1 Corinthians 13:4-8 “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away”. Humans complicate the heck outta love. It’s beyond simple! The first attribute of love is patience. If you’re in a supposed love relationship with someone and they don’t practice patience with ya, it ain’t real love. Nextly, it’s kind. If you’re in an unkind disrespectful relationship, it most assuredly ain’t real love. Use this biblical template of what love is to measure someone’s love for you. Don’t compare animal love to human love. They aren’t the same at all! Remember God=Love. He is love personified! ❤️ and ✌️
And to think that my first boyfriend in the 9th grade gave me this exact note as a gift and I laughed so much I thought it was so corny 😖😖😖 Now that I’m 35 and struggled for years in a very toxic relationship I realize that walking away was the best thing that ever happened to me - how I wish my parents taught me to find a meaningful relationship.
I'm not in a relationship, but I try to apply this to my own feelings towards others. It's becoming easier as the Lord restores my broken heart into a softer, more gentle replacement of its former self. I prayed for years to be kinder, gentler... It feels so good! God is so, so good!
Wish I had seen this years ago. Would have saved me from so much heartache. I literally almost died trying so hard with someone who never loved me. Only the benefit of me. Now I understand! Why can’t we all just be genuine? Thank you for this video and wise words.
Every single word You the 100 year old wrote It is so very true I have lived a lot of it myself. I guess you could say I'm a woman loves ltoo much I was giving that book by a counselor once Some years ago. It took me 15 years to finish all of My psychology degree But for Very necessary reasons One of the things my mother always told Ush was better late than never. It's part of what you give me the knowledge to know that You sit or right on the mark. Thank you so much for sharing you are helping Me Too! Bring me to get back on the right track again
Your words are so true! That's my ex- he loved the benefit of having me around. He was incapable of pure love. If I had known then that I'd find a perfect man for me later, I'd have left him sooner, instead of wasting 20 years trying to fix a relationship that was never right. But it's ok, because my 2nd relationship was worth the wait.
I spent 25 years of my life with who I thought was the love of my life to find out he wasn’t. I am now happily blessed with my second husband and this hits it out of the park. I’m happy that I got a chance to feel how love is really suppose to feel like. It’s wonderful. Even with the difficult moments. It’s all worth it. 💖💖
With my X husband loving him was like I was being graded on it. Everything I did was wrong. We ended up not getting along most of the time. My husband today, loving him is effortless and he doesn’t expect anything from me. Just to be me.
“If a man doesn’t love you, he talks about other things except you. He so g take an interest in you, spend as little time as possible, and will never make you a priority.”
My case now with my “ fiancé “. It’s all about his kids, parents, siblings. All about how they can have a better life by coming to America once he is here ( don’t thing he will make it here through me).
@@Goodliving22 He doesn't care about you. RUN! Don't be used by him. He'll feel clever and smug for figuring out how to get what he wants by using you as a tool, he will not feel any gratitude toward you for letting him do it since he knows he's using you.
I waisted my 20’s being married and have two beautiful boys and he abandoned us. Starting all over was tuff but it made me into the strong woman I am today❤️😍 and I still believe in Love
I saw true love in this world only from my parents. I do not get that love from anyone else. Many people try to pick a beautiful flower when it blooms, but the tree is the only one that knows how much love and affection was given to the bud to bloom as a beautiful flower.. That tree is the one and only owner of that bloomed flower forever ❤️😍😘😘💖💖
None can love you and care for you like your parents do... The love you got, stays with you... Other people love in different ways. Even a stranger can love one as a stranger, (if they do). A friend as a friend... Etc. All the loves are needed, have their place and purpose..
That's an amazing perspective! I love that! All trees, flowers, grass, etc are living things and nature feels and sees what people are doing to this world. We are killing ourselves. Birds are slowly fading away bc we are cutting down their habitat . Don't get me started!! Beautiful saying ♥️🌷🌸🥀🌹💐🌻🌱🍁🍄🌼🌱☘️🦋🐦🐿️🐇🐎🌍🏔️🌊
This is so true. I spent too much time with someone I deep down knew didn’t love me. I’m glad I let that go and found what I have now. All the things that are said are true about love, although it may not be easy all the time, but now, as I look back, I can more easily see it wasn’t love. Its even more obvious compared to what I have now. It’s always so obvious in hindsight. I’m glad I had the courage to move past.
@@marionachieng9576 True happiness comes from within one's self, not from other's. It's not that they can't bring you joy. They can bring, give .... if one isn't happy from within they will never be truly satisfied with anything another might bring to the relationship.
Unrequited love is a different kind of pain. You still love them, even though you know they don't love you back. It feels like grief... even though they're still alive 😔
Sooo true stop waiting on someone else's love if you got to beg & plead & tolerate their toxic ass behavior its time to exist thr damn stage left and fine someone who willing & ready to give it to you lady's & gentlemen...
True Love is loyalty , respect and surrendering ego. When a love project or a marriage fails it means one or two of the mentioned ingredients were missing in the relationship.
I was divorced at age 35 after 10years of marriage. I'm much happier now. It was the best decision of my life but sadly to this day three years later, I still have not experienced what love feels like. Perhaps I never will
@@ravenmeyer3740 I agree I don't think many do. maybe obky based on their egoic needs or how sexually fulfilling women make them. I think many just lust and get infatuated.
I agree we must love ourselves first before we can really love someone else, but I don't know if I believe that it's just going to arrive!! In fact many great loving, deserving people I know who love themselves and have much to offer haven't found love. I know several personally. It's not that simple.
@@joannabender152 it really depends on what you need it to mean, with me love just arrives means within myself for myself. We have found love when it comes from inside ourselves, the other kind is an illusion. We attract what we manifest whatever corresponds to our inner state or not and this is ok. 🥰
I've found all these in one person. The trick is being able to do it long term. Never found it. People love you because they need something from you. Usually they need to bear children. Also because they can't stand to be alone. We use "love" as a way to hide a million agendas. Very few people have true unconditional love.
I think the media romantizes “love” too much and causes so much suffering in those who constantly seek for this idealized “love”. In reality, “love” is ever changing, conditional and fleeting.
Love is caring about someone's happiness, or them caring about ours, and needing nothing in return. Need is not love. We all need to be loved, and that is different.
Love's a blessing. You can't buy it. You can't negotiate it. You can't owe it. Love's free like the air we breathe. Love has no religion or breed. All living things can love & be loved.
Thank u for this I know love is free and freedom I should not be the only one giving it gos Waze that’s why I should be like fire Earth wind and fire I mean like all of that and it should not cost me a thing except for my heart you know better than that thank you for this blessing
"Waiting is a sign of true love and patience. Anyone can say I love you, but not everyone can wait and prove it's true." Ah. That explains courtship. Yes to courtship baby.
I agree to courtship too! No intimacy at all, for a good.....two years! Chaperoned or not, innocent courtship! You get to know the real person! If along the way things don't seem agreeable then there was no complicated emotional loss or that used feeling. You can end up really liking the sexual part, but not the person. That is so complicating on your soul! Hard to break free from that drug!
Watching this with tears flowing. Been with someone 8months. I am totally in love. He tells me he cannot feel for me what I desire. He wants us to be 'friends'. I realise now I have to break free. The pain is unbearable. At 60 I feel 'true love' for the first time only for it to be rejected. May everyone on here find their true love. 🙏🌷
@@starlenemurray4112 thank you for your reply. Funnily enough 'narcissist' videos popped up yesterday. He fits the description in every way 😞 . makes the break up easier. Best wishes to you on your own journey 🌷🌞🙏
I spent 54 yrs with my husband. We had ups and downs and ins and outs but we always came out on top. My marriage was never dull That's true love people. He is in Heaven since Aug. I miss him every day. True love gives great memories to carry you through.
As an older developmentally and physically challenged woman I've spent the past 43 years of my life surrounded by my immediate family members only and I have never ever ever ever been more loved & happier than I am right now .# I will never ever ever ever find a "real man" and I'm just fine with that outcome .
Thank you this. I really needed to hear all of these things. Mine only wanted me when he needed something. His phone was in his face and no time for me. I finally had to let the love of my life go. Hardest thing I have done and wish him the best. I always said actions speak louder than words
I really needed this too. Seems like everyone is involved with you and your one sided love issues. Glad they listened to you . You have never talked to me about anything. The phone thing with me has never been the problem. The problem is with you being on social media so much to your friends who are so proud of you hanging in there with a wife who has never given up on you.
I choose to not allow someone to make me into a rebound. Ask the questions, get your answer. Allow for a snap decision if need be. If you are loving someone who wants a f friend, that is not someone to treat as a f friend, but someone to demote immediately to friend, or to immediately demote to acquaintance, or to demote further still to ex acquaintance. Love yourself enough to analyze this from your own perspective. When in doubt, its usually throw it out. Life is too short!
I was blessed with the really deep love of my life. Good man , I still love Him and miss Him every day. He passed away sixteen years ago. This is good video. Yes, it does take courage. There's also many different loves . But only one. ONE real love. I will love my husband indefinitely. Great video.
All these quotes are so beautiful...It's the true meaning of true love..True love is beyond sexual attraction it's the feeling in the hearts of 2 souls.. It's not at all on the physical aspects. True love cannot generally be seen but it's felt .
Talk to Jesus every night talk to Jesus every morning tell Jesus how much you love him and you will receive that love back a million times you'll feel the peace
At least you know it. Some people call their mistreatment love and do it to others. They then call it tough love as they annoy and bother the rest of us.
Not always, sometimes someone comes that heals, it has happened before, and it still happens and it will happen again, it doesn't necessarily has to be someone you fall in love with, a partner, but it still can be and many times it is too
Love is magical, it makes you sew things you would never have imagined you could do. True love is a lifetime pack of magic, it never ends, there's beauty in every little moment you share.
Humm real love doesn't meet you at your best it meets you in your mess. That's no joke. Wow! I was always told the opposite....now I see what that means and it's true!! =) God I do love this man. This was very helpful. Thank you!
In current society, this "love" is attached to lots of nitty-gritty conditions (NOT deal-breakers), and the mindset that "love" is easy. "Love" simply falls into place, not much work nor effort is needed.
Very well said. Profound and practical words I wish I had heard in my twenties. May all of us find this true love; may all of us love and beloved for the lifetime.
i can never settle with anyone who only loves themself. i want an equally balanced love that is reciprocated, and must make each other happy. If u cannot be comfortable around each other and feel like walking on eggshells- cannot be your true self, that is a dangerous situation to be in and only wastes your time. life is way too short to tolerate what is not meant for you! Never settle for what does not serve you. do not put your happiness, safety, healthy, and love on hold, because life will pass you by quicker before you know it.
Yes. This is great. The talk all night. The one thing is it's not true if others are dragged into your relationship . It's between two, and the spiritual or third...not other people...
This is also true for the love for your family and friends - when it’s natural it’s wonderful. If I never feel the love of a man again - I won’t mind - I know what it feels like and I am happy.
True love is demonstrating the courage it takes to step forward an ask sone out...Give up over thinking what the outcome would be an move forward. The most admirable character in the world is courage to show your interest.
Evry word and every quote is true.. I wish everyone found real love and be happy together whole life.love is magical. I can surely say this. Finally got a video where someone exolain true love so nicely. So beautiful video
I believe In love . I really do. I celebrate love whenever I see it. So very happy for those that it touches.I also feel it’s not for everyone. So I just focus on giving as much love as I can to all that are willing to receive 🌹💕😘🌹
Worst thing is being told you're good looking and a wonderful person by everyone you meet, yet the one person you want to acknowledge the good person they have, the one person who would do anything for them and love them until the end. Some people at incapable of love and prefer to rip the souls out of the good ones and waste time on complete low lives who will never care about them. This superficial world has created some truly horrific monsters who use, abuse, manipulate and break you down just to discard of you like you were absolutely nothing. It's a cruel world to know that you are a great person and everything a normal woman would love to have in their life but they'd rather be toxic and destroy you.
And he deserves the best and I am happy that he found it he's a beautiful man I just need to accept I have so much to learn and grateful for all the difficult lessons I've endured I know I'm better person today then I was yesterday and God will help me continue to grow where ever I go from here I have faith in that
I seem to be at my worst, where are they! Lol! Remind me to roll out of bed, drag myself out, be rude, a bit tipsy, ..............come to think of it, I used to get all kinds of males this way! One potential man that was in my heart. At the time I was a mess, come to think of it he was always gentleman like, danced well together, never inappropriate talk, he even asked to see me again. I had other issues to fix, I declined. After that he always was nice to me. Years later we talked, he gave me his number! I could not get to know him more, I was scared I would like him that much more. I was at a stage where I was trying to get closer to God, and I didn't want nothing to deter that. I was scared he would not agree with my form of worship, and the rejection would have bothered me! This is a long story! I fear to run into him! It was a relief he moved away! I saw the other day, he is back! I am scared! I want a man that loves God and worships him the right way! So we can share a very important aspect/ morals, hopes, same line of thought etc.. If I talk to him about this, I am scared to lose his admiration, so I don't want to go there! It has been a couple of years, he probably has a girlie by now! Like Eyeore would say" Doesn't matter anyway!" Lol!
This speaks to me. I am currently in this situation but I don't want to face the reality a part of me is still holding to the great times we shared. I honestly don't believe il find someone better out there. But then again am not happy in this relationship that am in.
it’s truly better to be happy with oneself and “alone” than with someone who makes us feel unloved and alone. i used to feel the same! we deserve better. i am happier alone than i am when i was “with” him. and i used to feel the same way as you. but, everyone has their own things that are possible and important to them, i wish you the best whatever you choose! but live with an abundance mindset instead of fear/lacking mindset for your own peace
I am 56+ year old married in 1992 blessing God for making me to know Him. Definitely, this can only be God (agape love). Even the Bible said that " God is love" He picked you and I from the mery clay, ; a dejected fellow with no hope. With unconditional love, not minding our state of imperfections. Thank you Jesus.
@@cleopetra87 Agapo love is a non traditional love. It's a big love, higher level of growth and consciousness. It's when you rather give your love and care to those who need it, then those who are close to you (like relatives and friends, etc.). Mother Theresa might be an example of Agapo love....
Love is subjective million people have millions of definition for love I personally think love is when ur body indicate that this is whom u want to be despite of any gender...love is journey filled wid exotic feels.... 💜
I’m so happy that I do love my self Enough to for I can say what I do need and what I don’t want so yes I do love myself enough now I mean and but I used to be but I know but I do want and I know what I don’t want
Please remember that not everyone is an empath. I am an empath. I do anything for my lover. Some ppl have severe mental illness and can't help how they act sometimes.... doesn't mean they don't love you. But if you're 5 years in or 9 or more.... you don't have to deal with it. You can love and respect them but don't need to be trapped with them after you've given them so many chances
There's too much regret, pain and suffering when you fall deeply in love 💕 with the wrong person. It breaks your soul. Don't ignore any signs of, "I feel as though I'm in love, all by myself."
Beautiful listening too this only makes me realize long ago l never new love. It's deeper than you think wow I love learning about the real definition of Love ! Wow
The problem is,where do you find someone with these wonderful qualities,few people are lucky to get that great soul mate who loves them and treats them with such care and tenderness,most of us get stuck with horrible useless human beings,narcissistic,creatures who are not capable of really loving anyone,all they care about is control over the other person.
I was in a relationship with a guy that was always shopping around literally in front of me. He always acted like he was looking for something better all the time so I kicked him to the curb. No Im with my husband for 22 years.
Beautiful thanks 🙏 just as I have always thought of it within my soul. I thought I was made to hold these exact views... I happy to see it reflected the same from another...⭐️✨⭐️
True love doesnt yell at eachother!! True love doesnt rat on one another!! True love listens too one another:) true love makes you crave one another!! Not hate one another🙄
We are all loved in some way. There wouldn't be anyone here without some semblance of love. We learn our love lessons from our parents, perhaps our greatest teachers, as well as every human we encounter and have even the slightest interaction with. Obviously the longer we live, the more we run into experiences that seem to be the opposite of love. Those who are truly engaged in their personal love journey forgive and continue to love both themselves and those who "hurt" them. They are on the road to loving unconditionally. It is not a journey for the faint at heart. It requires more strength, more courage, and more stamina than most of us believe we have. Love transcends ALL. That is the real story of the man we call Jesus. Who was both the Son of God and our Brother. If this is true; we must All be Sons and Daughters of God. Created as One and in the Image of the Father. Love IS All there is and will Forever be. The Greatest Spiritual teachers have informed us that we are living an Egoic Dream an Illusion if you will. In the "Wizard of Oz" the wizard is the symbol of man's Ego. It appears to be all powerful. When the curtains are pulled back it is seen for what it truly is...Weak... Powerless...Insecure!
I believe in forgiveness I believe in harmony I believe in like I believe and hope that’s my biggest thing is hope And by didn’t have that I wouldn’t believe in anything so I do believe in forgiveness and I believe that I know I’m not right all the time and I know I’m not perfect I come with a lot of flaws but my heart is genuine and no one has taken that yet so thank you God
I spend all my life and time for my husband. He says he cares but doesnt spent time with me. Its sad he does not value me .Beautiful quote 'Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired'.
I think A man or women who says they don't value you i Says it all! It's time you leave and move on and remember once y ou were once a valued person in your own right! before you got married remember if your husband doesn't respect you then ask your self is this right I don't think so never give to much love or anything if they don't deserve it because you put him on a pedestal and made him seem more valued than yourself my friend !! This is not good in life to make yourself seem l less ! Now go and rethink what you want from life and people and how to get the recognition you deserved.and be strong we are not a second class human !! but we reap what we allow . .🙏 ❤️ ..
Everyone talks about "find someone" but no one talks about "be the one". ~ Jordan Peterson
We expect perfect love from people who haven’t learned to love themselves.
I would never expect perfect love from anyone. But it would sure be a refreshing change to have SOME love.
👍❤️👏
@@laurelvance5533 there is love all around.
@@StrangeAngles Happy for you.
expecting.......is the wrong motivation for anything
"Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place." Love it. Crying reading these.
why im cry let her go.
Can't help but cry sometimes and after crying is done I feel better. ❤
I absolutely love this. "They say you only fall in love once, not true, every time I look at you I fall in love all over again." Had me in tears.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away”. Humans complicate the heck outta love. It’s beyond simple!
The first attribute of love is patience. If you’re in a supposed love relationship with someone and they don’t practice patience with ya, it ain’t real love. Nextly, it’s kind. If you’re in an unkind disrespectful relationship, it most assuredly ain’t real love. Use this biblical template of what love is to measure someone’s love for you. Don’t compare animal love to human love. They aren’t the same at all! Remember God=Love. He is love personified! ❤️ and ✌️
TRUTH!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
And to think that my first boyfriend in the 9th grade gave me this exact note as a gift and I laughed so much I thought it was so corny 😖😖😖
Now that I’m 35 and struggled for years in a very toxic relationship I realize that walking away was the best thing that ever happened to me - how I wish my parents taught me to find a meaningful relationship.
I'm not in a relationship, but I try to apply this to my own feelings towards others. It's becoming easier as the Lord restores my broken heart into a softer, more gentle replacement of its former self. I prayed for years to be kinder, gentler... It feels so good! God is so, so good!
🙏🙏🙏
Massive Amen.
Wish I had seen this years ago. Would have saved me from so much heartache. I literally almost died trying so hard with someone who never loved me. Only the benefit of me. Now I understand! Why can’t we all just be genuine? Thank you for this video and wise words.
Every single word You the 100 year old wrote It is so very true I have lived a lot of it myself. I guess you could say I'm a woman loves ltoo much I was giving that book by a counselor once Some years ago.
It took me 15 years to finish all of My psychology degree But for Very necessary reasons
One of the things my mother always told Ush was better late than never. It's part of what you give me the knowledge to know that You sit or right on the mark.
Thank you so much for sharing you are helping Me Too! Bring me to get back on the right track again
Your words are so true! That's my ex- he loved the benefit of having me around. He was incapable of pure love. If I had known then that I'd find a perfect man for me later, I'd have left him sooner, instead of wasting 20 years trying to fix a relationship that was never right. But it's ok, because my 2nd relationship was worth the wait.
@@Carolmaizy He was incapable of your concept of pure love. maybe something in you changed that made the second marriage work.
I spent 25 years of my life with who I thought was the love of my life to find out he wasn’t. I am now happily blessed with my second husband and this hits it out of the park. I’m happy that I got a chance to feel how love is really suppose to feel like. It’s wonderful. Even with the difficult moments. It’s all worth it. 💖💖
could you tell me some of the dfferences, eg, in their behaviour towards you?
With my X husband loving him was like I was being graded on it. Everything I did was wrong. We ended up not getting along most of the time. My husband today, loving him is effortless and he doesn’t expect anything from me. Just to be me.
@@nancyhicks8329 that is beautiful, thank you.
good for you!
I'm so happy for. You deserve it. It gives me hope.
“If a man doesn’t love you, he talks about other things except you. He so g take an interest in you, spend as little time as possible, and will never make you a priority.”
came here for this quote, lived this reality
My case now with my “ fiancé “. It’s all about his kids, parents, siblings. All about how they can have a better life by coming to America once he is here ( don’t thing he will make it here through me).
@@Goodliving22 better to see a user before they use u
@@Goodliving22 He is telling you the truth and exactly what he will do! Listen.
@@Goodliving22 He doesn't care about you. RUN! Don't be used by him. He'll feel clever and smug for figuring out how to get what he wants by using you as a tool, he will not feel any gratitude toward you for letting him do it since he knows he's using you.
I waisted my 20’s being married and have two beautiful boys and he abandoned us. Starting all over was tuff but it made me into the strong woman I am today❤️😍 and I still believe in Love
I saw true love in this world only from my parents. I do not get that love from anyone else. Many people try to pick a beautiful flower when it blooms, but the tree is the only one that knows how much love and affection was given to the bud to bloom as a beautiful flower.. That tree is the one and only owner of that bloomed flower forever ❤️😍😘😘💖💖
None can love you and care for you like your parents do... The love you got, stays with you...
Other people love in different ways. Even a stranger can love one as a stranger, (if they do). A friend as a friend... Etc. All the loves are needed, have their place and purpose..
So at least you are lucky … I did not even get my parents love … 😢
That's an amazing perspective! I love that! All trees, flowers, grass, etc are living things and nature feels and sees what people are doing to this world. We are killing ourselves. Birds are slowly fading away bc we are cutting down their habitat . Don't get me started!! Beautiful saying ♥️🌷🌸🥀🌹💐🌻🌱🍁🍄🌼🌱☘️🦋🐦🐿️🐇🐎🌍🏔️🌊
I'm happy for you. You are blessed. I have broken family and we sister's are the once who adjust to our parents
It’s a beautiful thing that you had parents to show you love and affection many people never had that love from the very beginning 🫶🏼
This is so true. I spent too much time with someone I deep down knew didn’t love me. I’m glad I let that go and found what I have now. All the things that are said are true about love, although it may not be easy all the time, but now, as I look back, I can more easily see it wasn’t love. Its even more obvious compared to what I have now. It’s always so obvious in hindsight. I’m glad I had the courage to move past.
Still struggling to fit I hope one day God will gv m ur courage I pray for happiness one day
Some dude I knew would sort of be perfect to me said no 💖💖
Some people aren't together because their is someone whose better for them
Amen. You are awesome. Thanks for doing yourself justice.
@@marionachieng9576 True happiness comes from within one's self, not from other's.
It's not that they can't bring you joy. They can bring, give .... if one isn't happy from within they will never be truly satisfied with anything another might bring to the relationship.
Real love doesn't meet you at your best. It meets you in your mess.
Unrequited love is a different kind of pain. You still love them, even though you know they don't love you back. It feels like grief... even though they're still alive 😔
That's horrible
You're not alone. I just went through this few days ago. I had to break it off. I feel like I'm in mourning
That is why we should never love anyone that does not love us.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj he lied
@@chickedee1085 It depends on why they lie and what they lie about. Who does not lie?
Women waste their whole lives thinking that it’s true love to stand by an A hole. Those times are gone.
some men get caught up in great sex with a women who abused them and over look women who love them. both genders do this. stop generalizing.
True
Amen!
*men
Sooo true stop waiting on someone else's love if you got to beg & plead & tolerate their toxic ass behavior its time to exist thr damn stage left and fine someone who willing & ready to give it to you lady's & gentlemen...
I'm a 67 year old divorced woman and I have absolutely no clue what love is. I gave up years ago.
True Love is loyalty , respect and surrendering ego. When a love project or a marriage fails it means one or two of the mentioned ingredients were missing in the relationship.
These are ideals. There are many types of love, but I don’t think men ever truly love.
I was divorced at age 35 after 10years of marriage. I'm much happier now. It was the best decision of my life but sadly to this day three years later, I still have not experienced what love feels like. Perhaps I never will
This seems to be true as well.@@JS-dw5fo
@@ravenmeyer3740 I agree I don't think many do. maybe obky based on their egoic needs or how sexually fulfilling women make them. I think many just lust and get infatuated.
so much truth here ! i was lucky enough to have this kind of love---imperfect, full of challenges, but even now that he's in heaven, i still love him.
It's so sad we realize when they are gone for good
One misses the cow, when the stall's empty.
He's in a better place and watching you grow and become happy . So be happy for him
Same, mine is in heaven aswell
U are great woman for keeping his memory alive.....blesses
When we love ourself first, we don’t have to go find love it just arrives😂🙏
I agree we must love ourselves first before we can really love someone else, but I don't know if I believe that it's just going to arrive!! In fact many great loving, deserving people I know who love themselves and have much to offer haven't found love. I know several personally. It's not that simple.
@@joannabender152 it really depends on what you need it to mean, with me love just arrives means within myself for myself. We have found love when it comes from inside ourselves, the other kind is an illusion. We attract what we manifest whatever corresponds to our inner state or not and this is ok. 🥰
Sorry but you need the Internet these days. You never 'bump into' someone!
@@bluecat798 who said this, more importantly is this true🙈🤣
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I've found all these in one person. The trick is being able to do it long term. Never found it. People love you because they need something from you. Usually they need to bear children. Also because they can't stand to be alone. We use "love" as a way to hide a million agendas. Very few people have true unconditional love.
I think the media romantizes “love” too much and causes so much suffering in those who constantly seek for this idealized “love”. In reality, “love” is ever changing, conditional and fleeting.
Love is caring about someone's happiness, or them caring about ours, and needing nothing in return. Need is not love. We all need to be loved, and that is different.
Your comment is 100% accurate!
That's why I have 30 cats!
@@ikigai1236 People who place importance on media and what it teaches are fools, it has no bearing whatsoever on real life.
Love's a blessing. You can't buy it. You can't negotiate it. You can't owe it. Love's free like the air we breathe.
Love has no religion or breed. All living things can love & be loved.
Amen 🙏
Yes thats true
So true 👍🏾
Thank u for this I know love is free and freedom I should not be the only one giving it gos Waze that’s why I should be like fire Earth wind and fire I mean like all of that and it should not cost me a thing except for my heart you know better than that thank you for this blessing
I'm not sure whether this broke me, or put me back together. Absolutely beautiful
Me too. It broke me because I wish I had seen this 15 years ago. It gives me hope because now I know what to look for in a partner.
Sometimes it's better to start over and rebuild if your foundation isn't stable enough. ♡
When love is real it does not lie, cheat, pretend.
Rare these days.
Yup. You just described social media. And you can thank zuckerberg .
"True love is selfless. It is prepared to sacrifice" The only true definition of love on here.
"Waiting is a sign of true love and patience. Anyone can say I love you, but not everyone can wait and prove it's true." Ah. That explains courtship. Yes to courtship baby.
I agree to courtship too! No intimacy at all, for a good.....two years! Chaperoned or not, innocent courtship! You get to know the real person! If along the way things don't seem agreeable then there was no complicated emotional loss or that used feeling. You can end up really liking the sexual part, but not the person. That is so complicating on your soul! Hard to break free from that drug!
Yeahhhh.....right
I believe the same 🙂🙂
@@manyhats3846 True to some extent as you can date and get intimate and still get to know the person.
@@divyapatkar2431 ☺
Watching this with tears flowing. Been with someone 8months. I am totally in love. He tells me he cannot feel for me what I desire. He wants us to be 'friends'. I realise now I have to break free. The pain is unbearable. At 60 I feel 'true love' for the first time only for it to be rejected. May everyone on here find their true love. 🙏🌷
He's probably a narcissist. I married a narc 2 1/2 yrs ago and he keeps leaving me and coming back. No more!
@@starlenemurray4112 thank you for your reply. Funnily enough 'narcissist' videos popped up yesterday. He fits the description in every way 😞 . makes the break up easier. Best wishes to you on your own journey 🌷🌞🙏
It's painful and will need some time.
I feel your pain, but really, You will love again ☺️🌻
@@evalinevanderwiel826 thank you for those lovely words Evaline. Your comment has come at the most appropriate moment.
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I spent 54 yrs with my husband. We had ups and downs and ins and outs but we always came out on top. My marriage was never dull
That's true love people. He is in Heaven since Aug. I miss him every day. True love gives great memories to carry you through.
What a humbling confirmation that I've actually never had true love. Today, I will make the effort to create love within myself.
As an older developmentally and physically challenged woman I've spent the past 43 years of my life surrounded by my immediate family members only and I have never ever ever ever been more loved & happier than I am right now .# I will never ever ever ever find a "real man" and I'm just fine with that outcome .
As long as you are wholeheartedly okay with it and happy then you are living your life the best way possible. ♡
@@fairlyenjoyable yes I am wholeheartedly OK with that and I'm always extremely happy
Thank you this. I really needed to hear all of these things. Mine only wanted me when he needed something. His phone was in his face and no time for me. I finally had to let the love of my life go. Hardest thing I have done and wish him the best. I always said actions speak louder than words
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Even i know he don't love me still being with him, don't know why ...will i let go him ...
Same😳😰🙊😿
Im in the same shoes right now
I really needed this too. Seems like everyone is involved with you and your one sided love issues. Glad they listened to you . You have never talked to me about anything. The phone thing with me has never been the problem. The problem is with you being on social media so much to your friends who are so proud of you hanging in there with a wife who has never given up on you.
“Keep smiling, because life is a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.”
If people focused on real love, we would have a better world.
so true!
Hello beautiful☺️🌹
I agree love does make your soul crawl out of its hiding place. Love is not evil or cruel either.
5:57: Good one: ""When love is real it finds a way.""
I spent so much time crying and stressed out over a guy who I had feelings for ...instead he was just using me as a rebound...
☹️I can understand.how You overcome this?
@@divyapatkar2431 yes haha I'm now in a very lovely relationship the goal is to forgive yourself and realize not everyone is for you
@@orvanadawn6015 💯🙌 Right.
I choose to not allow someone to make me into a rebound. Ask the questions, get your answer. Allow for a snap decision if need be. If you are loving someone who wants a f friend, that is not someone to treat as a f friend, but someone to demote immediately to friend, or to immediately demote to acquaintance, or to demote further still to ex acquaintance. Love yourself enough to analyze this from your own perspective. When in doubt, its usually throw it out. Life is too short!
Falling in love is easy. STAYING in love is work and commitment. And being a good forgiver.
And always truthful even when it hurts. Makes you feel better to let it all out. For me anyway...
So true. And also behaviour never lies.
True😑
I was blessed with the really deep love of my life. Good man , I still love Him and miss Him every day. He passed away sixteen years ago. This is good video. Yes, it does take courage. There's also many different loves . But only one. ONE real love. I will love my husband indefinitely. Great video.
All these quotes are so beautiful...It's the true meaning of true love..True love is beyond sexual attraction it's the feeling in the hearts of 2 souls.. It's not at all on the physical aspects. True love cannot generally be seen but it's felt .
I have never had the joy of being truly loved.
Talk to Jesus every night talk to Jesus every morning tell Jesus how much you love him and you will receive that love back a million times you'll feel the peace
@@elizabethtyler4530 Thank you so much. 💙
At least you know it. Some people call their mistreatment love and do it to others. They then call it tough love as they annoy and bother the rest of us.
@@TribusCaputCanis 😥
Me too. 🥲
True love starts with self-love
Not always, sometimes someone comes that heals, it has happened before, and it still happens and it will happen again, it doesn't necessarily has to be someone you fall in love with, a partner, but it still can be and many times it is too
Love is magical, it makes you sew things you would never have imagined you could do. True love is a lifetime pack of magic, it never ends, there's beauty in every little moment you share.
Thank you for this video!!!! True love/real love hasn’t found me yet but it’s okay because I’ll continue to love myself in the meantime 😊😊😊
Humm real love doesn't meet you at your best it meets you in your mess. That's no joke. Wow! I was always told the opposite....now I see what that means and it's true!! =) God I do love this man. This was very helpful. Thank you!
In current society, this "love" is attached to lots of nitty-gritty conditions (NOT deal-breakers), and the mindset that "love" is easy. "Love" simply falls into place, not much work nor effort is needed.
Damn it wise words.
Very well said. Profound and practical words I wish I had heard in my twenties. May all of us find this true love; may all of us love and beloved for the lifetime.
I'm thankful to be married to a wonderful man. We have thirty years. He's my best friend. 🤗
Congratulations
i can never settle with anyone who only loves themself. i want an equally balanced love that is reciprocated, and must make each other happy. If u cannot be comfortable around each other and feel like walking on eggshells- cannot be your true self, that is a dangerous situation to be in and only wastes your time. life is way too short to tolerate what is not meant for you! Never settle for what does not serve you. do not put your happiness, safety, healthy, and love on hold, because life will pass you by quicker before you know it.
Yes. This is great. The talk all night. The one thing is it's not true if others are dragged into your relationship . It's between two, and the spiritual or third...not other people...
Love, sweet love. What a feeling. Continue to love and be loved. Love will always prevail.
This is also true for the love for your family and friends - when it’s natural it’s wonderful. If I never feel the love of a man again - I won’t mind - I know what it feels like and I am happy.
I love those beautiful love lessons. How true those statements are.
Thank You.
True love is demonstrating the courage it takes to step forward an ask sone out...Give up over thinking what the outcome would be an move forward. The most admirable character in the world is courage to show your interest.
Evry word and every quote is true.. I wish everyone found real love and be happy together whole life.love is magical. I can surely say this. Finally got a video where someone exolain true love so nicely. So beautiful video
I believe In love . I really do. I celebrate love whenever I see it. So very happy for those that it touches.I also feel it’s not for everyone. So I just focus on giving as much love as I can to all that are willing to receive 🌹💕😘🌹
Nice words
Worst thing is being told you're good looking and a wonderful person by everyone you meet, yet the one person you want to acknowledge the good person they have, the one person who would do anything for them and love them until the end. Some people at incapable of love and prefer to rip the souls out of the good ones and waste time on complete low lives who will never care about them. This superficial world has created some truly horrific monsters who use, abuse, manipulate and break you down just to discard of you like you were absolutely nothing. It's a cruel world to know that you are a great person and everything a normal woman would love to have in their life but they'd rather be toxic and destroy you.
And he deserves the best and I am happy that he found it he's a beautiful man I just need to accept I have so much to learn and grateful for all the difficult lessons I've endured I know I'm better person today then I was yesterday and God will help me continue to grow where ever I go from here I have faith in that
I spent 8 good years in a toxic relationship. I'm done and I'm not gonna tell him bye he's gonna figure out for himself🤣🤣🤣
This is my life rn 😭💯💯✌🏾
I hope you're doing better nowadays. ♡
True love doesn't meet you at your best, it meets you at your worst...💖🤗🤗
I seem to be at my worst, where are they! Lol! Remind me to roll out of bed, drag myself out, be rude, a bit tipsy, ..............come to think of it, I used to get all kinds of males this way! One potential man that was in my heart. At the time I was a mess, come to think of it he was always gentleman like, danced well together, never inappropriate talk, he even asked to see me again. I had other issues to fix, I declined. After that he always was nice to me. Years later we talked, he gave me his number! I could not get to know him more, I was scared I would like him that much more. I was at a stage where I was trying to get closer to God, and I didn't want nothing to deter that. I was scared he would not agree with my form of worship, and the rejection would have bothered me! This is a long story! I fear to run into him! It was a relief he moved away! I saw the other day, he is back! I am scared! I want a man that loves God and worships him the right way! So we can share a very important aspect/ morals, hopes, same line of thought etc.. If I talk to him about this, I am scared to lose his admiration, so I don't want to go there! It has been a couple of years, he probably has a girlie by now! Like Eyeore would say" Doesn't matter anyway!" Lol!
This speaks to me. I am currently in this situation but I don't want to face the reality a part of me is still holding to the great times we shared. I honestly don't believe il find someone better out there. But then again am not happy in this relationship that am in.
it’s truly better to be happy with oneself and “alone” than with someone who makes us feel unloved and alone. i used to feel the same! we deserve better. i am happier alone than i am when i was “with” him. and i used to feel the same way as you. but, everyone has their own things that are possible and important to them, i wish you the best whatever you choose! but live with an abundance mindset instead of fear/lacking mindset for your own peace
You will. It sure felt like that but out of no where God will send someone for you
I am 56+ year old married in 1992 blessing God for making me to know Him. Definitely, this can only be God (agape love). Even the Bible said that " God is love" He picked you and I from the mery clay, ; a dejected fellow with no hope. With unconditional love, not minding our state of imperfections. Thank you Jesus.
Amen!
I had a Greek guy friend call me agape! What does it mean?
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Agapo love is a non traditional love. It's a big love, higher level of growth and consciousness. It's when you rather give your love and care to those who need it, then those who are close to you (like relatives and friends, etc.). Mother Theresa might be an example of Agapo love....
@@MegaTrivial thank you for explaining this to me
Thank you for reaching out! Truly appreciated.
This is so beautiful. Having loved and lost and hoping to find real love one day....brought tears to my eyes. 😭
I hope so for me too
Sometime your heart know that other person is not into you but still heart is not ready to accept that.
Love is subjective million people have millions of definition for love I personally think love is when ur body indicate that this is whom u want to be despite of any gender...love is journey filled wid exotic feels.... 💜
Very good and meaningful teachings, thank you channel for posting. Thank you loving hearts. Wishing you all always be strong, successful and happy! ❤
This is so good , Better than advice from dating coaches
I’m so happy that I do love my self Enough to for I can say what I do need and what I don’t want so yes I do love myself enough now I mean and but I used to be but I know but I do want and I know what I don’t want
Love is the most magical and wonderful feeling but can be your undoing and most painful thing you ever experience. Terrifies me the power it has.
Please remember that not everyone is an empath. I am an empath. I do anything for my lover.
Some ppl have severe mental illness and can't help how they act sometimes.... doesn't mean they don't love you. But if you're 5 years in or 9 or more.... you don't have to deal with it.
You can love and respect them but don't need to be trapped with them after you've given them so many chances
No truer words were ever spoken ❤Thank You and God bless You 🌹🙏🏽🏆
There's too much regret, pain and suffering when you fall deeply in love 💕 with the wrong person. It breaks your soul.
Don't ignore any signs of, "I feel as though I'm in love, all by myself."
Beautiful listening too this only makes me realize long ago l never new love. It's deeper than you think wow I love learning about the real definition of Love ! Wow
Love is a decision.
True loves never dies even if you don't see that person... special place is kept in heart..
i waited n love for someone for 12+ years… he married someone else and broke my heart completely
Me too. 11 years
Love yourself and keep smiling 💗
Wow, that is sad... my parents always told me that if they don’t marry you in a few years then just leave them.
That was your fault
The problem is,where do you find someone with these wonderful qualities,few people are lucky to get that great soul mate who loves them and treats them with such care and tenderness,most of us get stuck with horrible useless human beings,narcissistic,creatures who are not capable of really loving anyone,all they care about is control over the other person.
I was in a relationship with a guy that was always shopping around literally in front of me. He always acted like he was looking for something better all the time so I kicked him to the curb. No Im with my husband for 22 years.
Me too always checking put other women dumped him and hes still obsessed with me 15 years later🤣
I’m 68 and maybe I just knew a lot of ppl without much character but this sounds like a idealized version of love.
Beautiful thanks 🙏 just as I have always thought of it within my soul.
I thought I was made to hold these exact views...
I happy to see it reflected the same from another...⭐️✨⭐️
Have enough more courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.
This was so powerful it brought me to tears and made me realize I have never even been in love before 😭
Me either! In my mid 40s I will say life isn’t over yet
@@renztaylor5904 same girl I hope you find love and light 🕯️💋❣️ sending you good vibes babe
This hit me hard...! Yes the heart needs to feel the love
When love it's real it finds a way.
The best video ever. I feel my heart chakra expand.
Profound
True love only comes from those who are capable of staying true to their own words.
Watching 05.17.22. Indianapolis IN. Thank you SDS.
True love can wait ☺️
Thank you for sharing this 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️🙌
Beautifully spoken❣
My four walls give me alot of time to think about this
So beautiful said, true every word ❤❤
Hello beautiful❤️
Love is having grace with another human and willing to give them the room to improve.
I recognized quotes by Oscar Wilde and Victor Hugo among others in this video. Let’s give credit where credit is due, please.
I lovethis and how I believe how love should be! Amen!
THIS IS A HUG FROM GOD!!!
I loving that my love is on his way to find me🙏🏽
This are such beautiful quotes thank you I needed to hear this
True love doesnt yell at eachother!! True love doesnt rat on one another!! True love listens too one another:) true love makes you crave one another!! Not hate one another🙄
Hello beautiful❤️☺️
Beyond beautiful
We are all loved in some way. There wouldn't be anyone here without some semblance of love. We learn our love lessons from our parents, perhaps our greatest teachers, as well as every human we encounter and have even the slightest interaction with. Obviously the longer we live, the more we run into experiences that seem to be the opposite of love. Those who are truly engaged in their personal love journey forgive and continue to love both themselves and those who "hurt" them. They are on the road to loving unconditionally. It is not a journey for the faint at heart. It requires more strength, more courage, and more stamina than most of us believe we have. Love transcends ALL. That is the real story of the man we call Jesus. Who was both the Son of God and our Brother. If this is true; we must All be Sons and Daughters of God. Created as One and in the Image of the Father. Love IS All there is and will Forever be. The Greatest Spiritual teachers have informed us that we are living an Egoic Dream an Illusion if you will. In the "Wizard of Oz" the wizard is the symbol of man's Ego. It appears to be all powerful. When the curtains are pulled back it is seen for what it truly is...Weak... Powerless...Insecure!
Thank you! Your comment is beautiful and it makes perfect sense! 🙏 I'm surprised it does not have many more "likes!"
I believe in forgiveness I believe in harmony I believe in like I believe and hope that’s my biggest thing is hope And by didn’t have that I wouldn’t believe in anything so I do believe in forgiveness and I believe that I know I’m not right all the time and I know I’m not perfect I come with a lot of flaws but my heart is genuine and no one has taken that yet so thank you God
Thank you, wise man.
I spend all my life and time for my husband. He says he cares but doesnt spent time with me. Its sad he does not value me .Beautiful quote 'Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired'.
I hope your husband will love you as much as you love him 💝🌼🌺
He's only a user and taker taking you for free, granted without understanding your value and worthiness.
I think A man or women who says they don't value you i Says it all! It's time you leave and move on and remember once y ou were once a valued person in your own right! before you got married remember if your husband doesn't respect you then ask your self is this right I don't think so never give to much love or anything if they don't deserve it because you put him on a pedestal and made him seem more valued than yourself my friend !! This is not good in life to make yourself seem l less ! Now go and rethink what you want from life and people and how to get the recognition you deserved.and be strong we are not a second class human !! but we reap what we allow . .🙏 ❤️ ..
you deserve better
Stop selling urself short, and find someone who loves u and wants to be around u.
WOW,
THE TRUTH VERY WELL SPOKEN 🙏