The Hidden Truth About Your Sexuality
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👉 In this episode, Teal Swan reveals the hidden truth about sexuality and how it plays a much bigger role in our lives and relationships than we think. She explains how our sexuality is shaped by our early life experiences, our deep desires, and our needs, and how it reflects in our personality, our expansion path, and our compatibility with others.
She also gives us some examples of how sexual incompatibility can point to deeper oppositional desires and needs between two people, and how sexual compatibility can greatly increase our chance of finding someone who is more compatible to us in our broader life. She invites us to become more conscious about what causes us to feel turned on and aroused, and what it means about our true selves. This episode will help you to understand yourself and others better, and to improve your sex life and your relationships.
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Thanx for ur contributions, Teal.
Interesting insights.
Who wrote this? It's getting to the point where I can't tell the difference between AI and the real Teal Swan.
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”Incompatible sexuality is one of the hardest things to work on and improve in a relationship. Not because it is hard to improve things regarding the act of sex itself. But because incompatible sexuality points to deeper oppositional desires and needs between two people. And these incompatibilities (which incompatible sexuality will point to) will not just limit themselves to the bedroom. They will ripple out across so many other aspects of a person’s life and their relationships”. Teal Swan 🌎 thank you Teal for talking about this 😘
And so, you need to heal yourself and improve yourself. You have to be the right person before you are capable of finding the right person (people), and the right compatibility. Otherwise, it's a futile pursuit.
Total b.s. if you are in a relationship, say what things you like. Don't assume your partner can read your mind. Sexual incompatibility is a excuse people use to cheat on partner. Then used as the reason to keep cheating.
Absolutely!
@@user-vn6ol1jn9l Very myopic take. Sexual incompatibility is absolutely real and isn't always communicated because it can be hard for one to articulate or even understand themselves. And of course, people will inappropriately and irresponsibly employ mendacious claims of "sexual incompatibility" to cheat, but that doesn't equate to a justification for reducing the existence of sexual incompatibility nor is it a valid claim in general. If it wasn't sexual incompatibility as an excuse to cheat, it would have been something else.
Is it ridiculous to state that people have different answers as to what matters in a sexual relationship? Some one who has been sexually taken advantage of in the past will have an exceptionally different list of needs in sexual encounters than someone who has not. These needs, unfortunately, are not always easy to recognize and might be impossible to meet, therefore such a situation can lead to sexual incompatibility.
TL;DR: Sexual/romantic needs are hard to articulate and sexual incompatibility =/= excuse for cheating.
That is pure junk. Romantic relationships are new in western civilization only being a couple of hundred years old before that all marriages were arranged pretty much and people learned to love each other and be with each other. The obsession in our culture with this is the reason why our society is spiraling to destruction
In my culture, there is a second spring. It is when a woman passes menopause. It is a time when a woman is freed from her reproductive cycle. Her youthful sensuality was wonderful, and her youthful second spring is also wonderful. She is no longer, subject to her desire for sexual fulfillment. She is young again, yet wise with experience.
I loved! What is your culture?
I’d like to know what women actually experienced menopause say about that
Teal won't know it's a second spring until it happens to her.
In social media there’s A LOT of hate and anger towards everything.. and i get sucked to it a lot too, but whenever i see teal swan i feel like am being in a solid balanced safe ground where nothing will be said but truth and knowledge.
Good for you! I’m older and quite grateful I managed to avoid getting sucked into the world of social media. Sometimes it makes me feel lonely but reading comments like yours makes me realise I was perfectly happy as a child and teenager without social media, and I don’t need the extra burden of trying to extricate myself from its pernicious effects. I’ve got enough healing to work on and I want my mental state to be as balanced as possible.
Thank you for sharing. I wish you good luck! 🙂
I wouldn’t be so foolish as to think everything she says is the truth. You just made up your mind to buy in to everything she tells you, that’s not very smart.
@sebastiandahlqvist900 Sure! I wouldn't believe 100% of what anyone says.
@@sebastiandahlqvist900big thing to say for someone u don’t know..
@@sebastiandahlqvist900i think you're reading too much into it, i think that person is saying she doesn't have the haterd others are used to inside so she is has a better and less biased grasp of reality ti be able to explain various subjects
Teal described me exactly. I had a severely bipolar mother (but a great father). I found a picture in encylopedia Britannica. I dreamed I would merge with one person for life. Sex for me was a metaphysical pursuit. I was a virgin when I got married. I had plenty of opportunities to have sex before marriage. While I wanted to merge she shut me out after about 2 years. We had 15 years of sexless marriage. We had two children of our own and then took on a foster daughter. My wife left a couple of years later and shut our foster daughter out of her life. I raised her on my own for the next 10 years. This was so difficult to do on my own with a difficult daughter (with her own trauma), I never remarried. Despite having deep desires, some crazy fantasies (like the one mentioned in the vid), and wanting deep connection ...I have lived a virtually sexless life.
it sounds like you have a very good quality heart, I think if you decide to let someone back into your life they will be lucky. I don't know how old you are but you can still find love.
PLEASE can we have more content about this !!! so interesting i want to read an entire BOOK on this teal
I'd like to figure this stuff about myself.. can anyone recommend any more material besides this video, that could help me
I am interested too@@Gr00vyMutati0n
Me too ❤
Thank you for highlighting sex isn't just about sex, and all of the dynamics at play underneath often illogical desires
GOD FORGOT TO GIVE WOMEN A SEX DRIVE.
"Her best case scenario is to be shared by multiple men who are all taking ownership of her" hit hard 😂❤
Women aren’t complicated.
Wait seriously? That's so strange to me that someone would want that. Haha oh No offense sorry just so interesting.
They flip the Islamic scenario where the woman has 4 men? No! I like just one.
@@MrBooYa-yd5erbut unfortunately men still can't figure us out.😂
I don't think it's a bunch of men with one and only one women, they all can have other women too just all taking good care of them
When Robert California said "everything is sex" i knew he was on to something
Oscar Wilde said, “ everything in the world is about sex - except sex. Sex is about power.”
Chico Xavier from Brazil said the same.
Sexual energy is represented in everything, interactions, business, society, religion, revolution, commerce, food,clothes, building styles, laws.. everything! The same energy, dynamic, it’s not just confined between a male & a female body .. day & night represent feminine & musculine energies too, sun & moon, white & black.. etc!
Sexual energy is a divine creation energy it’s is involved in the atom it’s self (nucleus & protons)!
Yes, & not that long ago Freud was villified for pointing that out.
Thank you for this video. Please consider making a video regarding childhood sexual abuse and the ways it can manifest later in life
Might not be what you're looking for but i think she talks about it in the episode she did on Pedophilia
@@psyduck8025 thank you, that is a great and interesting video. Would love for her to expand on it
Yes that is a huge issue right now too. Unfortunately. Its sad.
I want this too
I would also love this
I'm seeking someone who can be vulnerable and show affection.
That pretty much sums it up for me.
And may you find it sooner than you think! Good luck to you 🙂
@@carriehobbes2448 Thank you! Same to you!
It's been a hard few years, so I hope my luck is turning around :)
search “dylan james self concept/relationship”
You are looking for a woman
I’ve been with someone for 28 years. I can say that this woman is 100% correct.
I am married for over 50 years. And i can second this
She is just pointing out an evidence that most adults already know about.
@@likearollingstone007 Then why are you here?
@@DemsRNutlesswhy would you care?
@@Pablo-gl9dj He doesn't care. He merely asked a logical question...😅 besides, if he did care, he would have responded and fuelled your need to fight! 😂
I think this is my new favorite Teal video. Also, let's be real- sexual energy has lots of names: kundalini, prana, chi, sacral chakra energy, life force energy... how are you going to separate that from the totality of your life? You can't. And it's so linked to our subconscious wounds and needs that it's staggering.
An excellent observation - if I may say so I would actually say it is sexuality that is an expression of life force rather than the other way around - it is not as if asexual people do not have prana or chi. I Understand that for them Lifeforce expresses itself in a different form
@@carriehobbes2448 As I understand it, lack of sex drive/ interest in sexuality/ being repulsed by sexuality is usually a trauma response. But any form or expression of sexuality comes from a trauma response, regardless of how "tame", conventional, or vanilla it may seem to the outside. Like Teal mentions in this video, if you were really lonely in childhood and felt very disconnected from everyone around you, you may be drawn to more things like eye contact and positions that have your body closer to your partner's. I think it really does all comes down to the conditioning and contrast we experienced in childhood. My point of saying that sexual energy is life force energy is more to say that everyone has it, though it is more expressive, vibrant, and apparent in some people versus others based on where they are in their healing journeys and what their lifepath focus is.
Beautiful take
Man, this is so true. Outside of the bedroom, I'm more of an independent dominant that wants the control. But sexually, I always had a subconscious desire to be dominated by a woman who is strong. So I was always confused thinking why was I not like this in any other way? Once I did some inner work and tried to figure it out I realized it was because my mother was always weak and fragile. Growing up as a child, she overlooked the abuse that my older brother was dishing to me and my younger brother, she always quit her jobs and left my Dad with all the finances, which caused us to have to lose our homes a lot of the time. She lacked mental and emotional strength and would without fail end up throwing tantrums and breaking things. And then finally when I was 15 she left all together and abandoned me. So, this is what made me desire a strong woman in control in the bedroom. It's the opposite of what my experience with my mother was growing up. I was left desiring a woman who could own me somehow. It's hard to admit, but it's true. The mind can be really trippy. And it's probably also why I'm attracted to Teal Swan's energy. A soft spoken woman, who has a motherly type aura but stands her ground and owns her power.
It's interesting that your mom was responsible for keeping your home when you had a family unit as a child. I'm sorry for your traumas 😢
In that case do you think it’s a lasting value to you to keep desiring being sexually dominated by a woman in the way that evokes your subconscious or do you believe it’s a subconscious desire you want to/have to heal?
In that case do you think the subconscious way in which you desire to be sexually dominated by a woman is a lasting value for you to have that’s worth holding onto or do you believe that subconscious desire deserves to be healed and to be let go of?
@@aminadolores4908It's probably something that OP needs to experience first. If all prior relationships did not meet this criteria and ended in disappointment and dissatisfaction, it would be important to find someone who fulfills this need and desire. Why let go of a desire that can be met? From there OP can determine if that was the missing ingredient or if there was a deeper level still.
That is some profound and deep self knowledge you have. Thank you for sharing it openly-it helps people like me to read about the insights people like you have into your own psyche and sexuality
I am not quite so clear on the origins of my own but I have made some headway. Off to do some more introspection now - I wish you luck! 🙂🌈
Oh, I really like this perspective of how sexual compatibility goes beyond sex. Lately I've been paying more attention to how my sexuality works, what I genuinely like, want and need in that field, this video is very helpful. Thanks!!! ❤
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Are you thinking about lesbianism?
@@DeadlyKiss000 I'm Pansexual, I was referring more to the specific dynamics that make me feel aroused (whose details I rather not to share in a public space, LOL 😅) and not so much to the gender of the people I'm attracted to.
In astrology one sees the myriad of different sexual needs and desires in individuals and how complex it is to find a match with someone who you can indeed have a fulfilling sexual expression with. But being in sync on other psychological levels isn't necessarily a given, so a lot of other emotional and psychological needs have to be addressed as well.
Teal said piss play 😩🤣
Hahaha noticed it too, all too well 😂😅 *dirty minds activating*
Peace play
Gulp...me too. (Actually, gulp may be the wrong word to use 😂).
she's absolutely right. i came out as gay at 27 and my life has completly changed since.
even though i only told 2 friends and haven't started dating anyone, it felt like lifting a big fog over my eyes and feeling comfortable in my skin for the first time ever.
i started working out, taking care of myself better, expressing myself through clothes and other means, going out... it just really changed my inner state for the better, with just this self acceptance.
As a fellow of a human that desires the same sex as myself (im a lesbian) lol I can just say that I'm glad that you feel safe and better coming out as a gay human being. We don't choose who we love, it just happens... and I'm proud of you! Stay strong and know that if any person that you are friends with has an issue with who you love then they are not a friend. Stay safe. Always. ❤
Dats rayciss
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proud of you ❤
So I don’t need to force a change in my sexuality? From what i understand I simply need to be honest about what I need, and it’s out there for me?
Within the bounds of the law ;-)
Yes exactly. There is no right or wrong. Just be authentic and find a compatible partner.
This question points to what I think was missing from this video. A lot of good info but it seems to exclude how much change could/should happen after uncovering the motivations behind certain sexual desires. Not all of the driving factors to one’s own sexuality are healthy and there are things that would be in our best interest to heal rather than continue to play out. Things that hurt us or limit us in many ways outside of sex.
So no, you shouldn’t force a change to your sexuality. Especially not to force a match to someone else’s. But at the same time, that doesn’t mean there aren’t certain aspects that may need healing for your own sake.
@@fcz32 I really appreciate your response. It seems a topic you have examined in a genuine way.
Any chance you know some good online resources or books on this topic? If you do, I'd be very interested to know so as to explore this topic of integrated honest and healed sexuality. Cheers
@@smileyjones730here here, leaving the comment here to find out more.
You make me proud to be a human being. I am honored to be here, now, as you are also here. Your authenticity breeds empowerment. Period. 🙏🏼
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I feel like you just explained my last relationship and now I understand why it didn't work out despite having very similar interests
I have never resonated with a character as much as I have Aly. Down to the childhood, desires, approach with a partner and the fact that I don’t drive anymore either. I rewatched that part so many times, it’s scary how deeply I resonated with it.
What’s scarier for me is I kind of relate to all the people exampled in this video. I’m constantly bouncing back and forth with what I want and how I want it. Constantly conflicted. It’s great 👍
me too...
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Women aren’t that complicated.
Really?? Tell us more though
Powerful insight. Thank you Teal for being yourself, and living your courage and helping us all come into greater and greater healing and health in all areas of our lives.
I just had a full-circle moment. There's so much good stuff here. Teal, you're awesome!
Hey Teal, have an awesome weekend, excellent topic, very helpful points and observations.... keep smiling spring has sprung... many blessings Be Well 🕊️
Actually very insightful. It explains why the bedroom issues between my ex husband and myself were the death knell for the marriage. I have a strong need for containment and open communication and he didn't/ couldn't understand that. I'm now in a relationship with a man who communicates very clearly and loves to spend hours just touching me, not necessarily in a sexual way but both of these things make me feel very loved.
Where did she get all this ability to communicate this so structured and logical? I do not wish to know the answer, just to express that I appreciate and applaud for this talk.
Just being able to recognize patterns in energy. The way people eat, choose certain things even hobbies tells you all about how they are in bed. You can connect things… cuz energy is the same if it’s above so will it be below 🤷🏽♀️
she's very high IQ
I think this is what we call..a Genius. It's very clear to me Teal is a highly evolved human. Rare.
I can hear compatibility. Its been through fire and came out stronger.
This is fascinating. I've been delving deeper into these concepts lately. I've realized what I truly like most. And my ex, I thought initally, was compatible with my desires because their desires were opposite in a sense. So it went well. But the longer we dated, I realized she had more desires that were similar to mine but hadn't accepted them within herself yet - so these conflicting desires made us even more incompatible and went over into other areas of the relationship. Thank you for the clear examples which helped to understand this, Teal 💙
My husband and I are not very compatible sexually but we do have compatability in most other things. I don't really many deeper things. But the incompatibility in our sexuality is really really challenging.
imagine not getting the only thing that makes you orgasm in a sexual relationship?
What did you mean to say when you said, 'I don't really many deeper things'? In what ways are you incompatible? This was my story too...we did life and family well, but sex was really poor. We are divorced now.
Wow this incredible bc this is what I learned unfortunately over the last 10 years. Thank you for speaking it and sharing it, I am glad to know I am not alone in my discovery!
Incredibly insightful. The depth and nuance on this subject is crucial. Thank you!
Literally was just diving into this topic. Perfect timing 🙏
Great video and topic and the examples really helped pull it all together! Thanks Teal!
(Teal’s examples almost always refer back to her own life.) I’m glad Teal is admitting to her flirtatiousness and wanting multiple male partners. I remember Sardeep mentioning (in a blog post? Or interview?) that Teal was very flirtatious with other men while they were married. I believe she met Ale when she was still with Sardeep. But what’s also interesting to me is that Teal kind of taught *against* polyamory for a long time - saying that people need to get good at 1 romantic relationship before they attempt having multiple partners 🤷🏽♀️
So when you look at her birth chart, she is a Gemini with Gemini Venus. That Venus is predicted to have more partners at once. Even if they don’t really want to cheat it just happens that they have more than one relationship while being married or dating somebody else.
Thank You for this deeply spiritual support as you provide us of multiple perspectives ❤🙏✨️
Love You Teal!
Thank you again Teal.
I have been longing so much for something to shine a very clear light on this.. I have seen your other sexuality videos, and reflecting on them.
This one is going even deeper.
You share such wisdom every week. So fortunate to have discovered you. Your book has made such a difference. Thank you.
This is amazing. Would love to hear more on this topic
Brilliant and thought provoking! I appreciate these lectures as they provide more insight into what possibilities might be unpioneered.
Too Real, bro! As per usual. Teal hits the nail on the head.
I can relate to simon, I’m rootin for him ✊
Wow! This explains and reveals a lot. I'm 77 y.o. this year and I never had such a revealing explanation about how deeply our sex drives are linked to our deep personal histories. You can imagine that, after five long term relationships and three marriages I've been questioning myself about this issue. Thank you for this new avenue of speculation and soul searching. You are precious, thank you sincerely. 🙏🏼
Much love Teal! Love the necklace. ❤ Thanks for sharing this.
“Tanner wants to jump on a new opportunities.” Lol. Bet he does…(sips tea innocently)
One of the most interesting topics to create content/literature on is how one's fear and shame get mangled with desire and how it all transpires through one's sexuality... great video, Teal! I study and dissect my own sexual patterns as a part of shadow work so am familiar with the tropes discussed here.
This is great content.
I love how nuanced your presentation was as a result of using specific examples. When the content is full of generalisations the comments tend to get polarised.
That's a powerful video, thank you so much!
I absolutely love this information. This is incredibly insightful. This is exactly what I think about. But putting an actual video to it just confirms so much. Thank you , Teal. I appreciate the work you’re doing.
I am so grateful for Teal. 😇✨ I have followed her since she started her You Tube channel. Her very honest straightforward wisdom has supported my life in countless ways. 🙏🕊️Thank you for being so brave, Teal!
WHY DO I FEEL EXPOSED
I think in spite of everyone's different histories, we should all aim to be honest with ourselves and our needs, be upfront and communicate them as much as possible - esp. in the early stages so that both parties know whether there are any non-negotiables or any type of major conflict in values/lifestyle. After that, if two people are attracted to and love one another and are considerate of each other and want to please the other partner (without disrespecting values/boundaries) they can grow together. I think in the early stages of dating/relationships, communication is very important regarding any types of major preferences or possible conflicts. Since partners will not have 100% of the same history and experience, there has to be some patience involved if they want to move foward in harmomy.
it’s beautiful to see teal giving closure to people👁️
the womans as beautiful as she is intelligent thats what makes her insanely magnetic. Could talk with this woman for hours and share ideas and opinions on numerous topics and ideas about anything and everything. She's the type of woman that draws you in physically (sexually) BUT also mentally and spirituality.
Alexander Lowen wrote many books about pleasure and he wrote one called love, bleep, and your heart
(of course I can't put the actual 3 letter word that begins with s cuz yt will censor my recommendation)
Anyway, chapter 2 of that book explains the difference between energy, sensations and feelings
There are many metaphysical things that people need to learn about the three lettered s word
If only people were really interested in learning
That's another issue
I’m interested if you have any other resources to share!
I am interested in learning. Do share more references. Thank you.
I’ve been thinking about this topic a lot lately ❤️ thank you Teal
That's really interesting. So I guess I really should be specifically looking for someone who demonstrates how they are thinking and feeling through their actions rather than words. that makes a lot of sense, since my mother would say she loved me but her actions demonstrated the opposite.
Been waiting for this since you mentioned it in your interview with Charlie Houpert. Looking forward to it!
Truly fascinating! And also in line with mutual and very recent explorations!
Interesting, thanks! I know there's a ton of information to be learned from my sexuality. Also nice you gave the examples, a few things were reflected to me.
Thank you for this. I felt it was difficult to communicate this in a way where people would believe me. I needed something like this to send to help me articulate the importance of sexual compatibility to me.
That was a very good video. Interesting food for thought. Brings all kinds of thoughts to mind.
I love you discussing such taboo topics Teal thank you for sharing your wisdom!
This is fascinating.... I need the workbook!!
Brilliant talk. Not many dive into the depth of sexual needs and sexual compatibility in a relationship.
Simon and Ally almost perfectly described a relationship I just had. And she also had the father issue you described in her childhood.
Same here brother. As she described Ally it was a def turn off for me. My ex had deep father issues and it prevented me from getting needs met sexually and in the relationship.
Here Teal Swan comes through with the most cogent and groundbreaking message
BRAVO!
Wow this fills in some blanks I had on the topic. Amazing stuff.
amazing. thank you for sharing how deep this goes!
Incredible information with great examples thank you so much❤️
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I couln't keep my eyes off of that necklace!! 🦊Love it!! And.... Thanks so much for the examples, it helps me to understand the concepts so much better.
loved this deep dive ❤
Wow thank you, this is amazing. Love your way of explaining. Can you make more such videos where we can read people's behaviour to understand what their core needs are and their sexuality to gauge if they are a good match.
interesting for sure. thanks for sharing
wow! fav ask teal in a while! this one really opened a new door of awareness!
Thank You for this! You just explained why my previous marraige did not work!
Thanks for this one! So very helpful ❤
Thank you for the insight in this video! ❤
This is a really good one. Thank you Teal 💫
Sexuality is faaar more complex than I thought 💭
True, sexuality plays a large role, too large - for me a devastating and disastrous one, in many different ways. Now, finally, I am free of it; it has gone with the wind and I feel relieved and calm. Only regret is that I couldn't cut loose from it earlier in life.
@@carlyofearth no, it's the opposite. I did sex enough for a long life, got kids etc, but was utterly degraded by it. Those who feel comfortable with their sexuality I find suspect. Now I have quit it and can associate better with people.
@@Sal-fn1pm Being comforatble with sexuality is not a problem. The problem is people don't know how to seperate things in their lives. They can't, for instance, relate to other humans without factoring the eyes of sexuality......and that IS very limiting and destructive in relating authetntically with our fellow humans.
@@jeanjacqueslundi3502 well ok, be that as it may, I still fall in love etc but tend to forget about the sexual ingredient.
I get it
I thought there were parts of each one of these examples that were commensurate with my experiences, though I get that wasn't the point and am glad to having been pointed toward exploring topics like "what was my first arousal and what it's implications in my life are. How sexuality affects the personality or it's specific development is a fascinating question to puzzle out.
Wow I’m mind blown 🤯 that was so in depth. I’m inspired to explore this. Thank you Teal for all your knowledge & gifts!
Wonderful. @TealSwan Unique truth seeker and a very encouraging person. Thank you for the pearls of true knowledge. Adjustable to daily life.❤
This is a very deep idea and very truthful as well.
The information given resonates fully with my understanding ❤
Brilliant explanation. I applaud.
Thanks for this informative video!!
great explanation Teal, I'm a big fan of yours and follow you as much as I can, greetings from San Antonio TX, city which hungers for you, take care girl and thank you
Like why hasn't anyone talked about this until now? 😩 Thank you Teal, you are amazing! ❤
One of my favorite topics thank you!!! ❤️
Fascinating... thank you!! 🎉🎉❤❤❤
Very interesting video!
Is it possible to just genuinely like a person so much that you feel like sharing the most intimate activity there is, being present with them?
Safe to be yourself, no complicated kinks to decode.
Learning to honor them and yourself through a deepening relationship.
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Absolutely bloody brilliant! Thank you Teal - I resonate with SO much of what you explained. 😃🙏🏼
My previous relationship was massively sexually incompatible and there was always such a deep feeling in my gut that something wasn’t right, even though we loved each other and were devoted to each other for many years. It was deeply confusing and I judged myself so harshly for being unable to feel attracted to him once he started showing subtle but unmissable signs of toxic Male entitlement in our sex life. No surprise that my attraction to him and desire plummeted!
My current relationship has me with a wonderful sexual partner who is MUCH more sexually compatible to me. And guess what? He’s also MUCH more compatible to me in every other way! 🙂
Sadly a lot of lifelong trauma and health stuff has made it so that our sex life is not what it once was. But we are still attracted to each other and constantly flirt with and enjoy turning each other on just a little even during bad times. He is wonderful - he has taught me that good sex starts long before actual sex and involves enjoying the little teases between lovemaking sessions, with laughter and closeness and lots of love. No pressure - if either one of us isn’t feeling upto it we don’t feel rejected. We just love being together and if great sex happens - it’s a lovely bonus but never an obligation!
Thank you so much Teal - It was your voice in a Much older video that said “sometimes when your partner walks in the door and says they want a divorce, you think what did I do wrong? (missing the great images Blake used in the older videos while you spoke along!) But maybe that will lead you down the road where you will find someone even more better suited to you” - that turned out to be SO TRUE for me! 😃 💃🏻
The year I saw that was the year I met my current partner. We make each other happy and I am AMAZED I can still find him sexy - in my previous relationships my desire used to wane after the first year and I thought it was impossible for me to sustain attraction to any man. Not true at all - when it’s the RIGHT man it will burn like a steady strong flame 😊😊😊 🔥 😉
So grateful for your voice and clarity of expression Teal! 🙂🙏🏼💜🌈
This explains A LOT!!! Thank you. Liked & Subbed"
Thank you teal!!!
Great information, I hadn't thought how pervasive our sexual energy can be, that it can reflect in all our motives feels very, revealing. I'm going to have to watch for this in others.
Very interesting aspect.
Thanks for sharing ☺💖✨
Well this one is EXTRA fascinating.
This was so interesting and relatable. Thank you so much!
Very interesting concepts and in certain aspects helpful although as I'm sure we are all in some ways complicated.....enjoyed the learning
This was FANTASTIC ❤️
Insane information. Wow. Thank you. 🙏🏻💚