5 Things A Man Should Never Do With A Woman
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A lot of guys have ruined their lives by doing these 5 foolhardy things with girls. But if you can keep yourself from doing these 5 things, you will save yourself so much time, so much heartache and so many problems that you'll be glad you listened. So here is a word to the wise.
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Maybe one of the most important and "must know" videos on this channel.
Pink Milk agreed!
Excellent, as always!!
True, True!😊
On your sentence alone I liked 👍🏻 this video without watching it and I saisubbed too. I work on feelings and emotions which is not to say that I’m weak but a lot of women tend to think this and they get played in return
Indeed!
1>6 months dating before becoming her boyfriend 2>don't buy her affection i.e. gifts 3>no living together 4>no friend zoning 5>always answer positively when asked about how she looks. 6> ??? there I saved you 14 minutes!
thank you
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saved?? he explains every point you idiot
Thanks for saving 14 minutes of my life man. U good.
1. Never be a boyfriend before 6 months of dating
2. Don't buy things for her
3. never live together out of connivence
4. never let a women friend zone you
5. If they ask anything about their look/feeling/ or anything about them, answer them positively
Dumb advice. If a woman "friend zones" you (idiotic term) it just means she doesn't want anything from you but friendship. When you grow up, you'll realize that friends are a good thing to have, and that attractive female friends are something no heterosexual male ever wants to be without.
Funny how he says never let a woman friendzone you, but has other videos saying how the friendzone is good.
@@MrMalicious5 Never let someone you're trying to be with friendzone you. It's fine to let girls you don't really care to be with friendzone you in order to use them for your own benefit whether it's at work, going out places etc. It increases your value tremendously.
Guys who have too big of an ego to have female friends would see more success using tinder or going to bars and being more direct and to the point.
Having female friends just opens more doors for guys who struggle and want more opportunities to get the women they want.
@@calint123 I only ask out women I want to be with.
i don't know how he expects to maintain a successful relationships with a woman by following a first point. to be honest, nothing makes sense with those "rules". this sounds more like a guide 'How to fail at dating'.
I think the most important rule, before you ever start thinking about dating, is knowing who you are as a person first. Knowing your strengths, your limitations, what you like and what you don't, what you stand for and what is unacceptable to you.
Yes you are right.
It’s very hard to find this stuff out
Being honest with your self is important and don't compromise your own values to be with her. I tell women this is what I need to make the relationship work with me and I don't force her to do anything but if she wants to be with me this is what I need.
"Do I look fat in this dress?
Don't be ridiculous, you look fat in everything".
No honey the dress looks fat on you
Levijatan1389 So. I guess now you are in CPU😂
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I heard another one: It's not the dress that makes you look fat.
This is the best basic advice for a man. This could have helped me 20 years ago.
Movited by lust u need jesus christ where was he lawless one?
For the most part this is one of the healthiest relationship videos I've seen on TH-cam.
My god the amount of gold this man is putting out.
I swear, it's like playing mind games to get a woman. You're constantly thinking if I do this what happens, what if I do that, what happens. You made some good points though. Especially #3 & #4
Dee Jay yes it is.
It's like playing chess.
@S at 62, it's still not second nature to me
@S that's very difficult. I fail their stupid little games
They are insane man...i' m tired of them! :)) crazy chicks!
Damn, I wish that I knew this a few years ago... Although I am 24, I guess it's never too late to learn new stuff. Thank you, Tripp!
24 is young tho
@@ericonelavancena9492 Well, I screwed up with a few great girls just beacuse I wasn't that wise...
dzonyyya we all do brother keep it moving god has much better plans in store for you focus on yourself for now bro. Peace patience and positivity much love 💪🏽💯
@@htokid7299 Thanks, brother. I am not grieving, just explaining. Peace. Stay safe during these times, wherever you are.
People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard.
Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something.
The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa.
Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman.
Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us.
Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.
If I am with someone for 4/5/6 months and we decide to stop seeing each other. Its going to hurt whether we have the boyfriend/girlfriend title or not.
Spoken like a true beta simp.
@@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 I've never laughed so hard.
True
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@@Geewunner4life sdfu, I swear y'all niggas be throwing that word around like its nothing
You hit the nail on the head. It's better to get to know each other than to get in mess and misery.
I feel that by 3 months it could be potentially a relationship or even calling that person your girlfriend however the 6 month point it would be more serious. It just seems weird to me if you've been seeing someone for 3+ months and you haven't become pretty much exclusive. I think with any relationship how much you commit depends on how long your relationship has been so far. Definitely 6 months is a more serious relationship than 3 if the relationship even gets that far.
Being "exclusive" and being "committed" are two very different things. When I was 13 I was exclusive with my hand, but I was not committed to it.
People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard.
Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something.
The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa.
Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman.
Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us.
Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.
@@wulf67 This guy, lol.
Agreed. Any woman who knows her worth won’t settle for being breadcrumbed by a man who can’t make up his mind in six months about wanting to explore a serious relationship. Shit or get off the pot.
I agree. 6 month's is absolutely ridiculous.
Good video Tripp.
Friend zone is complete waste of time.
So True
Older female here. Agree with everything here except #2. Yes, each person should be acknowledging birthdays, Christmas, etc.....but you guys need to know one of the biggest turn ons for a woman is getting flowers. All women love flowers.....So, if you are looking to score some points or if you screwed up big time, send her some flowers. Works every time, guys!
Tripp's advice is just the best 💯.
FROM NYC: Good one. They say 1 yr for a couple dating over 50 equals five years together due to life experience.
This was really interesting. While solid points, one thing that struck me was the potential influence cultural differences will have. It's the one thing I'd say about this, be sensitive to social and cultural norms where you are.
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Also for the second one if you spend a lot of Money on a woman, they may not leave you but see it as an opportunity to take advantage of you. I can say this from seeing my uncle go through it with his two marriages. He was a plastic surgeon and both of his wives to a degree took advantage of his wealth. They liked his lifestyle more than they liked him even if he had kids with one of them.
For that last one: *You look fine/it looks fine.* That's it!
I’ve been married 3 times. 16 years..... 11 months.......last one 11 years. I grew up with three sisters too.... this dude is so accurate... on things I’ve seen.... I got divorced in 2013 and haven’t dated since.... I said F it all. Well ... I’m gonna have to go again but this app dating....The old school way was easy.....see someone out, at a club... wherever..talk and get their number. Oh well..... new school...... maybe
Been single 16 years
Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something.
The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa.
Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman.
Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help.
Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.
It's nice to meet you Ross Geller
Why do boomers use "..." so much?
I’ve made the mistake of moving in with her before we even dated. Disastrous story. Don’t do it, it’s a trap
Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something.
The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa.
Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman.
Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help.
Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.
Yep
Why?
I did that twice! First time I thought I just lived with the wrong woman. Second time... I realized it was my mistake both times.
@@malachimatcho7583 back in the day, people didn’t move in until after they were married. I think it’s a good idea partly for this exact reason.
I gonna invest in your course because I have been following for a long time and your advice on youtube is on point, so considering that your hook program will be fire!
Hey Ali, how was the course man?
Would you recommend it to others?
I agreed with your points until #5. You want the girl a little insecure and guessing how much you find her attractive. If you praise her appearance all the time she will think you're trying too hard to get her approval and will lose respect for you.
Agreed
So true, never give woman validation
I agree, i will always prefer a man who tells me the truth over a man who lie out self preservation. There is a way to tell a girl her jeans makes her look rounder without calling her a fat cow lol
@@genevieverenaud2537 lol true
Depends on the woman. Some may not believe you but say thank you anyway. Others may think you're just being charming in order to get inside the clothes.
Friend zone broke my heart , made me feel like a pussy, stopped me from meeting someone else, ruined my life
Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something.
The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa.
Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman.
Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help.
Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.
@@andreamoscoso4065 thanks ,don’t say something that can’t be unheard ! I will learn
Nice tips. I have never been pursuing girls. I don't waste my time looking for girls. Instead I intend to apply theses rules to be in a healthy relation ship
Thank you for sparing me more emotional abuse from women
The only time you should ever live with someone is if they are your spouse.
Then my parents and brother are my spouses.
Tripp what if she wants to hear the words " I love you too" from a guy in less than 6 months..
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People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard.
Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something.
The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa.
Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman.
Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us.
Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.
6 months is but a fleeting moment, you can’t know anyone in that period of time. If we can both be realistic it’s more like 6 years before you get to know anyone.
That's absurd.
Yeah, it's either she likes you or she rejects you. Don't ever let her friend zone you coz you just have to take a step into the zone and know that the zone is full of dark energy that will mess with your self-esteem and possibly your sanity. (At least that's what it feels like for me even though I've never been friend zoned before. I can just imagine what guys out there are dealing with as they try to get out of the zone.)
People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard.
Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something.
The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa.
Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman.
Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us.
Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.
It's important to dig deep on the relationship she had with her biological father, and what the experience with her parents has/had been growing up. Follow it up with asking about her relationship with her uncle and grandfather if any.
People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard.
Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something.
The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa.
Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman.
Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us.
Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.
Tripp: Say positive things about how she looks... Because anything else you say-
Me: Can and *WILL* be used against you in the court [ship] of dating 🤣
People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard.
Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something.
The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa.
Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman.
Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us.
Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.
I don't know honey,hard to tell with all that back fat, works too.
All good points ! I was one not to rush into anything.
About no3 I couldn't agree more As you said I learn that on the hard way, but about the friend zone thing, I'll take that any time. Only two rules. Don't speak for more than minute on the phone, always have a phisical encounter. And second don't agree with her too easily always banther with her. And as a bonus, try to act like a lover but always keep telling her you are just friends. I hope that I can help someone with this cause it took me a long time to learn this.😄
Hit the nail on the head. Great video!
When a man looks within, truly finds himself and his worth, values and moral compass (same goes for women) and doesn't need to turn to you tube on how to create a relationship with a woman, then he is winning. Boys and girls that are trying out stuff like this are so transparent because they haven't developed their own unique character and unconditional love for themselves and I feel for them as many of them do get taken advantage of by unevolved as you say, girls, not women. I have had a few male friends that may have wanted to be in a relationship with me be it serious or casual but knew from the get go that was not going to happen and who I've also given advice to (being yourself and not debasing yourself for approval and possibility of sex) and somehow we are still friends? I guess that can be chalked up to the fact we're mature adults and each think the other is a good person and adds value to one another's lives 🤷 men and women can be friends, just sayin' I think what is key to creating and maintaining a beautiful sustainable relationship is knowing and loving oneself first and foremost, that's most of the work done right there because then you know what you want, you establish clear and healthy boundaries, very quickly you will see possible compatibility and whether it is worth pursuing. 100 percent agree on taking things slowly. I personally don't know how people can be hooking up with so many different people, like the sacredness of relationships and true intimacy is just not respected or valued any more. There are a lot of men and women hurting out there who have a lot of wounds and negative feelings about each other and rightly so but please allow yourself the time to heal and realise that you attract what you are putting out. If you still haven't addressed your inner wounds you'll find yourself in similar situations and relationships. Much love, light and healing to you all and may you find a soul mate when the time is right to share your journey, God bless 🤝💓🌱🦋🙏🏽🕉️
If a woman cannot handle the truth then she does not need to be with me.
You are so correct on all points.
amazing information ! we appreciate that !!
Thank you so much for your advises!
and contrary to what all women tell you, NEVER show weakness, insecurity, or your soft underbelly to your woman... it's why I lost the love of my life.
You lost “the love of your life” because you had that oneitis.
I hope you are doing well.
The love of your life should be yourself my man
If that happened she'd never have turned out to be that.
@@gamalsankara1388 🤔
No its not dude. You lost her for other reasons.
6 months is too long. Agree with principle though.
Tripp, I have a question about #2 at 3:47, which I also heard you speak to on a recent podcast episode:
How would you reconcile that advice with the guy's authentic personality? What if you are buying her stuff out of financial abundance and your own goofy playfulness, because you genuinely want to--not because you are "trying" to give-to-get, nor "because it seems to be working"?
Example: I have had some ideas (if I ever have the opportunity) to do things like this idea: Buy her flowers TOGETHER when she least expects it, such as when we're already at the grocery store together. At some point while we're buying legit groceries, ensure we walk by the floral section and pick one out for her on the spot that matches her sun dress. Or I've even thought it would be fun to try to make her laugh and/or blush by telling her something like "you definitely need one" and buy her one of the cheap wooden flowers at 7/11 when we're are already there together, originally just buying gas and Cokes.
To clarify, I'm not talking about BRINGING cheap flowers to her (probably definitely a no-no), I'm talking about doing so to try to praise her (see: #5) in her presence.
Would an example such as that still be considered buying her affection?
I would just stick to love languages
Ofcourse buy here flowers! This advise is horrible
Thank you Tripp! You're the best.
phony homie who's #1 in your opinion?
phony homie haha!
My favorite response when a woman asks something like "Does my ass look fat in these jeans?" is...."Hmmm...I can't tell, I'll need to examine it closely"
Agree with most everything but the last one. No you don't always say something positive, this is really weak. Oh if I don't say that I like everything she asks me about she might not like me, boo hoo. If the woman asks you how something looks and it doesn't look good grow a backbone and tell her that you don't like it.
6 months seems like a stretch don't ya think?
Don’t even talk about living together on the first 2 dates.
Great and very important advices! Thank you!
I completely agree with the not be official boyfriend but not the buying stuffs cause all women love it & most women won’t think the guy is a loser but instead most women will think they are being valued & most women love to be valued . Buying affection is the best part ! They will appreciate it cause they will feel worth it !
Very practical advice on the earth!
Such a great content👍
As a chick, if they buy too much stuff/gifts it makes me think they see me as an object and not who I really am.
I don't even take the guys self esteem into the thought.
Like TRIPP says, only for her birthday or valentines. I would go further to say the year after you guys have been dating. As a bonus, get her something that she has been been talking about wanting and make it romantic. This shows her you listen to what she likes and care about treating her like your queen.
You should be real. It is not just what you say but how you say it. Kindness in your manner helps work through differences. Friendship is the most important part of marriage after intellectual and physical chemistry. Emotional support when a problem comes seals the deal.
Where is summery guy?
Appreciate his argument that you shouldn’t live with someone unless you’re sure it’s something real and long term. I’ve always been against it for a variety of reasons.
Great video!
Excellent advice for every young man
I wish I knew this years ago.
One other thing-don’t ever marry a narcissist
Great & succint video from Tripp
Great advice Tripp
I agree with with the first 4 out of 5 , last one should be case by case and/or intermittently , it keeps them in check and they’ll keep trying harder to please you by wearing something YOU like , rather than what she likes
I don't know if it'll keep someone so to speak as "in check" but things can be verbally and intellectually understood/ perceived based on communication and cues as to what both like and feel comfortable in.
Thank you Tripp for waking me up.
Very nice advice . Good stuff
Yes, compliment her. Also there is no shame in saying "sorry". You don't have to mean it, but it gives you more power than the fool that is too proud to say "I'm sorry" to a lady he is courtimg
Good info 👍🏽
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Hey, not everyone lives in downtown hollywood lol. People can click. It's not a movie. It's real life. Do what your heart tells you to. I dated my girl for 5-6 weeks now we are bf/gf. You seem like you are making things complicated for the average person. Love your content. Just saying what I believe in
I've literally done ALL of these in the past 😭😂
Awesome advice
Yikes I dodged a bullet.Thank you Tripp.
Yup great advice-only thing that I don’t like is how often times for men, if we reject the offer to be friends from a woman-then we’re seen as rude or being salty. Another double standard-women can reject a man saying he’s too fat or ugly and it’s tough luck buddy!-yet if a man rejects a woman for those same reasons we’re “shallow”.
Extremly good advices. 👍🏽 Thx for sharing.
Great advice 👏👏👏
The 6th month commitment thing, actually, i think to a woman, if she stays that long in the "dating" phase especially if u two are exclusively seeing each other already and she states that she does want a relationship, then that my friend is what they call a "situationship". Emotionally mature women dont stick in "situationships". If she a good high value woman, she will walk if u dont give it a title by 6 months, because why the would u two be seeing each other? What i found is 4-5mos, 6mos max would be a good time.
4:56 Yep, learned this too. At this point you realise the only thing shes stroking is your checkbook.
I was looking for this specific video for weeks before I moved in.
I thought for sure that he said to give it six months before moving in...
Thing is, I met my current partner which dating several women.
She was the only one I really clicked with.
She wasn't dating anyone else - so naturally we started seeing each other once per week.
After about three months, she invited me to a family occasion and I met her parents...
After six months, I moved in to her place (it was much better than mine...) - as I was living there about six nights per week anyway at that point.
I like these rules, but I do think you're best off going with your trusty gut on these things too.
Chiefly, don't decide to commit or to move in or marry out of scarcity/thinking it's going to fix things or give you greater control over your relationship.
If you don't feel 100% sure on things, then yes, ease on the brakes for a while and see if that helps.
If she pressures you to progress and you're not totally comfortable, then just say no.
If she's not willing to wait, then it wasn't meat to be - better off finding that out now than later.
It depends on the culture. In our culture we date about 5 times within a few weeks, get engaged, and it works extremely well. Is important to check the other prison out with their friends, the school she went to and her teachers. Her Facebook profile says a lot about her, what is important to her. Dating someone for a long time doesn't necessarily get you to know that person. I disagree on this whole notion. Imagine if a bank would take six months before giving you a loan. If you are good at evaluating people and know who to asking the right questions to ask you can know someone right away. That is why you shouldn't sleep with someone that you are serious about. I think you have a lot of great ideas, but it would behoove you to look at other cultures and ideas and learn from the wisdom. I like you and I really do not mean any disrespect. I learn a lot from you as I do from many people.
Number 3. Aye!
#5 “Praise her freely…Only the masculine side of your woman will grow through challenge; The feminine side thrives on support and praise.” -David Deida, The Way of The Superior Man
This is not a “yes” or “no" question. Either way, you flunk the test. Here’s a possible suggestion:
Her: “Do these jeans make my ass look fat?” You: “Lemme see? [Take her hand and spin her] Whoa, babe! Those jeans make your ass look sexy as fuck! Daaamn, baby!!”
You have no idea about female nature
Never validate dude
Kristopher Foster Let’s keep it civil. I actually don’t, I’ve never had a relationship and not ashamed of that. That’s why I’m here, seeking information. So tell me, what is the proper response?
Kristopher Foster Care to elaborate? What’s your basis for “never”? I know girls seek validation as well as men when in their feminine, which is unhealthy. But I think there is a difference between validation and praise. What do you think is wrong with giving credit (praise) if credit is due, especially in the name of passing a shit test?
@@rob41137 in summary, if you are going to compliment a woman, it has to be genuine. The "praise her freely" never works with women. It makes you be seen as seeking approval and needy
had a bad trip..
Till I got Tripp's advice..
👍😅😅
just kidding..
Thanks for the tips Tripp..👌👍❤️
You need to know HOW to get friend zoned . When your at work and some woman is pushing for a relation ship you need to be very carefull. A rebuff can end you in HR.
Sir, thank you.
This guy knows his stuff😊
Yeah but “how” do you tell a girl you don’t wanna be her boyfriend yet.
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“I’m looking to see where this goes” works like a charm
You say “ I’m not ready for anything even close to this serious, we should see other people if we like” , say that earlier the better , next thing you know ur getting married!!!
Okay that you literally care for the person and are interested but want to be friends or court exclusively with each other to get to know each other more.
Now if you are not actually interested then be honest about it its always best to be clear about things. It saves both of you your time and is kinder for both.
I would say 6 months is too long as girls may start questioing Your intentions...
*from experience*
And sometimes falling in love happens in few hours and You feel it already...
So it all depends... but true, its mature to give as much time as possible and not rush anything
Ive dated her for 5 months. Today we are still together, almost for a year
EmBro i wasnt that lucky, not yet :D
I agree with everything except the last one. I'm going to tell it like it is, respectfully. I've never had an issue because I'm consistent from the beginning. I always put it in a women's head that I know my worth and that if you can't handle it, feel free to leave. She is a representation of you to a degree, remember that. Also, It's not what you say, it's how you say it.
Incredibly wise.
Tripp this must be a perfect trip
You can jokingly tell her she looks horrible...but later put her insecure mind at ease by telling her that she looks sexy.
People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard.
Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something.
The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa.
Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman.
Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us.
Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.
If by 6 weeks we aren't exclusive, I am gone. If we aren't an official couple by 12 weeks, I am gone. Most women aren't going to wait around 6 months. If a guy needs that long to know then he is not emotionally ready for a relationship. Women are not emotionally immature for not waiting 6 months. I would highly reccommend disregarding this man's advice.
@DreadLoc Sensi truth is you know early on if there is potential or not. And if 3 months in you still dont feel that you want to lock that person down, then they aren't the right one for you. I apply this to myself and self regulate so I dont waste any man's time either. If 6 weeks in I don't want to be exclusive, then something is missing and i probably wont get there. If 12 weeks in I don't want to commit, then I am not likely to get there. When you meet someone who you could see forever with you know. You have the urge to pursue them and commit. Don't waste other people's time. If you aren't crazy about her then just let her go early on.
Been with same man 30 year some what agree with these points... this younger generation is way different... just like a girl should not put her self out there for him to early on...
My brother and sister-in-law married when they were dating for 5 or 6 months.
#2, what if her love language is "gifts"?!
That's not right. It should be the experiences with the person. Man or woman.
There is always a risk as with anything and that is real but if something really is good it is good. This is how you can discern.
People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard.
Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something.
The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa.
Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman.
Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us and put Him first above our own selves and our own understandings and wants which can be shortsighted.
Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.
I would say one caveat with the first one is that 6 months can be too long, or too short depending on the person. If you're socially adept and can get through to people quickly, then sure, you can be exclusive faster than that, but if you really need the time to get to know someone, sure, 6 months is reasonable
4th principle is actually the most important. 100% right
The 6 month rule is a debatable one. True, everyone wears a mask in the beginning. But the truly manipulative kind will be able to keep that mask up for a while. Now this is referring to extremely toxic people, but with them, the quicker you're in, the quicker the mask falls.
set in stone rules are stupid and gimmicky. I do what I want w women and will wife up a chick right off the bat. that said, if she acts incorrect I can always ditch her and get a million others..
I wouldn't even say 6 about 3
I agree of most. Yes I m in friendzone with a girl I fall in love, but with others I don't make compromise. Lesson learn. But why not in firendzone for sometime and then trying to exit friendzone ? Why ?
For #5 I want her to be elegant...I’m not taking her anywhere if she has that crazy colourful hair style...too much makeup...mismatch clothes...If it’s not good I let her know...
Wise words