I find you surprinsingly quiet about the war crimes happening right now, do you really think the most important thing currently is to attack feminism and wokism?
It is not just a byproduct of male domination. There are works that show impact of thousands of years woman adapting to survive being moved to partner family and extended family, living around mostly woman from different lineage. This game perfected over the time and now that extended families are basically gone you left with skills that do not disappear easily
That’s not entirely accurate. Manipulation against someone’s will is very hard. Rather manipulation works well if manipulated by the promise of gain or fear of loss, or with someone who stands neutral.
@@stewheart I see. At least I think I know what you mean. I think it depends of course, not every situation is the same, not every relationship one might have to another human. Sometimes honesty and vournerability is important and also sometimes knowing when not to speak. I was just referring to the general idea of "the truth will set you free". But of course each and everyone of us has to decide for themselves how we interpret that and if we wanna go there for whatever that means.
@@UmaerHashmi What's missing is How to be... introspection is not the only component. I have not found anyone that properly explains the process and dishonest people just wreck you regardless of the efforts made (from both sides). Obviously, the most broken people find the most stable ones and it's chaos across the board. Two healthy individuals tend to make it work until one or the other longs for more or different. Hard to define overarching principles, but... resources often get in the way. Society will never help unless I get in its way ;') Take care.
Teal Sawn, you have an uncanny ability to clearly and succinctly de-code pretty complex ingrained behaviors, illustrate the signals, and offer real-world solutions. Thank you.
I admire women who go for what they want directly. The issue for me is when they over do it. When everything has to be their way and how they like it, to the exclusion of everyone else's needs. There is a middle ground.
You can imagine why that is if you remember we have been property for a couple thousand years. WHY IS EVERYONE SO CONFUSED AVOUT THIS BEHAVIOR?? Women might need a couple of generations to be left tf alone and be selfish. Leave them to it.
Listen to yourself 🤣 you yourself were not born in the time period of being "property". Get out of your victim mindset and stop making excuses for shitty behaviour.@@ErinThePsychicWitch
Western society has gimped men's ability to GIVE and a woman's ability to gratefully receive and GENERATE things. Things that the man then gratefully receives, and is incentivized to continue giving. The entire principle of gender, CO-CREATION, has been violated. The cure is love and awareness, but this happens on a personal level. Love needs to make a comeback yesterday.
I love how you phrased it. Another important aspect of "the cure" is that it is a PROCESS and involves of forgiveness and understanding, because we're all injured by this corruption so fixing it is going to take time and trial and error.
Not just Western. A lot of conservative Oriental societies do that too. It’s generally the richer classes that do that and that were influenced by the West but they put their own twist on it if you could say.
Came here to say basically this. All the things any person is "supposed to" do, are group manipulation and corruption of the co-creation dynamic. Boys are told they are worthless except what they do for others, girls are told they have worth but that is conditional on how they act, etc, both are set up to be used in their own ways by others. This benefits parents and establishment by making all people servants, it doesn't benefit the individuals and doesn't show them the way to form an equal cooperative power couple.
Growing up surrounded by people who teach us (as our parents) are THE EXAMPLE for this behaviour… It’s almost one of our basic lessons learned… Than as we being adults we aren’t even aware of this behaviour ( we do it because we almost become ‘one’ with this behaviour) … until… we’re been mirrored by others to then realise…. 😮 it’s me doing this also without even knowing it … I was fortunate being😊 confronted by my ‘mirrors’ 🙏🏻
❤ I’m working at this and it’s almost impossible for men to want to give me containment. It’s very frustrating but I keep saying that it’s worth it. ❤good luck ladies ❤
I suffer from the same thing. One thing I do to help me is to watch movies where men are doing this for women or children. The avenue isn't as important as the energy we are desiring to feel. So I recommend holding a big teddy bear and watching a movie or listening to a song by a man who actually is demonstrating care for the woman. Ex. Glenn from free Willy 1. Very calm. Song.... About to be mine. Not sure of the artist but it's about a man caring about the problems of the woman he's with.
Because I am the kind of man with good intentions, I love nothing more than to hear exactly how my lady feels and what she wants. I have dealt with women who won't talk straight, and it's a confusing nightmare. Breeds paranoia and a feeling that I must read into everything in order to understand what's really happening. I am very thankful that my fiancee is the type to trust me with the knowledge of her needs and feelings. I am her first, but recently she told me that she was prepared to more or less engage in manipulation, she had an expectation that no man would sincerely care about her. Shame that she didn't even have a picture in her head about what a good relationship with a man might look like. Same goes for many of guys I know who seem to expect nothing but manipulation and secrets.
Thank you for sharing this. I have yet to meet a man who appreciates my frankness. They seem to expect deception and manipulation. It's very frustrating because they assume I'm lying when I'm being direct.
I am a woman, and I prefer straight and direct communication, but somehow, the man I was with, used only lies, manipulations and hiden agendas, never ever saying what he truly wants or thinks. So I think this can be applied to both sexes.
My mother does not even know why I would be upset that she wrote a letter of complaint to my child's daycare overhead company, when I directly and specifically asked her not to do so. I said "please don't do this. Do not do that. I do not want that. That would hurt the situation and embarrass us, please do not." She did anyway. And then acted a fool months later, when she thought she had the most recent update and she did not; I had stopped updating her when she went behind my back and sent a letter anyway. Apparently she did not consider that she might be left out of the loop for her intrusive behavior. It caused a huge upheaval and we ended up having to go somewhere else. She really seems to think she is helping, when she accuses me of being ungrateful. Yes, not only am I ungrateful, I am hurt and furious that she directly bulldozed a clear boundary. It's all lies, nothing she says is real. So I swung the opposite way. I have found many other young ladies that have done the same. The truth is so much easier.
@@kasijune88 yes. Because of my mother I experienced repetition compulsion in my adult life; I found partners who imitated her communication style with me. I didn't see the connection until the "style" was very exact. Men do not even bother communicating with us, much of the time, because of the social training that says we are not equal. It is sick.
@@PaigeSquared You are worse than your mother, men don't bother to communicate with you for the same reason you don't do it with your mother, but you some how found a way to shift the blame on them.
This is so interesting and eye opening! I’ve been more direct than passive in all my relationships and some people have a hard time with my directness. Which makes me think that even if they don’t want to be manipulated for some people that might be what they are comfortable with
I gotta question the idea about girls being socialized to be passive and boys to be active in recent decades. In my lifetime (I'm 35), I've seen a lot more of the opposite message being sent, in media and policies, everywhere really. I'm not sure this has been a good thing, as it's caused a lot of confused people my age and younger. Pre-1990, yes I agree. But also, we have to accept that not everything different about men and women can be traced back to socialization in our childhood. There are biological differences as well that play a major part in what makes us different, and we should honor those differences.
I agree with you strongly - across so many walks of life, at least in the USA right now, women seem far more active and outgoing, while men seem to slink around and wallow in passivity
@@mvondoommaybe its meant to happen? For the sake of universal expansion which is created due to role reversals experentation variety diversity evolution
@mvondoom I strongly agree also. I just wrote a comment to that effect. I’m SICK of this ‘women are passive because of socialisation’ I think it’s totally outdated. Some men & women become passive because of abusive families. But I have met almost no ‘passive’ women in my 30 year career. If anything women are out of control. I’m speaking as a women who is sick to death of competitive dominating women who on top of that play the oppression card!! So many many abusive women are never held to account, it’s like the whole world is stuck in gaslighting narratives and stuck on all women - all men comparisons.
Yeah, location really matters. In the section of the US where I live (New England), "girl bossing" is what's seen as desirable. Hyper-independence is rampant here because workaholism is normalized and glorified.
I was slapping my thigh and laughing out loud during the role play. SO real. I experience this in my relationship but only 100% of the time. And she is 100% unaware she's doing it because she came from a highly competitive family of 5 siblings and this was the way to survive. 🤣 Teal is someone I trust because she tells the truth, whether I like it or not. I hope she will keep her courageous manner. A rare voice of sanity in a whacked-out world.
The epigenetics of how women behave is eye opening. Wake up ladies. Passive competition, manipulation and all these tactics make us untrustworthy and crazy
I met many men that start projecting their trauma with women on me and all i can do is create space and try to stay in my integrity as much as possible. I think its so easy to fall for judgements towards each other we need to learn to communicate better with each other and cultivate self awareness…
when you are direct with them, they write it off as nagging and stop listening to you. they actually care more about how other males see them and what they have to say way more that what women think of them. dont let the empathetic tone for males in this video fool you.
That was so helpful for more insight and clarity on that topic. Thank you Teal 🌻 I am female, 45 years old and grew up in Germany. I just recently became aware of this within myself and am changing my behaviour now. It feels so much more empowering to be vulnerable, cooperative and open. It is also scary as the outcome is unknown but wonderful to ride the wave with life and bringing out the excellence of people around me. I am learning a total different way to live in relationships. Friendships are great to practise. I am learning this with my friends and family and it is great how this unfolds 🌟
Teal please make a video on martyrdom in relationships - I think this is a huge thing taking over the spiritual community as well - where one partner constantly just "loves harder" a person who is toxic and does not really want to change... Ignoring bad treatment and behaviour because they are convinced this person is their TF.
Just discovered your channel. Wow, what a pleasure it is to find someone as brilliant and enlightened as you. Your topics are from the heart, and may not reach out to everyone. However, to all of us that are ready to grow and prosper. The sky has no limits so keep inspiring humanity with your insight and knowledge. Bella May you keep reaching out and sharing your unique gifts with the Planet. Thank you Teal 🥰
5:33 Thank you for speaking out, and articulating so well, about female manipulation. This is why I am very discerning now when meeting people. My mother, sister, other relatives, acquaintances, coworkers, friends and a partner--all these females used these manipulation tactics. Being the family scapegoat, it has been horrible. It's a form of gaslighting and psychological abuse. Sometimes I have seen mothers use this sort of thing with their kids, and it would always make me feel a little sick to my stomach. I immediately knew not to trust such a person if they are willing to do this to their own kids. Same with wives with their husbands. (Side note: Had I even thought to use these tactics with my ex authoritarian NPD husband, I probably would have been able to stay in the marriage! Bizarre.) I thought something was wrong with me that I was so hurt by these people and why it has been so difficult for me to "go along to get along" like many people seem to do (if I did do that, it would kill me on the inside and sometimes it would come out in reactive ways which just made those people think I was crazy). I just wrote a blog post yesterday about superficiality, dissociation, and insincerity--all of which are at the core of the manipulation you describe. It has been a 5-decade tough puzzle and lesson to figure out. I could never put my finger on what exactly was wrong. But now I know to just keep things super light with everyone. I trust my intuition now. I can easily spot this sort of thing now. My intuition and experience will let me know if I've encountered my kind of person. Sincerity and transparency are a must now for me to invest in any sort of relationship--no matter how casual. Out of my own self-respect and self-care. I love how you understand and articulate so many things which I've felt and experienced my whole life. I wish I would have had your wisdom starting when I was about age 12, or younger. I would have actually felt like I was worthy to live the first 30-plus years of my life.
I only realise now what all has happened and how it put me on to a misguided path for my own life. I see it also with my brothers. And therefore see how different people deal. While he jumps from one relationship to another I try the best to avoid everything at all. In the end I had the feeling of being „sick“ myself and its me who is just not good enough. I then found MBTI what first showed me that’s some traits I have are characteristic for my type and not an illness. Since then my journey goes deeper. But also life passes and a lot of time is lost. But it all strenghthens my idea that teens should get mandatory therapy in school. Like having a certain amount of therapy sessions a year they have to attend. (As all kids would need to do it it won’t be a band thing. They just make fun about it) But if, the therapies finds more serious things one can look for more detailed solutions. And act before bigger damage is done. Or end bad habits far earlier than when they are adults and start realising what actually happens. Yes, that will cost a lot but in the end it could be a financial gain having a generation with stronger and more healthy minds. Also it would maybe end that gender war we experience atm. And that itself can only be a very good thing. For me it’s too late. But looking at the younger generations I feel sad because we actually let them run into that world unprotected. And we see what will happen.
@@MathieuDeVinois I don't think it's a good idea to have this in public government schools nor for it to be mandatory. We need to be very cautious of who are influencing our children. But I do agree it would be incredibly helpful for kids to learn self-awareness, growth and healing--from parents, relatives, family friends would be the ideal. But even the average citizens can be good examples and hopefully that will reach the kids somehow, someway. The internet has offered so much wonderful information which I never had access to growing up--fortunately, most kids have access to this now.
@@coach_amy I am with you about that we should be aware who’s influencing our children. Unfortunately I have to say that family, friends and others have shown us that they failed. Also, internet seems to worsen everything although there is plenty of helpful and good information out there. It seems that social media is more prone to support the negatives. See how gender war is literally exploding and getting worse each year. The amount of women hating men and vice versa is dwarfing the amount of teamwork and positivity.
@@MathieuDeVinois I understand what you are saying. It's so easy to lose hope in people when the people we have loved and who we expected to love us back couldn't be trusted. I like what Matthew Hussey says: We each only need *one*. Also, I think, "If I exist, there has to be another like me."
@coach_amy Ditto And my current phase.. All my life I’ve been screaming inside ‘doesn’t everyone see how FALSE these people are’? But I was the one who didn’t understand. It’s all about power. I was playing for truth and connection. Everyone around me was playing for power. I’d been coerced out of all self-interest through abuse, so I didn’t have a morsel of self entitlement left.. Which was why I couldn’t understand people’s self-interested motivations. I’d been programmed to serve other people and be exploited. Many people are dangerously unethical and immoral. But not being aware of that and believing the false narratives of them ‘meaning well’, is the biggest danger of all.
Hi teal.Would you please do a video on doctors.Their stress level including their career,study pressure and not able to have a balance in personal life.
As a woman who has cultivated a direct communication style (much to the chagrin of my very traditional parents and my partners), I can honestly say that being direct is only half the equation. People hear what they want to hear, and people listen to the elements they're open to. A man who has become convinced it is impossible for a woman to be direct or decided being direct means she's unfeminine literally puts you in a lose-lose. I don't have the energy to play games with people anymore or mince words for the sake of politeness. We're either committed and compatible or we're not. Manipulation for the sake of a long term relationship is a recipe for a deeply unsatisfactory and toxic waste of time.
I'm super direct and I go for what I want directly. And you know what ? It's a relief. Not at first, because it HURTS to realize that the other and I are just not compatible. But it saves me from further mistakes in disastrous incompatible relationships... One has to be strong enough to stand alone... but people would rather lie and pretend than being alone for a while ! Lol doesn't work for me... doesn't work at all.
Teal’s subtle facial expressions when stating something so true.. hits. I understand those expressions, I’ve felt those expressions.. I’m glad I’m not the only one who appears like that bc my partner doesn’t appreciate my expressions however. It’s a given. At least I’m not shutting down or being avoidant and going away with my emotions. No, I’m showing them and feeling them..
This 100 percent explains my recent ex gf. She’s from an Eastern European country. Different mentality of competition early on in life. I’ve been trying to understand how she became this way. I never fathomed considering saying the things she said during arguments that appeared out of thin air. It’s the reason she’s now my ex. Thank you Teal for shining a light on what I went through and I’m pushing forward and not looking back.
What do you mean? What would she say? I’m curious because my last boyfriend’s ex was Eastern European and he would tell me she’d say horrible things in fights and I’m curious if it’s the same.
Am a woman & have always disliked manipulation. Really, I don't even like it even if it is about ONLY for the other person's well-being, even in big ways. I would rather open sincere, tranquil communication, exposing, for example, how & why something is good for that person & how I genuinely care that they r well or in their best state. Period.
I am a woman and I have experienced all of what you listed as manipulation through my ex husband and the relationship that followed. They seem to have learned those behaviours from their mothers but yeah we have men doing this now
Crying. So cute and funny and real. 😢😂❤😮. My mother, who studied psychology, raised my sister and I specifically and aggressively counter to this culture. When I got into viscous trouble at school (male principle) and was told my actions weren’t those of a lady, my mother sternly said, “You tell him you’re NOT a lady. You are a Woman!” I was 14 and unphased. But, being an adult and So different in my approach, much more masculine, i always think back to her as the reason I am unique. An adverse side effect is that the only friendships I have with women are with other women who are like me. Most women do not like to see me in the environment. I also feel a strong affinity towards men outside of sexual relationships, but they are unable to see me as a friend.
This was a very high quality video by Teal. Just don't lazily assume that because she has the wit & insight to intellectually share this wisdom with us all.. that she has the emotional development to behave perfectly in her own life & relationships. Earth is a devolved realm and most humans are modestly (or substantially) damaged and/or falsely programmed by our early teens. These ERRORS (whatever form they take) then live in our sub-conscious soul and alter our core perception of existence. Confronting soul_level errors can also be very painful and scary, and most people in fact reflexively avoid such healing through behaviors and NEEDS and WANTS that they then deem most essential. Interestingly, Teal has a concept of "NON-NEGOTIABLES" and I can pretty much guarantee to you that her and other people's "non-negotiables" are often just the spiritual_bypass side of the ERRORS and EMOTIONS in their soul they least want to confront. She also has a concept of "CORE VALUES" and in some cases (albeit less frequently) these may also be spawned from appalling & traumatic childhood experiences they want to avoid repeats of at all costs. Teal had a horribly UNSAFE CHILDHOOD to no fault of her own. It makes natural sense then she puts a high premium on protective males vs. those more inclined to encourage her to face some of her fears.
Isn’t facing her fears the whole point of her process? I don’t think she needs a man to be “encouraging”. But she did have that for a long time. And that isn’t attractive. It’s like having a servant. Or just a friend.
@@bm.6349 My long response was FILTERED.. as are ALL my most critical responses. In sum, Teal has NEVER HAD an "encouraging" partner spiritually able to successfully inspire and challenge her to greater heights. In general, SHE was the spiritual source for them. - so obviously they could not actually LEAD her in any substantive way on the deeper matters of existence.
What exactly is the point of this comment? To remind that Teal is also a human and has her struggles? Then you succeeded- thank you for reminding us. I am aware though because I never had an illusion that Teal has everything perfectly stacked in her life emotionally, relationally etc. Also, have never heard her claiming so… Just be careful not to assume something about the person and then walk around claiming that you know what’s happening in their heads and lives etc. I refer to spiritual bypassing and what are her non-negotiables and core values etc- as if you KNOW what is Teal bypassing or not and what is her soul going through. I’m not saying she isn’t. I’m not saying she is. I’m saying- who are we to judge and decide about other humans? Let’s just be more careful and kind and FOCUS ON OUR OWN LIVES MORE 🤍👌🏼💫
@@montamusinska7464 My response to BM was filtered. That would be another example of "you don't know what you don't know". There is a lot of stuff going on you can't see or don't even know exists.. like the spirits around you which influence you. I teach the universe and know a lot about Teal which others don't by virtue of her non-actions. Maybe I'm even the "other half of her"?? Let me repeat.. I TEACH THE UNIVERSE.. and over the last 9 years have probably had at 50 comments blocked or filtered.. many extensive teaching the highest concept available to man in human history. - I never get sick NOR have accidents EVER. I also possess a ridiculous amount of truth in my soul compared to the most popular New Agers of all time whether it be Abraham Hicks, Alan Watts or middle eastern gurus of the highest repute. I don't mind you defending Teal.. but I absolutely know parts of her others don't. I'm not suggesting she's bad. There is just so much more to the story that you can see on the surface. This pertains to your own life as well. You think you are a human.. and you ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY are not. Peace and God Bless.
you’re making trauma wrong, life molds us yes. cause we’re human and cause that’s how we’re wired physically with our physical brain and physical nervous system. if anything, and don’t take in a mean way, but from your comment it sounds like you have a very harsh judgement system of perfection and a rapture with your own physicalness, as in you reject it as an “error” or “bug in the code” when really all of this IS normal, is to be expected if you have the type of physical body you have in a physical world. especially a world like this. answer this, if there was no way to reach the impeccability you seek, how does that feel? i can guarantee you you’re just running from your emotions, and if not… answer that question really truthfully to yourself. emotions come and go, they’re not defects. you are not a defect for having emotions. it was never supposed to go that way, we’re just very ignorant as a species about them that’s all. it’s all a misunderstanding.
Self-awareness is personal accountability before you start second guessing yourself for doing you should’ve been doing the entire time; the next right thing!
@@createa.googleaccount713 I know it's the inner light so bright and basically we are all Copper....... Whew massive walloped me upside my head, my head head.... 🕊️
Thank you! This topic is not only about family relationships. This extends to other areas as well - for example, the workplace. This "human zoo" to which I am also a part is a wonderful place full of surprises🙂
Going directly after what I want and need. Yes, had to figure this out in my early 40's! Try to teach my daughter to do it now. a helpful exercise for me was where I imagined being in a board room work meeting, and who would I want there as my mentor? Who had characteristics I wanted to get where I wanted to go? TEAL came up very strong for me :)
As if the brilliant and dense flow of insight wasn't enough, Teal's videos actually make me giggle with her little mannerisms and sarcasm! A sage (disguised as a supermodel) for my generation.
A similar behavioral pattern can be also seen in feminine men. Speaking from experience... I.e. you hit the nail on the head for a lot of what I've had to rewire in my head growing up around my mother, aunts, grandmothers, and female friends... Thank you for the insight. Just to clear the air, I am heterosexual but possess several feminine qualities without having realized it... Bit of a slap in the face, but well-mannered none the less. No, I'm not weaker for it either guys that are reading this. I do lack some masculine qualities, but the duality presents regardless.
Why do you justify yourself being heterosexual? And why do you need to say your qualities do not make you weak? You already know that, right? And please stop saying feminine or masculine qualities, it's just qualities
@@arbustebuste7273 Justify my heterosexuality? It's my perception and I don't wish to be misunderstood in where I stand within that particular instance as something different hence the clarification on sexuality. Generalizing: A lot of men in my generation and previous generations see homosexual men as weak and removed from reality to a degree. Femininity in men is also seen as a weakness by other men. I understand they do not make me weak, but high emotional states aren't seen as strength typically... It took a lot to create mental pathways, without help, for using that energy in a constructive manner. No matter what I'm usually outcast because I stand strongly in my beliefs and lack of tolerance for toxic positivity and/or it's opposite. To your final request: No. There is masculine and feminine. I will not blend the two to make up my own definition of what is or what can be. That would be like ignoring the (+) and (-) charges in a high voltage environment and grounding the electricity in the wrong direction... I don't wish to create a "perceptual arc fault"...
Tell me about it! I was distraught to find out that apartheid ended in South Africa in 1994. It was humiliating to think there was a spot on earth where I was still legally declared _not fully human._ Thank you for your timely insights.
It's really difficult I find to end the habit of manipulation... It feels so second nature and natural to me... I've been wandering on that note, about the topic of none resistance vs. self control.
Relationship are crisis generator and allow us to constantly improve ourself. We can’t only love part of someone and hate bad part. Its itself since we all have bad part.
Nobody's perfect.sometimes win sometimes we lose .ppl go into relationships with hope of positivity that it will work out but not always the case.so take the risk anyway you better than the one who never tried the risk
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I find you surprinsingly quiet about the war crimes happening right now, do you really think the most important thing currently is to attack feminism and wokism?
It is not just a byproduct of male domination. There are works that show impact of thousands of years woman adapting to survive being moved to partner family and extended family, living around mostly woman from different lineage. This game perfected over the time and now that extended families are basically gone you left with skills that do not disappear easily
@dardarkbinks9105 illusion dear one. Try to stay open heart n minded. 🌟 7:39
Manipulation.. I dont think people even know how often they are doing it.. 🦋🦋
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You say "they" as if you're exempt
Considering males been murdering women for expressing their true opinion for 4k years women had not too many options
Yea i guess she could have worded it differently @@CarterRose-mn3ru
@Carter 😂😂😂
Being direct without manipulation can lead to suffering bc people get offended very quickly. but it's the best way for having sincere relationships
Finally someone says something. It’s so hard to have a healthy relationship when manipulation is how one party chooses to communicate. Thanks Teal
Manipulation is the circumvention of a person's will. A healthy relationship is always a compromise between two wills meeting sincerely.
What if the two wills are contradictory and could not co-exist?
@@mts992you just answered your own question there.
That’s not entirely accurate. Manipulation against someone’s will is very hard. Rather manipulation works well if manipulated by the promise of gain or fear of loss, or with someone who stands neutral.
Real bravery is being vournerable and standing by it
might also be considered foolish. I'm talking from experience, respectfully.
@@stewheart I see. At least I think I know what you mean. I think it depends of course, not every situation is the same, not every relationship one might have to another human. Sometimes honesty and vournerability is important and also sometimes knowing when not to speak.
I was just referring to the general idea of "the truth will set you free".
But of course each and everyone of us has to decide for themselves how we interpret that and if we wanna go there for whatever that means.
@@UmaerHashmi What's missing is How to be... introspection is not the only component. I have not found anyone that properly explains the process and dishonest people just wreck you regardless of the efforts made (from both sides). Obviously, the most broken people find the most stable ones and it's chaos across the board. Two healthy individuals tend to make it work until one or the other longs for more or different. Hard to define overarching principles, but... resources often get in the way. Society will never help unless I get in its way ;')
Take care.
Teal Sawn, you have an uncanny ability to clearly and succinctly de-code pretty complex ingrained behaviors, illustrate the signals, and offer real-world solutions. Thank you.
I love how you start with the root cause and then explain what’s happening. It makes it so much easier to understand, accept and make a change ❤
I admire women who go for what they want directly. The issue for me is when they over do it. When everything has to be their way and how they like it, to the exclusion of everyone else's needs. There is a middle ground.
It’s simply abusive people, male or female, who do that.
We literally can’t win lol
You can imagine why that is if you remember we have been property for a couple thousand years. WHY IS EVERYONE SO CONFUSED AVOUT THIS BEHAVIOR?? Women might need a couple of generations to be left tf alone and be selfish. Leave them to it.
@@ErinThePsychicWitchthey're confused about it because they still view women as property. They just won't say that out loud.
Listen to yourself 🤣 you yourself were not born in the time period of being "property". Get out of your victim mindset and stop making excuses for shitty behaviour.@@ErinThePsychicWitch
Western society has gimped men's ability to GIVE and a woman's ability to gratefully receive and GENERATE things. Things that the man then gratefully receives, and is incentivized to continue giving. The entire principle of gender, CO-CREATION, has been violated. The cure is love and awareness, but this happens on a personal level. Love needs to make a comeback yesterday.
I love how you phrased it. Another important aspect of "the cure" is that it is a PROCESS and involves of forgiveness and understanding, because we're all injured by this corruption so fixing it is going to take time and trial and error.
Not just Western. A lot of conservative Oriental societies do that too. It’s generally the richer classes that do that and that were influenced by the West but they put their own twist on it if you could say.
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Came here to say basically this. All the things any person is "supposed to" do, are group manipulation and corruption of the co-creation dynamic. Boys are told they are worthless except what they do for others, girls are told they have worth but that is conditional on how they act, etc, both are set up to be used in their own ways by others. This benefits parents and establishment by making all people servants, it doesn't benefit the individuals and doesn't show them the way to form an equal cooperative power couple.
This is one of the most enlightened comments I've seen on this issue. You've summarized the problem beautifully👏🏽
Growing up surrounded by people who teach us (as our parents) are THE EXAMPLE
for this behaviour…
It’s almost one of our basic lessons learned…
Than as we being adults
we aren’t even aware of this behaviour ( we do it because we almost become ‘one’ with this behaviour) … until…
we’re been mirrored by others to then realise…. 😮 it’s me doing this also without even knowing it …
I was fortunate being😊 confronted by my ‘mirrors’ 🙏🏻
❤ I’m working at this and it’s almost impossible for men to want to give me containment. It’s very frustrating but I keep saying that it’s worth it. ❤good luck ladies ❤
I suffer from the same thing. One thing I do to help me is to watch movies where men are doing this for women or children. The avenue isn't as important as the energy we are desiring to feel. So I recommend holding a big teddy bear and watching a movie or listening to a song by a man who actually is demonstrating care for the woman.
Ex. Glenn from free Willy 1. Very calm.
Song.... About to be mine. Not sure of the artist but it's about a man caring about the problems of the woman he's with.
You mean controlling.
@@heatherguess518thanks ❤
they really dont though. just want to use you for free labor
Because I am the kind of man with good intentions, I love nothing more than to hear exactly how my lady feels and what she wants. I have dealt with women who won't talk straight, and it's a confusing nightmare. Breeds paranoia and a feeling that I must read into everything in order to understand what's really happening. I am very thankful that my fiancee is the type to trust me with the knowledge of her needs and feelings. I am her first, but recently she told me that she was prepared to more or less engage in manipulation, she had an expectation that no man would sincerely care about her.
Shame that she didn't even have a picture in her head about what a good relationship with a man might look like. Same goes for many of guys I know who seem to expect nothing but manipulation and secrets.
Thank you for sharing this. I have yet to meet a man who appreciates my frankness. They seem to expect deception and manipulation. It's very frustrating because they assume I'm lying when I'm being direct.
I am a woman, and I prefer straight and direct communication, but somehow, the man I was with, used only lies, manipulations and hiden agendas, never ever saying what he truly wants or thinks. So I think this can be applied to both sexes.
congrats to all being here in this place right now
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@@siliconflesh cause you have the opportunity to be here and do whatever you want of course
This space in time. 2:30 a big shift.
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@@siliconflesh WE. HEAR. YALL. ☀️🌟☀️ 4:58
My mother does not even know why I would be upset that she wrote a letter of complaint to my child's daycare overhead company, when I directly and specifically asked her not to do so. I said "please don't do this. Do not do that. I do not want that. That would hurt the situation and embarrass us, please do not."
She did anyway. And then acted a fool months later, when she thought she had the most recent update and she did not; I had stopped updating her when she went behind my back and sent a letter anyway. Apparently she did not consider that she might be left out of the loop for her intrusive behavior. It caused a huge upheaval and we ended up having to go somewhere else. She really seems to think she is helping, when she accuses me of being ungrateful. Yes, not only am I ungrateful, I am hurt and furious that she directly bulldozed a clear boundary. It's all lies, nothing she says is real.
So I swung the opposite way. I have found many other young ladies that have done the same. The truth is so much easier.
But this is not something only women do. I experienced the same over and over again with my child's father.
@@kasijune88 yes. Because of my mother I experienced repetition compulsion in my adult life; I found partners who imitated her communication style with me. I didn't see the connection until the "style" was very exact.
Men do not even bother communicating with us, much of the time, because of the social training that says we are not equal. It is sick.
@@kasijune88 nowhere did I say men do not do this.
@@PaigeSquared You are worse than your mother, men don't bother to communicate with you for the same reason you don't do it with your mother, but you some how found a way to shift the blame on them.
This is so interesting and eye opening! I’ve been more direct than passive in all my relationships and some people have a hard time with my directness. Which makes me think that even if they don’t want to be manipulated for some people that might be what they are comfortable with
Thank god. Finally, someone said it, & said it well. Thank you as always Teal.
Wow. That was actually life changing... as hard as it was to hear. Thank you.
I love how comprehensive your insights are.
I gotta question the idea about girls being socialized to be passive and boys to be active in recent decades. In my lifetime (I'm 35), I've seen a lot more of the opposite message being sent, in media and policies, everywhere really. I'm not sure this has been a good thing, as it's caused a lot of confused people my age and younger. Pre-1990, yes I agree. But also, we have to accept that not everything different about men and women can be traced back to socialization in our childhood. There are biological differences as well that play a major part in what makes us different, and we should honor those differences.
I agree with you strongly - across so many walks of life, at least in the USA right now, women seem far more active and outgoing, while men seem to slink around and wallow in passivity
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@@mvondoommaybe its meant to happen? For the sake of universal expansion which is created due to role reversals experentation variety diversity evolution
@mvondoom I strongly agree also. I just wrote a comment to that effect.
I’m SICK of this ‘women are passive because of socialisation’ I think it’s totally outdated.
Some men & women become passive because of abusive families.
But I have met almost no ‘passive’ women in my 30 year career. If anything women are out of control. I’m speaking as a women who is sick to death of competitive dominating women who on top of that play the oppression card!!
So many many abusive women are never held to account, it’s like the whole world is stuck in gaslighting narratives and stuck on all women - all men comparisons.
Yeah, location really matters. In the section of the US where I live (New England), "girl bossing" is what's seen as desirable. Hyper-independence is rampant here because workaholism is normalized and glorified.
I was slapping my thigh and laughing out loud during the role play. SO real. I experience this in my relationship but only 100% of the time. And she is 100% unaware she's doing it because she came from a highly competitive family of 5 siblings and this was the way to survive. 🤣 Teal is someone I trust because she tells the truth, whether I like it or not. I hope she will keep her courageous manner. A rare voice of sanity in a whacked-out world.
The epigenetics of how women behave is eye opening. Wake up ladies. Passive competition, manipulation and all these tactics make us untrustworthy and crazy
wow a women that knows lol....
Self awareness is beautiful ❤
@AlanKelly-nm9lx self awareness is key
@@martinepeters9891 honestly most women are insane gaslighters!
I met many men that start projecting their trauma with women on me and all i can do is create space and try to stay in my integrity as much as possible. I think its so easy to fall for judgements towards each other we need to learn to communicate better with each other and cultivate self awareness…
This is brilliantly delivered. So glad you are recording this and putting it out there.
Yes
Being direct
Doing my best to heal this one with my sisters!!!!
Sending love and light , I love women who can accept truth because it is beginning of healing .
when you are direct with them, they write it off as nagging and stop listening to you. they actually care more about how other males see them and what they have to say way more that what women think of them. dont let the empathetic tone for males in this video fool you.
That was so helpful for more insight and clarity on that topic. Thank you Teal 🌻 I am female, 45 years old and grew up in Germany. I just recently became aware of this within myself and am changing my behaviour now. It feels so much more empowering to be vulnerable, cooperative and open. It is also scary as the outcome is unknown but wonderful to ride the wave with life and bringing out the excellence of people around me. I am learning a total different way to live in relationships. Friendships are great to practise. I am learning this with my friends and family and it is great how this unfolds 🌟
Wow, As a man, I always knew deep in my heart this truth. A Woman explained it to me. Thank you.
Teal hits it out of the ball park, again.
Teal please make a video on martyrdom in relationships - I think this is a huge thing taking over the spiritual community as well - where one partner constantly just "loves harder" a person who is toxic and does not really want to change... Ignoring bad treatment and behaviour because they are convinced this person is their TF.
She has a video called "self sacrifice". She also has a video on Twin Flames, though I heavily disagree with some of her stances in the latter.
This really helps me recognize my own. Thank you.
Teal, this is your best one ever! Every word perfectly true, plus I love the mockery of what women like this do!
Just discovered your channel. Wow, what a pleasure it is to find someone as brilliant and enlightened as you.
Your topics are from the heart, and may not reach out to everyone. However, to all of us that are ready to grow and prosper. The sky has no limits so keep inspiring humanity with your insight and knowledge. Bella
May you keep reaching out and sharing your unique gifts with the Planet.
Thank you Teal 🥰
5:33 Thank you for speaking out, and articulating so well, about female manipulation. This is why I am very discerning now when meeting people. My mother, sister, other relatives, acquaintances, coworkers, friends and a partner--all these females used these manipulation tactics. Being the family scapegoat, it has been horrible. It's a form of gaslighting and psychological abuse.
Sometimes I have seen mothers use this sort of thing with their kids, and it would always make me feel a little sick to my stomach. I immediately knew not to trust such a person if they are willing to do this to their own kids. Same with wives with their husbands.
(Side note: Had I even thought to use these tactics with my ex authoritarian NPD husband, I probably would have been able to stay in the marriage! Bizarre.)
I thought something was wrong with me that I was so hurt by these people and why it has been so difficult for me to "go along to get along" like many people seem to do (if I did do that, it would kill me on the inside and sometimes it would come out in reactive ways which just made those people think I was crazy).
I just wrote a blog post yesterday about superficiality, dissociation, and insincerity--all of which are at the core of the manipulation you describe.
It has been a 5-decade tough puzzle and lesson to figure out. I could never put my finger on what exactly was wrong. But now I know to just keep things super light with everyone. I trust my intuition now. I can easily spot this sort of thing now. My intuition and experience will let me know if I've encountered my kind of person.
Sincerity and transparency are a must now for me to invest in any sort of relationship--no matter how casual. Out of my own self-respect and self-care.
I love how you understand and articulate so many things which I've felt and experienced my whole life. I wish I would have had your wisdom starting when I was about age 12, or younger. I would have actually felt like I was worthy to live the first 30-plus years of my life.
I only realise now what all has happened and how it put me on to a misguided path for my own life. I see it also with my brothers. And therefore see how different people deal. While he jumps from one relationship to another I try the best to avoid everything at all. In the end I had the feeling of being „sick“ myself and its me who is just not good enough. I then found MBTI what first showed me that’s some traits I have are characteristic for my type and not an illness. Since then my journey goes deeper. But also life passes and a lot of time is lost. But it all strenghthens my idea that teens should get mandatory therapy in school. Like having a certain amount of therapy sessions a year they have to attend. (As all kids would need to do it it won’t be a band thing. They just make fun about it) But if, the therapies finds more serious things one can look for more detailed solutions. And act before bigger damage is done. Or end bad habits far earlier than when they are adults and start realising what actually happens. Yes, that will cost a lot but in the end it could be a financial gain having a generation with stronger and more healthy minds. Also it would maybe end that gender war we experience atm. And that itself can only be a very good thing. For me it’s too late. But looking at the younger generations I feel sad because we actually let them run into that world unprotected. And we see what will happen.
@@MathieuDeVinois I don't think it's a good idea to have this in public government schools nor for it to be mandatory. We need to be very cautious of who are influencing our children. But I do agree it would be incredibly helpful for kids to learn self-awareness, growth and healing--from parents, relatives, family friends would be the ideal. But even the average citizens can be good examples and hopefully that will reach the kids somehow, someway. The internet has offered so much wonderful information which I never had access to growing up--fortunately, most kids have access to this now.
@@coach_amy I am with you about that we should be aware who’s influencing our children. Unfortunately I have to say that family, friends and others have shown us that they failed. Also, internet seems to worsen everything although there is plenty of helpful and good information out there. It seems that social media is more prone to support the negatives. See how gender war is literally exploding and getting worse each year. The amount of women hating men and vice versa is dwarfing the amount of teamwork and positivity.
@@MathieuDeVinois I understand what you are saying. It's so easy to lose hope in people when the people we have loved and who we expected to love us back couldn't be trusted. I like what Matthew Hussey says: We each only need *one*. Also, I think, "If I exist, there has to be another like me."
@coach_amy Ditto
And my current phase..
All my life I’ve been screaming inside ‘doesn’t everyone see how FALSE these people are’?
But I was the one who didn’t understand. It’s all about power.
I was playing for truth and connection. Everyone around me was playing for power.
I’d been coerced out of all self-interest through abuse, so I didn’t have a morsel of self entitlement left.. Which was why I couldn’t understand people’s self-interested motivations.
I’d been programmed to serve other people and be exploited.
Many people are dangerously unethical and immoral. But not being aware of that and believing the false narratives of them ‘meaning well’, is the biggest danger of all.
Yikes at some of these comments. Thank you for bringing light to these chronic patterns of manipulation Teal.
Hi teal.Would you please do a video on doctors.Their stress level including their career,study pressure and not able to have a balance in personal life.
I couldn’t agree more! 🙌 Amazing 🎉
As a woman who has cultivated a direct communication style (much to the chagrin of my very traditional parents and my partners), I can honestly say that being direct is only half the equation. People hear what they want to hear, and people listen to the elements they're open to. A man who has become convinced it is impossible for a woman to be direct or decided being direct means she's unfeminine literally puts you in a lose-lose. I don't have the energy to play games with people anymore or mince words for the sake of politeness. We're either committed and compatible or we're not. Manipulation for the sake of a long term relationship is a recipe for a deeply unsatisfactory and toxic waste of time.
I'm super direct and I go for what I want directly. And you know what ? It's a relief. Not at first, because it HURTS to realize that the other and I are just not compatible. But it saves me from further mistakes in disastrous incompatible relationships... One has to be strong enough to stand alone... but people would rather lie and pretend than being alone for a while ! Lol doesn't work for me... doesn't work at all.
Teal’s subtle facial expressions when stating something so true.. hits. I understand those expressions, I’ve felt those expressions.. I’m glad I’m not the only one who appears like that bc my partner doesn’t appreciate my expressions however. It’s a given. At least I’m not shutting down or being avoidant and going away with my emotions. No, I’m showing them and feeling them..
This lady popped up one day out of nowhere 🤔 the algorithm hath blessed thee
This 100 percent explains my recent ex gf. She’s from an Eastern European country. Different mentality of competition early on in life. I’ve been trying to understand how she became this way. I never fathomed considering saying the things she said during arguments that appeared out of thin air. It’s the reason she’s now my ex. Thank you Teal for shining a light on what I went through and I’m pushing forward and not looking back.
What do you mean? What would she say? I’m curious because my last boyfriend’s ex was Eastern European and he would tell me she’d say horrible things in fights and I’m curious if it’s the same.
Teal is usually so very insightfully spot on usually.
Thank you. This explanation connected a lot of dots for me.
Am a woman & have always disliked manipulation. Really, I don't even like it even if it is about ONLY for the other person's well-being, even in big ways. I would rather open sincere, tranquil communication, exposing, for example, how & why something is good for that person & how I genuinely care that they r well or in their best state. Period.
This video was a revelation. Thank you Teal
This was a goodish video. I am a woman but got treated like this by men. Manipulation for 10 plus years
I am a woman and I have experienced all of what you listed as manipulation through my ex husband and the relationship that followed. They seem to have learned those behaviours from their mothers but yeah we have men doing this now
Crying. So cute and funny and real. 😢😂❤😮. My mother, who studied psychology, raised my sister and I specifically and aggressively counter to this culture. When I got into viscous trouble at school (male principle) and was told my actions weren’t those of a lady, my mother sternly said, “You tell him you’re NOT a lady. You are a Woman!” I was 14 and unphased. But, being an adult and So different in my approach, much more masculine, i always think back to her as the reason I am unique. An adverse side effect is that the only friendships I have with women are with other women who are like me. Most women do not like to see me in the environment. I also feel a strong affinity towards men outside of sexual relationships, but they are unable to see me as a friend.
This was a very high quality video by Teal. Just don't lazily assume that because she has the wit & insight to intellectually share this wisdom with us all.. that she has the emotional development to behave perfectly in her own life & relationships.
Earth is a devolved realm and most humans are modestly (or substantially) damaged and/or falsely programmed by our early teens. These ERRORS (whatever form they take) then live in our sub-conscious soul and alter our core perception of existence. Confronting soul_level errors can also be very painful and scary, and most people in fact reflexively avoid such healing through behaviors and NEEDS and WANTS that they then deem most essential.
Interestingly, Teal has a concept of "NON-NEGOTIABLES" and I can pretty much guarantee to you that her and other people's "non-negotiables" are often just the spiritual_bypass side of the ERRORS and EMOTIONS in their soul they least want to confront. She also has a concept of "CORE VALUES" and in some cases (albeit less frequently) these may also be spawned from appalling & traumatic childhood experiences they want to avoid repeats of at all costs. Teal had a horribly UNSAFE CHILDHOOD to no fault of her own. It makes natural sense then she puts a high premium on protective males vs. those more inclined to encourage her to face some of her fears.
Isn’t facing her fears the whole point of her process? I don’t think she needs a man to be “encouraging”. But she did have that for a long time. And that isn’t attractive. It’s like having a servant. Or just a friend.
@@bm.6349 My long response was FILTERED.. as are ALL my most critical responses. In sum, Teal has NEVER HAD an "encouraging" partner spiritually able to successfully inspire and challenge her to greater heights. In general, SHE was the spiritual source for them. - so obviously they could not actually LEAD her in any substantive way on the deeper matters of existence.
What exactly is the point of this comment? To remind that Teal is also a human and has her struggles? Then you succeeded- thank you for reminding us. I am aware though because I never had an illusion that Teal has everything perfectly stacked in her life emotionally, relationally etc. Also, have never heard her claiming so…
Just be careful not to assume something about the person and then walk around claiming that you know what’s happening in their heads and lives etc. I refer to spiritual bypassing and what are her non-negotiables and core values etc- as if you KNOW what is Teal bypassing or not and what is her soul going through.
I’m not saying she isn’t. I’m not saying she is. I’m saying- who are we to judge and decide about other humans? Let’s just be more careful and kind and FOCUS ON OUR OWN LIVES MORE 🤍👌🏼💫
@@montamusinska7464 My response to BM was filtered. That would be another example of "you don't know what you don't know". There is a lot of stuff going on you can't see or don't even know exists.. like the spirits around you which influence you. I teach the universe and know a lot about Teal which others don't by virtue of her non-actions. Maybe I'm even the "other half of her"?? Let me repeat.. I TEACH THE UNIVERSE.. and over the last 9 years have probably had at 50 comments blocked or filtered.. many extensive teaching the highest concept available to man in human history. -
I never get sick NOR have accidents EVER. I also possess a ridiculous amount of truth in my soul compared to the most popular New Agers of all time whether it be Abraham Hicks, Alan Watts or middle eastern gurus of the highest repute.
I don't mind you defending Teal.. but I absolutely know parts of her others don't. I'm not suggesting she's bad. There is just so much more to the story that you can see on the surface. This pertains to your own life as well. You think you are a human.. and you ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY are not. Peace and God Bless.
you’re making trauma wrong, life molds us yes. cause we’re human and cause that’s how we’re wired physically with our physical brain and physical nervous system. if anything, and don’t take in a mean way, but from your comment it sounds like you have a very harsh judgement system of perfection and a rapture with your own physicalness, as in you reject it as an “error” or “bug in the code” when really all of this IS normal, is to be expected if you have the type of physical body you have in a physical world. especially a world like this.
answer this, if there was no way to reach the impeccability you seek, how does that feel? i can guarantee you you’re just running from your emotions, and if not… answer that question really truthfully to yourself. emotions come and go, they’re not defects. you are not a defect for having emotions. it was never supposed to go that way, we’re just very ignorant as a species about them that’s all. it’s all a misunderstanding.
LOVE UR VIDEOS SO INSPIRING ❤❤
Self-awareness is personal accountability before you start second guessing yourself for doing you should’ve been doing the entire time; the next right thing!
How are you Teal? Hope you got a chance to see the Northern Lights....have a great Mothers Day weekend! Big Hugs, be well 🕊️
HAARP LIGHTS
@@createa.googleaccount713 I know it's the inner light so bright and basically we are all Copper....... Whew massive walloped me upside my head, my head head.... 🕊️
@@createa.googleaccount713 Neutrino's that is, and they are always the itchy sweater and complicit 🕊️
Thank you, Teal. Brilliant description. At age 65, distrust has protected me from the dangerous institution of marriage.
The other side of this of course is that men are socialized to be overtly controlling. This is why I stayed single.
Thank you, Teal🙏🏽 guilty 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you!
This topic is not only about family relationships. This extends to other areas as well - for example, the workplace.
This "human zoo" to which I am also a part is a wonderful place full of surprises🙂
A workplace is all about relationships. Thats why so many companies fail for not understanding that.
Going directly after what I want and need. Yes, had to figure this out in my early 40's! Try to teach my daughter to do it now. a helpful exercise for me was where I imagined being in a board room work meeting, and who would I want there as my mentor? Who had characteristics I wanted to get where I wanted to go? TEAL came up very strong for me :)
As if the brilliant and dense flow of insight wasn't enough, Teal's videos actually make me giggle with her little mannerisms and sarcasm! A sage (disguised as a supermodel) for my generation.
Good to see yall talking bout this 🙏
Teal is a good actor - very scary 😂
Incredible video, informative and important!
Nailed it!
Thank you Teal Swan.
Thanks!!!
You are spot on . Nothing hurts more than being a victim of this .
A similar behavioral pattern can be also seen in feminine men. Speaking from experience... I.e. you hit the nail on the head for a lot of what I've had to rewire in my head growing up around my mother, aunts, grandmothers, and female friends... Thank you for the insight. Just to clear the air, I am heterosexual but possess several feminine qualities without having realized it... Bit of a slap in the face, but well-mannered none the less. No, I'm not weaker for it either guys that are reading this. I do lack some masculine qualities, but the duality presents regardless.
They are males; not men
Why do you justify yourself being heterosexual? And why do you need to say your qualities do not make you weak? You already know that, right?
And please stop saying feminine or masculine qualities, it's just qualities
@@arbustebuste7273 Justify my heterosexuality? It's my perception and I don't wish to be misunderstood in where I stand within that particular instance as something different hence the clarification on sexuality. Generalizing: A lot of men in my generation and previous generations see homosexual men as weak and removed from reality to a degree. Femininity in men is also seen as a weakness by other men. I understand they do not make me weak, but high emotional states aren't seen as strength typically... It took a lot to create mental pathways, without help, for using that energy in a constructive manner. No matter what I'm usually outcast because I stand strongly in my beliefs and lack of tolerance for toxic positivity and/or it's opposite.
To your final request: No. There is masculine and feminine. I will not blend the two to make up my own definition of what is or what can be. That would be like ignoring the (+) and (-) charges in a high voltage environment and grounding the electricity in the wrong direction... I don't wish to create a "perceptual arc fault"...
@@WillfullyWondering indeed there are male traits, like overthinking
You still submit to what others think, even in anonymous comments
That makes sense
such a beautiful mind.... they seen her at such a very young age.... she's a little bit of everything.... god-bless her....
I need to watch this! Thanks Teal 🙏
Living near Teal is the best thing anyone could do.
Wow that was really good
Love your hair!
Thank you ❤
I've seen you around for years.
Great message today, I just subscribed. You look younger than ever, good job.
I can see that this topic is one that Teal is not happy to deliver. Thank you for sharing it anyway. I agree with you on this and many other topics.
Always a great help, Teal! AND as always I’m very curious about your skincare and routine! Such lovely skin!
Haha I agree I would love that video
I love teal.
Tell me about it! I was distraught to find out that apartheid ended in South Africa in 1994. It was humiliating to think there was a spot on earth where I was still legally declared _not fully human._
Thank you for your timely insights.
Yes... and women are still seen as inferior in the majority of countries. In the US it's still going on, just covertly.
It's really difficult I find to end the habit of manipulation... It feels so second nature and natural to me... I've been wandering on that note, about the topic of none resistance vs. self control.
Sending love and light , it all starts with acknowledging the truth which you just did .
As long as you tell yourself it's difficult, it will be.
Knocked it outta the park once again!!
“It’s very dangerous not to see the power that you do have”
Thank you Teal!
some funny moments in this … this cheered me up Teal
exactly! never enough to say these things laud ...
💯 excellent video
Great explanation
Crazy times ... Everything is UP - SIDE - DOWN. Crazy / stupid beyond belive.
I love you teal❤❤❤
I'm going to move to a different reality because of this conversation.
Wow! This was enlightening. Thank you.
Wow... someone finally said it.
Well done, Teal. Well done.
All right, VERY good, as usual. Appreciate how you 'read the riot' act with women, as well as men. Thank you!
This is brilliant. Thank you. :)
Relationship are crisis generator and allow us to constantly improve ourself. We can’t only love part of someone and hate bad part. Its itself since we all have bad part.
That was powerful
Damn. You hit the nail on the head
Very nice vid❤
Thanks teal 👏🙏
Thank teal 😊
Nobody's perfect.sometimes win sometimes we lose .ppl go into relationships with hope of positivity that it will work out but not always the case.so take the risk anyway you better than the one who never tried the risk
Happened to me with my lesbian wife & friends. Very confusing time. Appreciate your examples.
Thanks❣️
Brilliant! 🙏Persevere🙏