one of my ex boyfriends, i had to leave because he was in the military and long distance was too hard for me. i have never questioned any action from him or felt unwanted or ignored. he always treated me perfect & if i felt any way, i could communicate w him. if he ever comes back home, i’d be with him til days time, but for now i had to let him go. but the right man will never make you question any part of where you stand with him.
Dr David can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr David always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
In my situation, I know he still has feelings but he was afraid of getting me back because he feels guilty that he thinks he's the reason my family got messed up (we'reok now, don't worry). Our relationship got into a mess that involved them, which ultimately caused our breakup. He told me to move on and focus on my life instead even after I stood up for him to my family. Then asked that wants to be friends, but that was an absolute disservice to our memory together as first loves and the sacrifice I did, so I said NO. He apologized for "taking me for granted" when he wasn't trying to communicate with me back then and I called him out for it. He had shortcomings (and I did too), but the fact he can say to me to move on just like that was the most offending thing he can do to me.
Haha, yeah. The narc did that to me. I saw him yesterday and I gave him no reaction but he did help me out. Don’t worry, I paid him. Nothing is free with those guys lol. Also, he’s the reason why I evolved into a super empath and now I can easily spot these people so fast and know how to handle them, it’s amazing.
The whole “replacing him” could also be done with replacing him with yourself. In lieu of new love, Self love, imagine your ideal self and next relationship.
If they ghost or stop chasing, I dont say anything. I Just wait till they come back out If a sudden "hi beautiful" and I say "hii, sorry I Just got married". Lmaaaaaao
Us women we really attach to chemistry...We think that if a guy keeps coming back, it's destiny showing him he is meant to be with us. That is a load. Thank you for this enlightening video.
When the guy can't take responsibility of his own actions and try the blame guilt game on you. Lock him out of your life for good. I don't want a man child
This shit is all common sense until you’re actually in it. Never thought I’d settle for friends or let a guy come back before.. but when you really fall for someone... fuck.
I think to myself why would you want a man that you have to tell him how to treat you. It should be automatic I rather be single than go through this bull crap. I just have my own life and right for the guy to come into my life.
Not every man had a good role model in their life. It’s not about teaching them or telling them that sometimes you have to show a man how you want to be treated.
@@queenjolie no thanks that sounds stupid if they dont have the common sense on how to treat someone then they are immature. Im just saying I dont have time for someone stressing me out over pity stuff.
Yes!!! Thank you... one month of dating a guy, and I'm exhausted... trying to explain how to treat me. When I really liked him and we laughed alot!! 🥺😭😭
Have no sympathy for the ex, don’t feel sorry for them. They aren’t sitting around crying over you. They are back on the app scrolling looking for the next victim. Truth is, your replacement was already in the background. 1/3 divorces come from online affairs. You have been warned!!!!
Great video! That's exactly what I told him. I don't want to have casual conversation or just be your friend. I'm not settling for pieces of something I wanted all of. I'm worth way more than that. I'm not worried about burning bridges, I can swim😘.
Dr David can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr David always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
I just cut off my 2 year LDR because he wouldn't quit flirting with others and never wanted to be exclusive with me. Haven't spoken to him in almost a month, and he hasn't tried to reach out. I'm in the dark insecure phase where I can't entertain other men, but refuse to entertain his BS anymore, too. So, just eating spoonfuls of Nutella and watching Doctor Who, trying to convince myself to quit loving someone who doesn't love me back. Super hard.
Move on hon. Take your energy off of him (look that up) Date others (helps immensely) You deserve to be cherished & loved. He wasn’t into you ...only your assets. I was in the same ditch. Hurts. Date others! Have fun 🤩
TOTALLY AGREE with this one! I never understood women who allow a man to leave then come back, then leave etc. When I am done, I AM DONE! Not friends, not acquaintances, nothing. If the guy treated me poorly, I do not want him around me anyways. It is difficult at times, because I know when I am done, I am DONE, so I give the relationship and the guy some room for mistakes, no one is perfect, but if and when it gets to the point I am not living the life I want, it is over completely!
I was like that too all the time, but there’s only one guy I couldn’t have my boundaries straight bc only that situation was complicated in unexpected way. Sometimes they got you even if you believe you are the smartest and the best bs detector ever.
Oh yeah...and you know, I never trust some random men crying over women that they didn't treat them well...no, men themselves miss on great women, because they are insanely stupid.
What has helped me keep my sanity up to this point is, I try my best not to sacrifice my own comfort by making myself feel miserable at the expense of getting a guy to take me seriously. When things degenerate to the degree that he isn’t even willing to validate me as a living, breathing, human, being, because he’s insecure and he’s trying to “put me in my place”, I dip out immediately.
Good advices from you Do not fear losing a guy that doesn't know your worth.There are man that will respect and accept who u are someone that will make u true happy.
I agree completely with this. I had my ex-husband came onto me a couple months after I left him. It was because I cut him off completely and he wanted to know if there was still a chance, I rejected him and that is when it finally sunk in for him that our marriage was over. He cheated on me, and I left him two weeks later and clearly explained why. That wasn't enough for the man's ego though, he wanted to make sure it was "for sure" done and it sure was.
Sorry you had to experience that and I hope you are healed. Broke up with my so called bf coz he wasn't sure what he wanted and had the nerve to suggest other girls whom to marry (which I consider cheating). I said goodbye end of last year but he still isn't getting it. Texting me, saying his relatives passed away and then texting me on birthday and on top of that texting my sister to keep tabs on me as I don't respond much to him. I am trying to be graceful and be civil but if he doesn't get it that it's over I should maybe block him. Time to move on and time to look forward to new things.
I think your right, Keep it logical. If I look at our relationship logically it was good we broke up. When I get in my emotions that's when I stay in situations I shouldn't.
He didn’t make me an option, but he verbally abused me bad. It’s very exhausting. I loved him But I’m not with him anymore. I tried hard. It’s very difficult to find a good man
I’m going through that right now....everything you are saying is just so damn true...it’s my fault I let this hit happen to me...I love him so much but is time to let him go...is for me and for my sanity...he may care for me but not enough to make me his lady...is time I love on...
This is really a great question. This should be Elliot’s next video lol. I’ve always wondered about this too bcz it seems they just look for validation to boost their egos once a lady is emotionally invested, then he becomes an asshole. It’s really infuriating and it’s hard to trust men in general
Sooooo True!!!! By allowing him to be inconsistent he thinks its okay! Give things time and stop hooking up way too early. See if you like him enough first to even sleep with him.
Not only my favorite but best dating couch on TH-cam (also the most honest) I feel like most "gurus" gaslight you to justify the guy (ehem, we girls do that already they try to hard lol) and say stuff like "wait and wait and wait" and Elliot is like "he either likes you or not" YEEEEES, eff all the other bs, I'm not getting younger and I won't settle for a situationShip of 2 long yrs again! thanks for all the advice you do, you really are helping us out :)
He speaks from the heart and let’s face it....people can be frustrating to deal with. Look at the things we get ourselves into. He’s trying to wake us up!!!! I have learnt more from watching 3 of his videos than other coaches because of his style.
I've played this three times. I need this. He wants to be my friend. No, enough. I miss him deeply but I won't do this to myself. Enough. Enough. Don't want him to feel bad, I love the dude but he's a divorcing mess.
Thank you for this!!! This was so helpful! it made me realize that I just need to walk away. It also made me realize I was an option and not a priority thank you so much!!! 😢❤
Love you Elliot❤ You are the brother I never had to talk to me about how sneaky men are. Thanks to you, I feel I'm a more assertive woman, and my confidence has increased. I feel like a high value woman❤
This guy showed so much feelings for me. Then all of a sudden when I told him I wanted to take some time to just talk to him first he got all salty and his attitude changed. Then when I started to like him he was an asshole towards me... trash.
We should learn that when we love then we don't own the person! If we truly love him/her letting things flow freely and smoothly is the better way to do. I love you but if you're not happy with me then please i want u to find your happiness. Thats true love.. but crying and trying to keep him even if he's not happy with u anymore is selfishness!
I've been binging on your videos and i have to say you are one of the most genuine coaches in youtube that's helping us (females) understand how a man works and how to safeguard our heart and soul. I love how you dont give a shit and is prepared to cut the guy off(on our behalf) if he is really an asshole! Bless your heart 🌻 Big fan from Singapore 💜
Im going to do this, all of what you say, (not to hurt but to move on) then report back on here for all you girls to see if this can work what the out come was... Thank you and also ive bought your course for personal growth 😊 greetings from New Zealand ❤
Lmfaooooo @4:25 was me at one point saying I still wanna be his friend because I want him in my life 😂😂😂😂😭 then Elliot said shut up no you don’t 💀 damn I needed to hear that
We’re living in the days where men and women have both waxed cold when it comes to love. It’s unfortunate but these games have to be put to use if you want to find true love. People have been hurt time after time and because of that, games are implemented to ensure someone is trustworthy of the next person’s heart & assets
I had to check a guy yesterday. He started inconsistent and refused to go out on dates. I called him out and moved on. I don't care about what he thinks. I don't care if he gets his stuff together. I'm not settling. You can't miss what you ain't got! Let him go!
Elliot, I wish I would’ve listened to you years ago. A lot of your advice is pretty good, logical, and usually on point. Most of the things you mention in your videos I have experienced with guys over the years, and can’t help but think “Yep, totally makes sense. Should’ve did that with him”. I had to learn things the hard way. I’m taking it step by step, but I’m trying to take my experiences and everything I’ve learned into consideration in hopes for a better dating life in the future. Thank you for the videos, keep up the good work.
Thank you, thank you! I don't have to justify, he will! Quote of the day. Called him out. And yes...I told him: as long as you treat me the same way you treated your ex, you will get the same reaction. Same effort, same outcome....different effort, different putcome...Treat me with trust and respect or go.
Dr David can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr David always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
When he does something shitty to you, you give him another chance.... he does it again, its payback asshole. "Oh you're crying and sad now that you've had a dose of your own medicine? Oh well 🤷🏻♀️" Strangely healing.
Dr David can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr David always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
You're my favorite cheerleader. I know this shit and sometimes it's nice to hear it from a dude . Idfk. When we like a guy we get stupid and I'm not stupid. Ty 🤣
I never wanted sympathy, i wanted the truth. He never told me the truth. Another truth is the right guy won't hurt you, if he did unintentionally he will correct it by himself, you wont do anything to make him regret it. If a guy is careless, walk away no matter how hard no matter how feelings overpower you, just walk away in silence
A guy ghosted me twice. The second time I just left him on read. And then I didn’t open the other messages. He wouid have to pull some crazy shit for me to ever talk to him again, I’m done with the bullshit! I told him if he ever ghosted c/m again I’d never talk to him again. So when he popped up after the second ghosting I didn’t feel I needed to explain or call him out as I had already done that the first time he ghosted and came back. If you ghost the ghoster who pops back up it is justified! Lol So far so good. I’m over it. Kiss my feet and pull an act of god or I’m seriously done and I was IN LOVE with this guy. Damn disappointment. But enough is enough! Bye bye 👋
He just wants to text and its boring. I've mentioned many times it'd be good to have phone/video interactions. I feel unheard. I've decided I'm done texting
Just found your channel and you weren't lying when you called yourself the best relationship coach. This is the best shit I've ever come across. Wasted my time watching all the other useless vids on YT. Literally everyone just needs to subscribe to you. Love your tough love typa style of explaining things without sugarcoating. Really needed this, so thank you. Gonna binge watch your vids despite having a bunch of stuff to get done for college.
I did call a guy out and blocked him. I wasn't afraid to do that, because he knew I wanted a relationship but all he seemed to want was friends with benefits because he started to pull away.
DUDE...I FREAKING L OVE MAN. 🤣🤣🤣😍🤣🥰NO B.S. , NO FEAF OF HURTING OUR FEELINGS, no excuses and best of all NO APOLOGIES BABY YEAH!!! YOU ARE A DAMN BREATH OF FRESH AIR. DO YOU KNOW THAT?!?! Such a damn welcomed change compared to the usual we are usually served. LOL! 🥰 Love you so Much man. Never stop doing what youre doing. Amd ill never stop following and watching. 🥰🥰
I dont care anymore. We do care. I care. I'm listening because I want to stay gone and not fall for his words and waste anymore my precious time talking to him.
ladies hear me out: the right man will know how to treat you, and you wouldnt even be watching this video right now if you were with him.
one of my ex boyfriends, i had to leave because he was in the military and long distance was too hard for me. i have never questioned any action from him or felt unwanted or ignored. he always treated me perfect & if i felt any way, i could communicate w him. if he ever comes back home, i’d be with him til days time, but for now i had to let him go. but the right man will never make you question any part of where you stand with him.
or hurt you and make you feel like it’s your fault for his actions.
Dr David can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr David always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
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Text him on Whatzapp now
Biggest Takeaway: if a man is really into you he won’t put himself in a position to lose you
It hurts to know, because he doesn’t care about losing me
I get it . I guess I’m really hurt because he could’ve been real with me
In my situation, I know he still has feelings but he was afraid of getting me back because he feels guilty that he thinks he's the reason my family got messed up (we'reok now, don't worry). Our relationship got into a mess that involved them, which ultimately caused our breakup.
He told me to move on and focus on my life instead even after I stood up for him to my family. Then asked that wants to be friends, but that was an absolute disservice to our memory together as first loves and the sacrifice I did, so I said NO.
He apologized for "taking me for granted" when he wasn't trying to communicate with me back then and I called him out for it.
He had shortcomings (and I did too), but the fact he can say to me to move on just like that was the most offending thing he can do to me.
Pro Tip - Don’t waste your time. Go live your best life. If you are a good woman, he will regret it eventually. If he doesn’t, his loss.
This.
Exactly thank you
if a man calls you crazy for calling him out, he doesn't deserve you. he's gaslighting you and trying to manipulate you.
Daintycake
So true that happen to me lot of times I just block them and move on I don't allow any one to treat me bad
Yes. He’s trying to make you feel bad for defending yourself. Leave.
Haha, yeah. The narc did that to me. I saw him yesterday and I gave him no reaction but he did help me out. Don’t worry, I paid him. Nothing is free with those guys lol.
Also, he’s the reason why I evolved into a super empath and now I can easily spot these people so fast and know how to handle them, it’s amazing.
right, I got called that after confronting him. I'm doing the no-contact.
The whole “replacing him” could also be done with replacing him with yourself. In lieu of new love, Self love, imagine your ideal self and next relationship.
This is what I was thinking!! Why replace with another problem?!
Yes!
Well said
If they ghost or stop chasing, I dont say anything. I Just wait till they come back out If a sudden "hi beautiful" and I say "hii, sorry I Just got married". Lmaaaaaao
Thats a good one 👍 👌 👏 😌
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I say “I’m sorry, who is this?” 🤔🤣 they love that
Ghosting is a big turn off for me; it is so rude and insulting. People of both sexes need to have more respect than that.
🤣🤣🤣
I'm currently doing this and this made me realize I didn't really love him at all
“I don’t think we should do it but we’re gonna make the video anyways” HELLLYA WE ARE
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Lmao
Bahaha
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@@Luxbz23your comment has Google translate trying to convert that cackle to "They pay" 😂
Us women we really attach to chemistry...We think that if a guy keeps coming back, it's destiny showing him he is meant to be with us. That is a load. Thank you for this enlightening video.
Damn this spoke deep to my soul. Thank you, wise sister
Omg yes sis this is true :(
Exactly we're get too emotional to leave them . And they take advantage of it. Fuck this bullshit.
If you cut a narcissist off leave them cut off
So true 🔥
How to know if someone is a narcissist..??..
When the guy can't take responsibility of his own actions and try the blame guilt game on you. Lock him out of your life for good. I don't want a man child
hello do you need help why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
whatzapp
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This shit is all common sense until you’re actually in it. Never thought I’d settle for friends or let a guy come back before.. but when you really fall for someone... fuck.
So true yes what you say and it doesn't make us a less of a person ❤
I'm in this situation now and I'm letting go after 3 months
So hard but if a guy likes you, he will make it easy for you
Exactly!
True
Totally agree!!!
He either wants to be with you or he doesn't don't lower your standards for some guy who doesn't want to be with you. Move on and live your best life
A person shouldn’t need to be “called out” in order to act like a decent human being
U speak my words
I think to myself why would you want a man that you have to tell him how to treat you. It should be automatic I rather be single than go through this bull crap. I just have my own life and right for the guy to come into my life.
Not every man had a good role model in their life. It’s not about teaching them or telling them that sometimes you have to show a man how you want to be treated.
@@queenjolie no thanks that sounds stupid if they dont have the common sense on how to treat someone then they are immature. Im just saying I dont have time for someone stressing me out over pity stuff.
@@tonitaquetaparks3304 i agréé💯💯
Yes!!! Thank you... one month of dating a guy, and I'm exhausted... trying to explain how to treat me. When I really liked him and we laughed alot!! 🥺😭😭
"I DON"T GIVE A SHIT!! CALL HIS ASS OUT!!!"
😂😂😂 I needed to hear that.
Me too!
He doesn't think anything is wrong with him!
Being friends with an ex is for suckers. Letting the guy have your cake and eat hers, hers and hers too😂
Solid advice. A narcissist will find another supply if you don't validate them.
Have no sympathy for the ex, don’t feel sorry for them. They aren’t sitting around crying over you. They are back on the app scrolling looking for the next victim. Truth is, your replacement was already in the background. 1/3 divorces come from online affairs. You have been warned!!!!
Great video! That's exactly what I told him. I don't want to have casual conversation or just be your friend. I'm not settling for pieces of something I wanted all of. I'm worth way more than that. I'm not worried about burning bridges, I can swim😘.
Dr David can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr David always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
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And I assure you he will definitely going to help you in any area you want
Agreed! I want no PIECES to something I wanted all of. Don’t want no piece of a man that’s half way with his foot in the door and halfway out!
Bruh, guy said he was “too busy” even though he lives .2 miles away. One strike policy for me so this guy is history. LOVE your videos! 🤘🏼
I just cut off my 2 year LDR because he wouldn't quit flirting with others and never wanted to be exclusive with me. Haven't spoken to him in almost a month, and he hasn't tried to reach out. I'm in the dark insecure phase where I can't entertain other men, but refuse to entertain his BS anymore, too. So, just eating spoonfuls of Nutella and watching Doctor Who, trying to convince myself to quit loving someone who doesn't love me back. Super hard.
Hang in there hun
Move on hon. Take your energy off of him (look that up) Date others (helps immensely) You deserve to be cherished & loved. He wasn’t into you ...only your assets. I was in the same ditch. Hurts. Date others! Have fun 🤩
Same girl same
When a man truly wants you he would be there! Remeber that!
@Hoo Doo just text him on Whatzapp now
TOTALLY AGREE with this one! I never understood women who allow a man to leave then come back, then leave etc. When I am done, I AM DONE! Not friends, not acquaintances, nothing. If the guy treated me poorly, I do not want him around me anyways. It is difficult at times, because I know when I am done, I am DONE, so I give the relationship and the guy some room for mistakes, no one is perfect, but if and when it gets to the point I am not living the life I want, it is over completely!
Exactly! Also it is easier and healthier to heal completely if the ex is completely out of your life!
@@alisand2371 who told you, stop saying that. God can do it dear
I was like that too all the time, but there’s only one guy I couldn’t have my boundaries straight bc only that situation was complicated in unexpected way.
Sometimes they got you even if you believe you are the smartest and the best bs detector ever.
@Nonya ❤
I love the way you say “I DON’T GIVE A SHIT WHAT HE THINKS or SAYS!!!”. It makes my day 😂😂 Thank you
Yea if they don’t care… they really don’t care. Even if they come back it’s just to boost their ego.
Oh yeah...and you know, I never trust some random men crying over women that they didn't treat them well...no, men themselves miss on great women, because they are insanely stupid.
They always want me when I don't want them anymore..story of my life
Yeah
SAME
What has helped me keep my sanity up to this point is, I try my best not to sacrifice my own comfort by making myself feel miserable at the expense of getting a guy to take me seriously. When things degenerate to the degree that he isn’t even willing to validate me as a living, breathing, human, being, because he’s insecure and he’s trying to “put me in my place”, I dip out immediately.
Good advices from you
Do not fear losing a guy that doesn't know your worth.There are man that will respect and accept who u are someone that will make u true happy.
I agree completely with this. I had my ex-husband came onto me a couple months after I left him. It was because I cut him off completely and he wanted to know if there was still a chance, I rejected him and that is when it finally sunk in for him that our marriage was over. He cheated on me, and I left him two weeks later and clearly explained why. That wasn't enough for the man's ego though, he wanted to make sure it was "for sure" done and it sure was.
Sorry you had to experience that and I hope you are healed. Broke up with my so called bf coz he wasn't sure what he wanted and had the nerve to suggest other girls whom to marry (which I consider cheating). I said goodbye end of last year but he still isn't getting it. Texting me, saying his relatives passed away and then texting me on birthday and on top of that texting my sister to keep tabs on me as I don't respond much to him. I am trying to be graceful and be civil but if he doesn't get it that it's over I should maybe block him. Time to move on and time to look forward to new things.
I am sorry you went through this. Just wondering if he ever got his karma for cheating on you? ❤️
I think your right, Keep it logical. If I look at our relationship logically it was good we broke up. When I get in my emotions that's when I stay in situations I shouldn't.
My husband walked out on me 5 times and I begged and let him come back. Not proud but I'm learning. I think this video applies.
You learned, that’s all that mattered👏🏼
It takes building that muscle
He didn’t make me an option, but he verbally abused me bad. It’s very exhausting. I loved him But I’m not with him anymore. I tried hard. It’s very difficult to find a good man
You are the best and 100% right. These narcissists are energy vampires.
They are...
I freaking love how REAL & Blunt you are!!! Don’t apologize for telling us to shut up lol 😂 j/p
He has my attention more than other coaches out there. Love his style.
But then...then that's just one more guy who you're allowing to speak to you/treat you badly 😢 😅 pssshhh 😅
I’m going through that right now....everything you are saying is just so damn true...it’s my fault I let this hit happen to me...I love him so much but is time to let him go...is for me and for my sanity...he may care for me but not enough to make me his lady...is time I love on...
So do men actually fall in love or are they just always looking to gain?
Good question?
Awesome question
Men do love, they are human but some guys are just plain assholes and too developed in the whole player mentality.
This is really a great question. This should be Elliot’s next video lol. I’ve always wondered about this too bcz it seems they just look for validation to boost their egos once a lady is emotionally invested, then he becomes an asshole. It’s really infuriating and it’s hard to trust men in general
Good question indeed
Sooooo True!!!! By allowing him to be inconsistent he thinks its okay! Give things time and stop hooking up way too early. See if you like him enough first to even sleep with him.
I got an ad in the middle of this saying stop chasing men 😅
I just blocked a selfish narcissist and I feel at peace
Sometimes you don't actually want sympathy just want to say the truth
Yup!
This is actually pretty great advice, not just on making a man regret thing, but just how to approach dating in general. ✌️
Not only my favorite but best dating couch on TH-cam (also the most honest) I feel like most "gurus" gaslight you to justify the guy (ehem, we girls do that already they try to hard lol) and say stuff like "wait and wait and wait" and Elliot is like "he either likes you or not"
YEEEEES, eff all the other bs, I'm not getting younger and I won't settle for a situationShip of 2 long yrs again!
thanks for all the advice you do, you really are helping us out :)
Yessss! I try hard to avoid that but I'm sure I do sometimes. I even have it in the discription that I try to avoid that lol
He speaks from the heart and let’s face it....people can be frustrating to deal with. Look at the things we get ourselves into. He’s trying to wake us up!!!! I have learnt more from watching 3 of his videos than other coaches because of his style.
I've played this three times. I need this. He wants to be my friend. No, enough. I miss him deeply but I won't do this to myself. Enough. Enough.
Don't want him to feel bad, I love the dude but he's a divorcing mess.
He’s so right! I love the way he just says it like it is!
"Life is not a dress rehersal"
Love that! ❤️
Thank you for this!!! This was so helpful! it made me realize that I just need to walk away.
It also made me realize I was an option and not a priority thank you so much!!! 😢❤
Love you Elliot❤
You are the brother I never had to talk to me about how sneaky men are.
Thanks to you, I feel I'm a more assertive woman, and my confidence has increased. I feel like a high value woman❤
I love this guy. I'm glad I came across him. My new dating coach 😂. I'm so serious.
He likes you too
@@ElliotScottDating Thanks and I will keep watching 😃. Keep doing what you're doing! 😊
This guy showed so much feelings for me. Then all of a sudden when I told him I wanted to take some time to just talk to him first he got all salty and his attitude changed. Then when I started to like him he was an asshole towards me... trash.
The same situation...I feel you girl. Women are much more of decent human beings than men are, really...
I looove how straightforward Elliot is! :D no bullshit talk
We should learn that when we love then we don't own the person!
If we truly love him/her letting things flow freely and smoothly is the better way to do.
I love you but if you're not happy with me then please i want u to find your happiness.
Thats true love.. but crying and trying to keep him even if he's not happy with u anymore is selfishness!
Leave that lame alone , you don’t actually want him , your ego does
Called me out
I've been binging on your videos and i have to say you are one of the most genuine coaches in youtube that's helping us (females) understand how a man works and how to safeguard our heart and soul. I love how you dont give a shit and is prepared to cut the guy off(on our behalf) if he is really an asshole! Bless your heart 🌻 Big fan from Singapore 💜
Im going to do this, all of what you say, (not to hurt but to move on) then report back on here for all you girls to see if this can work what the out come was...
Thank you and also ive bought your course for personal growth 😊 greetings from New Zealand ❤
Be careful with replacing! I saw men who were not willing to go back...
replacing him for the sake of getting him back is always a bad idea I feel you replace them with something worthy of replacing
Lmfaooooo @4:25 was me at one point saying I still wanna be his friend because I want him in my life 😂😂😂😂😭 then Elliot said shut up no you don’t 💀 damn I needed to hear that
We’re living in the days where men and women have both waxed cold when it comes to love. It’s unfortunate but these games have to be put to use if you want to find true love. People have been hurt time after time and because of that, games are implemented to ensure someone is trustworthy of the next person’s heart & assets
I had to check a guy yesterday. He started inconsistent and refused to go out on dates. I called him out and moved on. I don't care about what he thinks. I don't care if he gets his stuff together. I'm not settling. You can't miss what you ain't got! Let him go!
Elliot, I wish I would’ve listened to you years ago. A lot of your advice is pretty good, logical, and usually on point. Most of the things you mention in your videos I have experienced with guys over the years, and can’t help but think “Yep, totally makes sense. Should’ve did that with him”. I had to learn things the hard way. I’m taking it step by step, but I’m trying to take my experiences and everything I’ve learned into consideration in hopes for a better dating life in the future. Thank you for the videos, keep up the good work.
Right on time!
Omg i love you!!! This video is super helpful i can't 😢😢
Thank you, thank you! I don't have to justify, he will! Quote of the day. Called him out. And yes...I told him: as long as you treat me the same way you treated your ex, you will get the same reaction. Same effort, same outcome....different effort, different putcome...Treat me with trust and respect or go.
I needed to hear this. Roack on! Thanks.
Needed it badly. Thank you, you're a wise human ❤
Perfect timing!!! I so needed to hear this! 🙌🏼💯
Dr David can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr David always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
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Text him on Whatzapp now
And I assure you he will definitely going to help you in any area you want
When he does something shitty to you, you give him another chance.... he does it again, its payback asshole.
"Oh you're crying and sad now that you've had a dose of your own medicine? Oh well 🤷🏻♀️"
Strangely healing.
I love how blunt you are, really made me realize a thing or two 😂
Ikr, when you said “shut up” my eyes did this 😳 I felt that lol 😆
We just need to be told the same in many different ways 🤭
Ouch! Yup
Facts on facts on facts. Great vid 👍🏽
Love it when you give us the straight talk, E!
Dr David can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr David always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
➕2 3 4 9 0 3 0 0 2 4 3 6 4,,,,,,
Text him on Whatzapp now
And I assure you he will definitely going to help you in any area you want
LOOOOL he’s right, women don’t listen even tho he’s 100% right 🤣🤣
I love your advice so much and it always arrives at the right time ❤
You're my favorite cheerleader. I know this shit and sometimes it's nice to hear it from a dude . Idfk. When we like a guy we get stupid and I'm not stupid. Ty 🤣
Once I'm done with a guy I don't really care what he thinks or feels. I'm just done.
I never wanted sympathy, i wanted the truth. He never told me the truth. Another truth is the right guy won't hurt you, if he did unintentionally he will correct it by himself, you wont do anything to make him regret it. If a guy is careless, walk away no matter how hard no matter how feelings overpower you, just walk away in silence
I really appreciate your honesty. Thank you!
Damn boy put me on BLAST! Loved it 💋
Watching this weekly to keep reminding myself. Excellent video thank you
Love your attitude Elliot, that no B.S. approach made me subscribe 🙊💖
Feels like when my brothers telling me the harsh truth 😂😂😂
Thank you for being blunt and telling us what we need to hear, your content SO fucking refreshing xx
Damn .. why didnt i found you years back... it could have safed my marriage 💔👫
A guy ghosted me twice. The second time I just left him on read. And then I didn’t open the other messages. He wouid have to pull some crazy shit for me to ever talk to him again, I’m done with the bullshit! I told him if he ever ghosted c/m again I’d never talk to him again. So when he popped up after the second ghosting I didn’t feel I needed to explain or call him out as I had already done that the first time he ghosted and came back. If you ghost the ghoster who pops back up it is justified! Lol So far so good. I’m over it. Kiss my feet and pull an act of god or I’m seriously done and I was IN LOVE with this guy. Damn disappointment. But enough is enough! Bye bye 👋
Women are different when they’re older, they are not outcome dependent, care less, don’t have patience for his BS
He just wants to text and its boring. I've mentioned many times it'd be good to have phone/video interactions. I feel unheard. I've decided I'm done texting
Just what I needed to know+learn. 💕🙏🏻
Just found your channel and you weren't lying when you called yourself the best relationship coach. This is the best shit I've ever come across. Wasted my time watching all the other useless vids on YT. Literally everyone just needs to subscribe to you. Love your tough love typa style of explaining things without sugarcoating. Really needed this, so thank you. Gonna binge watch your vids despite having a bunch of stuff to get done for college.
I try telling people lol. But they want to learn the hard way lol. welcome here :)
Friends...no. That’s just prolonging the inevitable. It’s over and he doesn’t want you. Move on. I just did.
Talking that TRUTH today!!!! Love it
Thanks again Elliott!! Just love your advice! 🤗😘
Never listened to a coach I liked more ( even Matthew Hussey) . You say it how it is without candy coated bs !
That's the only way to teach it. Too many dudes already playing games and bullshitting you. The last thing you need is a coach doing it
I did call a guy out and blocked him. I wasn't afraid to do that, because he knew I wanted a relationship but all he seemed to want was friends with benefits because he started to pull away.
I freaking love you 😂 you're my kinda OG lol telling me the way shit is, and I can appreciate the vulgarity that's in your videos haha 👌💯😁😄
Omg your amazing and smart, i really needed this on my overnight shift.
Agreed hete Elliott! No place holding! My daughter needs to replace him.
DUDE...I FREAKING L OVE MAN. 🤣🤣🤣😍🤣🥰NO B.S. , NO FEAF OF HURTING OUR FEELINGS, no excuses and best of all NO APOLOGIES BABY YEAH!!! YOU ARE A DAMN BREATH OF FRESH AIR. DO YOU KNOW THAT?!?! Such a damn welcomed change compared to the usual we are usually served. LOL! 🥰
Love you so Much man. Never stop doing what youre doing. Amd ill never stop following and watching. 🥰🥰
I dont care anymore. We do care. I care. I'm listening because I want to stay gone and not fall for his words and waste anymore my precious time talking to him.