Happiness is an inside job. Anyone who doesn't understand why Charisma is bubbly, doesn't understand that. Cole does a wonderful job supporting and enhancing Charisma's authentic happiness. I love watching you two, and finally became a member here after starting over on Patreon. Keep on being you and loving one another. PS. Love both your families, and kinda miss seeing them all together with you two.
I really love you both I pray God Almighty bless you with a child.Keep strong and healthy loving each other.I will keep you both in prayer, Esther Trinidad.
Hey Cole, and Charisma, Blessings 🙌 Always to you both, Stay positive and Lovely as you both are! 😊 I'm always Happy for you! 😊😊😊you're such a Blessing in deguise!
Do not give up on kids,but again do not over delay,this is the right time when you still young and have the energy.Start trying now and wish you all the best.
Cole And Charisma!! Oh Lord!! There Are So Many Unhappy People In This Beautiful World We Live In. You Both Bring Joy, Laughter And Happiness To So Many People!! .. Don't Let Those Unhappy People Affect You In Any Way!! .. Just Toss Those Wicked Comments Over Your Shoulder Like Loose Sand Particles!! .. We Love Seeing You Both Loving ON Each Other And Sharing Your Joy!! .. God Bless You Forever!! ❤❤❤
You Brilliant Stars...I have been struggling with mobility issues and have been hospitalized and had occupational and physical therapy. The insurance stopped and I have been practicing (with my husband's help) using a walker, but I still need assistance and we use a transport chair. This is just say, thank you guys for the loving encouragement, Your loving vibrations come through the screen. Having a life partner as a true friend; I am a witness.💕💖💥
I really enjoy the accessibility content you provide. However, the main reason I watch your channel is that your relationship reminds me of the relationship my parents had during the 55 years they were married before my mother passed away. I remember, on Sunday mornings, my parents would have their heads together working through the New York Times crossword puzzle. They would laugh and tease each other. Many couples fail as a result of far less pressure than you endure. As long as each of you knows the other has your back, you'll endure. Blessings to you both.
I always love the assumptions videos. Some assumptions I laugh at and others I almost get angry at but I'm happy everytime to watch it because it means people are watching and really thinking about you, not just for entertainment purposes alone. Thanks guys
Fertility is the worst! After 5 years of trying we adopted our son who is now 14. I still feel the sting. As you talk about your infertility I feel all the feels. So hard. If you are meant to be parents you will be and you will be great ones!! And nothing wrong with showing your best to us! Hard days and sleeplessness is reality. Doesn’t mean you have to show us❤. Love you guys!
Thanks for keeping it real with your subscribers 😊 I have cerebral palsy and epilepsy. My husband is able bodied and we’ve been together for almost 31 years … happily married for over 29 years 🩷 My husband gets questions about his happiness all the time. He always says that if I didn’t ❤ her then, I wouldn’t have proposed in less than 3 months because I knew we were meant to be together. He also says that he thinks that he knew what my condition was and my limitations. We always agree that people that have trauma or other medical issues that occur after a couple is married can truly be very difficult because it turns your world upside down. So, you’re absolutely right about staying positive 🙏❤️😀
I hope for them too ❤ 🙏🏽 please always be yourself, haters will hate, I pray one of the options you have will work for you, but please don’t give up if it’s IVF you have to go through again please do🙏🏽 a TH-camr called Fumi desalu Vold who got married at age 40 tried 9 IVF before having her son and today you can see the joy in her eyes anytime she mentions her son, you could see in her eyes all what she went through was worth it. Another couple is Destene and Brandon, they tried the first IVF, they did everything possible to make the first time work but it didn’t, they later sat to think they took matters into their own hands so they decided they were going to try for the second time but this time around leave everything in God’s hands and booom it worked for them. These are testimonies, am saying these testimonies to you guys to encourage you, please do not forget God in all your doings and he will make things beautiful in his time, Charisma you have a supportive husband and Coles you have a supportive wife. Wishing you all well in your endeavors. I hope hope this message finds you well. Much Love❤
@@coleandcharismaIt's a damn shame some people have to feel entitled to to talk crazy to you guys. As if you're supposes to care about them when they don't pay not one bill in your house. Smdh. .
One thing that helped my husband and I conceive was finding out when I was actually ovulating. I invested in the really cheap tests off of amazon and started testing a lot sooner and continued testing until my period started, and I was ovulating almost 2 weeks after I was supposed to and we followed the sperm meets egg plan and got pregnant right away and that is after having two iui babies.
I have watched you two since the beginning and I realized tonight that I don't even "see" Coles disability anymore. I enjoy watching you grow in your relationship as a young couple working through life.❤
Me, Three...One can get through ANY THING ... Just look at BOTH of your STRENGTHS & YOUR desires...sometimes it just takes REST.. I hear you girl, TRYING IS FUN!! ❤ 🤣
@dianesembly9606 N @coleandcharisma SAME N I LOVE 💗 IT IT’S GOTTA BE THE VIRGINIA NATIVES VIBES I’M FROM THEIR TOO BUT I LIVE IN GEORGIA (THE STATE) WHERE MY MOM IS FROM (SHE MOVED BACK HERE N I MOVED WITH HERE IN 2017
Some of the most intense, personal and sometimes our FUNNIEST CONVERSATIONS my life partner & I have been in complete darkness, I feel like THIS is when we are at our closest... Chrisma asked when will she be tired of Cole. Personally speaking, I am disabled as well & stay at home due to being on lung transplant list and too worried of picking up a bacterial or any type of infections I keep my bottom in the house. Joe on the other hand works and comes home to help me. Bit, when he walks through the door I am excited to just hear about his day at work or just cuddle up on the couch to watch some TV or a movie we have been together for 25 years (in August) and he is my best friend to this day! Not tired of him yet!! I think as well as you two communicate you both will be like us!! I will keep you all on my prayers 😊😊
As a disabled person I have challenging days as I think everyone does, disabled or not, every body has their own set of difficulties and challenges throughout their life time.
What other people think of you doesn’t matter. You know who you are. Again, I was one of your original followers. To witness your remarkable journey has been nothing short of inspiring. Proud to a see a couple from RVA stepping out on faith and fearlessly living out your dreams. You guys are the epitome of L. O. V. E‼️Keep going… May God continue to cover you both . 🙏🏾
Love you guys - your commentary is always great, informative and educational. May God continue to bless you both. Please don’t ever change, we need more people like you in this world 💜
I’ve been watching you guys since Covid! Maybe it’s just you guys growing up or being more comfortable on camera, but you guys seem so much more settled and close with each other, it’s so sweet!
Long comment!! Again, “Haters are going to hate!!” When y’all receive all those negative comments from HATERS, they’re basically BOTS, I repeat BOTS living in their Mamas Basement!! BOTS living in their Mamas basements who are looking for hate, & drama, they’re jealous, THEY HAVE NO LIFE!! 🙄 Haters will NEVER separate y’all’s Beautiful, Inseparable, Genuine, Unconditional Love!! Y’all’s Unconditional Love for each other is WARRIOR STRONG!! Charisma you are Coles Beautiful Queen, & He’s your Handsome King!! 👑 & Cole, & Charisma Y’all have y’all’s own Bio family, & y’all have y’all’s friends who will ALWAYS have y’all’s back!! & Then, you also have us your internet/virtual family who also will ALWAYS have yall’s back as well!! Long story short, you will ALWAYS have people who have y’all’s back, & Who absolutely LOVE You both So Much!! 💯 Haters only make y’all’s Beautiful, Genuine, Unconditional Love for one another just GROW EVEN STRONGER!! If HATERS have the time for hate then THEY NEED A LIFE!! 💯 Cole, & Charisma FOREVER, PERIOD!! 🥰 I just LOVE You both So Much, y’all are THE BEST!! 💜💜
Well said well explained I love it !! I want to 100% agree with you. Haters are going to always hate... but the way to beat them is to get stronger and like you said he and she has support from her their internet family,real families and Friends! 👌🏽👍✌🙏🏽🤗
When I first ‘met’ yall it was charisma shopping for a wedding dress. I said “oh she’s gonna look STUNNING” in whatever she picks. And I was right. Sometimes assumptions are completely spot on. ❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰
Can you guys do a video about the difficult things about the track chair? As a wheelchair user myself I love that those chairs exist!! But they're very expensive and difficult to transport and not a viable option for everyone. I feel like the costs of disability (especially monetary ones) are often forgotten when sharing products like that. Would love to hear y'all talk about it. (I also think that viral reel was adorable, tf is wrong with people?? ❤️)
Absolutely! We’ve responded to a few comments about the costs and plan on doing a more in depth video about transporting it around, but we could definitely talk more about it. Maybe during this Wednesday live!
Thanks you for sharing this part of your day with us. I think you two work well together. Always keep your courtship going, because it doesn't end on the day you get married. I loved that colour blue top on you, Charisma, and I think Cole does too, his looks toward you were so adoring. I think you both "like like" each other too. It shows. All the best.
I really like that comment, Cole.... as an older person, i never heard that you significant other is an extension of yourself. That is adorable and very mature, Cole. 😊
You two are not only amazing together but separate you are two wonderful human beings! I AM SO HAPPY YOU FOUND EACH OTHER‼️WHAT YOU HAVE IS SUCH A BLESSING AND YOU KNOW IT‼️If you read this please understand no I am not saying they are perfect by no means. I just feel they are two great human beings that’s it‼️🙏🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾
I really can't imagine how anyone doubts the genuineness of you two. You're perfectly matched, clearly solemates, true equal partners, and everything a modern relationship SHOULD be. You two and Shane and Hannah are just goals on steroids. Still waiting for that channel called Wheels 'n Heels for the 4 of you!!! I guess I've watched you so long I don't really see you as an interabled or interracial couple anymore, but just a super fun couple to watch. Frankly, he's far more capable than either of my two ex husbands who were able bodied but weak minded. lol The wheelchair is just part of him, but it isn't HIM, you know? He's funny as hell and you two always make me laugh with your antics. I enjoy seeing the adventures you have, even the simple ones. He's by no stretch of the imagination helpless. I probably did more for my exes than Charisma has to do for him. lol He helps her so much! Some of the things she does are just different than the norm, but it's still a task and all wives do a crapton of tasks for their husbands and households every day. I don't see it as any different, just some of the tasks are unique to them just as other wives have tasks unique to their spouses. Tasks are tasks and we just do them. At least Cole helps with a lot of them which is more than many wives can say!
Desde la pandemia descubrí este canal. Desde entonces hasta hoy la depresión ha estado en mi vida. Vi su historia, veo sus videos, trato de traducir porque mi inglés no es bueno. Sin embargo, quisiera expresar lo agradecida que me siento. Sus videos me han ayudado tanto. Me encanta como disfrutan la vida estando juntos. Deseo que Dios los cuide y los bendiga siempre.
Hi Cole & Chrisma..new to your channel! What a joy both of you are!! Real genuine...so wonderful together...never change!! Anyone who says negative things are happy inside..so read it and then say a pray for those people to find peace and then move on!! Looking forward to catching up on your videos!! Stay just the way you both are!!😊
Ok you made me laugh again. And HOW could anyone think you’re faking happiness, both of you radiant joy. I appreciate the fact you make a point to be family friendly, I personally don’t want to hear the other. Thank you. 💗
You both do a great job explaining things to ppl. You really bring us into your space and make us feel a part of your world; you know, like a friend! Thanks. Also, @23:20ish I was laughing so hard, when y’all were talking about dancing and Cole said he wishes he could stand to dance and you could “throw it back on him “ and you casually said “ I do that with you in your wheelchair” lol😂 I just keep singing “ throw that a** in a circle” lol IYKYK. On the real though, you two are true couple goals and solid human beings!💕🙏🏽
After the wheelchair comment, I must say that I thought the trac wheelchair was fantastic! It’s fun to try new things. It reminded me of BMX biking, except Charisma was there to save Cole (if he needed it). ❤
"Different kind of prick" made me chuckle. I'd call that a family-friendly comment; that's one of those things you don't understand as a kid but laugh at when you look back. 😂
The "assumptions make an arse out of you and me" comment is as common amongst mayo folk as walking back in the house to grab the keys and announcing, "Can't get very far without these!" through a goofy grin 🥲🫠
Keep the faith Charisma and hubby, GOD'S TIMING IS PERFECT. ONLY GOD KNOWS THE PLANS FOR BOTH OF YOU! YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE, BLESS THEM PLEASE DEAR GOD WITH THEIR HEARTS DESIRES. PSALM 23...LOVE BOTH OF YOU. ❤❤
I'm glad to see you are okay. I saw the news about the forest fire in California. I wasn't sure if it was near you. I love you ❤ This was a great video.🙂
Y'all are so wonderful and beautiful! I'm appreciative of y'all even sharing anything with us. Blessings Charisma and Cole! Cole, thanks for your transparency of saying you would love to get up and dance and salsa dance...
I go sleep late as well but I read that it’s not about how long you sleep but how early. In other words, going sleep earlier and waking up early is better for the body than going sleep late and waking up late. 🤷🏽♀️
I Absolutely Love Viola Davis, She’s such a Beautiful talented Queen, yet still remains HUMBLE even with all her fame!! “My Grandmother, My Angel” was a HUGE fan of hers also. she LOVED her so much!! I broke down into tears when you said her name. Aww. My Heart!! 🥹😭💜💜
@@coleandcharisma, Absolutely!! But, why be shocked? She Loves Y’all like countless of us do!! All three of you are so Loving, Sweet, & Absolutely Beautiful from the inside, out!! 🥹🥰💜💜
Everything works in God's perfect timing. Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 3:6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.❤
My husband and I moved cross country 15 years ago, everything was new. Jobs, home, friends, literally everything changed. It was so good for us. You two are doing a great job. Being best friends is so important. You need to be able to know that your partner truly has your back.
Hey guys, Love how strong and supportive you both are for each other. Can I ask how Cole manages to prepare food/have meals when he is home alone? My husband is quadriplegic and we're working on how we can spend some healthy time away from each other. ❤
Hey guys , listen anybody that say they don’t have argument in their relationship, they are not in a healthy relationship. Anyway, I lave Cole’s humor, he always makes me laugh. Your relationship is real and as long as you keep God as the head of your life, you guys are going to be fine. Forget the haters. I love you both.❤
You are so beautiful together! When I need to feel positive I look for your videos. My assumption is that when the exoskeleton become more sophisticated cole will be able to dance salsa.
Love you two! I always feel genuine and upbeat vibes from you two. And when you talk about the tough, deep topics, I love those convos too. You’re real.
Like # 4.2k plus 1, thank you Cole & Charisma for sharing & enlightening the audience. In my humble opinion, I agree w/your thoughts about IVF (been there, done that & it didnt work). My hubby & I took it easy after all of the things we put ourselves through, became pregnant naturally & lost our baby at 37.5 weeks. We now have healthy, successful 22 yr. old twins. We have been together for 28 yrs. & married for 26.5 yrs. Please do not allow ANYONE to pressure you two about having children or ANYTHING in your lives. You two share segments w/"the world", but no one has the right to tell you how to live. Take care of each other, & continue to love, honor & respect each other. Thank you Cole & Charisma for making me smile & taking me along on your journey through life. Tina in Cali 😊
I think try naturally would be much better for you guys. There are ovulation kits to tell you when you’re ovulating and when the time is right and it just feels better to do it that way emotionally and mentally.
I totally enjoyed this upbeat, informative video. I've followed you guys for years and admire and appreciate your content. Thanks for brightening my evening.
I’ve watched u guys from day one ,, I think u guys r beautiful!! The love & respect u have for each other is awesome!! If there r people that r hating on u ,, those r the most unhappy,people with themselves.pls Continue to show & express yr love & life .. some of us love u guys !! Stay safe & healthy 🥰
Charisma, girl, you being joyful is wonderful 😁! You both are such a light, especially in this world of social media negativity. People need positivity. It’s not your responsibility to make ppl happy, but you’re content can help bring some joy into viewers lives.
AWE HONS THERE ARE ALOT OF UNHAPPY PEOPLE OUT THERE UNFORTUNATELY AND THE ONLY THINGS U CAN DO IS TRY AND JUST PAST THEM BY …AND WATCHING COLE RIDE HIS RIDEING HIS WHEELCHAIR I LAUGHED TO SEE HOW HAPPY HE IS , WHAT A AWESOME CHAIR TO BE ABLE TO HAVE ONE OF THOSE ….U TO ARE SUCH A CUTE COUPLE ALL THE BEST TO U ALL . XO. LOVE TORONTO, 🍁
Love from RVA!! You guys are great and I think we all know relationships and life in general are not always 💃🏻. The best any of us can do is deal with the struggles one by one. I know folks can be unkind and comments can hurt your hearts, but just block anyone sending negative energy.
You guys are such a beautiful loving couple. One person wrote We are your internet Virtual Family and friends that love you guys!! And will always be rooting for the best for you guys. So keep doing what you're doing God has your back always!! ❤🎉🤗👌🏽🙏🏽
Charisma looks lovely in that shade of blue
I agree, and Cole looks good in the black! Nice Combo.
I agree! They look really good in this video. They compliment each other so well.
Absolutely, she does. They both exudes Charisma in a nice way... Very attractive couple 😊🎉
That color is very becoming on her.
You two are so beautiful together.
Thank you ❤
@JennyRose1776 N @coleandcharisma I SECOND THIS
@coleandcharisma, beautiful couple.
You mustn't lose hope and pray a lot.
Happiness is an inside job. Anyone who doesn't understand why Charisma is bubbly, doesn't understand that. Cole does a wonderful job supporting and enhancing Charisma's authentic happiness. I love watching you two, and finally became a member here after starting over on Patreon. Keep on being you and loving one another. PS. Love both your families, and kinda miss seeing them all together with you two.
Yessss you’re so right! Cole’s the best 🥰🥰 thank you for joining! We will be hope with our family soooo soon! I can’t wait 🥰
an inside job! thank you for that.
13:58 here you are, talking about serious things and making me laugh ❤❤
I really love you both
I pray God Almighty bless you with a child.Keep strong and healthy loving each other.I will keep you both in prayer, Esther Trinidad.
Hey Cole, and Charisma, Blessings 🙌 Always to you both, Stay positive and Lovely as you both are! 😊 I'm always Happy for you! 😊😊😊you're such a Blessing in deguise!
Do not give up on kids,but again do not over delay,this is the right time when you still young and have the energy.Start trying now and wish you all the best.
Cole and Charisma don’t listen to people when the right time comes you both will have a healthy beautiful baby
Yes don’t lessen people just try with god ❤❤wish you the best happy life
Keep trying Charisma. We have a beautiful daughter IVF and she's a college graduate, recently married and doing well in life ❤
Cole And Charisma!! Oh Lord!! There Are So Many Unhappy People In This Beautiful World We Live In. You Both Bring Joy, Laughter And Happiness To So Many People!! .. Don't Let Those Unhappy People Affect You In Any Way!! .. Just Toss Those Wicked Comments Over Your Shoulder Like Loose Sand Particles!! .. We Love Seeing You Both Loving ON Each Other And Sharing Your Joy!! .. God Bless You Forever!! ❤❤❤
You Brilliant Stars...I have been struggling with mobility issues and have been hospitalized and had occupational and physical therapy. The insurance stopped and I have been practicing (with my husband's help) using a walker, but I still need assistance and we use a transport chair. This is just say, thank you guys for the loving encouragement, Your loving vibrations come through the screen. Having a life partner as a true friend; I am a witness.💕💖💥
Please ignore negative people and their comments. I think you compliment each other, such a beautiful couple.
It's hard to ignore the 'sore thumb', but remember those of us that love you and your content.
Forget the negative naggers after 5 minutes. ❤️
I can see that she's happy in her relationship.Thank you both for being great content creators
I love watching your videos, you both are so real and authentic 💯❤️🇯🇲
You’re so sweet! Thank you 🤍🤍
I really enjoy the accessibility content you provide. However, the main reason I watch your channel is that your relationship reminds me of the relationship my parents had during the 55 years they were married before my mother passed away. I remember, on Sunday mornings, my parents would have their heads together working through the New York Times crossword puzzle. They would laugh and tease each other. Many couples fail as a result of far less pressure than you endure. As long as each of you knows the other has your back, you'll endure. Blessings to you both.
I always love the assumptions videos. Some assumptions I laugh at and others I almost get angry at but I'm happy everytime to watch it because it means people are watching and really thinking about you, not just for entertainment purposes alone. Thanks guys
We agree! I’m always curious to hear the assumptions. These assumptions were pretty nice this time 😅
@winumi… N @coleandcharisma SAME N SAME
Don't give up trying for kids, God will surely remember you
Fertility is the worst! After 5 years of trying we adopted our son who is now 14. I still feel the sting. As you talk about your infertility I feel all the feels. So hard. If you are meant to be parents you will be and you will be great ones!!
And nothing wrong with showing your best to us! Hard days and sleeplessness is reality. Doesn’t mean you have to show us❤. Love you guys!
Lovely comment ❤
❤👍
I love this couple. God brought this union together-they were meant for each other.
“I am not a monk. I’m a quadriplegic” 💀🤣
@marsasmr8 LOL 😂 IKR BUT HE’S NOT WRONG NEITHER AM I
Hilarious statement Cole! 😂
I love how you work as a great team, caregivers to each other! That's what becoming one is what it's all about.
Thanks for keeping it real with your subscribers 😊 I have cerebral palsy and epilepsy. My husband is able bodied and we’ve been together for almost 31 years … happily married for over 29 years 🩷 My husband gets questions about his happiness all the time. He always says that if I didn’t ❤ her then, I wouldn’t have proposed in less than 3 months because I knew we were meant to be together. He also says that he thinks that he knew what my condition was and my limitations. We always agree that people that have trauma or other medical issues that occur after a couple is married can truly be very difficult because it turns your world upside down.
So, you’re absolutely right about staying positive 🙏❤️😀
Yr hubby is gem
If there's any ppl i think deserve kids the most, it's y'all
🥹🥹🥹 thank you
@SaintShion N @coleandch… SAME N YA’LL R WELCOME WE REAL TRUE CNC FANS LOVE 💗 U BOTH
I hope for them too ❤ 🙏🏽 please always be yourself, haters will hate, I pray one of the options you have will work for you, but please don’t give up if it’s IVF you have to go through again please do🙏🏽 a TH-camr called Fumi desalu Vold who got married at age 40 tried 9 IVF before having her son and today you can see the joy in her eyes anytime she mentions her son, you could see in her eyes all what she went through was worth it. Another couple is Destene and Brandon, they tried the first IVF, they did everything possible to make the first time work but it didn’t, they later sat to think they took matters into their own hands so they decided they were going to try for the second time but this time around leave everything in God’s hands and booom it worked for them. These are testimonies, am saying these testimonies to you guys to encourage you, please do not forget God in all your doings and he will make things beautiful in his time, Charisma you have a supportive husband and Coles you have a supportive wife. Wishing you all well in your endeavors. I hope hope this message finds you well. Much Love❤
Facts
@@coleandcharismaIt's a damn shame some people have to feel entitled to to talk crazy to you guys. As if you're supposes to care about them when they don't pay not one bill in your house. Smdh.
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One thing that helped my husband and I conceive was finding out when I was actually ovulating. I invested in the really cheap tests off of amazon and started testing a lot sooner and continued testing until my period started, and I was ovulating almost 2 weeks after I was supposed to and we followed the sperm meets egg plan and got pregnant right away and that is after having two iui babies.
I have watched you two since the beginning and I realized tonight that I don't even "see" Coles disability anymore. I enjoy watching you grow in your relationship as a young couple working through life.❤
Me too
I wholeheartedly agree!
Me, Three...One can get through ANY THING ... Just look at BOTH of your STRENGTHS & YOUR desires...sometimes it just takes REST.. I hear you girl, TRYING IS FUN!! ❤ 🤣
Charisma's Dad does have lots of energy. 😊
Sooo much! 😂
@dianesembly9606 N @coleandcharisma SAME N I LOVE 💗 IT IT’S GOTTA BE THE VIRGINIA NATIVES VIBES I’M FROM THEIR TOO BUT I LIVE IN GEORGIA (THE STATE) WHERE MY MOM IS FROM (SHE MOVED BACK HERE N I MOVED WITH HERE IN 2017
Some of the most intense, personal and sometimes our FUNNIEST CONVERSATIONS my life partner & I have been in complete darkness, I feel like THIS is when we are at our closest... Chrisma asked when will she be tired of Cole. Personally speaking, I am disabled as well & stay at home due to being on lung transplant list and too worried of picking up a bacterial or any type of infections I keep my bottom in the house. Joe on the other hand works and comes home to help me. Bit, when he walks through the door I am excited to just hear about his day at work or just cuddle up on the couch to watch some TV or a movie we have been together for 25 years (in August) and he is my best friend to this day! Not tired of him yet!! I think as well as you two communicate you both will be like us!! I will keep you all on my prayers 😊😊
You two are a perfect match. It’s so nice to watch you two growing together.
As a disabled person I have challenging days as I think everyone does, disabled or not, every body has their own set of difficulties and challenges throughout their life time.
Amen 💞
I THIRD THIS AS I AM A 34 DISABLED N WHEELCHAIR BOUND WOMEN MYSELF
Truth 💯
What other people think of you doesn’t matter. You know who you are. Again, I was one of your original followers. To witness your remarkable journey has been nothing short of inspiring. Proud to a see a couple from RVA stepping out on faith and fearlessly living out your dreams. You guys are the epitome of L. O. V. E‼️Keep going… May God continue to cover you both . 🙏🏾
Well Said 🙏😊
@jcox4567 N @donnacain9… SAME N SAME
Love you guys - your commentary is always great, informative and educational. May God continue to bless you both. Please don’t ever change, we need more people like you in this world 💜
That was a very sweet comment. Thank you ❤
@emmyruiz4057 N @coleandcharisma SAME N SAME
Don't give up on having kids you both would make great parents, if anyome deserves to have kids it's you guys, emotionally mature people 👍
That Carolina Blue shirt is 🔥 on you Beautiful Queen!! 😍🩵
Thank you! 🥰
@Monicmem1964, Same, first thing I noticed also. 🩵🩵
Absolutely love that blue on her but Cole looks hot 🔥 in that black shirt too.
You two are beautiful souls!
I’ve been watching you guys since Covid! Maybe it’s just you guys growing up or being more comfortable on camera, but you guys seem so much more settled and close with each other, it’s so sweet!
Long comment!! Again, “Haters are going to hate!!” When y’all receive all those negative comments from HATERS, they’re basically BOTS, I repeat BOTS living in their Mamas Basement!! BOTS living in their Mamas basements who are looking for hate, & drama, they’re jealous, THEY HAVE NO LIFE!! 🙄 Haters will NEVER separate y’all’s Beautiful, Inseparable, Genuine, Unconditional Love!! Y’all’s Unconditional Love for each other is WARRIOR STRONG!! Charisma you are Coles Beautiful Queen, & He’s your Handsome King!! 👑 & Cole, & Charisma Y’all have y’all’s own Bio family, & y’all have y’all’s friends who will ALWAYS have y’all’s back!! & Then, you also have us your internet/virtual family who also will ALWAYS have yall’s back as well!! Long story short, you will ALWAYS have people who have y’all’s back, & Who absolutely LOVE You both So Much!! 💯 Haters only make y’all’s Beautiful, Genuine, Unconditional Love for one another just GROW EVEN STRONGER!! If HATERS have the time for hate then THEY NEED A LIFE!! 💯 Cole, & Charisma FOREVER, PERIOD!! 🥰
I just LOVE You both So
Much, y’all are THE BEST!! 💜💜
Well said well explained I love it !!
I want to 100% agree with you.
Haters are going to always hate... but the way to beat them is to get stronger and like you said he and she has support from her their internet family,real families and Friends!
👌🏽👍✌🙏🏽🤗
@Shea3224 N @Lannan3067 SAME N SAME
When I first ‘met’ yall it was charisma shopping for a wedding dress.
I said “oh she’s gonna look STUNNING” in whatever she picks.
And I was right.
Sometimes assumptions are completely spot on. ❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰
Awww thank you! You’re right, some assumptions are right! 🥰
Happiness is not all smiles, it knowing you are where you should be and are content to be there.
Can you guys do a video about the difficult things about the track chair? As a wheelchair user myself I love that those chairs exist!! But they're very expensive and difficult to transport and not a viable option for everyone. I feel like the costs of disability (especially monetary ones) are often forgotten when sharing products like that. Would love to hear y'all talk about it.
(I also think that viral reel was adorable, tf is wrong with people?? ❤️)
Absolutely! We’ve responded to a few comments about the costs and plan on doing a more in depth video about transporting it around, but we could definitely talk more about it. Maybe during this Wednesday live!
Thanks you for sharing this part of your day with us. I think you two work well together.
Always keep your courtship going, because it doesn't end on the day you get married.
I loved that colour blue top on you, Charisma, and I think Cole does too, his looks toward you were so adoring. I think you both "like like" each other too. It shows.
All the best.
Don’t give up one way or another you two will be parents 🙏
I really like that comment, Cole.... as an older person, i never heard that you significant other is an extension of yourself. That is adorable and very mature, Cole. 😊
You two are not only amazing together but separate you are two wonderful human beings! I AM SO HAPPY YOU FOUND EACH OTHER‼️WHAT YOU HAVE IS SUCH A BLESSING AND YOU KNOW IT‼️If you read this please understand no I am not saying they are perfect by no means. I just feel they are two great human beings that’s it‼️🙏🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾
9:05 Yay, dark Cole! Love it. 23:20 24:46 You both are great! ❤ 19:40 That was my question, I laughed so loud when you responded. 😂
I'm watching this video and listening intently and I have to say that you both are glowing !!❤❤
Negative people will always exist. You are both positive people and have this beautiful effect on us all.
I really can't imagine how anyone doubts the genuineness of you two. You're perfectly matched, clearly solemates, true equal partners, and everything a modern relationship SHOULD be. You two and Shane and Hannah are just goals on steroids. Still waiting for that channel called Wheels 'n Heels for the 4 of you!!!
I guess I've watched you so long I don't really see you as an interabled or interracial couple anymore, but just a super fun couple to watch. Frankly, he's far more capable than either of my two ex husbands who were able bodied but weak minded. lol The wheelchair is just part of him, but it isn't HIM, you know? He's funny as hell and you two always make me laugh with your antics. I enjoy seeing the adventures you have, even the simple ones. He's by no stretch of the imagination helpless. I probably did more for my exes than Charisma has to do for him. lol He helps her so much! Some of the things she does are just different than the norm, but it's still a task and all wives do a crapton of tasks for their husbands and households every day. I don't see it as any different, just some of the tasks are unique to them just as other wives have tasks unique to their spouses. Tasks are tasks and we just do them. At least Cole helps with a lot of them which is more than many wives can say!
I sat here with goofy smile on my face for 32mins. 😀🥹☺️I love you guys so much. 🥰💜🥰
Desde la pandemia descubrí este canal. Desde entonces hasta hoy la depresión ha estado en mi vida. Vi su historia, veo sus videos, trato de traducir porque mi inglés no es bueno. Sin embargo, quisiera expresar lo agradecida que me siento. Sus videos me han ayudado tanto. Me encanta como disfrutan la vida estando juntos. Deseo que Dios los cuide y los bendiga siempre.
Pillow talk is great for your relationship ❤❤
Fantastic video Cole and Charisma. Thank you for taking the time to answer questions. Stay safe and blessed ❤️
Love is Love, and you both radiate love for each other.
Thank you for being positive for us - it truly helps ❤
I love how y’all look at each other🥰
I’m here for the “prick” bit, yes Cole please keep giving us those snippets.
Thank you for keeping your show clean I watch it with my younger family.
This was a very fun video. You two are the cutest and so blessed to have each other. I love the way you look at life. Great Guys!!!!
I for one think you're great. I love your positivity. It uplifts me
Cole is always hilarious but in this video, even more so😂 dying at his “prick” joke😂
I look forward to seeing your videos every week. I am handicapped and you give me happiness and hope and dignity.
😊💐
@JanetMcBrydeSAME WITH SB (SPINA BIFIDA) THOUGH
@@KC-qi7gn
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Hi Cole & Chrisma..new to your channel! What a joy both of you are!! Real genuine...so wonderful together...never change!! Anyone who says negative things are happy inside..so read it and then say a pray for those people to find peace and then move on!! Looking forward to catching up on your videos!! Stay just the way you both are!!😊
You are two of my favorite people! Thanks for sharing your story with us.
We've been married 52 years. The key is that only one of you can be nuts at a time!!!
Funny but true! 😆❤️
That's a great comment I think for all humanity in relationships❤
😂😂😂😂true
Ok you made me laugh again. And HOW could anyone think you’re faking happiness, both of you radiant joy.
I appreciate the fact you make a point to be family friendly, I personally don’t want to hear the other. Thank you. 💗
I love how genuine you both are!! ❤❤❤
You both do a great job explaining things to ppl. You really bring us into your space and make us feel a part of your world; you know, like a friend! Thanks.
Also, @23:20ish I was laughing so hard, when y’all were talking about dancing and Cole said he wishes he could stand to dance and you could “throw it back on him “ and you casually said “ I do that with you in your wheelchair” lol😂 I just keep singing “ throw that a** in a circle” lol IYKYK.
On the real though, you two are true couple goals and solid human beings!💕🙏🏽
@Nxnline81 LOL 😂
HahHahahahah 🤣🤣🤣🤣 the fact that we have actually danced to that song!!
Thank you so much 🤍🤍
After the wheelchair comment, I must say that I thought the trac wheelchair was fantastic! It’s fun to try new things. It reminded me of BMX biking, except Charisma was there to save Cole (if he needed it). ❤
A true partnership involves being each other's caregivers ❤ I love the bond yall have!!
"Different kind of prick" made me chuckle. I'd call that a family-friendly comment; that's one of those things you don't understand as a kid but laugh at when you look back. 😂
The "assumptions make an arse out of you and me" comment is as common amongst mayo folk as walking back in the house to grab the keys and announcing, "Can't get very far without these!" through a goofy grin 🥲🫠
I’ve been rolling w yall since 2020!! Thank you for sharing all that you do.
Keep the faith Charisma and hubby, GOD'S TIMING IS PERFECT. ONLY GOD KNOWS THE PLANS FOR BOTH OF YOU! YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE, BLESS THEM PLEASE DEAR GOD WITH THEIR HEARTS DESIRES. PSALM 23...LOVE BOTH OF YOU. ❤❤
It's all about love !
Great video! Your candidness coupled with lighthearted humor warms my heart all the time. Take care and be well always. (Janet)
Thank you, Janet! 🤍
@4everafanofcc N @coleanscharisma SAME
I'm glad to see you are okay. I saw the news about the forest fire in California. I wasn't sure if it was near you. I love you ❤ This was a great video.🙂
I think u are made for each other. I'm proud of you both
Y'all are so wonderful and beautiful! I'm appreciative of y'all even sharing anything with us. Blessings Charisma and Cole! Cole, thanks for your transparency of saying you would love to get up and dance and salsa dance...
I go sleep late as well but I read that it’s not about how long you sleep but how early. In other words, going sleep earlier and waking up early is better for the body than going sleep late and waking up late. 🤷🏽♀️
I Absolutely Love Viola Davis, She’s such a Beautiful talented Queen, yet still remains HUMBLE even with all her fame!! “My Grandmother, My Angel” was a HUGE fan of hers also. she LOVED her so much!! I broke down into tears when you said her name. Aww. My Heart!! 🥹😭💜💜
She’s absolutely incredible!! ❤ we’re still shocked she commented
@@coleandcharisma, Absolutely!! But, why be shocked? She Loves Y’all like countless of us do!! All three of you are so Loving, Sweet, & Absolutely Beautiful from the inside, out!! 🥹🥰💜💜
Everything works in God's perfect timing. Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 3:6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.❤
My husband and I moved cross country 15 years ago, everything was new. Jobs, home, friends, literally everything changed. It was so good for us. You two are doing a great job. Being best friends is so important. You need to be able to know that your partner truly has your back.
Hey guys,
Love how strong and supportive you both are for each other.
Can I ask how Cole manages to prepare food/have meals when he is home alone?
My husband is quadriplegic and we're working on how we can spend some healthy time away from each other. ❤
If you can't have kids ever, like my brother and his wife couldn't, find peace in that. Just continue to go on adventures! God bless you both
Cole, you are such a goof ball!!!! Love you guys!
Hey guys , listen anybody that say they don’t have argument in their relationship, they are not in a healthy relationship. Anyway, I lave Cole’s humor, he always makes me laugh. Your relationship is real and as long as you keep God as the head of your life, you guys are going to be fine. Forget the haters. I love you both.❤
@nashabonnie5443 SAME
If the comment starts out rude, don't read it. Delete it so it won't be in your head.
Charisma is perfect for Cole. Actually you are great for each other. Always looking beautiful and handsome. I love you two. God bless you.
You are so beautiful together! When I need to feel positive I look for your videos. My assumption is that when the exoskeleton become more sophisticated cole will be able to dance salsa.
Love you two! I always feel genuine and upbeat vibes from you two.
And when you talk about the tough, deep topics, I love those convos too. You’re real.
Like # 4.2k plus 1, thank you Cole & Charisma for sharing & enlightening the audience. In my humble opinion, I agree w/your thoughts about IVF (been there, done that & it didnt work). My hubby & I took it easy after all of the things we put ourselves through, became pregnant naturally & lost our baby at 37.5 weeks. We now have healthy, successful 22 yr. old twins. We have been together for 28 yrs. & married for 26.5 yrs. Please do not allow ANYONE to pressure you two about having children or ANYTHING in your lives. You two share segments w/"the world", but no one has the right to tell you how to live. Take care of each other, & continue to love, honor & respect each other. Thank you Cole & Charisma for making me smile & taking me along on your journey through life. Tina in Cali 😊
Hey guys, keep doing you! I enjoy the time you spend with us. Thank you😊
I think try naturally would be much better for you guys. There are ovulation kits to tell you when you’re ovulating and when the time is right and it just feels better to do it that way emotionally and mentally.
I totally enjoyed this upbeat, informative video. I've followed you guys for years and admire and appreciate your content. Thanks for brightening my evening.
Great episode and great color on you, Charisma!
I am familiar with that comment about assumptions, words to live by! It’s one of the 4 agreements!
It’s always on god timing! You guys will have your bundle of joy and will be amazing parents!!
I’ve watched u guys from day one ,, I think u guys r beautiful!! The love & respect u have for each other is awesome!! If there r people that r hating on u ,, those r the most unhappy,people with themselves.pls Continue to show & express yr love & life .. some of us love u guys !! Stay safe & healthy 🥰
Keep that beautiful smile on your face don't let no one pull you down
Having difficult conversations in the dark is such a perfect idea omg
Charisma, girl, you being joyful is wonderful 😁! You both are such a light, especially in this world of social media negativity. People need positivity. It’s not your responsibility to make ppl happy, but you’re content can help bring some joy into viewers lives.
You two are truly an inspiration and I love you for it! You can see the genuine love for each other. ❤
AWE HONS THERE ARE ALOT OF UNHAPPY PEOPLE OUT THERE UNFORTUNATELY AND THE ONLY THINGS U CAN DO IS TRY AND JUST PAST THEM BY …AND WATCHING COLE RIDE HIS RIDEING HIS WHEELCHAIR I LAUGHED TO SEE HOW HAPPY HE IS , WHAT A AWESOME CHAIR TO BE ABLE TO HAVE ONE OF THOSE ….U TO ARE SUCH A CUTE COUPLE ALL THE BEST TO U ALL . XO. LOVE TORONTO, 🍁
Love from RVA!! You guys are great and I think we all know relationships and life in general are not always 💃🏻. The best any of us can do is deal with the struggles one by one. I know folks can be unkind and comments can hurt your hearts, but just block anyone sending negative energy.
You guys are such a beautiful loving couple. One person wrote We are your internet Virtual Family and friends that love you guys!!
And will always be rooting for the best for you guys. So keep doing what you're doing God has your back always!!
❤🎉🤗👌🏽🙏🏽
Love Charisma's bubbliness.