7 Behaviors That Make Her Instantly Reject You

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  • @TrippAdvice
    @TrippAdvice  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    To eliminate all the unattractive parts of your personality and stop getting rejected by girls once and for all, be sure to check out my Hooked Program: www.getherhooked.com.

    • @JackobJackob32
      @JackobJackob32 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is just so hard to to find the right amount of attention and caring, because it is for each girl a little different.

    • @tayk_action1019
      @tayk_action1019 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tripp what do I when I like a girl do I go up to her and tell her

    • @JackobJackob32
      @JackobJackob32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tayk_action1019
      For random girl Say: "
      Hi, i noticed you, you seem (interesting, cool, nice, wow)
      I am {NAME} .... (handshake)
      And you are?
      Lets grab a coffee (or different activity) tonight at 6pm in (place)
      ....
      discussing time and place
      ...
      OK let me get your (exchange) contact if anything happens.
      Nice meeting you, see you there {HER NAME}

    • @tayk_action1019
      @tayk_action1019 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JackobJackob32 that helped bro thanks

  • @johannklassen862
    @johannklassen862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    1. Attentive
    2. Giving
    3. Over caring
    4. Shy
    5. Anxious
    6. Reserved
    7. Over-thinker
    Yw

    • @roygupta3826
      @roygupta3826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      7 behaviours that'll reject you

  • @letterfake8319
    @letterfake8319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Forget getting women. I feel like these advices can be really helpful for personal development.

    • @showmethemoney3140
      @showmethemoney3140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Totally agree

    • @sammylane21
      @sammylane21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well... One has to finish developing as an adult mentally before getting a girl or a man,. When you have fully developed as an adult, you can handle rejection much better.

    • @keltecdan
      @keltecdan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just smash hookers. It’s way simpler and more efficient. I don’t have time for all of these psychological games to play just to smash. I’m not looking for a relationship so I’m not going to invest time for something that’s just a hit it and quit experience. Besides all that I’m not what most women would find physically attractive anyways at 5’6 half Asian and Hispanic most women don’t even look at me.

  • @CalvinJamesJr
    @CalvinJamesJr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Basically, care less!

  • @danjenkins21
    @danjenkins21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    All these things makes me enjoy the single life that much more. If I have to worry about not doing all these things then I'd rather just stay single. No worries. No drama. Single life is best for me.

    • @joefineman648
      @joefineman648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You’d be a more fulfilled person following this advice single or not.

    • @danjenkins21
      @danjenkins21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@joefineman648 I’m fine just the way I am. Thank you.

    • @final58fant58
      @final58fant58 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@danjenkins21 Nothing but bs games man all these things just mean she’s not into you. When a girl likes you she makes it easy for you. These dating advice coaches sell you tips to try on girls who are not interested or don’t like you

    • @ericlikestowander7510
      @ericlikestowander7510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s just too much work. It’s better just to be single and just pay prostitutes for sex.

    • @age234
      @age234 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ericlikestowander7510 Prostitutes aren't going to be at your bedside when you're in the hospital though.

  • @acdragonrider
    @acdragonrider 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I am a giving person in general though. My mom has always been that way. She gives all her heart and energy into the family and that’s what I’ve adopted in how I always am. I give to family, to friends, etc. I’ve viewed it as both public service and just decency and human kindness.

    • @bernardosales9350
      @bernardosales9350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There is no problem in being who you are, the problem is doing certain things JUST to make the girl happy. If you are a giving person the girl will notice that, but they will also notice if you are doing just to sleep with her

  • @TomFox1
    @TomFox1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    7 behaviors that make you reject her!

  • @waynedecunha
    @waynedecunha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Good advice.... It reminded of the mistakes i used to make before. .. and some of which are still part of my personality today

  • @mohitvijayan2758
    @mohitvijayan2758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You hit all the right points there... the shy/reserved/internalized guy part feels like a personal attack on me lmao

  • @SoulGasmProd
    @SoulGasmProd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very true I struggle with some of these too and I understand that feeling anxious makes women feel uncomfortable But when you're feeling free and and at peace and you can just vibe in the moment you have so much more success with women because they like a guy who is secure. Anxiety is almost a big road block in my life and I really need to get rid of it and I will. Thanks!

  • @jamesmiddleton8335
    @jamesmiddleton8335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Just had a girl that previously friendzoned me confess her feelings for me, thanks for teaching me how to attract her

    • @sugestive371
      @sugestive371 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      how u did it

    • @isakmustafa9704
      @isakmustafa9704 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sugestive371 he got Lucky and IT's all about Timing.

    • @Iyadkay
      @Iyadkay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucky girl. Once they think of friend-zoning me, I cut them off.

  • @acdragonrider
    @acdragonrider 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    While I agree that anxiety is a weakness it’s easier said than done getting rid of it. I’ve tried all my life to overcome things like that but it’s always one step forward, two steps back.

  • @Mikey_is_on_yt
    @Mikey_is_on_yt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for this video Tripp! I am in a great relationship but watching your videos is like a reminder.. conditions me.. you dont just workout, get fit and then give up. No, you continue to do so to maintain 💯 🙏🏼

  • @thecosmicsigma5776
    @thecosmicsigma5776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree with except the reserved one. There’s a balance to it but reserved comes across as mysterious to a woman.

  • @Illusive_Gaming
    @Illusive_Gaming 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice! It's important to love yourself weather a girl likes it or not, but they will..

  • @aompt
    @aompt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Neediness & Predictability are most unattractive traits which women reject most. Overattentiveness, Giving, Over caring, Shy, Anxious, Reserved, Over thinker, are the seven qualities mentioned here.

  • @beerustv8782
    @beerustv8782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to watch this video every single day 🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷

  • @wesleysmithiv7487
    @wesleysmithiv7487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yes I’m the first like and comment, Hope everyone has a blessed day!!!

  • @abhishekkalwan2003
    @abhishekkalwan2003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes true...good advice..don't be too nice..

  • @brugaldr809
    @brugaldr809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In life, Lesss is moore💪🏼

  • @ahmosyous1
    @ahmosyous1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've done them all ... No wonder I broke up with my fiancee after four years of being my girlfriend and one year of engagement
    Going to see you attractive trades video ... You seem to know what you are talking about !!

  • @chamcham123
    @chamcham123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thought that being reserved would attract women because it would add mystery and show confidence in yourself.

  • @reaganmuka7513
    @reaganmuka7513 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice bro,thank you very much

  • @isaacixtupe8983
    @isaacixtupe8983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Would letting a women know that I have trouble reading her make me look needy or desperate? This question comes due to past experience were I have misinterpreted women's body language and failing getting on dates.

  • @neo_jffoxx208
    @neo_jffoxx208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THAT IS I.
    HOWEVER, TO WOMEN A SONG:
    "I GOT ALONG BEFORE I MET YOU AND I WILL GET ALONG WITHOUT YOU NOW" _ LATE '50s or the '60s.

  • @ibrahimkamara4835
    @ibrahimkamara4835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tripp am attentive but I don’t buy flowers. Thanks u for the advice.

  • @Choudharykachaand
    @Choudharykachaand 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dang!! All points mine ❤️ lot to improve.❤️

  • @blackmilknix
    @blackmilknix 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tripp I've been out of the loop for more than 3 months now. I have greatly cut back in multiple areas including the content that I consoom. Freed so much mental space and time that I had to brain storm, journal and plan in order to come up with things to do in the beginning.
    I came up with my own jounaling system. The things that you are mentioning come intuitively once you start doing things. You don't walk around worrying about acting a certain way like some comments suggest. You behave in that way because that's what you do. You're actively participating in what you're doing. Win some lose some. Progress takes time. So would regressing completely.
    Can't really integrate a list of behaviors. But you know that which is why you be tryna coach.
    I greatly cut back on my consoomption. Kept some of it but am starting to find a lot of what's left uninteresting anyway. I am also finding that I don't resonate with people on TH-cam like I do in real life.

  • @MrMathoks
    @MrMathoks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lol that reserved part, I do not agree with. Some girls like reserved better. If you appear confident and just don't give a f*ck, they get curious and might even approach you especially if you don't look clueless or shy. I suppose it ties into the mystery theory. A nice appearance also helps 😉

    • @joefineman648
      @joefineman648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well there’s reserved and there’s RESERVED isn’t there. Reserved lower case can still be attractive as long as you show strength of character in other ways. I think what it comes down to is whether the reserved nature is coming from a place of self-love and comfortability or fear.

  • @thecowboy9698
    @thecowboy9698 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How then do keep your word, and be consistent in such, without becoming predictable? I've always believed that one of the true measure of a man is whether or not he keeps his word.

  • @agborvalentine2034
    @agborvalentine2034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NOBODY'S PERFECT. U DONT HAVE TO BE WHO U ARE NOT. BE YOURSELF AND DONT LIVE YOUR LIFE TO PLEASE OTHERS. JUST BE A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF AND THE RIGHT PEOPLE WILL LOVE YOU FOR YOU ARE.

  • @therabidpancake1
    @therabidpancake1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was a people pleaser but I think that I grew out of it. I find a lot of dating advice on youtube idk how accurate it is or if people are just trying to make a quick buck .

  • @infuglenn
    @infuglenn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you be giving to your surroudings?
    I've had a experience when i gave some stuff to people with a disability, i was working there as a volunteer and felt sorry for them cause they hardly had any games, music equipment etc.
    A week or so later the people i worked with actually tried to take advantage of me + some women tried playing me.
    Saw me as a weak provider type of man.
    I played their game like i didn't knew what was happening.
    I bounced, turned my back and went my own way.
    Why do they still see you as weak even when it has nothing to do about them or getting a girl?
    Its genuinely who i am as a person!
    I still work at the organisation but at a different location, sometimes i still meet a couple of those women and 1 in particular kept chasing me like in a desperate way.
    I really hate this but love it when they realise i'm not a nice guy but the good guy they all want.
    Maybe its wrong and i know i can be a huge stubborn asshole but i enjoy when i see the regret on their faces when they speak to me and i leave it with a simple hey.
    Its like they realise she missed her shot at something great.

  • @zeinalbasam4733
    @zeinalbasam4733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have all these tripp

  • @larrydale7412
    @larrydale7412 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So explain..a very close friend who is a girl is engaged to a boy that checks 6 of these 7 boxes

  • @semperbushido
    @semperbushido 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Basically applied principles for majority for western women

  • @jayb3033
    @jayb3033 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wouldn't agree with this in every situation. Maybe if the girl doesn't like the guy that much and she can take him or leave him, then it might be true, but if the girl really likes a guy she won't care if he's a little bit shy. Maybe she prefers that he's more outgoing but at the same time isn't completely turned off by the guy being shy. That's like hooking up with a girl that doesn't speak very good English and her 1st language is either French or Spanish. If there's a language barrier but the girl is exceptionally attracted to the guy, then as long as they can talk a little bit then she won't care. I say this from personal experiences because I have hooked up with beautiful girls that spoke Spanish and French and I didn't speak either of those languages and they still hooked up with me plus I have attracted alot of women that spoke the same language as me but were just much more socially outgoing then me ( which is almost as bad) and they didn't frown on me for being more reserved then they were, but I'm sure that they preferred I was on the same social level as them too, just like if I could speak French or Spanish then I could have more meaningful conversations with those women too. These girls all had the same thing in common and that they were all women that were attracted to me for my looks or just naturally felt a deep connection for me right from the start, like love at first sight.

  • @larryrubin5150
    @larryrubin5150 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Moderation

  • @alainorozco8032
    @alainorozco8032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you've shown some of these behaviors to someone you're interested in, can you reverse it? Like start to show different behaviors so you're less predictable. Or is it too late and should just move on?

    • @alexl.4362
      @alexl.4362 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's possible. But if she's smart enough she'll see through what you've doing and probably just be glad you left her alone.

  • @dylbowers
    @dylbowers 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you!

  • @AnandKumar-oi9xk
    @AnandKumar-oi9xk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need to talk to you over one incident happened with me unintentionally....could you help me out

  • @StreetBikeTakeoverYT
    @StreetBikeTakeoverYT 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just learn to not give a shit and date multiple women, Get on your grind and get your body right

  • @captainmasterpieceX20
    @captainmasterpieceX20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    7:20 how do you think being reserved comes off to people because to me as an adult it looks very normal and mature. It be great to get some feedback I’d like to see what other people think about shy or reserved people.

    • @KingofNewYorkkk
      @KingofNewYorkkk 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Reserved = Strong and Silent aka the Introverted Alpha!

    • @acdragonrider
      @acdragonrider 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am reserved too. Very serious and take my steps slowly and carefully.

    • @captainmasterpieceX20
      @captainmasterpieceX20 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@acdragonrider yeah I think some people take offense to it or they think you’re scared. I saw the look in trips eyes when he talked about it. Seems he’s totally crossed over to the dark side apparently.

  • @danielmarquis5258
    @danielmarquis5258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if your shyness is extremely hard to get rid of? You WOULDN'T understand unless you are shy yourself. Even worse, Society shames you for it.

    • @thabanglucas2728
      @thabanglucas2728 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Start talking friendly to people, make friends and always speak to people.

    • @emfprotect6949
      @emfprotect6949 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tripp gives good advice for this actually. It's about having positive experiences. And to have those positive experiences you will have to go through some rejection and negative experiences too. You have to just put yourself out there and over time things will get better as you start to stack up more and more positive experiences.

    • @emfprotect6949
      @emfprotect6949 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And society shames shyness for a good reason. Because it is not an attractive quality. Sorry not sorry that's just how it is.

  • @hectorgutierrez5240
    @hectorgutierrez5240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good morning trip, question for you or anyone that would like to share their opinion. I asked my coworker out last Monday, we made plans for Sunday to go eat. Friday midday she says that we have to reschedule because her family from out of town is coming for the weekend. Should I ask her out again, if she wouldn’t have told me that she wanted to reschedule this would be a simple answer. It’s just that she offered to reschedule and even offered for us to take her car ,since where we live we are still very restricted with covid we have to make an hour drive to a not so restricted town. What would you or anyone advice trip? Thanks im advance to anyone thats gives their opinion and have a great day everyone. :)

    • @ascalon8001
      @ascalon8001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Knowing the person from work you're the best judge as to what to do. If you think she likes you or isn't someone who would flake just reschedule. If there's an issue again just give it up.

    • @GuillaumeRx
      @GuillaumeRx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ascalon8001 agreed

  • @HolyRainbowism
    @HolyRainbowism 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m a bit of and introvert, is that a problem? I’ve been told that being a bit mysterious is attractive to women, not my experience at all by the way, but that’s what they say. Do introverts have a hope or hardly ever, more of a miracle?

    • @barchetta575m
      @barchetta575m 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I recommend you try to be more of an ambivert (look it up!). I was an introvert and challenged myself to become more of an ambivert when I joined the military. It made a huge difference in my leadership skills. Women want men that are strong leaders.

    • @HolyRainbowism
      @HolyRainbowism 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@barchetta575m
      Just because i’m an introvert it doesn’t mean that i’m a wimp or soft. On the other hand, it doesn’t mean i’m stubborn or even a tyrant. I think i’m a balanced guy, maby a little quiet but i have my own opinions about everything, i have my own principles and ideas, i have my own personality, but i’m deffinetly not a walk-all-over. I like to observe people and learn from them. After all life is a lesson.

  • @talkingpictures9107
    @talkingpictures9107 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be yourself. She does not like you. Your loss. Alsom they choose us. Every 9ni ever had. Chased me. Remember Mike Damon's 5 point plan. U the man Tripp. But u know they choose us. Or we would have them

  • @madhav9474
    @madhav9474 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I happened to have 6 of them....lol

  • @pallabjyoti4581
    @pallabjyoti4581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lost her....today.....i love her truly bt she nvr loved me

    • @TheNationalist_Talk
      @TheNationalist_Talk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love is business.... Never fall for it. Be stronger.

    • @acdragonrider
      @acdragonrider 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheNationalist_Talk I am okay with the single life for now. I’m tired of people. Only ones who I can count on are my family.

    • @jofdisonjoson1584
      @jofdisonjoson1584 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro Ur on successful stage.. from here u can improve your personal development and passion

  • @name998
    @name998 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your channel but I just disagree with some of your points.

  • @traviswoodfin3044
    @traviswoodfin3044 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    How bout noooo!!!😂

  • @joncabana7290
    @joncabana7290 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ha ha you can’t pleased women these days. Nothing is enough. Fuck this. I’d rather be single and travel around the world someday.

  • @chamcham123
    @chamcham123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    She needs a functioning member...😍....of society.....😒😞

  • @jaspperisugga932
    @jaspperisugga932 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mngo

  • @RaZoR7i7
    @RaZoR7i7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Why i always feels like you're always hiding girls mistakes I mean how it's always that men are doing something wrong

    • @TrippAdvice
      @TrippAdvice  4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I’m a coach for men. Not women. I’m here to help guys and make them better.

    • @RaZoR7i7
      @RaZoR7i7 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrippAdvice fair enough

  • @mmafyasco
    @mmafyasco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3rd ?

  • @Boeingx-sr8pb
    @Boeingx-sr8pb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Swap the gender of Naruto and Hinata and no one will like that couple.

  • @danielaung691
    @danielaung691 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is running my girlfriend a bath and going to the shop to get her stuff for her period of shes in pain a sign of over attentive? For me personally I'd just say its just being a good partner! Im interested in everyones opinion on this

    • @KimiHamilton123
      @KimiHamilton123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think we’ve all been there, just be confident if those things come up once in a while & you’ve been together for a good amount of time.
      It’s when guys would reject doing that stuff is to me actually weaker behaviour. Just be confident

  • @barfyman-dm6zx
    @barfyman-dm6zx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1. Telling her you're voting for Hidin Biden #TRUMP2020