Never Chase A Girl When She Pulls Away
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What most guys do when a girl they like starts to lose interest is they try harder. Remember, trying harder never works. It only drives her away faster. So we'll go over what to do when a girl starts to pull away so that you are the one who decides where things will or won't go.
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Thanks for this advice Tripp it really helps me out with all the girls that I've met and phone number that I've collect over the past month , I can't show that I'm too needed
When a girl starts pulling away, she has already set some other target. Never chase her!
I was in love with this girl since 2.5 years, and she left me telling me she wanted to stay single and focus on her career. I chased her a lot, tried to change myself, begged her to stay, nothing had any affect on her.
A month later, found out she already is in a new relationship with a senior from her college. My heart shattered.
Girls never cheat, they just change partners as soon as they loose the vibe, idk how people like these keep thier inner conscience clear.
Moral- If she pulls away, let her go, never chase her! Not worth it. No matter how much love you guys had, if the girl has decided to leave, let her, she probably has someone else in mind, so before things get ugly, accept the fact that you'll soon get replaced and just move on. Plenty of fish out there in the ocean my fellas!
true bro, thanks for making me realize
True
Man the shit happened to me
Always remember, she’s never really yours, it’s just your turn……
The Future you will thank you, it's always going to hurt but a little less everyday
Just dont become emotional for her no matter what otherwise it will be painful and your heart will keep longing her .. so plz guys dont fall in love and remain firm , give ur heart only when she gives your her to u
Yoo she will love you for you
@@broducer4476 thanks
Easier said than done.
I’m going thru this now. I don’t chase anyone. When someone pulls away I let them go. Don’t have time for the high school bullshit anymore
Yes and these women can be in their 40s and 50s and still playing that high-school crap. Ace them and ignore them and keep meeting new ones.
I did no contact it worked it was the 24th day and she reached out. She asked me to go out to breakfast but I denied her. I told her it’s not going to be that easy …so get ready to work hard for me … WE ARE THE PRIZE GUYS REMEMBER THAT AND KEEP WORKING ON YOUR GRIND!!!!!
tripp has changed my life in so many positive ways, i'm always there for new advice
This video would have saved me from so many sleepless nights and trauma in my younger years. Well done!
Never be an orbiter....... move on. Indifference and/or lack of intimacy are red flags.
No contact and walking away are the only solution.
it’s crazy as you grow up you experience more and more shit you never know about. not a lot of dudes have father figures or brothers to teach them this. doing a goodjob tripp
If she does comeback I know what to do,
If she doesn’t I’ll be fine...
Started dating a girl from november 2019 and 5 months later she started on & off break up dramas. Finally kicked her out on 2nd November 2020. Not even feeling like I want her back.
When you are not scared of losing anything and "what if" condition is no longer important to you than you really kick them out of your life instantly.
The first commandment of game is “Don’t chase. Replace”
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So true, a lot of females need you out there🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love this
I have to say, some women look the best when they're walking away from you😉
Not good advice
Great advices. I also add to stay and keep busy. I develop a much discipline work out training. it's all gain, you gain confidence, gain muscle and gain looks by hot girls at the gym. I she doesn't comeback you've already moved on.
There’s a big difference between being needy and wanting something.
Winter time is perfect for learning a new skill. For me, I’m learning to play piano. Don’t chase girls. Build yourself up so they chase after you! Thanks Tripp!
We tell ourselves that out of necessity. So that we can live a decent life.
But we have society slip too far. Vast majority of men will never be chased no matter their character or skills or work etc.
And now it's summer,fool🆘💥
@@Jackgritty28 in southern hemisphere
@@rokko_fable Nick is chasing piano,because he is gay🎹🏳️🌈
Maybe ur gay
Tripp: Been watching your videos and been subscribed for awhile now. I'm not your typical viewer demographic (I'm older, been married, had women in my life for a long time). But it's amazing to me how your advice applies across demographics/age/experience... As I've gotten older I've noticed that how men and women develop and respond to relationships and interactions *does not fundamentally change* over time.
Your advice and approaches are relevant, useful and effective for me and I've found they work on women seemingly regardless of age.
Older women *do* have different expectations of the men they're willing to go out with (e.g. more income/stability expected) but the baseline human behaviors and effectiveness to such things as "no contact" seem to be timeless.
One thing I would ask is if you could provide additional advice to older men in pursuit of relationships, it would be particularly appreciated.
Thanks man.
Ill see what I can do. Thanks!
Going back to my mma gym I’ve taken time away from!!
Dudes: it not rocket science.
She begins to move away ... you move on to the next one.
It's that simple !
If you’re constantly thinking of her hit the gym and let all that frustration out with an intense workout. Better yourself pretty sure another girl will appreciate you more than the one that pull away/ left you.
I am going to focus on my career and hanging out with my friends ❤️
Most women develop feelings for you but rarely falls in love so it is likely her feelings change. In most cases when she pulls away your relationship have not been as great as you think it was. No relationship is meant to be however most men hardly take in consideration that there is the possibility you are not the right person for her or the one she would like to spend life with in a more serious manner.
Correction. Just never chase a girl. At All. Women, relationships, love. All of it is not worth it.
love is worth it, but women who play hard to catch are not
The no contact rule works about 20% of the time for me. The rest of them never contact me again ever. I've just given up on women period.
Go to the gym and take care of yourself better
You go full no contact. Not half. You don't give a fuck about her anymore.
You have to get better.
This sounds all well and good in theory...but most women have told themselves to never initiate anything and just sit back and accept Men's advances or "lead". So if you don't message first 99% of the time she's never gonna respond. So while you're being ghosted more likely than not there's some other guy she's messaging. I feel it's better to just call out her ghosting whenever you feel it's happening. The silent treatment doesn't work. If you call it out head on she'll either apologize because she actually liked you or she'll continue ghosting. Either way you'll have better peace of mind knowing you laid the cards out on the table.
Some women are afraid or fear men because of past abuse. She may really want you but she's full of anxiety at the same time. I would imagine this is very common. With these women you must be incredibly sensitive and patient.
How does this guy not have 10 million subs, his content is great!
Being drawn into someone is common thing to happen. Its the energetic bond or attachment.
This week, I have my works Christmas due, Christmas, work in the garden, and figuring out my purpose atm.
I wish I wish I had this back in the day. but damn I haven’t seen a trip video in forever, I think the last video I seen was how to continue a conversation or something like that. but what I just tell people now is live your best life and do what’s good for you in They’ll see and want to be a part of it
I am speaking with this girl for 1 year now. She is from Brazil and im from Europe.
She already has 2 daughters and we were talking non stop for these 12 months. 2 or 3 days ago, i texted her a goodnight text and she did not reply to that and pulled out and i am not going after her. I dont really care. If a girl wants you, she will come to you. I was thinking on meeting her, but with these attitudes, i kinda am one step forward, 2 steps back. Be strong guys, you dont need a girl to be happy.
I’m just trying to do this without feeling bad or thinking too much into it. But yesterday I didn’t text her all day and she was kinda upset at me for a different reason, and I didn’t kiss no ass and she chase me 😂. Man did it feel good got damnit !
That's just the advice I needed!! Thank you Tripp!👊🏿
Smhhh. I did this during our breakup and after a week, showed up with a plant of flowers etc... and then kept after a month hitting her up.
But anyways, lessons learned.
Done being pathetic. Done being that NICE GUY.
Seriously bro this situation legit just happened to me. I was freaking out kind like what the hell just happened? I hit up youtube and Bam this video pops up. Crazy
Some people can't help being needy. Especially with mental health.
Great advice . I was in that situation. I was falling for a girl she seem to be falling me. I was even take a trip to Florida where she lives to be with her. Then all of a sudden her text were one or 2 words. And I was do more of the texting. So I'm gonna follow your advice and see what happens. Thank you
Best wishes from Kyrgyzstan 🇰🇬
Dude, you have to read "Moves: Dating is a Game." This book describes exactly what you are saying. It explains how Dating, Life, and Videogames are the same thing with the same strategies to it. There is a section in the book about what moves you need to do if someone pulls away.
You're so right buddy I have learned a lot about myself . Just keep it cool if it was meant to be it will be if not see you later baby!!!!🙊🙉🙈
Man there are some basic foundation which you are helping people to be attractive
Thanks
Tripp is the best male advice youtuber.
Really tripp I need this video just a week ago 😭cause I met this new girl and we messed up with communication and become need person in front of her 😂😂 don't now became best version of myself
Thank you for posting this video.
My girlfriend used to respond instantly, always wanted to call, we always were happy when we saw each other about a week ago, the past week she been pulling away and it takes an hour+ for her to respond, we don't call anymore, IF she responds its just "oh ok", "ok" or "oh" non enthusiastic so to speak. With all this, i'm here now and i will try this, but I honestly think its too late. If this doesn't work, i'm gonna be so upset but i'm gonna try moving on.
Cool very helpful
I just did that
I actually told her I am pulling away then her reaction was so different and she came so close to me again
I did the no contact thing for 3 months and i unfriend her from facebook and when she saw that she ranted me and bringing up my past sins against her and she told me not to talk to her again, and when i saw that, i just laugh it off and move on.
riding dirt bikes with the boys !!!!
My situation is I am not able to stop chasing and other thing is if I stop chasing her , seeing her I'm thinking others will hit on her and she will become attracted to them , that would make me even more crazy than before . I can't see her with anyone so if I stop she won't even abuse me or show me anger . Actually I m jealous
papa john has some great points here
This was actually pretty funny
Good advice👏🏻.When she pulls away, do the same
Such go tip man !! Thank u sir.
Don't chase her and forget her. You need to have some self-respect as you have so many other options. Find someone who wants to hear from you and makes you a priority in her life.
The annoying thing is most women can have any guy they want so each woman has millions of guys to choose from. But it's totally the opposite for men or at least the soft gentle ones. No woman is actually interested in an honest caring guy. It doesn't exist any more.
This is a helper thank you!
I need help, I’m 6 years into this relationship and I feel her pulling away. I was needy before but I cut that out. Now I’m just trying to figure out what proper steps I need to take to get her back hooked.
Don't even acknowledge her absence.
I hate that I have to do tricks to win someone who already in love with me
Like a chess game. I don't get it.
So how long it takes before she react or respond..? 😊
This is what’s happening to me. Been dating a woman for a couple of months and well I felt she was being rude by constantly interrupting me. We were at a diner and I brought up a last conversation and she immediately cut me off. I got up and walked away. After a week she texted me and said she missed me so much. Like an idiot I agreed to meet up. It was awkward but not bad.
Now it’s been three days and it seems like she doesn’t really text or even call. I messaged her this morning to see when she was free and it was this lame answer like well I can make time early Saturday. Basically I gave her back the power. I’m learning. I said hmmm ok.
We’ll see what happens if she responds later.
I had this situation happen. Girl was initiating texts and meeting up. We hooked up and then she stopped texting. I waited a week and texted her got a shirt responce. Waited two weeks and invited her over. She came right over. Have not heard from her since. I'm gonna send her a quick text after a week and try to set up plans for next weekend. She is from Columbia and has only been in the US for a few months. So she might have different dating customs. But I doubt it
I had this one woman pull away from me. Been seeing her since January. Every little disagreement we've ever had she would blame me. So I'm just continue not texting her
If she pulls away I just let her go, no question asked, no chasing, nothing. I just open the door for her and say goodbye. It's best to part ways immediately and eliminating from my mind any expectation of comeback. to preserve my own sanity and integrity.
Wow
Tripp you are a real teacher
ur the king tripp🤝
also you have to learn about what sustains her love for you, girls get distracted very easily unless she is very virtuous
When he says i”t’s not gamey” all the guys watching are like “yes it is. And they started it”
Saw a video by doc love who said once she is gone its game over.
When she pulls away Just pulls away too.. Don't chase her it's a waste you're time and move on to another.
Legitttt!!! This is great!! 💪
Omg I'm going thru this
ya but isn’t not texting for a while an opportunity for them to text other dudes?
What about when a girl does not intiate conversation, when you start she responds very fast.what can you do
really appreciate that thank you
Bro your awesome ! Great advice I just subscribed
What can I do in my case Tripp? 1 day I was drunk and she saw a version of nobody has seen me well she got mad and block me from her social media wat can I do to get her back even tho I try to apologize to her but doesn't want to know hear me out?
Great dude!!!
I write and film songs on here about experiences with women.
I expect rejection or “Friend-Zoned” all the time, and occasionally I get accepted.
i will try your advice
My girl is kinda doing that a little it a long distance mainly. I remain available. I tell her good morning if she doesn't respond when she doesn't respond when she wakes up i don't respond to her right away when i get up. Therelike a 8 to 9 hr time difference between us. I don't bother her about it . She apologizes. I tell her no worries i was worried but i understand. Thats it
I wish I had a time machine to go back in time with all of what I know now about females.
you wish on your next rebirth you would retain the lessons of this lifetime, and so forth.
great video!
thx a lot
Make more videos tripp.. Love your videos ❤
Thank you 😊♥️
Chasing girl is waste of time. I wasted five valuable year. I wish I put that effort to my weight lifting. I am done with relationships . Now only career, lifting, learning new skills.
Don’t chase, instead race and show her who is stronger. Display of your raw masculinity attracts all woman. Give her motivation at the finish line my kings!
He’s right! I didn’t chase now we back and everything is fine!
and now ?
@@thesilverphist6483 everything is going good. The key is she has to like you first and if what y’all had was legit everything is good. Just don’t do too much and everything will work itself out. Patience
@@DevinObi best three months of my life man , one needy moment at my most vunerable and she savged me by text , stone cold . that was a week ago LOL have been hitting the pushups and chilling with others !
@@thesilverphist6483 💪🏿
thanks
Thank you
I have a genuine belief that people should lift each other up. I live by that belief realizing few others get it. My girlfriend has pulled away three times, and each time I wish her well, just for her to come back. She weakens her credibility in the relationship each time she does that, as I strengthen my credibility. Maybe someday she will not be so spastic.
I think if a woman pulls away when you are in a relationship stage the woman at this point owes the man a explanation. In the early stage when you are just hanging out together maybe gone on a few coffee dates it’s acceptable. If you had sex with her she does owe you an explanation. I wouldn’t accept her ghosting nonsense. If you have trusted her enough to go to bed with her she owes an explanation. Sometimes the explanation is just self explanatory. The man may have done or said something that as caused her to drift. But I believe most women who have gone past the sex stage will not ghost.
I had this happen recently slept with her 3 times everything seemed great got on really well then all of a sudden she starts flaking on meeting up etc... havnt spoken for over a month after her last text message to me so iv gone no contact. Still bugs me as to why she pulled back though. Any thoughts?
@@dang9269 something similar happened to me, i'd just straight up ask. At this point (as far as i can tell) you probably cant lose her any more, at least you'll have clarity and she sees that you can stand up for yourself. Takes some guts to ask such a question. Just my 2 cents, fell free tell us if sth changes :)
@@feelgoodinc611 I hear ya dude but i feel like in this amount of time she would of reached out by now if she wanted to make the time like she did before
@@dang9269 I get that, but i think that just strengthens my argument. You say it still bugs you that you dont know and that you "feel" like she would have reached out, but you dont know. Im not the guy to give life advice. Just trying to make you think about it since im struggling in a pretty similar situation
@@feelgoodinc611 did you get your answer yet from her?
I hope this works thanks.👍
Got this at right time
You're the best Tripp! this is so true lol
Ok so what about if she is emotionally damaged and blames you for hurting her feelings and pulls away? She is a bit off point blank and it feels like it's done on purpose as like payback
I wish I knew this stuff years ago!
Boys listen to this man.... He knows this shit.
This happening to me think I killed it, but ima work on my new job focus on upping my license to class A and work on my cars. I’ve drained my self by giving to much energy on her. Ima try this
What to do when she likes you but still says it's for short term that she can stay
The girl I was seeing for almost a year wouldn't let me go further than a kiss on the cheek... I would buy her food when we go on dates, we would cuddle up at times and she would bite my arm here and there... well she was going to her ex house late at night and my friend went up to him in a good way to see what was going on and she blocks me on everything 20 mins later. Now she's seeing somebody new 2 weeks later... lol shit is crazy how life works after all I did for her. I believe she got mad that she got caught up. Any advice on this? what could happen in the future?
What could happen in the future? You can learn the lesson that you wasted a year and never repeat your mistake again. You were used. Period. It happens to most of us, no shame in that...unless you let it happen again. Ghost her.
Man, havent you done a video on this? How come this is uploaded just a day ago?!?