How's intimacy as an interabled couple? - Q&A Round 1 - Pt 2 | Roll with Cole & Charisma
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- How's intimacy as an interabled couple? - Q&A Round 1 - Pt 2
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Here is the second part of the Q&A since we received so many questions! Thanks for watching, please subscribe and share!
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0:00 What obstacles do you face with dating interably?
0:50 Cole how easy is it for you to shower?
1:19 Charisma do you think it’s easier to understand Cole and his situation since you have worked in and have experience in that field?
1:50 What do you both like the most about each other?
3:34 Cole where do you see yourselves in 5 years?
4:48 How do your friends and family feel about your relationship?
5:25 What is your favorite thing to do in Richmond and why?
6:00 What’s the best part of your relationship?
6:15 How do you guys sleep comfortably in the same bed?
6:58 As a couple, How do you plan on dealing with negative comments?
7:31 What about intimacy?
8:01 If Cole could walk again, would you want that?
8:25 Would Charisma stop Cole from diving and breaking his neck?
8:54 Is there anyone in your family with a disability or special need?
9:19 What about children?
9:34 What is harder to deal with, being interabled or interracial?
10:38 How did you learn to be vulnerable and open with each other?
11:08 How do you keep the love and spark going?
11:19 Where do you see your relationship going?
11:54 Can you guys show us how your transfer?
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Hey everyone! We’re Cole & Charisma. Since the start of our relationship we've gotten a lot of questions about how we make things work as not only an interracial couple, but an interabled one as well. There are certainly differences, and despite them we have a great time, all the time! On this channel, you’ll find travel vlogs, Q&As, couple challenges, how-to/educational videos and more. We started this channel to bring people into our lives so we can answer some questions about how we navigate the world. We’ll show you behind-the-scenes stuff people typically don't see, and hopefully raise awareness surrounding accessibility and dating in a wheelchair. You'll quickly see in our episodes that we're all about positivity, inclusion, and keeping a great attitude no matter your circumstances, so if that's what you're into, you're in the right place!
Dammmmn Cole already sees a future with her....This guy is a real deal
Right! They're courting which is completely different than casual dating. The goal is marriage. I just love it!
Just Lovely!
He seems to got his game down. 😊 confidence to spare, I love it.
La'nae Even able-bodied people should take time to KNOW each other. Being both caregiver and wife/mother means your life is often put ON hold for your loved ones. If YOU get sick, what will your loved ones do? And who will take care of YOU AND the babies?
Somewhat, because he didn't say "marriage" ever...
" I thought it was about us" Ladies pay attention when a man already has you in his future he's a keeper" :-)
lol unless you just met him and he's a stalker weirdo! :P
This is what healthy looks like.. didn’t say perfect said Healthy.. love these two♥️
Absolutely!!!!
Yessss 💗
I love how mom is the one who interviewed them.
Charisma dimples are super cute
Melanin Babe hell yes
They're so amazing and cute ❤️🙏 love you loads
I love you guys! I'm handicapped and I am a mother of 5 and a grandma of 13. I was happily married until my husband passed. Enjoy your lives!
❤️
Sorry. 13?
@@rollingwithmoore it's less than 3 grandchildren per child they had. Not really that absurd.
@@coreystenson2010
It certainly isn’t absurd!! In my grandparents generation most families were BLESSED to have from 7 to 14 children. Sadly child mortality rates were high back then, and pre-antibiotics, when many still lived on farms far from a hospital, most families lost a few to childhood illnesses and injuries. My mother was one of 7 who lived, after 2 died. My father is one of 3, and several died. Each child was welcomed as a very precious gift from God! I still know many Families today who gladly welcome as many children as God will send them!
@@rollingwithmooreshes blessed
The 175 dislikes are people who do not have anyone looking at them like Cole looks at her!! You two are so cute and such a inspiration!!
Hate mail stinks these two are happy love to all of your family 💖💛💖💛💖
Cole expresses emotions, affections, and admiration for his wife warmly and openly. His admiration is obvious. Keep loving each other.
‘I love black people’. Lol we love you too . I’m so happy I came across this channel !
i'm literally on a binge, you guys are the cutest couple ever!!!!
#Amen 🙏🏽 🤗 🎉 🎉
Same 😭😭
Same
Me2! 😊😍
Ever
Cole an Charisma, I don't even know how I stumbled across your channel, but I'm so delighted that I did. I love you two sweet babies; you really make me smile. Cole, I'm praying for a medical science miracle to come through for you in the near future. And Charisma, your mom could not have chosen a better name for you - suits you perfectly, my darling. And let me tell you how happy it makes me to hear that your families are loving, supportive, and accepting of your relationship. Wishing you two all the very best that life has to offer.
What btfl comments you have made about this sweet couple..you said everything I was thinking..I js found their channel..such a sweet couple
They truly are a sweet couple. And I truly wish them all the very best. By the way, I'm old school - what does btfl mean? My adult children would find my asking this question quite comical because I once had the audacity to ask them what smh meant. lol
I think it's an abbreviation of beautiful. :-)
Teri Jones you’re not the only one😃. I’m trying to figure what’s “spoon”
Kathleen Evers, I'm not sure what that one is either, but let us know when you find out. 😀
Man I started watching y'all today from his 2hr morning routine... On some real....I wanna be more like Cole when it comes to showing my women care. We've been rocky and Cole literally just made me see how much I'm not doing.. Let me go hug on my girl
Awwww you’re so sweet
Go Franky!!!
Love to see it!
“I love black people” 😂😂😂 Cole is hilarious!!! Love him!
Lady LoLinda when did he say this? I missed it!
Amanda C 10:17
“You’ll hit the hell out the automatic doors”!! 😂😂🤣🤣
Mom The Ebayer
😂😂😂😂😂😍hittin those doors that was to cute!! Loved this video
I thought that was sooo cute and I actually envisioned it
I loved it!!! Lmbo
Mannnn I can’t stop laughing🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol
I love the way he looks at her 😩. He looks at her like she hung the moon and she looks at him the exact same way.
You guys are such a beautiful couple ❤️.
The way y’all look at each other 😍 true love! My daughter has cerebral palsy, she’s only 6....but I hope she finds genuine true love when she grows up like this!!!
Cole looks at and plays with Charisma like she’s his Princess doll.... sooo cute
They are so in love. They’re always looking into each others eyes. Love it... much love, success, happiness, health and baby bump soon 😜
Darline Romain If they have a baby soon how can she juggle Masters degree school studies, a limited-abilities husband and a new baby at the same time? TOO MUCH STRESS. TOO MUCH STRESS. SHE will probably crash or harbor resentments. They are only human.
It doesn't get any better then that. lucky couple
@@ceegabe1555 They have very loving and supportive family. I'm sure it will be okay, when the time comes 😊
How can you say that after what the white fox did to us how can someone fall in love with a person who made you suffer
@@dmvv2pacdmx229 Say what? What are you talking about?
Everyone needs someone to look at them the way Charisma looks at Cole!
I like that they keep their intimate life private. Maturity right there.
Oh man, the way they look at each other when the other one is talking just kills me! 🥺 literal goals 👑
This guy... That pit of despair glare killed me😂😂😂🤗
Cole is a funny dude...did he say little mixed triplets ...hahahahahaaa. You guys are so my very favorite couple for sure. So uplifting positive and loving. Wowwwwwwwwwwwww so much smiling and happiness such a joy.
lol he is funny indeed...
@@coleandcharisma
Not Jin Nd juice 🤣
T Richardson
Ikr he’s too funny love these two
@@Standingfirmly1 how is he going to say they will be sipping on gin and juice, while she's pregnant? 😂😂😂 I was like wait what?
I can't get my head around people that disapprove of interracial relationships,colour has no boundaries,well,it shouldn't,we all bleed the same colour blood.
Love is love.❤️ It is a special thing that should be valued regardless of outward appearances.
@@MJ-gj6mj 100%
The chemistry between them is amazing. This is what relationships are about!
Cole, love hearing about squashing negative comments. Haters gonna hate. Ain’t nobody got time for that. I’m in an interracial marriage. In December, we will be celebrating 17 years married (and 21 years together). Y’all are amazing together. Blessings .
There Is Really Technically Only One Race ...That Would Be human.. There Are Different Ethnic Groups though
rayne jadis
Love how you put that !!!!
Imma hv to put that in my notes.. to remind ppl I may come across with some foolishness.. ty❤️❤️❤️
@@onlylikemindedbw CORRECT!!!!
Jill Flewitt what have been your biggest challenges being married 21 years?
Congratulations. Yeah!!!🥂🍾🍰
I can just imagine the "little mixed babies" they're going to be the cutest
Marissa All babies are beautiful.
rose968 calm down. They were just replying to the statement made. And let's be real, no ALL babies aren't cute lol but that doesn't have a thing to do with race or ethnicity LOL. Some just aren't traditional looking.
They're going to be beautiful with WONDERFUL positive personalities. Thank God for positive young people like them. The world needs it.
ThatLadyDray I’m calm, chill out. I’m just saying many people talk about how mixed babies are better than other babies just because they’re mixed. My niece who’s 7 told her mom she’s ugly and wished she was lighter like her sisters because of the things people told her at school. People need to stop holding mixed race babies to a higher level.
They just started dating. Now you want her to be a baby mama on top of everything else to deal with.
Spooning is cute in the beginning. I don’t know what couple spoons after the first year. You cannot sleep comfortably like that and I need my beauty rest. We can meet again in the morning!
8yrs later and hibby and i still spoon
👀
What is spooning?? 🤣🤣
10 yrs later and we still cuddle and spoon.
3yrs we fall asleep spooning every night
"Lil mixed babies" 🤣 He wants kids big time.
Such a cute couple. So caring of each other.
It's sweet your mom interviews you. Yeah Mom. Mama long Greenville tx
I love you guys. They were born for each other. Stay happy, stay positive.
I love this! My daughter went to school in Oahu, Hawaii and instead of making handicap kids feel self conscious, the school allowed our kids to assist them in their wheelchairs to show them how to treat everyone. It became so normal that our kids didn't look at their classmates as disabled people. It actually became a fight for them to have that privilege.
Don't worry about people looking. Looking is admiration. People look to admire. You are a cute couple.
The way she looks at him❤️❤️
I love her feminine energy around Cole. Such a good woman.
I am a minister in Michigan -- You guys are precious. I will marry you for free.
They SO are!
That’s love
Who cares if their a interracial couple. You never know who you are going to fall in love with.
@@Camo1968 why even say that. They two human beings in love. That's it!
John W John! Is not about them being interracial but interABLED 😋
I can't imagine anyone having a negative comment, find your happy moments! I think it is awesome that you two have found each other.
That's right Cole squash that negative mess
OMG....... my smile is so big, it's hurting my cheeks. Love this!
The way she looks at him when he’s talking😍
This is my first time watching and just looking at Charisma I just feel so bright and happy...Charisma u are the definition of “amazing aura”....ur aura is so strong and bright
You guys are AMAZING ❤️🙌🏼
These are good people and I wish them well. So refreshing to see young people with a beautiful heart.
Oh YES it is, Much ❤ and Blessings to them😊
shame on me, shame on me for complaining about life. These two inspire me, and remind to to take each day at a time amd laugh, love and be meloy even when I feel low we got this you two. YOU ARE LOVED
This is proof that good people are still out there. You guys may not know it but you’re paving the way for people with disabilities and giving them hope. All love!❤️
People are staring because y’all are gorgeous and the love radiates from you both. Not because you’re interracial, or interabled couple. Shine on.
I absolutely love the way he looks at her. This is magnetic.
I've been binge watching you guys and I love these videos! Ya'll crack me up. Now i need to go eat some Captain George's. Love you guys!
*I'm so thankful that you are treating her like a love mate versus a caregiver. I used to date a quadriplegic (had Parkinson's. Experimental brain surgery left him that way), but I couldn't juggle both roles. The line was blurred and I felt frustrated with it. Killed our relationship! So praise God you keep her your woman*
@Danjazone- I watch your channel all the time! love it. Its so funny I see you in every comment section of the videos I watch :)
@@jacquelinefisher5637 hey Jacqueline🍀💎
Thank you for watching my videos..lol..im just a nosey goober😄
But heeeey...its super cool we share the same taste in subjects.. Great minds think alike😉😉
I hope you're having a wonderful Sunday! 🌹💓
This is such an insightful comment, and I'm sure it can't have been easy to speak this truth in public. Thank you so much. It certainly makes their relationship even more special, when we look at it through your lens. :)
What also makes it easy for them is his family is so supportive. 👍
You have such a big heart and you have the best channel on here!!! Love it!!!
My boyfriend is paralyzed from chest down due to a car wreck. I love y’all’s channel so much. You guys are awesome. ❤️
I wish you two all the best!! I have been rollin' for 40 years and have the same level injury due to a diving accident, too. I was in an interracial marriage for 34 years. I dont live too far from you all. Im in VA Beach. Keep the vids coming. Young people with an SCI need to see that relationships post injury DO happen and they are still desireable.
👍👍😊
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I guess since you are not that far maybe you can arrange a meet up.
@@queenbee2447as for a disabled person living in England , I think interviewers ask some STUPID questions , OF COURSE Cole would love to walk again after his accident , so would I ( I was born with Spina Bifida / hydrocephalus ) I USED be able to walk but HAVE'NT been able to since 201 due to a fall , I know he gets Phisio Therepy wheas I unfortunatly dont
So glad I found your channel. I NEED this positivity in my life. Thanks guys!
You’re gonna be an amazing occupational therapist
You guys are so inspiring! I was in healthcare 25+ years, I loved taking care of people! I was in a car accident, in disabled now! I can relate to you guys! I pray nothing but blessings and God's Mighty hand over you both! Such positive people, can't wIt to watch the next video. 💗
The two of you are such an inspiration to many on multiple levels. Your positivity exudes all thru your vlog. I was smiling the entire time. So happy you found each other. Good luck and God bless you.
Please keep posting. I love you guys!! I let my sister watch you two so she can have some positive motivation she has muscle atrophy and can’t use her arms legs she can’t walk set up and I’ve been really happy that she gets excited when I show her your videos thank you so much for the encouragement.
Tolerance , acceptance, unconditional love ... just beautiful, God bless you guys
Charisma and Cole! I stumbled into your video few hours ago and l am so loving every moment of it. You're both an inspiration.
You're like many other interracial couples my husband and l included are a living proof that true love do not dictate color. Love is love. ❤🌷💖
You truly are an inspiration, Cole, for people to stay positive in dealing with life's challenges. I wish you and Charisma a smooth journey to a happy life together.
Cole is soooo funny, this is probably one of the best couples I’ve ever came across
Y’all are so upbeat and inspirational. The love just shines all around the both of you! I’ll just go sit over here and wait for the babies to arrive...... 😃❤️💙❤️
I think you both are amazing, inspirational and adorable. So many people will be helped by you sharing your journey with them. Never say never! And Mum, you are a great support for your boy, I can see where Cole gets his strength and humour from
You guys compliment each other you're so beautiful❤
I just found your channel and LOVE you guys; and wish you the best in everything. My dad is in a wheelchair and so I've been open to an inter-able relationship, although have never had one. I know it isn't easy but I love that you are showing people that the person is still who he/she is, there's just some extra planning or things to think about but it's still love and still give and take, and mutual attraction. Enjoy your journey with each other! And yes, those "mixed babies" (I am one! lol)
Barcoft bought me. But y'all made me stay. Most adorable, positive couple ever. Even the way you guys look at each other is beautiful 😍. Plus he's hilarious 🤣😂
He is so cute and hilarious. I ❤️how he is not afraid to speak his mind about interracial issues and jokes. I love it. So natural and genuine.....
I love COLE sense of humor, Thanks for answering these questions and sharing your life...
you two are the cutest! and hilarious!!! xx
Who's here in 2020 binge watching? You'll should be at 1 million subscribers already! Y'all are amazing 😁
2:43 "if anythings bothering you you can always talk to me" thats such a comforting thing to hear!! 😊
Hi guys. I just came across your Chanel and I must say that I love your energy! I am a teacher (certified in both special education and general education) and am so glad to see that Cole has a very positive outlook. I am happy to see that he has an abundance of love and support. It is unfortunate that I am witness to students that could achieve so much more if they had the love and support of their families. Cole, I am so happy for you and Charisma.
May God continue your family. Love is stronger than hate!
Just found you about an hour ago and I have been watching all your videos non stop. You are both adorable! Cole you sense of humor is epic, and Charisma giggles is beautiful. Perfect couple.
🎶🎵"I'm all the way up"🎵🎶 you go cole
I don't think that I've ever seen this much unconditional love between a couple in my life.. the both of you are very lucky people to have each other.....your 💓 shines and I wish y'all a very healthy and happy future .....you guys make me smile. 💓
Charisma and Cole, you two are heart warming. Thank you for sharing apart of your journey with us and inspiring people all around the world. Serendipity indeed, you two are meant for one another. I just discovered and subscribed to your channel today and I am so excited for the triplets baby chapter in your future hehe! Will be crying tears of joy for sure. Cole you keep being positive, and optimistic man, you and your story is a game changer!
Wonderful!!! You guys are such an inspirational couple. I am hoping that my daughter finds someone with your spirit Cole.
You two are definitely meant for each other! Love how much positivity and love you have! Best wishes to you both ❤️
I love your honesty and forthright in telling of your journey. Cole I know your positive attitude didn't come easy but that's all behind you now. So happy you and Charisma found each other. The 2 of you have fans that are here to support you guys 💓💓💓💓💓
Cole is so funny..😂
Randomly clicked on your video as this was the first time TH-cam presented as a "reccomendation" ... so glad I did:-) You two are like a breath of fresh air ... 2 puzzle pieces that fit together perfectly. Hope your Tahiti future plans become reality, inclusive of marriage and babies. Good luck and best wishes to you both!!
I love you guys! You can tell that the love that they have for each other is genuine 😍
Y’all are a nice looking couple! You look great together. May the most high bless you both. My spine is broken in 2 places and my wife and I are of two different tones of skin. But that only makes it better in my eyes. I definitely subscribed to yalls channel. It’s nice to see y’all really. ✌️
You two are amazing. Maybe my blind autistic daughter could be loved. This video is very inspiring and emotional for me. It gives me hope.
Keep up the great work on this series. It's easy to see how much you two care about each other, and I love seeing it.
I love you guys so much ❤❤❤ the love you have for each other is so obvious, the way u look at each other 😍😍. Sending my love from South Africa
I was paralyzed on my left side 6 years ago in a car accident. I received Amniotic Stem Cells (3 sets which is 3 teaspoons) that were injected into my Spinal Nerves. They gave me back 85% feeling, sensation in my left leg. I also have a Spinal Cord Stimulator that helps with my constant pain.... But God. I'm now "the nurse with a cane" WHO WORKED WITH SCI AND TBI PATIENTS AND BECAME 1 HERSELF! I reunited with my high school Sweetheart who had No clue what I'd gone through and that I was Cane Dependent..... And even on my WORST DAYS/NIGHTS.....HE LOVES EVERY OUNCE OF ME- EVEN THE EXTRA 70 POUNDS ADDED FROM STEROIDS WHICH KEPT THE PARALYSIS FROM SPREADING. KEEP PUSHING!
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Where did you get your stem cell transplants/injections from ? Thank you! God bless.
I received my Stem Cells from Atlanta Spine Specialist Dr. Pallavi Cherukupally
@@4elizabeth Atlanta Spine Specialist Dr. Pallavi Cherukupally
Erica Miller I thought amniotic stem cell transplants were not FDA approved in the US? For spinal cord injuries at least
The way they look at each other with love made me subscribe !
Wow mom is great, too! Now we see Cole where you get some good traits from. She really sounded like a third party person you didn’t know till the end. “We gonna have triplets some mixed babies 👶 they see their future and that’s great! She is so beautiful, sweet and supportive. She allows Cole to be the man and not like she’s just feeling sorry. She also blushed on that baby news and feel right in line. 2-3 would be great! Keep praying as a family and Cole keep working hard. Mom you are very special and adorable! Cole you are so blessed as you have two special ladies! :)
Inspirebymikaeli such nice words
Yes yes yes
Inspirebymikaeli f
Gender role bullshit. And it would be really selfish of him to say that he thinks that they are going to have several Children when she is the one having to take care of them and him!
@@rrksk she actually said 10 kids he said that's to many. Gender roles. He is the man and she is the woman. She shines in her relationship because he is the head. You can tell they respect each other.
U guys are awesome, one of the best tags I've ever watched
Neasey Hendrix m.
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Just came across this channel. It is 1.30 in the morning and I should be asleep but I am literally hooked on you two! Loved this inspirational video. Xxx
Here from Barcroft! Now I’m addicted omg I love the positivity!!
All I see is love..am going to name my babies cole and charisma.may God be with you always
I love his personality!! I pray you have a long healthy loving marriage
I don’t see how anyone can dislike their videos
This is so beautiful
It’s love
The way they look at each other is absolutely beautiful 🥰 I love 💕
Thanks for sharing. Another great vlog. I wished I had some one to look at me like y'all look at each other.
This is absolutely beautiful! 😍😍😍 I love, love! And you can see it oozing from the pair of you its wonderful!
Just found your channel and started binge watching. I didn't know Charisma was an OT until I watched this video. Thank you for sharing these videos, they are great educational resources for the general population and OTs like me who don't have alot of experience with SCI. Please continue to make videos. You guys are a breath of fresh air! Love the positivity!
I'm so so glad I found your page. You're like wonderful extented family living in Virginia....that I'm getting to know. Your authenticity and care for each other just lights up on camera! You too are ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE !
I just came across this couple!! Cole is amazing and Charisma is just a gem! I thought that you guys had been dating for a long time you are so great together. So compatible and I just love Cole’s great sense of humor and Charisma giggles!! I hear how excited Cole is about having some mixed babies!! I am following you all for sure!!!
I am so glad I found yall!! I can just feel the love you have for one another and its refreshing to see!! The question about showering was funny cause looking at newer videos she is helping you now lol anyways loving you both!!
I'm soooooooo happy that you guys are very happy together. Your story, your fight your positivity, your love for each other and your attitudes are so inspiring. Much love.
I'll be 100% honest I first started watching because charisma is absolutely beautiful but I have to say you two are such a beautiful couple and such a genuine vibe that we don't see on TH-cam anymore specially with couple Vlogs! Keep up the hard work and positive vibes❤️