realised I had no knowledge on mental health plus all the stigma surrounding it.
@@royalann3477 Thanks hey, l will get in touch with you once l get started on my project. I am actually a qualified Community Psychologist from Zimbabwe however am currently teaching in Thailand.
Wooow really? That’s good to know that you’re a mental health professional. Sure I will be here whenever needed ❤️
Well said
thank u for the courage to speak
Thank you for watching. I hope this message helps our families back at home to extend care to us 🥹 because some of us are just bottling emotions and working day and night to send money home. Will we have to do this ALL our lives? Hmm
Pick the phone and ask, how are you doing. Without asking for money for school fees, or a birthday present.
Awww the truth in this. Without asking for anything but just to check up. Just to know about my well-being. We need compassion too because we’re not just money making machines.
@@royalann3477 Àbí óò! I be ATM???
You’re definitely not! You’re human and deserve people who genuinely care
Its time to react now,i need someone.
What you are saying is the truth. I always made fun of white people that cry put loud "depression, loneliness". I never thought I would exprerience it here. Especially in western cultures, there is no sense of community and nobody minds your life. S even if you have problems whether personnal or not, you won't have anybody to run to for help. When you are in your home country, yes you can feel sadness and loneliness but atleast you are surrounded by family and relatives and you have someone to talk too, even you can talk with a stranger on the road , he won't mind listening to you😂. That is why here in Europe many people end up in therapy. without freinds or family nearby life can be too much
Very true
And when it comes to papers in this countries where u have to learn the launguege. After u have to go and do acourse and get a job u need 5 good yrs. But our pipo at home doesnt know that
Yeah language learning in Europe is so important for getting papers and a better job. Thank you for watching Eva
Here we go❤
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Am here in china but eishhhhh life here isn’t what we judge with people’s good pictures on IG but regardless we are not forgetting the goal…
Very true Brendah. It’s not easy everywhere but we keep going ❤️ Thank you for watching
Which part of China are you Brendah?I am in Shanghai
This is just a claim. I am not if I happen to start feeling depressed I will just go back home
Muthoni its not easy because some would rather die here than go home with nothing to show for it. The mockery alone hmm
Thank you for watching Muthoni
This true 😢
Righttt? Hmm
Never gotten depression yo thank God infact I get depression back home than abroad 😌
That’s good to know that it’s better here than back at home
They won't understand that my sister.
Very true Samson. They won’t regardless of how many times we tell them
Thank you for watching
100% ✔️
Thank you Teddy for watching
Come back home.
When u guys are at home u are dissatisfied. U travel abroad na wahala. U guys should stop complaining joor.
You’re right. The grass isn’t greener on the other side as they say but greener where you water it. The fact that we wanted to come doesn’t mean we can’t complain when things aren’t like it seemed. It helps other people not to come in with that same delusion we had. Thank you for watching
Shushing people is not nice, let people talk about their experiences, you dont have to like it u know.
That's a backward mindset...talk about your problems...and work towards solving them. She's not complaining, but stating the reality of those who don't want to accept anything less out of life...wake up my friend.
Thank you so much
Stop romancing struggles