Did you have any of the same assumptions? If not, comment below and we’ll do our best to respond! Here is the link to cameo! www.cameo.com/roll.with.cole
Hey Cole and charisma could u two if u don't mind and if u have the time to could u please read my response on your last vlog I'm a caregiver for my mom as well and I just wanted to share my story with u guys please respond thanks if not it's ok. .
Roll with Cole & Charisma LOVE THIS VIDEO........YASSSS. We need more of this. I like when you guys open up to us. You guys are more to us then a disable couple. LOVE LOVE THIS VIDEO.
My assumption? That Cole chose Charisma and Charisma chose Cole, both with their eyes wide open and knowing they had the tools to go the distance. MAD respect, guys.
For real, because I know I don't have the capacity or humanity to love without limits in a romantic relationship. I know I couldn't do it. I have do much respect for both of them seeing beyond the BS we as humans put on each other.
@@Vitaluv they still love with limits too - their limits are just based on the person’s personality rather than their physical abilities. And honestly Cole is an attractive guy, maybe she wouldn’t have been interested if his face was really unattractive. There are still limits in all kinds of love , it’s all conditional, because we don’t accept things like cruelty and excessive negativity and other things in our partners.
I just want to say that my wife and I have been married for so long that when we got married there were still states where our marriage was not legal. I'm white and she's African American. There's a lot of us out there. 30 yrs ago she had an accident and is a quad. We never have seen us as an interracial or interabled couple...we are just an awesome couple who have been in love for the past 56 years !
i had a 4-5 yr old kid ask me if i was a super hero cause i had wires coming out of my ears...( i wear bilateral hearing aids) i thought it was the funniest thing
Amy Kimball reminds me of the scripture at Psalms 8:2 “out of the mouth of babes and sucklings thou has perfected praise.” Children say the most endearing things. ❤️
I've shared you with my daughter, like, me, she adores you. This society is so screwed up some will make assumptions; take it from a grandma, continue growing in love for each other and may God continue blessing you and your families.
Wyndolyn Pappion Ppl’s opinions are sometimes define by their own reality. No matter what there will always be ppl with skepticism no matter how much being significant they are with each other. They are not using the channel like it’s a peep show. They are genuine couple with true feelings. No one comes into a relationship of this magnitude of care and not love him or each other. They both have loving dedicated parents and in my book that’s a plus hundred percentage. I wish them all the very best.
I’m not sure how I came across y’all but I definitely see the love for each other in your eyes and words that you speak to each other... y’all are so beautiful together 🌹 from Texas.
Charisma is a Pisces and many of us are upbeat and look for the good in people and situations. I think this is a good match. He Taurus she Pisces. She has a bashful side to her but it is what it is. You too are my favorite couple and you always bring joy to your subscribers. Love you guys!
You both exude love! I've been a paraplegic since 17. Here I am 29 years later💪....2 marriages/divorces😧...and 2 sons (21 & 15)...2 degrees...been employee & employer. My current mate (5yrs) has suffered kidney failure about a year ago and is on dialysis 3x week. A couple of months after starting dialysis, he loss vision and is now blind😎. We're best friends, lovers👯 and life mates. We're ALL lemons trynna make lemonade! 🍋💕🍋💕🍋💕
Really??!!! Someone really assumed that you weren't really happy with each other?!!! What??? The way you guys look at each other... there's no doubt that you're happy and in love! ♥️ That was the first thing I noticed after watching the first time! 😊
Hey, Cole and Charisma! Don't worry abt assumptions of other ppl. I guess the most important thing is your perspective and the bond that you have.. The bond being LOVE ..I am sure you will pass all the obstacles that will come your way. Rock n roll guys! Much respect from the Philippines
I feel like there are so many people with rude comments/assumptions targeted at Charisma. I wonder if the shoe were on the other foot, would people be as quick to drag Cole. LET'S STAY POSITIVE!!!!
I feel for you son. I was born with Cerebral Palsy. Although mild, there was a whole list of things the doctors said I may never do. This understandably made me colossally cross, and credit to my parents, they told mr that they'd help me where they could but that I'd have to be the one to figure it out. We worked out how to get me on skis, how to get me on a mountain bike and how to get me outdoors. They wouldn't help me get on a motorcycle as they deemed it too dangerous, that's why it was all the more satisfying when I worked out how to do it on my own...and drive it from Utah to Mexico City, alone, 6 times. Point is, your son will be fine if you listen to him, help him with his passions within, reason and don't try too hard to rein him in if you don't entirely understand the direction he wants to take in life. Oh, and he'll probably find love too, because that yet another thing that many said might not happen for me.
From one mom to another who’s adult child is a quad. Get them to go out anyway if you can. My daughter was born a quad so that is all she knows but it hasn’t stopped her. We have travelled over the country & to Mexico. She goes on weekend vacations with friends. Since COVID Zoom is a Big plus. There are forum for anything & it (Zoom) has actually been a blessing. FYI take care of yourself too. ❤️
Ir he look for africanan american he will get help and marry her like Cole african american can do that to take care of you nobody else do it like charisma
MY GOD! You both look your best, Cole looks handsome, moreso than ever and Charisma looks beautiful. Love the braids because they draw attention to her lovely face. I always thought that Charisma is shy and private while Cole is overt and very demonstrative in his emotions. I just assumed Charisma has old fashion values. But the way she looks into Coles eyes and how she defers to him is very much that of a woman in love. Cole is very powerful as a man who has been loved and his confidence is attractive and he’s a good looking Alpha male. So he’s attractive. He hesitates because his physical circumstance may make him think before his responses but he’s no push over. It’s obvious that he’s strong willed and determined. Why else could he even be where he is or do all that he does? Love you guys so much! You represent authentic true love!
I had no assumption about you before watching except assuming I wasn’t going to be interested in your channel. Then I saw one clip and ..... haven’t stopped watching since! You’re both so adorable and funny .
Eden I also assumed I would be saddened by their channel when i saw that Cole was in wheelchair. But they have so inspired me. Such a lovely down to earth couple.
Nompilo Ndlovu I didn’t think I’d be saddened by them, I just didn’t get the feeling that it would be a channel I would have an interest in watching just from seeing the titles of their videos etc when they popped up on my sidebar. The first video I watched was the one where they met up with Shane and Hannah as I had been watching their vlogs and I just kept watching.
It is said that the first teachers come from home. I salute your parents who groomed you both so wonderfully. I am in love with your love. You guys are awesome..🙏🙏🙏
Been married for 11 years with my current wife and 3 years with my first wife who passed away a few years ago. Both are beautiful black women and blessed to be with them. Cole is one who is very happy and Charisma, she knew and understood early on before both grew closer. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🙏🏼💜💯
I think the dilemma for parents is that you want your child to be curious, but since children of a certain age don’t always know how to be curious without being rude (they’re still learning what is considered rude and polite) they will just say what they see. Sometimes it’s harmless like your experience other times it’s the child yelling and pointing “mom that lady’s skin is weird looking” That child may have had moments like that prior which may have caused the father to be nervous like “ugh here we go again”. So it’s really important that the parents explain to their child how to be curious in public. It takes a lot of repetition and patience. I’m a new mom and ECE student and I’m learning all of these little dilemmas. #prayforme lol Parenting has a lot of those situations where the answer seemed simple but then it happens to you and you’re like this is actually harder than I thought. Especially when it comes to explaining things to your child. Everything has to be broken down so they understand. Repetition, repetition, repetition is the key. I’m glad you were able to explain to the child their question and hopefully this helped the parents as well.
The person who wrote the assumption about “resentment” was speaking about their own character and was hung up on their own insecurities. It is probably inconceivable for them to believe that a person can be selfless in service to others.
Thanks for being genuine and encouraging others through your honesty. The interviews with your fam are the best!! Thanks for keeping it clean so all ages can benefit from your transparency and encouragement!
Hi, Cole and Charisma! First of all, I know this comment is so long, but I have so much to say. 🤗 Thanks so much for making this video, it was thought provoking! I’m a new subscriber to your channel, but have seen a video of yours here and there beforehand. This past weekend I started binge-watching from the beginning 😁 I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate the awareness, education, inclusion, adaptivity and positivity you spread to everyone from your channel, in light of the challenges of physical disabilities. A little about me: I was born with Spina Bifida 38 years ago - I am grateful I am not paralyzed and I am able to walk, but I have bowel/urinary issues, a shunt due to hydrocephalus/chiari malformation, poor balance and other issues with my feet. So, I can relate some, in that respect. Anyway, having my own struggles led me in high school to want to do social work, so I went on to get my Bachelors degree in Social Work, and last year I graduated with my Masters degree in Social Work. Right now I’m working in community mental health to gain hours for LCSW licensure; but ultimately it’s my dream to open my own group homes in the community: 1 for people with disabilities, 1 for people with severe and persistent mental illness, and 1 for older adults. I want to help people remove whatever barriers they may have to living safely and happy in the community. I truly believe God has a plan and purpose for everyone, despite the challenges and dark times life brings 😊 Keep on doing what you do on your channel! 💗
I admire what you stand for... Thank God there are still people in this world like you.. My sister died of Spinal bifida 58 years ago.. Times were way different back then.. I wish you the very best in life and your adventures.. Much love 💗 from New Orleans 🎭🎼🎭
I love both your positive attitudes. Charisma I think you're a sweet heart & I love Cole's quick funny sarcasm "putting my foot down" I personally loved that.
Exposure/exploitation: if anything, I'm using you guys! You're so wonderfully upbeat. Your joy ministers to my heart, which makes your videos really great therapy! Thanks for sharing your lives with us. It takes courage to be so transparent, especially in this day and age.
I really love how you guys address the caregiving assumptions. I never want to take away from caregivers, but I hate when people act like caregivers are either saints or that they must be resentful. In a relationship each partner contributes differently and I love how you guys highlight this and emphasize the equality in your relationship. Thank you for addressing these assumptions!!!
I didn't want to watch this because I figured it would piss me off. People can be so rude when hiding behind a keyboard. I would not have even acknowledged them but I guess this opened a dialogue about how assumptions are taken as facts when people don't know the entire story. You handled this with more grace than most would have God bless.
You guys are the most beautiful couple ! I know from experience. I have been permantly disabled since 1974, and Cole to find such a amazing person like her is truely a blessing, keep doing this !you are putting disabled people out there and it awesome
This is an awesome vlog. I like that you dispel all the assumptions. I love the clip at the beginning of the 2 dad’s photo bombing! They are like 2 good friends getting into mischief! 😂
I think it is ignorant to make assumptions, when we do not live your experiences! I love you guys and your positivity. I love you both as a couple, it is exciting to watch your adventures and the craziness sometimes!! BIG Blessings to you both!
Hi my favorite couple i couldn't be more proud of ya'll if ya'll were my own son and daughter ya'll keep on amazing me every time i watch one of your video love ya'll so much
@Dragonettayeah that sucks not getting the opportunity to meet grandparents. My grandparents on my father side were from St. Vincent, never met them, my grandmother died before I was born and years later my grandfather passed😥Come visit us you will love it here! 🇹🇹
I adore your transparency! Some people are insensitive, but you're right... Positivity is the key. My 21-year-old son has a prosthetic eye and a scar from brain surgery. In grade school and Jr high he struggled some because people were cruel, however, we consistently encouraged him and helped him build confidence to know he has a place in this world and a purpose. Around 8th grade the stares stopped bothering him, he would even use the moment to share his story. You two are awesome. Keep sharing your story and making a difference. 🤗
Your vlog is positive but you are human and no person is positive all the time, I think your vlog is uplifting beautiful, a wonderful couple, not always easy but great people thank you both
My first impressions of you were that you are young, bright, well adjusted and well educated people who are madly in love with one another. I wish I could be as accepting of my new physicality as you are, Cole. I'm 62 years old and I'm in my 20th year as a quad. Your positivity is so inspiring. Thank you for putting such a positive face on quadriplegia.
I’m not sure exactly how I ended up on your page, but it is truly inspiring for the disabled community. Thank you for being so honest about your experiences and continuing to spread your love ❤️
I was shopping and a kid asked why I’m in a stroller. I explained to the child that when you are young, you can’t walk very well, so you need a stroller. My big stroller is called a wheelchair. I need it because my legs don’t walk very well. Then I let her beep my horn. Kid hooked! Mom then loosened up and we chatted about real life. Mom said she never talked to a disabled person before. I encouraged her to engage in conversations with the disabled as much as he would any other stranger.
I wept profusely the first day I watched you guys 🥰😍, I was so moved by you two, never assumed anything at all..People and their mind though. I love your positivity 🙏🏽
You guys are the real deal. I can tell that both of you are "glass half-full" type people. Having that as a base is a beautiful thing in life. Down times are going to happen and thanks for elaborating on that in this video. Your truthfullness is very inspriring, so thank you.
I’ve watched a lot of interviews done by people in wheelchairs on TH-cam esp on SBSK and almost all of them prefer people come up to them and ask questions over just staring. That definitely makes sense to me. I really don’t think I would be hesitant to ask you guys about Coles disability as you both look very approachable. ❤️
I was never a TH-cam fan, however I was working with a patient with a disability while doing some research your video pop up where Charisma saw you stand for the first time. Your channel was my first subscription about fall last year, and I continue to enjoy your Vlogs. You two keep loving on each other. God bless.👏👌👍💝🎉🎊❤
Why in the hell would she stay with him if she resented helping him? Come on people. We do things for the people we love! I take care of my kids but I don’t resent them....or how about taking care of an elderly parent? Would you resent them?
I had a teacher in elementary school that explained that people in wheel chairs have the same feelings as others, so always treat all people the way you want to be treated. Don't look away smile say Hi etc. Thank you Mrs. Bookstable
When i first ran into your channel yesterday, I was wondering and curious. My "Assumptions" where 3 and 9. I am more educated now than i was before watching your channel. So thanks for educating us!
10:54 - "Cole loves you so much that he doesn't want to see you near any other males" To any inexperienced /young people out there, that's not love, that's control and at worst, abuse.
I absolutely adore the two of you. I love watching all of your videos. I love the way you two relate to one another. Keep on doing what you're doing. Watching the two of you inspires me to always look at the bright side of things in life. Love from Dover, Delaware & God Bless you both.
I assume you guys truly love each other and are committed to spending your lives together taking on each challenge & triumph with open minds and unconditional LOVE!!!
@@jeannetteduette6704 I don't think it's a dumb question. I've seen that question a lot. In fact when my daughter watched it she asked that same question. I didn't know who she was had to google her.
I had a lot of assumptions about you guys but the more I watched your channel, I was definitely proven wrong. Just like charisma said don’t be afraid to ask questions and stay positive thanks C&C squad 👍🏽😍😍
I don't know if I should cry or laugh at the questions about the authenticity of your love and of the struggles you face!! I'm always amazed at how much humans can be mean and inconsiderate
Assumptions? I don't remember which of your videos I watched for the first time, but I do remember that in the beginning of that video, for whatever reason, I didn't realize that Cole was in a wheelchair. It was toward the end that I understood the situation, and by that time, every assumption I could have thought of was busted. I found both of you very refreshing. I was sorry to find out that Cole was disabled, but very quickly, I was pretty confident that he can turn just about every situation life dishes out into something positive. As far as Charisma was concerned, I wasn't aware at first that she was Cole's girlfriend - but that was only because the first thing I heard about her was that she was into physical therapy, and so I thought the relationship was professional. Again, that assumption went away almost as soon as it was formed because of the chemistry that is so obvious between the two of you. I enjoy watching your channel and think you are both doing a much-needed service to those of us who have never experienced these challenges. In your end of the universe, you've educated a lot of people and made the unknown a little less scary.
I came across your channel this last week and I've been hooked ever since. Subscribed after the very first video clip I watched which was highly unusual for me, but I'm so glad I did 😍 Thank you for being such an inspiration and your positivity truly shines through your vlogs. Much love from Nigeria ❤❤
My assumption: That you are each extremely lucky to have the other. Cole, handsome, easy-going (as he says, unless responding to someone coming at him), loving, charming, funny, resourceful, and oh, so courageous in his coming to terms with his situation. Charisma, beautiful, giving, loving, charming, funny, accepting, resourceful, and oh, so courageous for taking on the difficulties, a rare spirit. See, I ended up using the same adjectives to describe each of you. A beautifully matched couple, each with supportive families.
I can’t wait to watch this after work 💜💜💜 I just started watching y’all a few weeks ago and have almost made it through all your videos. Y’all are a beautiful couple!!
Oh my gosh you guys - I have just found your channel and you are such an inspirational couple, such positivity...I am not going to make any assumptions, I am going to binge watch all your videos...loving what I see already 🔥
Cole is so hilarious! I love his spirit. I love the natural chemistry and love between the two of you. Thank you for being a beautiful example of true love. Sending you lots of love and light! ❤️
Dude did you crack your neck!? Aren’t you scared of that ? I move my neck slightly in the crack position it hurts. Love how sarcastic you both are I was laughing the whole time. 😂 Great video guys!
When I first saw you two, I immediately new you HAD to be a couple because the VIBES were so strong between the two of you. You know what I also noticed, was that it took me a while to notice Coles disability because I was so focused on the beautiful love you share between you...it reminds me of how my boyfriend and I love each other; very rarely do we disagree on anything and we laugh a lot too! We always do these silly sketches/scenarios where we pretend to be different characters (No, not sex roll play) and it's filled with humour and we always have each other in absolute stitches! 🤣 We are both really funny, which is great! Btw, I'm a female and I'm Black British, but I like to call myself an AfroCariBrit 🇬🇭 🇩🇲 🇬🇧 👩🏾🦱 My boyfriend is White British with a Jewish, Polish heritage 🇮🇱 🇵🇱 🇬🇧 🧔🏻 Wishing you both the ABSOLUTE BEST. LOVE STRONG ❤
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Did you have any of the same assumptions? If not, comment below and we’ll do our best to respond!
Here is the link to cameo!
www.cameo.com/roll.with.cole
Hey Cole and charisma could u two if u don't mind and if u have the time to could u please read my response on your last vlog I'm a caregiver for my mom as well and I just wanted to share my story with u guys please respond thanks if not it's ok. .
Roll with Cole & Charisma LOVE THIS VIDEO........YASSSS. We need more of this. I like when you guys open up to us. You guys are more to us then a disable couple. LOVE LOVE THIS VIDEO.
I love the people you both are and how you are with each other I wish one day we can meet😀😀
I love Cole's ... Ha ha No
I don't have any assumptions. You guys are amazing and I love how you love each other. ❤
My assumption? That Cole chose Charisma and Charisma chose Cole, both with their eyes wide open and knowing they had the tools to go the distance. MAD respect, guys.
For real, because I know I don't have the capacity or humanity to love without limits in a romantic relationship. I know I couldn't do it.
I have do much respect for both of them seeing beyond the BS we as humans put on each other.
Beverley Hohn Chang Really? I think Cole would accept her just like she does him - he had his eye on her before they even met
Aww. That was really sweet.
@@Vitaluv they still love with limits too - their limits are just based on the person’s personality rather than their physical abilities. And honestly Cole is an attractive guy, maybe she wouldn’t have been interested if his face was really unattractive. There are still limits in all kinds of love , it’s all conditional, because we don’t accept things like cruelty and excessive negativity and other things in our partners.
@@gabrielavilla7308 i disagree.
I just want to say that my wife and I have been married for so long that when we got married there were still states where our marriage was not legal. I'm white and she's African American. There's a lot of us out there. 30 yrs ago she had an accident and is a quad. We never have seen us as an interracial or interabled couple...we are just an awesome couple who have been in love for the past 56 years !
Wow 56 years that's awesome 💕💓💕
Sweet and Awesome!!
Oh wow. 56yrs. Awesome.
🤗🤗🤗
Wow...amazed!
These parents raised up some wonderful humans!
🤍😇
You can’t fake love and happiness. We have truly watched your relationship grow. You are so authentic.
Exactly ❤️
So true
True
Right ! I just started watching them and even I can see how much they love and care for each other
You can, you never seen it, it hard to see in video some times, in general you can try and hide your feelings.
i had a 4-5 yr old kid ask me if i was a super hero cause i had wires coming out of my ears...( i wear bilateral hearing aids) i thought it was the funniest thing
Lol kids are so genuine and innocent.
Amy Kimball .....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 fantastic! if only we could all be so childlike.....how great the world would be
Amy Kimball reminds me of the scripture at Psalms 8:2 “out of the mouth of babes and sucklings thou has perfected praise.” Children say the most endearing things. ❤️
That was cool.
kids are actually the best
Disability does not mean inability! Thanks for always displaying it!
I never harbored assumptions about you guys!! All I see is a couple in love that I fell in love with.. ❤️💜💙😍!!
I've shared you with my daughter, like, me, she adores you. This society is so screwed up some will make assumptions; take it from a grandma, continue growing in love for each other and may God continue blessing you and your families.
Right. A bomb ass couple. I love them
Wyndolyn Pappion
Ppl’s opinions are sometimes define by their own reality. No matter what there will always be ppl with skepticism no matter how much being significant they are with each other. They are not using the channel like it’s a peep show. They are genuine couple with true feelings. No one comes into a relationship of this magnitude of care and not love him or each other. They both have loving dedicated parents and in my book that’s a plus hundred percentage.
I wish them all the very best.
Wyndolyn Pappion ABSOLUTELY XOXOXO
I’m not sure how I came across y’all but I definitely see the love for each other in your eyes and words that you speak to each other... y’all are so beautiful together 🌹 from Texas.
Wow! These assumption imply a person with a disability cannot truly love someone or cannot be truly loved.....Come on people 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️.
Exactly, not cool!
Cole is so cool and I don’t think Charisma is fake. Love is shining on their faces. Such a sweet love is beautiful. Blessings 🌈❤️
Charisma is a Pisces and many of us are upbeat and look for the good in people and situations. I think this is a good match. He Taurus she Pisces. She has a bashful side to her but it is what it is. You too are my favorite couple and you always bring joy to your subscribers.
Love you guys!
Jeannette Duette You are right!!! I’m a Taurus ♉️ and my 2 greatest Love’s and my daddy are Pisces ♓️ we are the perfect match❤️🤣
You both exude love! I've been a paraplegic since 17. Here I am 29 years later💪....2 marriages/divorces😧...and 2 sons (21 & 15)...2 degrees...been employee & employer. My current mate (5yrs) has suffered kidney failure about a year ago and is on dialysis 3x week. A couple of months after starting dialysis, he loss vision and is now blind😎. We're best friends, lovers👯 and life mates. We're ALL lemons trynna make lemonade! 🍋💕🍋💕🍋💕
Aw sis I'm happy for you!Sending you lots of
💙.
I 😘 ve that 'we're all lemons trying to make lemonade❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Really??!!! Someone really assumed that you weren't really happy with each other?!!! What??? The way you guys look at each other... there's no doubt that you're happy and in love! ♥️ That was the first thing I noticed after watching the first time! 😊
It's my belief that whomever assumed they are not happy with each other feel this way, because they are unhappy in his/her own life.
@@mszan1 So true!
I thought the same as you!
Amen!
@Kubwa Na Zuri 👍
I was smiling the whole time. You are both wise beyond your years
Hey, Cole and Charisma! Don't worry abt assumptions of other ppl. I guess the most important thing is your perspective and the bond that you have.. The bond being LOVE ..I am sure you will pass all the obstacles that will come your way. Rock n roll guys! Much respect from the Philippines
They really are 😁
I feel like there are so many people with rude comments/assumptions targeted at Charisma. I wonder if the shoe were on the other foot, would people be as quick to drag Cole. LET'S STAY POSITIVE!!!!
@Prescieoues Angel. Very well said.
Girl rude as h***!
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They just dont understand how pure a heart can be because they dont have heart as pure.
Omg I was going to say that too.... God bless C&C....
My assumption is!!!!!
That you guys love each other very much💝🌸💝🌸💝🌸💝🌸💝🌸💝🌸
I’m trying so hard to get my son to see your journey ... he is depressed about being a quad. Your videos make me happy and hopeful ❤️
I feel for you son. I was born with Cerebral Palsy. Although mild, there was a whole list of things the doctors said I may never do. This understandably made me colossally cross, and credit to my parents, they told mr that they'd help me where they could but that I'd have to be the one to figure it out. We worked out how to get me on skis, how to get me on a mountain bike and how to get me outdoors. They wouldn't help me get on a motorcycle as they deemed it too dangerous, that's why it was all the more satisfying when I worked out how to do it on my own...and drive it from Utah to Mexico City, alone, 6 times. Point is, your son will be fine if you listen to him, help him with his passions within, reason and don't try too hard to rein him in if you don't entirely understand the direction he wants to take in life. Oh, and he'll probably find love too, because that yet another thing that many said might not happen for me.
I love ur spirit
From one mom to another who’s adult child is a quad. Get them to go out anyway if you can.
My daughter was born a quad so that is all she knows but it hasn’t stopped her. We have travelled over the country & to Mexico.
She goes on weekend vacations with friends.
Since COVID Zoom is a Big plus. There are forum for anything & it (Zoom) has actually been a blessing. FYI take care of yourself too. ❤️
Ir he look for africanan american he will get help and marry her like Cole african american can do that to take care of you nobody else do it like charisma
@@maritzadelgado9501 speaking of assumptions wtf is wrong with you?
MY GOD! You both look your best, Cole looks handsome, moreso than ever and Charisma looks beautiful. Love the braids because they draw attention to her lovely face. I always thought that Charisma is shy and private while Cole is overt and very demonstrative in his emotions. I just assumed Charisma has old fashion values. But the way she looks into Coles eyes and how she defers to him is very much that of a woman in love. Cole is very powerful as a man who has been loved and his confidence is attractive and he’s a good looking Alpha male. So he’s attractive. He hesitates because his physical circumstance may make him think before his responses but he’s no push over. It’s obvious that he’s strong willed and determined. Why else could he even be where he is or do all that he does? Love you guys so much! You represent authentic true love!
You guys know yourselves well, very mature and healthy. Love you.
God just made you for each other ,and put you together ! You are blessed . I love how you guys love.
Agreed! And So fortunate to have met them
Yes! I agree! Y’all are such a cute couple! God Bless y’all!
I had no assumption about you before watching except assuming I wasn’t going to be interested in your channel. Then I saw one clip and ..... haven’t stopped watching since! You’re both so adorable and funny .
Eden I also assumed I would be saddened by their channel when i saw that Cole was in wheelchair. But they have so inspired me. Such a lovely down to earth couple.
Nompilo Ndlovu I didn’t think I’d be saddened by them, I just didn’t get the feeling that it would be a channel I would have an interest in watching just from seeing the titles of their videos etc when they popped up on my sidebar. The first video I watched was the one where they met up with Shane and Hannah as I had been watching their vlogs and I just kept watching.
It is said that the first teachers come from home. I salute your parents who groomed you both so wonderfully. I am in love with your love. You guys are awesome..🙏🙏🙏
Me too
Same!!
Been married for 11 years with my current wife and 3 years with my first wife who passed away a few years ago. Both are beautiful black women and blessed to be with them. Cole is one who is very happy and Charisma, she knew and understood early on before both grew closer. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🙏🏼💜💯
You guys are amazing together. I am a part time chair user who is an RN and lives my life to fullest! You are an inspiration!
I notice that Cole is thinner. You’re doing great with the diet!
Yeah Cole lost quite a few pounds but he's handsome whether he is a little thick😘 or if he is slimmer very beautiful couple😍
Cole has a mega smile all the time. 😁😍
I think the dilemma for parents is that you want your child to be curious, but since children of a certain age don’t always know how to be curious without being rude (they’re still learning what is considered rude and polite) they will just say what they see. Sometimes it’s harmless like your experience other times it’s the child yelling and pointing “mom that lady’s skin is weird looking” That child may have had moments like that prior which may have caused the father to be nervous like “ugh here we go again”. So it’s really important that the parents explain to their child how to be curious in public. It takes a lot of repetition and patience. I’m a new mom and ECE student and I’m learning all of these little dilemmas. #prayforme lol Parenting has a lot of those situations where the answer seemed simple but then it happens to you and you’re like this is actually harder than I thought. Especially when it comes to explaining things to your child. Everything has to be broken down so they understand. Repetition, repetition, repetition is the key. I’m glad you were able to explain to the child their question and hopefully this helped the parents as well.
Jerseystarlet well said
Bellaisle I went to a tattoo shop my 4 year old said mommy why she so dirty?cause the lady had so many tattoos .
The person who wrote the assumption about “resentment” was speaking about their own character and was hung up on their own insecurities. It is probably inconceivable for them to believe that a person can be selfless in service to others.
Right exactly! People need to stop projecting their insecurities and un healthy relationships on them!
My mom really loves you both and shes making everyone subscribe to your channel . She says shes on a mission to help you all reach 200000
Aww!! She’s awesome!
I really love you guys you are amazing!
Good lawddddd!! Y'all are a good-looking couple! Those triplets will be gorgeous! 😍😍😍😍
Your love for one another and your positive energy shines. No assumptions on my part. Been watching your vlogs since day one.
Thanks for being genuine and encouraging others through your honesty. The interviews with your fam are the best!! Thanks for keeping it clean so all ages can benefit from your transparency and encouragement!
Anyone else who wishes they had such dads?
❤️ we have some pretty awesome dads
Far too many. 😐
That made me so happy when I saw them
So true cause mines is a drug addict and alcoholic and he abused my mom. So he was a donor not a Dad.
Oh my gosh, you just don’t know how I wished for that.
Charisma is beautiful and patient most women don't have that most patience, she's a true Gem
She's a unicorn.
@ Davis, are you patient your self ? People attract what they are.
Hi, Cole and Charisma! First of all, I know this comment is so long, but I have so much to say. 🤗 Thanks so much for making this video, it was thought provoking! I’m a new subscriber to your channel, but have seen a video of yours here and there beforehand. This past weekend I started binge-watching from the beginning 😁
I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate the awareness, education, inclusion, adaptivity and positivity you spread to everyone from your channel, in light of the challenges of physical disabilities.
A little about me: I was born with Spina Bifida 38 years ago - I am grateful I am not paralyzed and I am able to walk, but I have bowel/urinary issues, a shunt due to hydrocephalus/chiari malformation, poor balance and other issues with my feet. So, I can relate some, in that respect.
Anyway, having my own struggles led me in high school to want to do social work, so I went on to get my Bachelors degree in Social Work, and last year I graduated with my Masters degree in Social Work. Right now I’m working in community mental health to gain hours for LCSW licensure; but ultimately it’s my dream to open my own group homes in the community: 1 for people with disabilities, 1 for people with severe and persistent mental illness, and 1 for older adults. I want to help people remove whatever barriers they may have to living safely and happy in the community. I truly believe God has a plan and purpose for everyone, despite the challenges and dark times life brings 😊
Keep on doing what you do on your channel! 💗
I admire what you stand for... Thank God there are still people in this world like you.. My sister died of Spinal bifida 58 years ago.. Times were way different back then.. I wish you the very best in life and your adventures.. Much love 💗 from New Orleans 🎭🎼🎭
God always has a purpose for everyone that HE sents him or her to the world.. God bless you Cole and Charisma,,
Your story is so inspiring. Thanks for sharing. Indeed God has plan and purpose for all of us.
I love both your positive attitudes. Charisma I think you're a sweet heart & I love Cole's quick funny sarcasm "putting my foot down" I personally loved that.
I never had any assumptions about u2 you were a cute couple, and I loved your channel that’s why I started watching.
For sure, end of story!!!
Same
Exposure/exploitation: if anything, I'm using you guys! You're so wonderfully upbeat. Your joy ministers to my heart, which makes your videos really great therapy! Thanks for sharing your lives with us. It takes courage to be so transparent, especially in this day and age.
Wow Cole😍 you're looking really fit!! 💪
Cole ur making charisma blush, love it, u guys always make my day. Love u guys.
I really love how you guys address the caregiving assumptions. I never want to take away from caregivers, but I hate when people act like caregivers are either saints or that they must be resentful. In a relationship each partner contributes differently and I love how you guys highlight this and emphasize the equality in your relationship. Thank you for addressing these assumptions!!!
Cole and charisma, I love you both. I enjoy watching you both, you make the world full of happiness.
I didn't want to watch this because I figured it would piss me off. People can be so rude when hiding behind a keyboard. I would not have even acknowledged them but I guess this opened a dialogue about how assumptions are taken as facts when people don't know the entire story. You handled this with more grace than most would have
God bless.
You guys are the most beautiful couple ! I know from experience. I have been permantly disabled since 1974, and Cole to find such a amazing person like her is truely a blessing, keep doing this !you are putting disabled people out there and it awesome
Charisma is so beautiful!!!!!! I love her smile and she’s so genuine!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is an awesome vlog. I like that you dispel all the assumptions.
I love the clip at the beginning of the 2 dad’s photo bombing! They are like 2 good friends getting into mischief! 😂
Good topic to tackle. Rooting for you. Life is never a straight line.!!!
No assumptions, never would.
Love the beard too..
Your love for each other is precious.
I think it is ignorant to make assumptions, when we do not live your experiences! I love you guys and your positivity. I love you both as a couple, it is exciting to watch your adventures and the craziness sometimes!! BIG Blessings to you both!
Absolutely LOVED this video. Thank you for changing the world one video at a time, Cole and Charisma.
Hi my favorite couple i couldn't be more proud of ya'll if ya'll were my own son and daughter ya'll keep on amazing me every time i watch one of your video love ya'll so much
I love your parents and the togetherness of families makes me love this channel! Great video!
Love from Trinidad 🤗. This video is awesome. Keep doing you guys. 🤗
@Dragonettayeah that sucks not getting the opportunity to meet grandparents. My grandparents on my father side were from St. Vincent, never met them, my grandmother died before I was born and years later my grandfather passed😥Come visit us you will love it here! 🇹🇹
Trinis in the house!🇹🇹
Love from Trinidad
Trini's in the house. Much love to this couple.
I adore your transparency! Some people are insensitive, but you're right... Positivity is the key. My 21-year-old son has a prosthetic eye and a scar from brain surgery. In grade school and Jr high he struggled some because people were cruel, however, we consistently encouraged him and helped him build confidence to know he has a place in this world and a purpose. Around 8th grade the stares stopped bothering him, he would even use the moment to share his story. You two are awesome. Keep sharing your story and making a difference. 🤗
My favorite couple Blessings ✌️🍀 🌹😎😘😘 😘
😘😗😘😗😘😗😙😚😙😚
Your vlog is positive but you are human and no person is positive all the time, I think your vlog is uplifting beautiful, a wonderful couple, not always easy but great people thank you both
You guys’d are so amazing,and authentic ! I just pray and wish you the best .
"Don't be so distant"
"Don't be untouchable" 😂.
I laughed so hard
Right
Same
My first impressions of you were that you are young, bright, well adjusted and well educated people who are madly in love with one another. I wish I could be as accepting of my new physicality as you are, Cole. I'm 62 years old and I'm in my 20th year as a quad. Your positivity is so inspiring. Thank you for putting such a positive face on quadriplegia.
❤️
I’m not sure exactly how I ended up on your page, but it is truly inspiring for the disabled community. Thank you for being so honest about your experiences and continuing to spread your love ❤️
People hate what they refuse to understand and that's their problem you two are very genuine with each other so that's all we care about 💜💙Stay true
I was shopping and a kid asked why I’m in a stroller. I explained to the child that when you are young, you can’t walk very well, so you need a stroller. My big stroller is called a wheelchair. I need it because my legs don’t walk very well. Then I let her beep my horn. Kid hooked! Mom then loosened up and we chatted about real life. Mom said she never talked to a disabled person before. I encouraged her to engage in conversations with the disabled as much as he would any other stranger.
I wept profusely the first day I watched you guys 🥰😍, I was so moved by you two, never assumed anything at all..People and their mind though. I love your positivity 🙏🏽
@cole @charisma... You know what they say about people who assume!! That's what these people are.
You guys are the real deal. I can tell that both of you are "glass half-full" type people. Having that as a base is a beautiful thing in life. Down times are going to happen and thanks for elaborating on that in this video. Your truthfullness is very inspriring, so thank you.
I don't know but I love watching them . There is definitely something different about you guys.
They are an awesome and most adorable couple having a magnetic attraction for each other.
I’ve watched a lot of interviews done by people in wheelchairs on TH-cam esp on SBSK and almost all of them prefer people come up to them and ask questions over just staring. That definitely makes sense to me. I really don’t think I would be hesitant to ask you guys about Coles disability as you both look very approachable. ❤️
I was never a TH-cam fan, however I was working with a patient with a disability while doing some research your video pop up where Charisma saw you stand for the first time. Your channel was my first subscription about fall last year, and I continue to enjoy your Vlogs. You two keep loving on each other. God bless.👏👌👍💝🎉🎊❤
Keep loving each other and keep living your happy life
Why in the hell would she stay with him if she resented helping him? Come on people. We do things for the people we love! I take care of my kids but I don’t resent them....or how about taking care of an elderly parent? Would you resent them?
I had a teacher in elementary school that explained that people in wheel chairs have the same feelings as others, so always treat all people the way you want to be treated. Don't look away smile say Hi etc. Thank you Mrs. Bookstable
This...this is what I needed to see! Thanks TH-cam for recommending this!
I love when charisma looks at you.
When i first ran into your channel yesterday, I was wondering and curious. My "Assumptions" where 3 and 9. I am more educated now than i was before watching your channel. So thanks for educating us!
This video is so well done, your both very educational and classy.
The energy you guys give off is amazing and you genuinely loves each other. Keep up the great work thanks for sharing.
10:54 - "Cole loves you so much that he doesn't want to see you near any other males"
To any inexperienced /young people out there, that's not love, that's control and at worst, abuse.
He also said he's ok with her being around other guy's. He's secure in the relationship
I absolutely adore the two of you. I love watching all of your videos. I love the way you two relate to one another. Keep on doing what you're doing. Watching the two of you inspires me to always look at the bright side of things in life. Love from Dover, Delaware & God Bless you both.
I assume you guys truly love each other and are committed to spending your lives together taking on each challenge & triumph with open minds and unconditional LOVE!!!
You can always feel yalls energy through the screen, you guys are beautiful 💜🌺
Charisma are you by chance related to Eartha Kitt? You look so much like her!
Hahah I’ve gotten that a lot! But not that I know of!
Dumb question!
Wow. That was mean.
@@jeannetteduette6704 I don't think it's a dumb question. I've seen that question a lot. In fact when my daughter watched it she asked that same question. I didn't know who she was had to google her.
There is a resemblance
I had a lot of assumptions about you guys but the more I watched your channel, I was definitely proven wrong. Just like charisma said don’t be afraid to ask questions and stay positive thanks C&C squad 👍🏽😍😍
I don't know if I should cry or laugh at the questions about the authenticity of your love and of the struggles you face!! I'm always amazed at how much humans can be mean and inconsiderate
Assumptions?
I don't remember which of your videos I watched for the first time, but I do remember that in the beginning of that video, for whatever reason, I didn't realize that Cole was in a wheelchair. It was toward the end that I understood the situation, and by that time, every assumption I could have thought of was busted. I found both of you very refreshing. I was sorry to find out that Cole was disabled, but very quickly, I was pretty confident that he can turn just about every situation life dishes out into something positive.
As far as Charisma was concerned, I wasn't aware at first that she was Cole's girlfriend - but that was only because the first thing I heard about her was that she was into physical therapy, and so I thought the relationship was professional. Again, that assumption went away almost as soon as it was formed because of the chemistry that is so obvious between the two of you.
I enjoy watching your channel and think you are both doing a much-needed service to those of us who have never experienced these challenges. In your end of the universe, you've educated a lot of people and made the unknown a little less scary.
My assumption is that You guys would have fallen in love...even if you had met under different conditions...
Omg........ who else is up past 12am watching their addictive videos 🤦😁
Me
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3 am!
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I came across your channel this last week and I've been hooked ever since. Subscribed after the very first video clip I watched which was highly unusual for me, but I'm so glad I did 😍
Thank you for being such an inspiration and your positivity truly shines through your vlogs.
Much love from Nigeria ❤❤
You guys are sooo sweet......a perfect match! I love you both sooo much and watching your videos always brings a smile to my face. 😊 😍🥰❣❤💗🥰
My assumption: That you are each extremely lucky to have the other. Cole, handsome, easy-going (as he says, unless responding to someone coming at him), loving, charming, funny, resourceful, and oh, so courageous in his coming to terms with his situation. Charisma, beautiful, giving, loving, charming, funny, accepting, resourceful, and oh, so courageous for taking on the difficulties, a rare spirit. See, I ended up using the same adjectives to describe each of you. A beautifully matched couple, each with supportive families.
I can’t wait to watch this after work 💜💜💜 I just started watching y’all a few weeks ago and have almost made it through all your videos. Y’all are a beautiful couple!!
Oh my gosh you guys - I have just found your channel and you are such an inspirational couple, such positivity...I am not going to make any assumptions, I am going to binge watch all your videos...loving what I see already 🔥
I think with some of these so-called assumptions that people were being malicious to her.
Cole is so hilarious! I love his spirit. I love the natural chemistry and love between the two of you. Thank you for being a beautiful example of true love.
Sending you lots of love and light! ❤️
Colors don't fall in love. People do. 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
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Exactly
You two are so cute.😊Your relationship is really special.💜
Dude did you crack your neck!? Aren’t you scared of that ? I move my neck slightly in the crack position it hurts.
Love how sarcastic you both are I was laughing the whole time. 😂
Great video guys!
ihop my videos?
I know it hurts me when my neck cracks
glad to watch you sending much love and support from France
Who writes such negative comments? Cole and Charisma you are spectacular. Stay positive. :)
You two have a beautiful soul,I love 💕 watching you guys.
My assumption: I thought Cole was a good looking dude! Charisma is exactly Charismatic! She is kind, sweet and thoughtful! I love their bond x
You guys are made for each other. So sweet.
I can feel both of your spirits! God bless you both!
When I first saw you two, I immediately new you HAD to be a couple because the VIBES were so strong between the two of you.
You know what I also noticed, was that it took me a while to notice Coles disability because I was so focused on the beautiful love you share between you...it reminds me of how my boyfriend and I love each other; very rarely do we disagree on anything and we laugh a lot too! We always do these silly sketches/scenarios where we pretend to be different characters (No, not sex roll play) and it's filled with humour and we always have each other in absolute
stitches! 🤣 We are both really funny, which is great!
Btw, I'm a female and I'm Black British, but I like to call myself an AfroCariBrit
🇬🇭 🇩🇲 🇬🇧 👩🏾🦱
My boyfriend is White British with a Jewish, Polish heritage
🇮🇱 🇵🇱 🇬🇧 🧔🏻
Wishing you both the ABSOLUTE BEST.
LOVE STRONG ❤