3 UPDATES: Sis Steals Phone From My Bag & Deletes THIS Message Bcuz It Was An Order From My Husband
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- 3 UPDATES: Sis Steals Phone From My Bag And Deletes THIS Message Bcuz It Was An Order From My Husband But She Doesn't Know That She Got The Wrong Device All Along... I'm Taking Them To Court!!
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If only my sis had paid attention in her computer science class she would have known a little something about how tech systems work. At least she'd be able to understand the basics of cloud storage which, to be honest, is simpler than cooking noodles. So I work as a software developer for an IT company and for me cyber security is a big concern even with trusted sources. So I have set all my devices to back up data to my cloud storage instantly. And it's not limited to mere texts or pictures.
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WHAT? You didn't mow your lawn a few days after having a C-Section? How DARE you!
Hubby is the one I blame. Funny how fools think that because someone stands up to their abusers a bit he/she is on their side. Hubby has allowed and IS allowing everything to happen.
Don’t have a baby with a man who doesn’t protect you from his trash family. Ridiculous. I was abused and I went 24 years absolutely no contact with mother. She is dead and I have zero regrets. Your husband needs to grow the fudge up.
Just because people are "family" doesn't give them the right to verbally,physically, emotionality, physical, and mentally abused you. You didn't ask to be born treating you with dignity, respect, and financially support you are the things your parents agreed to when they decide to be parents and have children.
How is controlling a woman by keeping her pregnant not classed as abuse and battery? It makes my blood boil. My own grandmother gave birth to almost 20 children in a similar situation and the family just think of it as a big joke. She even fired babies out in her 40s after having some serious health problems and a permanent disability because of it! Unsurprisingly, she died young 😡
Ops husband should have protected his wife and child from his toxic narcissistic abusive family. Op should pack up the baby and go on a 9 month sabbatical away from those monsters
I never told anyone about my last pregnancy. Best pregnancy ever.
Story 1 Sooner or later OP's ex is going to treat the snake sister the same way that he treated OP. Karma has a way of coming around and biting you in the backside.
Re manipulative people, you ALWAYS have to go no contact unless you can learn how to not be affected by them. And even then it's better to not be in contact.
So tell me, what is the difference between being manipulative and simply having good interpersonal skills? Secondly if you are going NC with people so often that you have a set procedure and policy for doing so the problem just might be you.
So husband and sister were having an affair ? Disgusting
10:19 thank God for the wonderful parents
Oh boy that sister sounds like a mess.
Jealous insecure borderline. Who wants to bet ?’
@@amberleeannalee1999 honestly all 3
Awful husband to treat her like this and sister was trying to help his case
Maybe rethink your marriage. He will eventually take their side. DON'T have anymore kids until you figure where YOU stand in the marriage
Cut contact with sister
It's real simple when they pull the we are your parents we supported you. He just looks in the eye and says yeah that's what parents do. That's what I'm doing with my son but I sure in the hell aren't expecting a brass band about it. When they ignore him tell him to enjoy the peace. Sounds to me like maybe he needs to find a good therapist. Look next time they're giving you any flack just look at them ago yeah I see how you could think that way. Yeah I understand how you could come to that conclusion. And the more they come out like what are you talking about just say well you know I just understand how you could think that way and never stop saying those words. The worst thing you could do is let a bully know they're getting to you just smile and do is your damn right please. And the matter they get the calmer you get. Trust me it won't be long before they don't even want to be around you. Cuz if you don't give a bully the reaction they're looking for it's no fun.
NTA! You need to keep them on no contact for your health. Has your husband ever talking to a counselor or therapist about his abuse as a child.
Why are you taking care of his kids where is this woman that's popping out the kids why isn't she doing it.
I agree Judy. Those people need to Tell mom to take care of the kids she pops out.
That mom needs to get fixed after the baby is born.
The older kids need to move out and get on with their lives.
9:05 I knew it
They have your husband condtioned to do what they want.
OP: with the horrible in laws, please move very, very far away and don't call them.
Good that you told parents
At 44 I still get triggered by withholding love and attention
First of all why are you still living with your father at your age and you have your own children? That's your first problem if you're there then they're going to leave the children with you. And this goes for your sister too if you don't have enough backbone to tell them no I'm not watching your children take care of them yourself then basically you deserve what you get. I have no sympathy for you. Because you can't help yourself. If you're worried about them being neglected then call CPS in your country. And where are your husbands and what do they have to say about this.
Considering the number of mouths he's feeding I don't see how she can really expect him to work less. Esp since she and her child are among them.
The step mother needs to get stronger and stop having babies. She can go to a doctor to get a hysterectomy. Don’t kill the baby coming through abortion. Thats worse than what the father does. Put it up for adoption.
All older children need to move out immediately and stay out of fathers affairs.
Doctors don’t do hysterectomies on demand. They even refuse to tie our tubes. They have always controlled our bodies. It’s her choice and at 8 months they don’t do abortions ffs. Infanticide is illegal in America
@@amberleeannalee1999 So we agree she should not kill the baby.
I would think a doctor would tie the tubes of a woman who doesn’t want anymore babies.
They do it for men.
@@sandyo1063 you would think wrong. The medical field is still full of misogynistic culture. They think we will change our minds. Even female doctors refuse to tie a woman’s tubes. With all the family planning clinics Republicans have closed many women and girls lack access to free BC. For example in West Virginia they’re wanting to pass a bill banning birth control on unmarried women and girls because “sex before marriage” shouldn’t happen. These old boomers are passing legislation to bring us back to pre civil rights pre womens rights era. Either OP isn t from America or got the “8 months” wrong.
@@amberleeannalee1999 Most Conservative States and Most Conservative Republicans are not like what you have described.
Clearly you have been deceived about this...by someone who has an agenda.
Be sure all payments come through the courts/state, meaning his payments to you are taken directly from his paycheck & the courts/state pay you.
Story 2 you don't have a in-law problem you have a husband problem
Can I just say that if this was my sister they would have arrested me because I would have beat her down like a runaway slave. (Yes I'm black and yes I just said that) I'm also pretty sure my sons would probably do that to their dad if he was ever that foolish. Thankfully my husband can't stand my sister. 😁
He really isn't a good husband if he needs therapy then he needs to get into therapy but the fact that he thinks it's a good idea to tell his family after your last pregnancy that's not a good husband
I'm guessing im the only one here who reads alot of red flags from the OP of the first story
Not all women will divorce, take the house, money, alimony, pension and the kids.
But all women can.
Yes this does happen. When you find out it is devastating
Story 2. They need to move as far as they can from those people
Story 2: NTA - no way would I tell them, they purposely stressed you out to the point you could of miscarried or hospitalized. Your well being and the baby is of utmost important! Your husband should make you/baby his priority not his parents feelings.
Story 3: You can NOT be forced, you have a choice, as does stepmom. Stop enabling such irresponsible behavior. Stepmom can speak with her OBGYN to discuss birth control options and NOT tell dad. Were there’s a will there is a way. Her body, Her Choice! Don’t get wrapped up in their foolishness.
IS SISTER A HILLBILLY ?? REALLY ? SHE REALLY DIDNT KNOW
This is the first one I can’t finish. This one is just as bad as her husband.
Father expecting his older children to babysit. 'Responsible parenthood' is a very important ethic for good parenting. Having as many children as you can afford is a human right, but that does not include expecting everyone else to parent them. This is especially important if the older children are expected to devote their lives to looking after the father's young children, even though they have their own children to care for and, presumably, their own independent households to run and manage. Where is/are these young children's mother(s) in all this? NTA
The Hell she's not. She is 20, has a kid, lives with her dad who is supporting this whole clan and she is bitching about being asked to tend children? Her older sister has all that and is pregnant to boot. Stepmom Just too depresses. It there a woman in this guys life that is worth a damn? And yeah, you take your stepmom for an abortion behind his back and she actually get one you can expect both of your asses to hit sky. It will be good for him though, trimming off some of those leaches would free up resources to hire a nanny. Sometimes there is a case to be amde for to much respocibility being placed on someone too young. This is not the case here, she is just a useless person who feels entitled to be cared for without having to do any herself. She wants him to cut down on hours? How about you stop being a drain upon him and maybe he could. What an entitled little shit.
It says in the story the stepmother, who is the mother of the young children is depressed and has a disability , she doesn't want more kids, the daughter says she'll take her for an abortion and tubal ligation, literally half the story talks about the mom.
CPS Cps CPS
After a C-section doctors won’t even let you lift anything heavier than your baby for several weeks!
Think of the southern US when dealing with the in-laws & say: “Bless your heart.” It’s not a compliment, it just sounds like it lol.
“Aren’t (isn’t that) you precious” is another one.
Last one, where are the sister's husband's or boyfriend's?
Slim pickings in that town, huh??
Wait so the woman expected to mow the lawn. Now my mom's mows the lawn sometimes only because she likes it but her husband would never require that
Creepy 💩
Hello everybody from STL
If you do tell his family he needs to tell them to treat you right and not be rude and nasty to you, you were the one who’s pregnant it is up to you when you want to tell people.
Move out call cps
Did OP at least email the texts to herself?
The one where the sister erase the phone I don't understand how he was mentally abusive if he calms her down and shows her how something was wrong and she didn't need to fly off the handle or something else she agrees with them at the end how is that abusive
So he’s having another child that does it mean his kids need to babysit he needs to be a parent and watch the baby himself along with his wife.
Being helpful and being forced to do something or two different things.
The step wife needs to tell him no more she also needs to have a spine at least every once in a while get yourself some birth control you’re not a baby maker.
Story 3
You can say no you are not baby sitting this child ,he expects to rear his off spring and you both deserve a life ,and you have no reason to be a father and you should take him up ion his offer and she should go to get a implant he will not know,and if she cannot cope with the children and babies call social services they can offer support
He’s a good husband and father? OK OP believe that if you want, it’s so dangerous for pregnant woman to be put under so much stress. He need to grow a backbone and stand up for his family
So the sound level of the voice is just too low. I love listening to the channel, everything is pleasant and I have no problems with the voice or job being done.
I just can't hear well enough and my volume is at the top level. Other videos are loud enough but this channel could stand to turn the volume up a couple levels.
I usually have no problems using just one ear bud but even with both in ear this video is barely there above background noise.
Story 1
Your husband a player and his having affairs and you should investigate him ,his toxic ,no don't cut your sister slack she's one of his women and you protect your child and your self and keep your daughter away from your sister and I fact I would never speak to her again
Babysitting Story-OP, Everybody in this family HAS TOO MANY CHILDREN! You have OOW KIDS & your sister HAS TWO! ALL THE WOMEN IN THIS HOUSE NEED SOME APEX-LEVEL CONTRACEPTION. GOOD GRAVY- it looks like you guys ALL LEARNED REPRODUCTIVE HABITS FROM YOUR FATHER...
*7!*
story 2 your wife lost 42 pounds pregnant and had high blood pressure. bruh it's done. get therapy move forward.
Story 2
You should keep your distance from them if you get pregnant they are selfish toxic people and the baby is not their baby but yours and his family risked your life by their appalling behaviour so no you are not wrong to keep you silence about pregnancy and because of his abuse his afraid and he needs therapy to realise his actions are ruled by the by fear instilled into him
PS It would be the wrong thing, for a number of reasons, to take a woman, particularly one with mental health issues already, to kill her baby. Adoption is an option, especially with an 'absentee' father.
So you and your sister have kids while living at home. No husbands involved I suppose. At least your father is supporting the lot of you!!!
12 minutes in
me too
@@rolandhansen812 OMG
@@imaniislander755 I suppose it would be better if I was 12 inches in. But minutes is all I have
@@rolandhansen812 ha ha ha
As a woman, I know how unreasonable I can be from time to time nd our daughter is the same. My husband is a logical thinker and focuses on facts rather than emotion. Now, I can't know the extent of her situation, but what she is describing (up to 4:19) sounds like someone who is trying to help her establish better self-control.
...aside from being so touchy with other women, of course! If his partner is uncomfortable with such behavior, the appropriate reaction is to be understanding and accommodating of the facts presented.