Can you please do a video on realistic standards and expectations in a relationship? How much time can we expect to spend with a man once in a relationship, how often must he call, is there an expectation of how much energy, effort and money he must spend etc., how must a man prioritise a woman in comparison to kids, work, friends, his alone time etc.?
I’m sweet and nice. I’m not going to change that about myself. It’s apart of who I am… However, I will stand on my boundaries/standards. I will give someone an opportunity but will let go and move on. I do not like wasting my time.
He didn’t say we can’t be sweet and nice just not too sweet and too nice… an example may be he yells at us (for no good reason) and to make it up to him for making him angry we come over and do and fold all his laundry.
You told not ONE lie. I try to teach my girl friends this, but they just don’t get it. They continue to chase, wait, and be at the beck and call of a guy they have feelings for. I used to be like that, so I can sympathize, but at some point, we gotta start taking accountability for our actions and start making different choices, even if it may suck at that moment.
Literally same, then I sound like a bad person for stating the obvious - doing way more than the other person has ever done for them. Been there and continue to fight the urge to go back there. Good job!
Love this presentation. I am a high value woman. I have men running from me. Scared to talk to me after they messed up. It’s funny. To see that. Cowards
Just one thing. Last guys I dated they said, "are you watching those high value woman videos hahaha (one guy laughed, the other said it a bit annoyed)". I NEVER told them I was watching videos. Seems that guys are getting aware of how we women are changing the way we do things when dating. One of the guys said "if you are not lucky at dating maybe you should lower your expectations but still have boundaries" I deleted him.
Elliott, I love you for telling nothing but the truth! So basically a HV woman is a woman with a bit of masculine edge, she has boundaries and standards in place to protect herself i.e. her inner masculine is healthy and protective of her.
Elliot Dear, can you please make video on how men feel after we walk away. I know it’s of no use to check on men we have to walk out from. But that doesn’t make the process of walking easier. So can you please make video on it. Pretty please
This was gold Elliot! For the most part I am high value but I do have some low value traits that I wasn’t even aware of… I am too forgiving and I do give too many chances - guilty! I do have all the other high value traits though. I’m taking time off dating after existing a toxic relationship to heal and rebuild myself. Your videos help me a lot - thank you❤
Can you do a video on how to take your power back after you have given way too many chances and previously failed with NC--- like I been in an on and off fwb for 2 years
I don’t get the outcome …. So he messes up or wotever Ok bye 👋 he comes back like a good boy -ur given him another chance or not ? So he only realised ur worth After he’s lost you?? Doesn’t matter wot he thinks of u He won’t care 😂 but I do love these 👏 I was everything on the right , ended my relationship, now in in the left I’m stil single refusing various offers - including the ex - who’s now moved on2 less 😂 im different difficult hard work egoistic im sure my prince awaits 😂😂😂😅
Just don't be delusional. A woman who knows what's she's actually worth on the dating market is actually a plus. A dude will like you more. As long as it's true.
You’re right about a lot of things. But the quality of males you’re talking about is the trashy kind. I’d rather go for the romantic guys that know how to love and never play games.
what does it mean if my ex who I have been doing no contact with for 4 months (we don’t even have each other on instagram) deleted my mom off Instagram after she posted a photo of her and I together for the first time. Does that mean there’s little hope for us getting back together?
@@Braveh3artGirl thank you for the advice. Do you think I should reach out to him? If he’s completely over the breakup why would it hurt for him to see the photo of me? I don’t know if I should reach out
If a woman has standards, the guys are gonna call her a gold-digger. A lot of women ended up disrespected, trafficked, forced into prostitution for that reason.
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Can you please do a video on realistic standards and expectations in a relationship? How much time can we expect to spend with a man once in a relationship, how often must he call, is there an expectation of how much energy, effort and money he must spend etc., how must a man prioritise a woman in comparison to kids, work, friends, his alone time etc.?
I’m sweet and nice. I’m not going to change that about myself. It’s apart of who I am… However, I will stand on my boundaries/standards. I will give someone an opportunity but will let go and move on. I do not like wasting my time.
You can be nice. It's about boundaries just you said. Do you girl!
He didn’t say we can’t be sweet and nice just not too sweet and too nice… an example may be he yells at us (for no good reason) and to make it up to him for making him angry we come over and do and fold all his laundry.
You told not ONE lie. I try to teach my girl friends this, but they just don’t get it. They continue to chase, wait, and be at the beck and call of a guy they have feelings for. I used to be like that, so I can sympathize, but at some point, we gotta start taking accountability for our actions and start making different choices, even if it may suck at that moment.
Girl trust me I try teaching this and people don't listen lol.
Literally same, then I sound like a bad person for stating the obvious - doing way more than the other person has ever done for them. Been there and continue to fight the urge to go back there. Good job!
Thank you Elliot.. I did framing and no contact everywhere like you said fake it until I made it.. took him 10 weeks he came running back begging ❤
Loving the chalkboard old school!!
Love this presentation. I am a high value woman. I have men running from me. Scared to talk to me after they messed up. It’s funny. To see that. Cowards
Just one thing. Last guys I dated they said, "are you watching those high value woman videos hahaha (one guy laughed, the other said it a bit annoyed)". I NEVER told them I was watching videos. Seems that guys are getting aware of how we women are changing the way we do things when dating. One of the guys said "if you are not lucky at dating maybe you should lower your expectations but still have boundaries" I deleted him.
Your so lucky having that beautiful cat 🐈
I laughed so much hahaha you’re so funny & passionate about your work, thank you for taking the time to make this for us!
Elliott, I love you for telling nothing but the truth! So basically a HV woman is a woman with a bit of masculine edge, she has boundaries and standards in place to protect herself i.e. her inner masculine is healthy and protective of her.
Exactly
Popo, the star! ⭐️ Love black cats. We named ours Vader!
Elliot Dear, can you please make video on how men feel after we walk away. I know it’s of no use to check on men we have to walk out from. But that doesn’t make the process of walking easier. So can you please make video on it. Pretty please
Love this! If they are not stepping in, I’ve learned to move them out 🙏
thumbs'ing up for the cute kitty appearance
I’m the celebrity here 😂😂😂
This was gold Elliot! For the most part I am high value but I do have some low value traits that I wasn’t even aware of… I am too forgiving and I do give too many chances - guilty! I do have all the other high value traits though. I’m taking time off dating after existing a toxic relationship to heal and rebuild myself. Your videos help me a lot - thank you❤
8:39 I am becoming aware.
Your cat is so majestic looking ❤
You are so kind
can you do a video on the types of standards and expectations to have?
My ex who cheated and left me for someone else is begging to be in my life. Regrets it all.
YOU BETTA PREACH!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💝💝💝💝
I am trying lol trust me.
WOW. This is so excellent!
09:42 cat CAT 🥰😍🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love your videos, love the thumbnaiil before you change it lol
haha. I am keeping poe on the thumbnail
The truth be told.
Your gorgeous Cat 🐈⬛ ❤❤❤
You better preach, Elliot! 😂
Thank you for telling it how it is.
Elliot what do you think about putting these bad guys on blast on their socials? Prevent them from doing bad things to other women.
Can you do a video on how to take your power back after you have given way too many chances and previously failed with NC--- like I been in an on and off fwb for 2 years
Your cat is beautiful 🐈⬛🫶🏽
Be the black cat ladies, not the golden retriever with its tongue out chasing 😂❤
Damn hahaha. Tell em
@@ElliotScottDatinghahaha ❤ you
You must follow Margarita!
I don’t get the outcome …. So he messes up or wotever Ok bye 👋 he comes back like a good boy -ur given him another chance or not ? So he only realised ur worth After he’s lost you?? Doesn’t matter wot he thinks of u He won’t care 😂 but I do love these 👏 I was everything on the right , ended my relationship, now in in the left I’m stil single refusing various offers - including the ex - who’s now moved on2 less 😂 im different difficult hard work egoistic im sure my prince awaits 😂😂😂😅
Do you want to do a cat swap 😀.Great advice didn't realise I was low value for so long things are changing now 😊
Think that’s where o go wrong , too nice and too sweet. However I have all the HVT points lol
I am too sweet and too nice 😢
This guy's information doesn't apply to everyone. Only a small demographic. Do you. There's someone out there for everyone.
So am I but I started no contact and that's when I noticed that they miss the Nice girls the most! Because u never know what You have til it's gone
Just don't be delusional. A woman who knows what's she's actually worth on the dating market is actually a plus. A dude will like you more. As long as it's true.
It’s subject so it’s not as easy as that. Wherever you go it’s different based on the environment you’re in.
Not work snitch Harold 😂
You’re right about a lot of things. But the quality of males you’re talking about is the trashy kind.
I’d rather go for the romantic guys that know how to love and never play games.
Peach
Dude...i love this unhinged shit
You better have Po Po.. or else!!
Is that beautiful cat a man or a woman? ❤️💯😍
Boy cat..
what does it mean if my ex who I have been doing no contact with for 4 months (we don’t even have each other on instagram) deleted my mom off Instagram after she posted a photo of her and I together for the first time. Does that mean there’s little hope for us getting back together?
Maybe it hurt seeing your photo
I wouldn’t wait around for him
Enjoy your life and date if you want, heal.. ❤❤
@@Braveh3artGirl thank you for the advice. Do you think I should reach out to him? If he’s completely over the breakup why would it hurt for him to see the photo of me? I don’t know if I should reach out
@@Chloeeee2215don’t let a man tell you he doesn’t want you twice.
❤❤
If a woman has standards, the guys are gonna call her a gold-digger.
A lot of women ended up disrespected, trafficked, forced into prostitution for that reason.
I love you, you're the best. Love Julie
Please tell me Popo is named after Mr. Popo from Dragonball Z 🥹
No lol. He's named after Edgar Allen Poe's "the black cat"
@@ElliotScottDatingHe's stunning 🤩
Elliot is too high brow..🤣🐈