It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
OMG me being the nice girl NEVER ever work please understand what he’s saying because he is not wrong. That’s why the men you don’t like won’t leave you alone, but the one you bend backwards for won’t treat you right. Detachment is ur best friend in relationships. Especially for my lover girls (trust me I was the biggest one), seeing it as a game helps so much more. Play the game, use the fact that you usually lose the game with the guy as an ADVANTAGE. When you pull away he’s gonna be that more shocked bc he genuinely is not expecting it from you
I don’t think you need to play a game you just need a high level of self respect. Maintaining putting yourself and your passions first. Sticking to agreed dates. No one commits unless you both agree to being committed. Playing games is falsehood. Women need to keep their knickers up.
The problem with detachment is being an only child, it makes me act like I don't need anyone, which is true because I'm very independent. If I like a guy, I act like I like him, want him. It doesn't make sense to me to play games. I'm at a point in my life where I'm terrified to even show a guy I like him because I'm afraid the guy will see I like him and just not like me back. Dating is too stressful and who needs that?
"you're nice, caring... to a man who doesn't deserve it." That makes him a poor partner. Period. Playing a game won't make him the right person & only makes things more messy. Setting & honoring boundaries are a much more reasonable & healthy option.
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Basically saying if you don’t create some resistance then he will, you gotta switch it up him otherwise he get to comfortable and takes you for granted and starts disrespecting you
2:40 I shouldn't have to think you aren't following through. If you're a man, I mean a real man, a man whose word is his bond, then you should have no problem keeping your vow of exclusivity. Otherwise you're just a liar. Why would I want to marry a liar. Do you know what type of people lie? Cowards. A coward is weak, and will lie to get out of a situation. A hero confronts the dragon and fights, and if he dies trying, he dies with honour.
There is a difference between playing the game and playing games. Playing games is manipulation. Once you’re in a relationship, you have to keep doing it. Exhausting
I totally agree I used to get my heartbroken by men all the time being needy nice and clingy, now I’ve learned sooooo much playing the game now iam breaking hearts because i keep them at a distance, i mirror some of the behavior in a different way, tell them what he wants to hear, show affection then disappear and detach repeat, you can’t take these men more seriously than they taking you, keep him a distance while telling him what he wants to hear will keep him chasing you.. I have to be careful now because they be saying I love you, and they start stalking my social media making fake pages and becoming obsessed so playing with they feelings can be just as risky.. you kinda have to fake it to make it with men until he SHOWS YOU definitely other wise he playing you , I’ve mastered the game .. I love playing becomes now I compare what the last guy did and be like ohhhhh ok ✅ so iam learning more and more
I'm a 38 yrs old woman and I say to all the younger girls listening to this video, listen to Elliot, he is saying the truth that I wish I knew earlier.
@@mehakverma7043 the only outcome from both sides lying & playing games is developing an unhealthy attachment built on power dynamics & trauma bonding. That's a recipe for disaster.
Love is a game of poker. Keep your hearts in your hand, and use your Ace cards accordingly. And most of all... have fun with the Jokers and hold on to your Kings (or fold them)! 😂😅❤
I left a comment yesterday but ended up retracting it because I was really conflicted. I understand that games can be fun and can capture a guy's interest, but what’s the strategy for maintaining that connection when real life presents challenges or when the initial excitement fades? Regardless of whether you engage in games, it remains a mystery that no one seems to solve.
The funniest part is when men learn that you've been for example dating multiple men (no sex, just going out) and they are sooooo sad. The opposite situation is of course fully acceptable 🤡
it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready
Unfortunately it's always about the games ....I'm not a game player and I have no desire to play with anyone , but he does have some valid points which seems to be true ....just take what u need from his advice and trash the rest
He's right. There's let's say Sandy and Lisa. Sandy is beautiful by traditional standards. Lisa is well, not so much. But Lisa knows this so she watches how Sandy and her friends act. So Lisa knows she has to play things up. Work on her hair more, do her nails, be the "fun" girl who is everybody's friend. Here's Tony, the football player. Who does he go for, Lisa. Because she's the attention getter, appears to be popular, wants to not be acting serious, but she knows how to get what she wants. Sandy doesn't need the attention so she doesn't try hard. Tony doesn't see her, he sees who his friends see. Who makes the scene. Lisa's the one who's got him. Is she a little worried everytime he's around another girl, Yes. But she's always around. Friendly to all, the party goer. You'll find this type really easily. She's ALWAYS taking selfies with someone. Even someone she hardly knows. IF she sees a girl as a threat, she'll be sure to put her down to someone behind her back. Is she really as nice as she appears, No. She becomes a clone of Sandy but with a twist. She'll be more flirty. If Sandy twists her hair, Lisa will twist her hair but overdo it a bit. If Sandy says "Hey, girl!". Sure enough, you'll see Lisa doing it to.
it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready
it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready
The only men who play games are narcissist or dismissive avoidant men. Secure men don’t want games!!
Ikr? He’s literally talking about toxic males that no one is interested in
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you.
I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.
I promise you will not regret it.
I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
OMG me being the nice girl NEVER ever work please understand what he’s saying because he is not wrong. That’s why the men you don’t like won’t leave you alone, but the one you bend backwards for won’t treat you right. Detachment is ur best friend in relationships. Especially for my lover girls (trust me I was the biggest one), seeing it as a game helps so much more. Play the game, use the fact that you usually lose the game with the guy as an ADVANTAGE. When you pull away he’s gonna be that more shocked bc he genuinely is not expecting it from you
I don’t think you need to play a game you just need a high level of self respect. Maintaining putting yourself and your passions first. Sticking to agreed dates. No one commits unless you both agree to being committed.
Playing games is falsehood. Women need to keep their knickers up.
The problem with detachment is being an only child, it makes me act like I don't need anyone, which is true because I'm very independent. If I like a guy, I act like I like him, want him. It doesn't make sense to me to play games. I'm at a point in my life where I'm terrified to even show a guy I like him because I'm afraid the guy will see I like him and just not like me back. Dating is too stressful and who needs that?
You don't need to.plau games. You just have not met a normal real man yet. I used to think the same way , a d feel upset untill I met a great guy.
Agreed
"you're nice, caring... to a man who doesn't deserve it." That makes him a poor partner. Period. Playing a game won't make him the right person & only makes things more messy. Setting & honoring boundaries are a much more reasonable & healthy option.
Yes, thank you!💯
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Basically saying if you don’t create some resistance then he will, you gotta switch it up him otherwise he get to comfortable and takes you for granted and starts disrespecting you
100%
That's what boundaries are for.
2:40 I shouldn't have to think you aren't following through. If you're a man, I mean a real man, a man whose word is his bond, then you should have no problem keeping your vow of exclusivity. Otherwise you're just a liar. Why would I want to marry a liar. Do you know what type of people lie? Cowards. A coward is weak, and will lie to get out of a situation. A hero confronts the dragon and fights, and if he dies trying, he dies with honour.
There is a difference between playing the game and playing games. Playing games is manipulation. Once you’re in a relationship, you have to keep doing it. Exhausting
So I'm confused, what exactly are we meant to do?
If any side is acting immature and playing games, cut the cord. It's not worth it.
Amen!
Integrity is everything & double standards never work
Those men aren’t worth winning, pass not interested
Agreed!
Basically don't make it easy for him or he takes things for granted.
Better to stay single than playing games...
I think so too. Why put so much effort into something that doesn't make you happy? And playing games doesn't make you happy.
I totally agree I used to get my heartbroken by men all the time being needy nice and clingy, now I’ve learned sooooo much playing the game now iam breaking hearts because i keep them at a distance, i mirror some of the behavior in a different way, tell them what he wants to hear, show affection then disappear and detach repeat, you can’t take these men more seriously than they taking you, keep him a distance while telling him what he wants to hear will keep him chasing you.. I have to be careful now because they be saying I love you, and they start stalking my social media making fake pages and becoming obsessed so playing with they feelings can be just as risky.. you kinda have to fake it to make it with men until he SHOWS YOU definitely other wise he playing you , I’ve mastered the game .. I love playing becomes now I compare what the last guy did and be like ohhhhh ok ✅ so iam learning more and more
I'm a 38 yrs old woman and I say to all the younger girls listening to this video, listen to Elliot, he is saying the truth that I wish I knew earlier.
To...lie and not trust men? No wonder you're still 38 and unmarried...
Guys lie too.
@@lotus7313 Yes, the whole point of this video is that men lie, so you should lie too otherwise you'll lose the game.
@@mehakverma7043 the only outcome from both sides lying & playing games is developing an unhealthy attachment built on power dynamics & trauma bonding. That's a recipe for disaster.
@@Justanothercog24 Exactlyyy
Just set boundaries
not saying this isn’t interesting, but books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki make this look like child’s play
I have been looking for this book everywhere. Do you know where I can find it?
Bot
Yall are everywhere
@@amelialewis2280 no I’m not lol.
You hit the target with this video! 🗣️💯
Hes telling you the truth because i always say this I'm still single when I was playing games that's when a guy was interested in me
Love is a game of poker. Keep your hearts in your hand, and use your Ace cards accordingly. And most of all... have fun with the Jokers and hold on to your Kings (or fold them)! 😂😅❤
Wow i screenshot this… such a nice saying 😅❤
The spam bots are strong.
I left a comment yesterday but ended up retracting it because I was really conflicted. I understand that games can be fun and can capture a guy's interest, but what’s the strategy for maintaining that connection when real life presents challenges or when the initial excitement fades? Regardless of whether you engage in games, it remains a mystery that no one seems to solve.
Life is a mystery.
@@ak-47intelligence75 Like a prayer
Aren’t games supposed to be fun? Once we understand the rules…it’s on women to learn the rules, not for men to teach us the rules.
Makes sense! Thank you❤
Elliot I believe those are the types of men I am staying away from. So no games for me! When men begin that crap I’m out.
The funniest part is when men learn that you've been for example dating multiple men (no sex, just going out) and they are sooooo sad. The opposite situation is of course fully acceptable 🤡
It's the way we are socialized, unfortunately.
Time after time. I guess that love is blind. I couldn't read your mind. Line after line. ~ Ozzy (1991)
can’t believe this is what people focus on instead of reading something like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, maybe that’s why so little ever changes
it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready
Unfortunately it's always about the games ....I'm not a game player and I have no desire to play with anyone , but he does have some valid points which seems to be true ....just take what u need from his advice and trash the rest
He's right. There's let's say Sandy and Lisa. Sandy is beautiful by traditional standards. Lisa is well, not so much. But Lisa knows this so she watches how Sandy and her friends act. So Lisa knows she has to play things up. Work on her hair more, do her nails, be the "fun" girl who is everybody's friend. Here's Tony, the football player. Who does he go for, Lisa. Because she's the attention getter, appears to be popular, wants to not be acting serious, but she knows how to get what she wants. Sandy doesn't need the attention so she doesn't try hard. Tony doesn't see her, he sees who his friends see. Who makes the scene. Lisa's the one who's got him. Is she a little worried everytime he's around another girl, Yes. But she's always around. Friendly to all, the party goer. You'll find this type really easily. She's ALWAYS taking selfies with someone. Even someone she hardly knows. IF she sees a girl as a threat, she'll be sure to put her down to someone behind her back. Is she really as nice as she appears, No. She becomes a clone of Sandy but with a twist. She'll be more flirty. If Sandy twists her hair, Lisa will twist her hair but overdo it a bit. If Sandy says "Hey, girl!". Sure enough, you'll see Lisa doing it to.
crazy how much people rely on surface-level ideas when Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki exists, but I guess not everyone is ready for deeper truths
Lose what ? A man who play games? Good riddance !
if this resonates with you, you owe it to yourself to read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, but maybe it’s not for everyone
funny how people spend so much time on this stuff but ignore books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki that actually explain what’s going on
Lose what? 🙄
Childish
can’t believe this is what people focus on instead of reading something like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, maybe that’s why so little ever changes
it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready
it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready