“ black girls don’t blush “ lol 😆 that was hilarious, sincerely a black woman!! 💕💕 Love the energy you two bounce back/forth!! This world is in need of that purity!! Stay encouraged 🎖 and thank you for sharing your time/thoughts and life with ‘ us ‘ strangers 🙌🏽
Hi, I too just stumbled on this channel and it has been a blessing! I was feeling so down about my financial situation and then I saw your vlog 😄 thank you God! I feel better because I 👀 it's more to life than just paying bills.🌋🌋🌋😉😉
I enjoy watching the two of you were reminds me of my husband and I when we started dating 28 years ago. He was a paraplegic And I am now a retired SCI nurse of 31 years at the VA system. He passed December 12/ 17th of brain cancer. 😢 I must say we had 23 years of a beautiful marriage.
I work with kids with disabilities and the more you know someone with disabilities the less you see the disabilities and you see more just the person. Love your personalities.
Rachel Gordon That is so true. Having worked in this field for 2decades even my friends and family gradually understand disability more seeing me so passionate about it. It was a honor and privilege.
This is 100% true!Years ago I had a friend named Sandy,who was blind.She came to stay with us for the summer,and after the first month my mom forgot about her being blind,and would say things like"Sandy come look at this girl!.....I would cringe inside,and I apologized profusely.But Sandy told me"I am not offended at all,I love it when your mom forgets about me being blind".She told me being blind is just her disability,but it is not the only thing she wants people to think about when they think about her.I never forgot that.
You two are very cute together. I've viewed several videos and I'm still smiling on how the two of you interact with each other. God bless your relationship no matter how long you stay together.
Oh my goodness. They way these two looked at each other. I am late to your channel by 3 years but what a lovely couple you are and you haven’t changed a bit, still have those lovely eyes looking at each other and giggles… I so admire the love between you guys
Interestingly enough, I watched your video titled how you met each other. You had mentioned being with Charisma was easy because you didn't have to answer questions about your injury, Cole. I'm hooked, can't stop watching you too and enjoying your conversations, activities, realizing both of your wonderful personalities. It was never really because of Cole's disability. I don't think people get hooked because of your injury, out of curiosity. People become your fans, your admirers because of your personalities. I don't think or see Cole as disabled nor do I see Charisma as his caregiver. I see them as normal, wonderful young people. There's love between them.
I wholeheartedly agree with Cole’s response to the question at 5:44 . I was born with Cerebral Palsy, and I really don’t like when people assume what I can’t do. That’s why I talk openly and honestly about my special need and the challenges I face because so people just don’t know.
I'm fairly new to your channel and I, myself, am new to using a wheelchair. I love watching you both together and with your families. Also, I'm learning a lot about abilities as a new wheelchair user and I really appreciate your perspective, honesty and humor. Thank you for sharing your story with the world
Charisma I'm a COTA/L and I can see through your personality and essence that u will be a great asset to the Occupational therapy field!!! Good luck in your professional endeavors!!!
Roll with Cole Find a OTD program thats going to be the new entry level in 4 years or so luv. Im not sure if your school offers a transitional degree. Good luck babes you got this💪
Cole is SO awesome! He has a really great personality and he has a really great sense of humor. And Charisma is so cute, sweet and absolutely perfect for Cole. They’re perfect for each other. It’s really good to see how they were in the beginning as opposed to now; and of course, Mama Kelly is Awesome!
Eleise Arboine Wife??? They are only 9 months into this relationship. (They seem to BOTH have been in previous relationships. So BOTH had good intentions before in past relationships.) Shouldn't they take time to REALLY get to KNOW EACH OTHER. Marriage is a MOST IMPORTANT STEP; as is being a 24/7 Caregiver. Best to make sure that JEALOUSY and RESENTMENTS won't rear their ugly heads in THE near future. I know loved ones WHO are Caregivers and have heard from them of the MAJOR STRESS and "putting one's OWN life on a back burner that are necesssry as 24/7 Caregivers. (And these people were MOTHERS, significant OTHERS and spouses.) BETTER to be safe than sorry. Take time to KNOW each other better. "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread" as the saying goes. 🐦🐦🐦 JS Caregiving is a MOST stressful job which is taxing on the loved one and the 24/7 caregiver.
I have been going through a rough "break up" and I was starting to doubt love until I came across y'alls page. I am so grateful to have found this channel. It has given me hope that one day I will find someone who I can connect with the way y'all connect with each other. ❤🥰
A beautiful couple inside out!💙💙 The sweetest, purest love and care. I commented here because I feel pressed to share about a TH-cam channel I ran across over 3 years ago. It's called iEmmanueltv or SCOAN. I've watched faithfully since and people are healed. Though I believed in Christ and the Bible, I initially thought it was strange and suspect because of the rarity of healings in the U.S. No scam. I mean people who were death, blind, dying, hopeless, and those unable to walk. I wish I knew which segment that I witnessed the wheelchair bound person walking. This is small in comparison but, even I was healed of a reoccurring, uncomfortable, large lump underneath my tongue a few months back. I planned on going to a doctor. While praying along with P. TB Joshua, it burst! It was shocking! It still hasn't come back. Not a trace. No stretched piece of skin. The crazy thing is I was praying with a totally different concern in mind. You just never know what can happen!
Woohoo interracial relationships rock .. i hv been with my husband a very long time and we have 4 children and its awesome.. best choice of my life inspite of ehat anybody said or thought
@Brit Knee i guess he was a typical white boy from an all-white family who wouldn't marry out of his race.But after the accident his taste changed bcz his options(of dating) were less,he felt charisma can be his gf so he went ahead.He loves and respects her,no doubt about that but had he not become quadriplegic,he would hv nvr dated a non white girl for sure! I think the accident changed him and his family for the good and made them more inclusive,accepting and open minded?
lols black girl do blush, my friends and I have argued about this and naturally, we went straight to the science...👀according to Wikipedia we do blush but we don't show the noticeable physical signs (red cheeks, eyes etc)
My father had polio as a child. He was THE most awesome dad on the planet. Compared to my uncles, he was the champ. He was by definition a quadraplegic but in my eyes there wasn't anything important he couldn't do.
I was burst out laughing when Cole stop and his mother a question. Such a wonderful family. I would love to you( Cole ) walk again anything is POSSIBLE WITH GOD Cole, keep up the hope. You are such an amazing person. I admire your personality and POSITIVITY .
Just got here five years later and I am committed to starting from the beginning and watch ALL of your videos! Also it’s cool to know you two started your love story close to my area..Hampton Roads Area! You two are blessed!❤❤❤
Question: The answer to 1:52 is that you were only together for 6 months at the time of this video! What made you feel comfortable enough at this stage of your relationship to go public like this and commit to vlogging together?
So glad I have subscribed. You both are very nice individuals and make a wonderful couple. Enjoyed the q & a , it’s a pleasure to be acquainted with you both. God Bless!
I'm glad my friend saw this channel and said I have to see this cause you remind her of me and my boyfriend who also had the same injury 10 years back and we met after and have been dating for 4 years. I just subscribed I love you guys may god continue to bless your relationship😍
Just watched the proposal video few minutes ago. Cole knew already... That smile of Charisma... Love these videos, using them to educate myself about disabled people. Just left a company which manifested integrating disabled employees but was not really. Your videos are very eye opening. Love from Hungary
I am so excited I found you alls channel!! I’m an OT in Atlanta working in inpatient peds :) this episode brought me a lot of joy. Thank you for sharing your story!
Hi new subscriber here Love the chanell and can't wait for part 2 Sending love from Costa Rica 🇨🇷 Also just to bring a little heat, we black girls do blush ok, I have been told I'm blushed a couple of times. 😊
hey yall me and my wife love yall we got so much in common. I been in a wheelchair for 7 years now and me and my wife do youtube too. thx for sharing yall story keep up the good work
I AGREE with Cole's "Overdose" statement. You always need a Plan A and Plan B--just in case. Also, most likely, working with small children would be a lot less taxing on a small female body. Bottomline, I am sure Charisma will receive input from her parents and others, etc. and make the best decision for HER own future as necessary.
Charisma ! You answer everything in the sweetest way! Found you guys browsing on Facebook earlier this week and have officially subscribed and will follow for as long as y’all upload 😭 you guys are GREAT together 😭
I just found you guys, and I'm so in love with your positive attitude and so sincere relationship! 😍 And what a coincidence, I'm in my last year of Occupational Therapy! It's a wonderfull thing to study. (Sorry for my bad english! Love, from Spain.)
I don’t know you. But I hope you do find yourself getting better. I have epilepsy since I was 3. Now I’m better than what I use to be. God Bless you both.
Clarissa this is for one of your other videos I was looking at when I first started watching you you had the most beautiful skin ever now you have so much makeup on why is that your skin is so pretty
Heyyyyyy New subscriber!!! Love this channel. I am with someone who is in a wheelchair( We have been dating a year) and just by watching I am hopeful and I am grateful for the unknown and I have also had to adapt to this( Dating has had it's up and down's) no couple if perfect...... But God bless you both!!!! I'm looking forward to catching up on the other videos. You all are soooooo cute to watch!!!!!!!!!
I don't know how I got here. But i'm now here. And here to stay
That's just what happened to me 😍
Same buds. Same.
me too, i'm invested
Felistus Mumo same
Me too! It's been 2 weeks for me. I've subscribed and now im binge watching from Video # 1 to video 200
“ black girls don’t blush “ lol 😆 that was hilarious, sincerely a black woman!! 💕💕 Love the energy you two bounce back/forth!! This world is in need of that purity!! Stay encouraged 🎖 and thank you for sharing your time/thoughts and life with ‘ us ‘ strangers 🙌🏽
lol we do blush..we just don't usually turn red.
Beautiful couple. #VBVAhere#
Um hun we do with certain skin tone thank you. next.
Lovely Mezniquee really you’re offended! Grow up ! This is for grown folks ! There is plenty of Disney and Nickelodeon channels! “NEXT”
That was so cute and super true well for us dark skinned beauties. Black girls rock💜💜
You guys are so awesome together. Your chemistry is off the charts. So refreshing to see truly honest feelings.
To God be the glory!.
Hi,
I too just stumbled on this channel and it has been a blessing! I was feeling so down about my financial situation and then I saw your vlog 😄 thank you God! I feel better because I 👀 it's more to life than just paying bills.🌋🌋🌋😉😉
This guy is gonna get well with this bubbly cute girl...what a perfect couple
I enjoy watching the two of you were reminds me of my husband and I when we started dating 28 years ago. He was a paraplegic And I am now a retired SCI nurse of 31 years at the VA system. He passed December 12/ 17th of brain cancer. 😢 I must say we had 23 years of a beautiful marriage.
🙏❤️
I work with kids with disabilities and the more you know someone with disabilities the less you see the disabilities and you see more just the person. Love your personalities.
Rachel Gordon That is so true. Having worked in this field for 2decades even my friends and family gradually understand disability more seeing me so passionate about it. It was a honor and privilege.
Very true, I work with kids, teenagers and young adults with disabilities, too.
This is 100% true!Years ago I had a friend named Sandy,who was blind.She came to stay with us for the summer,and after the first month my mom forgot about her being blind,and would say things like"Sandy come look at this girl!.....I would cringe inside,and I apologized profusely.But Sandy told me"I am not offended at all,I love it when your mom forgets about me being blind".She told me being blind is just her disability,but it is not the only thing she wants people to think about when they think about her.I never forgot that.
You two are very cute together. I've viewed several videos and I'm still smiling on how the two of you interact with each other. God bless your relationship no matter how long you stay together.
Beverly Johnson I agree. They are both so young now.
Oh my goodness. They way these two looked at each other. I am late to your channel by 3 years but what a lovely couple you are and you haven’t changed a bit, still have those lovely eyes looking at each other and giggles… I so admire the love between you guys
Your story has given a lot of hope and courage to many people with disabilities in general!!!
This couple won my heart, definitely. Cheers from Brazil
Interestingly enough, I watched your video titled how you met each other. You had mentioned being with Charisma was easy because you didn't have to answer questions about your injury, Cole. I'm hooked, can't stop watching you too and enjoying your conversations, activities, realizing both of your wonderful personalities. It was never really because of Cole's disability. I don't think people get hooked because of your injury, out of curiosity. People become your fans, your admirers because of your personalities. I don't think or see Cole as disabled nor do I see Charisma as his caregiver. I see them as normal, wonderful young people. There's love between them.
Charisma always chooses the right words when she explains things. Gently and thoughtfully!
With God all things are possible
Amen
Amen !!
With God and science!!
Amen
Amen. I believe Cole will walk one day and regain all his functions. God is at work. It's a matter of time.
So cute going back and seeing how strong their relationship was this early on! Some couples are just meant to be.
“Black girls don’t blush” LoL so cute! You guys are so adorable
I wholeheartedly agree with Cole’s response to the question at 5:44 . I was born with Cerebral Palsy, and I really don’t like when people assume what I can’t do. That’s why I talk openly and honestly about my special need and the challenges I face because so people just don’t know.
I'm fairly new to your channel and I, myself, am new to using a wheelchair. I love watching you both together and with your families. Also, I'm learning a lot about abilities as a new wheelchair user and I really appreciate your perspective, honesty and humor.
Thank you for sharing your story with the world
Both of your personalities are so magnetizing. I couldn't stop smiling throughout the entire video!😊♥️😂
Charisma I'm a COTA/L and I can see through your personality and essence that u will be a great asset to the Occupational therapy field!!! Good luck in your professional endeavors!!!
Erika Snow im an OTR pursuing otd and i agree, shes a true gem.
Roll with Cole Find a OTD program thats going to be the new entry level in 4 years or so luv. Im not sure if your school offers a transitional degree. Good luck babes you got this💪
Cole is SO awesome! He has a really great personality and he has a really great sense of humor. And Charisma is so cute, sweet and absolutely perfect for Cole. They’re perfect for each other. It’s really good to see how they were in the beginning as opposed to now; and of course, Mama Kelly is Awesome!
I love Charisma, she is beautiful and intelligent that is the highest criteria for a wonderful wife Cole you are a bless man!
Eleise Arboine Wife??? They are only 9 months into this relationship.
(They seem to BOTH have been in previous relationships. So BOTH had good intentions before in past relationships.) Shouldn't they take time to REALLY get to KNOW EACH OTHER.
Marriage is a MOST IMPORTANT STEP; as is being a 24/7 Caregiver.
Best to make sure that JEALOUSY and RESENTMENTS won't rear their ugly heads in THE near future.
I know loved ones WHO are Caregivers and have heard from them of the MAJOR STRESS and "putting one's OWN life on a back burner that are necesssry as 24/7 Caregivers. (And these people were MOTHERS, significant OTHERS and spouses.)
BETTER to be safe than sorry. Take time to KNOW each other better. "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread" as the saying goes. 🐦🐦🐦 JS
Caregiving is a MOST stressful job which is taxing on the loved one and the 24/7 caregiver.
Cole is full of life and personality. I see why Charisma fell in love with him. I wish you two forever.💙💞
You guys are so awesome together. Your chemistry is off the charts. So refreshing to see truly honest feelings. 🥰
I have been going through a rough "break up" and I was starting to doubt love until I came across y'alls page. I am so grateful to have found this channel. It has given me hope that one day I will find someone who I can connect with the way y'all connect with each other. ❤🥰
With God anything can happen don’t ever give up. Pray. Best wishes to you.
A beautiful couple inside out!💙💙 The sweetest, purest love and care. I commented here because I feel pressed to share about a TH-cam channel I ran across over 3 years ago. It's called iEmmanueltv or SCOAN. I've watched faithfully since and people are healed. Though I believed in Christ and the Bible, I initially thought it was strange and suspect because of the rarity of healings in the U.S. No scam. I mean people who were death, blind, dying, hopeless, and those unable to walk. I wish I knew which segment that I witnessed the wheelchair bound person walking. This is small in comparison but, even I was healed of a reoccurring, uncomfortable, large lump underneath my tongue a few months back. I planned on going to a doctor. While praying along with P. TB Joshua, it burst! It was shocking! It still hasn't come back. Not a trace. No stretched piece of skin. The crazy thing is I was praying with a totally different concern in mind.
You just never know what can happen!
Woohoo interracial relationships rock .. i hv been with my husband a very long time and we have 4 children and its awesome.. best choice of my life inspite of ehat anybody said or thought
Shawnta Pascal my husband and I are interracial and happily married for 18 years.
💜💜
He said after the accident my taste changed...... Yah for some chocolate 🍫😂😂😂 jk
Lol!
Lmao
A3PLUSC HAIR word 😩👌🏾🤣😂😂🙋🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️💜
@Brit Knee i guess he was a typical white boy from an all-white family who wouldn't marry out of his race.But after the accident his taste changed bcz his options(of dating) were less,he felt charisma can be his gf so he went ahead.He loves and respects her,no doubt about that but had he not become quadriplegic,he would hv nvr dated a non white girl for sure! I think the accident changed him and his family for the good and made them more inclusive,accepting and open minded?
@@jajaja7394 💯
lols black girl do blush, my friends and I have argued about this and naturally, we went straight to the science...👀according to Wikipedia we do blush but we don't show the noticeable physical signs (red cheeks, eyes etc)
My father had polio as a child. He was THE most awesome dad on the planet. Compared to my uncles, he was the champ. He was by definition a quadraplegic but in my eyes there wasn't anything important he couldn't do.
Guard yourselves against negativity! I have my fingers crossed that you stay together ❤
I was burst out laughing when Cole stop and his mother a question. Such a wonderful family. I would love to you( Cole ) walk again anything is POSSIBLE WITH GOD Cole, keep up the hope. You are such an amazing person. I admire your personality and POSITIVITY
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8:09 had me dead “hear of fights”😂😂👏❤️❤️
Lovely couple.
Great Q and A to help inform others about people with disabilities
I agreed. I hope our legislators get this information. The curb cutouts and meter parking should be people with disabilities’ friendly.
I just found myself smiling the whole time I watched this video. You guys are such a cute couple.
Just got here five years later and I am committed to starting from the beginning and watch ALL of your videos! Also it’s cool to know you two started your love story close to my area..Hampton Roads Area! You two are blessed!❤❤❤
Only couple channel that I can fully watch the whole video without losing interest hope y’all stay together forever wishing y’all the best 💞💞
Just came across your channel and I just love you two
I don’t know how I got here…I’m here to stay though ❤️❤️ beautiful couple!
Question: The answer to 1:52 is that you were only together for 6 months at the time of this video! What made you feel comfortable enough at this stage of your relationship to go public like this and commit to vlogging together?
So glad I have subscribed. You both are very nice individuals and make a wonderful couple. Enjoyed the q & a , it’s a pleasure to be acquainted with you both. God Bless!
You to are amazing. I love watching you both. I have watched Cole grow so much since the beginning of his journey. God Bless you both.
Her braids are pretty! I rock braids real hard too, so that was the first thing that caught my eye!
I'm glad my friend saw this channel and said I have to see this cause you remind her of me and my boyfriend who also had the same injury 10 years back and we met after and have been dating for 4 years. I just subscribed I love you guys may god continue to bless your relationship😍
Awwww world need this kind of love story!! Love both of you !
Charisma u are a very special god giveing person
🙏🙏🙏👍🏼
What an amazing couple!
lovely video!
ps. charisma’s eyebrows are amazing
Wow, it feels like you guys have been together for years!
Very down to earth. You're a beautiful couple. Seen a couple of your videos. I'm smiling from ear to ear.
Y’all are sooooooooo perfect together wow!!
Just can’t stop watching this two lovely couples👍🏽
You guys are too cute. Cole we do blush! I do it all the time and crack my friends up. New subbie!
Just watched the proposal video few minutes ago. Cole knew already... That smile of Charisma...
Love these videos, using them to educate myself about disabled people.
Just left a company which manifested integrating disabled employees but was not really. Your videos are very eye opening. Love from Hungary
If he makes me laugh, then he's got me! He's sweet
They say couples look alike. You're off to a good start. Very cute!
Well, as long as she's happy. She's so young, bright and beautiful.
Love the black girls don’t blush comment from a fellow black girl. 😍😍 I love y’all together!! New subbie!
Charisma has an infectious smile
I love to hear you both laugh and fool around with each other. That makes a good relationship, enjoy life 🥰❤🙏🏻
I am so excited I found you alls channel!! I’m an OT in Atlanta working in inpatient peds :) this episode brought me a lot of joy. Thank you for sharing your story!
They are so beautiful and cute together! They laugh together all the time which makes them look super beautiful and cute
“Black girls don’t blush” I died XD
Loida Brito
I don't know why not. Her complexion would show blood rushing to the surface. I know that's where your head is.😏
Hi new subscriber here
Love the chanell and can't wait for part 2
Sending love from Costa Rica 🇨🇷
Also just to bring a little heat, we black girls do blush ok, I have been told I'm blushed a couple of times.
😊
Ugh the way they look at each other 😍
I just seen your SBSK and I think you two are so beautiful and I can tell you two live each other. God bless you all so much.
"Black girls don't blush! Hahaha! Omg I LOVE that! 😅👏🏾🙌🏾
As a black girl, I always say If I blushed I'd turn purple! 🤣💁🏾♀️
You two definitely get along well. God bless this union and your future.
hey yall me and my wife love yall we got so much in
common. I been in a wheelchair for 7 years now
and me and my wife do youtube too. thx for sharing yall
story keep up the good work
Y'all are so cute! Love it!
They are destiny mates/soulmates God Bless You two!
when she said she knows how to swim and he said she knows how not to die I fell out of the bed the accuracy of this statement is so funny 😂🤣
I AGREE with Cole's "Overdose" statement. You always need a Plan A and Plan B--just in case.
Also, most likely, working with small children would be a lot less taxing on a small female body.
Bottomline, I am sure Charisma will receive input from her parents and others, etc. and make the best decision for HER own future as necessary.
You both are amazing by the way your energy is so strong, i hope it will be forever
She is so beautiful inside - out
God brought me back ! So anything can happen, BE LIVE! !!!! ( JESUS),
Beautiful happy couple!
A new subbie for you guys, greetings from down under.
Roll with Cole
Pleasure is mine😊
New subbie. You both are awesome!
I’m an OT and have been loving your videos!!! ❤️
You two make a wonderful couple
You two are too cute together!
Charisma ! You answer everything in the sweetest way! Found you guys browsing on Facebook earlier this week and have officially subscribed and will follow for as long as y’all upload 😭 you guys are GREAT together 😭
Lovely couple, you two have great energy. May you be blessed
That is wonderful of them to answer questions...🤗
Cole is funny as hell 😂😂
You two are soo adorable !! 💙❤️🤗🤗🤗 Hugs from SC!! 🐈🐈🐈
3 yrs late but I'm glad I found the both of you ill be starting from the beginning and work my way up
I just found you guys, and I'm so in love with your positive attitude and so sincere relationship! 😍 And what a coincidence, I'm in my last year of Occupational Therapy! It's a wonderfull thing to study.
(Sorry for my bad english! Love, from Spain.)
Wow guys! I just love you, sorry I went to the wedding episode and watched it!
Just had to go back to the beginning to see how you guys meet. I pray for a long lasting relationship ❤
I don’t know you. But I hope you do find yourself getting better. I have epilepsy since I was 3. Now I’m better than what I use to be. God Bless you both.
I totally just found out about you two through snap chat🤣😊 Thanks for educating me about many things regarding your lives💖
Clarissa this is for one of your other videos I was looking at when I first started watching you you had the most beautiful skin ever now you have so much makeup on why is that your skin is so pretty
Heyyyyyy New subscriber!!! Love this channel. I am with someone who is in a wheelchair( We have been dating a year) and just by watching I am hopeful and I am grateful for the unknown and I have also had to adapt to this( Dating has had it's up and down's) no couple if perfect...... But God bless you both!!!! I'm looking forward to catching up on the other videos. You all are soooooo cute to watch!!!!!!!!!
Wow I love you guys already,it's midnight here in zambia but your videos have kept me awake.
You two are AMAZING!!!
Ya'll are naturals!
I have been following you guys for a while now and I am currently binge-watching you. You are getting some mail from Italy soon, Love you!
love the two of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Here to stay:)